After Losing His Family In 2017 He Sold Everything to Make Home In a Delivery Van

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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
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    Living full-time in my rolling tiny home has been the best decision of my life. Off-Grid living offers a peace and connection to life that you just can't explain. When i first started van life i build a stealth camper van with the mindset the you had to live a stealth van life and i soon discovered that you can just live the city van life and boondock in the countryside and as long as you are respectful of the backcountry and cities you live in. Stealth van life in not necessary. Be proud of the life you choose to live, Share this van life journey with everyone. Remember Tiny Homes and The whole tiny house lifestyle is very popular and #vanlife is no different. When you don't hide it people will come say hi and ask you questions. The world is more curious than hateful. Well......Welcome to my everyday van life adventures. My name is Chrome Valdez and i travel full-time with Cruz the bulldog. Stay weird everyone and thank you for being here.

Комментарии • 803

  • @lw4713
    @lw4713 2 года назад +261

    Literally one of the best builds I have seen and such a unique layout. So much power!!! From someone who also endured an abusive relationship, thank you for sharing your story and your journey of healing.

  • @jimdread8743
    @jimdread8743 2 года назад +197

    Hi Paul I feel for you buddy just know your not alone,some of us have been through similar situations and one day your boys will come back to you. Love you truck conversion. The Tesla battery system is great …. Keep on rolling man.

  • @ind.p
    @ind.p 2 года назад +92

    losing family and not seeing our own child is the hardest thing i can imagine in this world, be strong

    • @blackattack2469
      @blackattack2469 2 года назад +12

      If you don’t have one, get a journal and write it for your boys. One day they will be able to choose to see their Dad. They can’t now but you mark my words, they will and do want to. Peace, protection and prosperity to you. Excellent job. I love that you have your workshop. That’s what my concern is about getting my skoolie. I need to figure out how to make one with a workshop. So you & Peanut might be heading to OK one day. 🙏🏾

    • @geraldcalderone5228
      @geraldcalderone5228 Год назад +3

      It ain’t easy

    • @mrm1885
      @mrm1885 Год назад

      I don't understand. It's himself that left the family for some reasons to start a new life. Seems to me like he's just running away from his responsibilatys to fly solo.

  • @lindaormond873
    @lindaormond873 2 года назад +149

    So sorry for the circumstances that kind of forced Paul to live in his home on wheels, but soooo happy it’s working out for him. And what a beautiful home it is! I’m also really thankful for the people he’s meeting that are showing him kindness and love and helping his heart to heal.

  • @CharityS-Minnesota
    @CharityS-Minnesota 2 года назад +142

    Paul it was incredibly brave for you to tell us your story. Thank you for sharing with us. Your build is beautiful! Stay safe on your travels😊

  • @Rocky_the_cat_sitter
    @Rocky_the_cat_sitter 2 года назад +156

    Paul seems like a real nice, genuine guy. I wish him all the best and look forward to seeing some van tours!

    • @joannaazar7396
      @joannaazar7396 2 года назад +11

      Paul I love the van build. Hey adorable Peanut 🥜

    • @wild.free.adventure
      @wild.free.adventure 2 года назад +4

      Thank you! They're coming very soon!

  • @alicecoppers8980
    @alicecoppers8980 2 года назад +63

    When I was 13 I lost my entire family to a drunk driver. Now 50 years later it still affects me. But my animals have opened my heart again.

  • @vudu5vudu
    @vudu5vudu 2 года назад +7

    You sons still love you. They will realise the lies and they will come for you, be ready. You are the most important father they will ever have.

  • @wildflowerwind6941
    @wildflowerwind6941 2 года назад +31

    Paul I am sorry for your life struggles. But yes we all have them. I understand depression and loneliness very well. I think you have created a very nice safe place for yourself. Many of us do not fit into the traditional society norms. Glad you met Chrome.

  • @proudtexan5513
    @proudtexan5513 2 года назад +60

    Paul is really a cool dude and did an EXCELLENT JOB detailing his Box Truck Home!! He is definitely in his element!

  • @the76libra2
    @the76libra2 2 года назад +34

    Paul is such a sweet, compassionate man. So devasted by his loss. My heart goes out to him. I wish him all the best in his future endeavors.

  • @pcthayer
    @pcthayer 2 года назад +54

    What a craftsman Paul is. Amazing build! You can tell he still is in pain when he talks about his life before vanlife but he has made the best of a bad situation. Looking forward to the videos he makes of other people's builds and hopes he makes many new friends along the way.

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis 2 года назад +15

    I could see the pain in his eyes and hear it in his voice. It is tough to leave his boys behind. I hope that they understand the separation is out of his control and can feel dad’s love fir them via space and time.

  • @davegott996
    @davegott996 2 года назад +9

    Peanut is beautiful! Awesome build

  • @theoldieprojects1814
    @theoldieprojects1814 2 года назад +3

    Be Kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a battle of some kind, whether you see it or not. We are all wayfaring strangers.....looking to meeting up with kindred spirits along the journey.

  • @krisc6633
    @krisc6633 2 года назад +145

    What a beautiful box truck home! So sorry for your family issues, Paul, that's tough! Enjoyed your van tour and hope to see more!

  • @davidlastoria3341
    @davidlastoria3341 2 года назад +28

    I am sorry for your loss. I can honestly relate as the same thing has happened to me here in the states regarding the loss of my family. I expedite with and live full time in my van, and am currently building a replacement van, as the current van has 900,000 miles on it. Hang in there, and be strong!

  • @living2ndchildhood347
    @living2ndchildhood347 2 года назад +27

    Paul’s rig (home) is truly awesome with all the comforts of a “sticks and bricks” home.

  • @wendyrobertson3899
    @wendyrobertson3899 2 года назад +61

    Paul thank you for sharing the struggles you've gone through. Your honesty is very refreshing. I do believe that Chrome picked a winner for his across America van tours project. I look forward to seeing the tours videos. Wishing you all the best and to seeing more of you in the future. Chrome you hit a pot of gold!

  • @sheilabartlett6044
    @sheilabartlett6044 2 года назад +24

    Chrome you have the biggest heart to help so many! My heart goes out to Paul, I can see his meticulous attention to detail in his home, I wish him the best moving forward with this new venture in his life and Peanut is a sweetheart. Be safe on the roads boys! Great video certainly heart wrenching and sincere!

  • @machellelokersonvlog1273
    @machellelokersonvlog1273 2 года назад +5

    I have Juliet, my standard poodle, and she’s a therapy dog! She has helped me a lot! I can’t say it enough regarding how much they help us. Peanut is beautiful!

    • @wild.free.adventure
      @wild.free.adventure 2 года назад +1

      Thank you. Therapy pups are integral to this lifestyle!

  • @vallovesnature8449
    @vallovesnature8449 2 года назад +12

    Paul has a beautiful truck. I understand what he was talking about. Now it’s breathe, small steps, one day at a time. Wishing him a blessed journey ❤️

  • @sharonr7500
    @sharonr7500 2 года назад +53

    Love the van set up. It's interesting how life throws a curve ball and we set off in a different direction than the one we planned. I can see losing your family has been difficult and your decision to leave everything you knew must have been hard. Wishing your and Peanut happy travels and we look forward to your adventures across the US.

  • @debznLuna
    @debznLuna 2 года назад +49

    I feel your pain Paul and relate alot to your story of loss and deception. Wish you all the best in the future of your channel.

  • @1927su
    @1927su 2 года назад +10

    Life begins at 40!!! Best wishes!!

  • @crispy63
    @crispy63 2 года назад +4

    Paul... you're a beautiful man. I'm going to follow you. Stay strong, wild and free!

  • @MichiStacker
    @MichiStacker 2 года назад +32

    Another great video! This is probably the best conversion I have seen on this type of van.

  • @grannyanderson5063
    @grannyanderson5063 2 года назад +6

    I can feel his pain, it's so raw, he is a very brave, strong man. I pray that he gets the opportunity to visit his sons in the future. I pray he has great success in his journey, both financially and romantically.

  • @patrickpoh9
    @patrickpoh9 2 года назад +15

    My heart goes out to you over your loss, Paul. You seems like a great guy to hang out with and you got a nice rig to call home. Take care and stay safe!

  • @RonInAVan
    @RonInAVan 2 года назад +28

    Great video, Paul’s story kinda hit home for me. I wish him the best.

  • @rickcooper156
    @rickcooper156 2 года назад +28

    This build just blew my mind! I've been living the SUV Life for almost 3 years now and your story resembles my own
    You've built an incredible home and I can only imagine your future possibilities if you built these for resale...
    From one male survivor (from an abusive "Gas Lit" marriage) to another, my hat's off to you. You've proven that through much pain lies great opportunity...
    And the doors of opportunity are always marked "PUSH".
    Keep PUSHING my brother.
    Much Love and Respect from Southern California.

  • @mattkrea
    @mattkrea 2 года назад +8

    I have never seen the Tesla batteries used previously.. that is a great idea!

  • @JenGrant71711
    @JenGrant71711 2 года назад +13

    And the family grows! ❤️🤗🥰🤪

  • @cindi7955
    @cindi7955 2 года назад +20

    First thank you Chrome for your interest in other people and for having a heart of care for them for you have grown a family both known to you and those of us who feel a part of it through getting to know each of you. All amazing people. To you Paul, what a humble man and my heart broke listening to your story thank you for sharing it as so many are walking the same path. Lady Justice is sadly not able to guard the law as before. Your build shows the passion you have for putting out a great product. My son is a Finish Carpenter and I know the precise work ethic it takes to do such a great job. The layout uses the space so efficiently. Everything is just so functional and handy. I think the dutch door would be amazing. Have enjoyed the tours you have done south of the border. A real pleasure to get to meet you and your amazing fellow passenger Peanut-love the name. Godspeed!

  • @throughthedesolate
    @throughthedesolate 2 года назад +5

    Fan of Chrome and Cruz, now I’m a Paul fan!!!! Great job Paul. Thanks for letting us in your life!

  • @dawndetelj2684
    @dawndetelj2684 2 года назад +16

    Love this it is beautiful♥️ peanut is cute also😊

  • @peggymccurdy1941
    @peggymccurdy1941 2 года назад +6

    Love Peanut, I have a mini Aussie. They are the best dogs.

  • @termiterasin
    @termiterasin 2 года назад +11

    It fills me with joy that people are moving towards an off-grid lifestyle. The planet thanks us! I just hope I can buy one of those electric Amazon van to convert!

  • @Bk-uz3pk
    @Bk-uz3pk 2 года назад +13

    You have a great home and a lovely companion. All the best 🌺

  • @joannaazar7396
    @joannaazar7396 2 года назад +9

    Hey Chrome and my favorite Cruz, I absolutely luv ur channel. LV. NewJersey ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯

  • @BoneHead1776
    @BoneHead1776 2 года назад +10

    Nice to finally meet Paul. Great guy , cool rig and a beautiful Peanut. Welcome to the the VanFam.

  • @turquoisewitch.wild-owl
    @turquoisewitch.wild-owl 2 года назад +10

    Paul, I'm sorry about the painful situations that brought you here. You do beautiful work, and your home is amazing!

  • @agrove1294
    @agrove1294 2 года назад +31

    Love the build! Impressive electrical system and Paul is such a nice guy and very professional.

  • @bkad6238
    @bkad6238 2 года назад +8

    Nice to meet Paul. Great home. 👍

  • @TheSuekels
    @TheSuekels 2 года назад +7

    Paul seems to be such a genuinely nice guy, thank you so much for sharing his story. ❤️

  • @anthonyjerome247
    @anthonyjerome247 2 года назад +26

    A beautify narrated video with a amazing sense of transparency and sincerity.
    My story family wise was so similar and I to suffered many betrayals and in that divorce the loss of my daughter and grandkids.
    Let's say that in the world of family law I felt powerless to gain any semblance of a just outcome....pure hell really.
    What I see in this man is a gentle spirit and even though you were in a valley that was unspeakably difficult your fortunes are about to turn and that suffering has produced some things in you that will bring you back into a new set of fortunes beyond your comprehension.
    Keep doing exactly what you have been doing, take the higher ground and you will prevail.
    You exemplify courage.
    Thank you so much for the openness it truly blessed me.

  • @tarquinkeys1702
    @tarquinkeys1702 2 года назад +18

    You are a legend mate. Keep your head up and enjoy the new ride, bumpy though it may be at times.

  • @luckydubefan808
    @luckydubefan808 2 года назад +2

    All the best to Paul and Peanut. What a nice humble guy.

  • @chopper680
    @chopper680 2 года назад +6

    The inside is bigger and better than alot of. NYC apartments and far cheaper

  • @kathyanderson1509
    @kathyanderson1509 2 года назад +7

    Paul thanks for sharing your life story with us . Chrome you have a great friendship there .

  • @susanevans4387
    @susanevans4387 2 года назад +2

    Paul sorry to hear your story - your pain was palatable. Your boys will come back to you. Love your home - fantastic planned.

  • @SuperClare
    @SuperClare 2 года назад +7

    The solar set up is insane.

  • @mindin2941
    @mindin2941 2 года назад +6

    Very cool. And feel the court injustice. As Paul says never in a million years would you believe how cold and ruthless and truly evil courts are to fathers!

  • @4dnblovelyfe769
    @4dnblovelyfe769 2 года назад +1

    FANTASTIC BUILD...your BEST LIFE HAS JUST BEGUN.
    Keep your head up. There is so much love and friendships just waiting for you.
    I salute you. Stand strong.

  • @machellelokersonvlog1273
    @machellelokersonvlog1273 2 года назад +4

    The amount of talent he has is astounding!

  • @wideawaketotruth5301
    @wideawaketotruth5301 2 года назад +7

    This man is solid Chrome!
    Don't lose him!

  • @boscho5033
    @boscho5033 2 месяца назад +1

    Man, you brought a tear to my eye. I really admire people like you -you get handed crappy cards yet you still find the resilience and ability to completely change your life around. All the best, bro. You're a true inspiration

  • @trshlombard
    @trshlombard 2 года назад +1

    I just want to give you the biggest, tightest hug!!! What a heartache you are living with, no worries, those boys miss you too for sure. You will see them again.

  • @vanlife_dreamer
    @vanlife_dreamer 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful build. A story well told. Can't wait to see more. Peanut is adorable.

  • @h3bysuzanne184
    @h3bysuzanne184 2 года назад +23

    Way to go dude!!!! We only have one life, you’ve made a hard decision but should not regret it. Your boys will understand someday 🙏💜💕🦋 I love what your doing and no doubt you have gifts to share. Much love to you🙏😇

  • @robinbrown7953
    @robinbrown7953 2 года назад +15

    Paul....I can feel the pain in your voice, and it makes me sad for what you have gone through........but it sounds like you have decided to take a terrible situation and turn it into a beautiful life for yourself....and you deserve it.....I wish you well and will be subscribing to your channel....Would love to hear more about your artwork and if you have any plans to start again by, working out of your van, or is editing and doing tours going to be your new gig....? Looks like you are very talented with the artwork you showed.

  • @debbieb1849
    @debbieb1849 2 года назад +2

    Paul seems very genuine, a very decent guy. I want to follow him throughout his adventures. I totally understand his struggles. He inspires me.

  • @bigmaninavan7799
    @bigmaninavan7799 2 года назад +6

    Nice to meet you Paul! I am in a 3 year custody battle right now so I can relate somewhat. Love your box truck!

  • @sonyacarmichael8146
    @sonyacarmichael8146 2 года назад +4

    This box truck design is awesome. Love it. Love the shower. I just don t fully understand the power sources. I pray that you will be reunited with your sons..Chrome you are a blessing to many!!

  • @Littlehornification
    @Littlehornification 2 года назад +1

    Looks to me like you are doing everything right. You have set yourself up for survival... Life is far from over for you. Stay strong.

  • @virginiatolles1664
    @virginiatolles1664 2 года назад +10

    It sounds like you're well on the road, literally and figuratively, to making an absolutely wonderful life for yourself. Ooh rah!

  • @tracey4528
    @tracey4528 2 года назад +10

    What a beautiful job on the box truck!!! I pray your boys will get in touch with you when they are old enough to make decisions on their own. Our judicial system in the States is awful as well. Your boys will find you trust me my mom did the same to me and my brother when we were 6 and 8. Keep your head up and keep doing the best you can think G’s will get better 🇨🇦❤️🤍🙏🏼💪🏻🇺🇸❤️🤍💙

  • @timwoytula5416
    @timwoytula5416 2 года назад +1

    Keep on rockin in our free world - life is precious brother - only 10%of the world population lives beyond the age of 90 years - can't change the past - but your setting a fine example of a future - and most of all your boys will see your channel and follow - for they the not small boys forever - no doubt they think of you too

  • @marlenebtagelman2451
    @marlenebtagelman2451 2 года назад +6

    In central MN, I can hear birds early morning when it is dark.

  • @rosshunter9053
    @rosshunter9053 2 года назад +1

    Chin up Paul, by the looks of it you have a gentle soul. Life is what you make of it and life can be bloody awesome. Brilliant van you've got there, well done.

  • @Kastor_B
    @Kastor_B 2 года назад +4

    Makes me tear up. Keep your head up Paul and just know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @ajusbflyyyadventurervlifeb696
    @ajusbflyyyadventurervlifeb696 2 года назад +3

    Paul is such a great friendly guy. He made me feel so comfortable when he shot the tour of my RV in Arizona.😉 Thank you for sharing his story. Chrome you picked a true winner to represent Vancity Vanlife!

    • @wild.free.adventure
      @wild.free.adventure 2 года назад +1

      Hey girl!! Was a pleasure filming your home. Can't wait to share it!

  • @charisma-hornum-fries
    @charisma-hornum-fries 2 года назад +4

    I think you’re expressing a way too familiar situation for more then enough of us. Thanks for telling your story and showing us your home.

  • @chewsalot799
    @chewsalot799 2 года назад +6

    Paul you are a really sweet and genuine guy! Thank you for telling us your story, I hope you get to reunite with your boys some day. in the meantime, your doing it right, living life and taking care of yourself, and cutey pie Peanut :)

  • @joannecanetti7481
    @joannecanetti7481 2 года назад +4

    Chrome you’ve done some amazing van tours but I have to say this is one of my top 10. What an amazing man. What a way to heal his ❤️. Thank you for your kindness and generous ❤️. You rock 😎

  • @patriciagilhooley7526
    @patriciagilhooley7526 2 года назад +6

    HI Paul. Really nice van 👌 thanks for sharing 👍 enjoy BC . Its the diamond of canada 🇨🇦 love it there .

  • @stevedaniels6050
    @stevedaniels6050 2 года назад +1

    Paul seems like a really lovely guy and a pleasure for you to have as a friend Chrome. I can’t wait to see the van yours he’s done.

    • @wild.free.adventure
      @wild.free.adventure 2 года назад +1

      Thanks! Can't wait to share all these amazing stories!

  • @Dante43437
    @Dante43437 2 года назад +1

    I've same experience of Paul's story and I know what it takes to stand up again.
    Keep up dude, I wish you all best.

  • @kimprocarione5473
    @kimprocarione5473 8 месяцев назад

    I love the Murphy bed! The whole thing looks so spacious! Peanut looks like a wonderful companion. Enjoy your travels and heal!

  • @janegendreau484
    @janegendreau484 2 года назад +12

    Thank you for sharing your 🏡 and your story with us, Paul!! Blessings and safe travels to you wherever you go!!! USA

  • @bigupstravel
    @bigupstravel 2 года назад +2

    WTG PAUL AND PEANUT! Time will heal but pray for better

  • @Mysteryofitall
    @Mysteryofitall 2 года назад +11

    Thanks Chrome for sharing Paul's truck tour. Paul, thanks for sharing your story. There are so many who are experiencing similar things, but it is difficult for those who have not experienced it to comprehend the depth of it. Every story that is shared helps another know what they experienced was, in fact, real. Thank you for your honesty. Can't wait to see the van tours you've captured and love your new channel. Wild and Free Adventure...yes!

  • @Donald-dt1dp
    @Donald-dt1dp 2 года назад +1

    Never look back brother and enjoy life that you deserve. Your amazing with a awesome personality.

  • @relevanttraveler6263
    @relevanttraveler6263 2 года назад +9

    Very Awesome to meet you Paul! U inspire me as well! Everyone has a life story to share and thank you for sharing urs.

  • @carolineloeser3071
    @carolineloeser3071 2 года назад +1

    Great meeting you Paul, thank you Chrome for another meet

  • @nmsmartone926
    @nmsmartone926 2 года назад +1

    Chrome: you get my Humanity Award for giving hope and meaning to a perfect stranger. ❤️

  • @mickylawless1941
    @mickylawless1941 2 года назад +1

    One of the best box truck builds I've ever seen. And I've watched a LOT of van build videos. I came out of an emotionally abusive marriage 23 years ago. It took me some time to heal, but I met my beautiful young wife 7 1/2 years ago. Life only gets better with each new day. She is my light in a dark world. You will find your light as well. Blessings and safe travels!

  • @chaoticature
    @chaoticature 2 года назад +6

    Awesome build, Awesome guy! I’m doing VanLife solo and as much as I Love my own company, a pup dog friend is absolutely coming soon! Thankfully I have a connection with native birds but they don’t really like to cuddle 😂

  • @sharonoldham4374
    @sharonoldham4374 2 года назад +7

    Paul thank you for sharing your home and your personal life with us. Wishing you the best.

  • @sandrajoned8346
    @sandrajoned8346 2 года назад +2

    I pray you get a chance to see your boys soon. 👦 I know they miss you.

  • @PattisArtInnaVan
    @PattisArtInnaVan 2 года назад +6

    Hi Paul gorgeous and organized build love it! Especially love the carved wood pieces! It was very sad to hear about the loss of your family and I'm glad you have found a way to have peace in your life. One day your boys will see you again. I believe this.

  • @andreawooten-mckinnon2982
    @andreawooten-mckinnon2982 2 года назад

    Listen when l tell U, this actually looks like a real comfortable HOME....
    OMG, U did your THANG ON THIS.
    Absolutely love your home.

  • @lcollection9349
    @lcollection9349 2 года назад +1

    Someone brought you up to be extremely clean and tidy.....they did a great job, and so did you!

  • @LuisFlores04
    @LuisFlores04 2 года назад +9

    AWESOME BUILD!

  • @brendablystone9615
    @brendablystone9615 2 года назад +1

    Hj hope your doing awesome glad yu get to talk to Emi every day hi paul

  • @marlahansen3953
    @marlahansen3953 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Just a plain box truck from the outside, and then jaw-drop on the inside! Wow!

  • @pebbles5953
    @pebbles5953 2 года назад +3

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️ We pray for you to get to see you boys soon❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @michaeltichonuk2176
    @michaeltichonuk2176 2 года назад +6

    The build demonstrates your Artistic and Talent!! Wow! I got a sense of Plumb and Square, except for sink and cutting board, and you made it work.
    Excellent job!
    And the Puppy...oh Joy!

  • @gracecallowayable
    @gracecallowayable 2 года назад +2

    What an awesome guy!!! Wishing you the very best Paul…👠🚌👠

  • @Yvonneb_
    @Yvonneb_ 2 года назад +2

    Really sorry for your issues Paul. Your home is absolutely gorgeous xx I love your dog peanut he is so handsome xx