Apollonia You are right! So many times I’ve been complimented by women because of the way I step to them without hesitation. Without nervous energy! Just be a MAN!!!
I strongly disagree. I’ve told a woman after 3 months that I wanted to be exclusive and the masculine energy shifted from me to her. My girlfriend now I waited until she brought it up and her idea, I then assured her I felt the same way and I would want nothing more. Be strong gents I know it’s hard 😅
The energy only shifted because you allowed it to. If she feels like she has to say something then she’s been thinking about it and wanting you to do it for way longer, before she ever opened her mouth.
AP, ur making my life much easier. I appreciate the simplicity and remarkable intelligence of ur advice. THANK YOU. I hope things turn out right for me and the one I'm seeing. 😁
STOP procrastinating!!! OK men it's obvious Apollonia hasn't had that real deep conversation with her boyfriend yet!! So women do what they do because they don't want to make a wrong decision about a guy and it blows up in their face, understandable!! But men make the wrong decision about women 5 times as much!! We're not procrastinating we're being cautious because we're tired of picking the wrong woman!!
@@ApolloniaPonti I think you misunderstood that comment so let's push the pause button on it, but it's real there's a conversation that a man has with only someone very special because this conversation is life changing nothing will be the same for either one of yall. I call it the (core) other guy's make call it something else. It's Man's best kept secret 😂 it's similar to your sisterhood thingy but a bit more sacred.
I love your channel and this video is very helpful. Question I have is: What if you do those things and she doesn't feel ready because she just got out of a 8 yr relationship and not really looking for a relationship right now. She loves me like crazy and thinks if us together daily.
It’s confusing. Do I ask? Does she ask? Some people say wait for her to bring it up asking “so what are we?” If I ask “what are we?” im being pushy, im making her feel pressured. I always thought let the woman come to you. Match her energy. If she asks if im hungry I’d respond with, why, are you? I think guys should just wait, especially if she really wants to be sure. It sucks but I don’t think there’s a time limit.
The day you ask her to be your girlfriend is the begging of the end of her attraction to you and also is you telling her that all her actions were accepted and you lose the option to fix any issues that you noted so far.....
Cool Informative video, I think I'd be more afraid if asked and said yes cause I'd be scared of the change and worrying about walking on eggshells, and deeper affection like having to spend the night I'd ask sleep on couch being a good guy, respecting her 3-6 month rule
I asked her to be my girlfriend but i got a no comment answer..she told me that she needs more time to know me deeper . Btw I’ve been courting her for 2mos.
Appolonia ..your voice volume is so low that I am not able to listen to what you are saying while travelling on metro train. Initially I thought its the problem with my earpods and I brought a new one.Later on I realised that volume is ok with other videos
My name is Derek. This is great advice Apollonia. But what about when you've overpersued and came of a little clingy and needy and have been dropping the L-bombs and relationship subject pressures on the my end?...if my instincts are to back off a little because she's begin to pull away a bit and according to your videos and in line with your advice on this subject? How then and when do I do this? That is to man up and ask her to be my girlfriend? And in this instance, is my pulling back on my emotions still considered indecisiveness?... this is a long distance relationship by the way. Thanks @Apolloniaponti
I'm 32 yrs old and the women I want is 39, we've been dating for a few weeks already but i don't think I'm winning this battle .. i feel like I'm losing her as days go by .
So I’m dating this woman for a couple months already (almost a year actually). But here’s our situation.. she’s 4 years older than me and when we talk about takin this to the next level she just blantly says her worries that I may not be that ready or that I’ll have to be catching up coz she’s older. But I know for sure and she always tell me that she really love me already. How do I take the step forward and lead this on to the next level while taking away her worries all at once? Ps. we’re of the same vibe and that we understand each other at a really deep level in terms of dreams, emotions, and all. She tells me that I’m really advance for my age in terms of maturity and stability which contradicts what her worries say. Please help me.
The girl that i know i love. she know. i respect every-thing like here space. her feelings. when i am with her i am like a good friend and give good feelings conversation so can get to hereself. give also good advise and a hug. but she say i love but no relation and scare to lose my friendship. i think she wil decide.
I've been dating a woman for 7 months and I just found her on a dating site soliciting sex telling them her hubby is away and travel and wants a new friend. I love her she says she loves me and that what I saw wasn't real and it wasn't her , but it was and she won't admit it cuz she's too ashamed . how do I handle that
This video is not for most men. Because in reality, the big problem is that women send mixed signs. So you don't know what really they want! So, for this reason, men look for this kind of videos but such videos are far from reality.
Remember.... shes never yours ....its just your turn....😀😀👍👍 after 2 or 3 months she usualy gets bored ....nomather what....i suggest not getting too invested with woman....just enjoy 😀👍👍👍
A womans mind?.....not even the great jedi master yoda can figure that out, lol
Womans mind figure out we will
The force is strong with this 1
Apollonia
You are right! So many times I’ve been complimented by women because of the way I step to them without hesitation. Without nervous energy! Just be a MAN!!!
I strongly disagree. I’ve told a woman after 3 months that I wanted to be exclusive and the masculine energy shifted from me to her.
My girlfriend now I waited until she brought it up and her idea, I then assured her I felt the same way and I would want nothing more. Be strong gents I know it’s hard 😅
The energy only shifted because you allowed it to. If she feels like she has to say something then she’s been thinking about it and wanting you to do it for way longer, before she ever opened her mouth.
Exactly !
I hope men really listen to your advice. You are so right on about this.
The women usually bring up status..
I’m learning more and more from you day by day, thank you so much Apollonia 😊 God bless your day.🙏
Thank you for taking the time out and doing this from you heart. I have learnt a lot since I started watching.
AP, ur making my life much easier. I appreciate the simplicity and remarkable intelligence of ur advice. THANK YOU. I hope things turn out right for me and the one I'm seeing. 😁
How did it turn out Timothy?
Best vid yet appy! I love it when you do thise demanding soft voice videos.makes us feel so gangsta. But yeah your right we gotta own it.
I love a woman that says I love you and not says I always love you in a special way.
STOP procrastinating!!! OK men it's obvious Apollonia hasn't had that real deep conversation with her boyfriend yet!! So women do what they do because they don't want to make a wrong decision about a guy and it blows up in their face, understandable!! But men make the wrong decision about women 5 times as much!! We're not procrastinating we're being cautious because we're tired of picking the wrong woman!!
Oh, judgement at it's finest!!! Nice try!
@@ApolloniaPonti I think you misunderstood that comment so let's push the pause button on it, but it's real there's a conversation that a man has with only someone very special because this conversation is life changing nothing will be the same for either one of yall. I call it the (core) other guy's make call it something else. It's Man's best kept secret 😂 it's similar to your sisterhood thingy but a bit more sacred.
I’ve known her for 8 years. My wife passed away 1 month ago so I’m going to ask her to be mine
A month after???? Holy shit
I needed this today. Thank you!
I love your channel and this video is very helpful. Question I have is: What if you do those things and she doesn't feel ready because she just got out of a 8 yr relationship and not really looking for a relationship right now. She loves me like crazy and thinks if us together daily.
How is it going?
It’s confusing. Do I ask? Does she ask? Some people say wait for her to bring it up asking “so what are we?” If I ask “what are we?” im being pushy, im making her feel pressured. I always thought let the woman come to you. Match her energy. If she asks if im hungry I’d respond with, why, are you? I think guys should just wait, especially if she really wants to be sure. It sucks but I don’t think there’s a time limit.
Lookin good in the neighborhood 😎
Men want to also be wanted. Best advice I ever received was wait till she brings it up. “ when am I going to be in your girlfriend “
You can wait literally for eternity dude lol, but good luck :D
I figured it was time when she told me she loved me
The day you ask her to be your girlfriend is the begging of the end of her attraction to you and also is you telling her that all her actions were accepted and you lose the option to fix any issues that you noted so far.....
What?
Cool Informative video, I think I'd be more afraid if asked and said yes cause I'd be scared of the change and worrying about walking on eggshells, and deeper affection like having to spend the night I'd ask sleep on couch being a good guy, respecting her 3-6 month rule
This is so great 2 know ! Love all that u do boo lol !
I’m not scared of rejection I’m just scared of it being awkward between the person and myself
Then you’re scared of life
I asked her to be my girlfriend but i got a no comment answer..she told me that she needs more time to know me deeper . Btw I’ve been courting her for 2mos.
She Don't Like U Dawg
Enjoyed your comments
Thank you! :)
Apollonia Ponti great video the volume is a hair too low....
Appolonia ..your voice volume is so low that I am not able to listen to what you are saying while travelling on metro train. Initially I thought its the problem with my earpods and I brought a new one.Later on I realised that volume is ok with other videos
Hi,
Thank you for letting me know, I will check the audio on my videos.
Apollonia
Amazing !
Glad you think so!
I will succeed or learn how to succeed!!!
Can you do a video on how to stop your girlfriend from changing last minute things for guys to do and putting them on the spot
I know this is good information. It is hard to hear. The volume is low.
I like the format of your videos
My name is Derek. This is great advice Apollonia. But what about when you've overpersued and came of a little clingy and needy and have been dropping the L-bombs and relationship subject pressures on the my end?...if my instincts are to back off a little because she's begin to pull away a bit and according to your videos and in line with your advice on this subject? How then and when do I do this? That is to man up and ask her to be my girlfriend? And in this instance, is my pulling back on my emotions still considered indecisiveness?... this is a long distance relationship by the way. Thanks @Apolloniaponti
I asked she said just to be friends
I'm 32 yrs old and the women I want is 39, we've been dating for a few weeks already but i don't think I'm winning this battle .. i feel like I'm losing her as days go by .
if you want kids in the future, you may wanna put the breaks on this relationship. N-O-W
@@1SmokingLizard 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Very Amazing
What if we workout at the same gym and she rejects you? We can't exactly go our separate way.
What do you do if you been holding back because of lock down?
Tried some of your tips. Success sort of? Not the kind of women I'd like to reel in? I wanted to real in one woman, near the same age.
Hi Apollonia, isn't giving her a great first kiss better than asking her to be your girlfriend?
P how can you know that you're going out with a girl if the girl never tells you that you're going out with them
Dont procrastinate yet you should wait 45 days to get out of friend zone. Makes sense. 😅
Hey u are the best
So I’m dating this woman for a couple months already (almost a year actually). But here’s our situation.. she’s 4 years older than me and when we talk about takin this to the next level she just blantly says her worries that I may not be that ready or that I’ll have to be catching up coz she’s older. But I know for sure and she always tell me that she really love me already. How do I take the step forward and lead this on to the next level while taking away her worries all at once? Ps. we’re of the same vibe and that we understand each other at a really deep level in terms of dreams, emotions, and all. She tells me that I’m really advance for my age in terms of maturity and stability which contradicts what her worries say. Please help me.
I feel like as a black man people always want to fight me when I like girls of different races, I love it but at the same time I have a lot to lose.
It's happened to me before as a white guy lol
The girl that i know i love. she know. i respect every-thing like here space. her feelings. when i am with her i am like a good friend and give good feelings conversation so can get to hereself. give also good advise and a hug. but she say i love but no relation and scare to lose my friendship. i think she wil decide.
It sounds like you are in the "friend zone".watch her vidoes on her channel on how to get out of or avoid the friend zone
Creator of video: you are *man*
Me: No. I am *woman*
LMAO ME TOO
What if she has a boyfriend?
I've been dating a woman for 7 months and I just found her on a dating site soliciting sex telling them her hubby is away and travel and wants a new friend. I love her she says she loves me and that what I saw wasn't real and it wasn't her , but it was and she won't admit it cuz she's too ashamed . how do I handle that
Stay far away!
This video is not for most men. Because in reality, the big problem is that women send mixed signs. So you don't know what really they want! So, for this reason, men look for this kind of videos but such videos are far from reality.
Can i date you, finally a woman that understands me...But sorry i have to withdraw to my mancave now 😉
Oi
@Apollonia Ponti
Sorry, but for my experience, I disagree with all that you say in this video.
Same here.
Opposie to Corey Wayne
I would like to ask you if you would be my girlfriend
Hi Apollonio I thought that you should let women to bring up the conversation, as a man your jus supposed to be having sex
Remember.... shes never yours ....its just your turn....😀😀👍👍 after 2 or 3 months she usualy gets bored ....nomather what....i suggest not getting too invested with woman....just enjoy 😀👍👍👍