Chloe Cole's Story of Transition and Detransition

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2022
  • Chole sits down to chat with Jennifer Lahl about her gender dysphoria and her decision to medically and surgically transition. She was put on puberty blocks, given testosterones, and at 15 had a double mastectomy. Listen and hear her thoughts on why this happened, how she came to detransition, and her advice to parents and to other young people.

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  • @jennywa3046
    @jennywa3046 Год назад +47

    So many of these girls mention the attraction to the community…. as a society we are losing many of the communities that we used to have.

  • @viidda
    @viidda Год назад +42

    It’s beyond me to hear that kids/teens are allowed to have such invasive surgeries. So sorry for what you went through, Chloe. What a beautiful, smart and brave girl! Keep fighting!

  • @kelhow1181
    @kelhow1181 Год назад +28

    My own daughter mentioned, at age 11, that maybe she’s really a boy. It’s truly being shoved down their throats.
    I told her no. That’s what parents are supposed to do for their kids. We know better than them, that’s sort of our job.

    • @kpirron7635
      @kpirron7635 Год назад +3

      It would be interesting to know how she arrived at that.

    • @abettejones-bey9586
      @abettejones-bey9586 Год назад +2

      not sort of. Is the parents job. if the don’t stand in the gap for their kids no one else will. they should be prosecuted for abuse🤬🤬🤬🤬 why are we blaming social media. so no checks on her by parents. did they think she was a plant. this is horrific. didn’t the parents have to approve this. they need to be interviewed.

    • @joane24
      @joane24 Год назад +1

      @@kpirron7635 Yes, it would be interesting. But I also remember that kids still learn the differences about the sexes, they don't just immediately understand them. So it's not unusual for a girl or a boy to wonder if being in a wrong body is a possibility (as a general idea). They still learn 'how it works' (that girls have different bodies than boys). So I guess it's maybe less important where they got it from, but rather that it was corrected.

    • @crocodilegrundee4514
      @crocodilegrundee4514 Год назад

      @@abettejones-bey9586
      What happens is the therapists and doctors tell the parents that if they don’t let the children transition, they will be at high risk of suicide. They usually do this because the laws in some areas will take away the doctors license to practice medicine for not affirming the child’s gender.
      There have been instances of children being taken away from parents for not affirming the child’s gender. The world is literally upside down right now, and people need to fight the ones pushing this. I agree that the parents should not have let it happen. I know I wouldn’t have. However the organizations pushing this, and the people pushing the idea of suicide of the child, onto the parents, is where we need to start that fight!

    • @abettejones-bey9586
      @abettejones-bey9586 Год назад +2

      @@crocodilegrundee4514 that is so sad. what are doing to our children 😢

  • @paulamoore7525
    @paulamoore7525 Год назад +29

    I'm 55 now, but I was a tomboy. I would stop at my friend's house as early as 8 years old to change in her brother's clothes. I related more to the mentality of boys and to this day I enjoy the women in my life, but prefer the conversations and interests of men, in general.
    Love my husband and we've raised two sons. If I would have been born 40 years later, I can't help to think what would have happened to me. Sure I would have been questioned if I really identified as a girl.

    • @normanshadow1
      @normanshadow1 Год назад +1

      Same

    • @anmariepomales5918
      @anmariepomales5918 Год назад +2

      I can relate

    • @jenniraisovna5698
      @jenniraisovna5698 Год назад +2

      I'm 32 and thinking the same. Plus I come from Central Asia so thankfully I became exposed to all this trans ideology only after arriving to the US and after i went through my teen years. Very thankful to have been preserved from this invasive parasitic and harmful ideology as I cherish the idea of becoming mother in the future and nurture my kids as God has planned for me in my body. And I am still a tomboy, but I just enjoy my femininity alongside 😇 thanks for sharing your experience 🙏🏻 we are indeed lucky and blessed to have skipped such seducing temptations in our times and early years.

  • @Hidinginyourcupboard
    @Hidinginyourcupboard Год назад +23

    This is so true - going through female puberty IS weird. Probably going through any puberty can be weird and difficult. Periods hurt, they're messy, it's hard to come to terms with how to handle this. Often times facilities are lacking or not private enough. The fact this could be captured by a marginal ideology and used against someone's healthy development is disgusting. Children should be taught to learn about and care for their body and accept themselves as they are as much as possible. Children certainly can't consent to the SERIOUS implications involved.

  • @alejandrag7627
    @alejandrag7627 Год назад +9

    Bless you Chloe!!! Thank you for standing up for yourself and others that are scared to speak of this topic. Children should not be on social media or have access to the internet 24/7.

  • @Goosieinthepark
    @Goosieinthepark Год назад +14

    It’s insane to me how these medical “professionals” just instantly affirmed a confused child like that. They as doctors should be the first to know about how underdeveloped children’s brains are and don’t understand the weight in the decisions they want to make. I’m so sorry this happened but thank you for being open and honest. Hopefully your story reaches other kids who need to hear this

    • @kpirron7635
      @kpirron7635 Год назад +4

      When I read about Vanderbilt's surgery program for kids...it was shown they were marketing the surgery to kids --designing the messaging toward kids and the doctors were onboard because the system sees it as a "new" procedure and income stream - medical corp. are usually about money.

    • @danielledragon7915
      @danielledragon7915 Год назад +1

      money talks and they just want to act fast, so the child doesn't change their mind or actually come to their senses.

    • @baconsarny-geddon8298
      @baconsarny-geddon8298 Год назад +1

      Two words. Profit. Motive.

  • @puffin463
    @puffin463 Год назад +7

    'I realized that no matter w hat I did to myself, I"ll always be a woman," after the realization of the choices she thought she had made.... Continue this mission, dear Chloe! It is beautiful to hear your story and see a young person 'waking' up! Brave! Courageous! I"m honored to have been a listener.
    Addition here: Your last message is very powerful... hopefully to parents. I wish the best for you, Chloe, as your life moves forward in whatever direction you choose.

  • @MysteryGirlSmith
    @MysteryGirlSmith Год назад +4

    Chloe, please keep fighting to put an end to what you endured. You have a very powerful voice and can save children and young adults, and put an end to this gruesome agenda.

  • @Marina-ct6tv
    @Marina-ct6tv Год назад +3

    Chloe, my heart goes to you. I hope you find your path in life and health along the way

  • @kelhow1181
    @kelhow1181 Год назад +9

    #litigationstopsmutilation
    Thank you for fighting this battle Chloe!
    #saveourkids

  • @tublogcristino5883
    @tublogcristino5883 Год назад +4

    This world needs your voice for such times as this ❤ save life’s

  • @heatherpage1445
    @heatherpage1445 Год назад +1

    This is the first time I've seen her smile. On your thumbnail. And it brings tears to my eyes. She is so powerful right now. I am so glad she is speaking out and helping put an end to this madness.

  • @Statupalmambarbacot3345
    @Statupalmambarbacot3345 Год назад +7

    It chills my bones and makes my skin crawl, how can children be abandoned to making life-altering, irreversible decisions like this?? For what?! Ideology, profit?! How ia this sane?! I am revolted, People who encouraged this should be locked up, to say the least!!

    • @kpirron7635
      @kpirron7635 Год назад

      President B. has told parents to affirm it - that it's a great thing. So when this POtuS weighs in...then you know he is affirming a larger agenda. It seems transgender is a part of the coming "Transhumanism" which is anti human - as was stated by Noah Harari...the end of free will. This is unique to the West - the psychological trauma/attack...it's part of the social chaos and intentional gaslighting...like the Berkely professor said in a Senate hearing, "trans men can get pregnant." (ruclips.net/video/PgNSJUHxUe8/видео.html ) The other aspect of this is that these Mengele type experiments are sanctioned by our Medical Industrial Complex. What happens to the uteruses and breasts? I read about experiments implanting uteruses into men. So I think taking children's uteruses must be part of the whole experiement to advance their transhuman science.

  • @LH-kr4od
    @LH-kr4od Год назад +13

    "I was 13 - of course I wasn't thinking about that"
    The whole problem in a nutshell.

  • @SavannahHybridCubs
    @SavannahHybridCubs Год назад +1

    She’s my hero. I was like her thank god in a different era. Didn’t think I’d want kids or to breastfeed and I didn’t feel comfortable to breastfeed my first 3 kids but just had another at 34 and I’m nursing her and it’s been a blessing and I’m so sorry she’ll never experience that.

    • @TedParkman
      @TedParkman 2 месяца назад

      Me too! Chloe is my hero! I just love this girl!😊 I think she's beautiful and great!

  • @thomaslane9899
    @thomaslane9899 Год назад +3

    I wish the interviewer would just let chloe speak

  • @TantrumOperator
    @TantrumOperator Год назад +14

    Chloe you are a beautiful and brave soul 👍👍

  • @taracriste1
    @taracriste1 Год назад +2

    It's hard to find the right words to express how sad and awful this story is. My husband and I don't have health insurance and I am actually pretty glad and thank ful we don't, we do not do doctors and I just absolutely don't trust very many, I know they all aren't bad but the vast majority are in my opinion. Needless to say, we are Christians and so we affirm our three children and tell them God made them male or female for a reason and they are special. Chloe keep sharing your story and being brave, I hope and pray more teens and parents will hear you and do the right thing! God bless you and

    • @ItsSimplyAless
      @ItsSimplyAless Год назад +1

      God bless you guys. And same here after my terrible experience with anti-depressants, and how they kind of misdiagnosed me at only 14 and given these pills, I wasn't given informed consent on the dangers of anti-depressants at such a young age. I don't believe many doctors are there for us and I feel like they're in it a lot for the money. I think natural things are the way to go as well.

  • @bunnielynn777
    @bunnielynn777 Год назад +4

    Chloe, I am adding you to my intercessory prayer list of which I pray over daily.🛐❤️🛐 God loves you & that’s all that matters🙏🏼

  • @777.62
    @777.62 Год назад +4

    Her words, “No matter what I did to myself I realized I will always be a woman.”
    This is an agenda. Sad thing is these doctors are not held accountable when they wreck the lives as teenagers who are not mentally mature enough in life to make these decisions. They give them the drugs, the perform the surgeries and when they realize what they’ve done those doctors are not held accountable.
    I also have to blame these parents. They didn’t monitor her phone and social media interactions with those she doesn’t even know in person. These young teens belive these people are their friends and they’ve never even had human contact with them. The parents need held accountable as well not just these doctors. They signed the consent forms allowing these powerful drugs to be given and this horrific mutilation done yo her breasts.
    All of this agenda is not natural. The suicide rates is high among this population.
    She advised all parents to monitor what their children are watching and the social media’s they interact with. She said that the algorithms on Instagram was set up to suck her and manipulate her mind.
    She said to all parents to keep them busy and active away from social media. I don’t see much of this going on these days. I feel bad for any child who is not protected by their parents from this very clear agenda.
    They are just as guilty. Children are communicating with the cloud.

  • @tedparkman3111
    @tedparkman3111 2 месяца назад

    Chloe seems like a very fun person to hangout with! I just love this girl! . Chloe I don't know if you read any of these comments, but I have so much respect for you for what your doing, keep fighting this evel crap that's hurting kids. Thanks Chloe, much love! Ted

  • @julietagomez1035
    @julietagomez1035 Год назад +2

    Parents are to blame too. If they didn't know about the risks, your job as a parent is to inform you as much as possible. Talk to different specialists, find out about everything because your son or daughter wants to make a radical change that can be irreversible. I still think it's crazy for a kid to do it anyway. If a child begins to feel like this, they should see a psychologist and when they are of legal age, make the sex change but with complete security in their mind and knowledge of all medical risks.

  • @khmanuel
    @khmanuel Год назад +7

    Your voice sounds great, perfectly feminine.

  • @deadheaders86
    @deadheaders86 Год назад +1

    The fact that social clubs are in decline around the same time this psychogenic phenomenon emerges is a red flag.
    Individual identity politics is more important now than even thinking about the group as a whole.

  • @nona0442
    @nona0442 Год назад +2

    Woow, i applaud her courage! I really dont support surgery for kids that young. Your brain is not fully developed and one may want totally different things a few years later. Its better to wait...for the person's own lifelong mental health too

  • @prboddington
    @prboddington Год назад +13

    There is so much policing of emotions and experience involved in this complex horrible mess. It had long struck me that in groups of females, the conversation often revolves around sharing negative experiences of menstruation, menopause, childbirth .... try quietly answering a question about menopause experience by sharing that you didn't have any trouble luckily - you'll be shouted down - I was once told by a group of women that I was mistaken that I didn't suffer from menstrual cramps -try being the only member of your birth group who had a straightforward labour, you'll be the one in the kitchen quietly making the tea while people share dramatic accounts - so no wonder young girls think it's just hell to be a woman (I"m not saying this is the only thing or that women are to blame, but it's one thing that I have noticed so often) meanwhile, negative experiences of detransitioners are then shut down, you can only be positive - but positive about going through a whole gamut of extreme medical interventions.

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 Год назад +1

      I agree. This is exactly why I think modern feminism (and LGBT activism) is damaging to girls and society in general. The only things girls hear in the media and by feminists is how oppressed and victimized women are, and how hard it is to be a woman. They tell girls being a wife or mother is slavery and oppression.
      Its no coincidence we have an epidemic of mental health disorders,, drug addiction, gender confusion, and few people are getting married.
      Your comment reminds of what a gynecologist said when he compared western girls/women to African and third world women. He travels to places like Africa to donate his time to poor Africa girls who have little access to medicine, Anyway he said African girls only showed up to his clinic when they had an obvious issue, like they were 8 months pregnant, or they need birth control or something. No African girls were complaining of "period pains". He said compared to the west, most western girls think they are broken, they all have period pains, or think they have endometriosis or cancer when there was nothing wrong with them. The western girls also diagnosed themselves with various mental health disorders, OCD, ADHD, Autism, BPD, etc.
      Society sends a horrible message to girls, and its causing harm.

    • @prboddington
      @prboddington Год назад +2

      @@tubester4567 Yes sadly true. I've taught in universities for decades and was so dismayed by current students demanding 'female role models' in the form of more women authors on their philosophy reading lists, as if they could not cope with the fact that it happens to be a discipline where most of the authors are male, especially nearly all the dead ones. 'You are asking me to provide you with female role models, so who were the role models' role models', I asked them, 'Nobody was, they just got on with it'. (Moreover, they often didn't even realise that some authors WERE female but writing under their initials!!!) So sad and frustrating that young women have been reduced to this misplaced victimhood

    • @deadheaders86
      @deadheaders86 Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing. It reminds me of other victimhood mentality related movements. Hard on the body to sit through it let alone argue about it.

  • @Jingasol
    @Jingasol Год назад +3

    For every kind of decision a person can make there is someone out there regretting making that decision. It would be weird and immoral not to let detranstioners speak

  • @hops4284
    @hops4284 Год назад +8

    This poor girl and so many like her! These algorithms are out to get these kids. These groomers want them.

  • @joane24
    @joane24 Год назад +8

    Truly heartbreaking... It's barbaric, and will go to o the history as barbaric. I don't blame the kids, because they're just being kids, being confused and having ideas that you're gonna grow out of in a few yeats is just part of growing up... The adults/medical establishment is in madness...

    • @kpirron7635
      @kpirron7635 Год назад

      History is written by the victors. This gender dysphoria transgender social engineering psyop is part of the larger transhumanism agenda.

  • @velvetturtles
    @velvetturtles Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing the truth!

  • @abettejones-bey9586
    @abettejones-bey9586 Год назад +3

    where the hell were her parents🤬🤬🤬🤬. years later this be in the category of lobotomies. just awful. nobody “coerced “parents. they needed to do research. parents. fight for your kids😢😢😢

  • @Qrtuop
    @Qrtuop Год назад +3

    You're the first patient who went back and told him you had de transitioned.

  • @jesse8737
    @jesse8737 Год назад +3

    Chloe is a gorgeous woman!

  • @Leo-xs8bv
    @Leo-xs8bv Год назад +3

    Chloé, you are beautiful as a woman
    We need you to talk loud
    Thank you to be you xxx

  • @mcawesomest1
    @mcawesomest1 Год назад +2

    Kid need it discover themselves slowly and naturally without people pushing their problems and issues onto these Kid!

  • @samanthawoodward7551
    @samanthawoodward7551 Год назад +4

    So so many detrans women.
    Well done for speaking out. Your amazing.
    I'm a transexual woman and very happy but I understand this is serious issue that needs more exposure.
    Transition only deals with one problem..nothing else in your life will change. All the other problems will follow you.

  • @Jorlaxe
    @Jorlaxe Год назад +1

    Wow she’s beautiful.

  • @brentheltonj6308
    @brentheltonj6308 Год назад +1

    So sad what these girls don’t realize is they are boys favorite girls, the tomboys are special they have a special place in every boys heart, I’m married to a tomboy i liked all the Tom boys just like all the boys do. This poor girl, damn the doctors that did this, this should be illegal for children to transition

  • @SuperJasondennis
    @SuperJasondennis Год назад +1

    You can thank it people like Rachel Levine, Dwayne Wade, Gabrielle Union for shit like this happening to kids. They have huge platforms and openly promote it.

  • @janeann3331
    @janeann3331 Год назад +7

    Professionals saying, “oh, you're the first to transition,” feels a little like gaslighting. There are probably are more detransitioners. Perhaps there's cognitive dissonance between what they believe and what is the truth.

  • @sankhulani
    @sankhulani Год назад +1

    The parents sound negligent.

  • @tedparkman3111
    @tedparkman3111 2 месяца назад

    Chloe is so cute! I'd love to hug the stuffing out of her, being careful of her ribs of course! 😊

  • @kittygirl_thetortie498
    @kittygirl_thetortie498 Год назад +6

    So what happened to the endocrinologist who was opposed to the idea of taking puberty blockers and testosterone? Why did she change doctors?
    So there WAS pushback by doctor but that pushback wasn't heeded and Chloe and her family doctor shopped until they found a doctor who would pander to Chloe's demands.
    So whose fault is it?
    Stop the narrative saying there is zero pushback by medical personnels.

    • @almula4254
      @almula4254 Год назад +2

      The doctor and parents... no doctor should meet the demands of that level with any child of that age

  • @j8400abc
    @j8400abc Год назад +8

    Seems like she has very slight delayed processing. The effects on the brain from the blocking and mixed hormones are unknown.

    • @LH-kr4od
      @LH-kr4od Год назад +6

      Could be, or she might have asd or dyslexia on top of everything else. Or then again it could just be a video time delay.

    • @irradiated_woman8016
      @irradiated_woman8016 Год назад +2

      Or she's nervous... Manipulating kid's hormones is a huge problem that will permanently affect multiple body systems, including the brain, but let's not automatically pathologize a young woman not being perfectly eloquent when describing very recent trauma. Publicly, no less!
      Given what she has been through and continues to deal with, I find her very well spoken. I would not have been able to do something like this at 18.. not a chance.

  • @wednesdayschild3627
    @wednesdayschild3627 Год назад +1

    If Gender is fixed, logically, the whole house of cards falls.

  • @MsHburnett
    @MsHburnett Год назад +2

    Mastectomy earns $44000 for the hospital .
    Money!!!!!

  • @ConestogaCreek
    @ConestogaCreek Год назад +1

    Did she have bottom surgery or no?

    • @recondito
      @recondito Год назад +1

      Nope. Only a double mastectomy.

    • @ConestogaCreek
      @ConestogaCreek Год назад +2

      @@recondito ok thank God. Appreciate the update.

  • @abettejones-bey9586
    @abettejones-bey9586 Год назад

    heritage???? what does that have to do with anything 🤬🤬🤬🤬

  • @ONEFAITHofJESUS
    @ONEFAITHofJESUS Год назад +15

    The Gospel of Jesus Christ is the answer and such a wonderful answer for young people. ❤

    • @Qrtuop
      @Qrtuop Год назад +6

      No it isn't. These women need feminism and strong bonds. No invisible magic men in the sky necessary.

    • @ONEFAITHofJESUS
      @ONEFAITHofJESUS Год назад +3

      No one knows how to treat women and create, strong bonds based in truth but JESUS.

    • @LH-kr4od
      @LH-kr4od Год назад +1

      Or something based in reality 🤔

    • @ONEFAITHofJESUS
      @ONEFAITHofJESUS Год назад

      The reality is that there isn’t a man or woman alive who isn’t a fallen creature in desperate need of a SAVIOUR. 🩸💧🕊 To deny that is to deny reality at one’s eternal peril.
      Repent and be born again or live to see the day you regret you were born.

    • @deb9784
      @deb9784 Год назад +2

      I am so glad that scripture says, "For GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON, that whoever believes in HIM should not perish but have everlasting life. For GOD did not send His SON into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through HIM might be saved." (John 3:16, 17) It is from HIS precious word that I learned how to love and speak the truth!
      I also made many mistakes in my life! Some irreversible, while some others relationships were crushed and broken! So now I get to comfort ofthers with the grace and comfort I received!
      All the best to you, Cloe! Continue to share your experiences and the obstacles you've faced! You'll never know how many lives you are touching! 💖. What a brave and fearless woman of courage to go against the grain!