I saw this man at the gym, my first thought was he looks like a gentle man walks in works out and goes home, he is not loud so I started staring at him smiling and he started noticing so I also started a brief conversation with him so everytime I see him we wave at each other, I am a very open and kind women, I greet people male or female, I started noticing men approach me more because I think they can see my kindness and positive aura , then I see his behaviour starting to change, the last encounter was him giving me a look of his angry asked him how he was but he had earphones in and just kept walking, I just thought to myself I will never stop being my authentic self, I got abit shy as well so I thought now it's his turn to move towards and he never did , don't wave at be but come now have a conversation with me anyway time will tell but I will just always be kind even if he is acting this way but I will just move on :) I am single and available a man must be a leader
@@msmusicfan0074if this man is in a relationship and he gets jealous when other men talk to me then him not aproaching me is protection, a taken man should not act like that
These are all very important points especially number 2 ladies. When men hear no they take it at face value and don’t approach again because of the fear of being falsely accused of rape and sexual harassment. You have so much more responsibility than before to guide the interactions and make the man comfortable and know it’s safe for him to come to you and approach. Above all ladies, the best way to a man’s heart is not weaponizing or gossiping about what he confides in you and to genuinely respect him. Men pick up on this right away.
One thing I get nervous about is whether I'll blush around him, and if others around me or even he notices, i'd feel kind of embarrassed even though it's natural but sometimes I get more focused on trying not to blush so that could possibly come out in my face. It's good to not hover though. I used to get followed around church by someone and I'd purposely dart into another room and could see him hovering. It was super weird. So yeah, be near him but don't hover
I understand #2 and it seems simple enough to change the “Yes” to a “No” rather than a “No” to a “Yes” but, politely speaking, it’s really not as easy as it may seem to be from a man’s point of view for a woman. A lot of men will continue pestering you, especially if you said “yes” once before.
Who, specifically? Men on dating apps? Men in your small groups? Men at church? Your blanket statement does little to clarify what you're referring to.
Great advice. I will be using these social cues. I struggle because my parents didn’t teach me how to date through their relationship nor did they talk to me about it. Thank you
Equally, when someone forgets your name that is a really big clue that they're just not interested!! You remember what you care about, what you like - even if that's your favourite brand of tea! Get the message and move on!
So true! I liked a guy and prayed for him for five years 😂 Then one day he said he cannot remember my name. 💔 So I believe it’s an answer to my prayer for the LORD to reveal to me if his the one or not😊
Thank you so much 😊. This came in at the most opportune time. I’m glad I can use these ways to invite a man that I’m much interested in to pursue me without being in a position of disappointment. I love the low risk factor of it and I pray to God to lead me in this and grant me wisdom moving forward. God bless you as well as all the ladies who have prospects 😄
U hit the nail right on the head when u say that it is the woman's intuitive response to first say no....the guardedness, wanting to know if the guy has genuine motives first. aha story of my life. As ive grown older, im learning to say yes first even if i say no later or at least be willing to try.
The big issue is women give men signals then reject them when the man asks. I speak from experience. I've been given clear and obvious signs. I've asked her out thinking she must be interested only to be told that she already has a partner or isn't interested. The advice I would offer to women is don't play games!
Sometimes the signal you perceived is just kindness, sometimes it's her acknowledging your manhood. If you are brave ENOUGH to Ask her out, you are overcoming the fear of rejection. And that IS great!
Vice versa. That movie he's just not that into you comes to mind. Ladies, if a guy wants to know you, he will go out of his way to get your attention..TRUST ME. And if they don't, then they're not interested enough.
You interpret it as interest when someone you attracted to is kind. Interacting with the opposite sex is not mutually inclusive of attraction/interest.
This is the thing if she send you signals ease your way in. If she has a boyfriend just politely move along nothing beats a failure but a man who with try.
Most of the time, as much as I try to not come off as a giddy schoolgirl, I can't control my smile when he talks to me. So smiling isn't my problem, it's controlling it that I need.
Good evening or morning, i allow myself to answer your question : 1-be natural, 2-don't ask too much questions the first time ans listen to the answers (if possible, remember the answers) 3- please don't make noise when eating (i know it sounds weird) 4- don't "oversell" yourself. I wish you good success !
I invited and he pursued a little a few times over a year. I’m not sure what happened but we both tried and it is like it didn’t fully click even tho we really liked each other
I have just found your channel today and you are really spot on.. a lot of inconvenient truths for those of us who through watching your content realizes that we are sending a lot of mixed messages as we straddle between the world and the Kingdom of God .. thank you 🙏🏽
I see some men cold approaching women me personally I don’t. And even when they give me signals I’m not too tempted to bite because I’ve be giving signals by all types of women But I want a woman who ain’t dating multiple guys. I always ask GOD to place me in the right place at the right time so that I can meet my spouse
Dating and courting are not the same. Why should a woman waste her time with only you and you haven't figured out if you are right for each other, as well as no commitment in place? Ideally, dating shouldn't involve anything sexual as you are just getting to understand who someone is.
As a woman I’ve focused on one man at a time and always end up hurt. In reality, it wouldn’t make sense for me to assume you’re only dating me when no commitment has been made. When you’re ready for the commitment simply have that conversation with her.
@@leaellas8400Texting a dozen people at once scatters your focus and makes discernment of the Holy Spirit much harder. Give 1 person your full attention and ask your theological beliefs to make sure your core beliefs are aligned. Ask about hobbies to see if your lifestyles are compatible, talk about love languages, past traumas, what's okay in the marriage bed, list all your deal breakers etc and you won't waste time you'll likely reach a deal breaker inside the first few hours of playing 21 questions and then move on and focus on another 1 guy fully
There is a guy a church that I have noticed for over a year. He sat near me one day, introduced himself and asked my name and where I was from right before the sermon started. He may have just been being friendly but he was there alone like I was and I think he may have been trying to show interest. I was so nervous though that I didn’t engage in any conversation after the service and walked out without giving him any reassurance that I was interested. I’ve been trying my best to be near him at church so I can have another opportunity to engage in conversation but it just hasn’t happened again. Meeting someone at church is ideal. Maybe it’s just not the right time or he’s just not the one God has for me. But I’ll be sure to say his name and smile the next time I’m by him :)
I have been "interested" in a couple men at church who weren't wearing rings. Thankfully I find out BEFORE I would invite them to pursue me. Atleast most women wear wedding rings. So that makes it easier to know at least if they are married..
Amen. Hypergamous dating, no-fault divorce, removing Christianity from government and schools... the West has regressed to the Stone Age at this point. How far we've fallen.
1. Use his name
2. Say yes
3. Smile when you see him
4. Choose to place yourself near him
Thanks for the summary! Helps 'reinforce' other things that are said throughout the video :)
Doesn't work.
Thank you for this but also trying to ensure to not awaken love before it's time and listen to when God tells me it's time😊
I saw this man at the gym, my first thought was he looks like a gentle man walks in works out and goes home, he is not loud so I started staring at him smiling and he started noticing so I also started a brief conversation with him so everytime I see him we wave at each other, I am a very open and kind women, I greet people male or female, I started noticing men approach me more because I think they can see my kindness and positive aura , then I see his behaviour starting to change, the last encounter was him giving me a look of his angry asked him how he was but he had earphones in and just kept walking, I just thought to myself I will never stop being my authentic self, I got abit shy as well so I thought now it's his turn to move towards and he never did , don't wave at be but come now have a conversation with me anyway time will tell but I will just always be kind even if he is acting this way but I will just move on :) I am single and available a man must be a leader
He might be in a relationship already
@@msmusicfan0074if this man is in a relationship and he gets jealous when other men talk to me then him not aproaching me is protection, a taken man should not act like that
Maybe he was just being friendly
You did not even know if this guy is a Christian hahaha if you are too
@@MaggieCano-wu1ekfriendly and jealous at the same time mmmm does not add up
These are all very important points especially number 2 ladies. When men hear no they take it at face value and don’t approach again because of the fear of being falsely accused of rape and sexual harassment. You have so much more responsibility than before to guide the interactions and make the man comfortable and know it’s safe for him to come to you and approach. Above all ladies, the best way to a man’s heart is not weaponizing or gossiping about what he confides in you and to genuinely respect him. Men pick up on this right away.
One thing I get nervous about is whether I'll blush around him, and if others around me or even he notices, i'd feel kind of embarrassed even though it's natural but sometimes I get more focused on trying not to blush so that could possibly come out in my face. It's good to not hover though. I used to get followed around church by someone and I'd purposely dart into another room and could see him hovering. It was super weird. So yeah, be near him but don't hover
Guard my heart yet be open and says Yes. Intentionally express when happy to see a guy. Noted ✍️
I understand #2 and it seems simple enough to change the “Yes” to a “No” rather than a “No” to a “Yes” but, politely speaking, it’s really not as easy as it may seem to be from a man’s point of view for a woman. A lot of men will continue pestering you, especially if you said “yes” once before.
Who, specifically? Men on dating apps? Men in your small groups? Men at church? Your blanket statement does little to clarify what you're referring to.
Great advice. I will be using these social cues. I struggle because my parents didn’t teach me how to date through their relationship nor did they talk to me about it. Thank you
Equally, when someone forgets your name that is a really big clue that they're just not interested!! You remember what you care about, what you like - even if that's your favourite brand of tea! Get the message and move on!
So true! I liked a guy and prayed for him for five years 😂
Then one day he said he cannot remember my name. 💔
So I believe it’s an answer to my prayer for the LORD to reveal to me if his the one or not😊
Thank you so much 😊. This came in at the most opportune time. I’m glad I can use these ways to invite a man that I’m much interested in to pursue me without being in a position of disappointment. I love the low risk factor of it and I pray to God to lead me in this and grant me wisdom moving forward. God bless you as well as all the ladies who have prospects 😄
U hit the nail right on the head when u say that it is the woman's intuitive response to first say no....the guardedness, wanting to know if the guy has genuine motives first. aha story of my life. As ive grown older, im learning to say yes first even if i say no later or at least be willing to try.
The big issue is women give men signals then reject them when the man asks. I speak from experience. I've been given clear and obvious signs. I've asked her out thinking she must be interested only to be told that she already has a partner or isn't interested. The advice I would offer to women is don't play games!
And vice versa...
Sometimes the signal you perceived is just kindness, sometimes it's her acknowledging your manhood.
If you are brave ENOUGH to Ask her out, you are overcoming the fear of rejection. And that IS great!
Vice versa. That movie he's just not that into you comes to mind. Ladies, if a guy wants to know you, he will go out of his way to get your attention..TRUST ME. And if they don't, then they're not interested enough.
You interpret it as interest when someone you attracted to is kind. Interacting with the opposite sex is not mutually inclusive of attraction/interest.
This is the thing if she send you signals ease your way in. If she has a boyfriend just politely move along nothing beats a failure but a man who with try.
Most of the time, as much as I try to not come off as a giddy schoolgirl, I can't control my smile when he talks to me. So smiling isn't my problem, it's controlling it that I need.
Don't control it!! ❤
These videos have really been helping me
This is a good video! Could you possibly make a version of this for men? It would be really helpful for guys like me!
Good evening or morning, i allow myself to answer your question : 1-be natural, 2-don't ask too much questions the first time ans listen to the answers (if possible, remember the answers) 3- please don't make noise when eating (i know it sounds weird) 4- don't "oversell" yourself.
I wish you good success !
I invited and he pursued a little a few times over a year. I’m not sure what happened but we both tried and it is like it didn’t fully click even tho we really liked each other
Exactly my experience also.
Two individuals can like eachother but aren't meant to be together.
@natural_life17 Totally. It can also sometimes be that you just aren't right for eachother at that moment, but will be someday. :)
I have just found your channel today and you are really spot on.. a lot of inconvenient truths for those of us who through watching your content realizes that we are sending a lot of mixed messages as we straddle between the world and the Kingdom of God .. thank you 🙏🏽
I see some men cold approaching women me personally I don’t. And even when they give me signals I’m not too tempted to bite because I’ve be giving signals by all types of women But I want a woman who ain’t dating multiple guys. I always ask GOD to place me in the right place at the right time so that I can meet my spouse
It's so hard nowadays to find someone that isn't dating multiple people. I understand how you feel.
Dating and courting are not the same. Why should a woman waste her time with only you and you haven't figured out if you are right for each other, as well as no commitment in place? Ideally, dating shouldn't involve anything sexual as you are just getting to understand who someone is.
As a woman I’ve focused on one man at a time and always end up hurt. In reality, it wouldn’t make sense for me to assume you’re only dating me when no commitment has been made. When you’re ready for the commitment simply have that conversation with her.
@@leaellas8400Texting a dozen people at once scatters your focus and makes discernment of the Holy Spirit much harder. Give 1 person your full attention and ask your theological beliefs to make sure your core beliefs are aligned. Ask about hobbies to see if your lifestyles are compatible, talk about love languages, past traumas, what's okay in the marriage bed, list all your deal breakers etc and you won't waste time you'll likely reach a deal breaker inside the first few hours of playing 21 questions and then move on and focus on another 1 guy fully
There is a guy a church that I have noticed for over a year. He sat near me one day, introduced himself and asked my name and where I was from right before the sermon started. He may have just been being friendly but he was there alone like I was and I think he may have been trying to show interest. I was so nervous though that I didn’t engage in any conversation after the service and walked out without giving him any reassurance that I was interested. I’ve been trying my best to be near him at church so I can have another opportunity to engage in conversation but it just hasn’t happened again. Meeting someone at church is ideal. Maybe it’s just not the right time or he’s just not the one God has for me. But I’ll be sure to say his name and smile the next time I’m by him :)
My problem is he seemed to show interest at first but then a couple weeks later he got a gf and now I'm struggling to stop thinking about him.
Thanks Mark. God bless you and your family.
So timely...❤❤
I have been "interested" in a couple men at church who weren't wearing rings. Thankfully I find out BEFORE I would invite them to pursue me. Atleast most women wear wedding rings. So that makes it easier to know at least if they are married..
Awesome
God bless!
This is so encouraging!
Mark, do you have a video regarding age gaps, God's will, and how to know if it's possible? Thank you.
Make it possible if he's a good guy 😊
Good Morning Good Afternoon Good Evening is there a video to know how if a man is pursuing a woman?
I don’t even know a person I’d want to pursue me. Dating in ones 30s is hard 😢 I can’t even go anywhere , always at home
I know the feeling😂
Oh I feel this
Great video! 👏
Amen 🙏♥️🙏✝️😇
God bless!
How about that?
Do this if you want the slowest relationship ever, and then watch him marry someone else
She’s unsure and uh no lol ( 😅
Maybe I don't want a man
I'm a guy y do your women videos keep coming to me bro
Arranged marriage is the best. None of this rubbish.
Amen. Hypergamous dating, no-fault divorce, removing Christianity from government and schools... the West has regressed to the Stone Age at this point. How far we've fallen.