Thank you ALL for your wonderful comments and words of support. We are reading every message and will endeavour to answer as many as we can over the next few days. Bless you all Rich and Fran
Thank you for sharing this very personal information. Have missed you both. Sending you sincere wishes for your health and healing. Lots of your viewers care deeply for the two of you. Loving hugs.
Feel deeply for your health Rich. Totally understand your situation, it hits you sideways even when things are good. I admire your strength to manage your thinking. You can reset, keep pressing that button.
Winnie Wallace..... Rich, what you're doing now is one of the biggest steps forward.... that's talking about it...I admire you so much and I'm positive you'll slowly get to feel better. Love to you and Fran, stay strong and God bless.
Depression really is a bummer, and I am so sorry that you have been having a bad time of it. Thank you for being open about your situation, as it helps all of us who go through our own struggles. Sending love
Rich, you are an intelligent and well intentioned person with a big heart. You have a very special partner in Fran. I can encourage you to be grateful and positive about life, but I understand what you say about black clouds that are difficult to chase away. I wish you the best.
Dear Rich, brave lovely gentleman, fills me with tears . Seen first hand how depression affects peoples lives.Now called mental health I believe . Obviously you love your own space and need it , in this country weather is not always brilliant , boat life ? To find the house where you could be part of a community , just sometimes ? Plenty of groups , some thing for every one , guitarist in a band , men’s walking groups , male singers wanted . . Perhaps the winter has affected you badly , S A D , Do hope you find a way forward .Sorry if the thought of being with people upsets you more , I do understand .
My husband suffers from bipolar disorder and depression, and I suffer from depression. I completely understand about the mental health condition making you need to pause. We are about the same age as you, and health HAS TO COME FIRST! I really enjoy your vlogs and will happily wait until you feel ready to share again. Take care! We're all rooting for you.
100% in agreement. Fran & Rich have helped us all through tough periods over the past years. Whatever time it takes to make it right for them to feel comfortable with being ‘vlog productive’ is a schedule I can easily live with. I’ll just miss them in the meantime.
Just continue to do what you feel you want to do. Whenever you want to put a vlog out there we will be waiting for you whenever you are ready. Take care both of you.
This is so hard, Rich. You have hidden it so well and been, on the surface, such a cheerful presence in our lives, such a superb photographer and bringer of joy, l for one never would have guessed what you have been going through all this time. Like everybody else, l hope that you will soon recover, and find something that will help in the future. For Fran's sake as well. Love to you both. xx
Absolutely love your vlogs and certainly appreciate your sharing about your periodic bouts of depression. Heartfelt and warm best wishes for your healing, Rich, and to both of you for allowing us into your lives.
What a brave vlog. I think most of us have fought the same demons. Exercise and volunteering has helped me. Focusing on others keeps our mind off our own pain. Praying for you
Debs says: I love every video and have watched them over and over. I never want you to feel any pressure to put out a vlog. It is a treasure to me to see the Spring flowers and to hear you two laughing and talking on your walks. There is a lot of pain in the world. My only child is dying of cancer at 39 years old, so your videos soothe and encourage me to keep going. So I will keep you in my prayers. Thank you so much. Love You.
Debs that is so sad and we both really feel for you. To know that our videos may bring you a little joy makes it worth while. We both send our love to you xx
Thank you for helping me with my issues. My PTS ( PTSD ) is with me all of time. Your videos help me deal with my every day issues. For me, I get out side viewing your videos. I can no longer walk. Please help me see the world and walk for me.
Thank you for your honesty. You are a man to be admired and Fran is a woman to be admired as well. Things will get better, they always do. Morning comes after the darkness of night and Spring will follow Winter. You both will be in my prayers, blessings to you both!
Mental health is so important and so overlooked. You two helped me through a very dark time just by watching your vlogs. You brought peace and solace during Covid times. You distracted me when the family was struggling with troubles. Thank you for your openness and honesty about your struggle with depression. It is real and not somebody can just say “pull your socks up and get on with it” or “go outside and get some fresh air and sunshine”. I’m so glad you feel you’re coming out the other side. Hugs to you both from Colorado
Winter is not helpful for anyone suffering depression. Fortunately, I don’t have the same issue but I do appreciate my SAD light in the dark days and nights of winter. You do you Rich and I hope your days are brighter very soon.
1st we all love both of you. The battle within is tough but winnable. I am in Pa U.S.A. and you have shown us so much about the canals and towns that we will never be able to see. Take your time and it will work out. Whatever you decide to do is fine with all of us i'm sure but consider taking us on your journey whatever it may be. Thanks.
I appreciate the update and your candor. Self-care and each other first, always. I'm glad you've taken time when you needed it and even more glad that you're seeing the sunshine again. Looking forward to seeing what you're getting up to when you feel up to it.
Thanks for who you both are. Rich, why some of us must have depression beats me, while our clever brains retain many memories while we learn life & for safety, it throws up some junk we’d prefer to leave alone. Most ‘creatives’ tend to have this dilemma. Painting & arts in general, is a way of overcoming & expressing ‘stuff’. When depression comes, our motivation is lost-I’m glad Fran understands how to give your brain time to reinvigorate itself. Love to you both.
Hi Rich, sorry to hear you have been down lately. You are of course a wonderful man with a wonderful wife and you both bring pleasure and love to all who follow you. I am like you and this time of year is never easy. This year I prepared for it by planting lots of Narcissus bulbs that have already started flowering and lifting my spirits. I want to send an arm to lay across your shoulders to lift you too. Ken
Guys its your life we are just voyeurs, I personally, will watch when a video goes up. Hope the sun will shine brightly again soon. Life is a river, just go with the flow.
Have a trip to see the Foxes, Colin looks like it's done him the world of good, maybe it's the way to go for u two. Keep smiling and do the best for you both nobody said life would be esey.
Your channel was a very good idea followed you on and off for the 6 years the fact you have managed to post this vlog is a huge positive step up look forward to your next post all the very best to you both. Remember when you post your positive vlogs beautiful scenery gentle pace and loverly music they bring comfort people who are sometimes feeling low.
Having just watched your video, I lost my dearest husband last year and have struggled to pick myself up in January, so listening to some one else going through it has given me a big hug, take care love watching your videos.
Thank you so much for your honesty and sharing your journey with us. Depression is a terrible condition that I suffer from as well. Much love to you and Fran. xoxo
Awww so sorry to hear you are suffering Rich but well done for speaking out and raising awareness,it's something that needs to be talked about .I hope you feel much better soon
Sorry you are going through this. I have suffered depression and anxiety for YEARS now. Your dark cloud analogy is apt. I sometimes feel like it is like sliding into an abyss. Meds have helped me, but often the only way out is to go through it. Stay strong and know that we all love and support you both! Much love from Philadelphia!
Thankyou for being 'normal' I just had mastectomy...lived on boat now don't...loads things happened last year. Struggled but looking forward . All the best lovelies xxxxxx
Rich, you are so far ahead of the game and more well planted than most. Your awareness, understanding and ability to share your issues with us puts you a cut above those who are experiencing that enveloping cloud. As stated, many vlogs ago, by a subscriber 'You and Fran are very well glued !' We should all be as fortunate. THANKS for sharing your and Fran's 'life's adventures'... the good, the bad, the ups and downs. Looking forward to many more ! Enjoy.
Good luck Rich .... It's a debilitating condition that seems to have no sensible remedy ... Just the usual Go-To that GP's HOPE will help ... Keep Smilin' though 👍🤠
I'm so sorry you are suffering with this, please know you are not alone. I love your videos so much and would miss your adventures if you stopped sharing with us. I believe your follower's are the same and we will be happy with whatever and whenever you are able to produce. Also your videos are always pristine which takes alot of time. Most of us are happy with just the basics don't feel your videos have to be long and perfect. The most important thing is we consider you to be a part of our family and would dearly miss you if you left us. I've watched all the #s 20 episodes many, many times. They're like a therapy session for me. Love to you, Fran, and the puppies!
You changed the thumbnail background colour from sky blue to pillar box red. You must be really.... into colour ? 😊 Take Care, have fun editing - I know I do
Fully understand,Rich. I grew up in New York, so I understand Long gray Winters, but now in my 80s, I enjoy the brightness of Florida. I think even at this age I would love to live on an narrow Boat, but I can't see myself getting through the winters other than Cuddling up in a fetal position and staying there until June. I've had those ups and downs all my life too. Not a severe is what you're describing.
Very sorry to hear your depression is so debilitating, Rich. I remember hearing Churchill describing his "Black dogs" were chasing him. He drank a lot which was part of his problem. I have no doubt you and Fran will work it out, she is a star, you're a lucky man there. Stay safe, young fella and Fran.
Hi Rich! Your videos, good or bad, help others, and I'm sure this one did, too. Thank you! If you haven't tried it, please consider light therapy. Even your metaphors for depression included: a dark cloud or light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for your videos. Take the time you need.
Depression is awful and hard ti explain to anyone ŵho doesn't suffer from it. Hope you feel better soon Rich and look forward to next video. Rich your photography is the best mate well done.
So sorry to hear you suffer from depression Rich. I suffer a bit from it, so I know what you are going through. It can be really difficult to get your self out of it. I find talking about it helps and I have loads of hobby's (too many really), to occupied my mind which slowly helps to gat me out of it. I hope all works out for you and your lovely wife Fran. I really enjoy your vlogs. Thanks for sharing your lives with us. God Bless. Dave M.
Never give up. Have often thought that those who experience depression are the most aware, creative and thoughtful people. People who feel deeply are the most needed humans on the planet.
Hey Rich and Fran! Have you considered light therapy as a possible treatment for seasonal depression? Clinical depression can have lots of different triggers. The UK isn’t the sunniest spot in the world to begin with but with winter comes shorter and more overcast days as well as the sun lower in the sky. Lack of enough sunlight triggering depression is a real thing. It won’t necessarily eliminate it but can be a real boost and may shorten recovery times. They have portable full spectrum interior led lights that are not energy hogs and wearable light therapy glasses that are now as small as a regular of glasses. The advantage is no drugs and it won’t impede your lifestyle. Just a thought, I don’t know if you’ve tried it but it may be worth giving it a go. It has helped my wife in the past. Her Seasonal depression is one of the major reasons why we moved to South Florida. She used to go into a depressional funk in Autumn, just knowing winter is coming, (which incidentally is actually the nicest and prettiest time of the year in Ohio). She wouldn’t feel herself again until late spring when light levels came back up and things were green again. I only mention it because of the time of the year you said your depression seems to rear its ugly head. I wish you and Fran the best. I love your channel and hope you find the solution to staying on the water ways and still having a garden. Growing things, watching them grow and working the soil is itself great therapy and good for the soul as I’m sure you know. Cheers from Wellington South Florida ☀️🌴🌴🌴🌴☀️
Well done Rich for tellng the world your feelings, its a massive step to take but one that I am sure has helped and will relate and help others so very much like myself! Nothing wrong with taking time out to regain balance within your mind and with Fran and your 2 lovely dogs by your side is all you need. The day is becomming lighter longer now, giving you more time to listen and to watch nature evolve around you. A massive achievement on the 6 years of boating life. An inspiration to so many of us who watch your vlogs, thank you. Great snoring by the way from your dogs!!! Xx
Wasn't expecting that vlog Rich thankyou for being so open about the black dog we often hear about. Your keep doing wat you know helps you with Fran and I look forward to more vlogs as and wen they come along. Keep well and all the best from Aotearoa NZ.
All the best Rich, I hope you feel better soon. I don’t like the winter months, I’m not a fan of Christmas or the cold weather so when we get to October I start feeling sad because I know what’s ahead of me. Last year we cruised through the summer and worked the winter, this year we will work the summer and hopefully go round Europe in our camper van over winter, mix things up a bit. Lots of love to you both xx
This past couple of months has seen a lot of grey days….and those grey days are the hardest! So very happy to now see the SUN….at last. I know where you are coming from. Will only get better from now on. Sending more sunny days your way. 👍🥰
Very brave totally understand I've struggled in the same way this winter .You can feel the change as the days are getting lighter hopefully your back on song soon. Take care buddy 😊
Winter is the worst. I and my depression hibernate. Spring is coming so maybe that sunshine and warmth will help. I have that hope for myself too. I'm so sick of the "I just can't" days. Take care of yourself. Vlogs can wait till you can deal with it. ❤
I have suffered from depression over the last 30 years, i was taking the same pill every day for all that time, my doctor told me the pill was old fashioned now there are new modern medicines available. If i changed medicine i would have to ween myself off the old medicine. Which i did, over a six month period I stopped taking them. I felt good for a while, but the depression started to return. So my doctor put me on a new modern pill, once a day before bed, and i have been on these for about 18 months and have not had the slightest feeling of depression, amazing. A side effect was my lifelong nail biting habit stopped and i now have finger nails. If you are,nt on modern medicine maybe you should talk to your doctor again, Best wishes.
There's always light at the end of a tunnel, unless you're in a railway tunnel and the light’s speeding towards you.😬 We're all behind you Rich, stay strong and don't walk through railway tunnels. 😊
Take care flower, its just life tripping you up flat on your face. So many of us have been there. Occasionally whilst flat on your face a herd of elephants trample over you followed by a train but amazingly if you pull yourself up and just keep putting one foot in front of the other things do gradually improve. Keep enjoying fresh air, nature and Fran xx
I will never understand why there aren't tons more resources spent on mental health issues especially when you know so many people who suffer from depression and other problems. I am so angry that the government treats it like an afterthought. All the best to you both ❤Stephen
Sending much love and admiration for making this video which so many can relate to. Sometimes depression can visit out of the blue and it can be hard to shake it off but l believe talking and as you say fresh air helps more than anything. I hope you feel happier very soon. I Love to you both ❤
Stay strong Rich, been there many years ago, but got though it, I now think of the people in war torn countries that have lost every thing but they still soldier on. Just keep making us all happy with your vlogs.
That took some going well done I to have suffered from that big black cloud over the years it’s horrible, I do think you might spend to much time in a cacophony on your boat and need to get out and meet people have a laugh and chat, enjoy your videos not many can do them like you and fran and since foxes have finished are in short supply hope to see some more soon we’ll done
Rich... I hope this doesn't sound too condescending, but you may like to get a few books regarding "Dark nights of the Soul" or, "the gift of darkness"... hopefully my gift of compassion to you... Travel safe 🧡
I keep smiling and don't give up I no all about cancer I lost my love and soul mate 3year go now packing the small holding farm up its hard I hope you feelings better soon all.the best for now take care you and fan and Richard 😊
Hi fran and rich i just wanted to say i think your both amazing and rich that was very brave of you to be so open emotionally, i have also suffered with depression in the past and iv just bought a narrowboat and nearly sold my house i can every now and then feel the depression try to creep in with the stress at the moment but i find it helps if i try to imagine it contained in a box so it doesnt get out and goes away on its own once the stress has gone though it doesnt always work but it helps
Sorry to hear about your problems hope you get to feel better soon ,winters are always tough cold damp i like a lot of people prefers the sun praying for you and jan
I just wanted to say i enjoy all your videos seeing where you both go and all the history, and thanks for sharing them with us your viewers, hope you get to that ever growing light at the end of the tunnel and that you feel more better in yourself soon
Sending positive vibes to you Rich for feeling a bit chirpier soon. Hubby has been going through similar since Christmas and it’s a bloody hard road for him and all of us around him. Thankfully I have seen some of the light start to come back into his eyes over the last week so hopefully onwards and upwards for him and for yourself as well. Take care.
Sending you both lots of love and hugs. Please don’t go we will miss you both so much. I’m the guy the said Fran is the best pilot on the canal. She’s just brilliant. Love to you both hugs and cuddles John and Monty. X
Welcome back Rich. No matter where you go or what you do, good or bad you have 37.2K people pulling for you, and Fran too. You guys are a team, and a team with a common goal/thought is invincible. How about doing a stint in Europe? A wide barge in France? Holland? Love and best wishes, cheers from Canada.
Thank you ALL for your wonderful comments and words of support. We are reading every message and will endeavour to answer as many as we can over the next few days. Bless you all Rich and Fran
Thank you for sharing this very personal information. Have missed you both. Sending you sincere wishes for your health and healing. Lots of your viewers care deeply for the two of you. Loving hugs.
Hang in there Rich, take your time.
Feel deeply for your health Rich. Totally understand your situation, it hits you sideways even when things are good.
I admire your strength to manage your thinking. You can reset, keep pressing that button.
Stay strong, theres understanding and prayers for you and Fran from Nova Sccotia.
Winnie Wallace..... Rich, what you're doing now is one of the biggest steps forward.... that's talking about it...I admire you so much and I'm positive you'll slowly get to feel better. Love to you and Fran, stay strong and God bless.
Thank you. I’ve have so much positive response to this video. Makes me feel very loved xx
Sending love and healing your way ❤xx
Depression really is a bummer, and I am so sorry that you have been having a bad time of it. Thank you for being open about your situation, as it helps all of us who go through our own struggles. Sending love
Rich, you are an intelligent and well intentioned person with a big heart. You have a very special partner in Fran. I can encourage you to be grateful and positive about life, but I understand what you say about black clouds that are difficult to chase away. I wish you the best.
Love you both dearly, you've made the right decision . Make life pleasurable and not a chore , I look forward to your next episode
Dear Rich, brave lovely gentleman, fills me with tears .
Seen first hand how depression affects peoples lives.Now called mental health I believe .
Obviously you love your own space and need it , in this country weather is not always brilliant , boat life ?
To find the house where you could be part of a community , just sometimes ?
Plenty of groups , some thing for every one , guitarist in a band , men’s walking groups , male singers wanted . .
Perhaps the winter has affected you badly , S A D ,
Do hope you find a way forward .Sorry if the thought of being with people upsets you more , I do understand .
Hoping you feel a lot better very soon, depression is terrible.
Take care.
Take care of yourself Rich.
My husband suffers from bipolar disorder and depression, and I suffer from depression. I completely understand about the mental health condition making you need to pause. We are about the same age as you, and health HAS TO COME FIRST! I really enjoy your vlogs and will happily wait until you feel ready to share again. Take care! We're all rooting for you.
100% in agreement. Fran & Rich have helped us all through tough periods over the past years. Whatever time it takes to make it right for them to feel comfortable with being ‘vlog productive’ is a schedule I can easily live with. I’ll just miss them in the meantime.
Just continue to do what you feel you want to do. Whenever you want to put a vlog out there we will be waiting for you whenever you are ready. Take care both of you.
This is so hard, Rich. You have hidden it so well and been, on the surface, such a cheerful presence in our lives, such a superb photographer and bringer of joy, l for one never would have guessed what you have been going through all this time. Like everybody else, l hope that you will soon recover, and find something that will help in the future. For Fran's sake as well. Love to you both. xx
Absolutely love your vlogs and certainly appreciate your sharing about your periodic bouts of depression. Heartfelt and warm best wishes for your healing, Rich, and to both of you for allowing us into your lives.
Thank you Barney. Best wishes to you also 👍
What a brave vlog. I think most of us have fought the same demons.
Exercise and volunteering has helped me. Focusing on others keeps our mind off our own pain. Praying for you
Debs says: I love every video and have watched them over and over. I never want you to feel any pressure to put out a vlog. It is a treasure to me to see the Spring flowers and to hear you two laughing and talking on your walks. There is a lot of pain in the world. My only child is dying of cancer at 39 years old, so your videos soothe and encourage me to keep going. So I will keep you in my prayers. Thank you so much. Love You.
Debs that is so sad and we both really feel for you. To know that our videos may bring you a little joy makes it worth while. We both send our love to you xx
My wife and I love your vlogs, and we're thinking of you both during this time. Take care.
Thank you for helping me with my issues. My PTS ( PTSD ) is with me all of time. Your videos help me deal with my every day issues. For me, I get out side viewing your videos. I can no longer walk. Please help me see the world and walk for me.
Thank you for your honesty. You are a man to be admired and Fran is a woman to be admired as well. Things will get better, they always do. Morning comes after the darkness of night and Spring will follow Winter. You both will be in my prayers, blessings to you both!
Mental health is so important and so overlooked. You two helped me through a very dark time just by watching your vlogs. You brought peace and solace during Covid times. You distracted me when the family was struggling with troubles. Thank you for your openness and honesty about your struggle with depression. It is real and not somebody can just say “pull your socks up and get on with it” or “go outside and get some fresh air and sunshine”. I’m so glad you feel you’re coming out the other side. Hugs to you both from Colorado
Thank you Jayne. It means a lot to know our videos have helped in some way x
Winter is not helpful for anyone suffering depression. Fortunately, I don’t have the same issue but I do appreciate my SAD light in the dark days and nights of winter.
You do you Rich and I hope your days are brighter very soon.
1st we all love both of you. The battle within is tough but winnable. I am in Pa U.S.A. and you have shown us so much about the canals and towns that we will never be able to see. Take your time and it will work out. Whatever you decide to do is fine with all of us i'm sure but consider taking us on your journey whatever it may be. Thanks.
Good luck rich, glad you are feeling better, keep up with the vlogs, love them ❤
I appreciate the update and your candor. Self-care and each other first, always. I'm glad you've taken time when you needed it and even more glad that you're seeing the sunshine again. Looking forward to seeing what you're getting up to when you feel up to it.
Thanks for who you both are. Rich, why some of us must have depression beats me, while our clever brains retain many memories while we learn life & for safety, it throws up some junk we’d prefer to leave alone. Most ‘creatives’ tend to have this dilemma. Painting & arts in general, is a way of overcoming & expressing ‘stuff’. When depression comes, our motivation is lost-I’m glad Fran understands how to give your brain time to reinvigorate itself. Love to you both.
Thanks for the update Rich and hopefully the black cloud lifts soon. Looking forward to the next video when you are able to make it.
Thanks Rich for a very honest vlog. Your content is always worth watching. Just hoping you reach the end of the tunnel. Great respect to you both.
Hi Rich, sorry to hear you have been down lately. You are of course a wonderful man with a wonderful wife and you both bring pleasure and love to all who follow you. I am like you and this time of year is never easy. This year I prepared for it by planting lots of Narcissus bulbs that have already started flowering and lifting my spirits. I want to send an arm to lay across your shoulders to lift you too. Ken
Nicely put.
Guys its your life we are just voyeurs, I personally, will watch when a video goes up. Hope the sun will shine brightly again soon. Life is a river, just go with the flow.
I understand all too well about depression.. Always wishing the best for you, you are the best couple on the cut for sure.
Prayers from America. We will take whatever post you are comfortable send out. Be well.
Have a trip to see the Foxes, Colin looks like it's done him the world of good, maybe it's the way to go for u two. Keep smiling and do the best for you both nobody said life would be esey.
Your channel was a very good idea followed you on and off for the 6 years the fact you have managed to post this vlog is a huge positive step up look forward to your next post all the very best to you both. Remember when you post your positive vlogs beautiful scenery gentle pace and loverly music they bring comfort people who are sometimes feeling low.
Thank you so much! We hope you soon feel better too x
👍 keep going Rich, I know it can’t be easy, But you are doing a great job.
Thank you for being so open with us. I know what you are experiencing. 25 years for me. Love your videos! I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank you for shining this light on depression. Very brave of you to have done so. Thank you for your kindness in sharing.
Love your honesty Rich, will include you in or prayers as they do help when you’re feeling down, but remember that every cloud has a silver lining
Best wishes Rich. Glad you are starting to feel better mate. Thinking of you both.
Having just watched your video, I lost my dearest husband last year and have struggled to pick myself up in January, so listening to some one else going through it has given me a big hug, take care love watching your videos.
Hi Sandra. I lost my dear friend of 20 years, last year. Grief 😔 is difficult. I just wanted to let you know you're not alone with those feelings.
Thank you so much for your honesty and sharing your journey with us. Depression is a terrible condition that I suffer from as well. Much love to you and Fran. xoxo
Awww so sorry to hear you are suffering Rich but well done for speaking out and raising awareness,it's something that needs to be talked about .I hope you feel much better soon
Oh Rich...I'm sorry for your suffering. Take care both of you n do exactly what YOU need 💛 thanks for giving us so much enjoyment
God Bless you Rich. I know exactly where you are coming from. I too become a reluctant communicator when I am down.
Cheers. Roll on Spring and summer, eh!
Sorry you are going through this. I have suffered depression and anxiety for YEARS now. Your dark cloud analogy is apt. I sometimes feel like it is like sliding into an abyss. Meds have helped me, but often the only way out is to go through it. Stay strong and know that we all love and support you both! Much love from Philadelphia!
I'm glad you're beginning to feel a little better. We'll be here for a new video when you're ready. Here's hoping for sunshine.
Thankyou for being 'normal' I just had mastectomy...lived on boat now don't...loads things happened last year. Struggled but looking forward . All the best lovelies xxxxxx
Rich, you are so far ahead of the game and more well planted than most. Your awareness, understanding and ability to share your issues with us puts you a cut above those who are experiencing that enveloping cloud. As stated, many vlogs ago, by a subscriber 'You and Fran are very well glued !' We should all be as fortunate. THANKS for sharing your and Fran's 'life's adventures'... the good, the bad, the ups and downs. Looking forward to many more ! Enjoy.
Thank you so much
Good luck Rich .... It's a debilitating condition that seems to have no sensible remedy ... Just the usual Go-To that GP's HOPE will help ... Keep Smilin' though 👍🤠
I'm so sorry you are suffering with this, please know you are not alone. I love your videos so much and would miss your adventures if you stopped sharing with us. I believe your follower's are the same and we will be happy with whatever and whenever you are able to produce. Also your videos are always pristine which takes alot of time. Most of us are happy with just the basics don't feel your videos have to be long and perfect. The most important thing is we consider you to be a part of our family and would dearly miss you if you left us. I've watched all the #s 20 episodes many, many times. They're like a therapy session for me. Love to you, Fran, and the puppies!
Thank you
Thank you for sharing Rich. There will be many people who will watch this and be grateful for your candor. I am.
Your a good man hang in there life is hard
Sorry to hear about your depression.
You changed the thumbnail background colour from sky blue to pillar box red. You must be really.... into colour ? 😊 Take Care, have fun editing - I know I do
Fully understand,Rich.
I grew up in New York, so I understand Long gray Winters, but now in my 80s, I enjoy the brightness of Florida. I think even at this age I would love to live on an narrow Boat, but I can't see myself getting through the winters other than Cuddling up in a fetal position and staying there until June.
I've had those ups and downs all my life too. Not a severe is what you're describing.
Very sorry to hear your depression is so debilitating, Rich. I remember hearing Churchill describing his "Black dogs" were chasing him. He drank a lot which was part of his problem. I have no doubt you and Fran will work it out, she is a star, you're a lucky man there. Stay safe, young fella and Fran.
Hi Rich! Your videos, good or bad, help others, and I'm sure this one did, too. Thank you! If you haven't tried it, please consider light therapy. Even your metaphors for depression included: a dark cloud or light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for your videos. Take the time you need.
Depression is awful and hard ti explain to anyone ŵho doesn't suffer from it. Hope you feel better soon Rich and look forward to next video. Rich your photography is the best mate well done.
So sorry to hear you suffer from depression Rich. I suffer a bit from it, so I know what you are going through. It can be really difficult to get your self out of it. I find talking about it helps and I have loads of hobby's (too many really), to occupied my mind which slowly helps to gat me out of it. I hope all works out for you and your lovely wife Fran. I really enjoy your vlogs. Thanks for sharing your lives with us. God Bless. Dave M.
Never give up. Have often thought that those who experience depression are the most aware, creative and thoughtful people. People who feel deeply are the most needed humans on the planet.
I think that is very true. Thank you
Hey Rich and Fran! Have you considered light therapy as a possible treatment for seasonal depression? Clinical depression can have lots of different triggers. The UK isn’t the sunniest spot in the world to begin with but with winter comes shorter and more overcast days as well as the sun lower in the sky. Lack of enough sunlight triggering depression is a real thing. It won’t necessarily eliminate it but can be a real boost and may shorten recovery times. They have portable full spectrum interior led lights that are not energy hogs and wearable light therapy glasses that are now as small as a regular of glasses. The advantage is no drugs and it won’t impede your lifestyle. Just a thought, I don’t know if you’ve tried it but it may be worth giving it a go. It has helped my wife in the past. Her Seasonal depression is one of the major reasons why we moved to South Florida. She used to go into a depressional funk in Autumn, just knowing winter is coming, (which incidentally is actually the nicest and prettiest time of the year in Ohio). She wouldn’t feel herself again until late spring when light levels came back up and things were green again. I only mention it because of the time of the year you said your depression seems to rear its ugly head. I wish you and Fran the best. I love your channel and hope you find the solution to staying on the water ways and still having a garden. Growing things, watching them grow and working the soil is itself great therapy and good for the soul as I’m sure you know. Cheers from Wellington South Florida ☀️🌴🌴🌴🌴☀️
Well done Rich for tellng the world your feelings, its a massive step to take but one that I am sure has helped and will relate and help others so very much like myself! Nothing wrong with taking time out to regain balance within your mind and with Fran and your 2 lovely dogs by your side is all you need. The day is becomming lighter longer now, giving you more time to listen and to watch nature evolve around you. A massive achievement on the 6 years of boating life. An inspiration to so many of us who watch your vlogs, thank you. Great snoring by the way from your dogs!!! Xx
Wasn't expecting that vlog Rich thankyou for being so open about the black dog we often hear about. Your keep doing wat you know helps you with Fran and I look forward to more vlogs as and wen they come along. Keep well and all the best from Aotearoa NZ.
All the best Rich, I hope you feel better soon.
I don’t like the winter months, I’m not a fan of Christmas or the cold weather so when we get to October I start feeling sad because I know what’s ahead of me. Last year we cruised through the summer and worked the winter, this year we will work the summer and hopefully go round Europe in our camper van over winter, mix things up a bit. Lots of love to you both xx
We will be here for when you are ready to post. Take care 🤗
This past couple of months has seen a lot of grey days….and those grey days are the hardest! So very happy to now see the SUN….at last. I know where you are coming from. Will only get better from now on. Sending more sunny days your way. 👍🥰
Very brave totally understand I've struggled in the same way this winter .You can feel the change as the days are getting lighter hopefully your back on song soon. Take care buddy 😊
Winter is the worst. I and my depression hibernate. Spring is coming so maybe that sunshine and warmth will help. I have that hope for myself too. I'm so sick of the "I just can't" days. Take care of yourself. Vlogs can wait till you can deal with it. ❤
I have suffered from depression over the last 30 years, i was taking the same pill every day for all that time, my doctor told me the pill was old fashioned now there are new modern medicines available.
If i changed medicine i would have to ween myself off the old medicine. Which i did, over a six month period I stopped taking them. I felt good for a while, but the depression started to return.
So my doctor put me on a new modern pill, once a day before bed, and i have been on these for about 18 months and have not had the slightest feeling of depression, amazing. A side effect was my lifelong nail biting habit stopped and i now have finger nails. If you are,nt on modern medicine maybe you should talk to your doctor again, Best wishes.
There's always light at the end of a tunnel, unless you're in a railway tunnel and the light’s speeding towards you.😬
We're all behind you Rich, stay strong and don't walk through railway tunnels. 😊
Take care flower, its just life tripping you up flat on your face. So many of us have been there. Occasionally whilst flat on your face a herd of elephants trample over you followed by a train but amazingly if you pull yourself up and just keep putting one foot in front of the other things do gradually improve. Keep enjoying fresh air, nature and Fran xx
Thanks for sharing Rich 👍🏻
I will never understand why there aren't tons more resources spent on mental health issues especially when you know so many people who suffer from depression and other problems. I am so angry that the government treats it like an afterthought. All the best to you both ❤Stephen
Sending much love and admiration for making this video which so many can relate to. Sometimes depression can visit out of the blue and it can be hard to shake it off but l believe talking and as you say fresh air helps more than anything. I hope you feel happier very soon. I Love to you both ❤
Stay strong Rich, been there many years ago, but got though it, I now think of the people in war torn countries that have lost every thing but they still soldier on. Just keep making us all happy with your vlogs.
WOW you are on the way back or you would not have made this video! My profound respext to you and please keep on!
That took some going well done I to have suffered from that big black cloud over the years it’s horrible, I do think you might spend to much time in a cacophony on your boat and need to get out and meet people have a laugh and chat, enjoy your videos not many can do them like you and fran and since foxes have finished are in short supply hope to see some more soon we’ll done
Thank you so much for sharing and hope things will get better in the future, so hope more vlogs 😉
Bless you two!❤🙏
Rich... I hope this doesn't sound too condescending, but you may like to get a few books regarding "Dark nights of the Soul" or, "the gift of darkness"... hopefully my gift of compassion to you... Travel safe 🧡
Thank you
I keep smiling and don't give up I no all about cancer I lost my love and soul mate 3year go now packing the small holding farm up its hard I hope you feelings better soon all.the best for now take care you and fan and Richard 😊
Hi fran and rich i just wanted to say i think your both amazing and rich that was very brave of you to be so open emotionally, i have also suffered with depression in the past and iv just bought a narrowboat and nearly sold my house i can every now and then feel the depression try to creep in with the stress at the moment but i find it helps if i try to imagine it contained in a box so it doesnt get out and goes away on its own once the stress has gone though it doesnt always work but it helps
Sorry to hear about your problems hope you get to feel better soon ,winters are always tough cold damp i like a lot of people prefers the sun praying for you and jan
The sun always comes out , sometimes revealing a rainbow ! Sending positive thoughts .
Sending love to you Rich. Xxx
I just wanted to say i enjoy all your videos seeing where you both go and all the history, and thanks for sharing them with us your viewers, hope you get to that ever growing light at the end of the tunnel and that you feel more better in yourself soon
Go Rich! Kudos to you for this. I know depression. I salute you!
keep your chin up mate there is light at the end of the tunnel ,u have a great life enjoy each others company and just relax .
Sending positive vibes to you Rich for feeling a bit chirpier soon. Hubby has been going through similar since Christmas and it’s a bloody hard road for him and all of us around him. Thankfully I have seen some of the light start to come back into his eyes over the last week so hopefully onwards and upwards for him and for yourself as well. Take care.
Thank you Julie. Hope your hubby is feeling better
Awww Rich!! Sending love & hugs....depression sucks and winter tends to be the hardest. I feel for you.
Fully understand where you’re coming from Rich, keep well, keep on keeping on!
Yay! See you soon.❤
Sending you both lots of love and hugs. Please don’t go we will miss you both so much. I’m the guy the said Fran is the best pilot on the canal. She’s just brilliant. Love to you both hugs and cuddles John and Monty. X
Thank you and you are right about me being the best driver!😁😁We will still be here with our videos so don't worry.
Don't panic, make another cup of tea. Stay safe and well. You will never walk alone.
Take your time brother I know where you are coming from x
Welcome back Rich. No matter where you go or what you do, good or bad you have 37.2K people pulling for you, and Fran too. You guys are a team, and a team with a common goal/thought is invincible. How about doing a stint in Europe? A wide barge in France? Holland? Love and best wishes, cheers from Canada.