Reacting to TikTok Gender INSANITY
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- Опубликовано: 28 дек 2023
- Can men menstruate? Is “passing” as a trans person a form of pretty privilege? Is being misgendered a traumatizing event that should invoke streams of tears? Decide for yourself as we watch and react to some absolute gender insanity from TikTok.
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As a young man with long hair, I very often got misgendered. I couldn’t have given two hoots. It happened all through my teens. Right up to about 20. I never broke down, I never cried I never freaked out. I never screamed. Why? Mental stability…… let they sink in. It’s NOT being misgendered that makes you react that way, it’s mental instability… and only you can address that.
100%👏🏻
Exactly!!
They hate themselves so much that they look to strangers to make them feel better. And some of us don’t care to do that at all. I have my own struggles, and one of them is not gonna be remembering how to reference you in conversation.
Have you considered growing a beard?
I had the same experience. I was a gay teen during the emo/scene trend and had long shoulder length hair. Im also gay so i mainly hung out with women and i would constantly be misgendered but i never reacted because i was self confident and assured in who i was and didnt punish myself or anyone else for an honest mistake.
I had a lesbian who worked for me. She looked a lot like a dude, but never claimed to be a dude. People called her sir regularly, never bothered her.
My niece is exactly like this…. She is a lesbian, she calls herself a dike, and she dresses like a guy, shaves her head like a guy, a lot of her mannerisms are that of a man but she fully owns being a woman!
She used to want to be a boy when we were young but now as an adult she is completely comfortable and happy in her own skin. She just smiles when people call her sir because it’s the look she is going for but she tells them (when it’s necessary) that she is a girl. She doesn’t make a fuss about it at all.
I’m so grateful this nonsense wasn’t popular when we were young because I believe she would’ve been sucked into it, especially since she suffers from bipolar and anxiety disorders.
It never bothers mentally healthy people
Because, as an *actual* women (i.e. an adult human female), she was confident in the stability of her identity as a material/physical reality, and therefore something which exists independently of whatever language others refer to her with.
This is not the case for those who "identify" as the opposite sex: such an identity depends upon and *requires* the participation of other people-- through their language and how they interact with said person-- in order to be affirmed and validated. If other people don't play along in validating the internal self-perception of a male who "identifies" as a woman, for example, then that identity becomes meaningless. This is why many of them become so irate at "misgendering" and why you'll often hear them refer to it as a "denial" of their "existence".
I have also been misgendered even when I had long hair and a large chest. I am a lesbian but even before I came out people would misgender me... not an issue. I have short hair now and I’m masculine so I can’t and don’t blame them. I am female biologically and have absolutely no desire to be male but at the end of the day others don’t need to validate you. I don’t even have a problem if someone has a issue with me being lesbian as long as they don’t threaten or physically hurt me because again I’m secure in my sexual orientation and don’t need that reassurance or conformation from others and I don’t get to control what others think or feel. To be honest I am so sick of these people.
I got called Sir at Home Depot the other week there with my stepfather. The lady asked "how are you doing today Sir?" Then said to me "how about you Sir did you find what you needed?" My step-dad gave me a giggle and I said we're doing good today, thank you. It's not that big of a deal lol. I have short messy hair and a lot of tattoos. She didn't say it on purpose to Insult me. People need to get it together. Most of the time it's not that deep.
"They distill womanhood down to wearing a wig, putting on makeup, putting on women's clothes and then complaining about having gone through a terrible period..." " If that does not scream misogyny to you, I don't know what does." Perfectly stated in every way
When I was around 13-14 years old, I was in a friend group who were all very openly queer/bi/trans/gay etc.
All were VERY LGBTQ. One day after shopping with my mum (my best friend), in the car on the way home I said to her. "Mum I think I might be Bi."
She looked at me in the passenger seat, took 5 seconds and said, "I don't think you are."
Guess what? I'M NOT. I was simply leaning that women can look at other women and appreciate their beauty. That was it.
The people you surround yourself with influence you HEAVILY, thats why it's important to have several influences of different types, and be open minded.
Wait, so just because you’re not bi, do you think it’s not real? Aesthetic attraction is when you appreciate someone’s beauty, with no romantic or s3xu@l feelings involved, ofc I don’t know u so I wouldn’t know if that’s what u we’re experiencing, but it sounds like it to me. Bi ppl definitely exist lol, God bless and have a good day :))
@@Zeonixi She wasn't saying it isn't real. She was saying she was influenced by people and wasn't actually bisexual.
@@CeCilia-ob5em that’s fine, I just know there’s lots of ppl who think that sort of stuff isn’t even real, but if she thinks she was influenced by her friends that’s ok too. She thought she was bi and realised she wasn’t, which is why she no longer identifies as bi, however some ppl seem to think that you can be influenced to the point u r bi urself, which isn’t how it works. I just wanted that to be known, but Ty for clearing that up for me! Have a good day/night :))
this is so true! for me it was the internet and a friend. tiktok told us that if we were girls and hated our bodies it meant that we were trans guys. in reality, we were just going through puberty and we were learning to adjust to our changed body. im not saying trans people don't exist, but this blind affirmation of gender dysphoria (without actually trying to see where the actual problem is coming from) is the reason why there are so many detransitioners.
@@Zeonixibut you can be influenced to that point though. Not that they make you believe it, but more like you are surrounded by it and you begin to think that you might be it too.
In high school I had a lesbian friend (who is ACTUALLY lesbian), and for I second I thought I may be one too because I had not had a boyfriend or my first kiss, while all the other girls in the classroom had. I was 15 back then. But then I stopped for a second and realized I was sexually attracted to men. My questioning of my sexuality didn’t last to long, and it was very subtle. But what I’m trying to say is that if I’m very straight, and I often reflect upon myself, my habits and my life, and I like to be logic, ended up having the same doubts because I had a lesbian friend, imagine someone who is constantly surrounded by a whole group of people who is queer (or who think they are), or someone who constantly consumes this kind of media.
I honestly don’t think that there are that many gays or lesbian, etc. I mean, there are, but it is a small percentage of people
It’s truly insulting for them to say they are having a period. No. You are not. You do not have a uterus that sheds its lining every month and makes you bleed and in intense pain for about a week (for most women)…. Insulting.
Are you single?
I had a girlfriend who has dysmenorrhea and she often has intense prolonged pain during her period. She is often bedridden many times for days because of it. No man can experience that, no matter how many surgeries or hormones they have, and I as a man also think it's insulting and self-centered to think you as a man can experience that.
Just like women cannot experience what it's like to be a biological man with testicles, a real penis, and the wiring and plumbing and ups and downs (no pun intended, or was it...?) that come with all of that.
There is also being sick to your stomach, inense headaches, being in such a bad mood you don't want to be around yourself, wanting to eat everything sweet....and crying for no reason....... 😢
And the pain that comes with ovulation, I get nasty back pain from that too.
What's really hilarious is how happy they are to be getting one. That right there shows they're delusional. What actual woman gets any enjoyment out of being on the rag.
Who else feels like they're having a prolonged nightmare from which they can't awaken?
me, usa is doomed.
you know in some places around the world it’s considered a sin, or they don’t even know what trans, non binary, or whatever else is. America is rotting day by day i feel like.
Exactly.
I also have the horror of having my necessary, legal, medical treatment, which includes American prescription fentanyl be taken away because of the criminals, which is kind of something that I have been dreading since it came out publicly that China was planning to do this in 2008.
@@rachelmarie2228I agree. It pisses me off that addicts and criminals can get what they want, but your medication is on the line.
Me. I do. Yep. This #%$! has gone STUPID-crazy, and I'm starting to wonder if I got lost somewhere in a time-warp kinda thing, or a brain-injury where I've been the one gone crazy and can't see reality... or what. But yeah, it's nightmarish to the Extreme.
Something tells me David Lynch is behind it somehow, somewhy
So privileged to have misgendering be the biggest problem in their lives.
Great comment 💯
Yeah totally they're predominantly wealthy or middleclass white children
That’s one of many ironies these types keep missing. The fact that anyone would have to try THIS hard to appear so deeply troubled is the proof of how wholly untroubled they are.
Yup, you hit the nail on the head!
Just because you aren’t being hit by a truck doesn’t mean a headache isn’t still bad. Varying degrees. Being misgendered and feeling out of place HURTS. I have struggled with that AND anxiety AND self harm AND depression AND was contemplating suicide. Don’t minimize ppls issues yall
“Cosplaying the womanhood experience” is the most accurate statement I’ve heard in a while! Thank you!
I wear traditionally men’s clothing for work, and I am a biological woman, but I cannot tell you how many times in a day I get called sir. The difference is I DO NOT CARE. Personally, I’m more honored that they would call me sir instead of hey dude because they are trying to be respectful.
Good maaners matter❤
I don't understand how did these things become sooo important... Hell some people are plain I N S A N E.
Same. I've been called sir, mate, "the man". Literally don't care.
I'm on my period right now (my first after having a baby and breast feeding) and the rage is real at a man thinking he can go through this. I'm sitting here, in pain, in a damn adult diaper I have left from post partum because it's so bad... So just, no.
A man will never be able to do what you’re doing. You got this.
You are women doing an amazing God-given thing ! No one can take that away from you 😊
Congratulations on your baby! 💛💛 I hope you had a good labor and are recovering well. Sending lots of love from one mom to another. Motherhood can be tough on your body, please be gentle towards yourself in this time of transition to being a mom and sharing your body with your new born. 💛
I feel your pain and fully agree with your statement
God has blessed us women as the giver of life, the holy passage where souls can have the human experience. You are gonna be okay and a great mom. You got this.
Worked with a woman who smoked 60 cigs a day. Never heard a woman with such a deep, gravelly voice before or since. Literally everyone who spoke to her called her sir. She didn't look like a man but no-one could match the voice with a woman. She found it hilarious.
When I heard Unbreak My Heart (by Toni Braxton) the very first time, I thought it was sung by a guy. 😂 When I saw it was a gorgeous woman with a powerful voice, I was floored.
Because she knew she was a woman...
@@monicanavarro2906I'm a musician so I instantly recognized that voice as female BUT I was also floored how deep she can sing. Unbreak My Heart was amazing. Still is a great song. Very few baritone female singers out there.
I love how compassionate you are towards them. As someone who’s tried out a lot of different pronouns and identities, and finally settled on the ones I had in the first place, I can speak to how much pain and stress I was feeling during that chapter of my life. Healing from trauma and learning to love oneself can be such a painful journey. I really appreciate your gentleness and compassion towards people who are still in the darkest part of that journey.
I am genuinely confused as to how trans women think they get periods. What does the estrogen react to in the male body to make that happen?? It's like saying that a woman who takes testosterone can get an erection.
Mental derangement and narcissism with a spoonful of them being a poor victim is how.
You don't have to be confused. They are. So why are you confused about their confusion. Why doubt reality just because confused people are doubting theirs. Just reject the notion of their delusions. When I hear stuff like this I just don't even entertain it.
I think it is more like saying a woman who takes testosterone can produce sperm. Which of course will never happen. A man cannot have a period nor will he ever be able to get pregnant or breastfeed. It is so delusional my head will soon start to spin. (The clitoris erects aswell even though it doesn’t show so much.)
Good example, never even thought about that comparison, thanks 👏
LMAO imagine saying this to them. This is good I did not think of the opposite side either.
Imagine wanting to have a monthly period. Please, take mine. SMH. Have a great weekend, everyone!!! :)
What they really should want is the every three weeks bloodbath and energy sapping horror that is endometriosis. Since they want the full range of human experience. Oh, and PMS that makes you want to unalive yourself or someone else.
They can have mine as well! I'm sick of missing out on Muay Thai lessons because my body decides to bleed every month.
It's been said by many people now and I agree that trans women these days just act how they think girls act and is just stereotyping
@@markling5058 I agree to a certain extent but having a period (or pregnancy or lactating) isn’t a stereotype, it’s a biological function. The men who pretend to have periods aren’t trying to copy a stereotype, they’re trying to mimic female experience because they have a fetish. You can look up these fetishes if you dare or you could just have a pleasant day 😊.
@@littlecatfeet9064what do you call that fetish?
Biological woman here: I went with a gay, male friend of mine to an all male clinic and was asked by two people if I was trans. I laughed and said no, they said if I was I’d be the prettiest trans girl ever, and I took it as whatever. I was at an all male clinic, so it’s not a surprise to have people think “wait, she might be a he”. I think that counts as misgendering? lol, even if I was upset about it, I put myself in a situation where it was supposed to be only males and I cannot fault obvious trains of thought.
For the special ed teacher who was called a "beautiful king" by one of her students and had "gender euphoria" you know that a special ed elementary schooler's characterization of you probably doesn't even have much to do with how you look to the world. They are probably more confused with the rest of us.
A great Chinese philosopher once said:
"Just because you're unattractive and have no friends doesn't mean you are another gender."
---- Wing Phat, 12th.Century
LOLOLOL
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😂😂😂
No ... . . really . . . . . 😮😅
@@prashantsaini1363
Yes.....really.....
Wing Phat was a very wise man.
I honestly don’t understand this new generation. Looking at these tik toks makes me lose hope in humanity.
Me neither, and apparently I’m part of this generation
@@pandoratheclay Same
Don’t worry which generation you’re in, it’s affecting us all. Just look at the majority of trans women they’re all middle aged men
It's like these crazies aren't even the same species. I swear I think humans are devolving
They are very unhappy people struggling with serious mental illness. And we aren’t doing anything to help them. Seems enabling is the only answer which is terrifying.
Being a woman takes effort. These men need to realize.
I've had so many friends and people I grew up with falling into these identity crisis traps. It's really sad, and I see how hard it is on them and their families.
I blame the medical industrial complex for perpetuating what they clearly know to be a delusional way of thinking in the education system.
Hey Amala! I am a 12 year old girl, and you are one of my role-models. I love watching your videos! You inspire me, and wake me up from the mess of the world! Thank you so much, and continue posting! Don't let any of the hate bring you down, because people like me, your fans, are here and supporting you on everything! Keep being the good person you are, keep striving to do the very best, and work hard.
Lots of love, and happy new years!
-Riley
You’re 12?! Good for you my love! You’re wise beyond your years-an old soul. Carry yourself with pride-you’re a rare gem in these times❣️🥰
@@Deam7666 thank you so much!! Take care of yourself 💕
I'm 15 nice to see another young person here ❤❤❤ lots of love - Audrey
What an incredibly well rounded, empathetic yet genuine and realistic young lady you are!! 💕✨🥹. I have a 12 year old daughter and she’s homeschooled. I introduced her to Amala as well because I love her so much!!
I feel more productive role models who are secure and content within themselves and are perfectly fine with not adhering to the hive mind shenanigans going on nowadays are sorely missing… particularly during adolescence which is already such a trying time as it as.
I am 33 and still discover new things about myself every single day and so it really hurts me to see so many young people who are so blatantly neglected and lost and are making irreversible decisions that will continue to color their lives / futures forevermore.
I say all of this to say I am SO proud of you even though I don’t know you, you will be a shining light to your generation and a great sense of hope that the future won’t just continue to become more and more distanced from reality. You are SO well spoken, well rounded, reality rooted breath of fresh air and a leader in a time where people of all ages are seeming to be so distraught and lost and are looking for ANYTHING or ANYONE to follow / emulate / be “influenced” or affirmed by instead of turning within and learning to give themselves love and it’s really sad.
All my love to you and your loved ones, they’ve done a wonderful job in raising you in this crazy, chaotic world. Happy New Year, I hope it’s an incredible year of prosperity and continued growth for you sweetheart!!! ✨💕🫶🏽
If you are happy about having your period, YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN. I was never happier than when I finally got through menopause!!!
This!
LMAO! ME TOO!
For me I get happy because that means my body is normal and that I'm not pregnant
@jamiejamieson8613 I agree with you. I hate when I'm on periods, but hey, it means that I'm not pregnant. And that's such a relief for me~
Amen sister!
This can’t be said enough: how is affirming delusion a life saving action, when the life in question is at risk from itself? Did we get rid of peanuts because kids with allergies would be tempted to eat them?
Kinda. If you bring peanuts to a kids event, you'll be shunned and exiled and never be allowed back. Yes, exaggerating but not by much. My best friend has a 17yr old daughter. The issues with making all foods free of the most popular allergies (especially when anaphylaxis is induced) have been ridiculous. If you're kid is deathly allergic to something, how is it our responsibility to micromanage whether the kid is dumb enough to eat it. Tell the kid the situation and start teaching them to beware now. Even adults make mistakes and are exposed to severe allergens. That's why if you have one you carry an epipen. Every classroom and most public places have them. Like you said, we didn't actually outlaw peanuts and bees.
@@MrMcCuinn soon enough taxpayers will be covering crack and crystal meth to save addicts from offing themselves… yes I know what methadone is and we already pay for it.
You do great work here. Unpacking what many people may not be able to unpack with clarity and compassion. Thank you.
Ima be honest I think all this gender stuff is insane. I remember when at worst male and female would be confused by voice or presentation and most would just be like sorry that's wrong.
When you are confronted by this, just ask the trans "person": When you were a man, would you turn into a blubbering mess if someone misgendered you? Or because you are supposedly a woman now, you are expected to by an emotional messy embarrassment?
Someone referred to me as "dude" on my teeny tiny channel, and that doesn't bother me. I am female, but since I don't use a webcam or microphone, there's no way to know my sex so it's a very easy mistake to make. While playing a dino MMO game with a community server though, I referred to a guy with a typically female-sounding name and soft voice as "she" and their friend whom I thought was my friend too proceeded to bite my head off about misgendering them and not checking their profile for pronouns. The one I misgendered in questioned wasn't even that bothered, just the other guy. And apparently that other person brought it up with other people after that, so one of my other friends was being more careful so they wouldn't get harsh verbal treatment from that person as well. That guy then later misgendered a female friend on the server, which I heard about after the fact. I could have given him the same treatment, but I let it go to not stir up unnecessary drama. I'm kinda passive aggressive though, so I really REALLY wanted to.
@@jaysonspears464"Or because you (...) emotional messy embarrassment?"
Dylan Mulvaney would probably answer yes.
if my kids teacher was nonbinary i would definitely move them to a different school. One thing about these people is they will never shut up about it.
People don't shut up about anything, we're all saying shit's fucked and we're all pointing fingers at eachother for it :p for example, you're watching a prudish pearl clutching conservative attempt a neutral demeanour when she obviously sees transgenderism as morally equivalent to teaching kids in leather fetish gear 😛 if anything it's actually really weird how you lot would attribute sexual connotations with a 10 year old boy painting his finger nails or playing with a dollhouse, and you will probably be the next generation of parents who hate left handedness
Small correction, if your kids' teacher "claimed" to be nonbinary. They can't actually be something that doesn't exist.
Idk, it’s mostly adults that don’t shut up about it. The teens ik who are non binary don’t really mention it and deal with being “misgendered” much better than adults who claim to be non binary or trans. They usually just say “oh, I go by they(or whatever they use)!” Very non chalantly. They don’t take it personally.
Wouldn't work. Homeschooling is the only way
First teacher meet I would walk out and homeschool. It’s to much 😢😂
I've gone through my own identity crisis in my teenage years but not regarding my gender/ sexuality instead i couldn't figure out if I was more black or more white until i realised i was neither and both, perhaps the best of both.
They are not happy, they are coping and in self denial of their pain. Make the insane stop!
5 years ago, I never would've cared if a child of mine was in a class taught by a transgender individual.
2 years ago, I wouldn't have cared so long as it wasn't discussed at all in the classroom.
Today, I wouldn't even want my child in a school that hires someone with that kind of mental affliction, hired specifically to help educate and nurture my child's developing brain in ways which will unarguably impact who they become on a fundamental level. So much has changed in so little time, it honestly kind of scares me. God help us all🙏🏻🙏🏻
By condoning one clown, you let in the entire circus. Yes, people like you are partially to blame. I yelled at my daughters school and parents like you, who claimed I was over-reacting and intolerant, because they were being taught by someone who had obvious identity issues. Until at least 3 kids in 1 class started getting identity issues by the time they reached age 6/7, and the school started to teach lgbtq sexuality in grade 2, allowed by the goverment in Canada. By the time she reached grade 3 I had to take her out, as her classmate would say the most vile things, spurred on by her woke parents, due to our personal views on gender Identity and the right for my child to not engage in politics at age 6/7. And I mean death treats. People like the idea of tolerance in theory, until they realize they are tolerating perversity on a much larger ( behavioral) scale than they were barganing for in actual reality.
Same. Im homosexual and I became more and more scared of those people and borderline intolerant regarding them cause of all the damages done to kids, women and homosexuals (LGBs); 3 yrs ago i was like "oh if a little boy want to wear a princess dress to school, its ok, social transition isnt surgery so its fine, theyll grow out of it"; now im like "nope, na, theyll be encouraged even more to go down the medical path, no, no, no ,no..."
In a study, a group of neurologists where asked to identify the sex of the person based off their brain(since there are physical differences) & when encountering a trans man for example, he had a typical male brain. Same goes for trans females and when encountering a non-binary person they couldn’t easily identify the sex of the person which validates the existence of trans-ness. I’m wondering what has caused u to feel that they should be othered or invalidated and what exactly changed your mind(genuine)
@@Kinda_gayngl yeah thats not true
I was the same I used to not care and be a very big supporter of the LGB community before these people started losing their damn mind and making being trans or their sexuality their ENTIRE and only personality trait. Now has a teacher too I see how much kids want to get into grown folk’s businesses and how teachers that are part of the LGBT whatever indoctrinate kids into this ideology and way of thinking. It’s also pushed down their throats with the internet and social media and how kids are getting on to these sites at a younger and younger age. I remember when I was in school I didn’t know a damn thing about my teachers personal life I grew up thinking teachers didn’t even have a life outside of school. I remember when people said gay is not a choice. Now they say sexuality and gender are a “spectrum” no the fuck it is not. These people change their gender or sexual orientation at the drop of a hat. Kids shouldn’t be involved or know anything about that. My niece now claims to be a boy and started saying she is trans at the age of 10(now 14)How can anyone really think a 10 year old child can make that life changing decision for themselves? A 10 year old shouldn’t even know what that means. My 11 year old nephew who has never show any romantic interest in girls or boys is now saying he is bi WHY WOULD AN 11 YEAR OLD EVEN THINK OF SEXUALITY? My sister is about to be 30 she’s been married since she was 17 now they are “Polly” and “share” a girlfriend. The world is fucking wild. No one would even think this stuff up if it wasn’t introduced to them in the first place.
So now no I would not let my children be taught by a trans person because I do not want them poisoning my kids mind with made up BS. LET KIDS BE KIDS.
I’m 32, came out to my sister recently as bisexual, recently like last week. It was no big deal, I didn’t record myself. We were chatting about dating and she asked about this person I’ve been seeing and she asked “What’s her name?” I just said “His name is .” It wasn’t emotional, it was just us talking like we always do. We’re close as siblings and have been for like 20 years. I told her she better not start acting differently around me because I’m not some victim or “PC little b*”. She asked me about this guy I’m seeing and she just replied “That’s gay.” I laughed because I have a sense of humor, not a sense of inherent victimhood.
That's Gay af !!! : D wish You both The Best!!
Honestly how it should be, why is sexuality such a huge deal to people? Ur sexual attraction towards someone shouldn’t be the base of ur entire existence. Good for you! Wish you two the best ❤
haha i came out to my sister the same way when I was 15, I'm 18 now still bi :p
I find it so funny that Amala can keep a straight face while watching Diddy’s coming out video 😂
I saw a video of a granny sayin omg it’s that long plethora let me get a chair when asking how someone lgbt identifies and laughed so hard I couldn’t stop🤣💀😭
Lol I saw it too😂
i am personally getting so tired of this gender fest. people scream" STOP LABELING ME , STOP PUTTING ME IN A BOX" but here they are stuffing there " gender " down your throat and putting the LABEL they desire on you. im a old lady( mid 40s) and i am just getting tired of all this , because in the end most genders mean the same thing just in a different coat
You are not old.
You can wait thinking you are old at least for 20 years. Don't waist your middle aged years by thinking you are old, like I did. ❤
I am just here to remind you that 40s = not old!!! You are not old!
"im a old lady( mid 40s)"
That's not old. (Unless you mean born mid-1940s.)
@@knrdvmmlbkkn lol nope from 1977
@@nimsi9436" lol nope from 1977"
So not all that old. You might have more than half your life left.
I agree, Amala. This whole thing seems like a mental health epidemic.
It is 😒
But we are expected to affirm their “identity”.
@@debragoodner6608 No way am I affirming anything. If they can't figure out how to be happy without me praising them, then too f**king bad. I'm not participating in their weird social experiment.
its the internet.. It became a trend as well as social contagion and then comes the mental health issues mixed with strange parenting styles.. Its a mess
And all by design no less. Physiological abuse is the preferred weapon at the moment and that is why it is not getting any real attention.
Amala your facial reactions and one liners are hysterical ..your very talented.
I am Nigerian and we don’t have any he and she pronouns in Yoruba so it’s so common for Nigerian parents to ‘Misgender’ their kids in English. Did I ever sob uncontrollably- no. Did I ever think I was a man-no. It’s definitely a mental health crisis.
I hate the word pronoun now
😂 I recommend watching menno gender pronouns song 👍 he is hilarious.
Yup, they honestly ruin everything😒
It's better than an amateur noun
@@mikeking683 watch the gender pronouns song by menno so hilarious
I dislike seeing she/her or he/him written under someone's name in workplace emails and letters. I wonder if at some workplaces this is compulsory now?
I was clinically diagnosed as mentally unwell as a teen. Always felt I was the crazy one. Now I find that I'm not the looniest crazy anymore, and I don't like it. Lol
If you know what a woman is, (an adult female human), then you are very sane my friend. It takes a great deal of insanity to deny reality like that.
@@noonesishome Because of my condition it is very important for me to stay grounded. And I'd rather live a truth than high in the clouds living a lie. These things that are happening now even I can't fathom the crazy.
I love how you come at things with a respectful and empathetic place. Keep doing what you’re doing!
something i can’t wrap my head around is they get mad when they get “misgendered” but present themselves as masculine or feminine. like pls pick a struggle
I don't mind stepping on a person's delusion of having a period. At all. We have to stand up for truth.
Let’s repeat ,she said she had gender euphoria after being affirmed by a kid…
Is she a MAP? Is it a fetish?
She should not work with children.
It's disgusting
What's disgusting? Kids do not have difficulty with this. It's the adults that complicate it. When my best friend's daughter was 4 she asked her mom if me and my husband love each other like grandma and grandpa? (My friend was already divorced.) She said yes and that was that. We have been together over 20 yrs and are the best role models for a wholesome, positive and loving relationship that she has. We've been g'uncles ever since. This subject is usually about children who don't even know what sex is yet. They're not sitting around envisioning what we do in bed or what/who they will eventually do in their bed. That's just the adults. I believe that NO ONE has the right to disrupt the natural development of any kids identity. I think it's fine to present as whatever gender you land on even as you are teaching kids, but it is up to my friend to decide when and how she is going to cover that topic with her daughter. The child won't think anything of it. This is only about adults wanting to control what others are doing. It's not that it's misunderstood, it's that there are some that just want the whole queer community not to exist. They can't free themselves so why should we be allowed to? Always the people screaming the loudest about us tarnishing the perfection of christian marriage (as if) are the ones with dozens of skeletons in their closet, often way more perverse and messed up than anything I've ever done. My sister was what we used to call a "Tom Boy". Great at sports, one of the guys, 5'11" tall and strong as hell. Even somewhat masculine facial features. Today they'd have her questioning before she was 10. No. Just no. She's been married to a man for over 35yrs. My neighbor/friend has an 11 year old daughter who fits the description of my sister. Her school gave her a boys name and started talking to her about the subject of transitioning without even consulting her parents. Her dad lost it!! As well he should. Six months later she discovered makeup and that was the end of that. She now looks, and acts, like a perfect little girl. He equated it with trying to start sex Ed on a 10yr old and he's absolutely right. He would not have cared if she wanted to be a he/they/she/them or even an it, but he demanded she be allowed to follow whatever path was toward her true self and not some detrimental side trip into gender dysphoria brought on by someone completely unqualified as a guide.
@@MrMcCuinn right the kids don’t have a problems with it cus they don’t quite understand it and it’s up to the adults (parents) to educate or reason with them cus they essentially are walking sponges. That does not mean though that they aren’t stupid and if things aren’t done or presented appropriately those same kids can be traumatized or inadvertently abused (personally as a kid I remember imagining what was going on behind closed doors..I would have rather been naïve and protected) not everyone has a stable living environment and then to go into a ‘learning’ environment that just makes it more confusing no wonder kids are f-up these days and suicidal
What children do understand maybe not consciously but the concept of risk vs reward and modifying one’s behavior based on what’s favorable…the problem is when adults use this to then manipulate and coerce their desired outcome as in this case and children because most at heart will repeat behavior that is ‘favorable’ ie the adults positive response/stroking their ego and in addition to this is the context of this ‘programming’ because ‘school’ is where the answers are and ‘rules’ are to be followed (so these ‘adults’ must know what they are talking about and my mommy and daddy trust them)
Amala, the more I watch of you the more in awe I become. We are the same age, and you made me realise there are no excuses for sitting comfortably on my own delusions. Everyone’s guilty of cognitive bias, but your approach to complex issues is refreshing and a fantastic source of entertainment. It’s clear your compassion and intellect are the reason you are going from strength to strength. Love from the UK! ❤
I have a middle school daughter with a non binary bio female teacher. I was a bit annoyed at first but it has been totally fine. My daughter says that she doesn’t agree with this gender crap but otherwise her teacher makes no mention of it and just teaches. I’m okay with it.
Non binary bio teacher 😂
@@danaso2567help ikr 😭
The misogyny and lack of empathy for women with some of these people is nuts! Great observation. I've been feeling this too.
Holy snap!
So, growing up, I kissed girls, kissed guys, dressed like a boy, played sports well. I am married for 25 yrs to a man with 3 boys now.
I am so glad I grew up in the 80's. I would have been told I was trans.
Between the motocross, the martial arts & fixing my car, I would have been transed also. I was born in the 60's, so I was allowed to be a tomboy.
Same, but I was born in 84. I am SO thankful I was just labeled a tomboy, and no one cut off my boobs (despite pretty bad gender dysphoria in my early 20s…in tandem with other mental health issues).
Amala's kindness while speaking the truth in these conversations is sorely needed on the right/center.
I'm sorry, but folks are soooooo damn sensitive now. Ugh! I'm "female from birth" & have always had a deep voice. I have been referenced as a dude over the phone & emails all thru out my life... I DO NOT CARE. Get over it. Period. 🙄💯
I'm a woman. Fourty eight year old who has never been misgendered. If my son was in school during this time I would homeschool him. Luckily for me he's 25 now & we didn't have to deal with all this back then.
homeschooling can really screw up a young man. Probably the most essential aspect of raising a boy is to get him involved in team sports, preferably one that's full contact. Team sports are mock war, and are a necessary outlet for aggression in adolescent males. No school shooter was ever a letterman. Barring a major disability, I really don't think people should be allowed to get a HS diploma unless they complete 8 seasons (2 sports for 4 years). It's probably more important than any subject taught in school.
@@bobthrepeeoh Most guys don't play organized sports and we turn out just fine. I did play sports with my friends outside of school, but obviously that doesn't require attending school.
@@bobthrepeeoh"homeschooling can really (...) that's full contact."
There's no need for that! I've never played sports - I'm not even the very least interested in it. (Except chess.) That doesn't make me any less of a man.
And I'm not homeschooled - I don't know anyone who is - so I don't think I see how that's relevant.
@@Daniel-yl5jl1bi6q you might be just fine. not everyone is. really my argument is that if you HAD you would be better than you are now, not that you are bad.
@@knrdvmmlbkkn same to you as the other guy. You may have turned out fine despite lacking that essential experience. My point is that if you had done that you would likely be a better, more successful version of yourself.
It says a lot about this "community" when they feel they have to get or feel euphoria from receiving affirmation from school aged children. Grow up and join the rest of us and start acting like an adult and getting affirmation from adults about what you are doing, advancing your life along with your career.
I really enjoy listening to you. I like how you discuss real topics and yet keep it light. Not too serious. Just talking. I find you brilliant in your articulation. It refreshing to hear a young person really balance and consider different approaches. I also think you have integrity to keep your platform in such a way that is true to your values and speaking from the heart, not someone elses agenda. Well done!
I’ve been watching for awhile now. I always liked your content when at PragerU, but I feel since you’ve been on your own it’s been even more on point. I very much appreciate your approach to these difficult issues. Very intelligent and realistic yet so empathic, that’s hard to come by these days. Great job
As a butch lesbian with short hair, I get misgendered on a weekly basis. It never caused that much distress in me. Sometimes I correct people, sometimes I don't bother and they eventually get it right once they hear my voice.
The problem with saying "seek help" is the fact that the people who provide the help can get fired for providing help instead of affirming the person.
Yes. I don't think a lot realize or know that as a child psychologist, not practicing, that if a child tells me they're trans I can't look for the root cause. I just have to agree with them and refer them. To do otherwise can be considered conversion therapy and my license would be removed.
@debanydoombringer1385 jesus i didnt realise it was this bad. I thought all the doctors were just complicit for money. You know kinda how its been proven hospitals lied to say covid deaths were higher to recieve govt money? Always figured it was shady things like that. I didnt realize doctors were being fired for literally doing their jobs...
A disgusting state of affairs
. I have been seeing my Christian therapist for years. I asked a series of questions that were variations of "What would happen if I told you that I thought that I was a guy?" In a nutshell, her answer was "Affirmation".
The psychiatric community's hands are tied. They are allowed only 1 answer or they will lose their license to practice.
I lost count of how many times I rolled my eyes 😂
lol, "all i have to do in change my voice", that voice ain't fooling no one, they just know what you're up to and don't fight you on it.
The “period” pain is their nether regions shrinking?
I'm a biological born male and get misgendered every year as a female sometimes it's personal and sometimes it's not it happens. I just get boiled up and kick rocks because I know that I look feminine and my voice is a bit feminine but still it's just life. We all make mistakes we're human people and even I misgender people sometimes not intentionally.
"I'm a biological born male"
"we're human people"
There are no other kinds of males and people, so qualifying those terms appear to be redundant.
”Is coming out of the closet still a big deal anymore?” This kind of reminded me that I’ve never come out and told my mom that i’m gay and i’ve kept every boyfriend i’ve had the past 20 years “a secret” (i’m 35) lol
It’s one thing being bullied by kids, calling you gay in school and having no one to really talk to. I just think these people need some real therapy. It’s crazy how the media quickly pushed the ideas of transitioning so quickly. People were just fighting to marry the same sex and now we got to this point so fast is crazy.
To force acceptance in which you have not accepted yourself in is quite insane. The spiritual roots of all this began at childhood and the rejection they received has grown into such a weed- this is a generational curse that has rebirthed itself.
I’m sorry people are so offended these days that when they have some qualities of a specific gender and STRANGERS call them by that term they feel the need to completely flip out…must be exhausting.
Just live your life and things will work out ❤
It's honestly your fault for miss-gendering them...
Really should've spent more time in mind reading class smh.
@@jakubbercik6965 my bad haha
@@jakubbercik6965 I was about to chew you out until I read the end of your comment! Lol
@@jakubbercik6965 That's a scary thought with these people.
Can we leave these people in 2023? They want attention, let's stop giving it to them.
I used to work for IRD and you HAD to ask them if they didn't sound male/female and if it didn't match the gender on the account, for security reasons!! I didn't want to make people feel bad, but they're doing their job.
We now live in a society where men are claiming that they have periods, so disturbing and so disgusting, as a man I’ve never wanted a period, nor would I ever claim that I’ve had one, these people and this movement is all about abusing others, that’s a huge problem
I'm a boomer. I can understand you having a time identifying with who you are. Lots of us do. However, expecting the world to know what to call you, at any moment in time, is somewhat narcissistic, isn't it?
Edit: For the record, I met my first trans-female in 1976. Joanne was pretty, worked hard, and didn't make a big, freakin' deal about it. I always hoped she was able to complete her physical journey.
U lost me in at the end… I hope she was able to continue her spiritual journey
I hope she wasn't, only because I hear that the bottom surgery is painful, doesn't produce a naturally working vagina and they have to dilate it to keep it open and that part is painful, also. I am so glad that I was born a female!
Persistent denial of reality and deep distress caused by that reality was accommodated as the almost exclusively male sufferers were rare. No matter what the treatment sex is binary and immutable.
His name was not Joanna and he wasn’t pretty. He was hideously mutilated.
@@MaidenHelll She was taking hormones and saving for surgery, so I did mean physical. That was what she wanted.
1:15 If she doesn't "go around saying" she's "non-binary", why would a child call this obviously-woman a "king"?
i am a father of 4 kids and i can tell you that if any of their teachers would have start to talk to any of them about being ''non binary '' or their weirdo pronouns...i will have take them out of the school on the spot. Thanks God i live in France where almost no one buy that kind of BS . Thank you again Amala for your courageous stand in a f.u. country. Love and support from France 👍💕🙏🏼🇫🇷
The scariest part of this is these people actually have the right to vote.
that’s scary
No the scariest thing is they are unattended around children
No, scariest thing is that they’re still alive
And they can reproduce 😳😂
The scariest part is that they can be around and teach the kids.
Most real woman don't talk so openly about their time of month.
Yeah. It’s natural and not a real conversation starter. Well, until now.
fr, only time I've ever had the need to discuss my period was either when I was at the doctor, with my partner ( so he'll get me treats), or if I am asking around in bathroom for pads cause I forgot to carry some. No real women goes around randomly announcing they're on their period.
Exactly, it is nothing worth talking about…
That's because real women didn't choose their "gender identity", to indulge their FETISH...
Yea it just kinda happens and like it’s normal like peeing you don’t talk about cause it’s normal
Yes! I agree with you saying that being trans is essentially cosplaying. Its hardcore roleplay also, but also with the expectation that everyone in the world is playing along with you.
“Not giving weight to other’s words” is like…literally one of the first things I learned in elementary school.
We are in the middle of a mental health crisis and these videos just prove that point. They need some real help.
Im a female, if someone calls me sir by mistake or misgendered me.... I'd ignore it and move on... Bc I know I'm female and I'm mentally stable. Lol
The problem with lia thomas is not wether or not he is passing as a woman. It's the fact that he is pretending to be one for his own perverse pleasure
The correct response to these people should be, " you have the right to believe you are anything you want to believe....but please don't expect me to participate in the illusion that you are anything other than what is says on your birth certificate, passport or any other form of official I.D.
I have this non binary teacher who is a biological female and sometimes I misgender them(her) and I constantly get yelled at by fellow classmates. It is sad how we blindly follow what's now considered a thing 😕
What grade are you in? Not in a creepy way lol I'm just curious which grade this teacher is in
@KyleeAM Well I'm in high school and she's an asl teacher so she teaches all grades. But I'm in 10th
You shouldn't be bullied into PRETENDING to believe in evidence-free nonsense like "non-binary".
Your teacher is an AUTHORITARIAN RELIGIOUS ZEALOT, exactly the same as if she was Christian or Muslim or Scientologist, and demanded her students affirm THOSE beliefs (which have the EXACT SAME standard of evidence of "but it FEELS true, to me, a.k.a "taking it on faith"), as being "truth".
Like with those traditional religions, your teacher should be free to believe WHATEVER goofball nonsense she chooses... But she can't demand for YOU, or anyone else, to supress YOUR OWN beliefs, in order to prioritize HER faith-based, evidence-free beliefs, over your own acceptance of simple, evidence-based reality (ie, that an adult human female is A WOMAN, regardless of what made-up jibberjabber she "identifies as)
[That said, don't cause needless drama for yourself. Sometimes we just need to accept that life isn't always fair, and pick our battles... But don't buy into the garbage, that what she's doing is "stunning and brave", or "tolerant", or "open-minded", or whatever the narrative is... She is INTOLERANT of non-believers, and an authoritarian bully, abusing her authority as a teacher.]
Wait, how do you refer to her ? Neither Mrs or Mr ??
I'm in 10th too, glad I don't have any teachers like that. I would drop that class immediately.@@Sudocon
Shout out to Ms BLAIRE WHITE for being the best example of what trans should be
Yes. She even criticizes the laws hat trample on biological women and is truly concerned for them.
I love Blaire and Buck they're so funny and they keep it real .
Marcus Dib is a trans man who has a great channel as well. "The Offensive Tranny" He seems to get left out of the "shout outs" a lot, and he's so intelligent. Stands up for women and children, and is educational as well.
plus marcus dib!!
@@mamamichellegist yes I love Marcus. I think Marcus is awesome. 💕
It’s soooo weird how they want validation from KIDS it creeps me out for some reason
I personally have been homeschooling my daughter for the past 3 years and she's 8 now. Shes so smart kind, and confident in who she is.
The problem is that a majority of "counselors" are pushing this destructive ideology onto their patients.
teachers like this shouldn’t be allowed to teach, bffr
Especially Special Education. Those kids already struggle with things.
And notice how they got "euphoria" from hearing what they want from a mental disabled kid?
@@user-do5ic9wr7r for real, smt is screwed up
That last guy sounded like Xerxes from the 300 movie lol that’s a comically deep voice. And he “passes as a woman”, then opens his mouth lol
It's so cool that you're considering homeschooling, Amala! Would highly recommend to you and anyone else. Alot of people are afraid they won't know how to teach their kids, but my mom (who had very low energy and health problems) got me and my siblings through kindergarten-3rd grade, then we did online self-graded curriculums through high school. Then add in co-ops, books, time in nature and encouraging your kids to use their creativity to build and make stuff. It does entail work and care, but not as much as people think. X) Good luck to anyone who travels down this path!
My nieces teacher for next year(grade 3) is trans.
They had an assembly for this female teacher that now wants everyone to call her Mr.(Teachers name). Not sure why they had to have an assembly with the kids and parents . They could've sent a letter home to the parents and informed them that way. Anyways they are now no longer in that class with that teacher. My nieces are now in a different class.
Oh and this school is a Catholic private school. So we were confused on how this was allowed. And they let us know so late that my sister is unable to find another school that is taking admissions. For the new school year.
So pray for us, hopefully we'll find a new school soon.
Nope. I agree. Online school is amazing.
Dang, part of me hoped that this was just something we hear about online but wasn't ACTUALLY happening. Glad they got outta that. This should not be happening.
It's a religious school and they promote this? Ugh!
I am a normal male. However, my voice is lighter than most. On the phone and in drive thrus I am usually thanked or guided as “Ma’am”. This doesn’t bother me because their intentions are kind. They done see me they just hear me. But, I’m not on the internet crying about how bad it makes me feel because I am confident in my masculinity and understand my voice is the voice I have.
Step on it, Amala!!!! It isn't their "happiness", it's their DELUSION!!! Do Not contribute to that mess!!!
Amala, i just want to say thank you for talking about this online, even though people send you hate. I am a younger teenage girl and I am very glad to see older (not old but older than me) women that have the same beliefs and are not afraid to talk about it because it gives me a good influence because I can't talk to my parents about this without it being akward when I really just want to have someone who has the same mindset without me seeming closed off or rude. You are a role model to me and I thank you for making these videos. They are also very entertaining.
They’re trying to out-do each other for attention.
How do they not feel embarrassed ???
she hand-picks these so of course they're the most dramatic ones. I promise you not all trans people are like this, just the ones that are easy to make content off of
@@starry.princesss1115 There seems to be an endless supply of these TikTokrs. I’ve seen different ones on other RUclips channels. Is it just the odd ones that like to display themselves? Must be very needy.
@@rickreasoner8664 It's true, there do seem to be a lot of them. The Internet tends to show the most dramatic of extremes.
My name is Mitchell and I've been called Michelle and even referred to as mam because of it. Not an insane amount of times but plenty of times in my life. And when it happens, no big deal. Someone mistakenly "misgendering" me in no way destroys my well-being. Being referred to as a woman doesn't make me a woman. I don't need affirmation to know who and what I am.
And that's these tiktokers' major issue: their fragile mental state.
It’s attention seeking. Everytime they declare a different “identity” just gets them more “cheers” from the alphabet community.
Thank you for being so compassionate and respectful through this video and making such great points! As someone who has struggled with mental health and gender dysphoria (in the early 2000s, before the trans community would have me cut off my boobs), I really feel for people going through this, but as a sane person, I’m just incredulous that this is what society has come to.
I feel like this is the kind of stuff you’d find in early GTA satire.
Like its Chatterbox FM tik toks are the callers.
As long as it was not discussed I would be okay leaving my child in the class but I seriously doubt that would be possible with people like this who seem to wear gender as a badge of honor. The line between protecting my kids and making sure they are not too sheltered is a thin one these days. Also, just to say my peace, I do not know why this is, but all of this is highly insulting to me as a woman, born female. I do not want to deprive anyone of their happiness, yet I feel tread upon and somehow diminished. Can anyone tell me why I feel this way?
probably because all these men want to rip away everything that makes us women unique and claim it as their own as well even though they are physically incapable of some of these things.
I understand your feeling. I cannot really put it into words but it feels degrading towards women, like we are robbed of our authentic being by imposters. And that it doesn't matter how we feel about it. We just have to comply and applaud.
@@ankavoskuilen1725 They are asleep, you are awake.
They are asleep, you are awake.
@@ankavoskuilen1725 Yes, that is certainly a huge part, if not all of it. It feels like socially acceptable sexism. Unless you grow up and live as a female there is no way you will know what it is like, I do not care how strongly you identify as one. Don't get me wrong, everyone needs to live their own lives unobstructed, but why is it ok for them to think they know what it is like to be a woman (the good and the bad) when to suggest you know what it would feel like to be another race is completely unacceptable. And it should be unacceptable! It feels like women are being reduced to what we are perceived as, not what we are. I really think sexism and ageism are the quiet progressive epidemics right now.
Funny, during my entire school career not once did myself or any of my friends have "gender confusion". This seems to be a manufactured problem with a poison solution
thank you amala, great video - as always 😃 happy new year! 🎉
it will never cease to amaze me that the party of "women's rights" also accepts the most misogynistic people. They're the same party that's all for alphabet rights but also support Muslims. The contradictions are giving me whiplash.
they also call everyone a nazi but then rant online about jews and zionism
Imagine not supporting people based on their religion tho?? If someone was saying "they're the people that support Christians 🤢" you'd be singing a different tune. Far end Conservatives are just as baby as far end liberals lmfao
Happy to know I am not the only one who cannot get my head around it. It makes no sense it is the epitome of nonsense.
What the fuck does a religion have to do with this? Leave muslims out of your stupid conversation.
It's because they never cared about womens rights, really. Look at what they've done to these young girls? It was always about women having a choice, as long as it was theirs.
I'm just wondering how much time will pass before they really notice how wrong they are and how different their lives could have been if they had the right help...
It will happen. The hippies also thought they would be hippies forever. A few of them remained hippies, but most of them didn't.
Eventually we will look back on this period in time as the time of the great gender delusion.
And everybody will be amazed that it happened.
I may be dead by then because I am not young anymore, but you may live to see it.
Statistically it will be 5 years for one group and 10 years for the other. I can't remember which transition goes with MtF and FtM, but most regret it and it resolves. When it comes to children, it resolves in over 90% once they go through puberty.
@@debanydoombringer1385 if we are lucky enough, none of them will reproduce, so next generations will do better
@@ankavoskuilen1725 you're right.
They got anxious to take a call 🤣🤣🤣
If my son went to school and had a non-binary teacher, he'd be removed from that classroom immediately.
Worrying and planning for the education of my future hypothetical children is also a concern