I agree. I thought that maybe sharing food was a little controlling, but she needs to know that the child CANNOT be around the people she associates with. And what was up with her advocating for her criminal boyfriend???
@@thezachx I think he was implicating that they don’t have enough food, she already said they didn’t have running water for quite a while… As for their significant others, they need to let the parents parent… He definitely needs to film all contact with his ex, each and every time, get a dash cam, then the ex will not know she is being filmed… Now, I hope Mom doesn’t get angry with the daughter, for telling that moms boyfriend yelled at her, mom told the daughter not to say anything…
No. He’s controlling. He literally listed “she’s not allowed to feed her ramen” Kids like ramen. He’s mad she left him. And she mad she isn’t just getting all the child support and a deadbeat dad.
@@Jason-hm1sc Not only that, but water heaters have known to burst. Generally, water in a hot water heater can have a temperature of 140 to 160, which can terrbily scald or burn.
‘Everything was good until he got a girlfriend’, that told me everything I needed to know about why this situation isn’t working. She’s perfectly fine moving on to someone, but still wants the “family” outings with him and the kids. It probably eats her up that he’s moved on.
I see it differently, I see it as the girlfriend is antagonistic because she wants to be the kids new mommy. I mean, she’s moved on and the father seems “eaten up” over her new boyfriend. Everyone’s trash in this.
@autumn557 I disagree, dad shows true concern for his daughter. Mom did not. All she did was defend herself and her actions, and her abusive boyfriend. Dad stepped up, got counsel, and created a parenting plan.
So her pipes burst and it took her 2 years to get them fixed? What was she using for a toilet or shower? I don't understand why the judge wouldn't listen to the Dad aout the daughter being afraid of Moms b/f.
I do see his controlling behavior. Hint: bringing a girlfriend while has NO RIGHT to child exchanges is only down for one reason. To annoy someone. To irritate them. He did that on purpose.
@@autumn557no mom needs to get over the fact he moved on..now she can't manipulate him you heard her say oh everything was great until he got a girlfriend. She is jealous. Im sick of these crazy moms acting like they control the man. Like she can get over he has someone in his and her daughters life. She will be there to. So what he took her with him
You missed the point about the noodle sharing. The daughter said she is FORCED to share every single meal she gets and it's always ramen. The "mother" is the controlling one here, she is contrary to be contrary, demanding things ve her way or she throws a fit, cries manipulates... She is the fight starter and instigator, and she is jealous and angry that Dad got a new Girlfriend. She said it at the end "Everything was great until he got a girlfriend" while bawling about "we used to go to the zoo together...." She clearly enjoyed having her ex and new boyfriend both at her beck and call. She is upset that Dad isn't following her around and being there as a safety net if her boyfriend doesn't do what she likes or is violent and mean to her. She cannot run to Dad anymore. He is not waiting in the wings for her like she believed he was. That is the crux of the entire problem. Plus, she really thinks that her abusive boyfriend with only 2 months off probation is "rehabilitated" and safe to be around the child? It isn't controlling to be protective of you child like Dad is, when Mom has a clear history of making baf decisions and clearly cannot control herself even in court.
Stop being so self righteous. SOME ppl don't have the means to fix MAJOR repairs like others . I know it's beyond your mentally to understand that there was a time b3 indoor plumbing. Did all those kids get taken from parents?NO. Get over yourself. I'm with the dad but don't judge someone's financial situation. Damn
They both suck. Dad wants to make the child a reporter on DV?!? You know he grills her for info. Mom has horrible taste in men and excuses the DV, which will happen again.
@@Nosillampif something is wrong, I'm glad that the child was keeping dad informed of what's going on. DV? Of course dad needs to know about that. If it's not safe at mom's home, then dad definitely does need to know about it.
Dad is definitely the safer option, but it seems like he has a habit of dating immature women. Mom is very jealous that another woman is raising her child, but there is no reason for the new girlfriend to engage with the mom at all.
I went through something similar with husband. He NEVER wanted me to be at his court appearances BECAUSE he knew I would only be an irritant and he didn't need my testimony. I respected his decision and I was NEVER a factor. This court case goes to show how right he was.
Judge tells dad his girl can't come to the drop-offs pickups because conflict between mom and girlfriend, but is fine with daughter being around boyfriend with dv conviction and daughter has said she doesn't want be around dv boyfriend.
Exactly!! And dad should be able to bring girlfriend because the child lives with them! This judge does not understand that a step mom (to be, maybe) is important too!
He said that she can’t go to the pick ups not that she can’t be around the child! Mom is petty and probably would cause a scene in front of their daughter
Moms restrictions are harsher than dad's, his gf is excluded from contact with mom (drop off and pick ups), her bf is prohibited from unsupervised contact with the child.
Look at the state of this woman, how can anyone believe that if she is acting like that at court she is guaranteed to be a lot worse out side of this formal setting
At home mom can’t fix up the child room by herself. I guess I was a Supper Mom because I didn’t need a man to do anything including moving a household.🤷🏼♀️
The Dad saying that the child is constantly saying she has to share her food could be implying she is actually doing this and not getting enough to eat.
Being forced to share food is not the same as "well maybe she had too much" Rebel Chaser. FORCING kids to share food when from the looks of the black mold on Mom's ceiling, they're not giving that girl "a lot" of food.
i think the dad was implying that a) ramen was all they got to eat and b) they even had to split one ramen. dad did ask that his daughter be given nutritious food and her own meal.
Judge Ricke always looks like he's counting the minutes until his retirement. Dealing with narcissistic parents day in and day out would suck the soul out of anyone.
Let’s be clear, the bf committing DV is harming the children, even if they are not present. Screaming in McD’s at anyone is also harming the child. Parents that can’t grow up and get along like adults is harming this child. Grow up!! Look at couples that become friends, new significant others included, and look at how those children thrive. Stop ruining your kids childhoods!!
Dad is getting her to blow up over stupid stuff. This shows she is unstable. Anyone that has DV or is a registered offender should not be allowed around the kid.
I don't see Dad as controlling, really. She's such a child and so chaotic, that he needs to be the adult and the Dad and rein things in. She never stops arguing and whining and rechecking her Festivus List of Grievances! He's sort of forced to keep some kind of order and direction to his and the kids' interactions with her and keep things focused and on track. And she's so ridiculous that she spitefully turned down his offer to help them both by having her pick up after school which gives her a couple of extra hours AND allows her to avoid a meeting with his gf to pick up the children. And if there are issues, he doesn't have to take time off work to meet her for the kid exchange. Thats the level of petty he's facing...
OMG!! Mom has excuse after excuse after excuse!!! I LITERALLY, can’t stand her voice! Literally, it’s so nasally, I literally want to just throw up! And boy, is he a winner or what?!! This poor child needs prayers from everyone!❤
The fact that this woman asked the judge if the child can be around her abusive significant other who had a no-contact order lifted...🥴🥴 Ma'am, are you for real?🤨 As the kids and SpongeBob say, what the sigma?!
Correct me if I'm wrong, but why the hell is there a water heater in a bedroom? That's a danger and I'm pretty sure it's not up to code ... Not to mention extremely dangerous for a child to be sleeping next to it.... Good grief!
That girl is so immature she shouldnt have ANY CHILD WHEN SHE ACTS LIKE A CHILD HERSELG!!! Dont let his gf come w him but allow my women beating boyfriend that my daughter is afraid of and my sex offender step dad around!!!! Girl bye. And the father while he should not feed into her childishness seems to just want to protect his baby so good 4 him!!!!
I don't think the fact that they were sharing food was the issue it was the fact she was given Ramen noodles and not even a whole portion. He said she should give her a nutritional meal for lunch and dinner
I don’t see a controlling father. I see a parent who is concerned over his child not having a safe place to be. The food thing seems like a concern over not having enough food to eat. Not having water? Not having a bed for the child to sleep on that isn’t full of cloths? Not having a car available in case of an emergency? What mother would be called controlling in this situation?
The family courts should have to do this with all cases too like these judges are instead of using divide and conquer for the majority and ruining families unnecessarily worldwide 💯
@@User-p5v7p Says user p5v7p..so you know cafcASS and co personally do you..doubt it..I know the people who've been affected personally so yes they do in most cases it's never over video like this face-to-face and recorded..would make all cases fair then you see 🙈 🤣
This judge has always been biased against the fathers. The mother always makes crazy claims and always tells the father to prove yourself innocent from her claims. This judge is awful awful awful. Almost every video he's awful.
Mom is repeatedly placing her daughter in harm’s way, with endless excuses. Dad should have full custody. Edit: 15:50 “This child does not belong to your girlfriend” What?! A child doesn’t ‘belong’ to anyone. Ick.
Petty. So petty. The mom is the Trainwreck, but the dad isn’t totally innocent. The Ramen noodle thing was ridiculous. The problem is that when you get petty, everything you start requesting seems petty. If he just would have stuck to the really important things, the judge may have been more apt to hear him when he said that the DV happened around the child and the child being screamed at by the boyfriend, when you get up in arms about Ramen noodles and put it in a parenting plan, it kind of makes it look like you’re looking for stuff.
Parenting while poor, or attempting to, shouldn't be a criminal matter, or even a civil matter. Additionally, being poor and being around other poor people, means that there are a lot more people around that have criminal backgrounds, addiction backgrounds, etc. One of my issues with this is that until we license parents, until we start performing mandatory vasectomies upon any male that can't pay child support (or just refuses), we will continue to have defendants with lengthy serious criminal records who arrive in their late 20's or 30"s with 6-12 children shouldn't be allowed to do so - because I refuse to continue to pay for their children. To be clear, I am happy to help those in need who are in need through no fault of their own. .
It’s so gross how this lady can defend her dv boyfriend so hard instead of saying if he’s causing this much issues I’m down with him. I’d drop anyone for my children (if I ever have any). There wouldn’t be a single person on this earth that I would defend over my children. This woman should have never been a mother
How does she not see how a drivers license is necessary when you have children. Depending on someone else for a ride is just silly especially since she wants more parenting time
The two parents need to grow up. Why, as a father, would you date someone who talks smack to your child's mother. Stop bickering and grow up!! Mom, stop fighting back if you know you can't keep your cool.
Who TF wouldn't want a drivers license? SMFH it's not hard, take a test for permit, take road test, done. It's not even $100 total, she can definitely cut down on food for a week to save the money
@deannahirrell8294 it's because she was driving the child without a license. Dragging a child along while knowingly committing a crime is a crime in itself. He wants either her to have a drivers license or have a adequate emergency plan to legally transport the child. It is perfectly legal for the court to order that she needs a license or have a licensed driver to transport the child.
Dad has legitimate complaints. Mom lives with DV against her and he's a registered s*x offender. The child needs more nutrition than sharing ramen noodles. Mom is incredibly immature.
Not to be “that guy” but mom’s walls and ceiling look disgusting. Not sure if that’s mold, dirt, dust, cigarette smoke build up or what but it doesn’t not look clean at all. I wouldn’t want my child in a house like that.
I KNOW! I kept trying to figure out what it was - I also bet the whole house is filthy and gross, maybe mold filled.The room gives very gloomy, bad vibes. This women lives on the dark side.
Way to miss the point. It wasnt that they shared noodles. It was the kids having nothing else available to eat so they HAD to share noodles. How would you feel dropping your child off at your ex house and all there is to eat for your two kids is one pack of noodles?
Neither of these people should EVER have any control over a child! Their Grammar “ gotten “ never mind anything else shows their mentality!! Oh my goodness her children shared Ramin noodles! !
I can’t stand either of these parents. Dad hates mom more than he loves his daughter, his gf shouldn’t be involved AT ALL, and mom has horrible taste in men and wants to be a victim.
4:13 did dad have to tell us he goes to play D&D ? 😊 Men, or women, who hit their signif other can’t change, I don’t think. It’s either a reflex you have in you or it’s not. Especially if mom’s bf hit her while she was pregnant. That’s not good. When my wife was pregnant, something instinctual ignited inside me to absolutely protect her at any and all cost.
I've seen alot of these and almost all the women have the same script. Complain and moan and then the big crying finale. The woman says she has big problems with all the things she can't control. She can she doesn't want too. I would always be concerned even for my ex-wife if she was hanging around with some guy who had a conviction for attacking her.
He is not controlling, he's implying she does not supply enough food to provide to both children. They do not live together to share the same everyday germs where it okay to share food/silverware. My kids know of germs because even saliva can cause at least cavities.
You don’t pick her up and you feed her noodles you want him to do all the running but then only want specific people to do the collections and drop off . No plumbing and you have kids in the house pretty sure water is a requirement ! My god if this was the other way round he wouldn’t stand a chance .
Dad is not controlling. Mom is a shit show. She is surrounding herself with criminals. I agree with dad.
I agree. I thought that maybe sharing food was a little controlling, but she needs to know that the child CANNOT be around the people she associates with. And what was up with her advocating for her criminal boyfriend???
@@thezachx I think he was implicating that they don’t have enough food, she already said they didn’t have running water for quite a while…
As for their significant others, they need to let the parents parent…
He definitely needs to film all contact with his ex, each and every time, get a dash cam, then the ex will not know she is being filmed…
Now, I hope Mom doesn’t get angry with the daughter, for telling that moms boyfriend yelled at her, mom told the daughter not to say anything…
@@janshe3597 ah okay that makes a lot more sense
No. He’s controlling.
He literally listed “she’s not allowed to feed her ramen”
Kids like ramen.
He’s mad she left him.
And she mad she isn’t just getting all the child support and a deadbeat dad.
And the judge is not good to dad or the kid. If this was dad’s behavior there would be only supervised visitation.
At 6 minutes in- the judge's expression says- I regret wasting my education and expertise on these two while they argue about a cup
ok that made me laugh out loud
There should not be a hot water heater in a child’s room.
I would think that would be very dangerous.
@@davidprince1138 I had that same thought. If it is gas then you have carbon monoxide worries.
Carbon monoxide leaks and explosion potentials.... It's dangerous for sure. I would NEVER have my child in a room with a water heater.
@@Jason-hm1sc Not only that, but water heaters have known to burst. Generally, water in a hot water heater can have a temperature of 140 to 160, which can terrbily scald or burn.
And anyone who thinks it's okay to have a child in a room with a water heater needs a CPS case with lots of parenting classes
"I haven't attacked you since we were together!" and "We were fine until he got a girlfriend"
Thank you for showing your true colors
I caught that too. 🤬
‘Everything was good until he got a girlfriend’, that told me everything I needed to know about why this situation isn’t working. She’s perfectly fine moving on to someone, but still wants the “family” outings with him and the kids. It probably eats her up that he’s moved on.
I see it differently, I see it as the girlfriend is antagonistic because she wants to be the kids new mommy.
I mean, she’s moved on and the father seems “eaten up” over her new boyfriend.
Everyone’s trash in this.
@autumn557 I disagree, dad shows true concern for his daughter. Mom did not. All she did was defend herself and her actions, and her abusive boyfriend. Dad stepped up, got counsel, and created a parenting plan.
She is jealous
Typical
Dad is controlling? Did we watch the same thing? This Mom is unhinged!
Her hair gave that away before her mouth
@@fredcarpenter1027 🤣🤣🤣 Sure did!
She says she shouldn't have to jump thru hoops😂 ..it's called being a parent lady!!!
I literally hate people who literally say literally every other literal word.
😅😅😅
😁😂🤣
i like feel like the same way about like.
Don't forget "basically ". 🙄😉
😂😂😂😂
I don't think dad is so much controlling, he knows this person he had a kid with enough to know how immature she is. She speaks like a teenager.
So her pipes burst and it took her 2 years to get them fixed? What was she using for a toilet or shower? I don't understand why the judge wouldn't listen to the Dad aout the daughter being afraid of Moms b/f.
Exactly!!!!!!!
me neither.
Wow the bf respects her enough not to interfere in parenting but not enough not to hit her. That's just madness that she thinks that's a good thing.
Exactly what I was thinking. Deranged frame of mind for sure smh and shouldn't be allowed to have him around the kids period.
I thought the same thing! Kookoo.
I disagree with you here, the Dad is protecting his Daughter from a woman beater.
Exactly that. Mum was passive aggressive from the very start, even in court with a judge and cameras about. She's a wrongen.
I don't see a "controlling" father. I see a concerned father and an emotionally immature, entitled, inappropriate mother.
Amen!!!!!
i can tell; her victimhood just blathers out of her mouth even when the judge is talking.
I do see his controlling behavior.
Hint: bringing a girlfriend while has NO RIGHT to child exchanges is only down for one reason. To annoy someone.
To irritate them. He did that on purpose.
@@autumn557no mom needs to get over the fact he moved on..now she can't manipulate him you heard her say oh everything was great until he got a girlfriend. She is jealous. Im sick of these crazy moms acting like they control the man. Like she can get over he has someone in his and her daughters life. She will be there to. So what he took her with him
@@autumn557I would she has made so many allegations about him he should wear a body cam 24/7 around her.. she has anger issues
You missed the point about the noodle sharing. The daughter said she is FORCED to share every single meal she gets and it's always ramen.
The "mother" is the controlling one here, she is contrary to be contrary, demanding things ve her way or she throws a fit, cries manipulates... She is the fight starter and instigator, and she is jealous and angry that Dad got a new Girlfriend. She said it at the end "Everything was great until he got a girlfriend" while bawling about "we used to go to the zoo together...." She clearly enjoyed having her ex and new boyfriend both at her beck and call. She is upset that Dad isn't following her around and being there as a safety net if her boyfriend doesn't do what she likes or is violent and mean to her. She cannot run to Dad anymore. He is not waiting in the wings for her like she believed he was. That is the crux of the entire problem.
Plus, she really thinks that her abusive boyfriend with only 2 months off probation is "rehabilitated" and safe to be around the child? It isn't controlling to be protective of you child like Dad is, when Mom has a clear history of making baf decisions and clearly cannot control herself even in court.
i think they are both very good at pushing each other's buttons but the woman... she's definitely lacking in self control to the max.
Some people are so desperate to have someone love them, they can’t see the damage they are doing to their children.
This woman is horrible. This judge needs to get in her and make it accountable.
Wow... didn't expect you to railroad the dad at the end for trying to protect his daughter. Did we watch the same video?
If she had burst pipes and no water she shouldn’t have the child
If it was a money issue I call BS because she has her nails done and “has a lot of clothes because she’s a girl” 🙄
Stop being so self righteous. SOME ppl don't have the means to fix MAJOR repairs like others . I know it's beyond your mentally to understand that there was a time b3 indoor plumbing. Did all those kids get taken from parents?NO. Get over yourself. I'm with the dad but don't judge someone's financial situation. Damn
Why is it the Mom does no wrong, but says the Dad is a horrible person?
Exactly!! She lost custody for a reason.
Because she is a horrible mother.
They both suck. Dad wants to make the child a reporter on DV?!? You know he grills her for info. Mom has horrible taste in men and excuses the DV, which will happen again.
@@Nosillampif something is wrong, I'm glad that the child was keeping dad informed of what's going on. DV? Of course dad needs to know about that. If it's not safe at mom's home, then dad definitely does need to know about it.
Dad is definitely the safer option, but it seems like he has a habit of dating immature women. Mom is very jealous that another woman is raising her child, but there is no reason for the new girlfriend to engage with the mom at all.
Show me a mature(acting) one😂😂😂😂
@@TimJameson-jg8sl there are plenty, but they don't end up on RUclips videos.
I went through something similar with husband. He NEVER wanted me to be at his court appearances BECAUSE he knew I would only be an irritant and he didn't need my testimony.
I respected his decision and I was NEVER a factor.
This court case goes to show how right he was.
@@TimJameson-jg8sl the mature ones don't get featured on RUclips.
Judge tells dad his girl can't come to the drop-offs pickups because conflict between mom and girlfriend, but is fine with daughter being around boyfriend with dv conviction and daughter has said she doesn't want be around dv boyfriend.
Thank you!!!!
Exactly!! And dad should be able to bring girlfriend because the child lives with them! This judge does not understand that a step mom (to be, maybe) is important too!
Never feel bad for family judges that meet an untimely end
He said that she can’t go to the pick ups not that she can’t be around the child! Mom is petty and probably would cause a scene in front of their daughter
Moms restrictions are harsher than dad's, his gf is excluded from contact with mom (drop off and pick ups), her bf is prohibited from unsupervised contact with the child.
Look at the state of this woman, how can anyone believe that if she is acting like that at court she is guaranteed to be a lot worse out side of this formal setting
Mom’s house looks gross, the ceiling is dirty.
Moldy
At home mom can’t fix up the child room by herself. I guess I was a Supper Mom because I didn’t need a man to do anything including moving a household.🤷🏼♀️
Me and my daughter are professional furniture movers by now 😂no man needed
I can’t believe judge Ricke let them keep over talking him, he doesn’t usually put up with that.
If the little girl is going home and saying, "all I had for dinner was some of sister's noodles, I'm hungry," I can see Dad being upset.
The Dad saying that the child is constantly saying she has to share her food could be implying she is actually doing this and not getting enough to eat.
Or it could mean a toddler is asking to taste what she has - like they all do…
@apriljoy1094 listening to this case that was definitely not the situation
This mother needs a major overhaul on motherley ways of thinking ,such a immature mother .
She is obnoxious and argumentative just for the sake of being obnoxious and argumentative.
Right?!?! She came off as aggressive and confrontational to me.
Being forced to share food is not the same as "well maybe she had too much" Rebel Chaser. FORCING kids to share food when from the looks of the black mold on Mom's ceiling, they're not giving that girl "a lot" of food.
i think the dad was implying that a) ramen was all they got to eat and b) they even had to split one ramen. dad did ask that his daughter be given nutritious food and her own meal.
Judge Ricke always looks like he's counting the minutes until his retirement. Dealing with narcissistic parents day in and day out would suck the soul out of anyone.
Let’s be clear, the bf committing DV is harming the children, even if they are not present. Screaming in McD’s at anyone is also harming the child. Parents that can’t grow up and get along like adults is harming this child. Grow up!! Look at couples that become friends, new significant others included, and look at how those children thrive. Stop ruining your kids childhoods!!
Dad is getting her to blow up over stupid stuff. This shows she is unstable. Anyone that has DV or is a registered offender should not be allowed around the kid.
I agree that the mom seems pretty unhinged.
I don't see Dad as controlling, really. She's such a child and so chaotic, that he needs to be the adult and the Dad and rein things in. She never stops arguing and whining and rechecking her Festivus List of Grievances! He's sort of forced to keep some kind of order and direction to his and the kids' interactions with her and keep things focused and on track. And she's so ridiculous that she spitefully turned down his offer to help them both by having her pick up after school which gives her a couple of extra hours AND allows her to avoid a meeting with his gf to pick up the children. And if there are issues, he doesn't have to take time off work to meet her for the kid exchange. Thats the level of petty he's facing...
She is awful. My goodness. Victim victim victim:
i call it being a professional victim.
OMG!! Mom has excuse after excuse after excuse!!! I LITERALLY, can’t stand her voice! Literally, it’s so nasally, I literally want to just throw up! And boy, is he a winner or what?!! This poor child needs prayers from everyone!❤
That’s sooo petty to always be jealous, get over it and move on for your kid.. She sees everything you you do and say. Don’t damage her 🙀
She has never had a license, but her car is broke so she can't drive it anymore and is selling it?
She is complaining about doing something she is already doing just bc dad requested her to work on getting a drivers license. Smh
The fact that this woman asked the judge if the child can be around her abusive significant other who had a no-contact order lifted...🥴🥴 Ma'am, are you for real?🤨 As the kids and SpongeBob say, what the sigma?!
She’s not right
this mother should never see this child
Ramen noodles is not a nutritious meal
How did these two individuals ever get together let alone conceive a child together ?
because it only takes push push grunt grunt to make a baby.
I'm done with this... the judge has EVERY reason to forbid the boyfriend being present, and refuses... not watching any of this show again
Dad is clearly reading off a paper from a lawyer, he is not controlling.
IN MY VIEW
Mom said it (problems) did not start until dad got a girlfriend. Mom stays angry & nit-pics because dad had moved on with his life.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but why the hell is there a water heater in a bedroom? That's a danger and I'm pretty sure it's not up to code ... Not to mention extremely dangerous for a child to be sleeping next to it.... Good grief!
If she acts this way in a courteoom can you imagine how she acts outside of one.🤔
If i took a shot for every time she said 'literally'..... I'd be dead ☠️😂
Judge "Tommie Lee Jones".
That girl is so immature she shouldnt have ANY CHILD WHEN SHE ACTS LIKE A CHILD HERSELG!!! Dont let his gf come w him but allow my women beating boyfriend that my daughter is afraid of and my sex offender step dad around!!!! Girl bye. And the father while he should not feed into her childishness seems to just want to protect his baby so good 4 him!!!!
I don't think the fact that they were sharing food was the issue it was the fact she was given Ramen noodles and not even a whole portion. He said she should give her a nutritional meal for lunch and dinner
exactly
Anorher woman who thought the grass was greener only to find out it was burnt. SMDH
I don’t see a controlling father. I see a parent who is concerned over his child not having a safe place to be. The food thing seems like a concern over not having enough food to eat. Not having water? Not having a bed for the child to sleep on that isn’t full of cloths? Not having a car available in case of an emergency? What mother would be called controlling in this situation?
The family courts should have to do this with all cases too like these judges are instead of using divide and conquer for the majority and ruining families unnecessarily worldwide 💯
That’s not what the courts do.
@@User-p5v7p Says user p5v7p..so you know cafcASS and co personally do you..doubt it..I know the people who've been affected personally so yes they do in most cases it's never over video like this face-to-face and recorded..would make all cases fair then you see 🙈 🤣
Where's my comment just gone?
Fake user,your not worth replying too
Reported for misinformation
No water for 2 years 😬 and if they burst and weren't taken care of is there mold under the the house?
God Bless. Having to deal with her. This poor guy.
She’s a very argumentative person, I would NOT get along with her!!! She’s horrible!!
This judge has always been biased against the fathers. The mother always makes crazy claims and always tells the father to prove yourself innocent from her claims. This judge is awful awful awful. Almost every video he's awful.
Mom needs to change her tone. She’s making herself sound petty af. The whole case was her nasty attitude
Mom is repeatedly placing her daughter in harm’s way, with endless excuses. Dad should have full custody.
Edit: 15:50 “This child does not belong to your girlfriend” What?! A child doesn’t ‘belong’ to anyone. Ick.
Hey Gail congrats on 52k!!! Crazy! I remember finding you with a couple hundred!🤯❤️
all I can hear is Betty Davis warning :
it’s going to be a *bumpy* ride 😳
thank YOU, ✨Miss Gail … flowers for a beautiful lady 🌷🌻🌷🌻🌻🌷🌻🌷
You can tell he's a liar! Whenever Whenever the judge sides with mom all of a sudden he's got more to say smh
Petty. So petty. The mom is the Trainwreck, but the dad isn’t totally innocent. The Ramen noodle thing was ridiculous. The problem is that when you get petty, everything you start requesting seems petty. If he just would have stuck to the really important things, the judge may have been more apt to hear him when he said that the DV happened around the child and the child being screamed at by the boyfriend, when you get up in arms about Ramen noodles and put it in a parenting plan, it kind of makes it look like you’re looking for stuff.
Parenting while poor, or attempting to, shouldn't be a criminal matter, or even a civil matter. Additionally, being poor and being around other poor people, means that there are a lot more people around that have criminal backgrounds, addiction backgrounds, etc. One of my issues with this is that until we license parents, until we start performing mandatory vasectomies upon any male that can't pay child support (or just refuses), we will continue to have defendants with lengthy serious criminal records who arrive in their late 20's or 30"s with 6-12 children shouldn't be allowed to do so - because I refuse to continue to pay for their children.
To be clear, I am happy to help those in need who are in need through no fault of their own.
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Dagger nails, witches hair, ready for Halloween. Just need the hat! 😅😅😅
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It’s so gross how this lady can defend her dv boyfriend so hard instead of saying if he’s causing this much issues I’m down with him. I’d drop anyone for my children (if I ever have any). There wouldn’t be a single person on this earth that I would defend over my children. This woman should have never been a mother
How does she not see how a drivers license is necessary when you have children. Depending on someone else for a ride is just silly especially since she wants more parenting time
The two parents need to grow up. Why, as a father, would you date someone who talks smack to your child's mother. Stop bickering and grow up!! Mom, stop fighting back if you know you can't keep your cool.
Who TF wouldn't want a drivers license? SMFH it's not hard, take a test for permit, take road test, done. It's not even $100 total, she can definitely cut down on food for a week to save the money
I kinda don’t care for this judge to much he will let the mothers ramble on and say whatever but is fast to tell the fathers stop talking
So… the childs bed is in a utility room? And no way the SO isn’t around the child.
You can't please some women ? He calls her beautiful across Mc Donald's, and she's not happy about it ! Oh nuddles ! 🤣😂👍🏴
I'm still waiting to see dad's controlling behaviour. 🤔
Am I only one who see differently the dad always seems to point the finger and control. Both need to grow up and act like parents
How can you force someone to get a drivers license? That’s why I don’t understand if people don’t wanna drive they don’t have to drive.
@deannahirrell8294 it's because she was driving the child without a license. Dragging a child along while knowingly committing a crime is a crime in itself. He wants either her to have a drivers license or have a adequate emergency plan to legally transport the child. It is perfectly legal for the court to order that she needs a license or have a licensed driver to transport the child.
Dad should be a lawyer, he's really good at making tiny little issues look and sound bigger than they actually are.
Dad has legitimate complaints. Mom lives with DV against her and he's a registered s*x offender. The child needs more nutrition than sharing ramen noodles. Mom is incredibly immature.
It’s still boggles my mind that these immature people have children. Then they fight like they’re in fourth grade. Disgusting.
having children should be an earned privilege.
Not to be “that guy” but mom’s walls and ceiling look disgusting. Not sure if that’s mold, dirt, dust, cigarette smoke build up or what but it doesn’t not look clean at all. I wouldn’t want my child in a house like that.
I KNOW! I kept trying to figure out what it was - I also bet the whole house is filthy and gross, maybe mold filled.The room gives very gloomy, bad vibes. This women lives on the dark side.
I agree with you. I think the father has legitimate concerns about where his daughter is staying when at his mothers.
Way to miss the point. It wasnt that they shared noodles.
It was the kids having nothing else available to eat so they HAD to share noodles.
How would you feel dropping your child off at your ex house and all there is to eat for your two kids is one pack of noodles?
She wants to be a victim so bad but has no receipts!!..Self Made VICTIM 💯
I couldn't maintain like Ricke in dealing with people like this and feel for the daughter.
Everyone sucks in this situation.
Stop having kids with people you only tolerate.
If the dad would shut up when he is winning it would help him a lot more.
Mom hates the fact he got a upgrade and she's jealous and can't stop herself getting NASTY.
These two can not stop arguing with each other instead of focusing on the child, SMH!
Neither of these people should EVER have any control over a child! Their Grammar “ gotten “ never mind anything else shows their mentality!! Oh my goodness her children shared Ramin noodles! !
Judge was very weak in this case. I’m totally disappointed. He let them have a circus in his court. Punk!!
I can’t stand either of these parents. Dad hates mom more than he loves his daughter, his gf shouldn’t be involved AT ALL, and mom has horrible taste in men and wants to be a victim.
The father is a control freak.
please substantiate with content.
The father is not controlling at all. Give me some examples on why you said he is control freak
Yeah he controls burst pipes in a timely manner. For a mother not to get majority custody what kind of hot mess can she be though?
Don’t be silly. He isn’t controlling. The mother allows a sex offender in there lives.
4:13 did dad have to tell us he goes to play D&D ? 😊
Men, or women, who hit their signif other can’t change, I don’t think. It’s either a reflex you have in you or it’s not. Especially if mom’s bf hit her while she was pregnant. That’s not good. When my wife was pregnant, something instinctual ignited inside me to absolutely protect her at any and all cost.
She's very Snarky!!.!..He dodged a bullet when he got away from her!!!
when u have children together ur never really 'away.'
@@rosemaryus-ct6151 I disagree..I have 2 kids with my ex..I've not had anything to do with her in 17 years!!.!!
Sounds like they are to childish to have kids
maturity sometimes has nothing to do with age.
I've seen alot of these and almost all the women have the same script. Complain and moan and then the big crying finale. The woman says she has big problems with all the things she can't control. She can she doesn't want too. I would always be concerned even for my ex-wife if she was hanging around with some guy who had a conviction for attacking her.
I do agree with that boyfriend/girlfrends shouldn't be involved at swapping locations.
You gotta love our taxpayer money being utilized because people do not know how to behave and require caseworkers
He is not controlling, he's implying she does not supply enough food to provide to both children. They do not live together to share the same everyday germs where it okay to share food/silverware. My kids know of germs because even saliva can cause at least cavities.
She is disgusting!!! That BF should never be in the house when daughter is there. Father seems rational. She doesn’t want him to have a GF.
You don’t pick her up and you feed her noodles you want him to do all the running but then only want specific people to do the collections and drop off . No plumbing and you have kids in the house pretty sure water is a requirement ! My god if this was the other way round he wouldn’t stand a chance .
Bitter baby daddy!!! He's petty af