SMUG SELF RIGHTEOUS MOM Plays Keep Away Flat Out REFUSING To Allow Father To See His Own Child!
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Her attorney needs to lose her law license if she is advising her client to withhold the child from the father.
My thoughts exactly! Her attorney just said “he could have went to her home, there’s no protection order.” Yeah and if he had showed up at her home, you’d be arguing for a protection order against him.
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I couldn't agree more
😮@@rhanBobk
And if the mother's testimony is true, also for not submitting information to the father or father's lawyer when she said she did.
Am I the only one laughing outright at Mom's assertions that this little girl has "lots of friends" as an 18 month old baby? 🤣🤣
Nope! I thought about real hard and darn if I don't remember one single friend from when I was 18 months old. LMAO!
I don’t even have a lot of friends and I’m 38 😂😂😂😂
She’s a very immature, mother
Oh and the baby is a big part of the community too! 😂
Your not alone..
Lets all take a moment to recognize the flawless retort dads atty made when she claims she couldnt attend a doc appt bc she had to work to provide. And dads atty comes back with no hesitation, "then why are you condemning him for it when youre doing the same thing?!"🎯🎤drop
Right?! I am so impressed with dad’s attorney and I actually blame mom’s attorney for a lot of the alienation.
I loved that. Lol did a little cheer
@rhanBo how much you wanna bet the attorney is her parents' friend.
I wish he would have said that when she said it was a safety issue if dad kept the daughter from her. But it’s not a safety issue for her to do it?
I Know right!! I actually said out loud "Niiiice"
Gayle, please update us when the court makes a decision! Only one parent has done harm to the child: the mother. Parental alienation isn't simply a parent being petty and vindictive. It does tremendous harm to a child psychologically. And with grandparents and attorney 💯% advocating for this child abuse along with mom, it is even more of a dangerous situation for the child.
She said at the end she isnt sure we'll get to see the update which is unfortunate.
Oh dam i really want to know what the judges decision was
@andysPARK parental alienation is a form of abuse.
The law claims it is child abuse. And it is a crime.
@@andysPARKNot all abuse is physical .
This lady's lawyer is dirty as all get out. She is a liar. This guy has a great lawyer. He is ruthless at this and the judge is a great judge.
i agree. her lawyer is disgraceful and a liar and his lawyer is sharp as a tack
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I'd almost bet the mothers lawyer is very far on the feminism side and believes the bs hypocritical excuses must be believed because she's stating them.
Facts.
That’s ridiculous “the feminist side” . She’s just a crap attorney, being paid for by her mom and dad, who appear to be parenting the child.
Parents who deny a child a healthy relationship with their ex-spouse for vengeance should have only court monitored visitation and lose primary custody.
Couldn’t have said it better myself. This “mom” deserves to lose the child to dad. Like.. he asked her over 50 times to see his kid and she just ignored it!! That is soooo messed up and legit is 150% parental alienation! I want dad to have full custody & mom should have supervised visits. And what makes me crazy is that she literally said that the only reason she “fears for the kid’s safety” is that she’s scared dad won’t give her back. Like.. she is keeping the kid from dad for literally no reason and it makes me so mad!!
Yes! Mom, or dad it doesn't matter who but there should be consequences.
This!! I'm SO glad this attorney took the opportunity to ask what she would feel if the situation were reversed. All parents keeping children from their loving safe parent should have to write an essay about what they would do if the shoe were on The other foot and why it's different.
@@sharkywhitShe doesn’t want dad to do what she is doing .
Absolutely agree, can’t imagine life had my dad not been allowed to be involved.
Her daughter has delayed motor skills because the mother does.
My thoughts exactly
Yep
Yep. It's honestly sad bc that child is going to suffer when there are programs that can help. These parents need ALOT of help.
that is what I think too. I wonder if the child has any deficits at all.
@@cattycorner8In my opinion if a child is slow it probably because of the parents and their thought process.
I hate when there’s not a ruling.
Dad should absolutely have custody of this child. Mom is off her rocker
Thanks for telling before I suffered all the way through
There is something seriously wrong with this Mother.
bellastella2388....You are soooo RIGHT!!! I seriously believe she needs some mental help big time!!! Something is just not right with her. She should not be raising a child because she's a child!!!
Glad I’m not the only one that noticed she’s “special”!
Yes, she is special needs, not delayed. Um, they aren't the same. If a kid doesn't receive enough stimulation, she will be delayed. This avoids telling the parent that theparent is stupid.
You can tell by her eyes that no one is home.
Dude, all the smirking is what made me think the kid would be better off with dad.
This mum is so young and immature. It’s painful to watch. She sounds like a child.
I thought (from the intro) that she WAS the child.
She's special.
I've seen teen moms in CPS court cases who are more well spoken and mature. I had my first when I was 21, so pretty young, and wasn't anything like this. It seems she's got something going on- maybe just an education deficit, a developmental delay or a mental health issue. Something isn't right.
@@lulu5803 the child had severe mental disability's according to the opening statements from the attorney. it's not farfetched to assume who it came from.
@@lulu5803 Both 'parents' strike me as not completely 'there'. The apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree.
Dad's lawyer is excellent. I think mom has been coached.
And coached badly! Who is “we”? She repeatedly says “we”.
Right???!! @@thepurplerobin7280
Mom not only was coached, she didn’t even write her own declaration, whichever of her parents did slipped into 3rd person.
100%
She appears coached, but also that she's not very smart so it didn't work well.
Something is not right with mom.She absolutely did not write any document.
I’m pretty sure her mother wrote that. When “she” was used but it should have been “I”. I was waiting for the attorney to ask her if she wrote it or someone else.(her mother)
She can barely read the page numbers that contain her text messages! Her parents CLEARLY were helping her with all this because she is obviously unable to help herself!💯
@@kevwhit7058you have to wonder if the mom's parents have done everything for her, her entire life and because of that, she's stunted in some way?
Mom has a really explosive temperament, she immediately snapped when asked if she looked at her parents or if they answered for her or whatever they said. She is absolutely alienating dad and her parents is 100% in on it. She seem..off..not right. My opinion. She' s also lying about her lawyer saying all that bs about not letting dad have his daughter.
And when the lawyer caught her in a lie about him, never asking how the child is doing she responded by saying he only asked quickly lol I agree with many others on here no way she wrote any of this. I think her mom is very controlling and she is too.
you can tell her brain is trying to process everything on overtime. She stumbles with every sentence because her brain is going through what her parents told her to say, what the truth is, what the attorney is trying to get at and how to counteract it. The truth doesn't require that much mental gymnastics.
Excellent observation. And the Judge, court staff and attorneys all know she is lying. I was a defense attorney and prosecutor and after working in the courts for about a year, most people can spot a lying liar from a mile away.
Yes her statements of I’m breathing are ridiculous.
@@joytoyouandme4593
And borderline contemptuous.
@@nicolejttmom6061 Your observations are very interesting, esp from your position as an attorney.
One question I always wish was asked of an alienating parent, "how would you feel if dad had the child & didn't call you? If dad just didn't answer your messages when you asked for time? " Ask detailed questions using same scenarios, as much as can be asked on cross. I bet we would see a temper flare in this situation, which I think is just barely being held in check with mom.
I noticed she had to stretch real far to find something Dad so incredibly wrong & dangerous. Something about mixing bottles, cereal too hard & switching bottles to cups. So absolutely petty!
Sad to say, this Mother needs parenting classes ASAP. I don't think she is able to handle her child alone. We all know what happens with a sick or fussy baby/ toddler. Can't always look to parents for help.
Glad to see Dad took classes. If he has custody of his older child, he must be making the right decisions.
Now the wait...
Over and over again she keeps saying "the lawyer said this" "The lawyer said that" "I did what I was told". As a mother she takes NO responsibility for the care or education of the child. In Nuremberg it was held that "following orders is no excuse". I don't know how good the father would or would not be. But this mother is not a satisfactory parent.
Nuremburg is just about the only case of that. In fact, Nuremburg was a quintessential example of "Victor's Justice" or in layman's terms, a kangaroo court. In almost all jurisdictions, "just following orders" is in fact a legal defense to reduce or eliminate culpability. You see it regularly in police @bus3 cases, and it is especially true in situations where an inexperienced or "unsophisticated" individual is following the advise of someone a court would consider a professional or "sophisticated". Eg, if your doctor gave orders for treatment of your spouse and you treating them according to orders resulted in death it is in fact a fair defense to say "I was following the doctor's instructions." Same here. Normal people are considered unsophisticated in the law, and attorneys are considered sophisticated by virtue of their licensing.
If I were her attorney, I'd be deeply worried that she tossed me under the bus like that, because if it comes out that an attorney advised their client to break the law they can face very real consequences.
It’s because she’s delayed and HIGHLY impressionable. The lawyer telling her to withhold the child is malpractice since the girl is retarded.
There’s NO WAY humanly possible she wrote that declaration. Her parents clearly wrote it. This is INSANE.
"he wouldn't let HER.....SHE has built a community" Yup I agree
That’s a little bit deceiving. People sign affidavits all the time that they do not write. Or they verify discovery responses. All that is required is that the information be true not that it’s their own words.
@mcannonsr except dad's attorney specifically asked if mom wrote it and she said she did under oath therefore purgery
I agree
I agree with you. I also believe she likes to play martyr and is perfectly fine not telling the truth.
My cousin didn't walk until after 1 going on 2. His mom got him a physical therapist and still nothing. Naturally she was very concerned. I babysat for a week. Took him and his brother to a park everyday. All those little ones running around guess gave him courage or motivation to try. He was walking by day 3 of my visit and he's not special needs in anyway shape or form. Some kids just do this in their own time when they feel comfortable.
If you carry the baby all the time walking will be delayed too. My 2 walked just after a year old
I had one that walked at 9 months and one that walked at 17 months. Neither are 'special' needs. Grown functioning adults now.
Walking at or a little after 12 months is not all that unusual. There were some studies back in the 70s that indicated delayed walking was sometimes associated with better reading comprehension later on. Not sure why but I did not spend much time reading the report. The mother appears to have some kind of communication issues beyond just being nervous. Though a lot of what she says makes me wonder exactly how delayed the child's learning is and perhaps it may not be as significant as she is claiming.
@@rustynails8756 There are people, especially with young mothers, who read child care type books and there are schedules on when children will smile, walk, get teeth, etc. They take it as gospel. And some physicians give credit to those mother's fears, Whether it is to agree or get mom out of the office I don't know.
I never potty trained a child, I never set times on when things should happen. They all survived.
Pediatricians, I have found, are the worst of the bunch. I figured it out about the time I had my second child. After that, with having 5 kids, I found a GP and ignored the pediatricians.
The doctors are really good at calling you an overreactive mother also. I had one tell me that my son wasn't ill, babies spit up. I keep telling him we aren't talking a little spit up, that's fine. He argued with me for 10 minutes about how I was blowing it out of proportion. Gads, I love my kids. When he knelt down, got right in front of my son, my son projectile vomited all over his face. I just looked at him with that stuff running off his face and said "Well, as long as it's a little bit of spit up, I guess we are good. The jerk.
My son never crawled, my mother said same for me, we skipped went straight to walking
She throws her lawyer under the bus every chance she gets. So who’s parenting her or her lawyer
Seems like neither! This is so sad.
Neither of them!
It's not throwing them under the bus . If it's true.
Good advertisement though…. Pick me as an attorney and I’ll tell you to withhold. Hire me. Pay me. Then throw said attorney under bus in court. Attorney then walks away with your money
Get this Mom a Binky!
Mom is not the brightest bulb in the chandelier.
At this point she is not even flickering...
@@Dobviews🤭
At this point the chandelier is hanging from the ceiling by one little tiny wire!
It ceased flickering and straight burnt out. @@Dobviews
@@Dobviewsidk if she's even a bulb
I have never seen a lawyer on here like dads. I would love to see more of him. He was so calm, intelligent and made the absolutely best case I think he could have. I hope Dad gets to be a parent to his daughter so much. I have an 8 year daughter and her daddy is her world 🌍 I wish we could find out what happened in this case!!
I want to know? That Mother should never have custody of a child Ever!!!!
@@missyfaulker3797 I believe it's not the mother who wants custody I believe it's her parents.
Would love to hear more cases with this lawyer and judge
The whole “I’m breathing” shit makes me think that she needs time to concoct a story in her head right quick cuz she’s already been called out for getting answers from her mom.
Bingo
I think in addition to the "breathing" thing giving her a moment to collect her thoughts, it's part of her team's prepping her. She apparently doesn't manage her emotions well and the breathing helps her gain control of her emotions vs having a meltdown
It's just an excuse to think of a response! If you can't even answer a simple yes or no question without having to breathe for 5 mins she shouldn't have full custody of a toddler! Imo
I guarantee her lawyer said to her “when you’re up there, just breathe” because she was obviously insanely nervous, but she didn’t realize that those were instructions for the “inside of your head” voice, and it was not necessary for her to state what she was doing to the judge! 😂
My thoughts exactly!!
In the words of Judge Judy "Beauty fades dumb is forever"
Gotta love Judge Judy! ❤
Is she supposed to be pretty?
She’s not pretty either 🤣
I had the same thought to who is we? The Dad's attorney missed an opportunity by not asking , whose we?
I'm thinking Mommy and Daddy. She doesn't seem mature enough to take care of the child alone.
She said he didn’t let her work, and then says she couldn’t clean the house because she was working 32+ hours a week?
Boy she has an ATTITUDE!
I'm wondering if the child's issues are not genetic watching the mother testify 🙄
I was thinking the same thing she definitely seems like she has a delay herself
No I believe just the opposite that the grandparents desperately want this child and are trying to make everyone believe that she also has disabilities you hear the father say it At one point that he hasn't noticed any disabilities.
3 parenting classes, even if they were 10 years ago, is more than mom took. Since he also has an 11 year old he gets visitation with, supervised visits shouldn't even be on the table! Mom's lawyer is ridiculous.
He actually has full custody of his 11 year old. He's certainly not captain America but I'm on his side here 100%
You're absolutely right I thought to myself did you forget what you learned in law school when the lawyer said what she did
His attorney was far more on point than hers. her argument was simply..dad bad mom good.
The mom acts like such a brat
She acts like a Narcissist that's a brat and enabled by her family
She kept saying to “we”🤷🏼♀️ I gather she was referring to her parents . Her taxi driver, her pseudo doctors and her statement writers 😊😂
You're absolutely right go back and take notice of her demeanor as she's getting off the stand
This is maddening. What he will agree to doesn’t mean he is saying “if I don’t get at least 50/50 I never want to see my daughter again!” It just means it’s the least he’ll agree to without putting up a fight.
Thats all that mom could come up to try and justify her alienation
This dad had it together. As primary custody of his older daughter, he has a full-time job, his own place to live, a car, insurance. AND he's done three previous parenting classes.
Mom is a contradictory wackadoo. I think her parents are interfering a lot and trying to raise this child. I really hope dad got full custody. And mom only every other weekend visitation.
Her testimony is like the cheating spouse. The cheating spouse is always quick to accuse the non cheating spouse of cheating.
Mom needs supervised visitation ONLY, and her parents need to only have supervised visitation as well.
Love this judge, and Dad's attorney. It's obvious Mom has psych issues, and her parents are the ones on the stand because they're paying for the attorney obviously, and calling the shots.
Why must parents fight over children? The child belongs to both of them not just one.
I'm getting the feel , he left her!🤔
@@rosamariamendoza1466 SHe seemed very pissed that he did not interact with her, not so much the child. I wonder if he is of similar intellect as her.
Well in this case dad absolutely should be fighting for his kid.
@grbenway or he has more than enough intellect to know that dealing with the child's mother is only a black hole of worthlessness.
Yes indeed... However a lot of women think they have more rights because they carried the child for 9 months ..
This girl is so indignant and self-righteous. She is treating this child like a toy she doesn’t want to share. She needs the parenting classes!! 🤦🏻♀️
So how old are they?She sure doesn't show respect to the court! She's very unlikeable.
Because in her mind she is the mother and the father doesn't count.
I don't know. The judge sure seems to like her
I haven't yelled at my phone this much in a while. Everything her lawyer says in her closing is a flat out lie at worst and disingenuous at best. Just gross. Mom is wrong, flat out!
She’s dangerous and this could be the start of a Gypsy Rose situation….. she’ll make the baby sicker to justify keeping dad away!
Same, my thoughts exactly‼️ Momsters like this are extremely dangerous and terrifying. These courts FAIL their innocence each and every time I see any cases like this. It makes my blood boil to know that garbage humans like this actually exist. I thought people like this only in nightmares.
I was thinking the same thing.
She will try to keep her infantilized to keep control of that child.
Agree!
So dumb. This man is a psycho and is trying to steal their daughter!
so she was looking at her parents... "You're going to look at me." "I'M NOT EVEN LOOKING AT THEM!" That's a guilty mind. If she wasn't looking at them when he said look at him, she'd not have mentioned them she'd have said yes sir.
Right!?
Grrrr!!! I understand this mom is young, so I'm trying to give grace. However, withholding her daughter from Dad is just awful! He would know her needs if she hasn't withheld her for 9 of her 16 months. Also, not walking until a year is no big deal. It doesn't mean they have a disability. Delayed doesn't mean disabled.
My grandkids walked anywhere from 9-16 months. Never occurred to any of us that made them deficient in some way, just how they roll.
@@k.stacey7389 Absolutely! My girls walked at completely different times too because they had different environments. This baby not crawling or walking could also have to do with how much (or little) mom interacts with her. You never know but she's not out of the norm at all.
Giving her grace? Anything to soften the blow of accountability.
I wonder if they are not deliberately over playing this child's special needs. For example, it's quite common not to be walking by 1 yr - it is expected between about 10 and 18 months... She doesn't seem to have a particular diagnosis...
My oldest never crawled (we joke asking if he can crawl yet and he's approaching his mid-20's 😂) and he didn't walk until 15-16 months. He wasn't delayed. He was just within normal limits.
I never truly appreciated the importance of teaching my girls how to properly answer questions in a professional setting until now!
“Nah, Nope, Yep, Yeah etc.” comes across sounding sassy, immature and disrespectful!
Excellent attorney for the husband
I never seen the difference in two attorneys. 1 is brilliant and the other is in law school.
I hope dad get what he wants because he will follow all court rulings to mom. Sometimes Dads side of this situation they get screwed . The ones that want to be and do what they are following court orders that want to be involved in the children's lives can't because moms object and other times when they are doung to stay on top of the courts ruling moms are making these situations impossible. Same thing for girls.....❤
Agreed..what's sad is so many fathers have to spend thousands to get these lawyers JUST for the bare minimum.
Who’s delayed? Mom or child??? This woman is off…Can a lawyer do that? Advise a client to restrict another parent’s access to their child??? WTH!
Depends on your state laws, if they were married, was there already a court order, etc. In general, the answer historically has been yes, and it used to be standard practice for attorneys to advise moms to take the kids, cut contact, and claim dad SA'd her and the child to leverage for the best outcomes in court. In the 90s there was a push to change this, because it was clear that most claims being made were false and made purely to alienate fathers from kids, but it is still seen today.
As a general rule, if there are no existing custody orders, a mother rarely faces consequences for taking the kids and keeping them from dad. It is still common for courts to use the metric of "what is the current situation" as a baseline for determining what they will order, meaning if a father has been driven out, or mother has run off, she will be presumed to deserve to keep the kids as much as she currently has them. This is especially true in cases of kids that are school age--mothers often run off to another state under cover of darkness, enroll the kids in a new school, and then courts are often unwilling "to uproot the kids' lives" and force things back to the way they were.
Shame on this disgusting "mom". There can never be too many family members that love your children.. If it is the maternal grandmother encouraging this, than the lawyer should arrest her along with her daughter. Disgusting, selfish young woman!!!
That's unfortunately why these courts are neccessary; Until there is an order in place, no actual rules exist (for the mom to continue violating with impunity...But, rules NTL...lol)
That's what I said you cand tell just by G-mas demeanor that she's running everything
This mother is a problem for the child!
This mother is nuts, her lawyer has been keeping the kid from father. The mother seems to have mental issues, She talks like a eight year old. Both mother and father are to young and act like it to have a child.
She seems too have something wrong .She keeps calling the child her child not their child .
Definitely, she had no clue because you can tell how she talked with her lawyer vs his, she was stuttering and changing tones with his and calm and coached with hers
@@jackiemarini3203most people do that no big deal.
The judge responsible for leaving the child with her should be fired, jailed really. Most likely the reason the kid is behind is her.
The was she speaks could be nerves. Some people's voice changes when nervous. Also when some people lie.
What does calculating child support have to do with a request for temporary relief and unsupervised parenting time, This case is far from over. The judge should have set immediate parenting time and ruled on the rest as the case progresses.
Because she's on assistance and the state wants that money back. She won't get any of it.
He worked all the time and went to one fishing tournament in January a year. That makes him an absentee parent even though she may not have even born in the last January they were together? I can't keep up with wether she's 16 or 18 months old. She has absolutely no basis for withholding the child.
My thoughts exactly.. 1 fishing trip a year and he's never home.. Wow so the child's not even 2 yet so he's gone on 1 possibly 2 fishing trips. Lol
The basis is nothing happens to women who do this. If the man did this the cops would be at his door in less than a week, and, he would be limited to supervised visits for a year or longer.
@@michaelwaninger3155The basis is nothing hardly happens to men or women who do this. If you've watch any family court cases, you'd know whomever has initial custody gets away with damn near anything and WHEN MEN ASK...97% of the time they get AT LEAST joint custody. Women don't have near those odds. So stop the fake incel pandering. It just shows your ignorance.
My ex-husband went to a bar every night how would she have liked to have had him I would have preferred a guy who fished
Mom looks and acts like a very immature 12 ,year old.
She comes across as very slow and unintelligent.
I think she is trying to come up with answers that aren’t hers. She might be slow but it just seems like she is trying to get her answers from her mom
You could be right!
I think Mom has some significant diagnosis of her own..... Which would explain the overly involved relationship with her parents! This woman is not all there. Or she enjoys having a child with disabilities. Something is not right.
Never underestimate the conniving vindictiveness of even the dullest and most ignorant woman.
She talks like her mouth is full of cotton. Like she’s too lazy to actually open it enough to get words out. So annoying.
She looks for someone in the courtroom to get help with answering from the lawyer. Every time she is about to respond, she looks out into the courtroom at the same spot for approval from a person.
OMG I screamed at this Mom through this whole testimony what is good for me isn't good for the! Mom can do anything she wants but Daddy can't oh nooo she needs to lose this child and grow up a lil cause Grandpa & Grandma are way too involved & controlling her, Like Who is Us? & We? when making decisions she says it a thousand times it wasn't with KJ's Daddy! Pls Mr Lawyer ask her who is Us & We your making decisions & taking care of KJ with who?
I was thinking the exact same thing. I would of loved the lawyer to ask who the we and us was? But I think the judge knew, hopefully
She supposedly so disabled and delayed that there's no way dad can take care of her alone but she's not so disabled that she has lots of friends who she plays with at the park and who come over and play with her. Mom needs to stop. And how dare the guy who works and takes care of them attend an ice fishing contest...smfh.
The child is both of theirs…stop thinking mom has more rights than mom.
Mom has more rights than mom? What??
@@m0rbidm0mmaI think she meant Dad.🤷♀️
Agree 💯
@@m0rbidm0mmayou had to ask? Only looks bad on yourself if you couldn't figure out what they meant. The fact that you asked just to put someone else down just makes you look pathetic.
The fact the child wasn't removed from the mother after 2 months and she only given supervised visitation is sickening.
The mother is being manipulated by her parents. She talks about us and we, referring to herself and her parents, not herself and the father. Her parents need to butt out and not try to limit the fathers participation in raising their grandchild. Shame on them. The mother is too young and immature to make the right decision. I do hope father gets 50/50 custody.
And I have a feeling that the “typo” in her declaration (that supposedly she wrote) where she claims she just mistyped and referred to herself as “her” instead of “my” - is not a typo at all. I don’t think she was writing it. It was probably her mom writing it and slipped up and wrote “her” bc she was writing for her.
I also keep thinking who is we. I wish dads lawyer would have asked her that question
Oh me too!!
In her declaration she referred to herself as "her" so my guess is her parent wrote it since they coached her through the entire cross 😂
I thought he did initially but didn't press the issue.
@@smartypants8533 I don't think he did, might have to watch it again
@@sukiwatson it was a comment on the screen my bad
Apparently the father's attorney needs to call the mother's attorney to testify. It seems like everything the mother did was at her attorney's instructions.
If that red headed lady in the rear is her Mom , it explains a lot .
Apparently you can’t go Ice fishing unless you take your newborn baby that may have covid with you .. WTF !!
Yep, one fishing trip a year is pretty selfish we can only imagine the damage done to the older child. Selfish mother and grandparental interference
😂 You need to answer the question... I'm breathing! 😂😂 What a mess
The mother seems to have some developmental delays herself and her parents may have hindered her. Whenever the attorney ask a question she doesn't like she gets so angry she's visibly seething.
I thought the same thing.
You can be delayed OR special needs OR delayed WITH special needs. My son is delayed WITH special needs. I couldn't imagine STOPPING ANYONE from helping my child, myself, having a relationship with child etc.
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My son was delayed and those lead to his special needs diagnosis. However my youngest niece was delayed and diagnosed as having 3rd child syndrome. Essentially that amounts to lazy parenting. She is perfectly fine.
She is so looking to someone for her answers.
This Mom most assuredly did NOT write her declaration all by herself 🥰😳
Yes I did! I mean she did! We did? 🤣
@@k.stacey7389you are funny 😂
Not at all. She couldn’t put a complete sentence together when asked a question in court, so there’s no way she wrote that alone.
Mom is slower than a snail crawling uphill on a molasses trail. 😊
I'm not blaming him for all the arguments, just that he starts all the arguments 🤣
Yea. If he would have just shut up and agreed with everything I and my parents say and we would never be here your honor.
That comment said it all 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Right, she literally said ALL the arguments. 😂
I would have started all of em too I wanted to scream at her 😂
Can we please STOP calling children who don’t walk at 12 months “delayed” or “special needs” my son walked at 17 months and my daughter didn’t walk until almost 2. My son is an attorney and my daughter is thriving in college. The only special needs issue I see here is that the mother talks like a toddler and she acts like a brat who is keeping a toy away from her ex. Perhaps dad would be the better custodial parent in this case.
Ty!!!! You are 💯 right!!!
One of our eight didn't say ONE WORD until he was 3. Not a thing wrong with him now at 25. The only thing the docs thought was maybe he didn't _need_ to talk because he had so many siblings 😂
Mom = acts immature and manipulated by her parents. Dad = responsible and has an older child he’s raised. Dad should get custody anytime he’s not working. Her parents need to stay out of it for the benefit of the child.
So the mother is afraid shell lose her child if the father has visits? Am i misding something isnt that what shes doing? She a major Hypocrite
Amen on that one absolutely
This young lady is clearly delayed in learning and her parents are running everything. Parents need to step back and let their daughter grow up and manager her own life.
This is one of the most disturbing “moms” Ive seen in a while and i agree with another person who commented about it potentially being another gypsy rose situation. This “mom” has deep issues.
This is so hard to watch. What a manipulating, controlling woman. How many times did we hear "i allowed" bish, please... that child is equally dads. Not for u to allow or disallow contact and what kind of contact. Wow. This is infuriating. Dad has an amazing lawyer, and moms lawyer is a snake.
I had the same exact reaction to that whole "allow" nonsense! And I mean word for word!
Yeah that really annoyed me too, the mother believes she should have control over the father's access to their child. Made me mad when she said I let him... Etc etc I expect she got her sense of entitlement from her parents ...
The father wanted to give her diapers, but she just bought a box so they didn’t need them? What the He##
That made no sense lol. Those things are expensive. I don’t care if I had 10 boxes, you wanna get me another one I will accept them. Babies go through those things quicker than you can blink.
Tip of the cap to Mr. Green. His cross of mom was very good. Mom didn’t give her attorney much to work with- and if she told mom to withhold the child shame on her.
The parents should have been removed from the courts!!
Delayed just means the child is behind usually on their learning curve. Like walking, crawling, and talking. They usually catch up and do fine. Special needs is like autism or DS something they never grow out of. It shouldn't stop the dad from having her at all.
Which often is a result of the parent or parents.
It could be the child is behind because of lack of stimuli from the mother. If a baby is ignored all day they develop slow.
Dad won primary custody of his other child 10 years ago, he is already proven through the courts to be a fit partner and 50/50 should be stander. Mom is a mess and should not have custody of their child until she takes parenting classes and has some therapy to understand that keeping the child for 9 months was damaging to the child
Her example of him refusing parenting time unless he had 50/50 or full custody was deplorable. I don’t know if she truly surmised that or if she was told (by parents or lawyer) that.
I guess we know what side of the family the baby got the deficiencies from...edit she is just full of it because she is creating the fake narrative
I agree. The learning disabilities come from her for sure.
Yooooo! You too??! I was thinking that 3minutes in...
Rightttttt.... 🤔🙄
Thisssss!!!!
Yes! Thank you for saying what I was thinking. I felt mean. Honest, but mean. 😂
Equal treatment under the law, male or female. Situations like this really really infuriates me, and most of us. As women, we should be ashamed and hold each other accountable for our choices. Being manipulative, and unable to actually talk, think and comprehend-it’s a total control thing, grandparents or not. The fact she’s getting coached is sad.
Mandatory birth control, should be mandated and obtaining a license before anyone brings another human into this world. Have to have one to drive a vehicle- why not before another human is brought into this world.
No not equal treatment. We are supposed to do what's best for the child . This means father gets custody most of the time, not the mother, not 50/50. Children from single parent homes where the parent is a man do better in every aspect of life.
@michaelwaninger3155 whew. You flew straight over the cuckoos nest.
@@michaelwaninger3155 I totally agree, however I’m talking about treating both parents equally regardless of gender. So many judges, judicial systems lean towards the “mom” and that’s totally wrong. I was a single mother and I would have love for my ex husband to have taken an active roll. I agree men, fathers are great parents- even if they’re single parents. But there has to be equality in the system and not one sided, for the benefit of the children. Yes, best interest is the ultimate goal- but has to be applied without bias.
What was said after the attorney accused her of looking at her parents? Someone in the crowd said something and the judge responded.
I caught that too. Not sure what went down though. Maybe grandma threatening to wall out? 😂
Best part is the dad's lawyer didn't even directly say don't look at the parents. It was essentially don't look over there, look to me. She interjected her parents.
She’s a snotty little mom. She’s teaching her children to be hateful and mean towards the father of that child… That’s not nice as judge Judy would say you’re supposed to love your child more than you hate each other. This youngster. She needs to learn that she’s selfish someday she’s gonna regret it someday.
She's salty because him ending things meant he was no longer supporting her. Now welfare is.
Alot of these women need to understand these kids are not just yours they are not your possession
Is hard to blame moms attorney for telling her to withhold the child. She was being fed lies by her client just as the court was. The father needs custody for the emotional well-being of the child...
Doesn't matter. It's definitely unethical for an attorney to do the things she did.
Doesn't matter. It's definitely unethical for an attorney to do the things she did.
100 percent unethical. No excuses. Should be disbarred
No, the only way I’d say it’s ok for the atty to give advice like that is when there is clear evidence (not simply allegations) of some kind of outright abuse. And even then she should let her client know that she could possibly get in trouble for it, and has to make that choice.
@@k.stacey7389 but I believe in the case of extreme abuse, wouldn't an attorney involved in family courts be a mandated reporter that would mean that all she would do would be to inform the authorities
Wow 🤩 mom broke out the fancy leopard print for her court appearance. Stunning and brave
😂
😂😂😂😂But what is under her shirt… it’s distracting
Stunning and brave 💀💀
could have washed her hair
😂😂😂😂
The mother when she was coming off, the witness stand had a big stupid smile on her face. I wouldn’t be smiling. I’d be trouble that were in the situation not smiling like a kid getting off the swing at a park. What a freaking weirdo.
She was looking at her parents who coached her like "I did it" 😂 pathetic as all hell
I need closure!! I invested 2 hours into this thing only to hear that he won’t have a decision today. Please give a heads up in the title. 🤦🏽♂️
They have a court trial on 11/21. Maybe it'll be online.
@@littleauntjomama thanks! I hope so 🙏🏽
She is not the brightest crayon in the box. and is having difficulty keeping her tempter under control. No way she wrote her declaration. She doesn't even understand the medical terms she used. Her attorney is a waste of their money. His attorney gets an A+ from me. PS:Moms attornetneeds turned into the bar association for telling mom to withhold dad's visitation.
thats being kind, mother is a halfwit
If she did
She is nuts!!! Needs parenting classes and classes on how to be a grown adult.
I hope the father gets AT LEAST 50/50 custody. This mother will absolutely continue to alienate the father.
for the sack of the child the father should get full custody
“I’m breathing.” Wow!
Would it be too mean to think "Yeah, and that may be the problem" ?
Unless there are real, legitimate concerns of abuse or neglect the default should be 50/50. Dads shouldn’t have to beg to see their children.
She glitched when he was asking the difference between special needs and delayed prayers up for the child 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Moms lawyer has some gnarly karma coming.
I don't think this mom is smug and self-righteous, I believe she has some kind of
disability with anger issues. I also think her parents are not only helping her do this, but also telling her what she needs to say and do. hence all the lies and shutting out the dad. I hope you do the follow up Gail.
I agree with you. She is similar to Lenny in ""Of Mice & Men"". The shoulders surging violently up and down every time she gets a bit upset is a huge tell
Don't forget the lawyer instructed her to do everything she did.
@@smartypants8533 Which is a little shady on the lawyers part
@@sukiwatson let's be real her mommy and daddy are paying for the lawyer.
@@smartypants8533 exactly
A girl at our church was slow. She wasnt handicapped by any means. She was slow to talk, walk and learn new tasks. You had to show her a few times, but she did learn the stuff. By the time she was starting kindergarten she was up to the same developmental level her peers were. Theres a big difference between slow and handicapped. Slow is simply for right now you need patience to teach and guide for a while. Handicapped is a longer term, possibly lifelong circumstance. Im so glad his counsel asked if she knew the difference. She clearly did not know. I hope dad got to do 50/50.
Also, I'm a CPST and you don't need a new car seat unless their air bags deployed or it was a significant amount of damaged. It's right in the owners manual of car seats.
Plus car insurance pays to replace any car seat after an accident. If airbags activate the car seat gets replaced. My Son in law was in an accident & our Grandchild wasn’t in the car. Insurance replaced the car seat as a matter of their policy.
Yup! Exactly. My ex has been in so many accidents, and even if the kids aren't in the car the insurance company will replace the seats.
I do not think it is ethical for any lawyer to tell their client to withhold the child. There were no red flags to say the dad was dangerous, uncaring, or incapable. The mom seems so off and she is listening to her parents. That dad looks despondent and beaten down over this. I hope he at least gets 50/50.
He definitely should get make up parenting time for an extended period. And there's no reason why it shouldn't be 50/50 custody. The child is not in school yet. And when she is old enough to attend school, new schedules can be made then. Children have two parents. Not one.
@@nancygodsey8312 Exactly !!!
I think by default custody should be 50/50 and any parent withholding visitation from the other parent (even at the advice of their lawyer) should lose custody. The child should be placed with the parent that proves they are willing to coparent.
Precisely why children shouldn’t have children. This mom is way too immature.
I’m breathing😏omg what a brat 🙄
I was just going to say the same thing! The real people that are raising the baby are the grandparents.
@@thepurplerobin7280exactly, sorry I added more to my comment, she’s so immature I wanna shake her! She’s lucky her parents are there for her. That I’m breathing stunt she uses, omg!! I love dad’s attorney! And the judge!
Heheh, i know right?!
The “breathing” comment is a coping skill taught by attnys to their clients to keep them from lashing out in court. Which makes me very suspicious of her temper.
I really need to know the judge's decision. I find this mother unsetteling. I think she may have mental health or developmental issues herself. I think her attorney is overstepping her bounds by telling the mom to restrict dad's interest or perhaps the parents have hired the attorney to quietly handle some of the daughter's affairs.
14:09 Wow! Already... attitude with the judge, lying on the stand, and argumentative. This is going to be good!! Thanks, Gail ❤
That smile she made as she got on the stand looked like "look mommy and daddy, i did it just like you wanted!!"
💯!! They all conspiring against dad!
This Mother isn’t to bright she definitely delayed herself
Yup
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
*too
That's why the parents are so deeply involved.
The father’s lawyer’s first question was whether or not she wrote her declaration by herself without help. After some painful minutes later, I understood that question and I don’t believe she did.
This mom is ridiculous. Forgetting molasses, making cereal too thick? She said he caused the fights? I don’t think so. Talk about micromanaging. Basically he has to everything she deems is correct, or else. So it’s okay you didn’t go for work, but not if he is working. Totally fair. Again set of rules she’s making. I’m shocked people think this way. He is a Dad wanting to be there, and you selfishly want him out because he doesn’t want YOU. Not cool for your daughter