I lost a friend earlier this year, and he was 14 years old. He was such a bubbly person, and everyone loved him. Nobody would of ever thought he’d hurt himself, or even be remotely sad. He had just broken up with his boyfriend, and everyone at school was calling him derogatory words which I will never say. This song is so relevant to him, it makes my heart go insane every time I hear it. Fly high buddy. If any of you reading this are having suicidal thoughts, tell someone. You don’t deserve it, people love you.
Someone please send help ok so I’m struggling and I’m in ur position I’m to scared to ask for help it feels like I’m crying for help but nobody’s listening
this song means so much to it. i discovered it in 2019 and i remember when it was my favorite song for a looong while and i would cry to it basically everyday and now i just feel numb, nothing there. i miss the times when i cried to this song, it was just nice. so much less worries. if i ever could, i would listen to this song for the first time again.
this is my favorite beebadoobee song. i relate to it. i’m 14 and i’ve had suicidal thoughts since i was 12. sometimes it’s really hard, other days when it’s not, i tell myself “i’d never do it.” because i was in a good mood, and tell myself i won’t. but that good mood always fades and the thoughts come back. i know i would have missed so much if i killed myself back in 7th grade. i tell myself everyday that there is so much i haven’t done, haven’t seen. that’s what keeps me going.
i dont care if its been a fucking year are you okay and are you alive i dont care if youre a stranger to me and we dont even know eachother i want you to be okay and just know that theres people who love u and 1 of those ppl r me, ily. /p
the "who couldve blamed the girl" i believe is supposed to say "who coulved blamed her though" but i could be wrong. but thats what i hear.. and its very clear
Can i just share this here? This song reminded me of when i was 13. i started to hurt myself. with the pressure my parents put on me, my insecurities, the problems i had with my friends, and the pressure of being a leader in the classroom (i was constantly being told by my teacher of how incompetent i was, as a class president). It was actually enough for me to cut myself (stupid i know). i made cuts on my ankles, not my wrist. it was hidden that way because we used to wear long socks at school. there was actually a time i almost got caught because i had forgot that the red lines were still visible. i wore shorts and ankle socks that day and when my mother asked me what that was, i said i tripped on something. until now, they didn't ever know that i used to hurt myself. i planned on telling them about it after i had stopped, just to get it out of my chest but i'm not that close with my family to be honest. my siblings and i have a 7-year gap and my mother was working outside the country and was only home for 3 months a year. i'm scared that i'll fall back into the dark mindset i had a year ago. i'm really scared because a year ago, i was just testing if i could end it all. What if i get sad again and the worst happens?
u struggled well and I think u will be more beautiful without ur scars, so dont try to hurt yourself. U may be imperfect and me too so we have the same thing, so I'll give u a hug. keep trying cause u deserve great things
i remember when i found this song, i was 12 and i sobbed uncontrollably after hearing it…it stills tears me up listening to it now. This song has always had my heart the feeling i would get was like no other, seeing all of these comments, i want you all to know that it will get better even when it doesn’t feel like it will, it will, time has a funny way of ticking…so please keep thriving! life is short
This song started playing on spotify while my mom and I were in the car late on a Sunday night because I was scared to go to school the next day. We just sat in the car looking at the rain and I just felt the deep sadness. It was the kind that can break you but it also made me calm and realize how strong I have to be. I will be 14 in a few days, please let me be brave this year. Let me be brave because I know I can be.
I had developed an eating disorder when I was 14. I really hated myself and everything about me no matter what, this sound brought me to tears. I love this song with all my heart and I hope everyone who relates to this song is okay, things do get better. I promise.
i completely forgot about this song until now, i used to listen to it on repeat back in 2018-2019. I was 14 around then, relating to every single lyric of the song. I still do, I'm still not over the issues I had back then, even though I've tried over and over again. the amount of hours i've spent listening to and crying over this song... man. it hurts but i'm still going, just like bobby.
I made it another year. ik it's not much to most people, but i'm so glad all the times I stood there fully ready to give up everything I had, I stopped and thought about the people I needed to live for. "if not for myself, then i'll do it for others." it's difficult, but maybe if I push further I can finally get rid of these thoughts. I think it might get better, it'll take time but I hope that in the future I can look back and be so grateful and so proud of the immature and grieving person I am for trying so hard.
This makes me cry because I explains exactly what I went through (the thoughts of killing myself) and I survived it sadly I killed apart of my self esteem and I slooooowly regain it
last year i cried on my bathroom floor every night to this song. i was 13, now i am 14 about to be 15 and my life is feeling like this song again. i’m suicidal and tired. i’m not the person i was last year though. i have changed. i’m scared that i’m falling back into the person i used to be though, i’m so afraid. i wish i could prevent it from happening but i cant. i’m so so scared and tired. this song reminds me of everything i was and everything i am and what’s happening right now.
Just wanna say, I’m finally trying to stop. I decided to try, to really really try with all my heart to get better. And because I know I can’t do it for myself, I’m doing it for my mom, so she won’t be sad or worried, so she’ll be proud. Sometimes I feel like I’m not allowed to get better when i haven’t even tried to end it yet, I’ve thought about it, but I didn’t. Yet I know it doesn’t matter. I know that any pain is valid and that any pain is painful enough to need to get better.
Its so hard trying to sing this song because every time I get to "Bobby always had the stich, on the left side of her wrist" I break down. I've been struggling with self harm for 2 years, and could never get the courage to slice my wrist, and whenever I did try, my attempts were too weak to make a cut. hearing that lyric makes me realise how close to it I've come yet also makes me realise I'm such a coward and afraid of the pain, so I'll never do it. My arm is scarred, but there's no stich on my wrist.
I hope that you someday instead of breaking down to that lyric of this song, you smile proud of yourself to the lyric “she got what life could give that she missed”
This is a song about a girl who thinks nothing gets better, and dealing with depression and not seeing the good things in life but it could be looked at as an LGBTQ+ song.
This song means alot to me. I tried killing myself at 10, then when i grew up everything got worse, im stull struggling now at 18 and im so proud of everyone im the comments.
some people have puberty problems. one of them is me. I have acne problem. because I'm an introvert plus acne problems. I feel so disgusting. Makes it difficult for me to socialize with those around me. Even now I'm afraid to leave the house, I'm afraid of being insulted or ridiculed. I can only be in the room every day until now, Sometimes, I'm so sad and stressed that I do self harm :) . I wish I was like I used to be full of happiness.
Bobby was 14 when she knew Nothing would last Wishing her life wouldn't be this bad 'Cause Bobby always thought like this With a thought of having missed Every little thing life could bring She dismissed 'Cause Bobby always saw the bad rhyme to the life she had Who could've blamed her though? Bobby was 14 years old Bobby was 14 years old Bobby was 14 when she knew Nothing would last Wishing her mind didn't think so sad 'Cause Bobby always had a stitch On the left side of her wrist Despite the love she'd give She dismissed 'Cause Bobby always saw the bad rhyme to the life she had Who could've blamed her though? Bobby was 14 years old Bobby was 14 years old And Bobby knew If she ended it all It would be better soon And if she tried She would've missed out being happy And be a fool But deep down Bobby knew She'd find someone like you Bobby was 15 when she knew Some things would last Wishing her mind never thought that bad 'Cause Bobby still had a stitch On the left side of her wrist She got what life could give That she missed
Well I suppose I should share my story as well. TW: suicide attempt, venting I poured everything I had into her, or at last I thought. But I had never actually cared about myself. I have no friends, and I have no idea how to make any. I feel so trapped. I’m not going to sit here and lie to you, this happened recently. - She told me everything wrong about me and I blew up. She was my only friend, one I’d had for life. Since I was 2, I’d loved her with my soul. I have a photo of me 5, her 7, running through my grandmas yard. In my left hand I clutch a stuffed animal, the other, her hand. I had no clue what to say, I got mad at her. I ended up on the floor, writing a poem to her and looking and the photo of her I keep in my wallet. My last light had went out. I tried to OD. I never expected her to care. - One of my friends texted her about the “weird message” I’d sent him. She freaked out and started sobbing hysterically. Her mother walked in and found her there, which led to her telling her mom everything. Her mom texted mine. - I never thought I could make her cry. I didn’t think anyone cared. I’ve never seen her cry, crazy as it may sound. This happened a few days ago so I’m still figuring stuff out. I needed to share this and I’m sorry for venting in this comment section.
Also if you wanna be my friend (I am so desperate LMAO) I really like researching crime and serial killers, I’m a cat person,I’m lesbian, and I think I’m pretty nice! I’m too gentle to hurt a fly and I cry when ladybugs die so yeah that’s all.
i'm a 14 year old, i tried to kill myself at age 10 and the trauma stays in my head. I don't talk about it much because my parents told me its shameful, i feel like their wrong after reading all these comments on this post
This song is comforting and uncomforting at the same time. And I love that. ❤
I lost a friend earlier this year, and he was 14 years old. He was such a bubbly person, and everyone loved him. Nobody would of ever thought he’d hurt himself, or even be remotely sad. He had just broken up with his boyfriend, and everyone at school was calling him derogatory words which I will never say. This song is so relevant to him, it makes my heart go insane every time I hear it. Fly high buddy. If any of you reading this are having suicidal thoughts, tell someone. You don’t deserve it, people love you.
this made me cry, i was about to cry before reading it actually ahah.. i hope he is happy there
man this was heartbreaking to read - he never deserved that. stay strong dude.
i feel me and bobby are really close because we have a lot in common but,, shes not real :(
MinAh ikr? Same
same..
Bea said that Bobby in this song is her, so technically, she is real
bobby is you :0
Bobby exist in your heart darling:)
This song means so much to me
💜💜
Someone please send help ok so I’m struggling and I’m in ur position I’m to scared to ask for help it feels like I’m crying for help but nobody’s listening
Ilysm
i really needed this thank you❤️
This is such an inspiring comment
Anyone else here from the short movie "Bubble Gum?"
JadeZ Beanz me
JadeZ Beanz yes
Meee
MEE
I thought I was the only one
I'm 22 and this song is almost like a punch in my stomach bc I was so much better when I was 14 and I didn't know that. I fucking miss this age
this song means so much to it. i discovered it in 2019 and i remember when it was my favorite song for a looong while and i would cry to it basically everyday and now i just feel numb, nothing there. i miss the times when i cried to this song, it was just nice. so much less worries. if i ever could, i would listen to this song for the first time again.
this song explains my life
this is my favorite beebadoobee song. i relate to it. i’m 14 and i’ve had suicidal thoughts since i was 12. sometimes it’s really hard, other days when it’s not, i tell myself “i’d never do it.” because i was in a good mood, and tell myself i won’t. but that good mood always fades and the thoughts come back. i know i would have missed so much if i killed myself back in 7th grade. i tell myself everyday that there is so much i haven’t done, haven’t seen. that’s what keeps me going.
Be strong, i belivebe in you!
And i hope you did because if i could do this, i think you can too!!
Even if i'm a totally stranger
i dont care if its been a fucking year are you okay and are you alive i dont care if youre a stranger to me and we dont even know eachother i want you to be okay and just know that theres people who love u and 1 of those ppl r me, ily. /p
the "who couldve blamed the girl" i believe is supposed to say "who coulved blamed her though" but i could be wrong. but thats what i hear.. and its very clear
You’re definitely right. Don’t know how anyone could hear otherwise.
@@GuyWithGaming if you listen with it in mind it kinda sounds like it
@@GuyWithGaming the official lyrics to this song say “who could’ve blamed the girl though” but it definitely sounds like “her” instead of “girl.”
I cry to this song at 12:32 am every night and feel loved with every tear that drops
@Abby Saldaña because that's a time I will regret for the rest of my life
Can i just share this here? This song reminded me of when i was 13.
i started to hurt myself. with the pressure my parents put on me, my insecurities, the problems i had with my friends, and the pressure of being a leader in the classroom (i was constantly being told by my teacher of how incompetent i was, as a class president). It was actually enough for me to cut myself (stupid i know). i made cuts on my ankles, not my wrist. it was hidden that way because we used to wear long socks at school. there was actually a time i almost got caught because i had forgot that the red lines were still visible. i wore shorts and ankle socks that day and when my mother asked me what that was, i said i tripped on something.
until now, they didn't ever know that i used to hurt myself. i planned on telling them about it after i had stopped, just to get it out of my chest but i'm not that close with my family to be honest. my siblings and i have a 7-year gap and my mother was working outside the country and was only home for 3 months a year.
i'm scared that i'll fall back into the dark mindset i had a year ago. i'm really scared because a year ago, i was just testing if i could end it all. What if i get sad again and the worst happens?
u struggled well and I think u will be more beautiful without ur scars, so dont try to hurt yourself. U may be imperfect and me too so we have the same thing, so I'll give u a hug. keep trying cause u deserve great things
@@quynhtran7156 thank you i really needed it 💞
Ohhh why do we have the same story?? but the difference is it started when I'm 11
It will get better, I promise!! Just take your time
Wait like the same as me😭 except I actually do it on my wrist 😞 no one knows and I had stopped for a while but now it's back😭
i remember when i found this song, i was 12 and i sobbed uncontrollably after hearing it…it stills tears me up listening to it now. This song has always had my heart the feeling i would get was like no other, seeing all of these comments, i want you all to know that it will get better even when it doesn’t feel like it will, it will, time has a funny way of ticking…so please keep thriving! life is short
Love the fact you put lyrics in the way they are supposed to be sung
Gives me a clario vibe
This made me cry but in a good way
Mollie same here ...
What an great artist. 💞 i really love her.
beabadoobee a real one for making this song
This song hits different when your name is Bobby and your 14 :)
Wished i had listened to this a little bit earlier. Luv it. This explains everything, the words I haven't got to say.
This song started playing on spotify while my mom and I were in the car late on a Sunday night because I was scared to go to school the next day. We just sat in the car looking at the rain and I just felt the deep sadness. It was the kind that can break you but it also made me calm and realize how strong I have to be. I will be 14 in a few days, please let me be brave this year. Let me be brave because I know I can be.
I wanna hug you :(
Saddest song I’ve ever heard I think
I had developed an eating disorder when I was 14. I really hated myself and everything about me no matter what, this sound brought me to tears. I love this song with all my heart and I hope everyone who relates to this song is okay, things do get better. I promise.
i completely forgot about this song until now, i used to listen to it on repeat back in 2018-2019. I was 14 around then, relating to every single lyric of the song. I still do, I'm still not over the issues I had back then, even though I've tried over and over again. the amount of hours i've spent listening to and crying over this song... man. it hurts but i'm still going, just like bobby.
MAGGIE GOT ME HERE
i love this song, but it makes me cry :'>
Yeah, I also rlly love your profile picture
found this through a Wattpad comment
it sounded nice in text and it sounds more beautiful with sound
I made it another year.
ik it's not much to most people, but i'm so glad all the times I stood there fully ready to give up everything I had, I stopped and thought about the people I needed to live for. "if not for myself, then i'll do it for others." it's difficult, but maybe if I push further I can finally get rid of these thoughts.
I think it might get better, it'll take time but I hope that in the future I can look back and be so grateful and so proud of the immature and grieving person I am for trying so hard.
This makes me cry because I explains exactly what I went through (the thoughts of killing myself) and I survived it sadly I killed apart of my self esteem and I slooooowly regain it
same here i still want to die tho
damn the deodorant ad at the end ruined everything :(
I cry everytime i here this song.
and I was 17 years old ...
Elaias klud edgy
So dont wanna be eighteen with responbilities:)
last year i cried on my bathroom floor every night to this song. i was 13, now i am 14 about to be 15 and my life is feeling like this song again. i’m suicidal and tired. i’m not the person i was last year though. i have changed. i’m scared that i’m falling back into the person i used to be though, i’m so afraid. i wish i could prevent it from happening but i cant. i’m so so scared and tired. this song reminds me of everything i was and everything i am and what’s happening right now.
Hey, I know this was a year ago but I just wanted to check on you and ask if you were ok? I really want to know where you are now mentally 🥺🫶🏻
i was 14 too and i love this song ❤
i luv this song forever x
Just wanna say, I’m finally trying to stop. I decided to try, to really really try with all my heart to get better. And because I know I can’t do it for myself, I’m doing it for my mom, so she won’t be sad or worried, so she’ll be proud. Sometimes I feel like I’m not allowed to get better when i haven’t even tried to end it yet, I’ve thought about it, but I didn’t. Yet I know it doesn’t matter. I know that any pain is valid and that any pain is painful enough to need to get better.
I’m proud of u :,)
@@OwO-ul9qy thank you
@@beelzemobabbity Np. Its just a fact
I love this
just thank you
staying alive because i bought a ticket to see bea live in october
I like listening to this song when my dad is drunk.
I came from bubble gum
Me too
Sameeeee
Where can i watch it??
@@sofiabatista9011 look it up on yt "bubblegum" short film by ella fields
@@liebeming it says that it is blocked on my country... oh... im so sad now :c
I love thissss
i came from bubblegum :)
Me tooooo🖤🌺
Me too
This song is actually so deep
Its so hard trying to sing this song because every time I get to "Bobby always had the stich, on the left side of her wrist" I break down. I've been struggling with self harm for 2 years, and could never get the courage to slice my wrist, and whenever I did try, my attempts were too weak to make a cut. hearing that lyric makes me realise how close to it I've come yet also makes me realise I'm such a coward and afraid of the pain, so I'll never do it. My arm is scarred, but there's no stich on my wrist.
I hope that you someday instead of breaking down to that lyric of this song, you smile proud of yourself to the lyric “she got what life could give that she missed”
@@astrosokhowru Thank you so much, That really means a lot
I always end listine to this song hoping when I’m 15 I’ll be happier... didn’t work
🖤I love this song 🖤
Who else needed to see this song after watching the short film “bubble gum” I love this song!!!
came from bubble gum, is this a LGBTQ+ song? cuz my boyfriend would love this lol.
This is a song about a girl who thinks nothing gets better, and dealing with depression and not seeing the good things in life but it could be looked at as an LGBTQ+ song.
This song is about wanting to commit suicide but not bc she's being resilient
This song means alot to me. I tried killing myself at 10, then when i grew up everything got worse, im stull struggling now at 18 and im so proud of everyone im the comments.
wow i used to listen to this song (this vid) at school on my school chromebook like two years ago haha
some people have puberty problems. one of them is me. I have acne problem. because I'm an introvert plus acne problems. I feel so disgusting. Makes it difficult for me to socialize with those around me. Even now I'm afraid to leave the house, I'm afraid of being insulted or ridiculed. I can only be in the room every day until now, Sometimes, I'm so sad and stressed that I do self harm :) . I wish I was like I used to be full of happiness.
heard this song back in 2022, 12. turned 14 a few days ago and im back here:)) this is such a great song.
Bobby was 14 when she knew
Nothing would last
Wishing her life wouldn't be this bad
'Cause Bobby always thought like this
With a thought of having missed
Every little thing life could bring
She dismissed
'Cause Bobby always saw the bad rhyme to the life she had
Who could've blamed her though?
Bobby was 14 years old
Bobby was 14 years old
Bobby was 14 when she knew
Nothing would last
Wishing her mind didn't think so sad
'Cause Bobby always had a stitch
On the left side of her wrist
Despite the love she'd give
She dismissed
'Cause Bobby always saw the bad rhyme to the life she had
Who could've blamed her though?
Bobby was 14 years old
Bobby was 14 years old
And Bobby knew
If she ended it all
It would be better soon
And if she tried
She would've missed out being happy
And be a fool
But deep down Bobby knew
She'd find someone like you
Bobby was 15 when she knew
Some things would last
Wishing her mind never thought that bad
'Cause Bobby still had a stitch
On the left side of her wrist
She got what life could give
That she missed
tysm
Linツ this is literally a lyric video
The lyrics are so deep
i felt so attacked bye
gracias de verdad
This song reminds me of the book Girl in Pieces idk why
ive always been like this after I turned 14
I'm 20 now but this takes me back to when I was 14 no joke...in a way I'm still like Bobby
I know better...idk why I can't change
🍃🧡
the french translation of "cry to this" is out now on my channel ;)
im bobby before she was 15
Anyone still here?
Me
Checking this song out now cuz this girl I got a tiny crush on told me I should check it out🥺
Well I suppose I should share my story as well.
TW: suicide attempt, venting
I poured everything I had into her, or at last I thought. But I had never actually cared about myself. I have no friends, and I have no idea how to make any. I feel so trapped. I’m not going to sit here and lie to you, this happened recently.
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She told me everything wrong about me and I blew up. She was my only friend, one I’d had for life. Since I was 2, I’d loved her with my soul. I have a photo of me 5, her 7, running through my grandmas yard. In my left hand I clutch a stuffed animal, the other, her hand. I had no clue what to say, I got mad at her. I ended up on the floor, writing a poem to her and looking and the photo of her I keep in my wallet. My last light had went out. I tried to OD. I never expected her to care.
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One of my friends texted her about the “weird message” I’d sent him. She freaked out and started sobbing hysterically. Her mother walked in and found her there, which led to her telling her mom everything. Her mom texted mine.
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I never thought I could make her cry. I didn’t think anyone cared. I’ve never seen her cry, crazy as it may sound. This happened a few days ago so I’m still figuring stuff out. I needed to share this and I’m sorry for venting in this comment section.
Also if you wanna be my friend (I am so desperate LMAO)
I really like researching crime and serial killers, I’m a cat person,I’m lesbian, and I think I’m pretty nice! I’m too gentle to hurt a fly and I cry when ladybugs die so yeah that’s all.
Mate, still doing good?
mMmmMMMMmm
my last few hours.
Hey are you okay?
I hope you see this and I hope you're ok🥺
@@tinyfont hi. i’m sorry i’m good :) what about you ?
@@luisadelrey yes i’m fine now :)
@@cdvr_slt4860 that's amazing and I'm glad ur still here ❤
anyone have the ukulele chords?
#iKONBOBBY hehehehehehehehe
Found this thanks to Maggie 🖤
guitar chords?
0:11
Guess I'm the only one who's listening to this in 2024
i'm a 14 year old, i tried to kill myself at age 10 and the trauma stays in my head. I don't talk about it much because my parents told me its shameful, i feel like their wrong after reading all these comments on this post
bobby is real
And why is that?
Who remembers Bobby from iKON? Gosh baby kimbap😥
Be
:(
Why did i became a girl?
cause she always saw the bad rhyme to the life she had
who could've blamed her though*
:(