How Gravestones Are Deep Cleaned | Deep Cleaned
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- Alicia Williams, who is better known as Lady Taphos, is a volunteer cemetery conservator whose gravestone-cleaning videos have gone viral on TikTok. She walks us through her typical gravestone-cleaning process, which includes soaking the gravestone, scraping off any biological buildup, and scrubbing it with a brush.
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How Gravestones Are Deep Cleaned | Deep Cleaned
Imagine if your one of these people go died like 200 years ago, and there’s still a person who’s washing and taking care of your grave
@ToXic_BoT the guy above me is gay, uno reverse
@@agsadfas So both gay. Time for you guys to get married! Don't forget me to invite.
Imagine if *my* one of those people…. 🤔
The person below me plays minecraft
@@theteardrop615 do not!
Let's be honest, most people didn't know this was a job
It’s not a job for her, she does it because she likes it.
🙋♀️ I didn't
Pretty sure it's not. Anyone can go do it.
It's not. She does not get paid for it.
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This woman ain't getting haunted if she keeps this up
Or she'll be super haunted, by all the ghosts who want her to clean their graves
Or she will be incomprehensibly haunted, but the ghosts only do nice or useful things
Thomas Bayes was a mathematician in the 1700s (died in 1761). He contributed greatly to the area of statistics. His grave was located in London. It was ‘discovered’ in very bad repair by a statistician who walked past the cemetery on his way to work. He loved Bayes’s work, so he decided to clean the gravestone himself with an old toothbrush. Everyday he did a little bit more and the effort was soon joined by his colleagues. I don’t know how long it took them but it was a labor of love. This is a story I was told by the statistician worked for . It maybe a load of crap but I like it and your video made me remember it.
Thomas Bayes from Bayesian analysis? Hey something I remembered from college.
@@flybeep1661 That’s the one. His work was all but forgotten but recently ‘rediscovered’ and is now very influential in modern statistical analysis. Most of my company’s statisticians call themselves Bayesians.
@@TheTwick I wouldn't say forgotten, rather became more useful when other basic concepts of statistics fell into place in the early-mid 20th century. It became so useful, of course, that it is now ingrained in nearly every subfield of statistics (including modern statistics, such as machine learning).
@@last3239 I’m not a statistician so I won’t fight you on that. I remember being taught that some mathematics was “rediscovered” by the West, which sounds much better than stolen. I only brought up Bayes’s grave as an example of amateur grave marker cleaning (the subject of the video) but I am getting schooled in statistics. Thank you for the lesson. I’ll have to read up on Brahmagupta.
@@last3239 i am pretty sure it was not stolen but rediscovered. thats a HUGE difference.
A few years ago I wanted to clean my parents’ gravestone. I did some research, got a recommended product, brought cleaning tools, and spent a couple of hours there. It was very satisfying seeing the end result.
Your parents must be so happy to see you still caring for their grave. The work you did was beautiful. Keep on doing it.
we do this for every family member in my area with a gravestone. Just take a day in spring and fall to get together, clean the stones, dig up dead plants, plant bulbs or trim shrubs. It's very satisfying.
everyone says its satisfying but no-one mentions the people that had been there
@@EarthButNotFlat I feel like that goes without saying
@@spacedust95 cleaning Headstones damages them ..FACT !
So nice, I hope they all visit to thank her in person.
She wakes up to hundreds of ghosts thanking her
Kkkk.... jajaja
@@shrektheogre6936 😆😂🤣
I hope they dont
yeah!, wait............
I friends often got confused while reaching me as they couldn't see my name clearly, after being professionaly cleaned my name could be seen half a miles away. Thankyou my family for hiring this expert grave stone cleaners.
Haha- *wait*
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Hold up-
AYOOOOOO
@@goki6548 excuse me what the fck
Hard to imagine that one day we will have our own gravestone and below is us decomposing
I'd rather be cremated than have my body be eaten by worms and other insects and bacteria
Not all ppl
Yeah but especially if you are buried in a more natural way, your body will nurture the soil, bacteria, some small animals, and plants... Maybe one day it will help grow mushrooms, or anything else! You'll just become a part of nature again
@@wyass4722 yes I agree completely.
@@wyass4722 from dust we all came from, and to dust we shall all return
Is it just me or does the video resolution seem really low?
Yeah the pixels were bothering my eyes...
Im watching in 4k i don't see what ur talking abt
@@ahuplayz4929 there is no 4k option ...
@@ahuplayz4929 pretentious liar. You probably can't even play at 480p. There's no 4K. 🥴
nope completely normal to me tho….
That one person gravestone: "gone but not forgotten"
Well people still clean your grave so yea, good for you ghost.
This seems like a fulfilling job both in a practical sense as in an emotional sense.
I remember cleaning a gravestone. It's very calming therapeutic. Especially when you're cleaning the grave of a loved ones. I cleaned my grandpa's grave. He passed away when I was little so i don't remember him much. But I talked to him about how his son still missed him and how his son still a stubborn man. It's really a good time to reflect upon yourself and your life. A way to connect to your loved ones and question the meaning of life. I hope he don't worry much about us anymore. I really want to know if he proud of us. But I'm really afraid of ghost, so don't visit us, grandpa.
You have nothing to fear. Our loved ones are not scary and are the same as they were in life.
"If you wouldn't use a brush to wash your car, dont use it on gravestones."
I use one on my teeth, I'll use one on a gravestone.
@@oaktadopbok665 lol you use a brush for cleaning instead of a toothbrush?! 😆
That's not something you hear everyday
Pro tip for everyone: never use any brush on your car, it will always damage the car except for when the car is clean already. Even if the bristles do no harm, the dirt moved around by the bristles will.
CORRECTION. She said "If you wouldn't use THE brush...". She's not saying not to use a brush, she's saying if you wouldn't use it on your car don't use it on a gravestone.
Lovely to see. Some of those graves are so old that anyone who knew the deceased are long gone themselves, but I think it's important that we still show respect for those who have passed.
And to all the people who clearly didn't watch the whole video - you can't use a pressure washer as it can damage the stone. The lady clearly states that you can only use a pressure level such as one that you may use to water / fertilise plants.
So satisfying to watch.
agree
Can we get an F for Charlie Evans born on christmas day?
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Am I the only one who’s sad when they see graves not being visited?! 🧐💗✨
Well, you just can't always stick around, you gotta accept the reality
@@fulldude5435 true, cause thats how life works sadly..🙁
It's pretty normal really. What do you expect to still be known or relevant after being dead for 60 years or more? Nobody would barely know who you were or care. Like in my case, the oldest person I knew (barely) who died the longest ago died 33 years ago and she was my great grandmother. I barely knew her and have no clue where she's buried and never visited her grave (and also don't really care).
but then, the people who would visit you turn into graves themselves. Then you dont have anyone coming to your grave. You think they dont care but they just cant visit you.
@@flybeep1661 Relax
Imagine being dead for 200 years and some random person just comes up to your headstone so that they can clean it. Man I'd literally haunt them and make sure they live the best life bruh. I'm ngl, this is kinda wholesome
You say lie-chin, I say liken...
Let's call the whole thing off
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Nice work!
My grandfather’s stone was completely covered with lichens. My husband found it underneath. It was a satisfying clean. My distant cousin’s grave hadn’t been touched since 1918. Awful. Totally black. I cleaned it one day and two days later went back for a second cleaning. It looked so much better. Gave it another coating of D2, then we had to leave. I haven’t seen them since, but, I know they look better.
It’s so sad to see how young some people that are there were.
The amount of care and respect this woman has while cleaning the gravestones of the dead, I think a lot of souls will thank her once she goes up to her final resting place.
Thank you, I'm gaining confidence that I can clean my great-grandmother's stone!
You are very cool. I like what you do. I’ve always loved walking through old cemeteries and looking for historical information. I found one in New Jersey, the surnames were Dutch in the oldest part. What made it interesting was that the surnames were also the names of towns in the state. Were these the families of the founders of the “New Amsterdam” colony?
I follow her on tiktok. I used her methods to clean my great grandparents stones. They look amazing.
I really want to go do this with a few friends on the cemetery my great grandmother, aunt and uncle were buried! I think it would be a great experience to just work a bit for those who already left
Its cool to know that people actually look after yiur stone
I honestly love that people clean gravestones. It's like they're still looking after the person that has passed! So sweet
where I’m from, the family comes together and clean it themselves
My son who is about to be 8 September 13th is extremely interested in cleaning the forgotten soldiers graves that we find way to much of. It really gets to us when we see a soldier that has served us and has passed to be left alone and some very destroyed and this is next to the Department of Education that my son drops his homework off to . That really makes him feel sad. The school that teaches him to respect and love our soldiers leaves them in the next yard with full grown trees over them and through them. It is a very painful sight. My family fathers side were all Army navy and marine and to see them even have grass cuttings drives me wild. The disrespect is uncalled for . They should never be forgotten like this
That’s so nice, you care for those people so much you clean their graves! We need more people like you to do this job
Thank you for the update, Insider..!! Wow, the spirits of people who had their gravestones cleaned will be so grateful.. for every volunteer who cleaned their long abandoned gravestones.
What if the spirits preferred the patina?
I have used that D2 I have some. But I like the way you do with the running water all the time that's great. And the outcome is amazing
That's not how you say lichen.
I respect anyone who actually shows our dead respect, it shows a certain type of person. No need to fear death or the dead we should show them the dignity they deserve
Bedford, VA? I got fam in Amherst and Big Island area. Thanks for doing this. I like to do rubbings when I'm in the area. This is cool to learn about!
It's pronounced *lai*
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I just discovered my great great great great grandparents grave ( dated 1854 ) only a ten minutes from where I've worked for the past 20 years! Unfortunately it's old and dirty, and therefore hard to read some of the inscriptions. Would be great to have it cleaned up like the ones in this video.
Im here because I recently found the grave of a childhood friend who passed when he was just 15. His stone was hard to read. I plan to clean it. I don't think he has been attended in years. Im about to change that.
Hi. Can you please list the products you used in your video?
Going to go clean more of my ancestors, tonight, because when we decorate, yesterday, some were hideous! The D/2 is essentially ammonia..j/s. Don’t use beach, and never mix the 2! Also, never use a metal scraper or wire brush, as she said, if you wouldn’t use it on your car, don’t use it on the stone. You will scratch it permanently and no one wants to buy a new one at $1000-$10,000. You’ll never replace these old ones with the same style, either. The men who made these, by hand, put a lot of labor and skill into their work. ❤
In case people didn't know this isn't a job. It isn't she created this position for herself, she volunteers. Meaning she doesn't get paid to do it. So I really hope one day someone will look after her gravestone.
Salute to this woman!
I recently started this as a hobby. There plenty of veterans buried in the cemetery near me, and I work exclusively on their stones. As a veteran myself, it’s a way to honor these folks.
یا اللہ میری مدد فرمایہ دنیا والے نہیں سنتے بڑے یو ٹیوبر بہت تکبر کرتے ہیں اللہ تعالی🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏽
Hi there, thanks so much for the tutorial. I was wondering if you ever repaired a stone that had a piece broken off from the top?
It amazing and nice how so many of you are cleaning the grave stones and showing respect for the dead .. but our society aborts 1 million Babies each year .. not accusing anyone .. it saddens me … but I am very happy because of what you all do. Thank you
Wowww, I wish someone takes care of my grave when I die.
Please be oh so gentle with marble! Scrubbing/scraping must be done gently or you risk flaking material off. I've seen too many amateurs massacre memorials with the best intentions. I make headstones for a living, and there's a reason granite is standard in the industry. 9 mohs hardness, diamond is 10. Marble is susceptible to acid rain and uprights are known to tip over from wind.
Can you please perform the scraping slowly so we can see how sometimes there are many steps to getting lichens and moss off. It's very relaxing and satisfying to watch all the steps. Some cleanings are sped up and we miss a lot. Thank you for what you do.
I love the before - after
Is it just me that thinks the amount of lichens on old grave stones is super satisfying? It just adds so much character and just shows how long a go it was erected. A super clean grave stone from the 18 hundreds or earlier just doesn't feel right.
It’s so hard to read them when they are that dirty.
Here I am a year later. I tried to clean a great aunt’s stone. The green would not budge at ALL. I sprayed it heavily and left. This year, i was so shocked. It was spotless!!!! Very rewarding.
Respect for the dead
I joined a FB cemetery group and was horrified to find out I shouldn't have used Mr Clean to clean my grandparents headstone years ago. It's time for another wash and you betcha I'm gunna use D2!!
D2 works great but if you're on a tight budget you can also use wet and forget. It's chemical compound is similar to D2 but much cheaper and it's on the approved list of cemetery administration products.
Existe uma resina, tipo verniz, própria para uso em pedras ou cimentado, que evita o aparecimento de limo (lodo). Congratulações do Brasil.
That’s satisfying ngl
Friendly advice: it’s pronounced “Lie-Ken” or “Ly-Kin.” There’s no “ch” sound.
Serious question though. Would a pressure washer work better? Oh you said low pressure literally as I was writing this but I’m posting it anyway!
Absolutely not!!
this is these people's 5 minutes of fame
What a beautiful caring thing to do , bringing the names back to the light so people can read them say the names and be remembered (when you speak the name it brings back the memory of that person ) 🌺🙏🌺
I never would have thought gravestone cleaning to be a job. 😳
She volunteers.
It's not she does it for free.
Lovely
Old cemeteries look so much better when the patina on the gravestones is left intact.
the info soon becomes lost if its not cleaned.
@@markrush5013 Define "soon." I've seen uncleaned gravestones over 100 years old that are still legible.
I cleaned stone last week in WV. One I did for a relative was black. I cleaned it twice. The difference is like night and day. Another one I did was a beautiful white marble stone covered with green growth. After two cleanings, I gave it a final spray and left. Next year when I return, it will be snowy white like the day it was set. Also, the woman died in 1886. That means, it will need another good cleaning in the year 2157. I hope someone will take it upon themselves to clean it again.
Unless it's your own family member, and you know exactly what you're doing, leave them alone.
Imagine living in 1800's man that's one of my dream no electronic device.
Good video and there are various ways within her guidelines to go about this. Generally water should be used first so it can soften up the growth on the stone and then spray D/2 or wet and forget and wait. The methods here though and results are probably the same
Dr. Nick Riviera does a better job and for only $29.95.
I preferred the aged look with the ancient lichen. lichen are not harmful
The lichen will eventually destroy the carving on the stone which limits their use as memorials and historical records. What could be harmful is doing this too much and spraying all kinds of herbicides around.
Me encantó ese trabajo.
In our area there a bunch of stones that are eroding. It would be awesome to make a spray that everyday people could use to stop the erosion and preserve what's left
There is! It's called Wet & Forget Outdoors. This seems to be the particular brand the conservators are using in my area (on 18th and 17th century stones). There's several similar products.
Went to see my great grandmas grave and decided I wanted to clean it up for her and take care of it
I'm fortunate to have 3 to 4 generations of several of my family lines buried locally so I will choose one to clean and then learn as much as I can about that person beforehand so I feel a genuine connection while I'm cleaning their marker. It's a very rewarding hobby in conjunction with my genealogy research.
Next up, how cinemas are deep cleaned after being closed from the pandemic (spoilers : by being demolished)
Gloves..? Or am I just overthinking it...? 🤔
I suggest you get permission from the family of the deceased, not just the cemetery. I know locals here who would freak the fudge out if you did this to their ancestor's graves.
This is a job, she gets hired to do this or do you think this is a hobby to her? Silly.
She's a volunteer. It's not a job - read the description. Who's silly?
@@oaktadopbok665 She does ask permission, either by family members or the person who owns the cemetery if there are none.
Это благое дело. Кто ещё, если родственников уже нет. Обычно ухаживают за одним или двумя поколениями, а дальше...
забывают. Меняются места жительства, меняются места захоронений.
Вы молодцы. 🙏🙏
This is a pretty awesome job, ngl
Quoth the Raven, "What a shine."
I've been cleaning stones for a while now I love it I mostly clean up my family grave stones it's so peaceful
R.I.P. Gladys❤️🕊
How did you get that job??? Looks like fun.i'd do it!!!
Volunteer.
Where can I purchase this product.
D/2 Biological Solution, just search online.
Hopefully my children will clean my gravestone 😊
Imagine being a ghost, just one day, visiting your grave, and then sing some woman cleaning your grave..
D-2 Solution is literally just "bleach" and soap. Bleach is a household name for 3% sodium chloride solution. D-2 Solution is mostly Chloride, its just not "Bleach".
From there website the main ingredient is 1-Decanaminium, N-Decyl-N,N-dimethyl-, chloride.
I would LOVE a job like this
How wonderful
Em Salvador Bahia existe um Cemitério Campo Santo onde hoje é o Museu de Artes Cemiterial, as Imagens são em mármore Carrara de acordo com os séculos. Grata.
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imma be honest. i started a job at a florist, and they asked me to help clean the gravestones at the local cemetery with the head florist. i was a bit scared at first. and i still have mixed feelings. but i try to think about the love of the families who wants their loved ones taken care of
In Chinese culture , we have two different festivals, which is made public holidays, where families will go to the graveyard 🪦 to pay visit, may bring some flowers, incense, food and clean their ancestors/ love ones’s grave stones.
I want this job! 🥰
It's volunteer work! Get out there on your own or get involved with a local cemetery preservation group. Enjoy!
Outstanding work I bet the people sure appreciate that
Imagine the next day the worker will see written on the grave, thank you for washing me and taking care, I will be always be on your side for your help.
Worker - 😳😳
Alicia, I have either rust from well water or fertilizer staining on a granite headstone. Although D2 has helped some, the stain is still there. The poultice route was less effective than D2 and led to cleaning the powder out of the engraving. Any advice. Thanks.
Evan ke janina. Tabe Charles Dicken ke jani.
As per British colony in India.
I understand you are a genealogists. I want to do research on my family, my grandmother was Cherokee, and my grandfather was from texas, born around 1897, where is the best place to start a search.
She even clean the gravestone with 100 years ago omg
For the last few years, I've been finding and cleaning all of my family grave stones. Some have gone back to the early 1700s. In a lot of the cemeteries, it was the only cleaned stone, which makes me sad to see all these forgotten people.