‘I’m in a Dark Spot’ Son Shares of His Depression

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

Комментарии • 7 тыс.

  • @PK-zf3ir
    @PK-zf3ir 5 лет назад +1285

    I don’t like how they treated him... he clearly just wants help and they are tearing him down more.
    (I’m glad I’m not the only person who feels this way.. thanks for the likes)

    • @galaxyoldacc483
      @galaxyoldacc483 5 лет назад +5

      Queen KeiKei ikr

    • @PK-zf3ir
      @PK-zf3ir 5 лет назад +14

      Those people need to realize you can’t just go tearing someone down like that cause they think they are better than him 😔 Depression is no joke it’s not just a feeling it’s an illness, I deal with it myself. Depression is a chemical imbalance of the brain 🧠, it’s such a struggle ‼️ He shouldn’t have been bashed the way he was, he’s crying out for help and it breaks my heart they didn’t treat him better. 🥺😞

    • @lightasafeather9750
      @lightasafeather9750 5 лет назад +2

      Yes I agree. And from “professionals”. 🙄

    • @itsnawkay622
      @itsnawkay622 Год назад

      Fr , they worried about him drinking more than his feelings. This is reality.

  • @aeonian.allure9962
    @aeonian.allure9962 5 лет назад +5261

    and this here is exactly why kids/teens don’t talk to their parents about stuff. a prime example.

    • @ProphetNewYork
      @ProphetNewYork 5 лет назад +83

      coming from someone that suffers from major anxiety/depression/panic attacks daily. each day is harder then the next for people like us and when ppl like this talk show put you down or dont get you, u start to resent the world only turning it in on yourself. Alot of people take their life because people dont seem to see/get their pain. So they have no one to talk to. THey dont see the signs . How stupid are these people to not understand his drinking habbits and isolation. Pisses me off

    • @shesuckonmyglock6664
      @shesuckonmyglock6664 5 лет назад +4

      U mean black kids

    • @ricotoojiggy3817
      @ricotoojiggy3817 5 лет назад +18

      YesItsPaige it’s hard fake friends can hurt... they saying the all that is part of his little game but they don’t understand where he is at right now it’s hard to explain depression

    • @mayramartinez9392
      @mayramartinez9392 5 лет назад +5

      Exactly like this really disgusted me 🤢😭

    • @bosstv8005
      @bosstv8005 5 лет назад +1

      YesItsPaige THANK YOU BITCH !!??

  • @Solostar9
    @Solostar9 6 лет назад +6174

    THIS IS WHY PPL DONT TALK.

    • @KiaraShaniece
      @KiaraShaniece 5 лет назад +241

      Ronnie Bryant exactly, its like what's the point because nobody listens.

    • @Lovelyaribb
      @Lovelyaribb 5 лет назад +51

      Exactly

    • @Aj-ed7dv
      @Aj-ed7dv 5 лет назад +160

      This is why men don’t talk women always make it their fault in the end

    • @Darkwire3468
      @Darkwire3468 5 лет назад +27

      You can say that again

    • @lilb2x
      @lilb2x 5 лет назад +15

      💯

  • @fathomlessfitness8540
    @fathomlessfitness8540 2 года назад +609

    The fact that he said “you put me on” speaks volumes. Women are ignoring the emotional damage he’s had to suffer for having to grow up soo fast..without a father and then having to step up and play the father role for his siblings. Who was taking care of him emotionally? Did his mom ever think maybe he drinks because he’s missing that fatherly love? She thought just buying him stuff was gonna make up for him not having emotional support as a boy? And do these women think they are helping him to stop? They are only making it worse. 😢

    • @p51424
      @p51424 Год назад +33

      The fact that he said "You put me on" and they ignored it, is the real problem.

    • @deathflame3849
      @deathflame3849 Год назад +20

      Parentification is when a child is forced to take on the role of an adult. When caregivers aren’t able to fully show up for themselves, children get put into developmentally inappropriate situations. As an adult, they may find it hard to trust others, manage their own emotions, and form healthy intimate relationships. They face a greater risk of anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, and eating disorders.

    • @fathomlessfitness8540
      @fathomlessfitness8540 Год назад

      @@deathflame3849 💯💯💯

    • @jameswayton2340
      @jameswayton2340 Год назад

      I can share something valuable to this almost nobody knows anything about. My father was abcent as well, but not as much as with this guy. (If this is real btw all of this seems like acting and weird body language if you ask me). Something people don't realize is that if a boy grows up with his mother and the father is abcent, this can cause the boy to resent the mother. Because the father is not present enough, the mother becomes TOO present for a boy. This causes damage to his male identity that every boy is looking for and this guy misses strongly. And then yes him saying ''you are my best friend ma''... your mother is not supposed to be your best friend... she is supposed to be your mother first, anything else second. So his father was not there for him. Even his mother was not there for him at times. And then the mother probably sees him as her ''best friend'' that she loves so much. His mother is the only source of love, and the only source of hurt at the same time. His mother is clearly emotionally fucked in the head (Reminds me of my own hurting mother). She is immature as shit.

    • @fathomlessfitness8540
      @fathomlessfitness8540 Год назад

      @@jameswayton2340 damn! That’s DEEP. I didn’t think of her being “too present” or the resentment it causes some men to have towards their moms if the dad leaves.

  • @aureliajohnson4123
    @aureliajohnson4123 6 лет назад +1769

    They aren't listening to this young man.. SMH

    • @tayblocka6601
      @tayblocka6601 6 лет назад +14

      Your right this pisses me off

    • @GodBlessedThisBod
      @GodBlessedThisBod 5 лет назад +9

      aurelia Johnson exactly... listen to him. He’s sad! HELP HIM!

    • @lapure2220
      @lapure2220 5 лет назад +1

      They always do that

    • @RJ__________
      @RJ__________ 5 лет назад +2

      They never listen to the man SMH I hate it

  • @alexaarias906
    @alexaarias906 5 лет назад +2491

    This is why people end up killing themselves no one is there for them even when they cry for help😢

    • @nyahortiz2853
      @nyahortiz2853 5 лет назад +15

      I know right thats how I feel

    • @MariaHernandez-sm3wn
      @MariaHernandez-sm3wn 5 лет назад +19

      Fr tho when people are depressed they cry when they saying it N people will be like that's your fault like damn at least be there for them, just the thought of someone leaving you when you down makes you evil bro 💔💯

    • @vloneglokkvu4078
      @vloneglokkvu4078 5 лет назад +7

      They wrong for that why they do him like that

    • @JustMe-xv8ql
      @JustMe-xv8ql 5 лет назад +2

      Alexa Arias true just true

    • @alexaarias906
      @alexaarias906 5 лет назад +1

      Torron Brown ik Im late buh i swearrr

  • @alexis-or5rs
    @alexis-or5rs 5 лет назад +942

    this poor man .. he just wanted some help and they gon criticize him ? smh .

    • @archangeltheonetrue6363
      @archangeltheonetrue6363 5 лет назад +7

      Amazing, isnt it? He's the result of another, young, black, single baby momma. He emotes like a girl. She's all he knows, and now, she takes him to a bunch of cacklin ass hens, to help her bad decision makin ass. Yes, let's blame the victim. All because, she CHOSE to be a baby momma, instead of a WIFE & MOTHER.

  • @shanelalitay1224
    @shanelalitay1224 Год назад +209

    His mother treated him like a substitute husband, “man of the house” spoiled him and probably never had talks about goals, having ambitions and now is mad how he turned out. These women are disgusting for how they treated him

    • @jameswayton2340
      @jameswayton2340 Год назад +15

      You absolutely nailed this and described it perfectly. This is what i was sensing as well. When he said ''she's my best friend'' i knew what he meant. Your child is not supposed to be your best friend. The mother is immature. Perhaps borderline like my own mother. And yes because she spoiled him and showered him with motherly love this only makes him reject his mother in the end. Of the father is not present and only your mother is, she automatically becomes to present. This guy is looking for his MALE IDENTITY.... Wich is the problem so many boys are struggling with. How are you going to develop that without a dad that is present? You can't. Boys not growing up with a dad that is mentally and emotionally present grow up with a male identity that is based on symbolism. This is what creates ''alpha douchebags''. Ohhh eat meat and muscle and have a big car and money and be like a super hero is male idenitty!... is what they think. And al these women don't UNDERSTAND that. This mother is fucked up, i bet she is only sad because her oldest child is not able to play that substitute husband/friend of hers. Thats not what real love is. She is like a copy of my own mother wich i am dealing with so this is a eyeopener for me as well.
      This video is not about depression alone, its about him being traumatized and emotionally neglected. And instead of a experienced psychologist specialized in trauma he gets to talk to these Goblin freaks who pretend to have his interests at heart and pretend to know what is good for him, as if they have knowledge on this topic... fucking retards. Serously this video really upsets me because i'm dealing with trauma right now similar to this. Its such a invisible wound you carry with you and people have NO IDEA about these things. Its as if so many people are fucked up themselves they don't even know how to seperate healthy/unhealthy anymore. Everyone becoming narcissistic and borderline and immature as shit.

    • @bryangolding7463
      @bryangolding7463 11 месяцев назад +1

      I got cussed out the other day because a woman said “having no man gives her extra time to spend with her kids”. I responded saying “please make sure you maintain a healthy balance and not burden those kids with your emotional burden.” She and others start telling me I have issues and I’m projecting 😂😂. I just repeat and left them alone because I really been seeing this since I was a kid. Never happen to me tbh caz I was the wild one who couldn’t be tamed.

    • @mdhall04
      @mdhall04 10 месяцев назад

      ​@jameswayton2340 idk once your child is matured I why not be friends with your parents? Someone you can trust and talk to about things.
      I'm doing with a similar situation with my own mom.

  • @kylarenae2180
    @kylarenae2180 5 лет назад +2943

    This is exactly why people don’t open up because they get judged

    • @naharalove728
      @naharalove728 5 лет назад +43

      Exactly its the resson why people feel depressed they dont have anyone to turn to so then they take their depression out on thing like alcahol or cutting and those people are making it worse because this is why i disliked. They dont know what hes going through because they havent been throught it but when they end up like him they try to get people to understand them and they dont they critize them and make them feel unworthy and de graded in front of a buch of people that only agrre with the people citizing them because they are followers and that can make you feel like the whole world has turned on you and thats why so many people have taken their lives

    • @kylarenae2180
      @kylarenae2180 5 лет назад +3

      Nahara Love facts
      💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @naharalove728
      @naharalove728 5 лет назад +3

      @@kylarenae2180 thanks! 💓

    • @zizi6538
      @zizi6538 5 лет назад +4

      Thank you!! This is why I don't want to talk about my felling I know ill get judge

    • @forevershonaa7673
      @forevershonaa7673 5 лет назад

      Kyla Life
      Thank You 🙏🏾You Said It Best

  • @CogniVerseHub
    @CogniVerseHub 5 лет назад +3650

    They're so mean and cold to him, i wanna give him a hug.

  • @crownmezarie5347
    @crownmezarie5347 5 лет назад +663

    And this is exactly why we as young people don’t talk about our problems

    • @rastaheadant9017
      @rastaheadant9017 5 лет назад +5

      Facts

    • @evangelistt
      @evangelistt 5 лет назад +4

      Yazaria Rouse so true

    • @Przz_iR23
      @Przz_iR23 5 лет назад +1

      Yazaria Rouse ong broo that’s straight up facts because no one understands what we go through 💔😴

    • @kobybrass7372
      @kobybrass7372 5 лет назад +2

      Faxx

    • @bme4449
      @bme4449 3 месяца назад

      Men*

  • @izziebella832
    @izziebella832 2 года назад +296

    This was horrible. My heart hurts for him. There was true pain behind what he was trying to say. The host were horrible and so was his mother. The best description his mother could of gave of how he “used to be” was to describe how he handled responsibility she put in him as a child smh! They wouldn’t even let him speak and when he was able to get a word out they invalidated his feelings. How terrible! I pray he was able to get help and healing from REAL professionals and not paid to play idiots on tv.

    • @HasanPikerIsADouche
      @HasanPikerIsADouche Год назад

      That the mother will pay for, and has probably already sent him to... this is a simple case, she throws him out of the house, stops paying for him, and maybe he builds some character

    • @dorenjackson1166
      @dorenjackson1166 Год назад +6

      The conviction in that white ladies voice when she read his bar tab was so irritating. His face said it all. Then she had the nerve to say “on our tab”. I also struggle with alcoholism. I would say I am a functioning alcoholic but I’d lie if I say I go a day without a drink. I’ve had my own life problems & I don’t find it as an excuse but I get my peace when I get a drink & listen to music & podcast. Smoking used to be my thing but I need to stay clean for my career so that led to drinking.
      I say all that to say that I understand when you’re depressed it may lead to you finding things to take your mind off of it. I actually lost a friend of 20 years, two years ago to suicide. & we are only 28. From the outside looking in, it looks like life is going great. I live in a wealthy city, make good money, I take the gym very seriously but it’s what’s inside my mind that makes me feel like no one will understand.
      I totally empathize with this guy trying to talk to ppl who can’t even show sympathy

    • @likwidshoe
      @likwidshoe Месяц назад

      @@dorenjackson1166 The white lady is a big self important idiot.

  • @3madee
    @3madee 5 лет назад +4568

    He’s crying out for help, and they criticize him. Smh

    • @pyrothekidd
      @pyrothekidd 5 лет назад +148

      Welcome to society. This is why ima let the illuminati kill us. We dont even need to live no more this shit cant be fixed.

    • @aestheticstardust8762
      @aestheticstardust8762 5 лет назад +85

      people always wanna put the blame on the victim

    • @slumppify
      @slumppify 5 лет назад +11

      word

    • @brandansharp5346
      @brandansharp5346 5 лет назад +12

      straight facts bro bro 🤧

    • @keisyrodriguez8680
      @keisyrodriguez8680 5 лет назад +7

      theEzraGrate EXACTLY what i’m saying like wtf 🥺

  • @hana04081
    @hana04081 5 лет назад +918

    THIS IS WHY PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION DONT SPEAK OUT OML

    • @nyahortiz2853
      @nyahortiz2853 5 лет назад +5

      I do the same thing I dont talk to anyone except 2 ppl thats mt best friend and my dad I told him that want to hurt my self and he let me tal to some ppl and got scared and I told him was not thinking straight but was I tried 2

    • @jennifermellott9615
      @jennifermellott9615 5 лет назад

      ahh ikkk

    • @lunerso2261
      @lunerso2261 3 года назад +3

      I'm not even gonna give my parents a hint

    • @jokesonyou222
      @jokesonyou222 3 года назад +1

      EXACTLY

    • @N3isfree
      @N3isfree 2 месяца назад

      Frrr

  • @daejanaemiller4033
    @daejanaemiller4033 5 лет назад +852

    I wanna jump through the phone and slap those judges with a freaking board and give the man a hug... DEADASS NOT PLAYIN’😕

  • @jackmac919
    @jackmac919 Год назад +133

    They asked the mom about him and she spoke about HERSELF.

  • @rogerjackson3418
    @rogerjackson3418 5 лет назад +3564

    These people criticizing him disgust me🤢

    • @tatiallen6854
      @tatiallen6854 5 лет назад +17

      Roger Jackson right 🙄🙅🏾‍♀️

    • @AYouTubeChannelwithNoName
      @AYouTubeChannelwithNoName 5 лет назад +4

      🤮😷

    • @Nani17334
      @Nani17334 5 лет назад +16

      They are smart because that is whats gonna trigger him to go actually change. If u are soft with ppl like this ur not helping them TRUST ME

    • @Gleefan134
      @Gleefan134 5 лет назад +23

      Yea I don’t like how that lady yells at him he’s young and she doesn’t understand what he’s going through

    • @greekyogurt2855
      @greekyogurt2855 5 лет назад +24

      El Marocano how exactly will it help? I'm not trying to be rude BTW I'm actually curious

  • @thandi1156
    @thandi1156 5 лет назад +1285

    "What was Tai like as a child?"
    "I'M A siNglE pAreNT"

    • @patwilson2955
      @patwilson2955 5 лет назад +12

      MTS Clan right?

    • @gabzy2you833
      @gabzy2you833 5 лет назад +13

      That's the immediate defense mechanism if a narcassistic emotional abuser, smh

  • @doramarquez6832
    @doramarquez6832 5 лет назад +420

    they just judging him...they not even talking to him..

  • @mzhaze11
    @mzhaze11 Год назад +65

    The way they dismiss him is disgusting. How can he be spoiled if he’s stepping in to be a father to your other kids because of his mothers decisions? How can he really have friends if he is taking care of his siblings and there is no family structure or guidance? Also there are NO MAN on this panel let alone BLACK MEN…he needs therapy with a black therapist preferably male. This is what happens when young men don’t have male role models in the home and present mothers. Disgusting

    • @Jay-mk8vx
      @Jay-mk8vx Год назад

      Facts ‼️‼️i really hope he finds the men that can relate to him and not these delusional women that could never because This situation might scar him even more now and then it will be these same women that will turn around and be surprised why all of our strongest men murder themselves.

  • @taneyajones8627
    @taneyajones8627 5 лет назад +910

    “I don’t feel anything” he’s telling y’all he’s depressed and they think it’s a game wowww

  • @tatieannaaa
    @tatieannaaa 6 лет назад +4102

    Listen to him! It's a lot deeper than the tears. He was trying his best to express in this moment but y'all couldn't see that because some of y'all lack sympathy! God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason.

    • @julieduplak9970
      @julieduplak9970 6 лет назад +43

      designed naturally you’re so right about that.

    • @tayartbae8406
      @tayartbae8406 6 лет назад +104

      Bruh I hate how they didn’t listen to him... because he’s young

    • @ty2bougie784
      @ty2bougie784 6 лет назад

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    • @reallove0318
      @reallove0318 6 лет назад +46

      This is very true... I totally understand what he's saying

    • @Wars7498
      @Wars7498 6 лет назад +10

      No he’s a alcoholic. Alcoholics always make excuses and blame others and the past for their actions.

  • @kobybrass7372
    @kobybrass7372 5 лет назад +1071

    Omg leave him alone. He tryna cry for help and they push him back down.

    • @AYouTubeChannelwithNoName
      @AYouTubeChannelwithNoName 5 лет назад +7

      = Money

    • @nizzynizzy320
      @nizzynizzy320 5 лет назад +6

      Koby Brass this is what happens with most parents, mainly in the black community. When we try to tell how we feel and what we’re going through, we’re pushed away and told we’re wrong and that we don’t know what we’re talking about yet we can talk to our parents about “anything”

    • @smitty8181
      @smitty8181 5 лет назад +1

      Thousandth like ❤️

    • @kobybrass7372
      @kobybrass7372 5 лет назад +1

      Yoo how did i get so many likes

    • @kobybrass7372
      @kobybrass7372 5 лет назад +1

      @@smitty8181 ❤

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming Год назад +88

    After a few years this clip is still popular to this day. The fact that Vivica Fox even laughed when she made a post responding to the people about her reaction to this young man. She's evil bro

    • @smiddumz
      @smiddumz Год назад

      where exactly is this video at

    • @puffpuffpassmako
      @puffpuffpassmako Год назад

      She's a celebrity. She can't feel certain emotions

    • @kjmmd5758
      @kjmmd5758 Год назад +4

      Imagine these women’s children, they can never come to their mom and talk about things.

  • @shyannknight3448
    @shyannknight3448 5 лет назад +1212

    This is exactly why I don’t open up about my feelings to anyone. Like he is crying out for help and all they keep doing is pushing him back down

    • @frederickaugustusdouglass9713
      @frederickaugustusdouglass9713 Год назад +7

      Find some good male friends and show your emotion to them

    • @bmo1659
      @bmo1659 Год назад +2

      And go be alone to cry and work out get ot all out than go kick it with the fellas.

    • @johnnyson7474
      @johnnyson7474 Год назад

      Probably because women don't think men don't go through shit in life, without realizing men's suicide rates are higher than that of women. If they step into our shoes they'll know how we live and struggle. There was one women that changed her gender to prove men have it easy in life. Only to commit suicide after 7 months of depression for being a man because she discovered that men have it harder than women and that women are very very evil in nature. Her name is Norah Vincent.

    • @ssesssusman9417
      @ssesssusman9417 Год назад

      Yeah this is my biggest fear, that is why I am a conservative loser on RUclips.

    • @KingNez89
      @KingNez89 11 месяцев назад

      Facts!!! When I do get emotional it's solo, but I turned my emotions a long time ago into cold bloodedness....I feel nothing for nobody except my 8 year old daughter

  • @jacquin.799
    @jacquin.799 6 лет назад +2704

    The judge makes me sick! No one drinks just to drink! He’s depressed and he’s self medicating!

    • @KatieySuperior
      @KatieySuperior 6 лет назад +58

      That's my issue right now nobody listens to understand they listen to respond so they never get the point that's why I remain bottle up an do just the same drink an smoke an cry it off .😢

    • @soleswankthealchemist1997
      @soleswankthealchemist1997 6 лет назад +5

      Jacqui TheGreat people do drink just to drink

    • @Zinzzi
      @Zinzzi 5 лет назад +2

      China Berry I’m really sorry you feel that way. I hope you are alright 💕

    • @omadjourney
      @omadjourney 5 лет назад +1

      I know this year I have to be better formyself.

    • @tbcbad
      @tbcbad 5 лет назад +1

      If you think there arnt alcoholics that just drink for the affect you need to go out and actually talk to people and stop listening to a dickhead psychiatrists and all sorts

  • @bloodysoffline
    @bloodysoffline 5 лет назад +504

    This is disgusting to watch so rude to him ts hurts to see him get criticized and they don't understand but depression can do to you. They think they know everything but it's just making them look stupif

  • @lowkeyotaku2373
    @lowkeyotaku2373 Год назад +27

    "What was Tai like as a child?"
    "I'm a single parent, I had to work"

  • @gracemcauliffe8826
    @gracemcauliffe8826 5 лет назад +801

    He doesn’t need a wake up call he needs help

    • @seal1016
      @seal1016 5 лет назад +4

      Grace McAuliffe exactly

    • @DKelly_Iverson414
      @DKelly_Iverson414 5 лет назад +2

      +Grace McAuliffe, "I agree!"

    • @beelzebub3988
      @beelzebub3988 5 лет назад

      Isnt a wake up call help tho

    • @gracemcauliffe8826
      @gracemcauliffe8826 5 лет назад +6

      Berkley Square Piru 420 no a wake up call is making him get his shit together by himself but he can’t do that he needs help from other people, real help not this from those women that don’t understand so all they can do is criticize him. They’re saying that he’s an alcaholic which he is but if he got the mental help he needed from day one then he wouldn’t have needed to turn to alcahol as his only option. He’s depressed and a wake up call isn’t gonna help him. A wake up call is a warning to take action concerning something that is overlooked or neglected. Help would be him going to the right place with the right people getting the right help he needs

    • @beelzebub3988
      @beelzebub3988 5 лет назад +1

      Thanks nigga fr was confused 😂💯

  • @dremug995
    @dremug995 5 лет назад +697

    I thought he was here to get help, not get criticized. Everybody In there has made mistakes and they wanna act like they just soo perfect , c’mon now. Disgusting bro

    • @sweetchild5536
      @sweetchild5536 5 лет назад +14

      Ikr!! They are literally just guilting and criticizing him. Besides all the mom has to do is get a therapist and not put him on a fricken talk Show.

    • @jonathanburhans
      @jonathanburhans 5 лет назад +2

      ikr

    • @natbraddy4355
      @natbraddy4355 5 лет назад

      They are not helping him at all. Only attacking him

  • @genevaragins4552
    @genevaragins4552 5 лет назад +463

    Yall are terrible people 🙅 shaming him hes there and you guys are supposed to help him not put him down.🤦

    • @9salvia
      @9salvia 5 лет назад

      Geneva Ragins I don’t think you read any comments 🤦‍♂️ everyone was supporting him

    • @taishaf.7816
      @taishaf.7816 5 лет назад +6

      @@9salvia Shes taking about the judge's in the video..smh.

    • @Wizonah
      @Wizonah 5 лет назад

      @Jayshaun Walker having a problem doesnt define you this isnt to be offencive i promise but let some hate go it feels good after a while

  • @dontbedarius
    @dontbedarius Год назад +59

    What he is saying is that he is tired of pretending to be his mother's husband. This usually happens to the first born of a single mother. The mother is basically making the kid become an adult before he finishes being a kid. When you have that kind of pressure on you, it definitely puts you in a dark place.
    You are basically being asked to be the father (a parent) to your siblings, while no one is there is being a parent for you.
    It's like asking a kid to fly a plane thru a storm and they were never taught how to fly a plane. However the mother is working hard to afford a nicer plane to fly. Hopefully that makes sense.
    In this video, he is asking how to land the plane but all these women are judging him that his flying skills are shit. Meanwhile other kids that grow up in 2 parents house holds are still at the flight academy, learning how to fly before they become adults.
    When he mentions the fake friends, he is basically saying his friends were jealous that he is already flying while they have to finish the academy before flying.
    I just hope he gets the help to land the plane and can continue with life rather than crashing that nice ass plane his mother guilted him into flying too early in life.

    • @Kureemy
      @Kureemy Год назад +1

      Bruh that’s such an awesome analogy.

  • @jajamonroee2463
    @jajamonroee2463 6 лет назад +1540

    see, this is why people don't express themselves. they asked, hes answering but it's not what they (want) to hear. that's HIS truth !

    • @angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404
      @angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404 6 лет назад +14

      JaJa Monroee what u said...yesss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Wars7498
      @Wars7498 6 лет назад +4

      No they did a good job. Alcoholics are the biggest excuse makers. Everyone and everything is the problem except them. Man had the nerve to say his mother gave him too much. Nigga please. What a spoiled brat.

    • @kesenaememere8520
      @kesenaememere8520 6 лет назад +14

      @@Wars7498 STFU

    • @SAMURAIBX
      @SAMURAIBX 6 лет назад +24

      @@Wars7498 dude aclohlics become this way because of problems he does need help what he did was fucked up he needs to change bashing him doesnt help the mother encouraged him to be this way

    • @seinierose4188
      @seinierose4188 6 лет назад

      Yesss bruh that's all the time.

  • @malekabegum842
    @malekabegum842 5 лет назад +371

    Hes talking about his depression and they’re Criticise him its hard to explain depression

    • @gina5739
      @gina5739 5 лет назад

      Maleka Begum this show stupid

    • @tamsinw5583
      @tamsinw5583 5 лет назад +5

      I hate those women on the show, his depression was probs increased they dont understand the struggle of depression on young adults and teens, we take hits alot harder, we are emotional and a room full of ADULT women critising u when u finally speak out about it makes u feel worthless. I can go on and on about this but I just hope that young boy is doing better now

    • @karmyasimpson8820
      @karmyasimpson8820 5 лет назад

      Right

    • @holy_skadoolde1021
      @holy_skadoolde1021 5 лет назад

      Maleka Begum and problem with depression it turns in anger and hatred

  • @haffaj9101
    @haffaj9101 5 лет назад +640

    I just want to slap the them so bad, I’m fuming 😤

  • @FaysalIsGoated
    @FaysalIsGoated Год назад +15

    His mom, and all those fake @ss therapists absolutely disgust me. They completely ignored the fact that she’s forcing her little boy to be a father figure to his sisters when he was literally a kid himself, she’s the one who STARTED his alcohol addiction at 13 F*****G YEARS OLD, and instead point all the blame on him.

  • @lay3243
    @lay3243 5 лет назад +566

    this makes me sick, he couldnt even express his feelings without them interrupting him, you could have gave him a chance to open up about his depression, so could have his mom, she could have at least sat him down and talked to him, he kept trying to tell them that he was in a dark spot, but all they wanted to talk about was his drinking problem 😭🙄! He had to yell because his mom kept talking over him, but as soon as he started talking, they wouldnt even let him finish, I could see why he was very emotional . The judges cant even feel his pain, i feel so bad for him, a lot! 💔🤬‼️ .

    • @andysturtles7216
      @andysturtles7216 5 лет назад +4

      Get the fucking kid a therapist, who gave these asses the permission to talk shit about him. This exactly why we youngs dont speak out. The things that come out of our mouth isnt has bad as the thing on our minds. And when we do, we get criticized and judged. Whats the fucking point. I completely agree with the points you brought up.

    • @ariyanasisxelaa
      @ariyanasisxelaa 5 лет назад

      LAYY._. LAY my point bc the only reason why he drinking is to forget the point that he’s so depressed

  • @Sophia-pl5yy
    @Sophia-pl5yy 5 лет назад +653

    so if you're trying to help someone, all you do is focus on their negatives and leave them feeling so guilty and worse than before?

  • @TyraNicole.
    @TyraNicole. 6 лет назад +3137

    this made me mad asf they don’t ever listen...smfh

  • @love-ip7sz
    @love-ip7sz Год назад +7

    She explained it actually! He put his child in the position where he had to behave like an adult taking care of his siblings when he was STILL A CHILD and now that he is a young man that trauma has built up and is really hurting him. I cannot stand narcs like these...

  • @btwimdaddy6266
    @btwimdaddy6266 5 лет назад +1720

    Dudes making a point and they are denying him and shooting everything he says down and turning things on him

    • @ikrxpz3274
      @ikrxpz3274 5 лет назад

      Cup no buy ho hoga mike
      Eyo

    • @gabbymariieee5166
      @gabbymariieee5166 5 лет назад +1

      YT.Camila exactly like they wild’n

    • @btwimdaddy6266
      @btwimdaddy6266 5 лет назад

      @@gabbymariieee5166 💯💯💯

    • @CashCowz962
      @CashCowz962 Год назад

      He might end up shooting up the whole family soon...😆😂😅

    • @N3isfree
      @N3isfree Год назад

      Fr

  • @kayvo8954
    @kayvo8954 5 лет назад +726

    Bruh I don’t think they know what depression is 😑

    • @stan66829
      @stan66829 5 лет назад +24

      I don't think most elder people or people in general understand what depression is. Me, myself have only felt depressed at time but i have no idea what depressions like.

    • @kasperknutsen8283
      @kasperknutsen8283 5 лет назад +3

      Yes they're stupid as hell.

    • @MsJoshyy123
      @MsJoshyy123 5 лет назад

      Black parents are useless

    • @Verilyliyah
      @Verilyliyah 5 лет назад +3

      Joshua XOXO U shouldn’t say that. Not all black parents are useless.

    • @thecommenter2295
      @thecommenter2295 5 лет назад +2

      Joshua XOXO um no not all are they work hard for there kids and want them to be successful etc 🙄

  • @princeasiasigau7130
    @princeasiasigau7130 5 лет назад +1378

    The judges are making me so sick😤😤😤😤 😡😡😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤮🤮🤮🤮 and I think there mean ASF

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow, this is disgusting. This boy is hurting. These woman should be ashamed of themselves. He's drowning his pain with alcohol. He needs empathy, kindness, and therapy. He needs his mom to apologize and give him the credit he deserves. As a parent myself I understand that I make mistakes, but I apologize to my children and try to do better. This is sad.

  • @1234Nastasha
    @1234Nastasha 6 лет назад +817

    This is what happens when your child turns in to a parent taking care of his siblings . I understand ppl are single but he didn't have those kids

    • @aprllest78
      @aprllest78 6 лет назад +17

      You better tell that!!!

    • @MOTHEGREAT1981
      @MOTHEGREAT1981 6 лет назад +6

      yes

    • @TeeMonii
      @TeeMonii 6 лет назад

      nastasha nastasha right

    • @SAMURAIBX
      @SAMURAIBX 6 лет назад +13

      @@tabithathomas9073 you know everybody is different when they deal with their problems

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 6 лет назад +9

      nastasha nastasha There are plenty of families of all nationalities that have the older siblings taking care of the younger siblings. It’s normal. What’s not normal is how these women are attacking this young man yet none of them have lived s day in his shoes. His mother is not a good mother so that doesn’t help at all.

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews 6 лет назад +856

    The mother has no sympathy for her son. Her love is just about giving him stuff.

    • @h9964
      @h9964 6 лет назад +9

      River Moon Just like my mom ^~^

    • @reggietjevans
      @reggietjevans 6 лет назад +12

      Its not sympathy he needs, its empathy. Not having friends can put you in a very dark ans lonely place for sure. The mom overcompensated because she felt bad that she was a single parent who put a lot of responsibility on him. She gave him STUFF instead of finding him a Father Figure.

    • @detoriadogan3582
      @detoriadogan3582 5 лет назад

      my parents

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue 5 лет назад

      That was me

    • @ttyadams
      @ttyadams 5 лет назад

      Reginald Evans i definitely agree. My first years of college was depressing & I was crying all the time not eating & drinking & stuff & a lot of it was because the people I called my friends were fake & liars & were just using me to get stuff that my mom provides

  • @pedrohansen8415
    @pedrohansen8415 5 лет назад +1537

    I have depress-
    IM A SINGLE MOTHER

    • @deadroses7500
      @deadroses7500 5 лет назад +19

      Nottypicalcomedy
      R/entitledparents

    • @bigboyclips9854
      @bigboyclips9854 5 лет назад +5

      This is literally me

    • @jorgeortiz1319
      @jorgeortiz1319 5 лет назад +5

      Single father im 19 got cheated on still hurting fuck that

    • @grimscyther9948
      @grimscyther9948 5 лет назад

      @@bigboyclips9854 what do you ever mean?

    • @bigboyclips9854
      @bigboyclips9854 5 лет назад +13

      @@grimscyther9948 i meant that my mom always says shes a single mother as an excuse

  • @Sliverandzant943
    @Sliverandzant943 Год назад +6

    By kicking him while he was down, by gaslighting him, adding further pressure, and blaming him for something outside of his control, they actually proved to be failures, wasted intellects.
    Honestly, I would be as ruthless to those entitled individuals as they are to him if they did that to me. Show a person the same amount of understanding and mercy said person gives to you. If they give none (as they did), give them none.

  • @zarskiii9777
    @zarskiii9777 5 лет назад +493

    *Why is this even a show if you’re not even gon listen🙄😒 beyond me*

  • @kaynova8883
    @kaynova8883 6 лет назад +513

    When your pain is so deep, it’s hard to put words into it, i feel him so bad

    • @Tena1702
      @Tena1702 6 лет назад +3

      exactly 😭

    • @tanjamarie6725
      @tanjamarie6725 5 лет назад

      Kay Nova same

    • @ndndndsdmdnn5245
      @ndndndsdmdnn5245 5 лет назад

      Kay Nova me to

    • @imchase7796
      @imchase7796 5 лет назад

      It’s damn near impossible

    • @imchase7796
      @imchase7796 5 лет назад

      And no one gives a fuck and treats you like they treated this kid until you’re dead and it’s all “I can’t believe he did this” so and so.

  • @snow4ever100
    @snow4ever100 5 лет назад +526

    Just cancel this show.😡

  • @Ndondiafrika254
    @Ndondiafrika254 Год назад +18

    I found this on Twitter, 4 years later and I am sick to the stomach.

    • @mastermoye3915
      @mastermoye3915 2 месяца назад

      Me too, one or two years ago. Longbeachgriffy reminded me of this very video. It still makes me sickly angry to this day forward!

  • @elusivids8155
    @elusivids8155 5 лет назад +1339

    these people must not understand depression. it doesn’t matter how well somebody treats you or how much you love them, you can’t control your emotions. they say “tell us how you feel” and then say “you got it twisted”
    this is the worst way to approach depression. he probably has issues from not having a father and having to help raise his sisters, it’s not easy. not to mention her saying “where’s that kid?” after he says he’s depressed is so gross. i’ve been through depression and when my family forced me to do things and told me constantly i changed for the worse, it made me feel so much more shittier.
    all of these women aren’t understanding him. he’s blaming his mom, yes, but that’s because he’s feelings things he doesn’t understand. as a man, to openly talk about depression is hard already because you’re expected to be manly and not cry.
    these women genuinely frustrate me. he’s admitting he’s depressed, listen and get him help before it’s too late.

    • @dxnnvr7107
      @dxnnvr7107 5 лет назад +38

      I love this comment so much ❤️ i was watching this like “let him speak and don’t interrupt him you dumb bitches”

    • @preciousjahi8524
      @preciousjahi8524 5 лет назад +7

      cassidy’s edits I understand depression cause I’m pregnant and I’m be depresse

    • @yolisagqamlana3298
      @yolisagqamlana3298 5 лет назад +7

      Agreed💔

    • @rosegold3218
      @rosegold3218 5 лет назад +9

      Yassssss girl preach the word❤

    • @kr1ptik70
      @kr1ptik70 5 лет назад +16

      They treating him horribly thank you for this comment ❤️

  • @psycha36
    @psycha36 5 лет назад +1313

    these women are pathetic . they won’t listen to him , they only listen to the drinking problem thing . nothing about depression🤦🏽‍♀️ people are doing to much nowadays.

    • @temionafadeji5841
      @temionafadeji5841 5 лет назад +31

      They talk too much 🤣🤣🤣
      They dont know what depression is

    • @reekrodriqguez6552
      @reekrodriqguez6552 5 лет назад +3

      Because only him can change himself

    • @psycha36
      @psycha36 5 лет назад +1

      TemiGaming , truuuuuuuuu 🗣🗣

    • @__-tx9ey
      @__-tx9ey 5 лет назад +5

      amanda lunuh they’re old heads they never listen

    • @chymarsowell
      @chymarsowell 5 лет назад +5

      Cause they’re just worried about the drama mostly smh

  • @jannahparadise7133
    @jannahparadise7133 5 лет назад +430

    *NEXT YOU'LL HEAR ABOUT THIS YOUNG MAN BLOWING HIS BRAINS OUT OR HIS MOM FINDS HIM SWINGING SOME WHERE IN HIS APARTMENT..... SAD!!!!*

  • @TheDzavala85
    @TheDzavala85 Год назад +9

    The mom also forced him to grow up fast and gave him unneeded stress as a child and wondered why he grew up so fast and drove him to drink. If this is how the mother is no wonder there is no man in the picture.

  • @theundergrounder741
    @theundergrounder741 5 лет назад +913

    This made me mad 😡 because they don’t care at all

    • @ajh.7868
      @ajh.7868 5 лет назад +4

      Well the older lady in the blue was real. She spoke from experience. She's been wear he's at so she can sniff the bs so I respect her for being real. The other lady's were annoying doing all that crying feeling their feelings with him.

    • @christopherduran6337
      @christopherduran6337 5 лет назад +1

      Right they need to understand

    • @kaysoawesometv8891
      @kaysoawesometv8891 5 лет назад

      All About that gang life They really don’t care at all the only thing that the care about is his alcohol problem

    • @trentleatherman8593
      @trentleatherman8593 5 лет назад +1

      i’m your 400th like

    • @raynejones5896
      @raynejones5896 5 лет назад +1

      They’re full of shit

  • @kalinalikadziyauskas3770
    @kalinalikadziyauskas3770 5 лет назад +667

    His mom, those judges...just it hurts, because even tho he didn't say much I understood him. I understood what he meant. And when they dismiss it as " a game" I wanna scream"NO ITS NOT THAT".

    • @marjaec
      @marjaec 2 года назад +2

      💯💯💯💯

    • @arianelopez4803
      @arianelopez4803 Год назад +10

      You can hear the pain in his voice its heartbreaking I hope he gets the help he needs and starts healing. I hope he finds the right support he needs.

  • @haizelchapman8884
    @haizelchapman8884 5 лет назад +375

    Depressed Kid: I’m in a dark place!!
    Everyone On the Show:He’s Lying.
    This is why NO ONE Can talk about this stuff!!!!Everyone says he’s lying!!! I’m in a dark spot too man!! But when I tell people why I have a knife in my room,They laugh...People need to understand how much pain and suffering we go through..

    • @Icanjizzya
      @Icanjizzya 5 лет назад

      Depression isn’t real

    • @curlypotato1243
      @curlypotato1243 5 лет назад

      Haizel Chapman YES!!!!

    • @thumbsdown7684
      @thumbsdown7684 5 лет назад +3

      @@Icanjizzya that's like saying feelings aren't real

    • @Icanjizzya
      @Icanjizzya 5 лет назад

      Harriet tummy Sadness is real, depression isn’t. Ppl who say they have depression want to be depressed. They’ll say stuff like “Imagine the feeling of ur mom dying, that’s how I feel everyday”. Why would I want to feel that? How bout try feeling the feeling u had when u did something great? Something happy...
      Also, if ppl seriously think they have depression, then they’ll partake in the Carnivore diet to cure it. If they don’t, then they are choosing to commit daily spiritual suicide
      The more you stay isolated and think bad thought, the more reason you’ll make up an excuse to be “depressed”

    • @strictlyiq-6813
      @strictlyiq-6813 5 лет назад +2

      Kamahao don’t know until you feel it

  • @mikejohnston4265
    @mikejohnston4265 Год назад +4

    It is absurd that the mother was not called out for drinking alcohol with her underage son! Also his mother has no business being his best friend. These "professional" women have zero credibility. I am so totally disgusted that this young man had to go through this travesty on national television.

  • @aldotheraider2471
    @aldotheraider2471 3 года назад +995

    I’m so disgusted of how these women treated this guy, poor guy man. This is why people are afraid to talk about their Mental Health. Oh, just hearing them yell at this man when he’s crying for help just makes my blood boil 😡

    • @Alsphat8airborne
      @Alsphat8airborne Год назад +16

      Yep this man needs help to cope with deppresion

    • @darnellwarren9310
      @darnellwarren9310 Год назад +15

      Women bro

    • @DevinEDB
      @DevinEDB Год назад +34

      Expecting empathy from a gaggle of snakes on a morning show is insane. His mom a real villain

    • @hrisafenio
      @hrisafenio Год назад

      @@darnellwarren9310 “women bro”? these are talk show hosts. how are you gonna prescribe the behavior of a handful of sociopaths to a whole gender? im a girl and when my friend told me about his depression i held him and we sobbed together. grow up

    • @darnellwarren9310
      @darnellwarren9310 Год назад +4

      @@hrisafenio you’re the exception not the rule

  • @MilisuthandoGcaba
    @MilisuthandoGcaba 5 лет назад +251

    The Judges🚮
    Bruh Depression is Real and They don't believe Him..Like TF💔

  • @amari4900
    @amari4900 5 лет назад +1690

    This tv show should be CANCELED. I’m disgusted 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @ba5092
      @ba5092 5 лет назад +78

      It’s actually getting cancelled by next month lol

    • @gina5739
      @gina5739 5 лет назад +1

      Amari ikr

    • @julitzaprincess6783
      @julitzaprincess6783 5 лет назад +18

      Amari yess this shit makes me sad I relate to him a lot I wish I would see him in person one day so I can give him a hug and b his friend but he should never had been judge them people were wrong 😔❤️

    • @mayaaas5132
      @mayaaas5132 5 лет назад +3

      AGREEEE

    • @ngonidzashejeofreymarange1322
      @ngonidzashejeofreymarange1322 5 лет назад

      @@ba5092 l don't think it's getting cancelled

  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0 Год назад +4

    these damn women gaslighting the poor man

  • @shayshay7409
    @shayshay7409 6 лет назад +382

    Alcoholic or not the young man is CRYING FOR HELP.... as long as he was taking care of his sisters and mom drinking with him.... the whole family most likely need counseling

  • @1ksela
    @1ksela 5 лет назад +415

    He needs help not a wake up call.

    • @jaz6586
      @jaz6586 5 лет назад

      Lil ݪɱȴȴʐܮ exactly 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @gee_swizzle2838
    @gee_swizzle2838 5 лет назад +411

    this is why people don’t talk about their feelings. sad... 😥

  • @meshasat
    @meshasat Год назад +4

    There should have been some MEN on this panel to address this young man. As women we will not always understand where our sons are coming from

  • @destinymiller7695
    @destinymiller7695 5 лет назад +270

    They aren’t even listening to him 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @rizzy3620
    @rizzy3620 5 лет назад +374

    I feel sorry for him...he is clearly hurt and struggling to express whats wrong and he's getting yelled at...smh

  • @lolabunni9572
    @lolabunni9572 5 лет назад +410

    Obviously He's drinking because of depression✌🏻🤝🏻

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 5 лет назад +11

      Right, lol? How are they so stupid that they can't even piece that together?

    • @dugundugun5059
      @dugundugun5059 4 года назад +1

      I think so

  • @Taysturdy01
    @Taysturdy01 Год назад +5

    This man had the courage to get help and everybody puttin dirt on his name 🤦‍♂️😷

  • @vic7781
    @vic7781 5 лет назад +289

    If he goin through depression then why you yellin at him, this is why I don’t talk bout my depression only person who understand me is myself, how is his depression a game. These judges disgust me. Like let him fucking speak at least. Disappointed in the crowd for doing nothing.
    Edit: If you need someone to talk to im here for you. My discord is rt#1848.

    • @mystique3330
      @mystique3330 5 лет назад +8

      Thats why i dont tell ppl shit

    • @updasco9
      @updasco9 5 лет назад +5

      exactly i hate when people try to tell me how i feel

    • @synsalma3539
      @synsalma3539 5 лет назад

      Onna deadloccs

    • @ssjdon
      @ssjdon 5 лет назад +3

      Facts lol trust me NO one wants to be fucking depressed..
      It's just a bunch of dumb women clinging to the ideal that men should toughen up and do what they have to do...

    • @OSHINISSPICY
      @OSHINISSPICY 5 лет назад

      MarNevaLackin Facts Facts

  • @janellek6391
    @janellek6391 5 лет назад +586

    White old lady in blue makes me mad smh

    • @celinenotoff2148
      @celinenotoff2148 5 лет назад +16

      I want to slap tf outta her

    • @ameliekouma
      @ameliekouma 5 лет назад +1

      @@KevinOfOne same omg

    • @jeremythbk483
      @jeremythbk483 5 лет назад +2

      Karma will get her back she’ll soon lose something precious of hers or maybe herself

    • @jayy8hunnid655
      @jayy8hunnid655 5 лет назад +1

      @@ameliekouma ight bro chill out

    • @goead
      @goead 5 лет назад

      XStoner GamesX ok stfu

  • @molester5917
    @molester5917 5 лет назад +909

    Nice job belittling him and telling him to “get over it” really helped him 👍🏻

    • @nxytmare
      @nxytmare 5 лет назад +2

      stupid judges

    • @1......Caesar......1
      @1......Caesar......1 Год назад

      Are you fucking kidding me? Hes depressed, and they are making him even more depressed!

    • @AZP.99
      @AZP.99 Год назад +2

      Ye Im sure they were really fricking helpful. Society definitely needs them.

  • @crazymuch17
    @crazymuch17 2 года назад +11

    I can relate 100% with him. No one, was waiting to hear what that does to the mind. Its not him being ungrateful…it’s him noticing that people just wanted to be around him for the materialistic things he provided. Not truly knowing or feeling what an unconditional, loving friend is. That will be by your side to hear the stuff you don’t wanna speak to your parents about..the feeling of feeling completely alone struggling for attention. To tell him “man up, stop blaming others?” They really don’t understand how hard things can be. 😔

  • @angelamore8358
    @angelamore8358 5 лет назад +847

    I Wanna Give Him A Hug 🥺. They’re horrible!

  • @zaeisbaee
    @zaeisbaee 5 лет назад +114

    If he kills himself I'm gonna blame the women for not helping him and yelling at him

  • @face4212
    @face4212 6 лет назад +695

    Words can’t describe how mad these judges make me 😤😤

  • @oludumares_manifestation
    @oludumares_manifestation 2 года назад +12

    Okay let’s just say this. She is his mother. She is responsible. He’s right that his mother spoiled him and now she expects something different. It also sounds like she put a lot of responsibility on him. He’s still human. She raised him.

  • @meemahmarzz
    @meemahmarzz 6 лет назад +325

    I hate this show, they never listen and always throws your flaws in ur face repeatedly🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @kayuniversal6856
    @kayuniversal6856 5 лет назад +267

    He handled it really well because honestly I can’t even lie and say I would just let them sit and yell/talk over me without getting pissed off and flippin. So sad that the judges are so close minded and simple .

    • @pyrothekidd
      @pyrothekidd 5 лет назад +1

      I would've snapped, on my future kids.

    • @nxmb3332
      @nxmb3332 5 лет назад

      That dude really is in a dark place. "It's a dark place when something bad happens that your just numb to it."

  • @jkinzjkinz4530
    @jkinzjkinz4530 5 лет назад +714

    Listen to him dang you guys are talking over him

    • @niyareaction1685
      @niyareaction1685 5 лет назад +2

      Amen..

    • @mcclaren8701
      @mcclaren8701 5 лет назад +10

      True dawg . when u have a fucked up mind u cant just say anything u want straight. its hard to be on the dark place specially when u never have a chance to talk about it

    • @njhgfk
      @njhgfk 3 года назад

      fr..-

    • @iamzetto7281
      @iamzetto7281 3 года назад +2

      They don't get his pain, they wish to hear what they want to hear. That is what is messed up about today's society

    • @njhgfk
      @njhgfk 3 года назад

      @@iamzetto7281 ya

  • @Kaylyn..
    @Kaylyn.. 6 месяцев назад +1

    That poor man, he deserves so much better❤

  • @haaruun6776
    @haaruun6776 5 лет назад +923

    These judges have no heart they don’t understand his problems💔🖤

  • @megami7373
    @megami7373 5 лет назад +2926

    this is why kids of color who face depression don't speak out

    • @aiemiiyo4244
      @aiemiiyo4244 5 лет назад +186

      It's an issue bc nobody really realizes the high rates of mental health issues with the black community... especially because many ppl of the community grow in unstable households and environments making ppl more susceptible to develop issues and not reach out and possibly use substance to cope

    • @ssjdon
      @ssjdon 5 лет назад +8

      Facts

    • @aiemiiyo4244
      @aiemiiyo4244 5 лет назад +47

      Us* my dad's black and I think he doesn't think mental issues exist w black people 😣

    • @ssjdon
      @ssjdon 5 лет назад +20

      @@aiemiiyo4244 it does, it's just ignorance..my dads the same way

    • @aiemiiyo4244
      @aiemiiyo4244 5 лет назад +6

      @@ssjdon :( its sucky lol

  • @noemi.07
    @noemi.07 5 лет назад +789

    THIS IS A SIMPLE EXAMPLE WHY DEPRESSED PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT THERE DEPRESSION 😢 That’s why I don’t talk bout it 😭😭

    • @mazza53
      @mazza53 5 лет назад +14

      I feel you it's taken me almost 5 years to get the help I need because I couldn't talk about my problems because everyone called me a lier or judge me for what I went through

    • @lwandilezama2353
      @lwandilezama2353 5 лет назад +7

      I know what you mean, a few weeks back I told my mom what I was feeling and along the conversation it ended up being my fault so I said I'm sorry for causing her pain, and now I'm always acting like I'm fine for her sake but I'm slowly dying 😥

    • @lwandilezama2353
      @lwandilezama2353 5 лет назад +3

      @@gissellerocha1575 yeah I know what you mean 😥... Seeing other people hurt like me but I can't say anything to make them feel better hurts me
      More

    • @niahwalker1295
      @niahwalker1295 5 лет назад +2

      U will make it through. And u will live. U r beautiful, and u have a beautiful soul. Ur an amazing person, even if they dont see it, you cant hold it in forever, u must let it out. And if nobody is listening just believe that u made it years without being dead. U can make it another day, u just have to try. Believe in urself. And i know its hard but its only gonna get harder. But u have to have good energy even if the good energy in the room is dead. U must live the way u dream to live. U will make a difference by looking at the good and not the bad in the world. Remember that cause, u must live because u have too. For the world. UR LOVED

    • @g-max2810
      @g-max2810 5 лет назад +1

      Noemi Milian TELL GOD YOUR LORD AND SAVIOR. He will take it all away cry out to him read his words and believe it. Come back and tell your testimony💃💃💃💃

  • @NeicyJ1990
    @NeicyJ1990 Год назад +6

    The way they gaslighted him, I see why people are unaliving themselves from left to right. Who wants to be around in an environment where you're never heard but only judged.

  • @elleonlim4953
    @elleonlim4953 5 лет назад +457

    dam, why the crowd ain’t throw nothing at the judges?

    • @TheHeatherButts
      @TheHeatherButts 5 лет назад +8

      playbboi guwopsterr it's a stage setup it's no crowd and their fake

    • @realtalk675
      @realtalk675 5 лет назад

      Exactly

    • @user-sw2dm2hl4f
      @user-sw2dm2hl4f 5 лет назад +2

      Even if there was a crowd it would just be a bunch of 45 year old white bitches named Karen that don't understand depression and blindly agree with the judges

    • @sayssarcastically3048
      @sayssarcastically3048 5 лет назад

      Lil breonna Quan
      It’s you not “u”
      “Dumbass”

  • @jaxmyne101
    @jaxmyne101 5 лет назад +223

    Hope he doesn’t kill himself... this is what happens.. HE IS A SAD/MAD BLACK MAN!!!

    • @Professional_street_hustler
      @Professional_street_hustler 5 лет назад +2

      Enim'saj Samoht that’s because in today’s society men aren’t aloud to have emotions and anytime we show them we get criticized and people wonder why men commit suicide at such a higher rate then women

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews 6 лет назад +420

    Tai had to be the father to his sisters that he never had...so sad. He wants a father.

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 6 лет назад +19

      Exactly, the unspoken issues in the black community. He definitely is missing a father or father figure

    • @urfavoriteaun_tea2464
      @urfavoriteaun_tea2464 5 лет назад +4

      Right!!!! My black people lets start saving these damn kids!!! These new generation of kids are really going through some mess! And when we dont pay attention we lose them... And then wanna act like parents!

  • @xPurge
    @xPurge 2 года назад +2

    This video really gets me heated...it's clear he's a depressed young man thats fighting so many demons...and he tried telling all these women what he's going through and what's going on in his head and all they did was cut him down including his mom...I went through so much mental and physical abuse growing up including having no friends in school and getting bullied and beaten up and now that I'm an adult in my 20s I havent even gotten my life together and I have no direction...because of all the trauma and I can't even properly describe whats wrong with me and when I tried talking to my mom about it she said the same things his mom and these women told him..."you're not depressed there's nothing wrong with you, you're just being lazy cause u wanna do nothing and have it your way you're using depression as an excuse to not do anything and have it your way...." I can 100% relate to this kid.

  • @ayishabuffalo9889
    @ayishabuffalo9889 5 лет назад +437

    Depression comes in ALLLLL shapes and forms.
    It could be, fake friends, parents, an absence of a parent (s).
    School. Work. ANYTHING. And you shouldnt just dismiss it?!

    • @asiasinclair3863
      @asiasinclair3863 5 лет назад +2

      Ayisha Buffalo that’s right. Shit I’ve been depressed for yeeeeaaaarrssss and it’s hard to deal with life so crying is my thing. It sucks but no one will listen like I need. I just get itthrowed back at me. Like I didn’t have to tell anyone my problems to begin with smh

    • @e.t.75
      @e.t.75 4 года назад +3

      Mine came from nothing. Still not diagnosed but im pretty sure i have it um just too scared to speak out...

    • @someone-ji2zb
      @someone-ji2zb Год назад

      Problem is, other people don't fix another person's depression. Yes, you can make it worse, but only the person who gets depressed can figure a way out of it. It is a lack of drive. Each individual has to have a reason for their own self worth.

    • @deathflame3849
      @deathflame3849 Год назад

      This is all tied to the fact he had to be a parent. Parentification is when a child is forced to take on the role of an adult. When caregivers aren’t able to fully show up for themselves, children get put into developmentally inappropriate situations. As an adult, they may find it hard to trust others, manage their own emotions, and form healthy intimate relationships. They face a greater risk of anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, and eating disorders.

    • @CashCowz962
      @CashCowz962 Год назад

      So much noise in this video...🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @londonlife4244
    @londonlife4244 6 лет назад +449

    The judge doesn't understand depression!! He's a depressed alcoholic, he needs therapy not these ladies judging him. Look at the role he played from a young age? His mother drinks with him? What do you expect from him? This boy has a lot more going on, believe me, he just doesn't want to expose the entire truth. He mentions fake friends, this clearly means he cannot trust people and only God knows what the fake friends did to him. Ignorance is bliss!

    • @Wars7498
      @Wars7498 6 лет назад +1

      Mo london no I think the last lady was right. He simply needs to recognize he is a alcoholic and take responsibility for his actions. Alcoholics just make excuses for there destructive behaviour . He probably simply developed a drinking habit which negatively effected his life and depression followed. Now he is just blaming others and his last experiences for his current problems. It’s better for him to take responsibility and work towards getting sober.

    • @londonlife4244
      @londonlife4244 6 лет назад +12

      @@Wars7498I can understand where you are saying in regards to taking responsibility for ones action but when mental health is involved it is an entirely different ball game. He needs intervention, certainly not by their methods, simply because it is not suitable for his condition.
      He recognises he has a problem but he blames his mom for giving him the opportunity/ access to alcohol in the first place. Can you drinking from the age of 13yrs? His brains his developing into at teenage, hormones, (fake friends) responsible for younger siblings? Not to mention his mom appears to be a heavy drinker but under control( just an opinion, I may be wrong)
      I believe understanding and recognising his mental state, show empathy will be the road to his recovery. If not,you will push him further away. It may sound strange but depression and substance misuse is sensitive situation and in order to get a positive outcome, you have to jump into their world unfortunately to understand things from their point of view. Their way of thinking isn't always rational.

    • @LR-vv9yd
      @LR-vv9yd 6 лет назад +1

      @@londonlife4244 so true!

    • @gadielsuriel5923
      @gadielsuriel5923 6 лет назад +3

      Nah therapy aint it Jesus is the answer

    • @LR-vv9yd
      @LR-vv9yd 6 лет назад +1

      @@gadielsuriel5923 amen

  • @juberthubberly7776
    @juberthubberly7776 5 лет назад +463

    Y'all want black men to "feel" more and to express themselves better and more openly but when they do, they still get ridiculed. Man I'm 1 minute in and I'm already crying. Somebody give this boy a hug

    • @fahdah106
      @fahdah106 5 лет назад +5

      Fr he don’t want to speak on television I don’t blame him I just really want to give home a *couple* of hugs. And these bitches all they see is a colored man with a drinking problem smh 🤦‍♀️

  • @mattbryant8320
    @mattbryant8320 Год назад +4

    How is the kid the bad guy in this situation? He was forced to be responsible for things he shouldn’t be at a young age and his mom is gonna turn her nose up and get upset that he’s an alcoholic.

  • @Hotcashe1
    @Hotcashe1 5 лет назад +555

    This is sad I feel like alot of Black parents don't take mental health seriously. When our generation starts having kids we got to change this.

    • @imaaronnotyou3887
      @imaaronnotyou3887 5 лет назад +4

      @Jayshaun Walker they aren't discussing about you what do you mean

    • @btsfansarmynonna6206
      @btsfansarmynonna6206 5 лет назад +6

      On a real

    • @johnaeevans7772
      @johnaeevans7772 5 лет назад +5

      Stir Fry facts💯

    • @londyns.9905
      @londyns.9905 5 лет назад +1

      You can’t just assume that black parents don’t take mental health seriously it’s not right to say that and I have many friends that are black we’re their parents take GREAT Care of their children

    • @amorderose
      @amorderose 5 лет назад +34

      @@londyns.9905 Just because the parents are physically taking care of and providing for their kids doesn't mean they're taking their children's mental health seriously

  • @cndungu
    @cndungu 5 лет назад +173

    These people are not listening to him!!!! 😠😠😠😠
    Piss off if you're not going to listen to him! They all literally ganged up against a hurting person.

  • @deema_q4963
    @deema_q4963 5 лет назад +82

    I feel so bad for him. The judges were complete assholes, They invited him to the show to talk about his problems but yet they ignored everything he said and didn't even let him talk.🙄😤

  • @kennethgates129
    @kennethgates129 Год назад +2

    Imagine telling people you depressed and tired and they call you a alcoholic.. do people realize people with depression go to those things alcohol/drugs to not feel the way they feeling