90 Days NoFap - BENEFITS (AND CHALLENGES)

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Go go go Instagram: @alex_shailer
    Book some time for us to speak to see if you're a good fit for the Consciousness Revolution program: speaktoalex.com/
    In this video, I talk about my journey after 90 days of NoFap.
    I cover the benefits, and the challenges, the highs, and the lows.
    My name's Alex and I help people with Conscious Personal Growth.

Комментарии • 126

  • @AlexShailer
    @AlexShailer  4 года назад +46

    Peace :)

  • @user-fn8bm9ie3o
    @user-fn8bm9ie3o 4 года назад +48

    going on day 329, I am addicted to nofap now.

    • @pauljohnson6019
      @pauljohnson6019 4 года назад +6

      Day 1001! Nofap has become my bible!

    • @quickvision_
      @quickvision_ 4 года назад

      @@pauljohnson6019 ahahaha

    • @imeleventeen
      @imeleventeen 3 года назад +1

      Damn dude. Highest streak was 24. On day 4 rn but I feel it this time, I think I’m done for good

    • @imeleventeen
      @imeleventeen 3 года назад

      @@generalkai2417 just fucking relapsed last night 😑. Shit plays mind games with you

    • @Prosperousprotocols
      @Prosperousprotocols 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@pauljohnson6019 where are your magical powers?

  • @davidmartin0226
    @davidmartin0226 4 года назад +31

    I am on day 66 and I feel more in control of my emotions.

  • @nofapchris6770
    @nofapchris6770 4 года назад +17

    day 433 of nofap for me, never relapsed. I believe that I still feel all the benefits without fucking urges, yet I don't exactly know, because it became my new "normal". Was awesome to hear from you, keep pushing!

    • @golions13579
      @golions13579 4 года назад

      Username checks out. Good job dude.

    • @Prosperousprotocols
      @Prosperousprotocols 11 месяцев назад

      How’s it going? What magic powers a have you gained?

  • @devingrant4842
    @devingrant4842 3 года назад +6

    67 days and my life feels, plus is completely different. All it took was to not be a bitch and know your the shit. Another benefit I found, I can see things or know it’s going to happen before it occurs. Your senses are raised more than ever

  • @coleferrell9234
    @coleferrell9234 4 года назад +43

    Ive gone 17 days, I feel great.

  • @chevy2583
    @chevy2583 4 года назад +14

    Day 7 in NoFap. start to wake up with erection. Have not had such strong erection for loooong time. Will keep going ....

    • @alexmunoz6682
      @alexmunoz6682 4 года назад +1

      Bro SAME. it’s annoying as hell

  • @zenvincent116
    @zenvincent116 4 года назад +14

    i can relate to this 100% no bs,
    im on day 81 on nofap.👌👍👍

  • @mikejohnson5884
    @mikejohnson5884 4 года назад +8

    Day 64 and counting!! We got this!!

  • @AravindMLife
    @AravindMLife 4 года назад +13

    One of your fan from India...

  • @radicalnewlifestyle1697
    @radicalnewlifestyle1697 4 года назад +4

    Day 66 Nofap, Wim Hof, overcoming addiction, weightlifting and healthy lifestyle choices. I started a vlog to help myself along if you're interested

  • @valentinogardner9307
    @valentinogardner9307 4 года назад +10

    I am on day 6 & mentally i feel like I'm in a better place then i was before. I used to always talk to myself alot. I don't do it anymore but recently i had a serious talk with myself & i came to a conclusion & i found the root & the cause as to why i kept relapsing in the past or recently. What i realized was that i constantly kept putting myself in situations where i was doing things that i most likely knew i was not supposed to be doing in terms of the physical or my conscious mind but in my subconscious i feel like my mind would convince me that if i touch myself or even if i just touch it a little bit that nothing will happen, but recently when i would do that i would always relapse because i would have too much sexual energy built up & once simple touch will allow that to happen & i don't actually jerk off. It'll be just a little touch or of course the other times i would just jerk off. Now that I've realized these things I've restarted my journey & mentally i feel like my mind is much stronger. I've realized that i have to end this pattern of relapsing for good or else this cycle will keep going on. The time is now. Let's get it! I'm 24 years old btw.

    • @antonioreigadas8542
      @antonioreigadas8542 4 года назад +1

      Similar situation here. Im on day 7 today. Keep it up, man!

    • @valentinogardner9307
      @valentinogardner9307 4 года назад

      @@antonioreigadas8542 I'm so proud of you bro. Another thing I've realized because of this nofap journey is that you have to always keep your mind busy & occupied at all times. Never allow yourself to be in a idle mind state. It is very dangerous & that's where sexual thoughts or images can easily pop up. For me personally I've been listening to lots of music, I've been writing music a liitle bit. I did it yesterday & I've been doing other things too. Everything I've been doing has been working so well because now i noticed that sexual thoughts or images barely pop up in my mind like that & maybe it's because I'm constantly occupying my mind with other things. Keep pushing bro, you got this. I'm on day 7 now btw so it's crazy how these things are happening to me & I'm only on day 7.

    • @antonioreigadas8542
      @antonioreigadas8542 4 года назад +1

      @@valentinogardner9307 Yes, It is crazy how powerful is this practice. Sometimes I feel like blessed and It is just with a few days. Actually I tend to see It in a spiritual way, and that help me to canalize it on more elevated ways. I do not know how to explain :/ But you know, man, we got this! Dignity. Nice quarantine! :)

    • @valentinogardner9307
      @valentinogardner9307 4 года назад

      @@antonioreigadas8542 it's crazy how much my life has changed so much & it's only been 7 days. I only know now it's gonna get better & better as the days go on. To be honest, i feel like if i didn't have that serious talk with myself, i would still probably be relapsing & falling back into that same cycle over & over again. I feel like I've woken up & realized what was really going on with me. Now i can do this journey with ease. I'm actually listening to beats & about to write right now. Gotta keep my mind occupied. The grind don't stop. My goal is to get to day 400 or even day 200 & after that stop counting the days & make it a lifestyle. Let's get it! No more relapses. The time is now.

    • @antonioreigadas8542
      @antonioreigadas8542 4 года назад

      @@valentinogardner9307 true. I feel you, Valentino. But I recommend you to focus on day by day, i think is better and more practic that way. For the rest, nice journey my friend :)

  • @Reggieuk97
    @Reggieuk97 4 года назад +1

    What i find crazy is the power masturbating has over us, it’s only when you consciously decide to stop masturbating when you feel your inner self ie dopamine receptors telling me too. This is one reason why I decided to go on no fap because I don’t like the fact I’m not in control, my theory is if we have the willpower and control over our sexual urges you will be able to achieve anything you want in life. Keep motivated everyone

  • @SuspiciousFace
    @SuspiciousFace 4 года назад +8

    Brilliant idea with the speaktoalex. You are quite helpful and through your great speeches in your videos, you seem quite pleasant to speak with.

  • @AdrianRodriguez-tm3qj
    @AdrianRodriguez-tm3qj 4 года назад +16

    I'd say I've been a month on hard NO PMO mode! but I wasn't tracking so I'll start today. I'm using the energy to build my body beyond what it seems possible for me right now. Also, I'm learning different skills like copywriting, web development, life coaching and internet marketing. I'd like to start an online business as soon as possible, now that we are on lockdown in Argentina... Apart from that, I'm studying to become an English teacher D:

    • @InspirationParadise
      @InspirationParadise 4 года назад +2

      I’d say ditch the teaching job bro ;)

    • @AdrianRodriguez-tm3qj
      @AdrianRodriguez-tm3qj 4 года назад

      ​@@InspirationParadise Yeah, I'm thinking of taking the course of studies slowly...thanks!!

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад

      Sounds like you got a great attitude Adrian

  • @elisha-ov8612
    @elisha-ov8612 4 года назад +8

    I lost in 6 days, it was first attempt. I am 22 years old and turning to 23 is it late to avoid this issue?

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад +6

      No of course not I started at 32 lol

    • @elisha-ov8612
      @elisha-ov8612 4 года назад +1

      @@AlexShailer thanks ) for responding )

    • @elisha-ov8612
      @elisha-ov8612 4 года назад +1

      Second attempt 10 days. till 8 may, yesterday.
      My target now 15 days.

    • @mannyluke7566
      @mannyluke7566 4 года назад

      I’m 27. I started mid 2018 and have failed several times since. But my streaks are getting longer, and my failures are getting further and further apart. Keep going friend :)
      Don’t get discouraged if you fail. Just keep going!

  • @tonyan2853
    @tonyan2853 3 года назад +1

    Day 30 doing hard mode, cold showers, read 30min a day, and excercise.
    I can't say if i've gotten better. at times I feel worse especially with social anxiety, but i'll push to 90 days.

  • @devinallen4708
    @devinallen4708 4 года назад +9

    Well needed today, thank you

  • @Prosperousprotocols
    @Prosperousprotocols 11 месяцев назад

    Your curse is a magnetic voice without a compelling narrative/ storytelling. You take a long time getting to the point/beginning the story.
    Please take this as feedback for the potential I see in you.this is the first video of yours I’m seeing

  • @Yilikeitthisway
    @Yilikeitthisway Год назад

    Strong urges for the first few days. No libido or urges since then. I am on day 15. I feel great, occasional mood swings, also motivation swings, one day I am hyped up, second I dont want to do anything.

  • @devinallen4708
    @devinallen4708 4 года назад +2

    By the way I tried to schedule a call for the program and I think I accidentally put in the wrong WhatsApp number I think it auto put my town's zip code for some reason is there a way to fix that?

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад +1

      I emailed you :)

    • @devinallen4708
      @devinallen4708 4 года назад +1

      @@AlexShailer thank you! Sorry about that Alex!

  • @Molego2011
    @Molego2011 4 года назад +7

    British guy saying "bust a nut" ... I love Alex.. I am starting my streak on May 1st.

    • @ALEX-gr7dx
      @ALEX-gr7dx 4 года назад +1

      So today u busted one.

    • @Molego2011
      @Molego2011 4 года назад +1

      @@ALEX-gr7dx not yet. I been deleting porn from my Reddit, and clearing out my history of my phone. I am super excited to start my streak again. I love your channel. Be safe...

    • @ALEX-gr7dx
      @ALEX-gr7dx 4 года назад +2

      @@Molego2011 He is Alex shailer. I also love his channel. Let's do it from may 1 . I am in with you.

    • @HonderdtachtigCC
      @HonderdtachtigCC 4 года назад

      @@ALEX-gr7dx your both going to fail.
      why dont start now its now or never.

    • @ALEX-gr7dx
      @ALEX-gr7dx 4 года назад

      @@HonderdtachtigCC I didnt busted (funny) for 1,2 weeks not as streak or something. Just to exercise some will power. With him I would do some proper habits so that I can reap some benefits.

  • @milicagrujic1361
    @milicagrujic1361 4 года назад +6

    I adore your voice!
    Thank you for this video!❤

  • @ClassicosGames
    @ClassicosGames 4 года назад +1

    A fan from Brazil!! thanks for the tips bro!

  • @khaleelullakhan1340
    @khaleelullakhan1340 3 года назад

    Hello brother i hope atleast you would reply me it's like I want an answer like some information regarding nofap it's like I have been into this nofap journey for the past 18 months but in this 18 month I had a 8 nightfall it's like wet dreams like I never released or masturbated by own but it was released from the body due to nightfall like wet dreams does it affect my nofap journey ?? Like it's relapsed or still am continuing nofap journey ??

  • @aouna9412
    @aouna9412 3 года назад +1

    Day 9 and I feel like a god🔥

  • @ankitrawat4621
    @ankitrawat4621 4 года назад +2

    I am at 46 days of NoFap and i feel extremely good about myself. It's not like my motivation and focus has increased tremendously but my self-deprecating attitude is going away with each passing day.

    • @introvert1232
      @introvert1232 Год назад

      how long you were addicted mastrubation

  • @davidaustin193
    @davidaustin193 4 года назад +2

    Day 80 semen retention 🙌🏼

  • @happythoughts505
    @happythoughts505 4 года назад +3

    Im very fascinated since learning of this from a male partner, i want to learn & understand more & also about the female aspect of this.......Can you & your partner learn this together & can it create more connection?? Thankyou

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад

      Yes you absolutely can and it will very likely create more connection. Look into Taoist, Tantric and Karezza practices. 🙂

    • @happythoughts505
      @happythoughts505 4 года назад

      @@AlexShailer Thankyou

  • @king.lokosu6426
    @king.lokosu6426 2 года назад

    I'm 36 this 90 or 120 days will work with me ?

  • @antonioreigadas8542
    @antonioreigadas8542 4 года назад +4

    You look great! Keep It up.

  • @phosphorescentscotsman
    @phosphorescentscotsman 4 года назад +1

    A worth-while and timely update. 👍

  • @allybiggs5423
    @allybiggs5423 4 года назад +2

    I'm on like 12 days hard mode no morning wood I'm basically dead downstairs feeling really low what is going on? Great video btw

    • @antonioreigadas8542
      @antonioreigadas8542 4 года назад +1

      You are on the flatline. It is normal, continue. Look for it on the internet, it will provide you with better information than me. But basically I can say that your brain is getting cleaned but also in need for a dopamine release, and that is why you feel down. You'll get used to it.

    • @teslacarfan
      @teslacarfan 4 года назад

      Keep going, I started getting morning wood again around day 15

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад +1

      Yes if you're new to NoFap it sounds like what they call a 'flatline'. I don't really get them anymore but I did at the beginning. It was concerning but I later found there is nothing to be concerned about.

    • @allybiggs5423
      @allybiggs5423 4 года назад

      @@AlexShailer don't you get worried about prostate cancer holding in all that nut juice? I thought it was good to keep the pipes clean once in a while?

    • @phantomreacts
      @phantomreacts 4 года назад

      @@allybiggs5423 semen is reabsorbed n used by the body withing abt a week of not releasing ... So no worries

  • @prashantsorathiya3637
    @prashantsorathiya3637 4 года назад +4

    Day 50 on semen retention

    • @JehovahRapha777
      @JehovahRapha777 4 года назад

      Day 51! Check out my video: ruclips.net/video/AZGIPSQSgLU/видео.html

  • @gmagma1540
    @gmagma1540 4 года назад +2

    I feel great but is it normal to get headaches?

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад +1

      Yeah the first time I got a lot of headaches but I don't get them anymore. Try drinking more water.

    • @ajack3526
      @ajack3526 4 года назад

      u get headaches from not fapping? 😂😂😂

    • @LuisGarciaSprout
      @LuisGarciaSprout 4 года назад

      Yes just take a headache pill like Excedrin that’s what I do

  • @w-lyrics8917
    @w-lyrics8917 4 года назад +1

    Anyone goal a 30 days NOFAP is legend to me

    • @factsandhistory8510
      @factsandhistory8510 4 года назад

      I'm on day 34 pmo Steel got the power 💪 for 90 days at least

  • @adarshbr6274
    @adarshbr6274 4 года назад +2

    My 5th day

  • @shailendrasaiwal
    @shailendrasaiwal 4 года назад +1

    Great eloquence, great content.

  • @edisonnavos1338
    @edisonnavos1338 3 года назад

    Day 53 for me. Let's do this!

  • @dado76cro
    @dado76cro 4 года назад

    what music is in the end of the video?

  • @mustsilm
    @mustsilm 4 года назад +3

    A week ago u posted vid how beliefs affect your reality. The share fact you believe 90 days of nofap is lifechanging also affects your reality. I say that cause i have had periods were i did long stints and i didnt get all these life changing benefits.

    • @yoosofan
      @yoosofan 4 года назад +2

      It is a tool to get more time and energy to do useful things. If you just expect that everything will be okay after 90 days, you are wrong. But if you start doing useful things to upgrade yourself along with nofap then you will see the real difference and how it helped you to achieve what you want. Also you should mention that what kind of reality you are looking for to change. Many things are not solely depend on us, but we can ourselves and improve it and it may help to improve other aspects of us. However we cannot forget the environment we live in and its impact on our reality. Our environment and people we are dealing with them and their realities would limit how much we can change our reality, but we have always an interval of freedom for improving and not slipping to the rabbit hole and decrease our values.

    • @AlexShailer
      @AlexShailer  4 года назад +2

      Absolutely. This is not an exact science. And beliefs affect things too. There will always be an element of "placebo" with anything that you believe will positively affect you. I've also done this for long enough to know without a doubt that there are quite profound physical affects, for me at least, and for many others who report the same. Take stock of the other healthy habits you are doing too. NoFap on it's own won't change your life. NoFap with the right healthy habits and attitude may well do.

  • @atundaade1888
    @atundaade1888 4 года назад +2

    Great partner. Nice info, I do enjoyed it.
    You are so explicit and sharing personal experience.
    Thanks 🙏 Alex.

    • @gopy5520
      @gopy5520 4 года назад

      Hi,how are you

  • @spiritualwave5895
    @spiritualwave5895 2 года назад

    Day 4 😭 let’s gooooo!

  • @krzysztofserafin5350
    @krzysztofserafin5350 3 года назад

    what is your age? is it possible to get benefits after 30years old?

  • @Nandorodriguez026
    @Nandorodriguez026 4 года назад +1

    I'm using quitzilla too😌im at 5 days and 22 hours

  • @Kelorie
    @Kelorie 3 года назад +1

    How old are you,bro?

  • @alexperaltabermudez2866
    @alexperaltabermudez2866 4 года назад

    I have one year, six months, and twenty-two days of nofap.

  • @adriancaldwell
    @adriancaldwell 4 года назад

    One ejaculation = one days worth of zinc. Lack of zinc makes us sluggish, therefore carry on life as normal and supplement your diet with zinc.

  • @jahdagoat4519
    @jahdagoat4519 3 года назад

    7 day streak & ended .

  • @joeanthonymorales1741
    @joeanthonymorales1741 4 года назад

    As always very encouraging. Best way to start the day. Thank you.

  • @dannycrover8710
    @dannycrover8710 Год назад

    Relapsed twice today,😭

  • @factsandhistory8510
    @factsandhistory8510 4 года назад +1

    كاش جزايري يتبع فالموفمو تاع nofap نطلعلكم شوية لمورال ليوم عندي 34 يوم و نتوما قداه ؟ و بون كوراج و صحا رمضانكم

  • @arashvincent1639
    @arashvincent1639 4 года назад

    Would you put English subtitles on your videos pls ?

    • @rahulbaruah4587
      @rahulbaruah4587 4 года назад

      But he is speaking English...

    • @fil_britbunnyboi872
      @fil_britbunnyboi872 3 года назад

      @@rahulbaruah4587 not everyone speaks English as a first language 😉

  • @phosphorescentscotsman
    @phosphorescentscotsman 3 года назад

    All porn does is make you think about sex, and that's all! If you were (otherwise) not looking at it, you would think about it less.

  • @imran-khnbd5297
    @imran-khnbd5297 Год назад

    No pornography & masterbation from today💪💪💪

  • @cjentuskuzan4027
    @cjentuskuzan4027 4 года назад

    Day 33