When my parents got divorced.I had to leave my father and live with my mom.I used to call him a lot of times but now,it's so hard to call him.It was mostly awkward silence when i speak with him on the phone.I stopped calling my father.Watching this video,i'm gonna start calling my father again.I knew he wasn't the best father i wished him to be but i'm still grateful to him.My brothers and sisters,pray for me that my relationship with my father gets better again.
aizatader umaga "God's pleasure is in the pleasure of the father, and God's displeasure is in the displeasure of the father." I hope and pray brother you do try and fix your relationship with your father as soon as possible cuz no one knows except Allah s.w.t how long anyone will live. peace
aizatader umaga who knows whats in his mind, brother, allah knows only, just look into his eyes no need for words brother, he is and wil lalways be your dad, and try to make contact even if he is not trying, if possible may allah swt protect and forgive us all.
I have the exact same problem I still speak to my dad but he's not religious as he should be I pray for him for Allah to show him the light but It doesn't work Pray for me Inshallah brother and may Allah solve all your difficulties and bring you and you're family ease Ameen..
You described exactly my current situation with my broken family. Subhana'Allah, except my father, he keeps in contact with me. I love both of my parents, irregardless of what has happened between them.
May Allah make us of those who learn and implement lessons from stories and not those who just listen then forget and carry on with doing wrong things. Very thought provoking story.
If they will or are trying to bring you in shirk and/or kufr, ofcourse you will disobey them... The best example for us is Ibraheem alayhissalaam (and his relation with his father). A perfect example..
Muhammed Özdemir Brother you need to understand that there is a difference between obeying and respecting. If someone's parents are telling them to go against Islam, you do not obey them. But you must still speak to them kindly and treat them well, just like Ibrahim (as) did.
I hate my childhood (I'm still 16 though), I'm Arabic and I'm born in USA, but I understand to speak Arabic, and I don't know how to write, and every time my mom would see another kid who recites the Quran or something, she would be making fun of me and says why aren't you like him, while she never taught me from the first place while I'm supposed to learn from my parents, and my dad just sits and doesn't CARE at all, (anyways, he prays once every 10years) I can't wait until the time comes where when I buy my very own house and run my very own family, inshaAllah
Please don't say anything about your parents. Love them with all your heart, i dont love with my parents I was sent back to my home country at 13 to learn my religion I didn't mind tho, a year later and I'm 14 I really miss thrm and love them and i want to see them badly and hug them and kiss them and give them everything cook clean ,Even massage their feet talk to them read Qur'an to them but i can't. I call them whenever my grandma's talking to my mum so every 3 days and its so heartbeaking thoughts like "how come I never realised how beautiful my mums voice was" or "how Could I never have realised how soothing and refreshing my dad's voice was'. Please understand your parents want the best even though sometimes may be excruciating they would never leave you in the dark.
I speak/read English too but this person's grammar was not the best and even i found it difficult (seems like google translate) but here's the story: Once upon a time there was an old man who lived with his wife, maid and chauffeur. His wife died so he went to live with his eldest son. He was getting old and being a nuisance so he argued with his son's wife (about trivial matters) she persuaded her husband to let his father stay in a seperate room. The son told his father the room was better for his health and has advantages His son rarely visited him, eventually only once a week and his wife would prepare his meals in one plastic dish and serve all his meals in that Eventually the old man died and while the son was cleaning out his room, his 10yr old son came in and hugged the plastic dish, the father told him to throw it away, the son refused insisting he needs it. His father demanded why to which his son replied " When you get old, ill put your food in it" Not my translation. Taken from UnionRusher1234
I speak/read English too but this person's grammar was not the best and even i found it difficult (seems like google translate) but here's the story: Once upon a time there was an old man who lived with his wife, maid and chauffeur. His wife died so he went to live with his eldest son. He was getting old and being a nuisance so he argued with his son's wife (about trivial matters) she persuaded her husband to let his father stay in a seperate room. The son told his father the room was better for his health and has advantages His son rarely visited him, eventually only once a week and his wife would prepare his meals in one plastic dish and serve all his meals in that Eventually the old man died and while the son was cleaning out his room, his 10yr old son came in and hugged the plastic dish, the father told him to throw it away, the son refused insisting he needs it. His father demanded why to which his son replied " When you get old, ill put your food in it"
Hello my name is Aminata I have a problem with my mom the last time she say that I have to go outside it’s was so cold and I say no to her she really get offended and she tell me to move out from the house 🏡 I apologize to her but don’t wanted what should I do please
What to do when parents ask other siblings to beat me cuz i dont want to marry my aunts(mother sister) daughter and they call my uncle n say bad things about his daughter abuse him and his daughter give fake lies my 5 years younger sisters can kick me out of the house like I am a dog.... how can b I obedient do they deserve this obedience that I would kill my self to work for them like a robot and they beat me till i bleed or all family members beat me just because I don't want to marry from my mother family my father prays 5 times a day n is a total hypocrite keeps on lying to me ... they can take haram money if they know they can get then why Allah still said be obedient ... where is the way of prophet (peace be upon him)??? Quran is guidebook but sunna is to practice it where is Islam in what they r doing & why they should be obeyed parents only use Quran to get what they want times have changed ... I pray everyday for them to get hadya I can't do anything else but i talk back to them i do chores etc but when they leave the ways of Islam and use it for their own purposes they can do anything to win cuz they use Allah religion for personal interests fitting ayas not knowing why they were sent so don't be disobedient until they use Islam n force their will on you cuz Islam gives you freedom and teaches humanity parents should b an example for children not asking them to lie or talking their rights Allah gave them... same goes for children but unfortunately ulamas preach wrongly onesided story they don't create balance in a relationship they disrupt it so muslim youth is being destroyed..... because children now trust friends over parents cuz they will be slapped if they tell the truth... I think it should be the other way around to build a parent child trust n love relationship.. but instead parents say you do this i will kill you ... n they want a child to trust them they can lie cuz they are parents it is the most jahil comments by parents cuz they are teaching to lie... i hope ulamas get my point create balance or stop preaching
Make du'a. It is oppression on you if they force you to marry someone you dont want to get married to. Try to get a scholar to reconcile. May Allah SWT help you.
Islamically they cannot force you in to a marriage. And also, its true that you should obey your parents but the exception comes if they ask you to do something that is against what Allah likes and wants (such as forced marriage-Allah does not accept forced marriage). Stay strong and talk to someone you trust outside your family( eg a teacher or friend) about these issues. Salam :)
When my parents got divorced.I had to leave my father and live with my mom.I used to call him a lot of times but now,it's so hard to call him.It was mostly awkward silence when i speak with him on the phone.I stopped calling my father.Watching this video,i'm gonna start calling my father again.I knew he wasn't the best father i wished him to be but i'm still grateful to him.My brothers and sisters,pray for me that my relationship with my father gets better again.
***** I only visit him twice a year.Last time i met him,we didn't even talked much.It's like he never tried to continue the conversation.
aizatader umaga "God's pleasure is in the pleasure of the father, and God's displeasure is in the displeasure of the father." I hope and pray brother you do try and fix your relationship with your father as soon as possible cuz no one knows except Allah s.w.t how long anyone will live. peace
aizatader umaga
who knows whats in his mind, brother, allah knows only, just look into his eyes no need for words brother, he is and wil lalways be your dad, and try to make contact even if he is not trying, if possible
may allah swt protect and forgive us all.
I have the exact same problem I still speak to my dad but he's not religious as he should be I pray for him for Allah to show him the light but It doesn't work Pray for me Inshallah brother and may Allah solve all your difficulties and bring you and you're family ease Ameen..
You described exactly my current situation with my broken family. Subhana'Allah, except my father, he keeps in contact with me. I love both of my parents, irregardless of what has happened between them.
Ya Allah, this put me into tears. I lost my father last Monday on the 9th. And I would never dare to treat him or my mother anything less than, love.
Ya Allah grant my father jannat al firdous 😔😔😢
SubhanAllah, we should love and respect our parents unconditionally
May Allah make us means of happiness to our parents. Ameen.
May Allah make us of those who learn and implement lessons from stories and not those who just listen then forget and carry on with doing wrong things.
Very thought provoking story.
Ameen
Aameen
الله مغفر لوالدي ورحمهم
Allah u Akbar
Subhanallah....
If they will or are trying to bring you in shirk and/or kufr, ofcourse you will disobey them... The best example for us is Ibraheem alayhissalaam (and his relation with his father). A perfect example..
Faith Means Hope No, look at the relation between Ibraheem alayhissalaam and his father.
Muhammed Özdemir Brother you need to understand that there is a difference between obeying and respecting. If someone's parents are telling them to go against Islam, you do not obey them. But you must still speak to them kindly and treat them well, just like Ibrahim (as) did.
but even then.. i mean even if u have to disobey.. u still have to be kind as much as possible.
The respect must still be there though,
I hate my childhood
(I'm still 16 though), I'm Arabic and I'm born in USA, but I understand to speak Arabic, and I don't know how to write, and every time my mom would see another kid who recites the Quran or something, she would be making fun of me and says why aren't you like him, while she never taught me from the first place while I'm supposed to learn from my parents, and my dad just sits and doesn't CARE at all, (anyways, he prays once every 10years)
I can't wait until the time comes where when I buy my very own house and run my very own family, inshaAllah
u remind of my own story😞
Please don't say anything about your parents. Love them with all your heart, i dont love with my parents I was sent back to my home country at 13 to learn my religion I didn't mind tho, a year later and I'm 14 I really miss thrm and love them and i want to see them badly and hug them and kiss them and give them everything cook clean ,Even massage their feet talk to them read Qur'an to them but i can't. I call them whenever my grandma's talking to my mum so every 3 days and its so heartbeaking thoughts like "how come I never realised how beautiful my mums voice was" or "how Could I never have realised how soothing and refreshing my dad's voice was'. Please understand your parents want the best even though sometimes may be excruciating they would never leave you in the dark.
I didn't quite understand some of the things said. Can a better English translation be used please, thank you
I speak/read English too but this person's grammar was not the best and even i found it difficult (seems like google translate) but here's the story:
Once upon a time there was an old man who lived with his wife, maid and chauffeur. His wife died so he went to live with his eldest son.
He was getting old and being a nuisance so he argued with his son's wife (about trivial matters) she persuaded her husband to let his father stay in a seperate room. The son told his father the room was better for his health and has advantages
His son rarely visited him, eventually only once a week and his wife would prepare his meals in one plastic dish and serve all his meals in that
Eventually the old man died and while the son was cleaning out his room, his 10yr old son came in and hugged the plastic dish, the father told him to throw it away, the son refused insisting he needs it.
His father demanded why to which his son replied " When you get old, ill put your food in it"
Not my translation. Taken from UnionRusher1234
Would Allah forgive yo if you argue and shout at ur parents
after regretting yes. the best way to regret for such a sin ist... to stop arguing and to stop shouting.
No
😭😭😭
Fix the subtitles
I speak and read in English perfectly and for some reason I could not understand the story, could someone please retell the story in ur own words thnx
I speak/read English too but this person's grammar was not the best and even i found it difficult (seems like google translate) but here's the story:
Once upon a time there was an old man who lived with his wife, maid and chauffeur. His wife died so he went to live with his eldest son.
He was getting old and being a nuisance so he argued with his son's wife (about trivial matters) she persuaded her husband to let his father stay in a seperate room. The son told his father the room was better for his health and has advantages
His son rarely visited him, eventually only once a week and his wife would prepare his meals in one plastic dish and serve all his meals in that
Eventually the old man died and while the son was cleaning out his room, his 10yr old son came in and hugged the plastic dish, the father told him to throw it away, the son refused insisting he needs it.
His father demanded why to which his son replied " When you get old, ill put your food in it"
I don't understand. How exactly did he disobey his old father?
Hello my name is Aminata I have a problem with my mom the last time she say that I have to go outside it’s was so cold and I say no to her she really get offended and she tell me to move out from the house 🏡 I apologize to her but don’t wanted what should I do please
Sheikh name?
the english translation was not very good!
واو انسف
What to do when parents ask other siblings to beat me cuz i dont want to marry my aunts(mother sister) daughter and they call my uncle n say bad things about his daughter abuse him and his daughter give fake lies my 5 years younger sisters can kick me out of the house like I am a dog.... how can b I obedient do they deserve this obedience that I would kill my self to work for them like a robot and they beat me till i bleed or all family members beat me just because I don't want to marry from my mother family my father prays 5 times a day n is a total hypocrite keeps on lying to me ... they can take haram money if they know they can get then why Allah still said be obedient ... where is the way of prophet (peace be upon him)??? Quran is guidebook but sunna is to practice it where is Islam in what they r doing & why they should be obeyed parents only use Quran to get what they want times have changed ... I pray everyday for them to get hadya I can't do anything else but i talk back to them i do chores etc but when they leave the ways of Islam and use it for their own purposes they can do anything to win cuz they use Allah religion for personal interests fitting ayas not knowing why they were sent so don't be disobedient until they use Islam n force their will on you cuz Islam gives you freedom and teaches humanity parents should b an example for children not asking them to lie or talking their rights Allah gave them... same goes for children but unfortunately ulamas preach wrongly onesided story they don't create balance in a relationship they disrupt it so muslim youth is being destroyed..... because children now trust friends over parents cuz they will be slapped if they tell the truth... I think it should be the other way around to build a parent child trust n love relationship.. but instead parents say you do this i will kill you ... n they want a child to trust them they can lie cuz they are parents it is the most jahil comments by parents cuz they are teaching to lie... i hope ulamas get my point create balance or stop preaching
Make du'a. It is oppression on you if they force you to marry someone you dont want to get married to. Try to get a scholar to reconcile. May Allah SWT help you.
Islamically they cannot force you in to a marriage. And also, its true that you should obey your parents but the exception comes if they ask you to do something that is against what Allah likes and wants (such as forced marriage-Allah does not accept forced marriage). Stay strong and talk to someone you trust outside your family( eg a teacher or friend) about these issues. Salam :)