Coming from watching tons of cold approach videos, most of the points are legit. But one thing I would add is prepare to be rejected and have an escape route. “Excuse, I just have to say I like your style” if she just says thanks and continues to walk away, be prepared to say “ have a good day” and walk away with confidence. It’s important to always keep that confidence in check
@@POPJack1717can you explain more because how can you approach with zero fucks given on the outcome but your initial decision to approach is based on a reason of interest? Why does this have to be so complicated now a days😅😭
@@chrischristopher3791 He means to have the mindset that YOU don't care if you get rejected. Not caring about the outcome gives you more confidence to have more conversations AND have more confidence in the interaction. Women know if you're confident fairly quickly and is a turn on for them. Don't make it complicated, just see what happens
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
@@arnvonsalzburg5033 Look up Todd V Dating. He's an average looking guy with much more practical advice, tips, and tricks you can use to work your way up to approaching women.
I have friends who do randomly do funny stuff like walk right into a girl to talk to them or say something out of the blue and most of the times it works. I think it’s the best way to get rid of that awkward anxiety when you do approach a girl and just be funny about it
They also sometimes get awkward even when you talk to them, so they don't have a clue how to respond to you, you have to be able to break the ice to make them comfortable!
@@CommandoMaster well you’re gonna have to regardless bro standing there and just sitting around and waiting for something to happen is not gonna do anything you as the man you have to take ACTION!!! If you want something that bad you go after it sitting around and waiting doesn’t get u know where women in general don’t approach men in real life so it’s very rare men have to lead the whole interaction “ MEN LEAD WOMEN FOLLOW “
If both are 10/10 then they know wassup Edit: there are some cases where even if the man is 10/10 but is shy and acting off the 10/10 woman will step all over him, in some cases
Attractive dudes who smile a lot receive good feedback bc the reason why they smile is that they feel good with themselves and they simply take it easy
This is pretty insightful because it highlights the importance of non-verbals when it comes to cold approach. 4 out of 5 of the points are all non-verbals that just shows the importance. Too many people think too hard about what to say without having the non-verbals down. For me I’ve got the looks I think I just need to improve on my smile, I’ve had people tell me I don’t ever smile and look upset. Also my voice tends to be pretty quiet when I’m nervous which makes it hard for them to hear me. If I fixed that I think I’d be in a much better spot. Thanks for the tips Coach Kyle! I’ve gotta start cold approaching again it’s been months!
Back in time I was kinda introvert and didn't do anything with girls in a romantic sense. But then I started approach strangers in public. It was really fun and still is. I can recommend this to everybody. Great video!
@@TheCentennial4 Ask her name. _"Excuse me, what's your name?"_ It's direct, and it shows you have interest in her. If she shows interest, ask/comment about something and then let the conversation flow. Just don't ask many questions, you don't want it to become an interrogatory.
guys listen if a girl is attracted to you no matter what you do they’ll think its cute but if shes not attracted to you then she’ll think you’re creepy point blank
That’s really it tbh this video is just for average guys, any pre select dudes are not having to waste time doing these gymnastics. This is basically getting the girls who feel neutral about you to like you.
Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. its called CrushAnyGirl and its for finding a gf as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read
The sweet spot is being assertive! Too many people have forgotten that a middle ground still exists. For years, I've been trying to get many men to become assertive & confident. There's too many passive men now which means that aren't many men anymore.
1) be attractive (physique, clothing, fragrance, grooming) 2) stop her or go with her 3) smile 4) have confidence in every single thing you say 5) make her laugh Done.
nice, I like that you said excuse me in all three approaches to address what I think is called the social awareness of the situation and the random encounter
If you're going to a very pretty women, she most definitely knows it, guys always tell her that. My advice: your impact on a girl will be far more powerful when she has to make the conclusion herself. Instead of opening her with a direct compliment (which in most of the case will get a "thank you" point blank). Go for saying something that suggest she's pretty or that she stands out. To me opening a girl and saying "I just saw you and I felt I had to say hi/meet you" is far better than "Hi I find you pretty,glowing whatever"
You just have to go for it. Who cares if you get rejected. I will talk to any woman in public. Confidence is everything. Eye contact, be smooth, be kind, and be bold.
@@elonmusk2658 workout, stop watching porn, eat well, watch videos on how to speak properly, eye contact, be yourself, loosen up, martial arts, be good at something, and work hard at everything
@@elonmusk2658 Everytime before I go talk to a chic in public, the mental gymnastics that goes on in my head is ridiculous lol. But I rather try and get rejected than never trying at all.
i like chasing them down dark alleyways.. the fear completely takes over them and forces them to freeze but then when you get close just say "are you good" and smile, then you both lol and then you escort her out the alleyway then you get the number only for her to never reply or be seen again 😶
I really agree with this video, if a guy comes up to me not smiling, I’d think something was wrong. In the first 10 seconds, I, and probably every woman out there, will look at how a man grooms himself, his confidence level, his body language and make an assessment right then and there 👍🏼
And this is why too many people are single. What if my shoulders hurt because I slept on it wrong and you see me as unconfident despite approaching you and being myself? Lolollolololol
I really liked this video! Unlike others on the same topic, you actually showed what NOT to do and why, and then what TO do and why! You and your lady literally demonstrated every “do” and “don’t” that you discussed. Much more effective.😍
1. Be handsome. 2. That's it, just be yourself. If you follow these and still have problems then just screw it, it's not supposed to be complicated. If it is then either these women are crazy or it's just not for you.
Just act like your approaching a normal stranger. And think how you would act if a stranger approached you. If you yourself are like "dam get the fck away from me" then you might have a problem approaching
I feel like no one ever really says this but the reason that I don’t approach in public anymore is not dumb reasons like “oh she’ll reject me”, “I’m not good enough”, etc, but I genuinely don’t think it’s a good thing to do. If I’m serious about meeting a girl, I’ll probably meet her at work or school not even trying, not stopping random strangers that you probably have little in common with in terms of values. Some of y’all might even feel the same but think there’s something wrong with you because you’re a bit nervous to approach. It might just be your conscience telling you it’s not a good move. There’s nothing wrong with you and you don’t have you make yourself fake smile like this video says and all that
Working together or going to the same school also doesn't inherently mean you have anything in common in terms of values. On the first day of work/school everyone there is a stranger, just like the person on the street. Not sure where your thought process comes from. The only thing that does is narrow the pool of women you meet tbh
The name says it all. NPC. Why limit yourself to the small pool of women in your social circle? The best women for you may not be at your work or school circles. There’s millions of strangers out there you have things in common with. Millions that have a higher chance of walking by you or being next to you at a common place rather than being in your immediate work or school circle. You’ll never know without trying. Maybe she’s at the same bar as you the same night because you have something in common. Or she’s at the same park the same hour for another common reason. Or the same concert, the same exercise class, the same niche store, etc. There are places all over filled with people with things in common to you, who you may never see again…or you might continue to see because you have a decent amount in common. Who knows. Not you if you don’t spark conversation. Confusing anxiety, lack of confident & constructive skillful willpower to make something good happen out of nothing… for conscience? Boils down to a head in the sand, wishful philosophically excusing, NPC way of thinking. It’s not that hard to bond with strangers that may have something in common with you, or throw friendly or interested gazes your way. If the spark doesn’t catch, no big deal, not every one does, but eventually one always does, with intelligent persistence. Like building a fire. Remember everyone you’ve ever met was a stranger at one point, just like many strangers out there might be future friends, loved ones. Wake up brothers, take action and make it good. Prematurely dismissing yourself makes you a premature dismissive self, questionably capable of [pro] creation. Branch out. Stay strong, keep flowing, growing. Love a stranger
I have a spinal cord lesion I got in my twenties (I live in a third world country, can't do much activity without getting a lot of pain, so very hard to do a lot of normal jobs, and no health care since I need to work for a business or pay for it myself). So I doubt I'll ever use this. But still pretty interesting. The production quality is really good too.
Ok, you talk a lot about how to approach girls you don't really know, but can you make a video on how getting closer to a person that you already know?
where did this guy approach girls? the girl whom he made the video with doesnt count because its not a genuine reaction from a stranger. would you take karate lessons from a sensei that never had anyone training under him, doesnt even give you material to learn from? would you? thats what this kyle dude is doing. he hasnt approached any woman during this video. its all rehearsed. thats not genuine like what you or me would encounter in real life. he shoulda actually approached random women to put his thesis to work. but to be totallyhonest, this video is a guide on how to simp. you gotta do this, you gotta do that. its litteraly high risk , low to no reward. you gotta be this and you gotta be that. lmao you should only approach a woman if she gives you a sign that she likes you. otherwise, dont bother. this video, tells you to approach anyway, and everytime this guy approached the girl from this video (lol ''approached'', laughable) she didnt even look at him. thats litterally simping. doing everything you can for her, whilst most likely not even gonna get her number. is this the best approach video you have seen? then you need to actually see some good videos. this was garbage. if a woman likes you , she will show that. a smirk, a smile, she is touching herself and looking at you (this is a sign that she wants YOU all over the place on her body she is touching). shit like that. have you seen the woman from this video giving ANY sign to the dude that he should approach her? NO. this video is a guide on how to simp for women. aka giving them free attention and free validation. all she has to do is walk past you, but you gotta do this and you gotta do that and you gotta do this and you gotta do that and you gotta smile and you gotta be confident and you dont wanna be this and you dont wanna be that. but all she has to do is walk around. lmao last time i checked , dating is a 2 way street. and this ''coach'' is coaching everyone to simp on the plantation for pussy. come now.
One of my big flaws in the past has been that I'm really quiet. I have always had jaw problems and also been kind of shy / anxious as many are nowadays, and I have had interactions that went really oddly and I didn't know why. Later I realized they said "waht?" and "huh?" a few times and then lost interest after that lol. There really are a lot of good pointers in this video, a rare thing nowadays for this topic.
The longer the opening is the more you give yourself a chance to stumble from too much rehearsal so much easier way is just to say “Hi love your shoes btw” but when I was cold approaching in the day I literally just preferred “Hi” and see where it goes
Was watching your videoes at 1,5x speed before, but now they are entertaining all the way through. You keep the video short, gets to the point right away and delivers high quality content. Also, nice editing!
Good overall video with very important points. One thing that I've never seen fail is if you can make a woman laugh. What that does is take a lot of stress and suspicion out of your approach and creates a comfortable atmosphere for you to converse further with her.
Thanks a lot, where were you guys all this time. I wasted my 8 years of Youth being creepy, depressed, rejected, failures, low self esteem and suicidal. Didn't know there are always ways to maintain something when approaching woman, that's so called "vibe" ,"knack" were missing in my life. As you said, I was giving that serial killer look without smile, every girl out there was thinking i am a threat. Wish i could know all this before!! And also I would like to add something, not every girl likes when they get compliment like "you look cute or hot", they think we are flirting!!
*It's ok, go approach the girl! It's easy* You just gotta: - look good - dress cool - be somewhat attractive - not doing it from behind or from the front or too close or too far apart - not touch her - don't be apologetic - talk with low-pitched voice but not low volume - not tryna stop her - smile - be assertive - not being direct but not being indirect either
That last part, I’m not so sure about. I’m more of the direct person. I don’t have any pick up lines, and honestly I see them as a waste of time. I just jump face first in the fire “Hey, you look attractive. Would you like to go out sometime?” There. Clear. Cut. Simple. Done
You can show a woman your high level of intellect right away….walk past her, don’t talk to her, go on your way and have a good day and peaceful life……🤔😆😆😉🤷♂️
RIP to all the men who didn’t have RUclips back in the day to guide them with videos of the basics of attraction of the opposite sex. The internet really helped me glow up
Men just had to learn by trial and error. It was a worry about the 1 fox rather than the 99 dogs way of thinking. All this insta BS is for stay at home crotch strokers. Wish we could go back 😂
I don't think women see us like that tbh. Over the years I have had a lot of different experiences, and used to be best friends with a REAL ugly dude like this guy looked like a frog. He was skinny and fat at the same time somehow... just...picture a frog person. That was him. Anyway, he didn't do well at all with women and I thought it was because of how he looked. I later realized it was his shyness, and once he broke through a little, like he was still really shy but would approach them anyway, he got a few really hot ones and then married an 8 or 9. Not only is his wife hot, but she's what he pictures as a 10. She fits the description of what he always used to say he wanted...so that means if he had different taste he could have probably married a 10 pretty easily. From what I have learned, what a girl sees as "looks" is this weird combination of grooming, clothes, smell, body language, and eye contact, or some combination of those. There's also things like what you drive, or your house, etc. Things that make you look successful. Most women are sort of "gold diggers" to some extent, but not in the respect most guys think. They aren't really gold-digging, it's just that "nice things" imply success, and they are attracted to success. The more I learned about women over the years the more I see them as an entirely different species from us as far as mindset, what they want, what they think they want, what attracts them, etc. I'm no expert, just my 2 cents.
4 real, girls are out there like caking their face with half an inch of makeup to cover the ugly up, all we gotta do is grow a beard lmao @@ClaudiuManea
This generation is so blessed with all these RUclips instructoions. Back in the 80s and 90s we never had that but we never needed. Why? We were more people discerning because the gadgetry and internet interaction were not existance.
Except women on social media today is what gives them their ego from all the virtual validation and they don't even know how to interact with a man in the real world. These videos are made because we have to study modern day women even more because they have become too brainwashed and complicated than they were decades ago. We shouldn't have to work this hard for something as simple as a woman. That's why having a passport is the way to go.
Maybe if you go to a place that makes you smile????? Or look a good joke on the internet some funny scene from a comedy movie/series that makes you smile and then hold the thought for some 30 minutes after getting out from home!
Overall solid advice, just have to be careful unfortunately nowadays when approaching women. Guys, just be prepared to face rejection and know it is ok. It will likely happen more often than not. Take the advice and don't necessarily think something is wrong with you if you do get rejected. When it comes down to it, these things work if the girl finds you attractive and if she doesn't then you're the creep but know that is a them problem. That's really the only difference between a creep and a nice guy is how attracted she is to you.
I’m that guy,I’m 60 and I wish I would’ve taken more risks on women. I considered myself a good looking guy, but no game back in my 20’s and 30’s. Take it from me guys, especially when the girls Stop looking because of your age. You have absolutely nothing to lose, so approach like your life depends on it ❤
I know of a very easy technique and very good for beginners, but it only works if she;'s walking her dog. Especially if she's sitting down on a bench with the dog. You spot her with the dog and get all excited about her dog. "Ohhh.. that is such a cool dog !!!". You ask the standard questions, about name. breed, age of the dog , crouch down and start petting and playing with the dog. All the time smiling and and being very excited about the dog. Talk about your own dog ,anecdotes etc etc. If all this happens while you were casually in the park jogging ( instead of creepily staking out for girls) even better. Do that for 1 minute .. and you've established your a decent , good guy. and not a creep. Hopefully you really are btw. From there, invite to get some coffee, water etc at the nearest place. Hopefully you have the social skills to keep things going. Personally I find the introduction/ meeting girls the hardest.
@@anthonylombardo4829 I don't know why masculine women approach men like that. Maybe their aggressive behavior makes it easier for them but this doesn't work or maybe not for most of us.
@@Useryoutube02847 she was pretty and didn't look masculine I'm saying the act of cold approaching was too masculine for my taste. I don't want women to approach me I like to be the one to approach
That's weird af ngl, I don't understand but I guess I have different views on gender than you. I would be happy to be approached as a guy, how is that masculine? It's just gender norms that make it so most of the time it's men approaching women. Things that are associated with masculinity is things like mental and physical strength, stoicism, decisiveness. Confidence and all of those listed are not only masculine traits. I'm genuinely asking the question what makes it masculine?
no, what would be embarressing is when this guy would actually approach random women and try out his tactics. then his viewers can see that it would NOT work 9 out of 10 times. . he didnt d anything to convince anyone, unless you re braindead. imagine going to a fighting school to learn martial arts to defend yourself, but your sensei says he will never show you any skill. LOL thats what this video is dude. a sensei that refuses to showcase actual material with randoms, same way we have to deal with that when we approach a chick.
Guys it is SO EASY. Just walk right up to a girl. Say “hi, how are you?” When they say how they are just reach out and shake their hand and say “my name is ……., what is your name?” When she says her name just say very warmly “nice to meet you, I just thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you. What’s up?” Then chat the shit for like 1 minute MAX. Make it fun. Then say “I have to get back to (whatever you were doing before you cold approached). Could I get your number?” After she gets the number genuinely say “you have a good rest of your day, bye for now.” And go about your business like it was such a small thing to you to get a girls number. Like the terminator. It has almost never failed me. They can’t believe someone can so confidently walk to them out of the blue, it throws them off guard immediately. they feel an immediate connection and chemistry with. And even the act of shaking the hand confidently and firmly is breaking the touch barrier very early on which is important.
Believe me or not.. this video is One of the Gold✨on How an what to do approaching women.. Just take the notes 📝 that no one gonna teach so precisely.. Thanks for the incredible video
I find that probably i'll not find the one in cold approaches. I have no interest in casual relationships just for fun, so to me, even though I good social abilities, I dont cara about just talking to someone because I like her looks. To me, there is so much more, and I prefer finding one on the church or in the work environment, and even though, I have to know her well bc not everyone in those places are really that good. "But what if you dont find anyone?" Well, I can praise god with my brothers and sisters even if I dont have a spouse. If i get to marry or not, the most important part for me is that I have done my best to praise the one who loves me the most. Im not criticizing you guys, its just that some brothers in faith can watch those things and question if they are doing right, so Im here to give that pov 😊 (Copied this from my answer on another comment, but I find it may be useful to some of you)
Ok so when you said the "dont do this" stuff i was like "wait, some dudes do that? Why are you doing it??". So thats a good sign i have the right mentality
More like, justt be yourself. Not every shot is appropriate or worth shooting and it's up to the woman to create that opening for the man. If she can't then that's her missed shot, she closes the distance. Meanwhile, you just be yourself broke or rich. Be mysterious and unavailable within reason, don't talk too much or ask a thousand questions. Literally a "Hi, maybe I should give you my number?, what's your name?" "Text me tomorrow or something"
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Can you make a video on how to approach any girl during the night time?
What's your advice on approaching girls in a dance class that I attend without coming off creepy?
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Bro WHAT IF I CANT SMILE😢
Edit: it's real my face doesn't make that face unfortunately
Coming from watching tons of cold approach videos, most of the points are legit. But one thing I would add is prepare to be rejected and have an escape route. “Excuse, I just have to say I like your style” if she just says thanks and continues to walk away, be prepared to say “ have a good day” and walk away with confidence. It’s important to always keep that confidence in check
I wouldn't say prepare to be rejected. I'd say have zero fcks given on the outcome. Ironically, all the men who get women, have this vary mindset.
@@POPJack1717can you explain more because how can you approach with zero fucks given on the outcome but your initial decision to approach is based on a reason of interest? Why does this have to be so complicated now a days😅😭
@@chrischristopher3791 He means to have the mindset that YOU don't care if you get rejected. Not caring about the outcome gives you more confidence to have more conversations AND have more confidence in the interaction. Women know if you're confident fairly quickly and is a turn on for them. Don't make it complicated, just see what happens
@@chrischristopher3791Just play it for the sake of the game not for any particular woman
Exactly know your worth
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Hope you both are married
Yeah but is pooping gay
bollocks mate, just keep approaching
OMG those jedi mind tricksters!!!!!!!
Thas a fuckn shame you gotta become Professor X to approach women 😂😂😂
1. Look Goods 2. Safe Distance 3. Smile 4.Keep Walking 5.Understand Where to End Conversation
What when you fail at No. 1?
@@arnvonsalzburg5033 Look up Todd V Dating. He's an average looking guy with much more practical advice, tips, and tricks you can use to work your way up to approaching women.
@@arnvonsalzburg5033 It's tough out there for a cripple...
I have friends who do randomly do funny stuff like walk right into a girl to talk to them or say something out of the blue and most of the times it works. I think it’s the best way to get rid of that awkward anxiety when you do approach a girl and just be funny about it
Nah
This is terrible advice
@@paydennordlund my guy don’t approach women you don’t know it’s not worth it.
They also sometimes get awkward even when you talk to them, so they don't have a clue how to respond to you, you have to be able to break the ice to make them comfortable!
Depending on the looks if you're in 2-4 of looks scale then it's neigh impossible
A lot of men don’t smile but A LOT of attractive women don’t smile either. Let’s be honest.
It feels awkward it feels forced
@@adrianchico8886 Cold approach feels forced.
@@CommandoMaster well you’re gonna have to regardless bro standing there and just sitting around and waiting for something to happen is not gonna do anything you as the man you have to take ACTION!!! If you want something that bad you go after it sitting around and waiting doesn’t get u know where women in general don’t approach men in real life so it’s very rare men have to lead the whole interaction “ MEN LEAD WOMEN FOLLOW “
If both are 10/10 then they know wassup
Edit: there are some cases where even if the man is 10/10 but is shy and acting off the 10/10 woman will step all over him, in some cases
Attractive dudes who smile a lot receive good feedback bc the reason why they smile is that they feel good with themselves and they simply take it easy
This is pretty insightful because it highlights the importance of non-verbals when it comes to cold approach. 4 out of 5 of the points are all non-verbals that just shows the importance. Too many people think too hard about what to say without having the non-verbals down.
For me I’ve got the looks I think I just need to improve on my smile, I’ve had people tell me I don’t ever smile and look upset. Also my voice tends to be pretty quiet when I’m nervous which makes it hard for them to hear me. If I fixed that I think I’d be in a much better spot. Thanks for the tips Coach Kyle! I’ve gotta start cold approaching again it’s been months!
Why does this feel like a combat tutorial?
In a lot of ways it is...
Because dating has literally become a mortal combat
It is bruv it is
Because it is
Solid Snake, you got shot in the ass. Mission failed, we'll get em next time
Back in time I was kinda introvert and didn't do anything with girls in a romantic sense. But then I started approach strangers in public. It was really fun and still is. I can recommend this to everybody.
Great video!
Yep me and my friend are gonna try this at are local mall soon
What do you say to them? I can approach girls no problem it's how do I start the conversation?
@@TheCentennial4 Ask her name.
_"Excuse me, what's your name?"_
It's direct, and it shows you have interest in her. If she shows interest, ask/comment about something and then let the conversation flow.
Just don't ask many questions, you don't want it to become an interrogatory.
It's fun when i drink but then they think you're an alcoholic.
guys listen if a girl is attracted to you no matter what you do they’ll think its cute but if shes not attracted to you then she’ll think you’re creepy point blank
Most women haven't got a clue what creepy even means ....
@barryh.4220 exactly! They just use the word as a default excuse for a man they deem unattractive but it doesn't always mean he's actually creepy.
That’s really it tbh this video is just for average guys, any pre select dudes are not having to waste time doing these gymnastics. This is basically getting the girls who feel neutral about you to like you.
What is your point? Lol
@@Kanker0 my point is you’re a bundle of sticks
Out of every possible channel that covers a variety of subjects found from all corners of the universe, this is the most useful channel on RUclips.
The one problem is social media is only showing attracted men approaching beautiful/cute women not average looking men.
no, there are a few
Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. its called CrushAnyGirl and its for finding a gf as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed
Highly recommended to read
Spammer.
Exactly🗿@@Mogwai88
Sounds like a shill through fear-mongering
Great edit, great shotting, great scripting, great directing, shoutout to everyone behind the scene, great job
The sweet spot is being assertive! Too many people have forgotten that a middle ground still exists. For years, I've been trying to get many men to become assertive & confident. There's too many passive men now which means that aren't many men anymore.
1) be attractive (physique, clothing, fragrance, grooming)
2) stop her or go with her
3) smile
4) have confidence in every single thing you say
5) make her laugh
Done.
6) Have your a sandwich just in case and make her do her own on the first date!
Plain simple!
The style and editing of these recent videos have been so cool
Fantastic content! CrushAnyGirl ebook is like a beacon of hope for insecure Americans navigating love. Its wisdom is truly invaluable.
Step 1: Be good looking.
Step 2: Approach girl.
Step 3: stop using pick up tecniques from random corners of the internet!
And the more attractive you are, the more success you will have. Basically the few good-looking men get most of the women.
I'm good looking... But i Don't have confidence to approach girls😅
Introvert 😅
@@Aydin17-t7mdo they come to you though
Honestly....I watched this for ideas to get better at Networking and Sales.
Great Vid!!
nice, I like that you said excuse me in all three approaches to address what I think is called the social awareness of the situation and the random encounter
Just follow these simple rules: 1) be handsome, 2) be attractive, 3) and don't be unattractive
If you're going to a very pretty women, she most definitely knows it, guys always tell her that.
My advice: your impact on a girl will be far more powerful when she has to make the conclusion herself. Instead of opening her with a direct compliment (which in most of the case will get a "thank you" point blank). Go for saying something that suggest she's pretty or that she stands out.
To me opening a girl and saying "I just saw you and I felt I had to say hi/meet you" is far better than "Hi I find you pretty,glowing whatever"
You just have to go for it. Who cares if you get rejected. I will talk to any woman in public. Confidence is everything. Eye contact, be smooth, be kind, and be bold.
now just need to be confidence
@@elonmusk2658 workout, stop watching porn, eat well, watch videos on how to speak properly, eye contact, be yourself, loosen up, martial arts, be good at something, and work hard at everything
@@elonmusk2658fuck confidence. Earn it
@@elonmusk2658 Everytime before I go talk to a chic in public, the mental gymnastics that goes on in my head is ridiculous lol. But I rather try and get rejected than never trying at all.
@@elonmusk2658kind of the point of smoothness yet goodness, calm and assertive.
i like chasing them down dark alleyways.. the fear completely takes over them and forces them to freeze but then when you get close just say "are you good" and smile, then you both lol and then you escort her out the alleyway then you get the number only for her to never reply or be seen again 😶
No.
Fucking hilarious
I really agree with this video, if a guy comes up to me not smiling, I’d think something was wrong. In the first 10 seconds, I, and probably every woman out there, will look at how a man grooms himself, his confidence level, his body language and make an assessment right then and there 👍🏼
And this is why too many people are single. What if my shoulders hurt because I slept on it wrong and you see me as unconfident despite approaching you and being myself?
Lolollolololol
@@SartorialisticSavage65 You nailed, that being sarcasm or not. 99,99% of women are quick to judge, and they only see things that doesn't matter.
@@cockcarousel
I was being raw as shit my bro. Meant every word.
Thanks! :)
Hi
BS. If Chad came over with a scowl on his face, and asked for your number, he'd get it no hesitation
Decent pointers, but the camera work and editing is world class 😀
I really liked this video! Unlike others on the same topic, you actually showed what NOT to do and why, and then what TO do and why! You and your lady literally demonstrated every “do” and “don’t” that you discussed. Much more effective.😍
sick production man!! congrats!!
1. Be handsome.
2. That's it, just be yourself.
If you follow these and still have problems then just screw it, it's not supposed to be complicated. If it is then either these women are crazy or it's just not for you.
Step 1 done
Step2. I don’t know who I am
Just act like your approaching a normal stranger. And think how you would act if a stranger approached you. If you yourself are like "dam get the fck away from me" then you might have a problem approaching
@Jake-oq2bq I can believe it! 20% of zero is still a zero. xD
True bro 🤝
@@kokainumno it will go from 0 to 20 percent
0:20 She made a good soccer move there.😂
holy shit your production value is insane now
Thank you… straight to the point use-full info…much better than many internet videos
Finally, one of these coaches actually says it out loud with no filter. Step 1: Be Chad. If you're not Chad, nothing else matters.
💯
Even Chad is struggling
@@ks-vy2mi
Facts we're at that tipping point now.
Even normies are catching on that something ain't right.
It's about tyme... 😉🎸⚡
I feel like no one ever really says this but the reason that I don’t approach in public anymore is not dumb reasons like “oh she’ll reject me”, “I’m not good enough”, etc, but I genuinely don’t think it’s a good thing to do. If I’m serious about meeting a girl, I’ll probably meet her at work or school not even trying, not stopping random strangers that you probably have little in common with in terms of values. Some of y’all might even feel the same but think there’s something wrong with you because you’re a bit nervous to approach. It might just be your conscience telling you it’s not a good move. There’s nothing wrong with you and you don’t have you make yourself fake smile like this video says and all that
Working together or going to the same school also doesn't inherently mean you have anything in common in terms of values. On the first day of work/school everyone there is a stranger, just like the person on the street. Not sure where your thought process comes from. The only thing that does is narrow the pool of women you meet tbh
The name says it all. NPC.
Why limit yourself to the small pool of women in your social circle? The best women for you may not be at your work or school circles.
There’s millions of strangers out there you have things in common with. Millions that have a higher chance of walking by you or being next to you at a common place rather than being in your immediate work or school circle. You’ll never know without trying.
Maybe she’s at the same bar as you the same night because you have something in common. Or she’s at the same park the same hour for another common reason. Or the same concert, the same exercise class, the same niche store, etc.
There are places all over filled with people with things in common to you, who you may never see again…or you might continue to see because you have a decent amount in common. Who knows. Not you if you don’t spark conversation.
Confusing anxiety, lack of confident & constructive skillful willpower to make something good happen out of nothing… for conscience?
Boils down to a head in the sand, wishful philosophically excusing, NPC way of thinking.
It’s not that hard to bond with strangers that may have something in common with you, or throw friendly or interested gazes your way. If the spark doesn’t catch, no big deal, not every one does, but eventually one always does, with intelligent persistence. Like building a fire.
Remember everyone you’ve ever met was a stranger at one point, just like many strangers out there might be future friends, loved ones.
Wake up brothers, take action and make it good.
Prematurely dismissing yourself makes you a premature dismissive self, questionably capable of [pro] creation.
Branch out.
Stay strong, keep flowing, growing.
Love a stranger
I have a spinal cord lesion I got in my twenties (I live in a third world country, can't do much activity without getting a lot of pain, so very hard to do a lot of normal jobs, and no health care since I need to work for a business or pay for it myself). So I doubt I'll ever use this. But still pretty interesting. The production quality is really good too.
Ok, you talk a lot about how to approach girls you don't really know, but can you make a video on how getting closer to a person that you already know?
It's impossible, if she knows you pretty well it's fucked up
@@Noah-pt7xfwhat makes you say that?
@@Noah-pt7xf agree
@@redpiller1099
Already in the Friendzone.
sick editing dayuuum
I approach at least one woman everyday and needed this. Gonna definitely try this thanks coach
Your pacing, tease points, and editing for this video are really well done. That's a lesson in itself.
Hello
Quality is top tier
Said this before but watching these videos, I do a lot more right things than I thought
This is the best approach video i've seen. short, to the point, have examples, just perfect
where did this guy approach girls? the girl whom he made the video with doesnt count because its not a genuine reaction from a stranger. would you take karate lessons from a sensei that never had anyone training under him, doesnt even give you material to learn from? would you? thats what this kyle dude is doing. he hasnt approached any woman during this video. its all rehearsed. thats not genuine like what you or me would encounter in real life. he shoulda actually approached random women to put his thesis to work.
but to be totallyhonest, this video is a guide on how to simp. you gotta do this, you gotta do that. its litteraly high risk , low to no reward. you gotta be this and you gotta be that. lmao you should only approach a woman if she gives you a sign that she likes you. otherwise, dont bother. this video, tells you to approach anyway, and everytime this guy approached the girl from this video (lol ''approached'', laughable) she didnt even look at him. thats litterally simping. doing everything you can for her, whilst most likely not even gonna get her number.
is this the best approach video you have seen? then you need to actually see some good videos. this was garbage. if a woman likes you , she will show that. a smirk, a smile, she is touching herself and looking at you (this is a sign that she wants YOU all over the place on her body she is touching). shit like that. have you seen the woman from this video giving ANY sign to the dude that he should approach her? NO.
this video is a guide on how to simp for women. aka giving them free attention and free validation. all she has to do is walk past you, but you gotta do this and you gotta do that and you gotta do this and you gotta do that and you gotta smile and you gotta be confident and you dont wanna be this and you dont wanna be that. but all she has to do is walk around. lmao last time i checked , dating is a 2 way street. and this ''coach'' is coaching everyone to simp on the plantation for pussy. come now.
One of my big flaws in the past has been that I'm really quiet. I have always had jaw problems and also been kind of shy / anxious as many are nowadays, and I have had interactions that went really oddly and I didn't know why. Later I realized they said "waht?" and "huh?" a few times and then lost interest after that lol. There really are a lot of good pointers in this video, a rare thing nowadays for this topic.
How about this line “hey I just saw you walking by and I’ve been following you for the last hour, I just want to say hi “
“I’ve been following you” 💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂💔
Jail
The longer the opening is the more you give yourself a chance to stumble from too much rehearsal so much easier way is just to say “Hi love your shoes btw” but when I was cold approaching in the day I literally just preferred “Hi” and see where it goes
Man, I started watching Kyle when he had 1/10th the subs he has now
Glad he is succeeding
*I appreciate how you emphasized not being creepy and focusing on genuine conversation. Approaching someone should always feel natural!*
Kyle, your editing has improved a lot. It made the video a lot more entertaining. Keep up the good work
awesome 😎
Smiling create positive energy but make sure you are in control of your body language 😊😊😊😊
Smiling shows ur not a threat, as well as ur confident and it also makes u appear more attractive!
It only does that if you are already attractive...
except in Eastern Europe lol
It depends how good your smile is!
you really think women want a guy that looks like happy go lucky? you really believe this horse shit?
This is comprehensive and easy to use. I wish myself and any guy luck doing this.
Basically don't be a creep and enjoy yourself.
Not sure what I did wrong. I approached a girl and asked for sex and got rejected. This is too difficult.
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭
Was watching your videoes at 1,5x speed before, but now they are entertaining all the way through. You keep the video short, gets to the point right away and delivers high quality content. Also, nice editing!
Facts
Good overall video with very important points. One thing that I've never seen fail is if you can make a woman laugh. What that does is take a lot of stress and suspicion out of your approach and creates a comfortable atmosphere for you to converse further with her.
yeah a smile goes a long way
Thanks a lot, where were you guys all this time. I wasted my 8 years of Youth being creepy, depressed, rejected, failures, low self esteem and suicidal. Didn't know there are always ways to maintain something when approaching woman, that's so called "vibe" ,"knack" were missing in my life. As you said, I was giving that serial killer look without smile, every girl out there was thinking i am a threat. Wish i could know all this before!! And also I would like to add something, not every girl likes when they get compliment like "you look cute or hot", they think we are flirting!!
great visual examples !! and also animations are amazing.
Damn video quality has leveled up 🔥🔥🔥
Bro i just started watching your videos like a week ago and damm your the goat
Great Video. More People Should Watch This.
*It's ok, go approach the girl! It's easy*
You just gotta:
- look good
- dress cool
- be somewhat attractive
- not doing it from behind or from the front or too close or too far apart
- not touch her
- don't be apologetic
- talk with low-pitched voice but not low volume
- not tryna stop her
- smile
- be assertive
- not being direct but not being indirect either
That last part, I’m not so sure about. I’m more of the direct person. I don’t have any pick up lines, and honestly I see them as a waste of time. I just jump face first in the fire
“Hey, you look attractive. Would you like to go out sometime?”
There. Clear. Cut. Simple. Done
'Just' lol
it easier said then done i will just mess up and walk away from them over approaching them.
Lol
Im glad that you admit right up front that if you are ugly and short, the rest of this does not matter
this guy is a fucking GOAT. awesome work kyle.
You can show a woman your high level of intellect right away….walk past her, don’t talk to her, go on your way and have a good day and peaceful life……🤔😆😆😉🤷♂️
Wtf
Dog dude. Thats what I call the male version of a cat lady.
@@mrEofPlanetEarthbut fat ladies are toxic feminist though
RIP to all the men who didn’t have RUclips back in the day to guide them with videos of the basics of attraction of the opposite sex. The internet really helped me glow up
The internet made it harder for guys lol. Women got too cocky and have an illusion of them being better then they are
Men just had to learn by trial and error. It was a worry about the 1 fox rather than the 99 dogs way of thinking. All this insta BS is for stay at home crotch strokers. Wish we could go back 😂
Old days are better
Guys quick tip: don’t chase after them. Ignore them
Bro honestly the way you did this video was good asf you need to keep this same format the way it was shot perfect and also thanks for all the gems 💎
Step 1. Be attractive
Step 2. Step 1
If you are ugly: Your face will always be labeled as a threat.
And if youre handsome, girl tend to shy and run.
I don't think women see us like that tbh. Over the years I have had a lot of different experiences, and used to be best friends with a REAL ugly dude like this guy looked like a frog. He was skinny and fat at the same time somehow... just...picture a frog person. That was him. Anyway, he didn't do well at all with women and I thought it was because of how he looked. I later realized it was his shyness, and once he broke through a little, like he was still really shy but would approach them anyway, he got a few really hot ones and then married an 8 or 9. Not only is his wife hot, but she's what he pictures as a 10. She fits the description of what he always used to say he wanted...so that means if he had different taste he could have probably married a 10 pretty easily. From what I have learned, what a girl sees as "looks" is this weird combination of grooming, clothes, smell, body language, and eye contact, or some combination of those. There's also things like what you drive, or your house, etc. Things that make you look successful. Most women are sort of "gold diggers" to some extent, but not in the respect most guys think. They aren't really gold-digging, it's just that "nice things" imply success, and they are attracted to success. The more I learned about women over the years the more I see them as an entirely different species from us as far as mindset, what they want, what they think they want, what attracts them, etc. I'm no expert, just my 2 cents.
@@waynefilkins8394 Thank you for your response. However, I opted out of the dating market, It's not meant for everbody.
fix your teeth and grow a beard, you should be fine
4 real, girls are out there like caking their face with half an inch of makeup to cover the ugly up, all we gotta do is grow a beard lmao @@ClaudiuManea
Looks don’t matter in true love because true love is when you love someone for who they are, not for their looks
The production value is insane on this one Kyle
This generation is so blessed with all these RUclips instructoions. Back in the 80s and 90s we never had that but we never needed. Why? We were more people discerning because the gadgetry and internet interaction were not existance.
Except women on social media today is what gives them their ego from all the virtual validation and they don't even know how to interact with a man in the real world. These videos are made because we have to study modern day women even more because they have become too brainwashed and complicated than they were decades ago.
We shouldn't have to work this hard for something as simple as a woman.
That's why having a passport is the way to go.
Dude, the problem is 'I don't know how to smile 🥺🥺'
Maybe if you go to a place that makes you smile????? Or look a good joke on the internet some funny scene from a comedy movie/series that makes you smile and then hold the thought for some 30 minutes after getting out from home!
Overall solid advice, just have to be careful unfortunately nowadays when approaching women. Guys, just be prepared to face rejection and know it is ok. It will likely happen more often than not. Take the advice and don't necessarily think something is wrong with you if you do get rejected. When it comes down to it, these things work if the girl finds you attractive and if she doesn't then you're the creep but know that is a them problem. That's really the only difference between a creep and a nice guy is how attracted she is to you.
THIS video is gold😭😂😂 when he said serial killer vibe im ded
I’m that guy,I’m 60 and I wish I would’ve taken more risks on women. I considered myself a good looking guy, but no game back in my 20’s and 30’s. Take it from me guys, especially when the girls Stop looking because of your age. You have absolutely nothing to lose, so approach like your life depends on it ❤
I appreciate this man! Out of all the coaches I watch, you’re by far the best. I like the way you break things down and give examples.
but he never even approached any girl........... this is the best coach? without having examples of actual approaches? dude.....
@@deathrager2404 he has examples of approaches.
@@deathrager2404he has examples of approaches if you look for them. Not on this channel
I know of a very easy technique and very good for beginners, but it only works if she;'s walking her dog. Especially if she's sitting down on a bench with the dog. You spot her with the dog and get all excited about her dog. "Ohhh.. that is such a cool dog !!!". You ask the standard questions, about name. breed, age of the dog , crouch down and start petting and playing with the dog. All the time smiling and and being very excited about the dog. Talk about your own dog ,anecdotes etc etc. If all this happens while you were casually in the park jogging ( instead of creepily staking out for girls) even better. Do that for 1 minute .. and you've established your a decent , good guy. and not a creep. Hopefully you really are btw. From there, invite to get some coffee, water etc at the nearest place. Hopefully you have the social skills to keep things going. Personally I find the introduction/ meeting girls the hardest.
Now let’s teach women to approach men and handle rejections.
A women cold approached me in high school. She was hot af but I instantly rejected her because I don't need that kind of masculine women in my life 😂
@@anthonylombardo4829 I don't know why masculine women approach men like that. Maybe their aggressive behavior makes it easier for them but this doesn't work or maybe not for most of us.
@@Useryoutube02847 she was pretty and didn't look masculine I'm saying the act of cold approaching was too masculine for my taste. I don't want women to approach me I like to be the one to approach
@@anthonylombardo4829 I play hard to get if any woman tryed to ask me out i would just mess up and just get rejected.
That's weird af ngl, I don't understand but I guess I have different views on gender than you. I would be happy to be approached as a guy, how is that masculine? It's just gender norms that make it so most of the time it's men approaching women. Things that are associated with masculinity is things like mental and physical strength, stoicism, decisiveness. Confidence and all of those listed are not only masculine traits. I'm genuinely asking the question what makes it masculine?
big props to both of y'all. filming this in public must be embarassing asfx
no, what would be embarressing is when this guy would actually approach random women and try out his tactics. then his viewers can see that it would NOT work 9 out of 10 times. . he didnt d anything to convince anyone, unless you re braindead. imagine going to a fighting school to learn martial arts to defend yourself, but your sensei says he will never show you any skill. LOL thats what this video is dude. a sensei that refuses to showcase actual material with randoms, same way we have to deal with that when we approach a chick.
Honestly, I thought that this was another pseudo alpha male dude, but this is good advice.
Guys it is SO EASY.
Just walk right up to a girl. Say “hi, how are you?” When they say how they are just reach out and shake their hand and say “my name is ……., what is your name?” When she says her name just say very warmly “nice to meet you, I just thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you. What’s up?”
Then chat the shit for like 1 minute MAX. Make it fun. Then say “I have to get back to (whatever you were doing before you cold approached). Could I get your number?”
After she gets the number genuinely say “you have a good rest of your day, bye for now.” And go about your business like it was such a small thing to you to get a girls number. Like the terminator.
It has almost never failed me. They can’t believe someone can so confidently walk to them out of the blue, it throws them off guard immediately. they feel an immediate connection and chemistry with. And even the act of shaking the hand confidently and firmly is breaking the touch barrier very early on which is important.
So basically, if you're not good looking, you're at a huge disadvantage.
Yep, pretty much. Life aint fair 😢
How to approach any girl without getting labled as creep:
Fiction: Do this,do that bla bla bla
Reality: You have to look like a chad
Debate end
How to approach any girl: 1.) Only go up to your girlfriend
This guy is way too good at acting weird 😂 I love it man
KEY POINT IF YOU DONT HAVE THE LOOKS NOTHING ELSE MATTERS. BINGO
I don't think that's the message of the video...
Believe me or not.. this video is One of the Gold✨on How an what to do approaching women.. Just take the notes 📝 that no one gonna teach so precisely.. Thanks for the incredible video
I find that probably i'll not find the one in cold approaches. I have no interest in casual relationships just for fun, so to me, even though I good social abilities, I dont cara about just talking to someone because I like her looks.
To me, there is so much more, and I prefer finding one on the church or in the work environment, and even though, I have to know her well bc not everyone in those places are really that good.
"But what if you dont find anyone?"
Well, I can praise god with my brothers and sisters even if I dont have a spouse. If i get to marry or not, the most important part for me is that I have done my best to praise the one who loves me the most.
Im not criticizing you guys, its just that some brothers in faith can watch those things and question if they are doing right, so Im here to give that pov 😊
(Copied this from my answer on another comment, but I find it may be useful to some of you)
Dude! One of your best videos I smiled more then 6 times! Great advice and demo
Otherworldly editing :0
THANKS COACH!!!!! This video was educational and funny
Ok so when you said the "dont do this" stuff i was like "wait, some dudes do that? Why are you doing it??". So thats a good sign i have the right mentality
Just get rich
Dxmmy how do you get rich with social skills
More like, justt be yourself. Not every shot is appropriate or worth shooting and it's up to the woman to create that opening for the man. If she can't then that's her missed shot, she closes the distance. Meanwhile, you just be yourself broke or rich. Be mysterious and unavailable within reason, don't talk too much or ask a thousand questions. Literally a "Hi, maybe I should give you my number?, what's your name?" "Text me tomorrow or something"
money doesn't buy loyalty from a woman
How does that help you to be better groomed or more entertaining?
Bullshit talk
The Mens Passport by Chase Hughes, Solid read. Relevant too
Used to watch your vids back in the day around early 2019, amazing to see how the channel has grown and video quality has improved. Keep it up man.
This is informative and interesting. Really great having you both teaching in the video.
Nice video guys, really good tips!
I wish i got this info in school. Prolly worth it at this point. Its all so very confusing. This is a sweet , vey useful clip!