பெற்றோர்களே: குழந்தை வளர்ப்பில் மிக முக்கிய தகவல்கள் | CHILDREN: PARENTING TO SUCCESS | Dr Ashwin
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 6 окт 2024
- CHILDREN: PARENTING TO SUCCESS ! Very important video for parents.
பெற்றோர்களே: குழந்தை வளர்ப்பில் சில மிக முக்கிய தகவல்கள். தவறாமல் பார்த்து உங்கள் நண்பர்கள் & உறவினர்களுடன் பகிருங்கள்.
வாருங்கள் நாம் இணைந்து ஒரு வளமான, மன வலிமை மிக்க இளைய தலைமுறையை உருவாக்குவோம்.
Hello Friends,
I’ve been receiving questions on parenting. Frequently asked questions like how to grow a good child, a strong or a confident child. I wanted to share my views on the same.
Let me share my life experience, about how my parents allowed me to grow as a confident individual.
Children have to be allowed to speak freely about their thoughts. In my early childhood, whenever I did anything wrong, my parents taught me the right by in a commanding but not a forcible way. I always had a cushion with my parents having the belief that I can freely express anything I want with them. Even If I have done a wrong thing, I had no fear of expressing it with them. There was space for me correct my wrong doings.
Secondly, Responsibility. If you are giving a task to a kid, allow him to complete the task from start to finish. Kids generally might not show interest in every task and may whine and show signs of objecting. It may be the child’s area of interest or not, practice your kids to complete the task from start to finish, irrespective of their interest. Once they complete the task, analyze and let them continue if they are interested in it. Deciding it is not their area of interest should be done only after completion of the task.
Interrupting and stopping a child before even they complete the task creates a habit of fatigue, lack of focus and loosing concentration.
Thirdly, show unconditional love to your kids. Even if the kids do not do what you like, show them all the love you can. Conditioned love towards kids will lead children to do secretive things behind your back. So please stop that habit and start showing unconditioned love. Tell them the good and bad. Even we adults do not know what is wrong and wright many times. Give them the choice to choose the right and the bad. Give them the responsibility and accountability starting at an early age. Atleast to start from 10 years.
The fourth one is, do not fight back or argue at your kids. Don’t boss them over saying you are superior. Children might know things that we do not know. Analyze why the kids are arguing. Before you react, analyze and convey the message in a form that the child can understand. Most of the time, there will be a reason for the child speaking back at you. If we find the root cause of the issue and solve, 90% of the kids will slowly suppress anger.
Finally, it is we the parents who have brought this child to this world. But that does not mean the child should eat, sleep and act like the way we want. If you enforce such things, probably the child will lose interest in life and may suppress their true talents. Every child has an inborn intelligence and we need to understand that first. Adapt and adjust to the child way of life.
These are the life lessons which I liked to share. Even I was not an easy child. I was a naughty, mischievous kid. But even after all the wrong doings, my parents provided me the support system which has brought me here this day. Even today, I am able to talk freely to my parents about anything I do. I was able to take bold steps clearly only because of the confined freedom I was given at an early stage.
I request all parents to follow these steps and only then, you can groom a confident, strong children in the society.
Thank you friends.
#drashwinvijay #strengthindiamovement #Motivation
Subscribe: bit.ly/2oRDRoQ
Like us on : / strengthindiamovementt...
Follow us on: / strengthindiamovement_...
If you think this information is useful to you, kindly do share it with your nears and dears.
🙏 Please WhatsApp your name and city to +91 9094320777 to get videos and updates.
Dr Ashwin Vijay | Strength India Movement | Motivational | Inspirational | Lifestyle
மேலும் தகவலுக்கு www.instrength.org வலைதளத்தை பார்வையிடவும். உங்களை வலுவான மற்றும் ஆரோக்கியமான மனிதராக மாற்ற நாங்கள் உங்களுக்கு உதவ விரும்புகிறோம்.
Kindly Visit: www.instrength.org for more information. We want to help you become a stronger & healthier version of yourself.
Ungal vaarthai mihaum alahu
Unga video paathu konjam en manasa theathi kitten konjam maathikirean
Super
சுருக்கமான பேச்சில் பெரும் விஷயங்களை கூறினீர்கள் அண்ணா.....வாழ்த்துக்கள்....
Correct sisy
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Muthu Lakshmi
Super anna kandipaha tips follow panuren
உங்கள் குழந்தைக்கு நீங்கள் நல்ல தந்தையாக இருப்பீர்கள் டாக்டர் அனைவருக்கும் உதவும் பதிவு நன்றி டாக்டர்
👍roshniroshni
Yellorkkum nallavar❤🙏
My blessings to kids nana
அருமையாகச் சொன்னீர்கள் தம்பி. நீங்கள் தமிழ்நாட்டிற்கு மிக முக்கியமான ஒன்றை கற்பிக்கிறீர்கள். தயவு செய்து தொடர்ந்து செய்யுங்கள், நிறுத்த வேண்டாம். உங்கள் குழந்தைகளுக்கு நீங்கள் ஒரு சிறந்த தந்தையாக இருப்பீர்கள், அவர்கள் ஒரு முன்மாதிரியிலிருந்து கற்றுக் கொள்வார்கள்.
1.give freedom
2.give ask both likeable & disliable task
3.give unconditional love
4.ethiruthu pesakoodathu.. Kolanthai anger reason kandupudikanum.. Naama point ah puriyavaikanum.. Children problem solution.. Accept child point..
5.romba strict ah irruka koodathu..child naama property kidayathu
Sir AZHAGA handsome ah irukinga.. unglukaga oru like pottuten 😜
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Pavitra Rajesh
Same here 😉
Sir கண்டிப்பா நீங்க சொல்ற அந்த பெற்றோர்கள் வாழனும்னு ஆசைப்படறேன் ஆனா இவ்வளவு நாள் நீங்க சொல்ற மாதிரிதான் நான் ரொம்ப கண்டிப்புடன்என் மகனை வளர்த்தேன் அது தவறு என்று இன்று நான் உணர்ந்து கொண்டேன் . உங்களது இந்த பதிவிற்கு மிக்க நன்றி
Thank you sir
Boy child valarkum pothu pengalai respect panna solli valarkum very important this switch Watson
Girl child valakjumpodhu pasangala purse pathu select pana koodathu solli kuduthu valakanum
Parents of the girl children must be conscious in their childrens' dressing..nowadays we see small girls get dressed up like a woman which results in unwanted problems..
Ipdi Elam dress panitu vandhu,avan apadi paathan ,ivan ipdi panitaan nnu society a complain panrathula no use . This is my opinion .
.
""Surunga solli vilanga vai"" yentra palamozhi ungalukku porunthum. alahaana vilakkkam thank you sir..
மிக அருமை. பிள்ளை வளர்ப்பில்
பெற்றோரின் பங்கு மிகப்பெரியது.
👍susila
Well said sir.. alavaana kandipu eppavum kulanthai galuku irukanum.. athuku veetla iruka ellaroda support um irukanum... Oruthar kandikkum bodhu other family member support panna anga ellamae gaali.
Neenga sonnadha keta piragu, naan enkita evlo change pannanum nu enaku purinjadhu sir.. thank you so much for the wonderful tips..
👍nandhinirajasekar
u r correct sir...avungaloda life avungathan valaporanga so avungaluku kodukavendiya freedom nama kodukanum eanbathai nalla puriya vachirukinga...
thank you very much sir
சரியான நேரத்தில் எனக்கு இந்த பதிவு எண் மொபைலில் பதிவானது சார் நான் எப்பொழுதெல்லாம் மனதளவில் என் மகனை நினைத்து வருந்துகிறேன் ஓம் அந்த நேரத்திலெல்லாம் உங்களது வீடியோக்கள் என் மனதிற்கு இதமாக என் புரிதலை தெளிவுபடுத்துகிறது தகவலுக்கு மிக்க நன்றி சார் வாழ்க வளமுடன்
Sir first of all I thank God (your parents) for giving such a beautiful soul to this world.
Nice
Sir... U have been motivating me in many aspects... Now as a parent I think my kids should obey me...I don't give them space for their thoughts.... I'll change myself... Thank u 😊
I love ur parents for giving a good human like you 😍
👍manopriya
ஒவ்வொரு பெற்றோரும் கடைபிடிக்க வேண்டிய விஷயம் குழந்தைகள் விஷயத்தில் நீங்கள் சொல்வது நூற்றுக்கு நூறு உண்மை சூப்பர் இந்த காலகட்டத்தில் அனைத்து பெற்றோருக்கும் அருமையான பதிவு நன்றி சார்
👍nalinig
உங்கள் பேச்சு மிகவும் அருமையாக இருக்கிறது நன்றி🙏
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Supu Supu
Young parents kku romba usefulaaga erukkum doctor. Azhagana aazhamana vaarthaigal. Greatest words ever. 👍💝
👍 akhilaa
"A child is the father of the man"!
Thank you for the wonderful message!
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
ganesh V
Single mom a irunthu kulanthaiya varkka konjam kastam than. I try to make her very positive, humble.. nalla karuthai pagirthamaiku NANDRI..
Hello sir, my son name is ashwin sanu. He is studying first standard. After watching your videos he said to me amma i m dr.ashwin sanu like u sir. He is practising to eat bananas now. As a mother I feel very happy now. Thank you so much sir. Best wishes to your strength India movement sir. you are my son's real hero 👑
நீங்க சொல்லறது 100/உண்மைய் dr brother நா கண்கூடாக பார்த்த உங்க ஒவ்வரு பதிவும் இந்த சமூகநலனுக்காக மிக முக்கியமான பதிவாக உள்ளது மிக்க நன்றிங்க dr brother வாழ்க வளமுடன் 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
👍navanithaas
என் தம்பி ஐந்தாம் வகுப்பு படிக்கிறான் . ஆனால் புரிந்து கொள்ளும் திறன் குறைவா இருக்கிறது. அவனை எவ்வாறு வழிநடத்துவது அண்ணா.
Thank you very much for your simple and normal explanation of your parenting ideas
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
girija ashok
வணக்கம் அஸ்வின் சூப்பரான பதிவு பா எல்லா பெற்றோர்களுக்கும் தேவையான கருத்து உங்களுக்கும் உங்கள் பெற்றோர்களுக்கும் மிக நன்றி வாழ்த்துக்கள்
Vallinayagi Venkattasamy
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Vallinayagi Venkattasamy
Ennoda youtube la fulla unga videos mattum tha sir pakkure neriya educate panringa neriya thelivu kedaikithu
Useful message sir. In next posting pl give tips to motivate child to get more marks because now days that's also important for there progress.
Inda murayil than engal kulandaigala valarkkirom. Idu sariya yenda payam irundadu. Ippoludu thelivagi vittom sir. Thank you so much sir🙂
Very important topic to be discussed.. Thanks doctor for explaining it clearly and simply.. Can u please do a video on partiality of love given to a male and female child? Inspite of all modernisation and globalisation still there are parents who treat male and female child differently.. Great work doctor keep going.!
சூப்பர் டாக்டர் நான் இதை கேட்க வேண்டும் என்று நினைத்தேன் .
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Poongodi Poongodi
Awesome message doctor. Very strong words, your mom must be very grateful for a doctor like you to be in this world. Thank you very much to you and your mom doctor 🙏🙏🙏😍💕
👍தங்களின் கனிவான வார்த்தைகளுக்கு நன்றி
Unimerkitty
Doctor neenga peasuratha keatu kitta irukalam... Avalavu thanmaiya solringa... Thank u... Nan lam 3yrs baby mother... Most useful video... Again thank u...
few months back I messaged you to make a video regarding parenting ..Thank you so much for giving importance to each and everyone's message in your busy schedule doctor ...
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Ashwini mohan
நன்றி சார் நான் திருத்திக் கொள்கிறான்
Question to Dr Ashwin Vijay.
Sir, I desperately need your answer to improve my parenting.
How to teach or talk to elder child who jealous to younger sibling ?
Background: Both are preschoolers. Whenever I praise my younger child, my elder daughter will be upset and angry? I tried to explain but doesn't work. Can Help me sir?
Same problem to me
Am not an expert.. but may be this will work.. whenever you praise your younger tell him that you are doing like your sister in front of your elder girl.. try it. Like akka madhri ye correct ah seyariye very good apdi
First Tim today unga video pathen , neraya information short and sweet ta solli mudichituringa, kaniva pesuringa, nalla puriuthu , en son ku 3 years 6 month aguthu very smart and intelligent super memory powder, but yellaraum podi. Poda , leg la ettiuthaikiran , ithu thappu sonna oru 10 minutes kekuran again yarachu vanthu avan Kitta pesuna podi soldra, extreme kovapadura Enna pandrathu nu teriala daily advise pandrom , but sollumbothu sari nu soldra AprAm no use,. Apdi Tha pesuven soldra, ethachu tips sollunga
Though I am a bachelorette I found this video beneficial Doctor. My appreciations to you for sharing your thoughts on parenting with real life experiences. My love and respects to your parents.
👍தங்களின் கனிவான வார்த்தைகளுக்கு நன்றி
Rosie niti
Hi sir ur are very inspirational..... genius and genuine person..... I really have painful dout my son 4 years has some delay in understanding but speaking repitive he is talented but he is not understanding as that age kids understand... I have shown to so many doctors but no answer . SIR I don't no weather u can read my message are not but sir my request if u see this please say some answer please if we can take ur appointment we will be blessed thank u sir
😭😭😭😭 Doc neenga sonnadhula edhuvume ennaku nandakala ellame opposite dhaan now ippa dhaan theriyudhu en low feelings varuthunu.....😞 😭 😢 😭 ,,, ennoda parents romba strict ah treat pannadhunala innaiku ennaku eduhlayume free ah seyalpada mudiyala 😞😞😞
I feel like i am lost and heart broken 💔 most of the time
மிக அருமைஉங்க பதிவு நன்றி.
👍s.miteshkumar
Thanks you so much for your kind words about children 🙏
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Merline Mariya
Thanks a lot for this message. I recognized I made a mistake with my child. In shaa allah I ll change my hardness with her.
Me too sister
Excellent sir
..this applies to every relationship in life
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Keerthana Arun
migasariyana pathivu. en parents avanga sollura mathuri thaan pesanum, nikkanum, nadakanum,dress pannanum everything. ithunaala na neraya baathikappatiruken. enoda thiramaigal velipadamalaye poivittathu ena migavum varunthukiren.
Very good
Excellent information though seems to be very simple
Thank you
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Amudha Shanmugavadivel
It would be good if those who dislike the vedio say their point of view. This is a very useful vedio for many of us here. Simply disliking jus hurts.. Hope others agree with me..??!!!
Good morning sir.
Most important topic sir
Thank u sir.
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Kavitha Soundar
Super Sir.. now a days children are not a normal children. Struggling with children is too much. Thanks for your useful information 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@simtamil Respected Sir, kindly give awareness for youngsters. Because now a days no parents are happy nor in peace of mind. Due to their children. They are going in the wrong way only. No parents likes their children going in wrong way. In India every one brought awareness of clean India and swatcha bharath. Let they clean first illegal drugs supply to students and youngsters. And make youngster clean up first. Then in future our country will be strong.👍👍👍
Romba nandri Sago.
I'll definitely be a better mom going forward. My wishes and thanks to you for the useful inputs.
வணக்கம் டாக்டர் மிக்க நன்றி இன்றில் இருந்து கடைப்பிடிக்கிறொம் நன்றி 🙏
👍sathasivamsivasothy
Amazing speech sir. Thank you sooo much. I have really learned something new.
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Dr.Rekha Deepak
Sir yenakku yeppo yenna problem varutho antha correct time la unga videos moolama yenakku oru answer kidaikkuthu. Ithu unmaiyave miracle ah thaan naan paakaren. மிக்க நன்றிகள் Sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you sir really very useful
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
saru ratan
Brother.., Intha unga speech very very important for parents... Short speech but powerful... But Ella parents um ore mathiri I'lla..
மிக அருமையான பதிவு , நன்றி ஐயா
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
tha raa
Im mother of 2 kids....ur video is soo useful ...thank u sir🖒🖒😃
👍தங்களின் கனிவான வார்த்தைகளுக்கு நன்றி
sahaduna latif
Hi sir nice message. My is 8 years old at his 2 year he is very intelligent. Now a his mam said he was not concentration in his studies. I tried lot of methods. But it not working. Please give advice
Vaishnavi Kumarakrishnan approach learning in fun method. Don’t limit to paper and pencil and writing only.. use toys to teach maths.. quantities ..songs to remember formula.. n etc
Definitely correct sir. All parents need this message.
அருமையான தகவல் நன்றி சார் 👍🌷
👍 Balakrishnan
Thank you for the tips
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
anitha sharad
You are great sir... Thevaipadum pothu thevayanathai neengal pakirvathaku mikka nandri..🙏🙏
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Sowmya Yuvaraj
I dont no why putting dislike... plz skip dont put dislike
Really i need this advice sir, but i have to practice your points, definitely i will try sir. Thank you sir
Amazing brother thanks for your priceless information.
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
charles peter
Tq anna
Entha video pathathuku apram
Nan oru sila vizhiyam mathikittan
Thank you so much Anna
Io dsx
Great speeach every one follow yr advise children's are happy children's in the world
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Mera Balaji
Yes sir u r very true.. my son is 4 + yrs age but he didn’t speak well yet ... He is very naughty and hyperactive ... still he didn’t listen and understand whatever v says am so much worry about that.. Even if he hear also didn’t respond whoever calls him .. he only responds to my words the reason coz i bit strict to him
My son is getting lazy n too much of time consuming for brushing etc etc.. At 6 he ll start he ll finish at 9... Plz help me.... Am getting angry
nandini nandy simple madam unga babykku brushing la puthusa edhaachum try pannunga like automatic brush and then brushing time ku apram baby like pandra vishayatha pannunga appo baby namma seekram brush panna seekram namakku pudichadhu kedaikkumnu thonum so try panni paarunga
as a new parent its useful for me.
Thanks bro , how to handle fight between brothers 3 yrs 2 yrs ... Looks WWF fight between them.
சகோதரரே அருமையான பதிவு. உங்களின் பணி மேலும் சிறப்பாகத் சிறக்க வாழ்த்துக்கள் வாழ்க வளமுடன்
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Ra Ji
Hi sir 2 -3 years child ku immunity yeppadi gain pannurathu nu sollunga sir
1 TSP Organic apple cider vinegar in hot water/ 1tsp organic honey or both together.. U can immerse Amla in honey n give as well..
Thank you sir, expecting more videos on parenting
389 likes plus 0 dislikes!!! You've achieved Mr. Dr....
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Syed Bilal A
100% u r words are true brother .hereafter I will do it. Yesterday I met u I am so so happy moment. Thank you so much .
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Punitha Gopal
Athihama paasam vaikkave payama irukku sir
Respected sir,your videos all are inspirational and motivational.
But especially for students during lockdown they are totally addicted to mobile games. But NO solution for this. I expecting from your message....kindly do favour for the future blossom children. Hope you will do it. Yes I am facing with my 12 year son. Do as early as possible.
Aswin sir nanu eanoda husbendum eangaloda magal mela kolai anbu vechirko adh pathu ealru venda ipdi irukadheganu soluvaga opa nega sonadha pakum bodhu naga panradhu thapu illanu thonudhu super sir
After a long time i am hearing a complete man...valuable guidance
ரம்ப நல்ல தரமான பேசினிங்க குழந்தைகளின் மணசு புரிந்து கொள்வது மிக அவசியம்
👍lakshmithangaraju
In born intelligent,unconditional love,no turure.
Nice points.
Superb sir thanks lot for your valuable time and consideration about our younger generation sir🎉🎉🎉🎉🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
👍 BHAIRAVI CHANNEL
Am a new mom... Hope in future days all your videos will help me to guide parenting.
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி
Parameshwari Nayagam
நன்றி
Actual fact sir .......veedu car and child andha statement really gud msg. I wil do support my kids sir .
Usefel msg bro. But I have a doubt, how to be strict and also to allow children talk openly about it. Kindly explain the level of strictness and handling tactics with kids.
I have raised two daughters, i am very proud of how they have grown up to be wonderful human beings.
I have a learnt a lot from them.
Kulanthaigalidam friendly.ah irundhaale podhum avanga life bright.ah irukum super correct advice sir en Amma Appa ennai appadi dhan varthanga
Very useful message conveyed, will implement.
Marubadiyum sariyaha manathil pathiya vaitha pathivu, thankyou sir
Can you do a video about the importance of choosing a preschool close to home?
மிகவும் சிறப்பான பதிவு 🎉நன்றி 🎉
👍learnexcellencetv
Please upload many many videos like this Ashwin sir....
Thank you very much sir.....
👍rajasekar
Super sir...ipdi oru ammava na irukanumnu virumpara...I have two years old girl baby
Super sir I do this way of parenting to my only son.he is worth it
Chitra
Indha padivai than naan thedittu irunden sir.. Tqq soooo much.. Innum neraya videos podunga parents ku usefulla irukkum sir..
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி sudha selvam
Thank you so much sir for your wonderful service for us
👍lalithahari
Very well said doctor.... Thanks
👍தங்களின் அன்பிற்கு நன்றி Kalpanhftqq Joseph
4th point meant a lot to the present world..as every child is unique and special... Thanks for sharing.....
Sir your speech is always motivated and feel positive.
please post videos on making the present teenagers more responsible than being lazy and being in a fantasy world.