@@evasaiori9629 the boy is a boy, a son. Shut up, please. You’re telling everyone something they already know, they said he was a boy, not that he was non-binary.
It's because it's a reddit post they are reading when you write on reddit I've noticed people write the age and gender after the noun. I.e: I (35f) have a daughter (15f) that is a..... blah blah blah So in this case the my (49M) who has a daughter
Part 2. His daughter got married, her husband has two other sons and found out that his wife's father adopted her son. While they were visiting op, her husband noticed op's son's skateboarding trophies and was excited at the prospects of his son skateboarding. His daughter got mad and told him , "I don't want my son playing a delinquent sport." Even though her biological son really loves skateboarding. Op got mad and stated, "you have absolutely no right to tell me how to raise my son, you signed all your rights away."she grabbed her husband and his two kids and left. That's why he thinks he's a butthole.
Definitely not the asshole in this case. Legality aside, she isn't a part of the son's life. Never raised him, connected with him. She could have *some* authority if she connected with him and helped raise him, but she didn't, so no.
No you are not wrong 8 years ago me and my husband did the same thing for his little sister she got pregnant DSS got involved and we took the baby not even three years later she passed away in a horrible car accident his parents is always held it over I had that we should have been more inviting to his sister but she was always on drugs and the baby was born with drugs she never asked could she see her she never gave us any kind of clothing or anything for her so no we were not wrong for what we did either neither are you my baby sister is 26 she's doing the same thing to our mother and myself. Im so sorry your going through thiss.
You are an amazing women who deserves all the credit in the entire world. Your husband is so lucky to have you. I’m not religious, but I truly hope whatever god blesses you for the rest of your life. Stay strong. You did the right thing. You did what no one else would do. You sheltered that baby from whatever bad influences could’ve occurred if you hadn’t. You saved the baby’s life. It would probably be dead if it weren’t for you and your husband. Never let anyone (any selfish people) tell you otherwise. I wish I had just a tiny fraction of the strength you have. When people speak of strong women in feminism they should be speaking about women like you instead of some rich college girl on twitter who has never had responsibilities. Thank you for everything you did. i always thought it was cringe to say this, but you are literally my hero.
There are times when parents needs to be strict.. At random times mom would brainwash me telling me if I've gotten pregnant at a young age she won't support me but would kick me out on the streets n fend for myself - before ik it i had kept it as my priority not bad tho cuz i didn't want to be pregnant anyways 😌 Edit: dw i feel as if she was just tryna scare me n just wants what's best for me(there are dozen of times she doesn't keeps her word so im kinda relieved at most
Nahhh, that doesnt stop it for most people and it just makes it harder to come clean when you tell your kids that, my mother was a teen mom at 17, gave birth at 18. Her parents kicked her out and she had to go live with her boyfriend and that pushed her into an abusive relationship. Tell your kids you are going to help them. It makes people as a parent easier to come to, and you wont have to say fucked up shit to them, so it doesn’t happen. Just a mature convo
She simply doesn’t want the child. At all in her life so when she ignores him or doesn’t want to visit that’s what was supposed to happen she does not want that child so she won’t be apart of his life. When a mom abandons a child she doesn’t come back to visit. Same concept
I understand that she doesn’t want the responsibility of being a mom, but damn, he’s not a stranger. She could be his “big sister”. Like what did he do to her, be born??? Most parents who give up their kids hope they are well taken care of and loved. I hope his “Mom”lives long enough for him to become a productive adult because he won’t have his “sister” to help him.
@@roslynjones5886 well at least the mom adopted him so therefore the mother is his real mom that’s like saying if a kid was adopted at an orphanage then that child isn’t their actual child if she didn’t adopt him then he would’ve been killed by abortion
@@tr_xx123 I’m saying I don’t know why the daughter seems to be mad at or hate the kid SHE gave birth to. Even if she gave him up, she doesn’t have to ignore him. He is a reminder of her being an irresponsible kid, but that is not his fault. He definitely needs to seek therapy. I feel bad for him
No your a good mom and grandma your looking out for the best interest for your son and if she wanted rights to raise him she shouldn't of just abandoned him with you sorry but 19 is not too young to have a child if she is old enough to lie on her back spread her legs and get pregnant then she's old enough to learn that you don't get a free ride you step up and take care of your responsibilities
19, 20, what difference does it make, they are just a legal number. It doesn't mean or make the person mature or caring. Obviously she did right thing letting G-man adopt & raise the child.
@@MxDzuha I meant if you can, it's better to give birth after 20 (doctors have claimed it too) because 19 is still young. And the person who wrote this comment claimed it's not, though giving birth in a young age might cause a bit of health issues. It's up to you, if you can handle. Not a big difference, but depends on how mature you are and if you can raise the child 'correctly', all though, if you may need help,it is better to take advices from the docs. Sometimes, pregnancy doesn't come willingly. Sorry, my first language isn't english, pardon my poor explanation.
Nah He is not the bad guy here. She signed away her parental rights. She is no longer that kid’s parent. She just gave birth to him, and that means nothing in the long run.
As someone that has had a parent sign away their rights the person that stayed is the actual parent. I was friends with my dad later on but yeah being physically present doesn't make you a parent either.
I don’t completely understand what about this story makes anyone an asshole. The only thing I can find even slightly wrong is the adoptive mom expecting her daughter to show/give any motherly attention to the kid. The daughter signed her rights away and said she wanted nothing to do with the kid. Her not spending time with (or giving attention to) the kid she birthed is kinda expected and wouldn’t be abnormal in my eyes. Story speaker made it sound like the daughters behavior in that regard was bad imo. Tho I haven’t heard the whole story. If the daughter is trying to get the kid back then it’s a different thing all together.
@@coolcable4321 I think that would just set up unrealistic expectations, as well as the idea of ‘more.’ If someone does what the daughter did (without going back on their word and trying to have a say in the kids life like the second half of this storytime says) then I would think it better for everyone to keep contact at a minimum. She is not that kids mother, but she is not that kids sister either. Better to stay out of affairs like that rather than have someone in your life who’s half baked and not interested.
Sounds like yr a loveley mum. Adopting and loving that boy plus supporting yr daughter. Yr daughter was very straight from the start she wants nothing to do with him. Good job u did x
Once you adopt, that is YOUR child! No if’s and’s or butts! I adopted my grandSON, 14 yrs ago, after DHS got involved. I’m Mom, and he knows his bio-dad is also my son. The family all know, so there is no confusion. Now that his dad is healthy, he has a good relationship with him. We don’t have any competition about parental rights. We respect each other! But my oldest son knows I’m MOM! I have the last say in all things!
Look, legal rights or not, my initial thought was: what does HE think? After all, HE is the one in the middle of it. He knows that's his bio mom, which I wondering that too. In the story, he's sixteen, right? The father said when he was YOUNGER he tried to connect with her. YOUNGER. This little boy, barely a teenager at the eldest, was trying to make a connection with his bio mom but then gave up. That is heartbreaking. I love the way the father describes him and it shows his love for him. Those were all I needed to know: no, he isn't a jerk. He is fathering him and that's what he needs and so clearly desires. It sounds like he is safe and loved. Then add in that the bio mom wanted nothing to do with him? I don't even need to hear the rest of the story but I want to so
For those that want to know what happened basically The daughter got engaged to her now fiancé who has two kids of his own, they go over to the OP house and the son is there so they all talk, then the son leaves to go to a skate park and the daughter tries to act like a mother saying it too dangerous and it’s for delinquents and that he’ll turn into one if he keeps it up. OP told her it wasn’t her sedición and the daughter pulls “I’m his mother” card and OP said she wasn’t because she signed away her rights, OP thinks that her daughter is acting like this only because she doesn’t want her fiancé to know that she wasn’t around or wasn’t a good mother to her own son that she signed away the rights too I think the channel is called XO where you can hear the full story for yourselves if you want
Similar thing happened to my mother's friend (gossip time). She have a daughter who married, had a child, got divorced and move to Europe leaving the child with the grandma The dad was fighting to get the guard since the mother was out for years, and when the woman saw she was going to lose she bring the kid to Europe, which she had married again. The kid got there for like 3 years and the woman lost her job, turned to her mother and said "oh look my son is going to visit you because he misses u :)". Cool he flight alone and visit his grandmother, weeks later the mother got divorced again and flight to her mother place, says something like "oh since he likes you so much and I'm unemployed, I'm just gonna leave him here and go back to Europe ok?" And she leaves her son AGAIN with the grandmother. It has been a year and still nothing from the mother. The kid is like 14yo and I can't imagine the stress from having all his friends away, a mother who clearly doesn't want you and unfortunately a grandma who can't say no, I feel poor for the kid
I have a friend who was sort of in the same situation. His grandparents adopted him because his parents were only 18 when he was born. They weren't in the right place to have a child finance wise and we're still going through college, so he was adopted by his grandparents. But, now that his parents are older and now married, they let him stay over at their house and take care of him on the days he is over, but they do not have custody over him.
As a child who went through the exact same thing I will say it's tough. My incubator (that's what I call her) gave me up and my grandmother adopted me. I never called my incubator mom. My grandmother was my mom. When I was a teen she would pop in and out of my life but never tried to connect with me or if she did she would only be there for a few days then leave again. She was a wild child and never grew up. I'm in my 40s now both my grandma and incubator are gone. I would go see her every now and again but there was never a real connection. I never understood how or why a person can just not have anything to do with their kids. I have 4 and have always been there to support them. I guess maybe because of what happened to me as a child I swore to never walk away or turn my back on my own. I love my kids more than anything.
Your daughter was taught that she doesn't have to deal with responsibility of her own actions, and with that said, thank you for another entitled member of society. Awesome parenting....
She signed her rights away. The child is legally yours. Not hers. If she wants him, she's going to have to have a damn good reason to present to the court on why she should get him back. Blood doesn't mean anything anymore. 🤷♀️
No, you're not. As simple as that. If your daughter ever grows up and acknowledges her son, things could be different. It would be nice for your son to have some good feels from his biological mother. Just enjoy your slightly complicated mother/grandmother relationship with a great kid!
She's Lucky to have a wonderful mom like u if she didn't want a child she shouldn't have been having Sex at the end of the day she gave up every right wen she signed the adoption paper ur his mom an Always will be I HAVE NOTHING BUT TOTAL RESPECT TO U u could of easily let her get on wit her mistake but u didn't for that alone ur absolutely 💯 Angel GODBLESS U BOTH ONE LOVE 💖💖🙏
When I was born my mother left me for four and a half years with her mom then came back and picked me up and abused me for 15 years you're doing the right thing
You might be his Grandma however YOU step up And Became His MOM and he knows that ... And you Keep Protecting Him. Because you love him..you are Great Mom
3 things 1. Dont phrase genuine questions like that its like saying "do you agree or hate puppies"(extreme example) 2. Dont purposefully split shorts, because i know thats what you did 3. From what i see you are in the right so far, bit i have yet to see part 2
She obviously just needed to do her own thing. Now that shes ready to be a mom its bad that you're stopping her from doing that. Its actually disgusting that you would even assume that thats ok
She should have been encouraging her daughter, the whole time, to engage in a close relationship to the child she bore. Seems like the mother/daughter relationship was a bit bumpy by her reaction of "MINE, he's mine, you gave him up, he's MINE." Disfunctional family most likely. But..... there's always time to heal and close the gaps.
She signed her rights away. The child is in your custody and your custody only. If she wants him back she is gonna have to fight for it.
@Fłīp-Fłōp_frøg the person said it was a boy
@@urmumlmao5655 but boys can be non-binary too🤷🏻♀️
@@evasaiori9629 but the person literally said he
@@evasaiori9629 the boy is a boy, a son. Shut up, please. You’re telling everyone something they already know, they said he was a boy, not that he was non-binary.
@Fłīp-Fłōp_frøg freedom of speech
Is nobody going to talk about the shape of the wax-
U h
It’s always the same freaking sus shape 🤧
That’s the first thing I saw
I already saw a short with the SAME exact wax figures!!!! They are hunting ussss
Ya seriously like where do you even buy a mold to make those
Is no one going to talk about how the captions say “So my 49 male daughter”???😂LMAO
Looking to see if anyone noticed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's because it's a reddit post they are reading when you write on reddit I've noticed people write the age and gender after the noun. I.e:
I (35f) have a daughter (15f) that is a..... blah blah blah
So in this case the my (49M) who has a daughter
@@malibuluv209 so is 49m as 49 mom or 49 male
Bruh I was looking for this comment XD
ikr lmao
Everyone’s talking about the story
Meanwhile me: *dying because of the shape of the wax*
Same
Meh too
true *fallen down intensifies*
Me: ready to die bit(h 🙂
Me too dad why I was scrolling to see if anyone noticed 😭
Part 2. His daughter got married, her husband has two other sons and found out that his wife's father adopted her son. While they were visiting op, her husband noticed op's son's skateboarding trophies and was excited at the prospects of his son skateboarding. His daughter got mad and told him , "I don't want my son playing a delinquent sport." Even though her biological son really loves skateboarding. Op got mad and stated, "you have absolutely no right to tell me how to raise my son, you signed all your rights away."she grabbed her husband and his two kids and left. That's why he thinks he's a butthole.
Thanks; you saved me the trouble of scrolling scrolling through Reddit to find the original AITA post!
Thank you
Definitely not the asshole in this case. Legality aside, she isn't a part of the son's life. Never raised him, connected with him. She could have *some* authority if she connected with him and helped raise him, but she didn't, so no.
I’m confused “my forty one male daughter” are they transgender?
no they meant that they are the ones whos the male not the daughter, as in the person who wrote the story is a male
@@exoandbtsneedacollabtodisi3956 oh ok thanks
@@allyt639 np
No like my- 41 year old male
They are trans I believe or are a part of the Lgbtqa community (they said it in part 2)
No you are not wrong 8 years ago me and my husband did the same thing for his little sister she got pregnant DSS got involved and we took the baby not even three years later she passed away in a horrible car accident his parents is always held it over I had that we should have been more inviting to his sister but she was always on drugs and the baby was born with drugs she never asked could she see her she never gave us any kind of clothing or anything for her so no we were not wrong for what we did either neither are you my baby sister is 26 she's doing the same thing to our mother and myself. Im so sorry your going through thiss.
Sorry for your hardships & difficulties. Hope things are/get better and less chaotic. 🌹
You are an amazing women who deserves all the credit in the entire world. Your husband is so lucky to have you. I’m not religious, but I truly hope whatever god blesses you for the rest of your life. Stay strong. You did the right thing. You did what no one else would do. You sheltered that baby from whatever bad influences could’ve occurred if you hadn’t. You saved the baby’s life. It would probably be dead if it weren’t for you and your husband. Never let anyone (any selfish people) tell you otherwise. I wish I had just a tiny fraction of the strength you have. When people speak of strong women in feminism they should be speaking about women like you instead of some rich college girl on twitter who has never had responsibilities. Thank you for everything you did. i always thought it was cringe to say this, but you are literally my hero.
This was kinda hard to read. Could u put punctuations in? Oh I see. Wow... that must've been hard but I'm glad u did and and saved a baby's life.
Yo can we get some punctuation in this comment? I can barely understand it.
@@KisuMocha THANKYOU.
The dig shaped things doe-
It’s always the same freaking sus shapes 😭
There are times when parents needs to be strict..
At random times mom would brainwash me telling me if I've gotten pregnant at a young age she won't support me but would kick me out on the streets n fend for myself - before ik it i had kept it as my priority not bad tho cuz i didn't want to be pregnant anyways 😌
Edit: dw i feel as if she was just tryna scare me n just wants what's best for me(there are dozen of times she doesn't keeps her word so im kinda relieved at most
Yea no that sounds real toxic and your mom lit a constant fear inside of you that you shouldn’t have even had to worry about until you turned like 14
Yeeeahhhh thats abuse. You should get out of there asap
Nahhh, that doesnt stop it for most people and it just makes it harder to come clean when you tell your kids that, my mother was a teen mom at 17, gave birth at 18. Her parents kicked her out and she had to go live with her boyfriend and that pushed her into an abusive relationship. Tell your kids you are going to help them. It makes people as a parent easier to come to, and you wont have to say fucked up shit to them, so it doesn’t happen. Just a mature convo
Yeahhhh that's toxic. I unfortunately live in a toxic household myself. You need to get outta there soon.
That's psychotic sis...
Everybody's talking about the story, but I'm just like: Is she melting..? 😰
Yeah-
Same
Yea
Same and yes she is melting....
She is Melthing it
She simply doesn’t want the child. At all in her life so when she ignores him or doesn’t want to visit that’s what was supposed to happen she does not want that child so she won’t be apart of his life. When a mom abandons a child she doesn’t come back to visit. Same concept
Damn so she can go hoeing around but can’t face the consequences of doing so
(Btw go ahead and hate on what I just said idc)
Nothingto hate on, you're absolutely correct.
I understand that she doesn’t want the responsibility of being a mom, but damn, he’s not a stranger. She could be his “big sister”. Like what did he do to her, be born??? Most parents who give up their kids hope they are well taken care of and loved. I hope his “Mom”lives long enough for him to become a productive adult because he won’t have his “sister” to help him.
@@roslynjones5886 well at least the mom adopted him so therefore the mother is his real mom that’s like saying if a kid was adopted at an orphanage then that child isn’t their actual child if she didn’t adopt him then he would’ve been killed by abortion
@@tr_xx123
I’m saying I don’t know why the daughter seems to be mad at or hate the kid SHE gave birth to. Even if she gave him up, she doesn’t have to ignore him. He is a reminder of her being an irresponsible kid, but that is not his fault. He definitely needs to seek therapy. I feel bad for him
He's 16, not much point fighting for parental rights when he almost a grown man
She thought for parental rights when he was born, she said it in the video
No your a good mom and grandma your looking out for the best interest for your son and if she wanted rights to raise him she shouldn't of just abandoned him with you sorry but 19 is not too young to have a child if she is old enough to lie on her back spread her legs and get pregnant then she's old enough to learn that you don't get a free ride you step up and take care of your responsibilities
This isn't the wax makers story, this story is from reddit and the poster is a guy...
19, 20, what difference does it make, they are just a legal number. It doesn't mean or make the person mature or caring.
Obviously she did right thing letting G-man adopt & raise the child.
@@MxDzuha i know right? Smh some people are still in delusion that getting pregnant is uncontrollable situations. 19 is a legal adult.
@@MxDzuha I meant if you can, it's better to give birth after 20 (doctors have claimed it too) because 19 is still young. And the person who wrote this comment claimed it's not, though giving birth in a young age might cause a bit of health issues. It's up to you, if you can handle. Not a big difference, but depends on how mature you are and if you can raise the child 'correctly', all though, if you may need help,it is better to take advices from the docs. Sometimes, pregnancy doesn't come willingly.
Sorry, my first language isn't english, pardon my poor explanation.
@@J-R-2000 Sometimes it is. What about rape victims? Are you did it while drunk and the condom broke and you didn't realize until it was too late...
I don’t understand how y’all are coming up with a conclusion- she said, “my daughter got engaged… “ and then it stopped like ?????
Found part 2
ruclips.net/user/shortsMSu5RjKXgE0?feature=share
They're stories off redit so alot of people have probably either read the story before or go find it to see the end :)
Nah He is not the bad guy here. She signed away her parental rights. She is no longer that kid’s parent. She just gave birth to him, and that means nothing in the long run.
Exactly
Ong
Hi ms joke
No your not she is not his parent on paper or raising so that's that
As someone that has had a parent sign away their rights the person that stayed is the actual parent. I was friends with my dad later on but yeah being physically present doesn't make you a parent either.
I don’t completely understand what about this story makes anyone an asshole. The only thing I can find even slightly wrong is the adoptive mom expecting her daughter to show/give any motherly attention to the kid. The daughter signed her rights away and said she wanted nothing to do with the kid. Her not spending time with (or giving attention to) the kid she birthed is kinda expected and wouldn’t be abnormal in my eyes. Story speaker made it sound like the daughters behavior in that regard was bad imo. Tho I haven’t heard the whole story. If the daughter is trying to get the kid back then it’s a different thing all together.
@Simmer Toddler ohhh that explains a lot more. Yeah she doesn’t have any say when it comes to that boys life.
@Simmer Toddler can u give the link
She doesn’t have to ignore her either even if she doesn’t want to view him as her son he would at least be her brother
@@coolcable4321 I think that would just set up unrealistic expectations, as well as the idea of ‘more.’ If someone does what the daughter did (without going back on their word and trying to have a say in the kids life like the second half of this storytime says) then I would think it better for everyone to keep contact at a minimum. She is not that kids mother, but she is not that kids sister either. Better to stay out of affairs like that rather than have someone in your life who’s half baked and not interested.
Can I get the link
The molds-
The animal ones are so cute
Not my sister being 18 and raising a kid of her own
She is doing a splendid job seriously
Seems like you should separate those by color a little so it doesn't turn into a whole pot of sludgy gray...
y’all telling story’s and i’m just like
*“is that a dick?”*
People: talk about how she's done the right thing;
Me: the shape of the wax is S U S
Same bro same
Wow…let’s just say you my dear…are an amazing mother!!! Know this.❤️😊
Why do you have a pein shaped mold plz tell
Maybe because she wanted?
Exactly. Its old at this point and I don't understand why people still do this. I bet the guys watching this are pretty uncomfortable too, I would be.
Can we get the whole story
Sounds like yr a loveley mum. Adopting and loving that boy plus supporting yr daughter. Yr daughter was very straight from the start she wants nothing to do with him. Good job u did x
LMAOOOOOO The wax shaped 😭😭
I love the fact that those things had that shape, I totally have not lost all faith in humanity..
Don’t give up yet chief. Not everyone this bad
@@BrandonVonOtt lol
No, that's actually really kind the kid could've ended up in adoption who knows what would have happened then
No your just a good mother to both your own daughter and her son
The shape of the wax through me off so much and I couldn’t focus on the story 😂😂
You’re not wrong at all!
Once you adopt, that is YOUR child! No if’s and’s or butts! I adopted my grandSON, 14 yrs ago, after DHS got involved. I’m Mom, and he knows his bio-dad is also my son. The family all know, so there is no confusion. Now that his dad is healthy, he has a good relationship with him. We don’t have any competition about parental rights. We respect each other! But my oldest son knows I’m MOM! I have the last say in all things!
You are the brave woman who rescued that boy
Almost everyone:talks about the kid and custody
Me:the wax had a funny little shape to it
Look, legal rights or not, my initial thought was: what does HE think? After all, HE is the one in the middle of it. He knows that's his bio mom, which I wondering that too. In the story, he's sixteen, right? The father said when he was YOUNGER he tried to connect with her. YOUNGER. This little boy, barely a teenager at the eldest, was trying to make a connection with his bio mom but then gave up. That is heartbreaking.
I love the way the father describes him and it shows his love for him. Those were all I needed to know: no, he isn't a jerk. He is fathering him and that's what he needs and so clearly desires. It sounds like he is safe and loved. Then add in that the bio mom wanted nothing to do with him? I don't even need to hear the rest of the story but I want to so
Did she just say 49 male daughter got pregnant I’m confused
No the person telling the story
For those that want to know what happened basically The daughter got engaged to her now fiancé who has two kids of his own, they go over to the OP house and the son is there so they all talk, then the son leaves to go to a skate park and the daughter tries to act like a mother saying it too dangerous and it’s for delinquents and that he’ll turn into one if he keeps it up. OP told her it wasn’t her sedición and the daughter pulls “I’m his mother” card and OP said she wasn’t because she signed away her rights, OP thinks that her daughter is acting like this only because she doesn’t want her fiancé to know that she wasn’t around or wasn’t a good mother to her own son that she signed away the rights too
I think the channel is called XO where you can hear the full story for yourselves if you want
Similar thing happened to my mother's friend (gossip time).
She have a daughter who married, had a child, got divorced and move to Europe leaving the child with the grandma
The dad was fighting to get the guard since the mother was out for years, and when the woman saw she was going to lose she bring the kid to Europe, which she had married again. The kid got there for like 3 years and the woman lost her job, turned to her mother and said "oh look my son is going to visit you because he misses u :)". Cool he flight alone and visit his grandmother, weeks later the mother got divorced again and flight to her mother place, says something like "oh since he likes you so much and I'm unemployed, I'm just gonna leave him here and go back to Europe ok?" And she leaves her son AGAIN with the grandmother. It has been a year and still nothing from the mother. The kid is like 14yo and I can't imagine the stress from having all his friends away, a mother who clearly doesn't want you and unfortunately a grandma who can't say no, I feel poor for the kid
Where is part 2
I have a friend who was sort of in the same situation. His grandparents adopted him because his parents were only 18 when he was born. They weren't in the right place to have a child finance wise and we're still going through college, so he was adopted by his grandparents. But, now that his parents are older and now married, they let him stay over at their house and take care of him on the days he is over, but they do not have custody over him.
As a child who went through the exact same thing I will say it's tough. My incubator (that's what I call her) gave me up and my grandmother adopted me. I never called my incubator mom. My grandmother was my mom.
When I was a teen she would pop in and out of my life but never tried to connect with me or if she did she would only be there for a few days then leave again. She was a wild child and never grew up.
I'm in my 40s now both my grandma and incubator are gone. I would go see her every now and again but there was never a real connection.
I never understood how or why a person can just not have anything to do with their kids. I have 4 and have always been there to support them. I guess maybe because of what happened to me as a child I swore to never walk away or turn my back on my own. I love my kids more than anything.
Amazing and supportive Grandfather. Good for him for taking in his daughter's son!
Pity he didn't do such a good job with his daughter...
Your daughter was taught that she doesn't have to deal with responsibility of her own actions, and with that said, thank you for another entitled member of society.
Awesome parenting....
Facts.
Absolute legend
Yes, it's her
Oh god shut up 🙄
Absolutely right. She just created the next karen that don't understand why actions have consequences
She signed her rights away. The child is legally yours. Not hers. If she wants him, she's going to have to have a damn good reason to present to the court on why she should get him back. Blood doesn't mean anything anymore. 🤷♀️
That wax looks great
You are a wonderful person. Whatever you decide it will be right!
These are uncomfortable
41 male daughter?
The person writing the story is 41 male not the daughter
YOU ARE THE PARENT. Periodt.
She's like my sister. The kids not worth fighting for. So sad
JESUS CHRIST IS KING AND HE LOVES YOU HE’S COMING BACK VERY SOON REPENT AMEN GOD IS KING 🤴🏿 👑😌
I don’t believe in god or Jesus...
“She was 18 and didn’t want a child *that young* ”
My mom: had a child at 16 :/
Everybody: *talking about the story*
Me: THOSE WAX SHAPES SUS
I need a part 2 now
No, you're not. As simple as that. If your daughter ever grows up and acknowledges her son, things could be different. It would be nice for your son to have some good feels from his biological mother. Just enjoy your slightly complicated mother/grandmother relationship with a great kid!
No your not wrong. However once he is 18 you have no say.
Nice molds you got there.
What a great ending to that story
To be honest there’s probably more to the story, all the aita story’s always change a warp what really happened
Everyone talking about the child. Me: UHM WHAT IS SHE MELTING
She's Lucky to have a wonderful mom like u if she didn't want a child she shouldn't have been having Sex at the end of the day she gave up every right wen she signed the adoption paper ur his mom an Always will be I HAVE NOTHING BUT TOTAL RESPECT TO U u could of easily let her get on wit her mistake but u didn't for that alone ur absolutely 💯 Angel GODBLESS U BOTH ONE LOVE 💖💖🙏
So many questions need to be answered but I just pray yo guys are doing better.
My family finally feels normal I was getting worried for a second
Bless you! You are such an awesome mum aka Nanna ❤ ♥
Is nobody gonna talk about the shape of the wax bits she first put in?
My grandma had my dad when she was 18 too!
Are we not going to talk about the wax shapes?? LMAO
SHE PROBABLY GIVES YOU BUTTERFLIES OH I HOPE YOUR HAPPY BUT NOT HOW YOU WHERE WITH ME IM SELFISH I KNOW I GET LET YOU GO
No you are not a ashole you are really kind 😊
You adopted your daughters son a raised him you are really good
God bless you!
bruh imagine you find out your dad’s daughter is your mother? and your sister? like that must be difficult to explain to the boy when he was little
*"MY DAUGHTER IS ENGAGE"*------ to my son(her daughter's son)
"My 49 male daughter got pregnant when she was 18" they is a lot going on
The shape in the beginning
Everybody talking about the story”
Me: she she burning the mans thing 😭😐😑😵💫😵
Your daughter will discover how much she loves him the minute he becomes a big rockstar worth millions of dollars
“So my…49 male…..daughter”
Me:🤨
I feel like I’m at a gas station, and a lady comes up to me and starts airing out all her family’s dirty laundry, I drive away and completely forget
When I was born my mother left me for four and a half years with her mom then came back and picked me up and abused me for 15 years you're doing the right thing
No !!!!!! Keep him safe. She has ALREADY proved that she doesn't want him.
you treat him better . your the only female role model in his life. dont let him down
Me: Ayo the shape of that color is .. interesting..
Who else blocked out the story, and just wanted to see the wax again 😂
You might be his Grandma however YOU step up And Became His MOM
and he knows that ...
And you Keep Protecting Him.
Because you love him..you are Great Mom
we aint gonna talk about those candles in the beginning?
I need the full story
No your a amazing mom good job adopting here kid and raising him
Good for you! And good for your son! It’s her loss and always will be . Keep on ma!
3 things
1. Dont phrase genuine questions like that its like saying "do you agree or hate puppies"(extreme example)
2. Dont purposefully split shorts, because i know thats what you did
3. From what i see you are in the right so far, bit i have yet to see part 2
She obviously just needed to do her own thing. Now that shes ready to be a mom its bad that you're stopping her from doing that. Its actually disgusting that you would even assume that thats ok
She should have been encouraging her daughter, the whole time, to engage in a close relationship to the child she bore. Seems like the mother/daughter relationship was a bit bumpy by her reaction of "MINE, he's mine, you gave him up, he's MINE." Disfunctional family most likely. But..... there's always time to heal and close the gaps.
I feel like she's gonna ask for him back
I swear if I see that mold one more time I-
I was paying more attention to the shape of the wax things more then the actual story
He’s your son/grandson. You are the parent. Daughter and biological son are both family but the roles have changed.
Nah you're fine as long as the story pans out. As long as you give her the opportunity to be in his life you're fine.
That’s an extremely mature kid
Why did I think that was a rice cooker at first
Cute story
Anyone else hear "so my... 49, male, daughter" ?