Eh not really. That was more a song about a straight girl getting drunk and experimenting. Though it's wayyy better than her song "Ur so Gay". Which is a whole 'nother situation.
They asked her like two bi questions. This is a huge waste of time. I'd rather Kenny make the bi videos. It's all cool that Jen is a shy, awkward, cutesy girl, but straight and gay people don't think we exist, so...I need a proper bi video not just on bi visibility day.
I agree I never really thought about "what I was " so to speak , I just went with what I was feeling until people told me to pick one to make it easier for them I guess.
The thing is, in my opinion, we need to acknowledge our differences and embrace them to truly be equal, because ignoring them just gives other people headroom to be jerks about differences, but once differences are seen as no big deal, regardless of how we define ourselves then 'just living' will be easy -shrugs-
Funny.... When I was in 5th grade I had a bisexual teacher who had a girlfriend and she ended up getting fired after kids continuously kept bullying her for being a lesbian... (they absolutely refused to accept that bisexuality is a thing even though she explained it) it was really bad, glad that went better for you. I'm bisexual too!
"being attracted to both your gender and other genders" bisexuality is being attracted to both male and female pansexuality is being attracted to all genders when Jordyn said "both your gender and other genders" that sounds more like pansexual than bisexual in my opinion.
I've written this before but I've never heard a bisexual saying that they are only attracted to women and men, and not non-binary people. I've only heard those identifying as pansexual saying that, which I think says something. If most bisexuals think this way, and "bisexual" is the more common and older term, why use another and newer word for the same thing?
actually, bisexuality means you like two genders. that DOES NOT LIMIT IT. it does not mean "male and female" it just means two genders. also if she's comfortable with saying bisexual then let her be. it's just a label. she doesn't have to say pan if she is used to what she's called now
Jen, I love how androgynous you look. I love how pretty you look in your makeup and yet how you mix your clothes to look both feminine with a touch of masculinity. I'm sorry if I'm labeling I don't mean to disrespect it's just in my opinion even if it's not intentional you completely rock your subtle androgyny.
Personally I am not sexually attracted to her, but I love how she carries her looks. I don't want to be "that girl" that gets all hipster for her but I can't help it. She rocks her looks and she doesn't have to do anything flashy to look awesome. I love it and tbh I had the exact same feelings over Joan Jett. I loved her tomboyish/girly style. Jen just rocks it differently
Why do most people forget there is a sexuality called Panasexual, I legit think most people forget it exists sometimes in the LGBT community bc most people never talk about it.
"Not gay enough for the heterosexual community and not straight enough for the straight community." So true. I still haven't come out to my ultra conservative family and I've been dating girls since I was 15. I just don't tell them about my girlfriends and pretend to be single and then I tell them about my boyfriends and pretend to be straight. It sucks because I'm 100% sure I lied girls more than guys but I'm worried about literally being completely shunned by my family.
I'm bi too and my family is also conservative. I also just don't tell them about girlfriends, because my view on it is that I don't need their approval, so I'm not fighting for it. I know I love being bi.
Also, I have identified as bi for over 20 years now. At what point do I get to feel like people believe me when I say "it's not a phase"? I'm not "undecided"!
Beatnik yeah my friend she asked me one day we were texting and she was like how did I know and I told her and she was like its probably just a phase and I'm like its not. I found out I was bi in elementary im in middle now so if it was a phase it would probably be over now.
I’m currently on a everyday strugle where I Go from “What if I’m a Lesbian” to “What if I’m full straight?” Because I like butch wommen and I keep unvalidating my bisexuality
well, being a doesn't mean you don't want a relationship or fall in love. and if you fall in love with a heterosexual, that's how it is. it's probably not the easiest, but it can work.
no, most people dont want someone bisexual because they might get tired of (example, they're a bisexual female dating a guy) they might get tired of a man and want a female and will leave you.
...wow. that is literally the most ignorant thing i've heard. if i'm gonna break up with someone, it's not gonna be because i feel like dating another gender. that's not how it works. this is doing nothing but encouraging the myth that bi people are more likely to cheat which isn't true at all
I came out as bi few months ago. Its absolutely terrifying, yet I am free to be me. Other people will just have to deal with it! Don't ever apologize for who you are :)
nope. my family was religious and I was taught being gay was impossible. i was in denial my whole childhood and I had an obsession with girls and their beauty . I eventually gave up with lying to myself because I was constantly fantasizing and dreaming about other girls. I'm now in a loyal relationship of 2 years with a guy.
I felt attracted to girls like I was attracted to guys when I was in middle school and beginning high school, but I didn't really think anything of it until I thought about it one day. For a while I didn't even really know what being bisexual was and when I learned I realized that I'm bi.
I know I'm bi because I question myself if I "like" the leader of my class once. I know I am. She's a cute girl. But I also like the classmate who's a boy. That's my story.
One of the hardest things about being bisexual is when those in your own community, the LGBT community, doesn't take your sexuality seriously. It's even harder being a male bisexual. People are so convinced that I'm still confused. Getting that at the age of 21 is quite annoying to say the least.
ikr?! so annoying. It seems more difficult for male bisexuals... have you seen Onision's #proudtobe hate comments video?? its...interesting to say the least
It's not easier being a female bi tho. I'm turning 32 this year and some people tell me that it's just a phase for the fact that I realised my gayness or I wold say my bi-ness when I was close to the 30th year of mine. I know it might be a bit late to figure out myself at this point but better late than never, isn't it?
I'm bi too and my old friends, who are in the LGBT+ community, basically told me that I'm "less gay" than them because I've only been in relationships with the opposite gender... -_-
go to a pride and see how (usually) white cis gay men treat bisexuals. i will never go to any sort of pride event because i'm legitimately afraid of what my own community would do to me. i know plenty of bi men and women who have been spit on, told that pride wasn't for them, and one of them almost got beat up.
Even tho we're in the acronym we often get overlooked or not taken seriously. LGBT is an umbrella term for not-straight/not-cisgender but sometimes does not focus on the B or the T as much. Like Jordan said we're seen as not gay enough or not straight enough. Also alot of lesbians or gay men come out as bisexual before fully coming out so some don't think it exists. They think you're just too scared to come out. which is not the case. Bisexuality is real and valid on its own.
I love Jen, she's so funny and awesome. And this video is really great, I identify as bisexual which was difficult for me to kinda realize or, well not coming out, maybe more like convince myself to be honest. I dated a lot of guys and drowned myself emotionally so I didn't have to 'deal' with my feelings for girls as well. Which was obviously very easy for me because I liked guys as well. Recently I have overcome that in my life and after coming out I feel much more relieved. All of my friends were totally cool with it, I even gained some new friends thru the lgbt community. My dad didn't like it, he ignores that part of me and I've never brought a girl home so how I ignored that part of me for so long before he does that now. But everyone is different and I think that coming out should b something praised and maybe even later down the line it won't b something that people have to 'come out'. It'll just b a question to get to know someone like "what's ur favorite color"
THAT LAST COMMENT WAS SO RELATABLE HAHAH and that last statement in your big comment is really true, like how at my friend's school people ask what's your pronouns when they get to know you
+Nicole Goutman same I've been throwing out hints on musically that I'm Polysexual and idk if people r taking hints although I haven't come out on my channel so shhhhh
i like this, but as a bi person who is technically half white and half black.... i dont exactly get to call myself a white woman ukno? i agree with the idea of this like i use the terms gay and straight like that too if im understanding what ur saying....but if i went out anywhere and called myself a white woman people would think that im out of my mind.
+Chyna Bryan That's a good point. I guess that's kinda the way bi people tend to talk about themselves too, like how calling themselves gay isn't usually that weird, but calling themselves straight would seem wrong.
+Morgan Phillips That's exactly how I do it tbh. I would sometimes refer to myself or the things I do as "gay", but I'd never call myself "straight". Maybe because gay is used as an umbrella term sometimes or it's just my inner desire to be a full part of the community even though some people think I only belong there if I date a woman. I also do it because saying "I'm so gay" sounds better than "I'm so bi".
Im almost 27 years old. Growing up ive always felt like a lesbian. Everyone knew at school and i told my parents i thought i was too. Ive always felt different from other girls since i was 5. The best way i can explain the feeling is as if I wasnt on the same "level" as other girls. When play time came i would go play with boys, and the girls would all play with other girls. I didnt like girly things and was a total tomboy until high school. I felt a pull towards other girls since i was little but didnt know what it meant. I did not choose it, it's just a part of my being and something ive felt within myself for a long time. No child chooses to be/feel different in kindergarten. I never felt attracted to boys like other girls did growing up. So, I identify as a lesbian up until 10th grade i have my first relationship with a boy. We were friends first but i felt more than a friendship connection at the time and he did too. I thought i was in love with him, and was heartbroken when he broke up with me. So after everyone says im Bi and i deny it. 10 years go by and there have been other men i have been interested in, even though i am not attracted to men. I am capable of dating men eventhough im not attracted to them. Most lesbians will tell you there's no way they could be with a man, and have no interest in them at all. I feel as if my sexuality is on a scale. Im definitely not straight, but not quite gay either..im in between with a leaning towards women, therefore i am Bi.
The hing I hate most is when I'm in a relationship with a guy and my gay friends get mad because I'm not gay and I'm just like, "IM SORRY THAT A MAN MAKES ME HAPPY"
I came out to my family. They didn't believe me. They think it's a phase that's magically going to change once I'm suddenly "old enough" to know. As if they didn't know they were straight at 16!
A soul crushing moment is when you have a crush is when you fall for your best friend, you have known each other for years, told each other every secret, besides this one. You watch them fall in love with someone else and you heart aches. Everytime you see them, you think: why can't I just tell them, why?
that's fine if you ever date a girl/guy and realize you aren't into it there's no shame in changing your label your as long as your happy that's all that matters
Same but idk if I would just use bi as an umbrella term for maybe say biromantic (for me at least) because I've had crushes on some of my very close girl friends and think that girls are attractive but I've never felt the "fvck her" part of be her or fvck her. It's all so complicated rn I might just leave it alone for now and say I'm straight until I feel otherwise ¯\(ツ)/¯
How I found out I was bi was when I liked this girlhood worked at the pool as a lifeguard. I knew I liked guys but I felt weird towards here. One day I dragged her into the water with me and I took her underwater with me and I kissed her. I told my friends and they declared me bisexual. I thought about and I was like "ok I'm bi now".
I am a little confused. Being bisexual doesn´t mean you like boys and girls? I thought liking boys, girls and other genders fits in the pansexual category. That´s why "bi", because.... Two.
Each person will define their own sexuality a little different, but usually bisexuality is defined as "attraction to two or more genders" or "attraction to the same gender and other genders". Both of those incorporate two, but aren't exactly just "boys and girls".
For example, a bi person can be attracted to only boys and girls, or they could be attracted to nonbinary people and girls but not boys, etc etc. some bi people could identify as pan but choose bisexual instead.
I say this: If you like a girl, go get her. If you like a boy, go get him. I feel as if you like a girl, but would be good with a boy, then you do you. None is stopping you, be Brendon Urie for all I care! Just be who you wanna be. ;)
Oh my god! When they say "welcome to the Closet" it's referring to the beginning of your queer travels, and at the end they say "it's time to come out of the closet" like after all this info you are ready, or something. Are you picking up what I'm putting down?
Hey, I'm only 12 but I think im a lesbian. Will my parents take me seriously? I'm afraid that they'll think that im not old enough to decide that. Help
If you don't think your safe yet, don't endanger yourself by coming out. It can be a pain, but it's better for you if you're at risk. That being said, if you approach your parents sincerely, they should take it sincerely. As for your age, it doesn't really matter even if they don't believe you, because when your older you may still identify as a lesbian, and that should be more than enough proof for them, I think.
ImHatingHard Thank you very much :). I've scoured many sites and all over RUclips and I haven't quite found an answer, but you have given me a pretty reasonable one. Thank you.
what are your parents opinion on the lgbtq+ community? I mean it is pride month so you can easily just slip that into a convo if you don't know what your parents think. like you could say "hey the pride parade looks so cool, what do you guys think" make sure your parents are like relaxed at the time and chilled, don't I repeat DONT approach when they are stressed/busy. if they seem supportive give it a few months and ask yourself "do I accept myself for being (in your case) bi?" ask that over and over you want to be 110% positive that you're ready. if your parents seem not supportive of the lgbtq+ community give it time. i'd say a year or two and during that time build a relationship with them, get to know them and be comfortable around them. worst case possible you'll have to wait till your in collage/uni where you're already a legal adult and have a place to stay if your parents decide to (heaven forbid) kick you out/temporarily remove you from their life. best of luck xx
angela g I did, and it's been a few years, but our friendship is stronger than ever, although we never dated, since he's straight, and I never really acted on those feelings.
Martin Schmidt bi is basically just people that are born either male or female, pans includes transgenders, transvestites, unisexuals, (? Is that the word?) etc
I'm not bisexual, I'm gay but I have friends that are bi and if they have a girlfriend, someone will say "oh you're gay" and they so "I'm bi" and they're like "if you're going out with the same gender that makes you gay" like no, they're still bi.
i agree. because im married to a man, i feel like im not "gay enough" or just "not gay" even though i know that i am. i cant help who im attracted to and i cant help who i love. i still think that alot of people think that bisexual, means youre just indecisive or want to be "interesting" and that bisexual isnt a real sexual orientation
So I came across this recently, and it's kinda weird tbh. I originally found this video the first day I found out I was 'bi.' I remember waking up and crying for almost an hour but then found this (I grew up with a christian family, and at the time I was too, so I Ifelt really guilt about it) and it had helped calm me down. After months of confusion, I had finally come to tersm with the fact that I'm actually a lesbian. It's been two years now, and not only am I happy and comfortable with my sexuality, I've also been in a relationship with an amazing girl for over a year. I'm not sure why I decided to share this, ig I just felt really nostalgic and it's kinda nice seeing how much I've changed
honestly you don't need to tell them if you dont want to, like, your sexuality does not define you :) like if they're asking you if a guy is hot etc, just explain that you don't really like guys etc. Young people can be very very cruel and may be shocked by your orientation but true friends won't care at all.
well im late but if you dont want to make it a big deal you can just caually "come out" (you can think of ways) or just bring your girlfriend and be like "Hey this is my girlfriend". anyways, no one is automatically straight, you "come out" when you're ready
save the lady(or man)for when you move out. if you are interested in your gender I would date casually to avoid any hurt or angry feelings. I can't speak for all Christians or your family but I wouldn't see you any differently. if you are young... why not take dating slow? there are plenty of fish in the sea. just because friends do it doesn't mean you need to. I you are an adult.... do what you think would please God.... but don't make yourself date someone if you aren't truly interested... ALSO.... your family should love you know matter what. this coming from a Christian....then again I don't even know you... BUT WHAT DO I KNOW I'm 12😅😆 oh yeah and don't think all Christians hate gay or bi peeps...
I didn't lie to my mom that I was straight
She asked me if I liked guys. "Yes I like guys"
But she didn't ask me if I liked girls......
Same man,same
My mom asked if I like girls and I said yes then she proceeded to ignore me sooo🤷🏽♀️
Biggest oof I ever heard
Hi Friend LMBO
@@kels3518 update?
Adults are just older children.
Yep. Just turned 30 and my brain is TOTALLY not there yet.
+Heismyrock3 happy birthday you old bat (jk haha)
+Zoella Caylen hahaha YES you just made my day
That's a Jaden Smith tweet right there
Stfu
Jen is the Ellen DeGeneres of Buzzfeed
Ellen DeJeneres
You mean Ellen DeGenorous?
Farewell
Agreed
YES
+suzie cocatoo I don't understand what you mean. did they misspell it originally?
A wise woman once said "I kissed a girl and I liked it the taste of her cherry chapstick"
Yay a Katy Perry fan
Eh not really. That was more a song about a straight girl getting drunk and experimenting. Though it's wayyy better than her song "Ur so Gay". Which is a whole 'nother situation.
Katy Perry
*iridociclitis
Snoochii Boochiis 😂😂😂😂
Everyone is arguing in the comments and I'm just here glad that Jen got her own show
Aww, me too. Especially something that she cares a lot about.
Ikr
Damn right it's about time!
IKR? I was like 'YAY GO JEN! '
Jen is bae
I love Jen she seems so nice and genuine
same
same
She's jenunine
Bacon ways omg
+Bacon ways (BaconProduction.) good one 👌🏻
"I am a Les-Boon" I love that!
Amsterz B yes
Amsterz B bag of staples
Having a crush on a straight female sucks
Nicolette Swann yes
Nicolette Swann IKR
Sigh
Sadly yes
Nicolette Swann *instert HoO reference here*
Yes.. I just found out that I'm bi, bcoz since a few weeks I've been having crush on my best girl friend... She's straight
Jen's "whaaaaaaaatttt" gives me life
I've been looking for this comment + cool profile pic you have there.
this was creepy because she did the whaaaaaat at the same moment i read that comment
Your profile picture. No other words needed.
Oh hai pham
oh hello stranger
omg I got such happy butterflies in my stomach when I read the title. So little is talked about us bisexuals. I love this. thank you. eeeeeeeeee
many people say we use it as a stepping stone or just lie. I hate that
I think the official song for bisexual people should be I GET THE BEEEEST OF BOTH WORLDS
+ellie brooks or girls/girls/boys
They asked her like two bi questions. This is a huge waste of time. I'd rather Kenny make the bi videos. It's all cool that Jen is a shy, awkward, cutesy girl, but straight and gay people don't think we exist, so...I need a proper bi video not just on bi visibility day.
+ellie brooks agreed
I feel like we should stop defining everyone all the time and just live.
Same
I honestly can't under stand people for judging gays, or people who smoke weed I can kinda see but then it doesn't make any sense again.
I agree I never really thought about
"what I was "
so to speak , I just went with what I was feeling until people told me to pick one to make it easier for them I guess.
The thing is, in my opinion, we need to acknowledge our differences and embrace them to truly be equal, because ignoring them just gives other people headroom to be jerks about differences, but once differences are seen as no big deal, regardless of how we define ourselves then 'just living' will be easy -shrugs-
+mike Bjo I think it's just who ever you fall In love with you fall in love with.
where are my bisexuwhales at?
Jan M Here! I think atleast xD
Yeah
Here
Jan M here
Jan M meh
A new show hosted by Jen? THE LORDS OF THE HOMOSEXUAL VALLEY HEARD OUR PRAYS
Omfg yes
Praise the gay~
(G)aymen
^WOW
+Marta is not a hipster I don't know if I want to high-five you or strangle you
Jen could slap me and I'd thank her
Nova Bryte she's beautiful isn't she
well good for you honey
same tho
Honestly same
the account i watch youtube on lol Regina George reference?
i'm bi and when my art students (11-12yr olds) found out they called me half a lesbian, which was hilarious.
Funny.... When I was in 5th grade I had a bisexual teacher who had a girlfriend and she ended up getting fired after kids continuously kept bullying her for being a lesbian... (they absolutely refused to accept that bisexuality is a thing even though she explained it) it was really bad, glad that went better for you. I'm bisexual too!
marshmello unicorn omg that is so horrible that they would do that I can't believe people are like that sometimes
안녕No. I can help I am also around your age
😁it's hard to find other bisexuals my age so I'm like super happy lol 😂
@@מעין-צ9ג OMG that's awful!!!!!
I don't know
I am doubting my sexuality
I don't know how to know😣😣😣😣
How did I know I was bisexual? Brendon and Sarah Urie.
Savannah Meyers I love you
Savannah Meyers same
adra yessssss
Same
adra, nice Ethan profile!!
we're here! we're queer! 😂
I'm really, really hoping that is a Tomska reference
Gattaca! Gattaca!
you don't want anymore bears?
They've nowhere to go!
we're full of existential fear!
"being attracted to both your gender and other genders"
bisexuality is being attracted to both male and female
pansexuality is being attracted to all genders
when Jordyn said "both your gender and other genders" that sounds more like pansexual than bisexual in my opinion.
I've written this before but I've never heard a bisexual saying that they are only attracted to women and men, and not non-binary people. I've only heard those identifying as pansexual saying that, which I think says something. If most bisexuals think this way, and "bisexual" is the more common and older term, why use another and newer word for the same thing?
actually, bisexuality means you like two genders. that DOES NOT LIMIT IT. it does not mean "male and female" it just means two genders. also if she's comfortable with saying bisexual then let her be. it's just a label. she doesn't have to say pan if she is used to what she's called now
+Emelie LW true
Two different words that have the same meaning lol!!!!
bisexuality is attraction to 2+ genders (im bi and attracted to all genders) and pansexuality is attraction regardless of gender
Jen, I love how androgynous you look. I love how pretty you look in your makeup and yet how you mix your clothes to look both feminine with a touch of masculinity. I'm sorry if I'm labeling I don't mean to disrespect it's just in my opinion even if it's not intentional you completely rock your subtle androgyny.
Agreed
+Izzy Mcfarland right?
i honestly have a little bit of a crush on Jen. she's adorable to me >///
Personally I am not sexually attracted to her, but I love how she carries her looks. I don't want to be "that girl" that gets all hipster for her but I can't help it. She rocks her looks and she doesn't have to do anything flashy to look awesome. I love it and tbh I had the exact same feelings over Joan Jett. I loved her tomboyish/girly style. Jen just rocks it differently
sameee idk why but im usually more attracted to androgynous girls when it comes to girls, not too girly and not too boyish
“What if I was gay?” 😂
Taylor whatttttttttttttttttttttt😂
Why do most people forget there is a sexuality called Panasexual, I legit think most people forget it exists sometimes in the LGBT community bc most people never talk about it.
Pansexual?
+Crossfire | GFX You don't focus on the gender you just love them for there personality
+Crossfire | GFX it's bisexual but fancy
What does it mean?
What is that
I knew I was bisexual when I realized that most girls don't check each other out in the locker room XD
Really? I secretly check other girls. In high school I would casually kiss my close girl friends.
YO THAT'S LITERALLY HOW I REALISED I WAS BI
I'm bisexual in middle school and had gym first hour and I dont even do that!
tHEY dONT.??
how did I know? four words. Xena the Warrior Princess.
Me too! OMG Her warcry make me weak in the knees!
how I know. 2 words. Regina Mills.
excatly :DD
+Xx Lana Lover xX Laura Prepon am I right
Or Angelina Jolie in Gia ❤️
Easy:
*sees photo of Brendon Urie* "mm yes"
*sees photo of Sarah Urie* "mm yes"
bISEXUALITY
bluelunakitty YESSS
or
Sees Brendon and cries bc he’s Sarah’s
Sees Sarah and cries bc she’s Brendon’s
the intro reminded me of the video where you marry Kelsey.
same
SAMEEE
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING
Yup
SAMEE
"Not gay enough for the heterosexual community and not straight enough for the straight community." So true. I still haven't come out to my ultra conservative family and I've been dating girls since I was 15. I just don't tell them about my girlfriends and pretend to be single and then I tell them about my boyfriends and pretend to be straight. It sucks because I'm 100% sure I lied girls more than guys but I'm worried about literally being completely shunned by my family.
I hope you're doing well! :)
I'm bi too and my family is also conservative. I also just don't tell them about girlfriends, because my view on it is that I don't need their approval, so I'm not fighting for it. I know I love being bi.
We support you❤️
Same
Homosexual not hetero that means straight
"Bye"...get it...like "good-bi"?? ;D Eh, eh? Mom, plz don't disown me--
they missed a golden opportunity for a pun right there
I don't bi it.
Haha😂😂😂
I don't understand how you get bi in life...
To bi or not to bi, that is the question..
Also, I have identified as bi for over 20 years now. At what point do I get to feel like people believe me when I say "it's not a phase"? I'm not "undecided"!
Beatnik yeah my friend she asked me one day we were texting and she was like how did I know and I told her and she was like its probably just a phase and I'm like its not. I found out I was bi in elementary im in middle now so if it was a phase it would probably be over now.
I’m currently on a everyday strugle where I Go from “What if I’m a Lesbian” to “What if I’m full straight?” Because I like butch wommen and I keep unvalidating my bisexuality
make an episode with someone asexual! :) the awareness of asexuals is still soo little :(
You're right!
That would be amazing. I'm ace and I feel practically invisible.
what are asaexuels
well, being a doesn't mean you don't want a relationship or fall in love. and if you fall in love with a heterosexual, that's how it is. it's probably not the easiest, but it can work.
I want to see someone on here that is Demisexual.
tbh I think i have a crush on Jen
i need help
Same.
How old is Jen?
22??
She graduated from college 2015 I think.
Crazy Kat im not sure
im sure she is in her 20's though
iBeFloe probably
same here
Being bisexual is the best thing. You literally have twice the potential partners than any straight or gay. I wish I was a bi.
you actually have fewer because so many people are reluctant to date someone who's bisexual
+The Procatstinator Even better. You have all the open minded people. :I
I'm probably way pickier than my straight or gay friends. Go experiment, you might be bi, you never know.
no, most people dont want someone bisexual because they might get tired of (example, they're a bisexual female dating a guy) they might get tired of a man and want a female and will leave you.
...wow. that is literally the most ignorant thing i've heard. if i'm gonna break up with someone, it's not gonna be because i feel like dating another gender. that's not how it works. this is doing nothing but encouraging the myth that bi people are more likely to cheat which isn't true at all
why is jen's smile so cuttteeee😍😍😍
why is JEN so cuttteeeeeeeee
my weird emo life cuz Jen is cute
because we cant has her
Yesss
Yaass
I'm bisexual and terrified of coming out
Sometimes it's easier to come out to strangers than those close to you.
Thats two of us!
Been there. Not easy but don't be afraid.
It gets better as time goes on. :)
It sucks honestly, I live in the Philippines with a very Catholic parents and friends. I also study in a, yet again, Catholic university.
I came out as bi few months ago. Its absolutely terrifying, yet I am free to be me. Other people will just have to deal with it! Don't ever apologize for who you are :)
is it bad that I ship them?
No! They'd be so cute together!
omg yasss
#Jendan 😂😂😂
dude it's shipping everything is bad when you ship but we love it an still do it
I ship Jen with everyone because i love her lmao
I knew I was bi because I liked girls and boys. Isn't that how everyone knew?
Everyone comes to the realization in their own time, in their own way.
it took me until my last year of high school to figure out I was asexual. Other people take longer for their orientations.
nope. my family was religious and I was taught being gay was impossible. i was in denial my whole childhood and I had an obsession with girls and their beauty . I eventually gave up with lying to myself because I was constantly fantasizing and dreaming about other girls. I'm now in a loyal relationship of 2 years with a guy.
+LimeSkittles Your story is intresting, I hope you're happy ♡
I felt attracted to girls like I was attracted to guys when I was in middle school and beginning high school, but I didn't really think anything of it until I thought about it one day. For a while I didn't even really know what being bisexual was and when I learned I realized that I'm bi.
I'm watching this in my closet.
SavageKoala FTW I do that all the time, I used to have like snacks and everything in there, now it's just blankets and pillows 😂
Currently me right know, it’s about to be 2am. It’s safe in here isn’t.....?
Saaame
OMG YES JEN HAS A SHOW NOW YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
How did I know : Watching Jen videos lmao
now talk about pansexual people
YEESSS!!!
yes, I would like that
Yes, that would be amazing!
what's pansexual?
+beyonce fuii its when u like everyone like trans, gender neutral, girl and guy etc
For someone that identifies as pansexual, I say I'm gay a lot
actually same
yo armeh!!!!!!!1
always a pleasure to find a fellow queer army, HI FRIEND
Same and army^-^
Same and army^-^
I know I'm bi because I question myself if I "like" the leader of my class once. I know I am. She's a cute girl. But I also like the classmate who's a boy. That's my story.
ching yi lin Im asexual cause I hate all girls im not attracted to them nor boys.
If you're not sure you like that girl, you are not essentially bi.Try not to label yourself and just let life flow
+Ioana Styles Thank you for the opinion. :)
One of the hardest things about being bisexual is when those in your own community, the LGBT community, doesn't take your sexuality seriously. It's even harder being a male bisexual. People are so convinced that I'm still confused. Getting that at the age of 21 is quite annoying to say the least.
ikr?! so annoying. It seems more difficult for male bisexuals... have you seen Onision's #proudtobe hate comments video?? its...interesting to say the least
It's not easier being a female bi tho. I'm turning 32 this year and some people tell me that it's just a phase for the fact that I realised my gayness or I wold say my bi-ness when I was close to the 30th year of mine. I know it might be a bit late to figure out myself at this point but better late than never, isn't it?
Thank you.
being a bi guy is really hard. I feel like I'm not masculine enough for girls.
I'm bi too and my old friends, who are in the LGBT+ community, basically told me that I'm "less gay" than them because I've only been in relationships with the opposite gender... -_-
YAS JEN HAS A SHOW
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being bi isn't gay enough for the LGBT community? the lesbian gay BISEXUAL transgender community. what??
go to a pride and see how (usually) white cis gay men treat bisexuals. i will never go to any sort of pride event because i'm legitimately afraid of what my own community would do to me. i know plenty of bi men and women who have been spit on, told that pride wasn't for them, and one of them almost got beat up.
Even tho we're in the acronym we often get overlooked or not taken seriously. LGBT is an umbrella term for not-straight/not-cisgender but sometimes does not focus on the B or the T as much. Like Jordan said we're seen as not gay enough or not straight enough. Also alot of lesbians or gay men come out as bisexual before fully coming out so some don't think it exists. They think you're just too scared to come out. which is not the case. Bisexuality is real and valid on its own.
Then maybe they should take BISEXUAL out of LGBT
+The Procatstinator True. I've had gay men harass me about my bisexuality before.
or we could, you know, start treating bisexuals better
I am pan........ 'hearts before parts'
Minecraft Unicorn
Love that phrase
Roblox Unicorn YEEEEEEE, that phrase is adorable
YASS
*We're Pantastic*
What's the difference between pan and bi?
I can already tell that this is gonna be a good series XD
It'll be fun.
|-/ hi clique (-:
+Band Trash |-/ hi fren :)
+Maya's AYYYYYY HEY CLIQUE
I love your thumbnail nail
I love Jen, she's so funny and awesome. And this video is really great, I identify as bisexual which was difficult for me to kinda realize or, well not coming out, maybe more like convince myself to be honest. I dated a lot of guys and drowned myself emotionally so I didn't have to 'deal' with my feelings for girls as well. Which was obviously very easy for me because I liked guys as well. Recently I have overcome that in my life and after coming out I feel much more relieved. All of my friends were totally cool with it, I even gained some new friends thru the lgbt community. My dad didn't like it, he ignores that part of me and I've never brought a girl home so how I ignored that part of me for so long before he does that now. But everyone is different and I think that coming out should b something praised and maybe even later down the line it won't b something that people have to 'come out'. It'll just b a question to get to know someone like "what's ur favorite color"
wow lots of words, holy crap
OH MY GOD AND I DIDNT EVEN SWEAR
THAT LAST COMMENT WAS SO RELATABLE HAHAH and that last statement in your big comment is really true, like how at my friend's school people ask what's your pronouns when they get to know you
lol, I don't know if I'm even in the closet
+Nicole Goutman same I've been throwing out hints on musically that I'm Polysexual and idk if people r taking hints although I haven't come out on my channel so shhhhh
My friends: what is it like being bi?
Me: it’s complicated
I'm bi and I use gay/straight the way a biracial person uses there races
Their
i like this, but as a bi person who is technically half white and half black.... i dont exactly get to call myself a white woman ukno? i agree with the idea of this like i use the terms gay and straight like that too if im understanding what ur saying....but if i went out anywhere and called myself a white woman people would think that im out of my mind.
+Chyna Bryan That's a good point. I guess that's kinda the way bi people tend to talk about themselves too, like how calling themselves gay isn't usually that weird, but calling themselves straight would seem wrong.
+Morgan Phillips That's exactly how I do it tbh. I would sometimes refer to myself or the things I do as "gay", but I'd never call myself "straight". Maybe because gay is used as an umbrella term sometimes or it's just my inner desire to be a full part of the community even though some people think I only belong there if I date a woman. I also do it because saying "I'm so gay" sounds better than "I'm so bi".
+Gabby Mynarcik! hello I am a bisexual male I would like to meet you
I thought I was straight but now I'm literally questioning everything
Threesweetbrownies
You might be bi or pan
I’m bi
Who cares who you want to love, I don't. -Fellow Atheist
Also what a pointless video.
last time I checked you don't choose who you love but okay.
Haha you don't? You just love random people?
+BigSqueeGG I wish I could choose who I love. I have a crush on my best friend lmao
BigSqueeGG love is something that occurs, you don't choose love. also i would appreciate if you don't call me cuntlyn thanks.
Im almost 27 years old. Growing up ive always felt like a lesbian. Everyone knew at school and i told my parents i thought i was too. Ive always felt different from other girls since i was 5. The best way i can explain the feeling is as if I wasnt on the same "level" as other girls. When play time came i would go play with boys, and the girls would all play with other girls. I didnt like girly things and was a total tomboy until high school. I felt a pull towards other girls since i was little but didnt know what it meant. I did not choose it, it's just a part of my being and something ive felt within myself for a long time. No child chooses to be/feel different in kindergarten. I never felt attracted to boys like other girls did growing up. So, I identify as a lesbian up until 10th grade i have my first relationship with a boy. We were friends first but i felt more than a friendship connection at the time and he did too. I thought i was in love with him, and was heartbroken when he broke up with me. So after everyone says im Bi and i deny it. 10 years go by and there have been other men i have been interested in, even though i am not attracted to men. I am capable of dating men eventhough im not attracted to them. Most lesbians will tell you there's no way they could be with a man, and have no interest in them at all. I feel as if my sexuality is on a scale. Im definitely not straight, but not quite gay either..im in between with a leaning towards women, therefore i am Bi.
Aye I'm pansexual
pan club
same.
What is pan sexual?
when u like anybody straight or from the lgtq community
+Khai (exe) Being attracted to all types of people, not just male and female. Like being attracted to trans peeps and stuff. So great at explaining 😂😂
Is everyone on buzzfeed either gay or bi????
No
+Pesco There's actually plenty of straight people.
Ned is straight...and always talks about his wife....😹😹😹
+ikAEmmA ALWAYS.
+ikAEmmA it's not a buzzfeed video if Ned doesn't mention his wife
I don't know what to comment about.
same
Yeah I came to the video then I relised I dont care about any of this at all.
+Morgan Cook *realized
+Jazzy Cakes realised
+Mew Ace *realized
The hing I hate most is when I'm in a relationship with a guy and my gay friends get mad because I'm not gay and I'm just like, "IM SORRY THAT A MAN MAKES ME HAPPY"
interesting 😲
Jesus she has big arms i feel weak
And yo think that's pure muscle?
I mean she does CrossFit like crazzzzy and she has a yt channel
Oh ok. I mean she definetly doesnt look weak
I came out to my family. They didn't believe me. They think it's a phase that's magically going to change once I'm suddenly "old enough" to know. As if they didn't know they were straight at 16!
I LOVE THIS NEW SERIES. MORE JEN, MORE JEN!!!
A soul crushing moment is when you have a crush is when you fall for your best friend, you have known each other for years, told each other every secret, besides this one. You watch them fall in love with someone else and you heart aches. Everytime you see them, you think: why can't I just tell them, why?
Jen playing truth or gay trying to get some action
AND NEVER DID I THINK THAT I
WOULD BE CAUGHT UP IN THE WAY YOU GOT ME
'CAUSE
(carry it on p!atd fam)
GIRLS LOVE GIRLS AND BOYS AND LOVE IS NOT A CHOICE
+Anina Black POSE,YOU GOTTA SAVE YOUR REPUTATION,THEY'RE SO CLOSE,TO FINDING OUT ABOUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND
BUT IF YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND YOU KNOW WHERE I AM
GIRLS LOVE GIRLS AND BOYS
AND LOVE IS NOT A CHOICE
I'm so bi but I know my conservative mom won't accept me😭
😂
*😭
Same except I live with my grandmother and I have no other place to go... so I don't really have a choice😭
Fire her.
+Saltmeister Shut up keemstar
I LOVE JEN SO MUCH SHES TOO ADORABLE AND SQUISHY AND GAY AND ITS SO NICE
I THINK IM BI BUT I HAVENT DATED ANYONE YET 😭
that's fine if you ever date a girl/guy and realize you aren't into it there's no shame in changing your label your as long as your happy that's all that matters
How do straight people know they're straight as kids with no dating or sexual experience? Same with us. You don't have to know right away.
It's okay! You are still valid and part of the LG*B*TQ community, don't let anyone say otherwise!
Same but idk if I would just use bi as an umbrella term for maybe say biromantic (for me at least) because I've had crushes on some of my very close girl friends and think that girls are attractive but I've never felt the "fvck her" part of be her or fvck her. It's all so complicated rn I might just leave it alone for now and say I'm straight until I feel otherwise ¯\(ツ)/¯
Thanks, I needed it in words
JEN HAS HER OWN SHOW???? QUEEN
Can you put Amandaschronichles on this with Jen
YEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
this is the best idea ever
YES I NEED THAT I LOVE AMANDA SO MUCH
Yes omg!!
TwentyFiveSecondsOf ReptilianCrybabiesAtTheDisco! YES
How I found out I was bi was when I liked this girlhood worked at the pool as a lifeguard. I knew I liked guys but I felt weird towards here. One day I dragged her into the water with me and I took her underwater with me and I kissed her. I told my friends and they declared me bisexual. I thought about and I was like "ok I'm bi now".
* girl who
What happened with that girl?? O_o
I am a little confused. Being bisexual doesn´t mean you like boys and girls? I thought liking boys, girls and other genders fits in the pansexual category. That´s why "bi", because.... Two.
Each person will define their own sexuality a little different, but usually bisexuality is defined as "attraction to two or more genders" or "attraction to the same gender and other genders". Both of those incorporate two, but aren't exactly just "boys and girls".
Only Boys and Girls - Bi
Boys, Girls and Other Genders - Pan
Bisexual means that you're attracted to two or more genders. Pansexuality is when you are attracted to everyone regardless of gender.
For example, a bi person can be attracted to only boys and girls, or they could be attracted to nonbinary people and girls but not boys, etc etc. some bi people could identify as pan but choose bisexual instead.
+emma lorcan lindqvist I see. Thanks!
I knew, because Hermione. And Harry. Both.
im holosexual
omg me to
All the holo.
And I'm #yolosexual
Omg yassss
Same
"If someone tells you who they are, believe them." No one ever believes me it sucks
I say this:
If you like a girl, go get her. If you like a boy, go get him. I feel as if you like a girl, but would be good with a boy, then you do you. None is stopping you, be Brendon Urie for all I care! Just be who you wanna be. ;)
Oh my god!
When they say "welcome to the Closet" it's referring to the beginning of your queer travels, and at the end they say "it's time to come out of the closet" like after all this info you are ready, or something.
Are you picking up what I'm putting down?
Olivia Baldwin I dropped it.
Hey, I'm only 12 but I think im a lesbian. Will my parents take me seriously? I'm afraid that they'll think that im not old enough to decide that. Help
If you don't think your safe yet, don't endanger yourself by coming out. It can be a pain, but it's better for you if you're at risk. That being said, if you approach your parents sincerely, they should take it sincerely. As for your age, it doesn't really matter even if they don't believe you, because when your older you may still identify as a lesbian, and that should be more than enough proof for them, I think.
ImHatingHard Thank you very much :). I've scoured many sites and all over RUclips and I haven't quite found an answer, but you have given me a pretty reasonable one. Thank you.
skele No problem! I wish you luck!
skele Same except bi
skele Im asexual I dont like girls nor guys
"I'm a lesboon"
*me coming out to literally everyone in my family*
(I'm awkward)
i'm pansexual.
i'm low key attracted to pans.
Pans are pretty hot tho
^see what I did there
Pancake sexual?
"i'm lesboon" Jen is adorable
Should I come out as bi? Btw, I'm 13. I really need support at this time, so please help me.
Same
You should If you can't pick which gender you prefer.
what are your parents opinion on the lgbtq+ community? I mean it is pride month so you can easily just slip that into a convo if you don't know what your parents think. like you could say "hey the pride parade looks so cool, what do you guys think" make sure your parents are like relaxed at the time and chilled, don't I repeat DONT approach when they are stressed/busy. if they seem supportive give it a few months and ask yourself "do I accept myself for being (in your case) bi?" ask that over and over you want to be 110% positive that you're ready. if your parents seem not supportive of the lgbtq+ community give it time. i'd say a year or two and during that time build a relationship with them, get to know them and be comfortable around them. worst case possible you'll have to wait till your in collage/uni where you're already a legal adult and have a place to stay if your parents decide to (heaven forbid) kick you out/temporarily remove you from their life. best of luck xx
if you need any more advice feel free to reply asking questions, I can only fit so much in a comment haha xx
If you are unsure which gender you like then you definitely should
*shy‚ bi‚ and ready to cry*
This is so weird, because my name is also Jordan and I'm also bi
I FOUND MY BI CRYBABY FAM 💦🍼👶🏼👏🏻😍
+Mabel Pines Where is my prescription, Doctor, doctor please listen
Omg that's too good 😂
I am also Jordan and Bi lol
***** this is so weird
Fell for my male best friend after breaking up with my girlfriend. I suspected, but wasn't sure, that I was bisexual long before that.
sounds complicated. did you ever tell him?
angela g I did, and it's been a few years, but our friendship is stronger than ever, although we never dated, since he's straight, and I never really acted on those feelings.
Jen is my favourite person on the planet
well i dunno... im kinda on the fence between her, Eugene and my best friend
Proud bisexual right here
Me: **comes out of the closet**
Me: **trips**
"When someone tells you who they are, believe them!"
I am a waffle maker.
So if bi is liking two different genders, is pan liking all genders? If so, what is omnisexual?
Martin Schmidt bi is basically just people that are born either male or female, pans includes transgenders, transvestites, unisexuals, (? Is that the word?) etc
omnisexual=Captain Jack Harkness
Martin Schmidt omnisexual is liking all genders equally, pan can be one gender more than others
Omnisexual and pansexual are the same thing. One is Greek and one is Latin.
Martin Schmidt Pan is not taking gender into account, whereas omni is liking all genders.
I'm not bisexual, I'm gay but I have friends that are bi and if they have a girlfriend, someone will say "oh you're gay" and they so "I'm bi" and they're like "if you're going out with the same gender that makes you gay" like no, they're still bi.
Welcome me back into the closet??? no thanks!!! been out for 6 years
I love this series already
i agree. because im married to a man, i feel like im not "gay enough" or just "not gay" even though i know that i am. i cant help who im attracted to and i cant help who i love. i still think that alot of people think that bisexual, means youre just indecisive or want to be "interesting" and that bisexual isnt a real sexual orientation
So I came across this recently, and it's kinda weird tbh. I originally found this video the first day I found out I was 'bi.' I remember waking up and crying for almost an hour but then found this (I grew up with a christian family, and at the time I was too, so I Ifelt really guilt about it) and it had helped calm me down. After months of confusion, I had finally come to tersm with the fact that I'm actually a lesbian. It's been two years now, and not only am I happy and comfortable with my sexuality, I've also been in a relationship with an amazing girl for over a year. I'm not sure why I decided to share this, ig I just felt really nostalgic and it's kinda nice seeing how much I've changed
I'm thirteen and I'm lesbian but I haven't came out to any of my friends: what do I do
wait till it feels right and tell a close friend.
Thank you I'll take your advice😆
honestly you don't need to tell them if you dont want to, like, your sexuality does not define you :) like if they're asking you if a guy is hot etc, just explain that you don't really like guys etc. Young people can be very very cruel and may be shocked by your orientation but true friends won't care at all.
well im late but if you dont want to make it a big deal you can just caually "come out" (you can think of ways) or just bring your girlfriend and be like "Hey this is my girlfriend". anyways, no one is automatically straight, you "come out" when you're ready
Same but am 10 and bi. Help plz. P.S my parents are homophobic so I ain't coming out any time soon
I wish I knew whether I'm lesbian or bi. '-'
Same idk what I am and I'm 14
Don't worry. There's no deadline for when you have to figure it out.
Don't worry you'll figure it out
that's what experimenting is for! learn from any mistakes and don't forget to have fun while ur at it
i mean there is always being pansexual.
JEN IS THE BEST THEREFORE THIS IS THE BEST
@ 0:20 loved the Detroit T shirt!!! Much love from the D!!!
holosexual🙋
Tumblr sexualities dont count
+Izumi Yoshida wow, I don't think you get it...
YAASS!😂
+TheREDHeadPower simply nailogical
yaaaaaaaas
Girls/Girls/Boys (p!atd)
Girls like girls (Hayley kiyIFORGOT)
Heaven (Troye Sivan)
Just some recommendations for da peeps
It’s Hayley kiyoko
"what if I was gay"
that's how I would wanna discover myself
A lot of people also assume I'm straight. I'm bi, only about 5-6 people know. I found out when I found feelings for a friend of mine
yep.I am in the closet... and bisexual.. living in a strictly Christian household...
I am understand that. But I don't know my sexuality yet..
save the lady(or man)for when you move out. if you are interested in your gender I would date casually to avoid any hurt or angry feelings. I can't speak for all Christians or your family but I wouldn't see you any differently. if you are young... why not take dating slow? there are plenty of fish in the sea. just because friends do it doesn't mean you need to. I you are an adult.... do what you think would please God.... but don't make yourself date someone if you aren't truly interested...
ALSO.... your family should love you know matter what.
this coming from a Christian....then again I don't even know you...
BUT WHAT DO I KNOW I'm 12😅😆
oh yeah and don't think all Christians hate gay or bi peeps...
:( Don't know you but If you want someone to talk to hmu
Same
Same...