Your words bring hope to my soul! I dearly love my wife of 43 years. Decades ago, we both strongly believed that God prepared us for each other and that He brought us together from half a world apart but now she has left, gone silent for nearly a year, and is pursuing divorce. This has crushed me, flat on the floor, but God has shown me in several distinct ways - one of them irrefutable and miraculous - that He wants us back together. I am filled with hope! Thank you for your sweet and gentle words! 🙏😊
Thank you Jesus for this message I needed to hear this morning. 🙏🏼 Been standing for 6mo and he just moved out. Sometimes I get discouraged, but God is not letting me give up. I know he is moving. Thank you for your words of encouragement and for reminding us who we are.
I’m experiencing this exact thing right now. I’ve been gaslit, emasculated, and projected on for years. She then leaves me and tells me and everyone else that I’m the emotional abuser. There’s nothing worse than being the victim of emotional abuse and then being blamed for it! The one thing I would mention is that it’s impossible to forgive and forget. Hurts can last forever. The true measure of forgiveness is that the anger associated with the hurt goes away. Forgiveness takes one day, healing can take a lifetime. God bless and please pray for my wife/marriage.
💚💜💚LORD I THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME COME ACROSS THIS MESSAGE 🙏🏾LORD I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR MY HUSBAND TO RETURN . GOD YOU ARE AMAZING FOR THIS WORD . I APPRECIATE YOU FOR LETTING GOD USE YOU💚🙏🏾I AM AT MY DESK AT WORK CRYING BECAUSE THIS HAS TOUCHED MY SPIRIT 🙏🏾THANK YOU SO MUCH 💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER ♥️🔥🩸
Thank you so much for message. My wife out of the blue took the kids and left after being gone for three weeks, her father passed away and she went to Italy to be with her sisters and mother. She cut off all ties with me, changed her phone number. My oldest daughter graduate high school and I wasn’t invited. I stay away to avoid the kids suffering. I continue to support her financially. I am struggling to know why someone of 20 years can go this far. I did not see it coming. I pray God changes her heart. We love each other, we pray together even woke in the middle of the night to pray on the kids. I am standing on the words of God for restoration. Like you said she is dealing with her own demon and God is at work on both side. I am also spending a lot time with God. Please 🙏🏾 add me on your prayers Thanks
@@jeantomte6774 yes I will be praying for you and yes you continue to as well. Yes she is dealing with her demons and all you can do is help pray. God sees your heart and he will take care of you
Thank you so much for you video! I have been praying and meditating all day. My husband of five year and 9 years relationship told me he’s thinking about divorcing me. I have three young children and I am an adoptee. I felt abandonment and betrayal. But, Praying to God made me more at ease and seeing that this isn’t the end of our story. Thank you for confirmation. Have a lovely week
All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen. May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name, Amen. May Almighty God grant you the desires of your heart in Christ Jesus' name, Amen
I am so grateful to have these video's. I know my Sarah is not aware of my prayers for her, night and day, but I feel changes beginning to happen. I've never been as close to any other person on Earth as her, and I know she was made for me and I was made for her before God even created the world, so I feel what is taking place. God is leading me, the Holy Spirit is leading me, and I have the most unique opportunity in the world by being in David's cave, on a family piece of land that is remote and I'm not being asked for anything, now. I am relying on God's timing, completely, and the Holy Spirit has told me it won't be much longer because of my fervent prayers and what He has done to bring me this far. Praise Jesus. Amen.
The things you said happened between you and your husband are happening now, but I want to spend all my time with him. It hurts so bad. How do I stay strong and not feel lonely when I am not around my husband.
wow....I heard all the same things from my wife....doesnt even sound like her. I let go and let God and pray all the time for her, and love her anyway. :)
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907I am currently feeling this way as well some days are good and some are bad but I push through and holding on to what he said about my marriage I also decided to get out of God's way and let him work because I realized that when ever I try to fix it it just blows up
I needed to flee from my husband who abused our three daughters snd me. That instant he moved in with someone else and rushed a divorce from me, accusing me of leaving him and taking his children from him. He said it was all my doing… I abused him. He blocked our children saying they ruin his day when he heard from them. He moved on….. I am left with broken children who have ptsd and nothing else…. He spent all of the money we had…. When he texts me, he threatens to sue me…. He said he waited for years and he is tired of waiting…… I just pray fir the dear God to give me protection and strength and to make me the best person I can be and the best mum ti my beloved daughters….
Obedience is better than sacrifice, but sometimes the sacrifice is the odebience... I miss him so much rn. Took 7month to actually let go.. many arguements. He wouldn't repent and renounce his sin. I feel so conflicted in my emotions..im struggling to pray. Feeling numb on the outside & emotionally tottering. I can see the purpose more clearly of this process..enough to not chase. But it's a different kinda heartbreak frfr. I just seek as much encouragement as i can..cause i feel...😢 yeh..
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, please pray for the healing and restoration of my marriage. please come into agreement with me for my Chinese Buddhist wife's salvation. Her name is Tao. Please pray that God will turn her heart of stone into a heart of flesh and that she will forgive me of my past mistakes in our marriage. please pray that she will love me again and come home. Pray God will make me the man he intends on me being for his glory. Please pray for us both to be a testimony of God's loving grace and mercy. in Christ Jesus love, thank you. Toby 🙏 🙏 🙏
I do agree emotional abuse can be worse women are the number emotional abusers cuz they're use their words and belittle gas light and bait... and a man in retaliation sometimes use his Advantage would be physical abuse ,when I hear a lot of people say she just was talking, you jumped on her butt in this video, I hear the truth the emotional abuse can sometimes be worse.... I am not speaking on her case but I'm glad she told the truth about the subject ain't giving advice on it.. And I'm not speaking from the position of an abuser more so the person that was getting baited... and was told I was a passive Punk for not doing it...
How were you protecting your heart from his insults and emotional abuse? I find it very hard to recover from them… I can’t eat nor sleep.. this is why I can’t communicate with him although I want to..
To be honest it was all God, I had to ask for strength through it all! When you stay grounded with God there is nothing they can say or do that will break your spirit.
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Your words bring hope to my soul! I dearly love my wife of 43 years. Decades ago, we both strongly believed that God prepared us for each other and that He brought us together from half a world apart but now she has left, gone silent for nearly a year, and is pursuing divorce. This has crushed me, flat on the floor, but God has shown me in several distinct ways - one of them irrefutable and miraculous - that He wants us back together. I am filled with hope!
Thank you for your sweet and gentle words! 🙏😊
Awww you are so welcome! I will be praying for your marriage to be restored!
Thank you Jesus for this message I needed to hear this morning. 🙏🏼 Been standing for 6mo and he just moved out. Sometimes I get discouraged, but God is not letting me give up. I know he is moving. Thank you for your words of encouragement and for reminding us who we are.
You are so welcome and thank you for listening 🤗
I’m experiencing this exact thing right now. I’ve been gaslit, emasculated, and projected on for years. She then leaves me and tells me and everyone else that I’m the emotional abuser. There’s nothing worse than being the victim of emotional abuse and then being blamed for it! The one thing I would mention is that it’s impossible to forgive and forget. Hurts can last forever. The true measure of forgiveness is that the anger associated with the hurt goes away. Forgiveness takes one day, healing can take a lifetime. God bless and please pray for my wife/marriage.
Yes healing can take along time, but continue to trust God and let him guide you. Pray that your wife will have a change of heart.
💚💜💚LORD I THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME COME ACROSS THIS MESSAGE 🙏🏾LORD I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR MY HUSBAND TO RETURN . GOD YOU ARE AMAZING FOR THIS WORD . I APPRECIATE YOU FOR LETTING GOD USE YOU💚🙏🏾I AM AT MY DESK AT WORK CRYING BECAUSE THIS HAS TOUCHED MY SPIRIT 🙏🏾THANK YOU SO MUCH 💜🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER ♥️🔥🩸
Hi Janice you are so welcome and yes I will be praying for you
Please pray for my husband Brandon and his healing and restoration there is some mental illness that blocking restoration.
I definitely will pray for him.
Thank you!
Thank you so much for message. My wife out of the blue took the kids and left after being gone for three weeks, her father passed away and she went to Italy to be with her sisters and mother. She cut off all ties with me, changed her phone number. My oldest daughter graduate high school and I wasn’t invited. I stay away to avoid the kids suffering. I continue to support her financially. I am struggling to know why someone of 20 years can go this far. I did not see it coming. I pray God changes her heart. We love each other, we pray together even woke in the middle of the night to pray on the kids. I am standing on the words of God for restoration. Like you said she is dealing with her own demon and God is at work on both side. I am also spending a lot time with God. Please 🙏🏾 add me on your prayers Thanks
@@jeantomte6774 yes I will be praying for you and yes you continue to as well. Yes she is dealing with her demons and all you can do is help pray. God sees your heart and he will take care of you
@@jeantomte6774sorry to hear this 🙏🏾 anything change?
Im so thankful that God brought these videos to my feed! These are so timely, praise God!
Amen! Lord, please bring my family back together so I can raise my boys in a Godly home. As for me & my house, we will serve the Lord.
Amen! keep praying and claiming
So on time. I sure needed this, when my spouse just said what statements of blaming me.
sending hugs your way 🤗
Amen, thanks for the encouragement 🙏🏼 May God bless you.I always pray for us,the standers cause Its not easy being a stander.
Charlene you are so welcome! yes it is a journey and not easy. stay encouraged 🤗
Yes I get blamed for everything
sending hugs your way!
Thank you so much for you video! I have been praying and meditating all day. My husband of five year and 9 years relationship told me he’s thinking about divorcing me. I have three young children and I am an adoptee. I felt abandonment and betrayal. But, Praying to God made me more at ease and seeing that this isn’t the end of our story. Thank you for confirmation. Have a lovely week
You're welcome, yes keep praying and speaking your marriage back to life!
All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen.
May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name, Amen.
May Almighty God grant you the desires of your heart in Christ Jesus' name, Amen
PRAISE THE LORD 🙌 THANK YOU JESUS...AMEN 🙏
I am so grateful to have these video's. I know my Sarah is not aware of my prayers for her, night and day, but I feel changes beginning to happen. I've never been as close to any other person on Earth as her, and I know she was made for me and I was made for her before God even created the world, so I feel what is taking place. God is leading me, the Holy Spirit is leading me, and I have the most unique opportunity in the world by being in David's cave, on a family piece of land that is remote and I'm not being asked for anything, now. I am relying on God's timing, completely, and the Holy Spirit has told me it won't be much longer because of my fervent prayers and what He has done to bring me this far. Praise Jesus. Amen.
Amen
Pray for my husband! Something is going on internally and he’s not willing to do counseling or to even try. I won’t give up on this marriage
Don't give up pray and ask God to change your husbands mind.
Totally what I’m dealing with 😬
Yes! The blame game is so real, but remember it's not you, it's them
The things you said happened between you and your husband are happening now, but I want to spend all my time with him. It hurts so bad. How do I stay strong and not feel lonely when I am not around my husband.
Amen
Can you help me pray for them, I am asking for Brayden to receive Jesus Christ as lord and savior 🙏 thank you for any prayers
sending prayers your way
wow....I heard all the same things from my wife....doesnt even sound like her. I let go and let God and pray all the time for her, and love her anyway. :)
Help me do this lord ❤️🙏this battle is yours.
I definitely needed this…standing is hard but I’m so ready to give up on it and move on!!
yes it is not easy, but if you believe God can change any situation
@@astandersjourneytomarriage4907I am currently feeling this way as well some days are good and some are bad but I push through and holding on to what he said about my marriage I also decided to get out of God's way and let him work because I realized that when ever I try to fix it it just blows up
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen Maranatha ❤ I receive in the Holy name of Yeshua HaMachiach...!
I needed to flee from my husband who abused our three daughters snd me. That instant he moved in with someone else and rushed a divorce from me, accusing me of leaving him and taking his children from him. He said it was all my doing… I abused him. He blocked our children saying they ruin his day when he heard from them. He moved on….. I am left with broken children who have ptsd and nothing else…. He spent all of the money we had…. When he texts me, he threatens to sue me…. He said he waited for years and he is tired of waiting……
I just pray fir the dear God to give me protection and strength and to make me the best person I can be and the best mum ti my beloved daughters….
sending hugs your way! yes continue to pray and ask God for strength and protection and healing over you and your children!
Obedience is better than sacrifice, but sometimes the sacrifice is the odebience...
I miss him so much rn. Took 7month to actually let go.. many arguements. He wouldn't repent and renounce his sin. I feel so conflicted in my emotions..im struggling to pray. Feeling numb on the outside & emotionally tottering. I can see the purpose more clearly of this process..enough to not chase. But it's a different kinda heartbreak frfr. I just seek as much encouragement as i can..cause i feel...😢 yeh..
Keep praying! The journey is rough but God change any situation
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,
please pray for the healing and restoration of my marriage. please come into agreement with me for my Chinese Buddhist wife's salvation. Her name is Tao. Please pray that God will turn her heart of stone into a heart of flesh and that she will forgive me of my past mistakes in our marriage. please pray that she will love me again and come home.
Pray God will make me the man he intends on me being for his glory. Please pray for us both to be a testimony of God's loving grace and mercy.
in Christ Jesus love, thank you.
Toby
🙏 🙏 🙏
Yes : ( they blamed me, thank you’re this message so much!!!!
you're welcome
Ty ❤️
you're welcome
Thank you🙏🏽
I do agree emotional abuse can be worse women are the number emotional abusers cuz they're use their words and belittle gas light and bait... and a man in retaliation sometimes use his Advantage would be physical abuse ,when I hear a lot of people say she just was talking, you jumped on her butt in this video, I hear the truth the emotional abuse can sometimes be worse.... I am not speaking on her case but I'm glad she told the truth about the subject ain't giving advice on it..
And I'm not speaking from the position of an abuser more so the person that was getting baited... and was told I was a passive Punk for not doing it...
How were you protecting your heart from his insults and emotional abuse? I find it very hard to recover from them… I can’t eat nor sleep.. this is why I can’t communicate with him although I want to..
To be honest it was all God, I had to ask for strength through it all! When you stay grounded with God there is nothing they can say or do that will break your spirit.
What if I don't want him to return? Would that be walking in disobedience?
It depends on the situation! certain situations are valid for leaving
Hi, is there a way to communicate with you privately?
Hi you can email me astandersjourney@gmail.com
How do I talk to u one on one pls
Hi you can email me astandersjourney@gmail.com
Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏