So what are your thoughts on a chick who always respond, will always hang out if you ask; but on average waits 24hrs to respond to you? (Even though she used to not wait 24hrs....)
Overwatch Philosophy either she gets a lot of texts from others so she has to get through everyone before you, or she doesn’t check her texts a lot (my ex used to never check her phone, and she was always on do not disturb) she might also just wanna handout if she’s bored and she sees you just as a friend, meaning she answers you late because your not as important to her.
I know this is going to sound super cliche... but the trick is Don't Chase ; Just Replace. A gambler doesn't place all of his money on one number and then hope for the best.
i'm surprised he didnt advise that.the fact that youre even following up a text cos she didnt reply already shows neediness and women love that shit , makes them have power over you.
Excellent advice. Never invest too much into any one woman. You never know what they will do or how they feel about you. I can remember spending almost an hour chatting up one woman a couple of months ago. We exchanged numbers, agreed to a date, etc. When I reached out to her a couple of days later, she totally ignored me. Ridiculous.
How to deal with girls who don’t answer your texts: don’t deal with them. If you genuinely believe you’re good option, a guy with high value, then you won’t put up with girls who don’t answer positively to you. You won’t chase after girls. You will just look for other girls. For example, do you think that Dan Bilzerian deals with women who don’t answer him? Lol You may say you’re not Dan Bilzerian but that doesn’t change the attitude you should have.
This is wrong. As a guy you go after what you want and you're persistent. Your reation indicates getting butthurt easily and that you tie your self esteem to how people respond to you.
Perfectly stated. I wish all men realized this. If Leo DiCaprio or Liam Hemsworth texted these women and offered to take them out on a date, they'd jump at the opportunity. They'd respond with a 'YES' instantaneoulsy and would rearrange their entire schedules to accommodate them. Men need to stop believing these bogus excuses that women come up with.
Took much texting kills attraction. You should give the girl some time and space to think about you. Texting should be kept at a minimum because essentially the phone should be used to set up the date
@@d00di619 man this is so damn true, texting fucking kills attraction. That's why im not texting or sending her snaps as i used to before. Only wanna talk to her face to face
just your average girl here, getting a sneak peak on what's inside the mind of a guy. i agree with you, completely. within the first 50 SECONDS of this video, it is glaringly obvious that Todd's only true goal is the get into a girl's pants. Not her heart, mind, or interests. (i hope he doesn't find this response, but WHAT AN ASS!!!)
It’s fun putting all this work and torment into getting a girl. Then once you get her, going through the torment on how to get rid of her without getting your truck keyed or tires slashed.
MGTOW looks better every day. Being totally honest. One night stand, FWB, LTR, marriage, it doesn't matter. There's no "winning" this game as a man. I think I've finally come to this realization. How can you have a legitimate relationship when between online dating apps and social media women have a whole football roster of guys waiting in the wings? There's no point in putting any sort of investment into these girls. My ex for instance keeps in contact with every guy she's ever slept with through Instagram lmao.
You can win at this game. I’m 39 yrs, no kids. I’ve always enjoyed the hunt/the game. It really is sad, us guys are loyal and do want a family & to take care of a girl but the system is set up against us. Just stay centered and build a strong career for yourself. I feel uneasy to say this but as long as you don’t have kids, you’ll come out on top. You’ll definitely get plenty of bruises along the way but that just creates wisdom. I’m sure I would be monk mode if I had kids and got screwed over. Even in late teens, I knew something was jacked up about this system. Stay strong guys. We have to ride this out until something changes. But in the meantime, it’s odd we have to play this game but it is fun though. By the way, it’s not women’s fault. They’re brainwashed also. They’re hurting too. But I don’t think they understand the devastation they can set in motion on a guy, so watch out.
Things happen. It's not always about you. That said, sometimes the best way to deal with silence is to 1) just move on and 2) get better at making a solid impression from the get go. Just because you get a girl's number after having what you think was great conversation, you might not've piqued her interest sexually as much as you think you did. Sometimes you just have to accept that reality, assess more closely how that convo could've gone even better, then apply it to the next girl you meet.
Do you know how easy it is to ruin a whole situation with a girl, with a few bad texts ? It’s insane. I sent a girl about 4-6 bad texts in a row. And I went from kissing and holding hands, to blocked. One of the best things in life tho is to analyze and reflect on stupid shit.
Just a note on this: people cut the cord quickly and over the smallest stuff. It’s almost a form of escape. Keep doing your thing and learning, trying to see maybe where to get better. But at the end of the day enjoy yourself and respect yourself. Don’t let someone’s short circuit make you feel lesser than.
If they aren’t responding, literally don’t give it attention. A single reply for reply is all you should do. Depending on the tone of the convo of course. If she’s ignoring you for whatever reason, her loss in the moment.
There are very few things more frustrating than when a girl stops responding to your texts. Here is a little bit on how to deal with this silence when it happens. And BTW, if you've been following me for a while, you might want to check out my IG: link in the description
She doesn't text for the same reason you don't. Lack of interest and too cowardly to say so. If we want that person bad, we are texting back. Every. Single. Time. We might wait awhile to respond as to not appear eager or needy, but make no mistake: we will continue communication until we get you in the sack.
@Hurd1199 Gold I agree with Sally. Retain your dignity and move on. Finding love ( or just sex) is a numbers game. For 9 nos you'll get a yes. That's essentially what Todd teaches. Don't give up and take nothing personally.
@Hurd1199 Gold she doesn't deserve your emotions or energy, simply move ona talk to multiple women, another thing is spend as less time on the phone/texting as possible..your not trying to be her pen pal, you wanna be her lover and if shes lucky, and plays her cards right, she'll be more..if you gotta be a man about your shit, be the leader and walk to the beat of your own drum, they will follow.
The internet, cell phones and social media have made dating a fucking mess. It used to be so much fun going out and meeting women in a real life world.
There are ways to turn it around. I asked a girl out a few days ago by text and she went silent on me. Revived it today talking about pets. After a couple texts back and forth I went silent on her for a few hours. She sent a double text, then later a triple text asking to call me. I called her tonight and now she's into me. Doesn't always play out like that but silence eats at girls too, especially if you were responsive before. Your silence might be eating at her even if she doesn't double text you.
Silence seems to trigger human wounds, for sure. Does not make someone « into you ». Especially not, in my opinion. Makes power games, codependency, but definitely not genuine interest. Both sides. Proof : you were « into » someone you chose/tried to trigger/hurt. You were not really into her when you chose to purposely make her wait for an answer, you were « protecting »/defending yourself, playing a power game, but definitely not genuinely into her.
I think you also have to know what happened before hand. If you were during well and she goes off grid for sometime, you should have a life to fulfill you and not make a chase super hard, then you can ask her hey whats up I guess you went to anartics how did the pingvins do? Which clearly is over the top but at least spikes her emotions. And if she does not respond it is not your responsibility to constantly try to keep the conversation alive. That is super needy but also if you chase she cannot so you dont allow her to ever chase you. Thats super important to allow space for both to show interest. So keep your head in it but dont over invest and let it be playfull and fun. If not it is not game and not worth it anyway.
hey man i have a question cause this relates to a situation i have been dealing with, So FWB of a few months starts replying with one word answers etc. no emotional spikes or value Q's gets her to invest and she seems annoyed by anything like almost any topic that presents itself, good i reply with the same investment but on and off try to get the ball rolling again cause man good sex is always worth some value, BUT i legit stopped talking to this person due to her being constantly negative and really not investing at all the question? Well any way to get her out of that zone and back into a normal convo etc. or should i just end it and be friends? i see this happen to many guys in relationships too so any advice would be good.
@@EBMproductions1 Thank you for your message I appreciate it. I have been thinking about your situation and here is my take on it. First, you have to understand that women pick their partner based on basic traits which were more important back in cavemen days. She gets attracted to the men who show the best DNA to pass on to her kids. So she actively searches for them. The traits are dominance, assertiveness, determination, ambition just to name a few. So when you have had an experience with a FWB it means that at some point during your interaction you showed her those traits. BUT what happens now is tricky, so I will explain the male perspective first. When males look at women we are visually hunters and we can determine fast if we like her or not. The female perspective does not do that, she looks for the traits. And because it is very easy to fake having them she needs to see social proof that you actually do have them. This fall into the whole category why do women test men? the short answer they have to, they have to know all the time is his man faking having these traits or is he still the best suiter for me keeping me safe and bring the best DNA for my kids. So in your situation, you have invested too much into building the conversation which means you need to stay connected with her more than she needs it. That does not show her that she gets the best suiter she can get, it means that she has someone below her standard. Now we need to add another classic, why does women go for guys higher in social standing than themselves? Because they want to feel they are adding value to their life through their partner. So she is reluctant to give you the time of day because the previous experiences she has had with you over text indicates that she does not believe you can offer for value, because it is to clear now who gets most out of when you guys have sex. so she chooses not to see you anymore. You can try to change it up and significantly change how the two of you interact now moving forward and I will suggest you try because it will teach you a lot, but considered moving on too, because that will teach you to notice when you start to show needy behavior and then should consciously decide to not do them in the first place.
@@naitsirk32 okay i already knew most of what you stated(studied psychology etc. and obviously watches Game vids often) BUT that's just it i am 100% congruent with who i am i did go through a month long downward spiral where my mind was just closed i was stressed to shit and couldn't think clearly BUT the girl was fine in that time frame she abruptly cut off investment with me and in person the same happened and she was killing any momentum show value in person wether it was via sharing value or showcasing it around other people now i think she met another guy/man who came off as higher value but as we know with chodes is not the case BUT i can't reclaim her due to her not giving me the light of day to even show my value cause you see i feel it's a waste to put on an act of being high value etc. so yeah what do you think?
@@EBMproductions1 i really must jump in on this n dont mean to be sum random that thinks they got answers n i sure as hell am no expert but it's clear to me you put a lotta thought n investment into this fwb and that you like this person. However over time she sounds like shes kinda over the whole thing the hooking up and sex n all things casual. Either she's grew out of that phase where shes looking to be stretched out on the daily or it could be likely shes got some other shit in her life shes trying to deal with shes not in that frame of mind to share that side of that life with you. You gotta realise that you are not everyones centre of their universe n whatever she has going on might have nothing to do with you. She wanna type one worded answers thats on her, if it feels like youre doing all the work to keep her interested n shes not doing her fair share to keep the spark going it's time to cut her loose. When both people like each other it shouldnt take so much effort to try n keep a person around to be interested in one another. In other words if throughout this thing youve been doing the txting n calling n everything else n shes done fuck all id fuck her outta my life if it were my situation. Anyway just my thoughts.
@@nicktubara Yeah there is quite a few more details but yeah, i feel it's a mix of getting bored of the sex/me and well she reciprocates a lil bit now and again but the way she does it is in the way where everything is still fixable BUT whenever i attempt to fix it she stops me in my tracks, aka like she wants to fix everything but doesn't at the same time and thus i can't help much.
@Vinny B Sometimes not texting her for a couple days makes her forget about you or allows for someone better to talk to her. Second place is first loser, you need to come in first. If you're not alpha, you're beta at worst; useless at best.
Jesus. The amount of mental strategizing that goes into good texting is painfully hilarious: the girl can do no wrong. It's all on you. My text game with "maybe girls" is pretty poor, and is an area I need to work on. A man's attraction can go up and down depending on the things he writes. Crazy but true.
The best relationships will happen organically. If feel like you need to control or force things to happen with a girl, causing you to watch videos like this, she's probably not compatible with you. When you're with a girl you're compatible with, you won't be asking questions, because you'll understand each other.
Todd once again....is the Goat. Todd please teach pickup forever. You help soooo many guys deal with a HUGE issue in their lives. You do so much for us. I've been following you since RSD. I have the System, and I never want you to quit. Sincerely ~ A guy who is now doing better because of you ~
Also, stop texting so dam much. If I was a chick I’d be annoyed too if someone texting me all the dam time, even in I’m feeling them. Can I breathe dam.
That's similar to me. That's why I'm not fond of how girls in America are cause they feel that have so much power. Foreign girls for most part when they say yes they mean it & rarely ghost
Could well be theyre either at work or out with friends. And anyway why make an effort trying to talk to them if they couldnt even give you the time of day?
therealmo Exactly, I laugh whenever a guy says “let them chase you.” Sorry bud, that doesn’t happen. They may be pretty, but they are also very stupid.
@@ghostridersinthesky21 Neither women or men should be "chasing". It doesn't work. You should show interest, and pursue, but if its not reciprocated move on to someone else - never chase. I think people saying "let them chase you" are just misinterpreting this kind of logic.
Here’s something that nobody has mentioned that works and gets to a point, CALL HER yes CALL HER , I just did this it either works and she is impressed by your determination and then you schedule a date or time frame or she doesn’t pick up your call and blocks you then you know to move on
Pretty much, i dont even you use the phone that much when it comes to women..its only good for setting things up. My goal is to SEE the woman in person, not be her pen pal.
I'm on 90d no contact with a woman I was hanging out/having sex because she said "she doesn't wanted a relationship "NOW" and then stopped texting me (maybe I hurried things a little bit but I never made exigencies). Should I make a random call or text her before it? I just wanted us to have fun and enjoy the seacoast where I live and ask her to come. All things ended like "unfinished business"... All I can think is that she'll think it's a revenge attempt but it's not...
She’s not interested by something on your end, let her come to you by not texting so damn much. You’re right, flirt and getting shit test is ideal. Some normality and nothing needy to brush. You’re right, you need to take time with this
Don't need a dating coach to provide you with several reasons as to why a girl doesn't text back. That's self-explanatory really. Give her the painting of a spitfire and let her go.
I just finally got a fun text from this chick that I thought ghosted me literally while watching this lol ( don’t text wait a couple days or so be patient if no response and text something like nothing happened a fun text or something (a video of me playing a show) and if she doesn’t respond that whatever just keep rocking and trust me there’s always someone else that wants you (always be improving yourself)
Disregard this message she totally ghosted my ass but I don’t give a rats ass it was for the better - remember you’re always gonna find more fish in the sea !!!
Why? You gain nothing by avoiding double text, and by doing it you have a small chance to gain something (in scenarios Todd mentions). Maybe never double text on the same day... sure.
Not even...had a girl tell me she was thinking about me after she left the gym, so I asked her where she trained...8 days no response. So i blocked and deleted her number.
The thing I don't get it people always say that if a girl reads you on red then move on. But friends do this all the time and we do it too. It's dangerous to instantly assume that the girl just isn't interested, it could be for a multitude of reasons
I never thought id look up dating advice on RUclips. My situation is really strange. Met this girl 6 months ago, we talked, kind of fell off but recently got back in touch. Went out on a date a few weeks ago and ended up hooking up a few days after. She’s interested in me, has said so multiple times. But I’ll text her good morning and won’t get a text back all day. I’ll post something on Snapchat and she’ll reply complaining that she didn’t get an invite and actually get mad at me. Women are so strange man
Modzilla, one of the worst texts to send someone you're only just starting to date in particular is a "good morning" type text. They are lame as all hell and are considered a BIG no-no, when texting girls. Along with texts like "hey", "what's up", etc. Don't expect to get responses to texts like that unless perhaps if you're married to her. Or for her to stay attracted to you, if they're the type of texts you're sending. She wants excitement, not boredom. Hence not responding to your super-boring and lame "good morning" texts, but getting mad when you don't invite her to the thing that would have actually been fun. There's nothing strange about that.
they dont reply because they receive thousands of messages from lots of guys and the prettier the girl is the more messages and proposales they get. So its a very long list they have to deal with and maybe you are number 500 on that list.
I get phone numbers instantly. I meet a new girl, talk and she gives me number, some kiss, some hold hands, all fun. Next day I text ... nothing, wtf? Been 5 different girls in last 2 months now
I was messaging a girl on Facebook messenger for a while. We were flirting, talking about fun stuff, and eventually escalated for plans which she agreed to. I took down her number so we can confirm the plans and asked her availability and everything. She says what time do you want to hangout? I say, since you're free tomorrow, how about tomorrow at 7? She doesn't reply. The next day, I send her "??". No reply.
" asked her availability and everything." instead: Text her about YOUR availability so she can chose from your options. If you are too accommodating from the start that's needy. sorry.
@@milanfoldi462 Overthinking mental masturbation. I see your point, but it wouldn't have made a difference. She went out with a more attractive guy since even fat girls are talking to 10 guys at once. I've seen it firsthand.
FB is for losers. Be a man and interact with girls in person. Trust me, I'm a woman and no female I know takes a guy on FB seriously. We'll tease you on it, but that's as far as its going to going. Using FB to initiate contact is a sure sign of a lack of confidence.
Yes do, even though cold approach is alot better in general for confidence for everything. These days sliding in the dm’s works very well. Need to adapt to new ways
Dude don't stalk chicks online, you will lose. Find more success in bantering and flirting in real life. Face to face beats sliding into dm's every day of the week especially if you are an average dude
If she’s being rude by ignoring you then just directly insult her through text and I promise you That you will get your response IMMEDIATELY. It don’t matter if she has previously ignored 1000 text message from you because In 5 seconds you WILL get a response like hell’s fury from her. Then you cuss her out and block her. Lmao!
Todd, I know you probably don't like the concept, but I'm curious what are some solid pieces of advice in order to be a better wingan , in your opinion.
silence is how she acquires power over you, you think its ignoring you... she does this to see what youll do in response, actually making you feel insecure of obtaining her 😺, because 😺 can make you a puppet. Their game isss waaay more subconscious & mental. She only does this when you give off the scent of neediness. #stopchasing #bechased #sigmaRoyalty
How do you counter back that then... Usually I Keep calm and move on ...But sometimes I even text back after few days or months ....How do you deal with that ? I totally agree with what you said
No, this video is not a good strategy. What you need to do, is to write after a few minutes of silence from her part: ‘ok, some other time’ Watch what happens next. Wait as much as needed for her response after this simple text. You will be amazed how she will reply.
Girl didn’t respond bc she’s wayyyy too busy. Yeah sure. Everybody has their phone on them all the damn time and constantly checking it several times a day. But she’s was way to busy? Yeah 👌🏼
High value people who receive attention might see a text but decide not to respond to it until later or forget about it. Just because you respond to everything you see immediately doesn’t mean everyone else does. Everyone doesn’t text back sometimes and there are tons of reasons for this behavior.
TBH I think the best conversation is less convention these days. For example having convo for a few hours then 2 days pause, then back to occasionally talking, etc. I found a girl recently and our conversations going like this. I think it's perfect as I'm already a very busy guy.
Camping in the woods 😂. Honestly I bounce between feeding indifference with indifference (meaning if she texts me back go for a date if she ignores me or doesn’t text me back then she’s out) and Todd’s way of texting which is subtle “high value” pursuit. Todd’s way coupled with a phone call usually gets me more dates.... don’t move on right away give it few texts and then move on
Duuuuuuude, sounds like this is Todd's Achilles. Sounds like he does not know the answer to this question. Heck, nobody knows the answer. Only 2 things are possible in case of silence. She does not like you anymore. Or she is expecting you to woo her off her feet. Nothing in between. In case of the guy who kissed her on the pull date. She probably was expecting some 50 shades of grey tyoe shit and this guy turns up with text going "how was your day?" or something. And she was done with that. When you start off a relationship all hot and heavy, you don't bring it back down to earth. You should be going for booty calls all the time. I think ha ha ha. What the hell do I know. Anyway what do you all think?
Nope girl ghosted cause that guy took things too quick without building comfort first meaning she felt slutty afterwards and yeah that's a bad emotion to share with me this happened earlier this year 10min pull and near close then i realized if i close now she is never speaking to me again i pulled back and she still felt too slutty to meet again and yeah.
hmm maybe fix other areas of you life my man 1.)health: go to the gym and clean up you wardrobe and hygiene 2.)Wealth: slowly build up a better income and showcase this with what you wear build this up as well example buy a decent quality shirt every two months via saving up for it. 3.)Love & relations: Get higher value friends and share fun things with them bonus share pics of this on Social media then also improve your Game and social skills massively this will work in game more then the rest the rest is supplements to your game.
She don’t text you because she have 1000000 another dudes hitting on her that she consider better options or currently fucking with someone in often basis let’s cut the crap and be honest , she don’t saw your picture or interaction as high value enough so why bother all you have to do is next her Presume that all situations why a the most unstable creature on earth flakes on you are of your making is automatically low value and a obvious sign that you care too much about it
If she doesn't respond that means she didn't like your last text or the whole exchange. Don't do it again. Turn it into a joke to let her know you realized what was wrong.
Hi Todd, thanks for the great content as always. Could you do a video on whether you should keep texting and trying to set up a second date if you had a bad first date with a girl?
So if most women view you as unattractive and have spent most of your life alone with no options, then what is the solution. I have a small amount of women I interact with on a regular basis but none of them are romantically interested in me. I think women refusing to reply to messages is extremely rude and insulting. Just because you reply doesn't mean we are dating; it just means were are talking. So many women won't be nice, friendly, or reply back to men they find unattractive. Where in the world did they learn that treating men like this is ok. We have feelings and are human beings. Women are monsters for treating certain men better than others. Where is their compassion????
I believe I did nothing wrong she's just a bird 🐦 & that's okay 98% of them are, I saw her the other day and she didn't really look as good as the first time I'm actually happy she never responded I learned some more about how they are & know I'm not missing out on anything special.
When I see videos like this teaching meant to send those precision perfect texts or it’s game over is yet another reminder that women generally hold most of the cards. This is why so many men are saying enough is enough, and walking away from this nonsense.
Met a girl on new years and me and her kissed. She did send a long text about our conversation we had til 4 am on the phone. She apologized for saying things that were too outputting to me and hope that it didn't make me feel weird about her. However we went on two dates she does have hectic schedule and we haven't chatted since 4 days
I have a weird situation with my gf who I've been going out with for 2-3 months. I'm in China and I met her here. We live around 15 minutes away and we are both going back to the UK in September. We first texted a lot and we met up quite a lot because we weren't working at the time because of the virus outbreak. Now I've started working and we only meet up once a week, which is fine because I think that we will text a lot more. But she hardly texts because she says that since she's off to the UK for a few years then she wants to spend a lot of her time with her family and friends. I can understand this but still confused why not texting me frequently would get in the way of her spending time with her friends and family. She's totally fine with me when we meet but she seems very distant over text. Obviously this is confusing to me and even my other Chinese friends say that this is not normal and I am starting to doubt her feelings towards me. What do you guys think about this?
I recently had a girl that was very positive until I said something to the effect that I didn't like "her kind". I expected her to reply something like "what the hell does that mean???". However, no response ever came back. After an hour I sent her my response as if she had replied - "respectable, educateds [sim], girl. Yuck!". That did nothing to help. Game over man!
Do any other guys experience this? Every time I meet a new girl, the first thing she asks me for is my Facebook, Instagram, etc......How annoying is that? I don't have either. If you have a question about me, just fucking ask.
Things were going good until I sent a couple bad texts failing what could have been a shit test. I then apologized for the bad texts and said they were out of character. What can I do besides move on if she ghosts me? I really like this girl. She works at a Starbucks inside of a barnes & nobles bookstore. Could i like show up and make it seem unintentional or would she catch on & think I'm creepy/stalkery? I really need a strategy here.
Todd - Do you think game in the United Kingdom is closer to European or American style Game, as there's lots of day gamers in Londons but not as much night game advice, Cheers love the channel :)
Well..some of us don't have an much of an option..like me females here scares, media is my only means of communication sadly very hit or miss...an let's just say....I need to hit the range more.
I'm a little confused. For me, she was texting back fast then I asked her on a date to universal. She stated "Sounds good"(with an angel face emoji). I texted her the next day and asked her when was the last time she went to universal? And she hasn't replied back(that was a day ago).
Women 9/10 always have their phones, even at work..vibrate or slient..they always check their phones.
1/10 is still a reasonable amount
10/10
999 of 1000
So what are your thoughts on a chick who always respond, will always hang out if you ask; but on average waits 24hrs to respond to you? (Even though she used to not wait 24hrs....)
Overwatch Philosophy either she gets a lot of texts from others so she has to get through everyone before you, or she doesn’t check her texts a lot (my ex used to never check her phone, and she was always on do not disturb) she might also just wanna handout if she’s bored and she sees you just as a friend, meaning she answers you late because your not as important to her.
If you treat a woman like a princess, she will treat you like a fan.
Don’t waste your energy on somebody who won’t lift a feather for you.
I sent a silly text but I’m experimenting with girls I talk just to get a feel for how they move think and act
Don’t throw in the towel too soon u will miss a lot of opportunities if ur not persistent
I'm starting to implement this new rule: If I get silence, game over. I try to learn what was my mistake and then move on to the next girl.
Some women like being chased but yes you are right I don't bother either.
I know this is going to sound super cliche... but the trick is Don't Chase ; Just Replace. A gambler doesn't place all of his money on one number and then hope for the best.
i'm surprised he didnt advise that.the fact that youre even following up a text cos she didnt reply already shows neediness and women love that shit , makes them have power over you.
@@NoWokeComedy ...if we could tally up the amount of time men have wasted on dead end women we could have colonised the milky way by now...
Spin More Plates!
Excellent advice. Never invest too much into any one woman. You never know what they will do or how they feel about you. I can remember spending almost an hour chatting up one woman a couple of months ago. We exchanged numbers, agreed to a date, etc. When I reached out to her a couple of days later, she totally ignored me. Ridiculous.
xGarrettThiefx 🤣🤣🤣 We’ve all been there but not the Milky Way (yet)!
How to deal with girls who don’t answer your texts: don’t deal with them.
If you genuinely believe you’re good option, a guy with high value, then you won’t put up with girls who don’t answer positively to you. You won’t chase after girls. You will just look for other girls.
For example, do you think that Dan Bilzerian deals with women who don’t answer him? Lol
You may say you’re not Dan Bilzerian but that doesn’t change the attitude you should have.
Victor Serra exactly how I feel but I still remember when I used to get pangs in my heart anytime a girl would text me haha
No one says you have to stress over it. A single followup to silence is perfectly fine
This is wrong. As a guy you go after what you want and you're persistent. Your reation indicates getting butthurt easily and that you tie your self esteem to how people respond to you.
@@DreamBeatsBakery Hey, you are second person in my live who think like this. Can you send any more info or link to article/video to this approach?
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Bro it's my life experience
A girl that likes you & want you, will move mountains to spend time with you. It will be effortless, why bothering
Exactly
I think it doesn’t work like that, but I wish it did
Perfectly stated. I wish all men realized this. If Leo DiCaprio or Liam Hemsworth texted these women and offered to take them out on a date, they'd jump at the opportunity. They'd respond with a 'YES' instantaneoulsy and would rearrange their entire schedules to accommodate them. Men need to stop believing these bogus excuses that women come up with.
@@joshspiker cuz being one of these men is HIGH value. Be enough high value and almost every girl will say yes just like if u were a Leonardo
In order to happen what you say, you have to be a 10 and she has to be a 7-8.
Took much texting kills attraction. You should give the girl some time and space to think about you. Texting should be kept at a minimum because essentially the phone should be used to set up the date
Looks like someone follows my man CoreyWayne
@@TheActionTourist hahahaha
@@d00di619 man this is so damn true, texting fucking kills attraction. That's why im not texting or sending her snaps as i used to before. Only wanna talk to her face to face
It's funny how we remember every fucking dating coach advice
just your average girl here, getting a sneak peak on what's inside the mind of a guy. i agree with you, completely.
within the first 50 SECONDS of this video, it is glaringly obvious that Todd's only true goal is the get into a girl's pants.
Not her heart, mind, or interests.
(i hope he doesn't find this response, but WHAT AN ASS!!!)
It’s fun putting all this work and torment into getting a girl. Then once you get her, going through the torment on how to get rid of her without getting your truck keyed or tires slashed.
MGTOW looks better every day. Being totally honest. One night stand, FWB, LTR, marriage, it doesn't matter. There's no "winning" this game as a man. I think I've finally come to this realization. How can you have a legitimate relationship when between online dating apps and social media women have a whole football roster of guys waiting in the wings? There's no point in putting any sort of investment into these girls. My ex for instance keeps in contact with every guy she's ever slept with through Instagram lmao.
TheHvk so your insecurities about your relationships = half the world is losing
You can win at this game. I’m 39 yrs, no kids. I’ve always enjoyed the hunt/the game. It really is sad, us guys are loyal and do want a family & to take care of a girl but the system is set up against us. Just stay centered and build a strong career for yourself. I feel uneasy to say this but as long as you don’t have kids, you’ll come out on top. You’ll definitely get plenty of bruises along the way but that just creates wisdom. I’m sure I would be monk mode if I had kids and got screwed over. Even in late teens, I knew something was jacked up about this system.
Stay strong guys. We have to ride this out until something changes. But in the meantime, it’s odd we have to play this game but it is fun though.
By the way, it’s not women’s fault. They’re brainwashed also. They’re hurting too. But I don’t think they understand the devastation they can set in motion on a guy, so watch out.
@@MrHav1k pretty sure MGTOW doesn't mean incel and not having sex... you're just promoting being a virgin
@@donotresuscitatechannel7257 Excellent points. Thank you.
Things happen. It's not always about you.
That said, sometimes the best way to deal with silence is to 1) just move on and 2) get better at making a solid impression from the get go. Just because you get a girl's number after having what you think was great conversation, you might not've piqued her interest sexually as much as you think you did. Sometimes you just have to accept that reality, assess more closely how that convo could've gone even better, then apply it to the next girl you meet.
Do you know how easy it is to ruin a whole situation with a girl, with a few bad texts ? It’s insane. I sent a girl about 4-6 bad texts in a row. And I went from kissing and holding hands, to blocked. One of the best things in life tho is to analyze and reflect on stupid shit.
Hahahah same!!! Fuuuck me
How tf you get blocked after kissing?? It wasn’t the texts my guy
Just a note on this: people cut the cord quickly and over the smallest stuff. It’s almost a form of escape.
Keep doing your thing and learning, trying to see maybe where to get better.
But at the end of the day enjoy yourself and respect yourself. Don’t let someone’s short circuit make you feel lesser than.
@@staysmuthamen
It's like walking on egg shells I know that.
This girl legit suggested to go out and play mini golf, I asked her when she’s free - silence... wtf
Lmaoo that's a bruh moment right there. It's a good thing Todd addresses it tho.
Im on read right as we speak.. (3 days and counting) thing is this chick is hot af :(
you should have suggested specific date, not ask when she will have time for you
Krzysztof Abramowicz true, but if a woman is really about it, and interested in a man, small details like that wouldn’t matter
@@MusicLover1049 for real
If they aren’t responding, literally don’t give it attention. A single reply for reply is all you should do. Depending on the tone of the convo of course. If she’s ignoring you for whatever reason, her loss in the moment.
I'm done with texting and DMs I'm taking it back to back In the day when I would fall asleep on the phone with a girl. Real conversation the human way
There are very few things more frustrating than when a girl stops responding to your texts. Here is a little bit on how to deal with this silence when it happens. And BTW, if you've been following me for a while, you might want to check out my IG: link in the description
She doesn't text for the same reason you don't. Lack of interest and too cowardly to say so. If we want that person bad, we are texting back. Every. Single. Time.
We might wait awhile to respond as to not appear eager or needy, but make no mistake: we will continue communication until we get you in the sack.
@Hurd1199 Gold No !!! Just move on to a different girl. She doesn't owe you anything and you don't owe her anything. Just move on.
No one is owed respect. Respect is earned. We can still all strive to be civil to each other, but that is a bit different than respect.
@Hurd1199 Gold I agree with Sally. Retain your dignity and move on. Finding love ( or just sex) is a numbers game. For 9 nos you'll get a yes. That's essentially what Todd teaches. Don't give up and take nothing personally.
@Hurd1199 Gold she doesn't deserve your emotions or energy, simply move ona talk to multiple women, another thing is spend as less time on the phone/texting as possible..your not trying to be her pen pal, you wanna be her lover and if shes lucky, and plays her cards right, she'll be more..if you gotta be a man about your shit, be the leader and walk to the beat of your own drum, they will follow.
Excellent advice. I hope you post more on this channel, as it's nice to hear an honest and realistic perspective from a woman.
If a girl doesn’t text back.... she likes someone else more. The End.
Not really true, maybe she just doesn’t like you at all lol
ok sir understandable
Heartbroken
Not true guys
@@itsshawneee3817 Liar, We know the game women love to play.
The internet, cell phones and social media have made dating a fucking mess. It used to be so much fun going out and meeting women in a real life world.
Not to mention that women have positive comments lauded at them incessantly
There are ways to turn it around. I asked a girl out a few days ago by text and she went silent on me. Revived it today talking about pets. After a couple texts back and forth I went silent on her for a few hours. She sent a double text, then later a triple text asking to call me. I called her tonight and now she's into me. Doesn't always play out like that but silence eats at girls too, especially if you were responsive before. Your silence might be eating at her even if she doesn't double text you.
Silence seems to trigger human wounds, for sure. Does not make someone « into you ». Especially not, in my opinion.
Makes power games, codependency, but definitely not genuine interest. Both sides.
Proof : you were « into » someone you chose/tried to trigger/hurt. You were not really into her when you chose to purposely make her wait for an answer, you were « protecting »/defending yourself, playing a power game, but definitely not genuinely into her.
Games! And playing on abandonment wounds , if she’s healed it won’t work 😂
@@evat2945
finally someone who gets it. It's tiring all these stupid games.
I think you also have to know what happened before hand. If you were during well and she goes off grid for sometime, you should have a life to fulfill you and not make a chase super hard, then you can ask her hey whats up I guess you went to anartics how did the pingvins do? Which clearly is over the top but at least spikes her emotions. And if she does not respond it is not your responsibility to constantly try to keep the conversation alive. That is super needy but also if you chase she cannot so you dont allow her to ever chase you. Thats super important to allow space for both to show interest. So keep your head in it but dont over invest and let it be playfull and fun. If not it is not game and not worth it anyway.
hey man i have a question cause this relates to a situation i have been dealing with, So FWB of a few months starts replying with one word answers etc. no emotional spikes or value Q's gets her to invest and she seems annoyed by anything like almost any topic that presents itself, good i reply with the same investment but on and off try to get the ball rolling again cause man good sex is always worth some value, BUT i legit stopped talking to this person due to her being constantly negative and really not investing at all the question? Well any way to get her out of that zone and back into a normal convo etc. or should i just end it and be friends? i see this happen to many guys in relationships too so any advice would be good.
@@EBMproductions1 Thank you for your message I appreciate it. I have been thinking about your situation and here is my take on it.
First, you have to understand that women pick their partner based on basic traits which were more important back in cavemen days. She gets attracted to the men who show the best DNA to pass on to her kids. So she actively searches for them. The traits are dominance, assertiveness, determination, ambition just to name a few.
So when you have had an experience with a FWB it means that at some point during your interaction you showed her those traits. BUT what happens now is tricky, so I will explain the male perspective first. When males look at women we are visually hunters and we can determine fast if we like her or not. The female perspective does not do that, she looks for the traits. And because it is very easy to fake having them she needs to see social proof that you actually do have them. This fall into the whole category why do women test men? the short answer they have to, they have to know all the time is his man faking having these traits or is he still the best suiter for me keeping me safe and bring the best DNA for my kids. So in your situation, you have invested too much into building the conversation which means you need to stay connected with her more than she needs it. That does not show her that she gets the best suiter she can get, it means that she has someone below her standard. Now we need to add another classic, why does women go for guys higher in social standing than themselves? Because they want to feel they are adding value to their life through their partner. So she is reluctant to give you the time of day because the previous experiences she has had with you over text indicates that she does not believe you can offer for value, because it is to clear now who gets most out of when you guys have sex. so she chooses not to see you anymore. You can try to change it up and significantly change how the two of you interact now moving forward and I will suggest you try because it will teach you a lot, but considered moving on too, because that will teach you to notice when you start to show needy behavior and then should consciously decide to not do them in the first place.
@@naitsirk32 okay i already knew most of what you stated(studied psychology etc. and obviously watches Game vids often) BUT that's just it i am 100% congruent with who i am i did go through a month long downward spiral where my mind was just closed i was stressed to shit and couldn't think clearly BUT the girl was fine in that time frame she abruptly cut off investment with me and in person the same happened and she was killing any momentum show value in person wether it was via sharing value or showcasing it around other people now i think she met another guy/man who came off as higher value but as we know with chodes is not the case BUT i can't reclaim her due to her not giving me the light of day to even show my value cause you see i feel it's a waste to put on an act of being high value etc. so yeah what do you think?
@@EBMproductions1 i really must jump in on this n dont mean to be sum random that thinks they got answers n i sure as hell am no expert but it's clear to me you put a lotta thought n investment into this fwb and that you like this person. However over time she sounds like shes kinda over the whole thing the hooking up and sex n all things casual. Either she's grew out of that phase where shes looking to be stretched out on the daily or it could be likely shes got some other shit in her life shes trying to deal with shes not in that frame of mind to share that side of that life with you.
You gotta realise that you are not everyones centre of their universe n whatever she has going on might have nothing to do with you. She wanna type one worded answers thats on her, if it feels like youre doing all the work to keep her interested n shes not doing her fair share to keep the spark going it's time to cut her loose. When both people like each other it shouldnt take so much effort to try n keep a person around to be interested in one another. In other words if throughout this thing youve been doing the txting n calling n everything else n shes done fuck all id fuck her outta my life if it were my situation. Anyway just my thoughts.
@@nicktubara Yeah there is quite a few more details but yeah, i feel it's a mix of getting bored of the sex/me and well she reciprocates a lil bit now and again but the way she does it is in the way where everything is still fixable BUT whenever i attempt to fix it she stops me in my tracks, aka like she wants to fix everything but doesn't at the same time and thus i can't help much.
Sometimes not texting her for a couple days makes the girl think about you way more.
this guy didnt text me for 5 days drove me insane.
@Vinny B Sometimes not texting her for a couple days makes her forget about you or allows for someone better to talk to her. Second place is first loser, you need to come in first. If you're not alpha, you're beta at worst; useless at best.
guys what about a couple years?
@@1bosstv what happens usually is the opposite. Replying for more than two days may seem ignorant but one day is fine I think.
True
Jesus. The amount of mental strategizing that goes into good texting is painfully hilarious: the girl can do no wrong. It's all on you. My text game with "maybe girls" is pretty poor, and is an area I need to work on. A man's attraction can go up and down depending on the things he writes. Crazy but true.
this guy is just like charisma on command. look up "can we trust charisma on command" on yt
Ik it's exhausting...
The best relationships will happen organically. If feel like you need to control or force things to happen with a girl, causing you to watch videos like this, she's probably not compatible with you. When you're with a girl you're compatible with, you won't be asking questions, because you'll understand each other.
Highly underrated comment
Todd once again....is the Goat. Todd please teach pickup forever. You help soooo many guys deal with a HUGE issue in their lives. You do so much for us. I've been following you since RSD. I have the System, and I never want you to quit. Sincerely ~ A guy who is now doing better because of you ~
Also, stop texting so dam much. If I was a chick I’d be annoyed too if someone texting me all the dam time, even in I’m feeling them. Can I breathe dam.
Well yeah, especially when even fat chicks have 50 guys texting them at once.
ITSRICHTIME Relax
@@Jocorvettegay
Todd is one of the few who understands texting on a deep level. Idk how you figured some of it out tbh.
my issue is girls make an effort to make plans with me, give me their number, then ghost me lol. why make plans only to ghost?
That's similar to me. That's why I'm not fond of how girls in America are cause they feel that have so much power. Foreign girls for most part when they say yes they mean it & rarely ghost
Seriously! These bitches!
Give them a phonecall instead of texting
Because you’re talking to 8s and 10s they are garbage cans. Go for 5s you can’t go wrong with them lmao
@@wiikends fr tho, I've gotten closer dating foreign exchange students than I ever have dating American women.
I have some girls that watch literally all my status yet never reply when I say hi.
Oh well, girls. Lol.
Could well be theyre either at work or out with friends. And anyway why make an effort trying to talk to them if they couldnt even give you the time of day?
@@nicktubara some girls are just way too fucking curious or just ADDICTED to the fucking instagram.
so they see almost everything
Removed some bitches like that from my friend list.
They add randoms to media but can’t message u wtf some bs
SAME bro. watches all my stories but when i message, just likes it. tf
I just call so i'm in control don't have to deal with this bullshit. If they're weird and don't pick up or get back they're sorted in the trash pile
Girls have options. Not just amongst the guys who regularly talk to her. Even weirdos who end up in her spam box
therealmo Exactly, I laugh whenever a guy says “let them chase you.” Sorry bud, that doesn’t happen. They may be pretty, but they are also very stupid.
Nick Maverin that only works if you have her attention
@@ghostridersinthesky21 Neither women or men should be "chasing". It doesn't work. You should show interest, and pursue, but if its not reciprocated move on to someone else - never chase. I think people saying "let them chase you" are just misinterpreting this kind of logic.
Here’s something that nobody has mentioned that works and gets to a point, CALL HER yes CALL HER , I just did this it either works and she is impressed by your determination and then you schedule a date or time frame or she doesn’t pick up your call and blocks you then you know to move on
Pretty much, i dont even you use the phone that much when it comes to women..its only good for setting things up. My goal is to SEE the woman in person, not be her pen pal.
I'm on 90d no contact with a woman I was hanging out/having sex because she said "she doesn't wanted a relationship "NOW" and then stopped texting me (maybe I hurried things a little bit but I never made exigencies). Should I make a random call or text her before it? I just wanted us to have fun and enjoy the seacoast where I live and ask her to come. All things ended like "unfinished business"...
All I can think is that she'll think it's a revenge attempt but it's not...
She’s not interested by something on your end, let her come to you by not texting so damn much. You’re right, flirt and getting shit test is ideal. Some normality and nothing needy to brush. You’re right, you need to take time with this
If she doesn’t text back, or set up to see you, SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. Same thing you guys do to women you’re not interested in.
Remember when everyone used to say there's no such thing as text game it was all about your initial interaction
No
Austin Starke It’s because you don’t know anything about how to get girls. Lol it’s ok
I got laid four days ago but you're right, I hadn't a clue as to what I was doing. Wait until I hone my skills
@@justice7788 getting laid is easy, just get an ugly girl. Sex with a hot girl on the other hand, is much tougher. You getting laid has no relevance.
@@justice7788 😄😆😅
You look so concentrated and clever Todd!
Don't need a dating coach to provide you with several reasons as to why a girl doesn't text back. That's self-explanatory really. Give her the painting of a spitfire and let her go.
I just finally got a fun text from this chick that I thought ghosted me literally while watching this lol ( don’t text wait a couple days or so be patient if no response and text something like nothing happened a fun text or something (a video of me playing a show) and if she doesn’t respond that whatever just keep rocking and trust me there’s always someone else that wants you (always be improving yourself)
Disregard this message she totally ghosted my ass but I don’t give a rats ass it was for the better - remember you’re always gonna find more fish in the sea !!!
*Never double text*
If she takes time to respond or doesn't respond at all - the interest is very low
Onto next one
not really, this whole video is about the specific times when that's not true
Our RUclips algorithm must be identical
No man there is many more reasons she might take time to respond and or doesn't reply at all.
Why? You gain nothing by avoiding double text, and by doing it you have a small chance to gain something (in scenarios Todd mentions). Maybe never double text on the same day... sure.
Not even...had a girl tell me she was thinking about me after she left the gym, so I asked her where she trained...8 days no response. So i blocked and deleted her number.
The thing I don't get it people always say that if a girl reads you on red then move on. But friends do this all the time and we do it too. It's dangerous to instantly assume that the girl just isn't interested, it could be for a multitude of reasons
Definitely thank you for this comment !
Would you appreciate a girl explaining/apaligizing for not answering though ?
That's fax. Never thought about it like this
Be wary of a girl that takes hours to respond do you, but is always on her fuckin' phone when she's around you.
I never thought id look up dating advice on RUclips. My situation is really strange. Met this girl 6 months ago, we talked, kind of fell off but recently got back in touch. Went out on a date a few weeks ago and ended up hooking up a few days after. She’s interested in me, has said so multiple times. But I’ll text her good morning and won’t get a text back all day. I’ll post something on Snapchat and she’ll reply complaining that she didn’t get an invite and actually get mad at me. Women are so strange man
Modzilla, one of the worst texts to send someone you're only just starting to date in particular is a "good morning" type text.
They are lame as all hell and are considered a BIG no-no, when texting girls.
Along with texts like "hey", "what's up", etc.
Don't expect to get responses to texts like that unless perhaps if you're married to her. Or for her to stay attracted to you, if they're the type of texts you're sending.
She wants excitement, not boredom.
Hence not responding to your super-boring and lame "good morning" texts, but getting mad when you don't invite her to the thing that would have actually been fun.
There's nothing strange about that.
Instead of just letting her ignore you call her out on her shit put her in her place and show whose boss cuz she surely ain’t it...
they dont reply because they receive thousands of messages from lots of guys and the prettier the girl is the more messages and proposales they get. So its a very long list they have to deal with and maybe you are number 500 on that list.
I get phone numbers instantly. I meet a new girl, talk and she gives me number, some kiss, some hold hands, all fun. Next day I text ... nothing, wtf? Been 5 different girls in last 2 months now
Hehe same 😂❤
Just get your passport brothers, don't waste your time with texting games , God blessings, "horny guys" the video said that quote lololol
Just sent off my passport application.
@@Connor4x4 God bless Brother
@@Connor4x4 @Connor4x4 don't do Mexico, Asian Countries higher success in villages but take a guide with you for security
Got ghosted for bad text game, met her at the bar, exchanged numbers and she was really into me but my text game cost me the game 🤬
Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. It's really that simple.
I was messaging a girl on Facebook messenger for a while. We were flirting, talking about fun stuff, and eventually escalated for plans which she agreed to. I took down her number so we can confirm the plans and asked her availability and everything. She says what time do you want to hangout? I say, since you're free tomorrow, how about tomorrow at 7? She doesn't reply. The next day, I send her "??". No reply.
If she flakes then leave it. Remember she must think you're high value.
" asked her availability and everything." instead: Text her about YOUR availability so she can chose from your options. If you are too accommodating from the start that's needy. sorry.
Onto the next
@@milanfoldi462 Overthinking mental masturbation. I see your point, but it wouldn't have made a difference. She went out with a more attractive guy since even fat girls are talking to 10 guys at once. I've seen it firsthand.
FB is for losers. Be a man and interact with girls in person. Trust me, I'm a woman and no female I know takes a guy on FB seriously. We'll tease you on it, but that's as far as its going to going. Using FB to initiate contact is a sure sign of a lack of confidence.
Do one on sliding into dm’s
No, dont
Yes do, even though cold approach is alot better in general for confidence for everything. These days sliding in the dm’s works very well. Need to adapt to new ways
Dude don't stalk chicks online, you will lose. Find more success in bantering and flirting in real life. Face to face beats sliding into dm's every day of the week especially if you are an average dude
That work bro if woman actually responded and seemed interested then any of us could easily apply your method
If she’s being rude by ignoring you then just directly insult her through text and I promise you That you will get your response IMMEDIATELY. It don’t matter if she has previously ignored 1000 text message from you because In 5 seconds you WILL get a response like hell’s fury from her. Then you cuss her out and block her. Lmao!
Fr! You think she hasn't seen your texts but send her something rude and see how fast she really sees it.
Todd, I know you probably don't like the concept, but I'm curious what are some solid pieces of advice in order to be a better wingan , in your opinion.
silence is how she acquires power over you, you think its ignoring you... she does this to see what youll do in response, actually making you feel insecure of obtaining her 😺, because 😺 can make you a puppet. Their game isss waaay more subconscious & mental. She only does this when you give off the scent of neediness. #stopchasing #bechased #sigmaRoyalty
How do you counter back that then... Usually I Keep calm and move on ...But sometimes I even text back after few days or months ....How do you deal with that ? I totally agree with what you said
two reasons: low interest or testing powerdynamics, nothing more nothing less
A proper sequence?? Bruh I'm 26 yrs old focusing on myself/future I stopped playing mind games after 19 when a woman likes you u will definitely know
Your the most systematic legit pickup coach out there bro, i will look to your advice always !
He is the best. Really few people get laid frequently with different girls, so it's hard, so we have to be systematic to the bone.
Bro you really sad for needing another man to tell u what to do
Try AMS he's real good!
@@justina8143 do you know what video you’re on you fucking mong
Is he a pickup artist or a dating coach?
No, this video is not a good strategy. What you need to do, is to write after a few minutes of silence from her part: ‘ok, some other time’
Watch what happens next. Wait as much as needed for her response after this simple text. You will be amazed how she will reply.
Surely you don't mean a few minutes of silence? Maybe a day or two?
Girl didn’t respond bc she’s wayyyy too busy. Yeah sure. Everybody has their phone on them all the damn time and constantly checking it several times a day. But she’s was way to busy? Yeah 👌🏼
Wesley Pipes, what if she's say a doctor on call, or a nurse on duty?
High value people who receive attention might see a text but decide not to respond to it until later or forget about it. Just because you respond to everything you see immediately doesn’t mean everyone else does. Everyone doesn’t text back sometimes and there are tons of reasons for this behavior.
Example with silent error. Can relate. Good video.
If a girl doesn't answer your texts/calls , just forget about her. She is not interested and you're better off without someone that doesn't like you.
as an hard core empath i am completely out of game , i don’t understand anything whats going on around me
THUMBS UP if you are curious to know what is Todd's opinion about NOFAP & generally watching porn while learning how to game.
TBH I think the best conversation is less convention these days. For example having convo for a few hours then 2 days pause, then back to occasionally talking, etc. I found a girl recently and our conversations going like this. I think it's perfect as I'm already a very busy guy.
My heart is shattered into a million pieces.
Camping in the woods 😂. Honestly I bounce between feeding indifference with indifference (meaning if she texts me back go for a date if she ignores me or doesn’t text me back then she’s out) and Todd’s way of texting which is subtle “high value” pursuit. Todd’s way coupled with a phone call usually gets me more dates.... don’t move on right away give it few texts and then move on
Todd, if you play bass, I have one more reason to like you
Dzik Bagienny I was looking at the bass too!!!
Duuuuuuude, sounds like this is Todd's Achilles. Sounds like he does not know the answer to this question. Heck, nobody knows the answer. Only 2 things are possible in case of silence. She does not like you anymore. Or she is expecting you to woo her off her feet. Nothing in between. In case of the guy who kissed her on the pull date. She probably was expecting some 50 shades of grey tyoe shit and this guy turns up with text going "how was your day?" or something. And she was done with that. When you start off a relationship all hot and heavy, you don't bring it back down to earth. You should be going for booty calls all the time. I think ha ha ha. What the hell do I know. Anyway what do you all think?
Lmao Todd had a whole program about JUST TEXT-GAME.. As the O.G. Todd fans know (Text & date’s Machine.)
Pretty sure he got it covered
Nope girl ghosted cause that guy took things too quick without building comfort first meaning she felt slutty afterwards and yeah that's a bad emotion to share with me this happened earlier this year 10min pull and near close then i realized if i close now she is never speaking to me again i pulled back and she still felt too slutty to meet again and yeah.
@@EBMproductions1 Dude that is the straight answer and everyone knows that. Then there will not be a need for Todd types.
@@allisonbaum1014 lol no todd most likely can attest to what i stated.
@@EBMproductions1 hey dum dum, did you read what I wrote?
BRUH I get blocked just by texting them my name! 😐 cold approach goes well and I get their number, and I get blocked just by sending them my name!
Try a funny first text about something that you guys talked about during the approach.
TheAbc2500 nice !
hmm maybe fix other areas of you life my man 1.)health: go to the gym and clean up you wardrobe and hygiene 2.)Wealth: slowly build up a better income and showcase this with what you wear build this up as well example buy a decent quality shirt every two months via saving up for it. 3.)Love & relations: Get higher value friends and share fun things with them bonus share pics of this on Social media then also improve your Game and social skills massively this will work in game more then the rest the rest is supplements to your game.
Lol man don't do it. Start with a funny or an interesting opener that makes her want to reply
Lol just move on from narcissistic broads. Get your money and do your thing
She don’t text you because she have 1000000 another dudes hitting on her that she consider better options or currently fucking with someone in often basis let’s cut the crap and be honest , she don’t saw your picture or interaction as high value enough so why bother all you have to do is next her
Presume that all situations why a the most unstable creature on earth flakes on you are of your making is automatically low value and a obvious sign that you care too much about it
I got a girl and sometimes she's doesn't respond to my texting either.. Thanks for this advice man.
so even when we do all things right we still done something wrong. man i wonder when i willl be able to get laid,
Its about practice
Like riding a bike 😁
Today i got 3 rejections but now Im seeing what i did wrong and trying to improve
Always keep your head up
Date more than one to better your option...win my friend win.
Just keep at it, and don't take it personal.
Please tell me you achieved getting laid 🙏. Did you do it?
If she doesn't respond that means she didn't like your last text or the whole exchange. Don't do it again. Turn it into a joke to let her know you realized what was wrong.
Thanks for your help Todd! im starting to see better resaults
If she fake love, she's fake.
I just need to make more money.. that’s the solution.
Hi Todd, thanks for the great content as always. Could you do a video on whether you should keep texting and trying to set up a second date if you had a bad first date with a girl?
If I don't get a text back I block her. I don't have time for games
You got to give it a chance then after that no more texts
So if most women view you as unattractive and have spent most of your life alone with no options, then what is the solution. I have a small amount of women I interact with on a regular basis but none of them are romantically interested in me. I think women refusing to reply to messages is extremely rude and insulting. Just because you reply doesn't mean we are dating; it just means were are talking. So many women won't be nice, friendly, or reply back to men they find unattractive. Where in the world did they learn that treating men like this is ok. We have feelings and are human beings. Women are monsters for treating certain men better than others. Where is their compassion????
As a lover of words I'm sure you'd like to know it's supposed to be "Cliffs Notes", named after Cliff Hillegass.
Women who don't respond aren't worth it.
I believe I did nothing wrong she's just a bird 🐦 & that's okay 98% of them are, I saw her the other day and she didn't really look as good as the first time I'm actually happy she never responded I learned some more about how they are & know I'm not missing out on anything special.
When I see videos like this teaching meant to send those precision perfect texts or it’s game over is yet another reminder that women generally hold most of the cards. This is why so many men are saying enough is enough, and walking away from this nonsense.
Met a girl on new years and me and her kissed. She did send a long text about our conversation we had til 4 am on the phone. She apologized for saying things that were too outputting to me and hope that it didn't make me feel weird about her. However we went on two dates she does have hectic schedule and we haven't chatted since 4 days
If she doesnt respond to your texts and claims to have feelings for you, shes not gonna be your wife, your forever ever…
Move on
"Hey I saw a girl today wearing a fannypack and it reminded me of you"
Legend has it, TODD V never replies to you tube comments because he’s a god. Doesn’t even reply to god because he’s his god.
I have a weird situation with my gf who I've been going out with for 2-3 months. I'm in China and I met her here. We live around 15 minutes away and we are both going back to the UK in September. We first texted a lot and we met up quite a lot because we weren't working at the time because of the virus outbreak. Now I've started working and we only meet up once a week, which is fine because I think that we will text a lot more. But she hardly texts because she says that since she's off to the UK for a few years then she wants to spend a lot of her time with her family and friends. I can understand this but still confused why not texting me frequently would get in the way of her spending time with her friends and family. She's totally fine with me when we meet but she seems very distant over text. Obviously this is confusing to me and even my other Chinese friends say that this is not normal and I am starting to doubt her feelings towards me. What do you guys think about this?
How do you isolate in daygame/nightgame?
I swear lol if ya in your 20's nowadays ya gt be super man just to get with a 5 😉
Lol
Callum Brown heck yeah. I had a hard time in my early 20s talking to women online. Fuck then and that shitty game
Double texting is sending a text on the phone and then using messenger just to get your partners' attention
I recently had a girl that was very positive until I said something to the effect that I didn't like "her kind". I expected her to reply something like "what the hell does that mean???". However, no response ever came back. After an hour I sent her my response as if she had replied - "respectable, educateds [sim], girl. Yuck!". That did nothing to help. Game over man!
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what if girl is bad texter herself and she replied week after. then i replied week after and she said “oh wow that was such a quick reply 🙄” 😂
this video is a keeper
Do any other guys experience this? Every time I meet a new girl, the first thing she asks me for is my Facebook, Instagram, etc......How annoying is that? I don't have either. If you have a question about me, just fucking ask.
How to talk to girls through social media!!!
Mr.Briss dont
Talk to them in real life instead.
@@stephenhughes5156 ...Good
Things were going good until I sent a couple bad texts failing what could have been a shit test. I then apologized for the bad texts and said they were out of character. What can I do besides move on if she ghosts me? I really like this girl. She works at a Starbucks inside of a barnes & nobles bookstore. Could i like show up and make it seem unintentional or would she catch on & think I'm creepy/stalkery? I really need a strategy here.
So, Todd, what's your highest ever FIDE rating?
Todd - Do you think game in the United Kingdom is closer to European or American style Game, as there's lots of day gamers in Londons but not as much night game advice, Cheers love the channel :)
Well..some of us don't have an much of an option..like me females here scares, media is my only means of communication sadly very hit or miss...an let's just say....I need to hit the range more.
My worst pet peeve boy or girl is when they see the message amd don’t reply if it’s a reply makes sense but a ? It’s like pull my hair out of my head
I'm a little confused. For me, she was texting back fast then I asked her on a date to universal. She stated "Sounds good"(with an angel face emoji). I texted her the next day and asked her when was the last time she went to universal? And she hasn't replied back(that was a day ago).
Shit this video popped up just when I needed it lol. But fuck it I’ll try this once since I felt like I did say something wrong/dumb..