MISSING: Where Is Heather Elvis?
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- Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025
- A 20 year old waitress goes missing from the Myrtle Beach area. Are her older lover and his wife to blame? Who took Heather, and what happened to her?
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I will never understand women who go after their men's mistress, rather than taking it out on their man. This stranger didn't owe you anything. Your husband is the one that betrayed you. The husband should have gone when she started taking his phone, locking him in bed, tattooing him... insane
Why would anyone want a man they had to chain to the bed?? Not me. I am way too busy for all that noise.
ilikepiratesroar exactly!! when men are the ones straying and betraying.. theyre the ones who deserve to be punished (as in, called out and then left)
It is mostly the mans fault. Should be punished more, but women should not be romantic with a married man either. Girl is wrong as well. Should be punished a little. But this women went over board with everything.
@@gjimenez5544 i agree! If the mistress knew abt the mans relationship then she is at fault as well however the man needs to be "dealt" with because he is suppose to be committed and faithful....
If you have to go to those extremes with your "man" then first of all there is something VERY wrong with that "wife" an she needs help and the man needs to go be single and stop playin with ppls emotions........its crazy!!!
"Don't come for me... or do. I don't care"
Same
Yessss
love the no victim shaming rule on this channel
I literally liked and subscribed just after hearing it!
Peter Taboni go away little man
Peter Taboni Not my fault you're ashamed of being little.
Peter Taboni I don't think you're grasping what victim shaming is. I'll try to help you out with that. It's when something bad happens to someone and people say they deserved it because of something they feel is bad about them.
I never said well, you're little so it's your fault you couldn't reach the top shelf and fell on your face. I hope you can see the difference between the two.lmao
AS WELL!!......HARLOWE MEANS BUSINESS!!..LOL
America definitely needs 'no body, no parole' laws passed. I would love to see a follow up to this case at some point.
Me too
I could scream YES louder.
That sounds like a terrible idea. Especially in America where the criminal justice system is straight up racist. What about innocent people who literally have no clue where the body is?
Yesssss, 100%
Mischa Remo exactly! What about all the poor people who are falsely accused?
The saddest thing about this whole case is that she put forth a serious effort to put a stop to everything and theyre the ones who ambushed her. She was moving on! This guy is no different than Watts, Peterson, Christian Longo, and Josh Powell. Theyre all guilty of hurting women who just cared for them. Its so sad. I hope Heather is in a place where shes no longer hurting. So sad. These people are monsters.
Leslie K-Exactly, Heather put an end to the relationship as soon as Tammy started harassing her, which makes me think she might not even have known he was married until the harassment began, yet sadly there still seems to be way too many people in this comments section victim blaming Heather & acting like she brought what happened to her on herself when they don't know what lies that creep told the poor girl. You only have to look at the Scott Petterson case & how he managed to take advantage of the women he was seeing behind his wife's back with his lies, to see how these creeps can be so convincing in their lies that almost anyone could be fooled & taken in by them.
@@sherlockfan2000 From other accounts/reports, he first lied to her about being married/in a relationship, and then tried to tell her that he was in an open marriage.
@Liam Fullarton-Ward From other accounts/reports, he first lied to her about being married/in a relationship, and then tried to tell her that he was in an open marriage.
@Liam Fullarton-Ward Further more, condemning her and not the married man, IS victim blaming. She died. She didn't deserve to die!!! What happened to Sidney? Not to mention the fact that she had moved on from this piece of s*** and him and his she-devil wife lured her to her death.
I feel like if police for some reason asked me for a timeline, I would be screwed. If you ask me what I did yesterday, and the times, I just can't remember .... like, I went to work, and for a walk, but details? Nah.
Lmao, yeah unless something happened that stood out to you like you saw Bradley Cooper on the walk
Pali J. This always freaks me out too lol I would have to write every little thing doen
Down lol
I can’t even remember what I did this morning. There is no way I could give a play by play timeline. I mean I drank coffee did things for my children and cleaned the house is about all I could give lol.
Stella Gibson beef jerky ! I'm laughing so hard. He wasn't the most lovable character.
You get an automatic thumbs up for using the word kanoodling in a sentence.
I try to use the word kanoodling at least once a day 😂
@@StephanieHarlowe I'm Mexican, and English is my second language, I learned a lot of words from watching the show Friends. This word will always remind me of that, cuz that's how I learned it. Anyways... love your videos, glad I found ya!
That’s such a cute story! Who didn’t love Friends!? 😘
I love the word canoodling. It's such a cute word the cuteness that it is. I use the word canoodling in the very dated term of heavy petting. LOL.
this is great bc i literally liked the video after she said that
She babysat my kids. Thank you for the work you are doing.
Wow that’s so sad :(
Oh really?
That says it all, you left your precious ones with her, and i bet she played with them instead of talking on the phone or watching tv. I am so sorry for your loss and your children's loss as she would have gone on to do great things and teach the young ones to be kind, caring and doing(not just saying ) people......
@@chloekit4861 wow 😕☹
Oh I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. 😢
Sept 21 2013 she wrote on Twitter: Once upon a time an angel and a devil fell in love and it did not end well 😢
It’s like she predicted what would happen.
Always trust your gut.. it never fails. So sad what happened to her. I hope we get answers someday.
@@garrettdurham8767 absolutely agree 💯 about ALWAYS trusting that initial “gut” feeling.
That is actually your brain firing off warning signals to the other parts of your body. Trust the initial one though. You will automatically try to outwit that signal or explain it away.
This is a famous Quote by the writer Laini Taylor...from one of her books tho...
But she NEVER imagined this, so sad
My favourite channel. Straight talking like a friend who’s the best story teller. Greetings from UK.
Thank you so much! ❤️❤️
You're slowly becoming my new favourite channel I am loving the true crime videos
Thank you, Rachel!!
I’m true crime obsessed. Just found your channel. So happy I did
I’m addicted
I think I’m beautiful. And I certainly don’t need the approval of a sad, lonely, mean spirited man such as yourself to keep on thinking that. Have a great day and I hope you find something in your life that makes you feel better about yourself so you can stop tearing other people down.
You kind of remind me a real live version of Velma from scooby doo lol
Omg yes!!!
@@Miateut Haha. She kind of sounds like Velma too!
Yes!!!
LaTavia Washington yesssssssss!!!!!! Velma 100%
LaTavia Washington I think she reminds me of Carrie played by Leah Remini on the show The King Of Queens. ❤️
RUclips is suggesting your videos a lot! I bet you see a lot of growth in subs bc that’s how I found you and really enjoy your videos!
Really?? That is so cool! I wonder why it happened like that all of a sudden! Thanks for letting me know.
@@StephanieHarlowe happened to me too. Only watched this vid and already subscribed 😀 Get well soon ❤ Edit: I've just see that you do make up reviews too! *squeals* Where have you been all my life? 😂
This is also how I found her.
This is how I found her too :)
that's why I'm here too and yay ! luv your channel
Binging your old videos to show extra support for you right now Stephanie. ❤️
Me too ❤
I have recently wanted to come back and rewatch Heather’s story. Wow Stephanie, how far you have come in terms of production and sound quality 🙌🏻 It’s like you don’t realize how much your children grow up day by day and when you see a picture of them from 4 years ago and you go “Oh, my..” We can’t thank you enough for your constant desire to bring us better content, and don’t get me wrong I adore your older videos 🫶🏻 Two things that never change are the quality of your content and your pretty face! Love you girl!
I don't balme Heather, I blame the GUY!!! He is the one who allowed Heather's crush to become physical. HE could have shut Heather down the very first time she flirted with him, but no, he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. HE is the one to be blamed, not Heather.
Totally blame him. He loved the attention.
@@StephanieHarlowe YEP...MY EX FIANCE DID ALSO..LOL...FOR 31/2 YEARS OUT OF THE 4YRS THAT WE WERE TOGETHER....HE DESERVES A FUCKING OSCAR FOR HIS PERFORMANCE!!!.....ALSO HAD A HUGE "MOMMY COMPLEX"..SHE WAS A METH ADDICT THROUGHOUT HIS WHOLE CHILDHOOD..AND DID NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO HER KIDS...HE IS LOOKING FOR THE APPROVAL AND ATTENTION...AND MAYBE EVEN LOVE, OF WOMEN....
I see there is no blame for Tammy ? She is the one in charge. She obviously in charge of Sidney and the mastermind sitting at home pulling the strings. They are both to blame, Both meaning Tammy and Sidney.
There is no doubt they meaning both murdered her.
Pretty much shows the mentality you have is all men to blame, All women are innocent
@@2002films they're talking about the affair. Not the murder.
100%
Some unsung victims that should be mentioned are the children who forever won't have their parents to help them blossom into adulthood. I truly believe that when you have children and you cheat on their parent, you are cheating on your children because you are threatening their stability and quality of life. If you're in prison, you're gone. If all of your money needs to be spent on lawyers, that money can't help your children. Both parents should have thought about that before doing anything crazy.
Yes, I did mention Sidney and Tammy's kids at the end. I feel bad, they didn't choose this and now their lives are turned upside down. Truth be told, they are probably better off without those two as influences.
@@StephanieHarlowe And thank you for mentioning them! I just wanted to mention it too in another deep way. It's so easy for us in the true crime community to forget that there are so many indirect victims. These children are definitely victims of their parents' insanity as well.
Given the evidence that they are both murderers, I'm not sure they would be great influences helping them blossom. But I do agree that if you cheat on your partner, you cheat on your family.
True, the kids tends to be forgotten in cases such as this.
I do, however, think it's for the better that they are growing up without Tammy and Sidney to put bad ideas into their head. And since both parents were cheating, it doesn't seem to be a good relationship and something to teach the children. Especially the cheating, chains and possessiveness. Very toxic relationship.
So true! The kids always come first!
Thumbs up for the psa against victim blaming 👍
"I don't allow victim shaming on my channel." = instant👍🏼
Tammy: I could careless about who my husband screwed around with
Also Tammy: handcuffs her boyfriend to the bed 🤔
I hope Heather's family find some resolution to this so they can be able to move ahead with their lives God bless them and that young lady who was mess up by a pretor older man
“When police asked him where he was when she went missing, he said he was handcuffed at home.. he was handcuffed every night “ OMG lol I’m sorry but wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Yeah, like how do you keep your man card after admitting THAT?
It's so obvious by the pings on her phone and the phone calls etc that Sidney and Tammy lured her out to that secluded area and killed her. Can't believe people think otherwise, happy to hear Tammy is in prison and hope same happens to Sidney. I'm sure Tammy was the Mastermind behind it all but Sidney obviously did nothing to stop it
Exactly ! I completely agree
Ruby I don’t think she’s in jail
Maria Rojas She is. Stephanie mentioned in this video she got put away for 30 years.
@@treemarie213100 Yep, you're right. Stephanie did mention it at 32:10
RUBY DEAL she didn’t get put away for murder she got put away for kidnapping; I live in this community. Sidney is still pending trial but with no body and no actual evidence neither of them can get murder charges.
'keep all the 20 year old girls who want pumpkin spiced lattes safe' 🤣i appreciate your wit and respectfulness when discussing these cases. i totally agree, i hope that the lock up sydney and throw away the key for him and his wife!
For those wondering the guy got 30 years too
Sydney? Thanks for letting us know!
So did she
@@stevebartlett536 they both did and got time
@@scorpionkitty oh ok yea I see now, you stated “too”.
I wish they would just tell them where the body is… so the family has closure they had 3 kids
Now that I have caught up on almost all of the Crime Weekly videos, I came to watch videos on the Stephanie Harlowe channel and I just want to say that I love you, your personality, and how caring you are. Seeing these videos from so many years ago is kind of awesome to see how much you and your channel have grown! I am happy that your hard work over all of these years has definitely paid off for you! I can’t wait to catch up on your other videos! Just wanted to throw a hi in here and tell you what an awesome job you have been doing. I know the families of the loved ones have to be so appreciative ❤
omg that is exactly what I’m doing!! I’m almost done with Stephanie’s videos & I feel like I may lose my mind 😭
Same!!
You're such a good story teller 🍿😍
Thank you Becky!!!
I agree! So real and down to earth. I love listening to you.
You would be a great story teller too if you stayed at home all day reading stories an watching TV while taking notes. Get a life
Cannon Ball urm wtf?
Cannon Ball It looks to me that she has a life. A great life. 😏
I spit out my water at "I could care less seeing that I had a boyfriend of my own for the past couple of years"
If that’s even true! Who knows with this crazy bitch 😂
Certifiably insane. Holy crap.
@@---nobody--- Absolutely my thoughts. Randomly throwing in 'I was cheating, too!'
reeeeeks of desperation/low self esteem, ie trying to save face by throwing yourself under the bus (morally). 21:04
'Somebody wanted me, too!' 😆
@@stratosphere94 -- do you also insult males in that dehumanizing manner? Because it is cowardly and unfair if you don't
@@noraa.616 This isn't a case of sexism/misogyny, in the sense that it really does point to this woman being unhinged. Her being a woman doesn't change the fact that she was unhinged, and her being a woman has nothing to do with the fact that she is evil and unhinged.
It was very obvious to Sidney that Heather had a huge crush on him and being older he would have known that sometimes 20 year olds can be very silly. He acted on it when he should have told her it's not going to happen, that poor girl only acted like a million young girls do and Tammy should have been old enough to realise that her husband is a snake and if it wasn't Heather then it would have been someone else. What is wrong with these women who think their husband's wouldn't have cheated if it wasn't for the other woman?
Absolutely!
Yes young women get these crushes on some older men. He should have said to her that he was married and old enough to be her father. But he didn't! Just looking for a quick young f***. What vile human beings both Sidney and Tammy are
it’s really creepy how sydney and tammy were smiling/smirking in almost every picture of them in court
Stephanie, I broke down crying when you described heather and her social media, and how all young girls are, because I saw so much of me in her, and I LOVE the fact that even though public opinion is that “she was a bad girl” you chose to align your behavior in your early 20s with hers.
We all have those aspects of our personality, especially while we are trying to learn who we are, and for you to show such intense solidarity and support for someone that I can see so much of myself in at that age, was extremely touching 🥰🥰
You do these victims so much justice by telling their story.
It takes a strong person to speak for the ones who no longer can speak for themselves ❤️
It really sounds like the wife was unhinged. My initial thought is she told hubby he had to kill this poor girl to prove his love or make amends for his affair.. I agree with you, they set her up (I do think the wife is probably the mastermind of the plot though) and they kidnapped her. I dont even want to think about what they may have done with her. The wife makes me think she would have tortured this poor girl before taking her life. I really hope her family gets some closure soon.
Steel Magnolia I had the same thoughts verbatim :(
Oh for sure. She couldn't stand the fact they were together. Only way to forgive is if he'd get rid of her. So I think he called her and lied to her to get her to come with him and then they both killed her. He even said Tammy was in front seat when he called her. I bet that fountain is where they met up. We know they killed her. I wish they'd make them talk somehow.
I feel that Tammy was not only crazy but so jealous to the point of murder. When crazy and company went away for that month, Heather got her life back together and moving on from Sidney..Tammy I think hated Heather not just for sleeping with her 'property' but because Heather was gorgeous and smart and young with a whole promising future ahead of her. Sidney wouldn't stop contacting Heather, and between him and psycho, they drew her out at 3 in the morning so Tammy could murder her..I think Sidney himself feared Tammy and did what she demanded. i feel Tammy was the mastermind in this.
Vicky Turner agree, Tammy was not going to let her live...especially after she found out Heather was pregnant. They would not leave Heather alone, the whole family have lied to try to cover Tammy and Sidneys lies. The sister needs to charged with perjury
That’s what I said too. I think it’s possible she made him kill her to prove her dominance.
Have you seen the sisters you tube channel shes now 20 and look like her twin must be hard on the family seeing there daughter and seing hether
I couldn't agree more! I've followed this case a very long time and have read and watched several things about it. All signs point to her being the Mastermind.
Oh yeah I keep my hubby chained to the bed. Doesn't everyone?
LOL
Well, yeah... but I don't let him leave to make payphone calls.
Ok, so I chain mine to the bed too... but only when he asks very nicely!
Lady, you are scary.
I chain mine to the toilet, i got tired of having to let him out to pee 😂 seriously though, that must have been one of the worst relationships of all time... why women go after their partners lover instead of their partner blows my mind... he was the one who took a vow to her, not his mistress. If it hadn't been heather it would have been someone else... kick your spouses ass not their Sancho(a)..,
So romantic
I was still living in Myrtle Beach when Heather went missing,it's so so sad,I pray her family find answers to where she is,and Brtittanee Drexel's Mom as well
I live in Myrtle Beach. They found Britanee Drexels remains this year. Let’s pray they find Heather as well.🙏
Lost my shit at “god, why?” after saying they were trying for another child 😂
It's strange how we (people in general) often react so differently when a male is being abused, whether physically, sexually, or, as in Sidney's case, psychologically/emotionally, by his female partner, as opposed to when it's the other way around. I'm not saying Sidney is innocent in this situation, because he is certainly not, but the way Tammy controlled him is clearly very abusive. Yet I'll even admit that when I heard this case for the first time by another youtuber, that didn't even occur to me. We are conditioned to look at female-on-male abuse as somehow being justified by the men's behavior in the first place. And while, again, Sidney is certainly not innocent in any way, especially because of what ended up happening to Heather, the fact that the abuse by Tammy is more or less glossed over is sort of a form of victim-shaming, in my opinion, regardless of the fact that this particular victim then became a perpetrator himself. And the fact that he did is just another terrible effect of the cycle of abuse... just something that made me think.
He was 100% abused by Tammy, I do actually feel quite sorry for him. Its likely he was coerced into murdering her too.
My thoughts too. Definitely not a good guy, but his legit crazy wife was the driver here.
I was actually thinking what else exactly she's done. I suspect there are more victims of hers out there.
I know this is an old comment but its a good point.
If there was a woman who cheated with a young man she worked with and her husband then started chaining her up at night and had her help murder the boy it would all be how horrible the husband was and how sad it was the woman had to go find love in that young guy. Even if she drug his name through the dirt on social media.
Most agree Tammy is just as guilty if not more but the story has a different vibe with genders swapped.
Super horrible and sad situation regardless.
yeaa. especially when steph said that if tammy has to handcuff her husband to the bed then its time to get a new husband... like no it's time to get a new wife lol.
Any man who pursues a younger girl when he has a wife and family is at fault if he follows through with an affair. He made a choice. I also think that both of those people are crazy, vindictive people. I know the type, they're never responsable for anything and it's always everyone against them. That woman was insane and had a deep, burning hate for that poor girl. She just never really realized how dangerous she was. I feel so bad for her family, and I feel that they need to turn the heat up on that couple to tell them where she is so her family can bury her. The sad part is that she wasn't trying to contact that man, she was moving on. I think that got to him, and so bc his wife obviously hadn't let it go they decided she was the reason for their problems and they convinced themselves that getting rid of her was the only way to "fix it". It's disgusting, but I have no doubt they did it.
Been there lived it. It was awful. Decimated the marriage a d cause many issues with the four kids.
I've seen every video posted by Kendall Rae, Eleanor, danelle, amber, gabulosis, and SO many more. So happy I came across your channel. Your work is outstanding. Love your approach to the cases and you can tell you do an extensive amount of research. I noticed you only had 2k subscribers when I started watching and just two weeks later you're at 12k!! Keep up the amazing work ❤️ I first heard of this case on a podcast and you had so much information I wasn't familiar with! Thank you for your dedication 🖤
Thank you so much!! I’m glad you came across me, too!
Kendall is my favorite. I just found this lady's channel. I like that they look into the camera for the majority of the time. Very professional.
Agreed!
I watch all the ones you said too plus more
My theory is that Tammy made him do it, she forced him to call and berade Heather in the past, and she said she had him handcuffed to the bed every night.
I think the wife forced him to call her in the middle of the night begging to see her, so he could lure her in and get rid of her. Maybe to 'cure' her insecurities
just an opinion
She definitely got rid of her to cure her insecurities.
reminds me of what someone said to Jodi Arias, she killed Travis twice: once with murder, the second time by murdering his reputation. awful, horrendous people, I truly hope Heather can get some justice eventually. she didn't even get a chance to really live.
edit: taking back that last part, in her very few years she managed to be really funny and whip smart. her vines are great and her twitter is breaking my heart, she would have been almost my age and has missed out on so many good memes and shitposts and I can see that her dark sense of humour would have appreciated it. RIP heather, secretly hoping you did leave and find a better life. you're a good kid.
This one really chilled my bones... At 20, I had an affair with a 40 year old married man 😔 I fell for the bs that he and his wife were separated and married in title only. A few months in, she found out and called me and visited me at work, I realised he was a lying douche bag and broke it off. I was lucky they were both stable, sooo lucky, it really could happen to anyone
I had a budding romance with a man who claimed to be separated and not living with his wife, but when I found out he was still very much married to his wife, I got his "real" home phone number from a shocked co-worker who had just shocked me with their news. I left a cheery voicemail about our upcoming weekend plans, including saying his name a few times, mentioned the company we worked at, and a mutual friend so that if his wife happened to hear the message he couldn't lie and say he didn't know who the message was from and I must've called the wrong number. I never heard another peep from him and we avoided each other at work. Luckily, since he was a consultant he wasn't around much longer.
Famke Freckles Thank you. I don’t know why people don’t realize men tell women all kinds of crap. When I was very young, I thought I had a crush on a married man when, in retrospect, he was grooming me and going after me and I never realized it was his idea until I found out he was doing the same with my friend and lying to us both about it. The crush she had may not have even been her idea, and/or it may have been based on lies she had been told already
I went through the same thing at that age I completely understand
Same
Men 🙄 .....
I love how you tell these stories. The tribute at the end made me cry. I hope this case is solved and justice is served.
Girl you are such a good speaker. Do you memorize all this info? I love the pace and pitch of your speech, it’s perfect for these longer videos. I like Fiora, but she is quite loud. You are going to keep going up up up. Your videos are genuine and raw and you are t afraid to express your vulnerability. You would make a great journalist. Keep it up sweet lady!
I do memorize most of it, I refer to my notes sometimes! Thank you so much!
Your my favorite channel . Period . I listen to you while getting ready for work etc. your a real life Velma , and I would vote for you for president !!!
I am extremely happy that I stumbled across your channel yesterday!! ( have been binge watching since😳)
Its extremely refreshing to see someone show compassion for not just the primary victims but the ones who are effected by the crime as well.
It feels like you really delve deep to make sure we get a full picture.
Hey Stephanie....
I'm a brand new subscriber, and I am LOVING your mystery Mondays! I love the amount of time that you obviously spend in preparing for your videos. They are very detailed, respectfully explained and the empathy that you show is amazing. I have just bing watch about 6 of them and I am here for the long haul! Keep them coming.....your channel is DEFINITELY going to grow....you're awesome!! 😜
Hi, Joanne!!! Thank you so much, I'm glad you are here and I will certainly keep the videos coming!
No, No, No.....we WANT Sidney to get parole......he's out messing with anything in a skirt while Tammy is in jail----you think she won't talk to get him back in jail and under control????...that would be an interview I'd pay to hear....
Maby thats why hes doing interviews defending his wife to keep her sweet hopeful she wont expose him plus the kids would go in to care if booth are in prison but my god i would love for her to find out hes smashing other woman so that fugly beast gets jealous like she dose and and starts talking like a budgie but if she did most of it she might just keep her mouth shut but jealously always wins i really hope karma catch up with them
Medusa'sChild true!$
Good point
What if the reason Sidney bought a pregnancy test that night was so that when Tammy and Sidney cornered and maybe even kidnapped Heather, then Tammy made Heather take the test and it came back positive and thats why they could've possibly killed her. Maybe if it came back negative she would have been fine.
I was thinking that it was bought for them to give to her. Or maybe to trick her into thinking he cared whether she was pregnant or not, because allegedly he purchased a cigar at the same time. Either way, I do not think it was for Tammy.
It was definitely for Heather not Tammy.
ChloeDee that is my thought exactly
Never thought of that. Yes. These people are bat shit crazy. You can look on Disney message boards to see the crazy shit she was posting. A link from a Reddit led me there. I mean Micky Mouse is cool but damn, she was posting constantly!
I’ve watched a few videos on this case and that’s what I think happened too. They tricked and set this poor girl up together and murdered her because she was pregnant by him. 😓
Binging your videos, you and Mike from That Chapter are my favorite! You’re so down to earth and put so much work into research for your videos and I just really appreciate it. Quality 👌🏼!
Thank you for your channel it has helped me out of a dark place from my own trauma as a victim. Hearing you say there is no victim shaming on this channel made me feel so safe and remines me why I fallow you to this day
"If you have to do that to your husband to make sure he's not cheating.. it's time to get a new husband!"
And a serious look at your Mental Health!!
No wait ... Don't get a new husband. Get the mental health and some self-esteem on your own.
@@valerieetter5013 touche!
So good! I really like your approach and your attitude toward the victim. Please keep making these - I've watched almost all the true crime videos you've made so far.
Thank you Molly!!!
Steph I cried when you talked about victim shaming I was drunk and accepted a ride home from two completely normal looking young men. They ended up kidnapping and holding me for two days, taking turns raping, beating, videotaping, and torturing me. I have held such guilt in my heart that had I not gotten drunk and made the mistake of accepting that ride I would have never been sexually assaulted. Thank you.
I’m so sorry that happened to you 😥😥 I’m crying right now. I’m so glad you got out of that. I love you ❤️
Wow I just needed to tell you, I’ve experienced something similar(my drink was spiked, I left it with a guy and knew better, my Momma had drilled that warning in my head for soooo long, never ever leave your drink unattended), and I blamed myself because I knew better and if I hadn’t left my drink with this guy it never would have happened. But my dear, you and I did NOTHING wrong!!! We only trusted people we shouldn’t have, that’s the only thing we made the mistake of doing! Women should be able to leave their drink and not be worried about getting drugged and raped! It’s completely on THEM not US!!! Prayers for you, just push those self blaming thoughts out of your mind forcefully and immediately replace them with no, they did wrong, they chose to commit a crime and to hurt someone in such a terrible way! Rape isn’t about sex anyways, it’s about control. It doesn’t matter if a woman is drunk or sober, showing more skin or wearing a hoodie and sweats, is beautiful or not so beautiful etc etc... yeah maybe certain decisions make it easier for these predators to get us, but that doesn’t mean it’s our fault or we deserved to be hurt! It took a lot of counseling for me to finally start believing this, and I still have those self blaming thoughts creep in sometimes but it’s gotten so much better!! I pray you find peace and love yourself enough to know you did nothing wrong! God loves you SO much, He’s always with you! My faith has gotten me through everything bad that’s happened in my life, if I didn’t have Him to lean on through the rough times idk what I’d do! Sending you love and hugs and prayers! 💜🙏🏼
@babyfirefly1843 and @jessicawilson4655 I am SO VERY SORRY that you both went through that hell on earth 💔 I'm so grateful that you both are still here to share your stories, doing so may save a woman's life... Thank You for your bravery ❤ please know that what happened to you was NOT YOUR FAULT, YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.... I pray that you can continue to heal and stay strong every day 💪❤️🩷
This was absolutely heartbreaking but you have such a talent for not only delivering the story but also generating love and empathy for the victims.
Friend of the defense lawyer on the jury because he "promised"
Yeah..totally not sketch AT ALL🙄
Yes, please keep us updated with this case! I really hope Heather is found alive somewhere, but I doubt it's going to happen. Such a senseless tragedy. Sydney and Tammy are damaged, evil people.
Yes they are! I will, Michelle!
Michelle M agreed.
Poor little thing. I wish she had run away to Thailand. Thank you for the very respectful and thoughtful video.
She looks so happy in that driving picture 🙁 she seemed to be really enjoying herself, if only she hadn’t received that phone call 🙁
I love you for even doing this, even being sick, that shows dedication, love that! I know this video is old but I'm catching up on your videos, any I'm just stuck on your videos.
Of all the true crime channels ..you are by far my very favorite. You're informative and entertaining and really dive into all the details. Your delivery is the best. I click you on and listen every morning while doing my make up routine. The way you make the the listener feel like they know the victim is so unique. Love the content!!
Prayers for Heather.
Thank you for making this video. Never heard about it b4. Being respectful of the victim and their family
Another perfectly delivered story.... even with a cold! Praying for this family. I cant imagine..
Thank you!! My voice is at the raspy stage now, so the video I record today should be interesting...
New sub here. I love that you stand up for the victims.
Thank you!!
Stephanie Harlowe you are so welcome. I’ve been binge watching your videos since the day I found you. I can’t get enough lol. The way that you tell the stories is one of the best I’ve seen.
As someone who has had to defend victims against criminology "experts," I appreciate that she stands up for victims too especially when they've been dismissed and forgotten for so very long unless it's for trial reasons.
Heather's tweet from September made my blood go cold... "Once upon a time, an angel and a devil fell in love. It did not end well"
Who is the angel and who is the devil? Is she the angel!? Do Angels have affairs with married men? No blaming or shaming, but sleeping with married men with multiple children is a morally bad thing. That's why Nicole Kissinger and Amber Fry get dragged in every conversation about the married man they slept with killing his wife. They blame them for the wife death as well! Its amazing really...if they referred to themselves as angels the internet would break!
Lady Jay Mac girl shut the fuck up. Did you miss the PSA about victim blaming? You never know what Sidney told her. Heather didn’t make vows to Tammy, Sidney did.
Lady Jay Mac nobody blames Amber Frey because it’s common knowledge she had no idea Scott was even married 🤨 how do you know Sidney didn’t lie to Heather?!
I love how much time and attention you bring to these videos. Thanks for bringing all these people's stories to light and making us aware of the situations. You do great work.😁
I understand cheating is wrong but the wife went over the top crazy
True
I can understand her anger, but Tammy looks like a raging and controlling bitch.
This guy that went on a date with her...could that date have been set up by Sydney and Tammy? Maybe to pin the murder on him or he was paid?
I thought about that too🤔🙄
Speculative.
Definitely not.
I thought that too!!!
Haha love the “don’t come for me... or do”
Thank you for speaking out against victim shaming ❤️ I appreciate the statement. You're genuinely one of the best RUclipsrs out there.
Awww thank you!
So glad I found your channel. I love your compassion for this young women, and your stance on supporting victims.
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Your voice is super calming to listen to :)
Jessica Hemming awww thank you, love. I’m glad you think so
I can’t believe she only has a little over 2000 subscribers. I absolutely love her and how she tells the cases she covers. I’m so happy that I found her channel... I am positive that she’s going to keep growing with her awesome content and next we know she’ll have 100k subscribers. Can’t wait to see more content/videos from her. Obsessed 😍💀. Lol
Girl, you make me blush, and make me so happy. You are the sweetest!
Now 6.9k almost 7k! She definitely deserves the subscribers
Dang! 10k now and it says your comment was only a week ago!
Almost to 12K as of today
20k!!
You remind me of Linda Cardellini who played. Velma in Scooby doo film (:
pen garth 😂
Yes! They’re both super pretty.
Stephanie Harlowe You really do look like Linda Cardellini! 💕
OMG the wife was CRAZY AF!!
I know this is an older video but I am always so amazed by you! You are so smart and have so many details and information and you are so incredibly dedicated! Thanks for the great videos!
This is the first video I've seen of your's and I'm loving how you relay this case.
I've already happily subscribed and I'm so down for binging the rest of your videos!
Kelly Leigh aww thank you!
A girl that went missing over 20yrs ago in Petal, Ms ( a very small city ) Angela Freeman, nothing has ever came of it, I pray it’s solved before her mom dies 😢
Jeezo well done chix. Nothing can get me out of bed, into clothes and makeup and talking so bravo! Get better soon chix x
haha, thanks Gayle... with the kids, I am up no matter what and I had a shift that morning so might as well make the best of it. The immense amounts of coffee I drink doesn't hurt either.
I love this girl have Been binge watching for days the content she puts out is on another level awesome 🙏👍💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you for sharing her story. I’ve never heard of her before. Very very sad. I absolutely love listening to you. You and Jon Chrymes are my 2 favorite people to listen to in regards to telling people’s stories. You can tell how much time you put into these cases. Great video. 👍🏼
I love your videos. I love true crime myself and I love that you do your reseach and have a lot of the details. And I love that you give us viewers every scenario that could have happened.
Love your videos, I don’t know where your channel has been all my life but I’m glad I found it❤️
Thank you love!
Thank you for doing an honest and respectful telling of Heather's story. I think Sydney and Tammy are awful people and I hope they both rot in jail. I never understood why the spouse is always mad at the "other woman" but still stays married and forgives the guy. Like, you are right. HE broke his vows. Instead of owning up to it he bowed to his psycho wife and let this girl that he supposedly cared for get victimized and killed. I dont think Heather is missing..I dont think Tammy would just let her live. Its a sad sad thing especially since Heather was so young and full of promise. I hope she is at peace now and if she was pregnant that that baby's soul found peace too. Ladies, if in the future something similar happens where your husband has an affair remember HE'S the one who made the promise of fidelity. Let go of all that hate and rage that you may feel to other person who made no such commitment to your marriage. That type of hate and rage can escalate into something ugly and horrible for all parties involved. Dont be a Tammy. And guys, if you ever have an affair(dont), own it, try to become a better person and leave the 3rd party alone if you guys are done. Dont slutshame or put that person down to make you feel better about what you did just to appease your conscience and appease your spouse that you hurt. Dont be a Sydney.
Idk. My man cheats, idc how old i am. Hes your problem now, boo 😘
You do such a beautiful job of making victims real people and not just a victim in a headline. Love this channel so much
I feel quite sure about that Tammy and Sidney killed her together. It could have been so that Sidney at first didnt want to but Tammy ruled his life and existance. If she said Heather needs to go...she did.
kitty qat Tammy is a psycho
Super interesting, as usual! I have a theory: What if Sidney got away from Tammy for a bit and called Heather from the payphone, legit wanting to leave Tammy and start a new life and they planned to meet at the bar. Maybe he bought the pregnancy test (not sure of the time line of this part) to take with Heather, but when Tammy found out, she got suspicious and handcuffed him so he couldn't get away... Meanwhile, when Sidney didn't show, Heather called his phone to find out where he was. Tammy had the phone, so this call confirmed her suspicions about Sidney's intentions, and enraged, she developed a plan to have the "cheating couple" meet so she could confront Heather and torture her in front of Sidney to teach him a lesson. They met, and when things started getting out of hand, Heather brought up the pregnancy (maybe to beg for them to just let her go home), which sent Tammy over the edge, and in a blind rage, she killed her. Sidney then helped dispose of the body, either voluntarily or under threats that Tammy would pin the murder on him if he didn't help... Or it's possible I watch too many murder mysteries! ♥
I kind of was thinking the same thing! I can only hope now that Tammy is put away, if this is true, Sidney comes clean and her parents can find her body and have some closure. Really smart thinking, by the way!
I was coming to comment pretty much this same thing.
omg that retweet on heather's account: "hey married fellas, you can either cheat on your wife OR murder her. never both. that's when you get caught." that's so weird
When was that tweet written. It really doesnt seem like a girl like Heather would write it
@@aliddlebirdietoldme863 it’s a retweet
She doesn't seem to have written anything on her account in the 6 weeks prior to her 'demise'. Which is odd, given how prolific she seems to have been before that. Could be she got fed up with Twitter (I don't blame her) or perhaps she had more serious stuff on her mind.
RIP Heather, where ever you are, I know your family is grieving over you, I know you'll be found one day!!!!
Whether or not Heather was killed at the "landing" (which I doubt), Sidney & Tammy wouldn't have time to dispose of her body in the vicinity of the "landing", judging by the close timeline that Sidney's truck was captured heading to and leaving the area.
I'm more inclined to believe Heather was taken alive. Why else would Sidney have purchased the pregnancy-test kit? And even if Sidney & Tammy had forced Heather to take a pregnancy-test, it's not as if they were going to let her go if the test showed a negative result. Neither cared about the outcome of the test. It was a premeditated murder!
How dare anyone drag Heather's father through the mud. It's sadistic! How would anyone like to have their loved one go missing and everything about their past, exposed and put up for scrutiny when the only common denominator are the two people who had it out for Heather and whose behavior & actions speak directly to their involvement in her disappearance.
My heart goes out to Heather's family & loved ones. I am only grateful for the sweet, young man who took Heather on a date the night she went missing and cared enough to teach her how to drive a manual! I think he was a very nice young man.
I was actually a barista at the Starbucks in the same spot as the tilted kilt she worked at. I never really spoke too much to her, just the whole “haha same name “ bit and I always remembered her name when she came in. But she was so pretty and seemed like a sweet girl. I feel so bad for her family. Myrtle Beach is such a hell hole, so glad I made it out of there.
Also, she bought her own lattes.
Really interesting case. Very sad for Heather, I think it's probably clear to everyone that she met foul play. I watch so much true crime and watch so many videos on cases like this and i'll never ever be able to understand how a person can just take someone's life like it's nothing. There has got to be an integral part of the soul that is missing in someone in order for them to be able to do that and live with themselves afterwards.
I agree.. I have been REAL mad at someone before. Never have I thought, "I'll just kill them"
I think inconclusive probably means the second line was very very faint - I’ve had that with my daughter and my pregnancy now when it’s too light to be too sure. I’m so glad RUclips recommended your channel!!
Is that what it means??? 🤣 i'm like, what symbol is inconclusive? I picture it as being this emoji 🤷♀️
Haha nah I know some people think that if they can barley see it or if it’s half a line which has happened it’s inconclusive. This is why I like digital ones it tells you straight up with no stuff around your either pregnant not pregnant or you haven’t peed enough on it so you don’t get a result at all 😂😂
It’s my understanding that if there’s a line it means you are. I know when I first got pregnant I went on some pregnancy boards and there were women using filters and stuff to see if they could get a line to be more obvious.
Great channel!! I hope you feel better... I completely agree with you about victim shaming...just horrific
Watching this I feel like you see yourself in this girl and you protect not her but your story of past in her history.
16:47 according to one of the Myrtle Beach police officers, it's not a crime to go missing so her vehicle was not considered a crime scene at Peachtree Landing. At that point they were just trying to find a missing girl.
Loving Mystery Monday!! True crime and makeup is my cup of tea 🙏🏼 Feel better soon!
Your channel is growing so fast and I'm so happy for you!!
Thank you, Jessica!
you're so passionate . frick i love these videos as sad as they are
Andrea G 😂❤️😘
I watch your videos everyday since finding this channel. You are amazing. U show such care for the victims and families.🖤
I love your channel! I did find you thru another true crime RUclipsr "recommended for you " but you are by far my favorite true crimer, your voice and style is graceful and most of all how clearly passionate you are about these cases and victims!