Cov hmoob tsi lawb dab ces li koj niam hluas... nrauj tsi taus vim tsi muaj tus txiv ces tsi muaj chaw tuag. Txoj cai no muab nej cov pojniam khi rau nej tus txiv ces nej tus txiv tham hluas nkauj yuav niam yau los nej tsi kam nrauj. Txawm muaj chaw tuag tsi muaj, txawm lawb dab tsi lawb, txawm muaj nyiaj txom nyem, txawm qhev huabtais... los thaum kawg txhua tus yeej mus nkag qhov av mus ua av 1 yam.
Kuv ntseeg tias thaum sawv daws tseem nyob ntawm niam thiab txiv lub xub twg ces thiaj muaj qhov bond sib hlub xwb, thaum Nyias mus ua Nyias neej lawm ces zoo li ib tug tsis paub ib tug siab li lawm mas yog ib qho kev tu siab heev li os
Cov teeb meem no yeej vim yog koj tsis meej pem thiab. Yog koj them nyiaj nrog koj tus niam hluas, koj yuav tsum muab koj lub npe nrog koj niam hluas lub nyob rau daim policy ces twb tsis muaj tej teeb meem no. Neb kev viv ncaus twb tsis tu.
Learn from this. Never go into anything with siblings especially if they have a partner. It's ok, karma will get them sooner or later. Your sister deserves what she gets. No one will trust her again or be her friend. If she can do this to her blood family she can easily do it to others. Let her go, she’s not worth your time and love.
Tus txiv neej zoo li no yuav ua dab ntsis muab nrauj pov tseg kiag tsis tau care hmong tus cwj pwm yus twb tham hluas nkauj tseem tsis pub luag hais thiab nej cov poj niam yuav tau ua taus niam txhob tseg nws kiag.
U can't help those who doesn't want to be helped, as the case of your sister. She is an adult and knows what's right and wrong already. Just leave her alone. If her marriage falls apart again, she's only gonna blame you. Let her live her life on her own terms. One day she'll look for you guys and at that point if u guys still love her then u guys may lend a hand. If i were you, i wouldn't get involved anymore. I don't see how your meddling though bc you're only doing your sisterly duty.
My younger sister’s first marriage was to a Hmong Vang guy. He was very abusive and controlling over her and a cheater too. My sister was weak and my parents and brothers don’t help her. Each time she run back home, they make her go back. Finally I stepped in and started standing up for her. I would get into arguments with her husband. One day she came to my house and he came for her, he dragged her by the hair out of my house so I got into physical fight with him. I beat his ass with a baseball bat and finally he left her alone. She is now married to a very nice Meka husband and have two kids with him. Her life is good now. It’s been 20 years.
You can't help someone who can't help themselves. PERIOD. Txhob kom koom yuav life insurance os. Tus txheeb txheeb ze ze yus yeej rov taw tuam ntuj tau rau yus kawg.
You have to learn how to walk away from people who don't even want to love themselves. Otherwise, you will drive yourself crazy! As much as you love her, you have to let her be.
Kuv los yeej muaj ib tug sister coj lis koj tus niam hluas no thiab. Qhov zoo ces txhob thab tej tug niam hluas tsis pub ib puas. You cannot trust your sister.
Buying life insurance with a sibling is a very stupid act, much like doing a business together. Well, it means you have a stupor without drafting or signing legal documents. But you didn't You have to rely on your sister to do everything and at the same time she is controlled under her rogue husband. It's a difficult lesson for you to learn from.
Twb nyob rau mekas teb no lawm es koj tus niam hluas tseem Riam thiab pliag Txiv tas npaum li ko lawm ces txhob tig saib nws ib muag lawm nawj niam Txiv yug ib plab los tus phem mas omen ti txha tshaj tus Qhua nawj
My step mom said I gave lice to my step sister when we were kids. Dad came home and beat the shit out if my mom, from this day on, I don't ever need a sister!! I need my mom! God bless!
This is the exact reason why I stopped my husband for paying the same share of insurance with his older brother. I knew his sil would be a bitch when they see money so I tell him don't do it. Lots of people change when they see money. Especially, the beneficiary is his brother. If you buy, buy on your own, don't do it this shit of sharing policy and only one owner and beneficiary. As to your sister, let her be. It's her dream to be the the abusive husband and cheater. She doesn't love herself, you can't help her. She doesn't want to see the truth, you can't help her.
Kuv yog koj tus niam hluas ma kuv los yuav kiag koj tua txiv xwb los ua kiag koj tus niam yau xwb os lov ua cas kok pheej yuav hais kom koj tus niam hluas nrauj txiv niag pog ntse aw
Ib zaj nus muag viv ncaus sib kaus dua lawm thiab lau. Niam & txiv mas...muaj nqis tiag li yom lawv. Ua rog nyiaj insurance thiab nyiaj tshav ntuj cuag li npua sib tog huas qhauv li as hmoob miskas e. Lam tau tuaj nyob miskas teb xwb, tsis hloov tsis ntse li as...tsim nyog nyob tim nplog teb xwb. Hmoob mad...thaum ruam ces ruam ruam ti txha nkaus. Thaum nkhaus ces nkhaus nkhaus lem loo u-turn. Hmoob twb txawj hais tias, thaum ua dablaug, viv ncaus ces kuv ntog me me los koj nim nti kuv kaub puab os. Thaum ua luam ces yog yeeb ncuab no nev.
Leave your sister. Shes not on your side. Dont be so nice to her, she chose her life with her ex. When she die he ain't gonna come up with anything to bury her. I feel sorry for her kids to have a father like that. I hope the kids do not have their fathers attitude and bad manners.
Koj hlob tab sis koj ruam dhau niam hluas thiab txiv hluas nkawd koj thiab mag ob niag ntxias noj tag . Kom xav tias yuav yus txoj kev ruam xwb no tau li cas los yuav li ntawd
Tus niam tsev koj twb paub koj tus niam hluas raug quab yuam ua txhua yam li nws tus txiv hais lawm. Koj tsis tas mob siab thiab hlub nws lawm. Hais kom tau nws them koj qhov nyiaj rau koj xwb ntawm nws thiab koj ces yuav sib txiav li cas los cia sib txiav mus zoo dua. Txhob mob siab txhob hlub nws lawm os.
Tsis tas foom lis ntuj nyob qis qis yeej yuav npam sai sai ib hnub xwb. Tso nws tseg tsis txhob mus cuam tshuam txog nws lawm mog. Vim rab liab liab xwb Es koj niag niam hluas thiaj rov taw Tuam ntuj kaj. Nws ces kawg da quav da zis lawm xwb os. Kiss your money good bye os sister.
You cannot blame your brother-in-law in all this. Your sister also played a big part of it. Nws pab nws tus txiv. Nkawv 2 leeg koom ib lub siab. Though it is too bad that this broke your heart, there's nothing there left to pick up. Forgive and move on. Learn from your mistakes.
Cov ruam ruam li tus niam hluas ma txhob nrog nws sab laj txoj dab tsi li hos. Nws chim chim yuav tuag los txhob hais li cas rau. Koj tseem hais koj qhov kev xav rau nws thiab ces nws muab ua lub kiag hais tias koj txw 2 nws ntag no ho. Cov pojniam ruam 2 txhob thab kiag. Nws tsis pab nws tus kheej ces tsis txhob mus pab pab, nws yuav tias koj phem xwb nawb.
This is sad. Your sister is very miserable so hopefully you can forgive her one day. She’s already at her lowest and just hanging by the thread. Let her deal with her own problems and leave her be. I love my sisters but I don’t like to get involved in their relationships. I let them know that I will always support their decisions but I don’t offer suggestions because at the end of the day, it is their decision and life, not mines.
Never go in a partnership without a contact. Never co-sign for anyone or you’re just asking for trouble. I don’t care how good you think that friend or family member is. Borrowing money always causes problems esp when the ones borrowing are bad with money to begin with! That’s why they are borrowing duh!
"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink it." Your little brother in-law is a BIG bee-otch. You cannot help someone who wants to stay in a domestic abusive relationship. You can't save someone who doesn't want to be save.
Both of these sisters are stupid. Why would you pay on a policy where you are not a owner and beneficiaries? Something easy and done at the start of the policy where no one can alter the policy without the other party. A little too late and the older sister can forget about the money. She should have check on the policy at least every quarter or semi-annually to ensure the policy is still active. The older can consider the $$ given monthly to pay for the policy as a gift and funds to support her sister and her husband behaviors.
actually she can get half if she shows prove of partially paying for the policy but since the story is like this i doubt she wrote checks to the insurance policy
The trust have been broken the minute the older sister finds out the younger brother-in-law cheated on her sister. I would have requested to take ownership of the policy if I were the older sister. She had another chance when her mother died and issues with the insurance proceeds. I guess the older sister have no use for her hard earned $$ other than giving to her deadbeat sister and her husband on the pretense of paying for the insurance policy.
TEJ ZAUM KOJ TUS TXIV HLUAS KO TWB MUAB KOJ TUS NIAM HLUAS COB TXAUS LAWM, YOG NWS UA LI NWS TUS TXIV HAIS TSIS TAU, ES YOG NWS UA CES NEB OB VIV NCAUS THIAJ TSIS SIB HLUB LAWM, TEJ LAUS YEEJ TIAS NYIAJ TXIAG TSIS YOG TXHEEB ZE, YOG LI NTAWD THAUM POM NYIAJ LAWM LUAG TSIS NTSHAI TSAM YUS TU SIAB, YOG TIM KOJ TUS TXIV HLUAS NKAUS 2 XWB, NWS MUAB LUB SIAB PHEM TSIS HLUB KOJ, NWS THIAJ RAU TSWV YIM RAU KOJ TUS NIAM HLUAS KOM NEB SIB TXIAV
Can’t help ur sister if she doesn’t want to help herself. Let her dwell in her misery with the passive, aggressive, narcissistic, drama-filled POS husband she obviously can’t leave. She’s a grown woman & will have to live with her own decisions/actions.
The sister is stupid. Should have cut ties. No matter how much you love her pab tsis tau People who don't want to help themselves. I would have cut ties with her the first time her husband called and talk shit. Be like nope, you hella suck as a sister. She definitely does not know her worth. Never buy insurance with other people. Its best to have your own.
Tim koj niam hluas 2 los tim koj 1. Koj puas tau muab xav tias vim li cas koj cov dablaug twb tsi muaj teeb meem nrog koj niam hluas thiab txiv hluas cas koj muaj2 teeb meem nrog nkawv? Kuv xav koj pheej mus thab nkawv. Koj niam hluas xum xaiv nws tus txiv tsi xaiv koj na cas koj pheej mus tab kaum nkawv. Koj niam hluas tsi yog me nyuam yau lawm nws xaiv nws, zoo phem los nyob ntawm nws.Thaum koj niam tuag twb muaj2 teeb meem, koj niam hluas los tsi mloog koj lus cas koj tseem muab nyiaj rau nkawv them koj txiv npau insurance thiab? Qhov no yog tim nkawv 2 los tim koj 1 thiab. Cov tibneeg li koj ua tau xeeb2 txob. Yog kuv, hais zaum 1 tsi mloog hais zaum 2 tsi mloog ces kuv tsi hais ntxiv lawm... hais ntau lawv yim dhuav yus yim ntxub yus. Lub neej yog koj niam hluas lub, hais tsi mloog ces txav deb2 xwb txhob thab li koj es thaum poob nyiaj ces los complain.
Tus me tais aw tsib kom them koj xwb maj viv ncaus los niag Txiv twb tsis yog yus niam Txiv yug ib plab nqes los zoo li koj tus niam hluas ntawd xwb ces tsib kom tau nawb mog thaum tsis ua luam ces yog viv ncaus niam tub os yog ua luam ces yog suav dub xwb mas nawb sister aw!!!
Tus niam tsev hauv zaj neej neeg no tus txiv tsi paub tab li. Kj tus txiv tsi hlub kj os. Kj tus txiv tseem 2 yog cov txiv hmmong npab nauj thaub ntuj qub qab nawb. Yog tiag mas kj tus txiv yuav tsu thiv thaiv kj thaum kj tus txiv hluas hu kj tus txiv. Kj tus txiv tseem yuav yog kj tus yeeb ncuab tsi yog kj tus txiv hluas nawb!
It’s just better to buy your own policy to create less drama. Never pay a policy together with someone because it always create problem.
Well, they should each of the policy so they get half and half. That what my brother and I use to do.
I agree. It doesn't matter who it is or how much you trust each other, money is money and people can become greedy.
There show be a policy half and half . Maybe they only put one person name .
should report insurance fraud on that couple... hmong people need to start using the laws and quit protecting people
Xaj maim no ces leej twg yug los tsis muaj viv muaj ncaus tsis muaj kwv tij ces tus ntawv yog tus yug los muaj hmoo lawm xwb os..hmoob es.
Pab tu siab rau koj tus niam hluas ruam2 ntawd kawg li tos ib cov txiv neej ua li no los ib txhia pojniam yeej ntxim li no
Cov hmoob tsi lawb dab ces li koj niam hluas... nrauj tsi taus vim tsi muaj tus txiv ces tsi muaj chaw tuag. Txoj cai no muab nej cov pojniam khi rau nej tus txiv ces nej tus txiv tham hluas nkauj yuav niam yau los nej tsi kam nrauj. Txawm muaj chaw tuag tsi muaj, txawm lawb dab tsi lawb, txawm muaj nyiaj txom nyem, txawm qhev huabtais... los thaum kawg txhua tus yeej mus nkag qhov av mus ua av 1 yam.
Niam hluas ruam , txiv hluas phem.
Tsis yog vim nyiaj , yog vim kev ruam thiab kev phem xwb,!
Kuv ntseeg tias thaum sawv daws tseem nyob ntawm niam thiab txiv lub xub twg ces thiaj muaj qhov bond sib hlub xwb, thaum Nyias mus ua Nyias neej lawm ces zoo li ib tug tsis paub ib tug siab li lawm mas yog ib qho kev tu siab heev li os
Rab gws yog nws nga saum ntuj los ntaus nws xwb os thiaj mag gws tas hnoob tas hmo li ntag cia nws mag kom tuag thiaj txaus nws siab
Yeej tseem muaj cov neeg hlwb kooj thiab ces cias li .
Yog koj kam ces cia koj tus niam hluas los ua koj tus niam yau ma lov es neb thiaj li sib hlub os
there's always that 1 stupid sibling in the family who's a loss cause...
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Viv ncaus niam txiv dab laug tseem ceeb tsi cuag rab qau los tsij niam hluas lub nceb, thiaj zoo li koj hais os mas.
Cov teeb meem no yeej vim yog koj tsis meej pem thiab. Yog koj them nyiaj nrog koj tus niam hluas, koj yuav tsum muab koj lub npe nrog koj niam hluas lub nyob rau daim policy ces twb tsis muaj tej teeb meem no. Neb kev viv ncaus twb tsis tu.
Tim koj
Oh my .. I hate people like this toxic relationship and then the victims chooses to protect smh ..
Wow vim muaj tus dev dab tsim thiab dab tswj koj tus niam hluas lawm es thiaj zoo li no ntag lauj
Koj tus sister ko mas nws tus txiv tsim nws tuag kiag los koj txhob hlub. Cia nws tus txiv tsim kom txaus tso.
Hi
Txhob tu siab os me ntxhais hnub twg nws tuag liab ntsha tsuas los nws neej nws tsav nyob rau couthouse xwb yug los txhaum ua viv ncaus yuam kev lawm tu siab nrho hlub koj 3 tug nus yau xwb ces zoo lawm
Your sister deserve it. You did the right thing for her but she chose her way so good for her. Leave her alone and live your happy life.
Muaj tu niem hluag zoo li np ces xum tsis yuav
Txawm viv ncaus thiab nus muag sib hlub npaum twg los nyias muaj nyias ib tug pojniam thiab tus txiv ces qhov phem yeej yuav tawm tuaj xwb thaum pom nyiaj ces lub siab phem yeej tawm plaws ntag
txoj neej neeg no mloog tsis muaj qab hau dab tsi li tej txoj zoo no tsis tsim nyog hais twb tsis muaj ib qhov tseem ceeb li
Learn from this. Never go into anything with siblings especially if they have a partner. It's ok, karma will get them sooner or later. Your sister deserves what she gets. No one will trust her again or be her friend. If she can do this to her blood family she can easily do it to others. Let her go, she’s not worth your time and love.
100% tim koj tus niam hluas. But Karma is also 100% true. Think about it.
Koj tus txiv hluas ko yuav npam sai lauj,. Siab phem dhau lawm
Nashe koj tu niam hlua tseem tshuav nws tu txiv nqi them tsis tau Tag cia nws them kom tag tso nws thiaj zeem os viv ncaus aw...
Kv tos cov da neeg hv li o niam luas aw
Niam ntshuab teev e kv ma laj to koj cov dab neeg heev li os . Kv nyiam2 koj hai heev li
Pab koj tu siab kawg o sister aw... koj tus niam hlua ces nkim lus xwb o
Tus txiv neej zoo li no yuav ua dab ntsis muab nrauj pov tseg kiag tsis tau care hmong tus cwj pwm yus twb tham hluas nkauj tseem tsis pub luag hais thiab nej cov poj niam yuav tau ua taus niam txhob tseg nws kiag.
U can't help those who doesn't want to be helped, as the case of your sister. She is an adult and knows what's right and wrong already. Just leave her alone. If her marriage falls apart again, she's only gonna blame you. Let her live her life on her own terms. One day she'll look for you guys and at that point if u guys still love her then u guys may lend a hand. If i were you, i wouldn't get involved anymore. I don't see how your meddling though bc you're only doing your sisterly duty.
Tus maum dev los ntshai txiv tiag22 laus
When you love someone more than your own life and that person don’t love you back. We have to live ourself first.
My younger sister’s first marriage was to a Hmong Vang guy. He was very abusive and controlling over her and a cheater too. My sister was weak and my parents and brothers don’t help her. Each time she run back home, they make her go back. Finally I stepped in and started standing up for her. I would get into arguments with her husband. One day she came to my house and he came for her, he dragged her by the hair out of my house so I got into physical fight with him. I beat his ass with a baseball bat and finally he left her alone. She is now married to a very nice Meka husband and have two kids with him. Her life is good now. It’s been 20 years.
You can't help someone who can't help themselves. PERIOD. Txhob kom koom yuav life insurance os. Tus txheeb txheeb ze ze yus yeej rov taw tuam ntuj tau rau yus kawg.
My sister and I have the same problem.
Ncauj hlob tau kua haus cais yog li no ntag
Xa nyiaj mas txog tsawg xa lus mastxog ntau ov
Nws twb raug nws tus txiv ysim nws tseem noj koj txiv pob nyiaj insurance thiab tseem yuav npam nkawv npam nws dua
Nej ruam tiag2 tsis paub txoj cai yuav life insurance ces txhob koom. Thaum sib koom 1 phau life ins. yuav tsum yog 2 leeg npe "owners & beneficiary." Yog yus tsis muaj npe ces tsis sib koom xwb.
You have to learn how to walk away from people who don't even want to love themselves. Otherwise, you will drive yourself crazy! As much as you love her, you have to let her be.
Tib neeg lub siab ntshaw $ thsu. Muaj ib pob nyiaj lawm tsis nco qab sib hlub lawm
Kuv los yeej muaj ib tug sister coj lis koj tus niam hluas no thiab. Qhov zoo ces txhob thab tej tug niam hluas tsis pub ib puas. You cannot trust your sister.
Man mus ntov ntoo Tshiab ua teb Tshiab ntshe teb yuav zoo txhua yam li os yom?
Nej cov nyiag nkauj muam nraug nus ko mas ruam ib yam nkaus li os. Hmoob txoj kev ruam ko sim neej no tsi txhob ua ib zaug ntxiv lawm nawb.
Buying life insurance with a sibling is a very stupid act, much like doing a business together. Well, it means you have a stupor without drafting or signing legal documents. But you didn't
You have to rely on your sister to do everything and at the same time she is controlled under her rogue husband. It's a difficult lesson for you to learn from.
Shes in a toxic relationship and shes stuck in it because he lies to her.
Hais rau nej cov hmoob ruam paub tias tsis txhob koom yuav insurance ua ke ib zaug li.
Tus poj niam no ruam ntshaw txiv dhau nwd txaus siab tuag rau nws tud txiv tes
Twb nyob rau mekas teb no lawm es koj tus niam hluas tseem Riam thiab pliag Txiv tas npaum li ko lawm ces txhob tig saib nws ib muag lawm nawj niam Txiv yug ib plab los tus phem mas omen ti txha tshaj tus Qhua nawj
My step mom said I gave lice to my step sister when we were kids. Dad came home and beat the shit out if my mom, from this day on, I don't ever need a sister!! I need my mom! God bless!
Ntuj aws ruam tag npaum ce kav tsij tiv kom txog hnub tuag xwb los maj hais tau ntxim ntxub kawg nkaus li os
This is the exact reason why I stopped my husband for paying the same share of insurance with his older brother. I knew his sil would be a bitch when they see money so I tell him don't do it.
Lots of people change when they see money. Especially, the beneficiary is his brother.
If you buy, buy on your own, don't do it this shit of sharing policy and only one owner and beneficiary.
As to your sister, let her be. It's her dream to be the the abusive husband and cheater. She doesn't love herself, you can't help her. She doesn't want to see the truth, you can't help her.
Koj raum dhau lawm leeg twg kom koj mus sib koom yuav insurance together na. Nws twg. Used koj xwb nws tsis hlub koj na cia nws ua nws lub neeg mas. Nws yeej yuav pom mas. Vim nws twb mob stroke vim txoj kev siab phem mas.
Kuv yog koj tus niam hluas ma kuv los yuav kiag koj tua txiv xwb los ua kiag koj tus niam yau xwb os lov ua cas kok pheej yuav hais kom koj tus niam hluas nrauj txiv niag pog ntse aw
Kj niag niam hluas tsov tom ntawv ces tsim nyoog tuag lawm os
0k nyob zoo os me muam aw ua tsaug rau koj nawb hais tau zoo kawg os
Ib zaj nus muag viv ncaus sib kaus dua lawm thiab lau. Niam & txiv mas...muaj nqis tiag li yom lawv. Ua rog nyiaj insurance thiab nyiaj tshav ntuj cuag li npua sib tog huas qhauv li as hmoob miskas e. Lam tau tuaj nyob miskas teb xwb, tsis hloov tsis ntse li as...tsim nyog nyob tim nplog teb xwb.
Hmoob mad...thaum ruam ces ruam ruam ti txha nkaus. Thaum nkhaus ces nkhaus nkhaus lem loo u-turn.
Hmoob twb txawj hais tias, thaum ua dablaug, viv ncaus ces kuv ntog me me los koj nim nti kuv kaub puab os. Thaum ua luam ces yog yeeb ncuab no nev.
Cov niag neeg ruam li koj niag niam hlua no cia kom lawv muab nw tsim2 kom tuag kiag mu
Tus viv ncaus los yog tus niam laus cas koj yuav ruam tag npaum ko na? Ua ntej yus yuav nrog them life insurance yuav tsum muaj yus npe nyob hauv phau policy thiaj tsis muaj tej no na. Kuv yeej yuav life insurance nrog kuv cov nus rau kuv niam nkawv tabsis yeej muaj peb sawvdaws npe laiv. Cas koj ruam tag npaum ko. Tsam no ces kawg coj kiag nkawv mus foob nram court xwb tiag. Koj niag niam hluas siab phem ua phem npaum ntawv rau koj ces foob kiag xwb tiag. Nws twb tsis ntshai koj tu siab ces txhob ntshai nws tu siab thiab.
Tsis ta foom li hos twb npam 2 nws lawm es nws thiaj raug nyob lub nyob tsaus ntuj nti lawm.
Leave your sister. Shes not on your side. Dont be so nice to her, she chose her life with her ex. When she die he ain't gonna come up with anything to bury her. I feel sorry for her kids to have a father like that. I hope the kids do not have their fathers attitude and bad manners.
Tu siab heev uas koj niag niam hluas no ruam heev thiab cas yuav mus ntshai tsam tsis tau niag txiv lim hiam ntawd ua luaj
Koj hlob tab sis koj ruam dhau niam hluas thiab txiv hluas nkawd koj thiab mag ob niag ntxias noj tag . Kom xav tias yuav yus txoj kev ruam xwb no tau li cas los yuav li ntawd
Thank you for telling your story.
tus pog ruam no nyuam qhuav txim xwb os nws nrhiav nws kev mob nws nrhiav nws kev tuag xwb os txhob pab pab nws thiab mas
Koj tus niam hluas tseem mag qws tsis tau txaus os...mob stroke yuav luag tuag nwd twb tseem tsis ntshai es, kav tsij cia nws tus rho qws kom txaus2 nws tso txhob k txog nws, vim nwd twb tsis hlub nwd tus kheej. Cov neeg siab phem li koj tus niag txiv hluas ko tsuas muaj npam zuj zus xwb os....
tus neeg phem ua li cas los yeej muaj cai tshaj, hais li cas yeej tub qaug tas nrho
Koj tus sister ces tuag zoo dua. Tsis tsim nyog ua neej nyab mus ntxiv lawm.
If she's too weak, just let her be...you tried your best!
Tus niam tsev koj twb paub koj tus niam hluas raug quab yuam ua txhua yam li nws tus txiv hais lawm. Koj tsis tas mob siab thiab hlub nws lawm. Hais kom tau nws them koj qhov nyiaj rau koj xwb ntawm nws thiab koj ces yuav sib txiav li cas los cia sib txiav mus zoo dua. Txhob mob siab txhob hlub nws lawm os.
Tus ntsej muag txiv dev no ua dev npaum no ces nws tseem tsis paub kev cai hmoob thiab. Cov niag dev zoo li no cas tsis tuag ne
Tsis tas foom lis ntuj nyob qis qis yeej yuav npam sai sai ib hnub xwb. Tso nws tseg tsis txhob mus cuam tshuam txog nws lawm mog. Vim rab liab liab xwb Es koj niag niam hluas thiaj rov taw Tuam ntuj kaj. Nws ces kawg da quav da zis lawm xwb os. Kiss your money good bye os sister.
You cannot blame your brother-in-law in all this. Your sister also played a big part of it. Nws pab nws tus txiv. Nkawv 2 leeg koom ib lub siab. Though it is too bad that this broke your heart, there's nothing there left to pick up. Forgive and move on. Learn from your mistakes.
Wow I'm so upset with the younger sister
She's definitely a no brainer
Ruam ua luaj. Why not take the $10,000; it’s better than $0.
The sister probably lying about the 10k too bc they already ate the money for a while.
Ntuj aws. Koj nyiag niam hluas ntawv ces hmoov tas lawm os. Txiv neej tag rau koj nyiag txiv hluas ntawv lawm os. Cias kom tsim kom txog hnub tuag nws thiaj lis zoo siab os. Txiv neej liam ces tsis tshaj nws lawm. Koj tus niam hluas ces noj quav hlob xwb os. Kam tsij muab nws txiav tus moo xwb seb nws yuav nyob lis cas os. Ua cas yuav ua rau kuv ma xa muab koj nyiag niam hluas ntawv ntau xwb os. Lub neej nyob ib leeg xwb yeej tsis nyuaj lis os. Yus muaj yus money na. Yus muaj yus hauj lwm na. Ruam tiag tiag lis. Nws thiaj lis npam es mob stoke !
Cov ruam ruam li tus niam hluas ma txhob nrog nws sab laj txoj dab tsi li hos. Nws chim chim yuav tuag los txhob hais li cas rau. Koj tseem hais koj qhov kev xav rau nws thiab ces nws muab ua lub kiag hais tias koj txw 2 nws ntag no ho.
Cov pojniam ruam 2 txhob thab kiag. Nws tsis pab nws tus kheej ces tsis txhob mus pab pab, nws yuav tias koj phem xwb nawb.
Omg my heart 😡🤬😤
This is sad. Your sister is very miserable so hopefully you can forgive her one day. She’s already at her lowest and just hanging by the thread. Let her deal with her own problems and leave her be. I love my sisters but I don’t like to get involved in their relationships. I let them know that I will always support their decisions but I don’t offer suggestions because at the end of the day, it is their decision and life, not mines.
TXOJ KEV CAI YEEJ YOG TUS HLOB XWB ES YOG TSI PAUB HMOOB KEV CAI CES YUAV TSUM TAU MUS KAWM NAWB COV RUAM ES TSAB NTSE NAJ..
Never go in a partnership without a contact. Never co-sign for anyone or you’re just asking for trouble. I don’t care how good you think that friend or family member is. Borrowing money always causes problems esp when the ones borrowing are bad with money to begin with! That’s why they are borrowing duh!
Take $10k and tu moo ntawm pob mo su huv tib si!!! Cia kom kaws av es thiaj paub...
"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink it." Your little brother in-law is a BIG bee-otch. You cannot help someone who wants to stay in a domestic abusive relationship. You can't save someone who doesn't want to be save.
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Both of these sisters are stupid. Why would you pay on a policy where you are not a owner and beneficiaries? Something easy and done at the start of the policy where no one can alter the policy without the other party. A little too late and the older sister can forget about the money. She should have check on the policy at least every quarter or semi-annually to ensure the policy is still active. The older can consider the $$ given monthly to pay for the policy as a gift and funds to support her sister and her husband behaviors.
Yes i agree. The older sister not too smart on her move.
actually she can get half if she shows prove of partially paying for the policy but since the story is like this i doubt she wrote checks to the insurance policy
The trust have been broken the minute the older sister finds out the younger brother-in-law cheated on her sister. I would have requested to take ownership of the policy if I were the older sister. She had another chance when her mother died and issues with the insurance proceeds. I guess the older sister have no use for her hard earned $$ other than giving to her deadbeat sister and her husband on the pretense of paying for the insurance policy.
Should taken the 10k when she offered it.
TEJ ZAUM KOJ TUS TXIV HLUAS KO TWB MUAB KOJ TUS NIAM HLUAS COB TXAUS LAWM, YOG NWS UA LI NWS TUS TXIV HAIS TSIS TAU, ES YOG NWS UA CES NEB OB VIV NCAUS THIAJ TSIS SIB HLUB LAWM, TEJ LAUS YEEJ TIAS NYIAJ TXIAG TSIS YOG TXHEEB ZE, YOG LI NTAWD THAUM POM NYIAJ LAWM LUAG TSIS NTSHAI TSAM YUS TU SIAB, YOG TIM KOJ TUS TXIV HLUAS NKAUS 2 XWB, NWS MUAB LUB SIAB PHEM TSIS HLUB KOJ, NWS THIAJ RAU TSWV YIM RAU KOJ TUS NIAM HLUAS KOM NEB SIB TXIAV
Thov kom Peb hmoob Tsi txhob share2 life insurance lawm mog😢😢
If you still have recipes that you give your sister and brother in law. You can take them to court and get your half of the life insurance.
Can’t help ur sister if she doesn’t want to help herself. Let her dwell in her misery with the passive, aggressive, narcissistic, drama-filled POS husband she obviously can’t leave. She’s a grown woman & will have to live with her own decisions/actions.
Koj tus niam hlua ces pom koj txiv hlua txhiaj muaj 1 tsab qau xWb os
The sister is stupid. Should have cut ties. No matter how much you love her pab tsis tau People who don't want to help themselves. I would have cut ties with her the first time her husband called and talk shit. Be like nope, you hella suck as a sister. She definitely does not know her worth. Never buy insurance with other people. Its best to have your own.
Kuv xav koj ruam dhau yog vim li cas koj twb them thiab es hos yuav tso koj niam hlus nkawv npe nkaus xwb na? Koj mas ruam dhau tos raug lawv kaus thiab os.. yuav tsum xav tias thaum pom nyiaj ntau yeej tsis muj ib tug neeg twg yuav kam faib rau yus na!!
Koj pheej qhia2 rau nws ces koj yuav mag tiag koj tus niam hluas nws nyiam li ntawd na cas nej tsis paub dabtsi li na 😝 😝
Why you help your sister pay for the life insurance your sister are very bad sister
Koj tus niam hluas no mas ruam tshaj ruam lawm txhob xav hais tias muaj nws lawm no los tau mas
Ruam ua luaj.ruam tag paum no ces cia kom nws niag txiv muab ntaug tuag kiag mus xam thiaj tsis lwj yug lub siab
Tim koj niam hluas 2 los tim koj 1. Koj puas tau muab xav tias vim li cas koj cov dablaug twb tsi muaj teeb meem nrog koj niam hluas thiab txiv hluas cas koj muaj2 teeb meem nrog nkawv? Kuv xav koj pheej mus thab nkawv. Koj niam hluas xum xaiv nws tus txiv tsi xaiv koj na cas koj pheej mus tab kaum nkawv. Koj niam hluas tsi yog me nyuam yau lawm nws xaiv nws, zoo phem los nyob ntawm nws.Thaum koj niam tuag twb muaj2 teeb meem, koj niam hluas los tsi mloog koj lus cas koj tseem muab nyiaj rau nkawv them koj txiv npau insurance thiab? Qhov no yog tim nkawv 2 los tim koj 1 thiab. Cov tibneeg li koj ua tau xeeb2 txob. Yog kuv, hais zaum 1 tsi mloog hais zaum 2 tsi mloog ces kuv tsi hais ntxiv lawm... hais ntau lawv yim dhuav yus yim ntxub yus. Lub neej yog koj niam hluas lub, hais tsi mloog ces txav deb2 xwb txhob thab li koj es thaum poob nyiaj ces los complain.
So sad with you and your younger sister.
Tus me tais aw tsib kom them koj xwb maj viv ncaus los niag Txiv twb tsis yog yus niam Txiv yug ib plab nqes los zoo li koj tus niam hluas ntawd xwb ces tsib kom tau nawb mog thaum tsis ua luam ces yog viv ncaus niam tub os yog ua luam ces yog suav dub xwb mas nawb sister aw!!!
Tus niam tsev hauv zaj neej neeg no tus txiv tsi paub tab li. Kj tus txiv tsi hlub kj os. Kj tus txiv tseem 2 yog cov txiv hmmong npab nauj thaub ntuj qub qab nawb. Yog tiag mas kj tus txiv yuav tsu thiv thaiv kj thaum kj tus txiv hluas hu kj tus txiv. Kj tus txiv tseem yuav yog kj tus yeeb ncuab tsi yog kj tus txiv hluas nawb!