Sadly, Dr John, as a therapist, knows the reality. That the caller gets little say over this and will likely just put his mother offside. It shouldn’t be that way, but people don’t listen to what they don’t want to hear. No matter who delivers the message.
His mom and the married man is selfish. She is not thinking of her son she is hurting or the other man’s wife and children. The married man is just using this guy’s mom. It is adultery pure and simple. Step up and save your mom.
Homewreckers are trash. My mom dated a married man living with his wife for years. He didn't want to divorce his wife for financial reasons. Thankfully, it is over now but it caused so much pain and damage. Disgusting....Lord have mercy....
An old lady once told me that you have a reputation, and the most important reputation you have is in front of your family. Never ruin your reputation in front of your kids. People don't care how they look in front of their own children.
My Mum has done this for 25 years on and off with a married man who has never shown any intentions of leaving his wife for and the wife is unaware. It doesn't sit comfortably in my soul she has done this for so long. I thought she had cut him off finally 5 years ago and this week found it was still happening here and there and I am done with it now. I just do not want to even talk to her now because I am so disgusted with her lies and cheating.
What is up with tip-toeing around the issue? It is called SIN! Mom, you're living in a state of MORTAL SIN. I love you, and want you to go to Heaven. You need to stop!
I have zero respect for homewreckers. I was cheated on and these woman don't care about the damage they cause. Also what kind of woman lowers herself so much she can't find her own man?
sometimes people make calls like this and it's kind of annoying as it's not related, but Dave did the right thing rather than screen them and separate question from question he let them come and he adjusted which is why he added the other personalities to the show
Wow, this is was an extremely disappointing way for this situation to be addressed! Happiness? Let her live her own life? Don't start drama? What in the world is going on at the Ramsey show???
Dave would tell him to work extra hours, deliver pizza and sell his car :) sometimes I feel like dave works for Domino's HR :) but jokes to the side this is very sad situation, totally wrong and sinful...
His mom knows fully what she's doing and dgaf. Older parents dont care about what their kids want for them. Just let her know once you don't particularly care for him or her relationship and dont want them around, then just mind your business since she aint gonna change.
I wonder...is mama very content with this married man because HE won't ask her to marry...he's simply a date, a playmate, a "feel good moment", but zero responsibility? He will put no strings or ties or demands on her...? She's already hurting from a divorce from her first husband... I have no respect for someone who is willing to wreck someone else's marriage. However, this woman might be thinking she is "playing it safe". But of course, she's hurting herself in ways she doesn't understand.
I feel like I would not address it but I would definitely speak with my lack of words about it. I wouldn't ask my mom about this guy. I wouldn't mention his name. I would act like he doesn't even exist. And if she wants need to interact with him in some capacity I would just tell her that I'm not doing that. "I will not interact with him, and you know why, mom".
The correct answer is: tell the wife of the married man, and then stay out of it and don’t be around the mom anymore while she is making these decisions.
What if I live in this situation.. my mom is in a relationship with a married man and it’s affecting me and I’m not comfortable so how can I deal with that or what should I do
You cannot strike a balance between someone being happy and someone living in sin. Those two things are incompatible. Family is responsible to hold one another accountable parents create the children, children point the parents back to righteousness. You do not need to justify telling your family member that they are in sin you only have to do it from a position of love grace and open the door for repentance. And leave the rest up to them. The Bible repeatedly tells us to do these things
Sin is pleasurable and makes people happy in the short term. That’s why people stay in it. True happiness and joy is in Christ, but lost people think the ways of themselves are all the world has to offer.
His mom needs therapy. Deeply. To put up with this speaks volumes about her lack of self-esteem. She is not dating anyone else. She lives and breathes for time with this guy. No incentive to divorce because side piece tolerates it and he wibt lose financially. he knows he won't lose dudes mom. She is living a mutated and sad life living on the breadcrumbs she gets from this guy. She isn't good enough to build a life with, but he is ok with visiting Pound Town with her. Therapy. Lots..
Yeah, ain't nothing he can do about it. And he's already told his mom multiple times. So you've already been heard, she just doesn't care. Set some boundaries so you won't have to be around them.
We don’t need anyone’s permission to speak the truth to them in a loving way. He loves his mom and she is committing adultery. By God, he’s able to tell her the truth in love.
He and his wife can invite mom over for dinner and provide an approved blind date. If she tells her son she’s already involved with someone, he can then talk about how bad it makes him feel.
I think he should stay out of his mother's business. He has a wife and kids and he should focus on that. He's focused on the wrong area of his life. His mother is an adult. Let her fix her own problems.
It’s interesting how many people call Dave Ramsey with issues that are more relational than financial. Granted, they tend to be very much intertwined, but this particular call doesn’t seem to have anything to do with personal finance.
This sounds like polyamory to me. If both women know whats going on (that there is a "side piece") and it hasn't caused a argument then this is a non-issue that the monogamous people just have to learn about.
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Caller: my mother is a side piece
Dave: whats her car payment?
This made me laugh out loud lol
Hahaha
lol sell the boyfriend
Legit LOL
@@kristinakeagy1390 me too 😂
Anthony’s facial expression 😳
The Way he looked around 😂
Right!!!! I literally hollered 🤣😫😂
Well poor man it probably hits close to home 😔
0:20 Love the psychologist's response is relatively neutral cuz he's probably heard every batshit crazy story, and the other guy is like hol' up.
Sadly, Dr John, as a therapist, knows the reality. That the caller gets little say over this and will likely just put his mother offside. It shouldn’t be that way, but people don’t listen to what they don’t want to hear. No matter who delivers the message.
His mom and the married man is selfish. She is not thinking of her son she is hurting or the other man’s wife and children. The married man is just using this guy’s mom. It is adultery pure and simple. Step up and save your mom.
Can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. He needs to step away from the situation, and let her know his boundaries.
Truth
My mom was also in a relationship with a married man. A little weird cause he was my dad and I wouldn’t think of it like that
😂😂😂
🤣😂🤪
Solid 👍
You had me in the first half 😂😂
Hahahahah
DAVE RAMSEY “is the married man a doctor or a lawyer?”
Bayunco! 🤣
Sell the mother
😂😂😂
@@Jehovahthealmighty cabal que si! 🤣🤣 🇸🇻
Or a PA or NP ??
This is a question I wish Dave would have answered. His experience is golden for these extreme questions.
SELL THE MOM LIKE YESTERDAY!!!
Caller: My mom is in a relation with a married man
Dave: SELL YOUR CAR
And the kids next
I agree with the others. The expression on Anthony's face is the best part of this call.
😂😂😂
So totally a side note, but I LOVE your books!
Homewreckers are trash. My mom dated a married man living with his wife for years. He didn't want to divorce his wife for financial reasons. Thankfully, it is over now but it caused so much pain and damage. Disgusting....Lord have mercy....
Had the exact same experience. My brother looked the other way and never said anything. I questioned her on it and became the black sheep.
It's really disgusting low class behavior for all involved.
An old lady once told me that you have a reputation, and the most important reputation you have is in front of your family. Never ruin your reputation in front of your kids. People don't care how they look in front of their own children.
Same. My mum have been dating a married man since I was 10. I always knew about it. Traumatized me so much that now I cannot trust any man.
Anthony's facial expressions lol.
Anthony's face had me @ 0:25 seconds in 😂😂😂!!! He looks up and then turns to Doc like..."what tha"?
I'm done!
@@erzabetf9544 agreed
He looks like his eyes 👀 are about to pop out of his head!🤣
My Mum has done this for 25 years on and off with a married man who has never shown any intentions of leaving his wife for and the wife is unaware. It doesn't sit comfortably in my soul she has done this for so long. I thought she had cut him off finally 5 years ago and this week found it was still happening here and there and I am done with it now. I just do not want to even talk to her now because I am so disgusted with her lies and cheating.
This guy must have called in sounding soo sad that the producers just let the call threw. Poor Fellow.
YEAH MOM NOT GIVING THAT DINGALING UP
@@lovyng Right. 🤫🤣
Plus the juicy headline they can put on the RUclips clip haha.
I'm with Deloney on this. If we all ignore the devastation of affairs, giving tacit approval, we will make affairs acceptable in our society.
This call should be on the Dr D show, not on the Ramsey show. Not even a hint of finances involved.
The other man works for Dave and helps people with relationships
@@kimh3905 I understand, I watch every episode posted on this channel... Looking for financial wisdom, not domestic drama.
@@andrewsuderman With you. This is not the venue for that type of call, not even a hint of a financial componient. He is married and moved out.
It's definitely out of the financial context, also one of the first that I watched that didn't even have Ramsey on it.
@@andrewsuderman So why did you click on this one with the title My mom is in a relationship with a married man?
So was my mom with my dad...
Until they got a divorce 😆
What is up with tip-toeing around the issue? It is called SIN! Mom, you're living in a state of MORTAL SIN. I love you, and want you to go to Heaven. You need to stop!
F-ing is Better than a ham sandwich
I have zero respect for homewreckers. I was cheated on and these woman don't care about the damage they cause. Also what kind of woman lowers herself so much she can't find her own man?
I’d say something to the mom, not the man. But if she refuses to listen, then there’s nothing you can do and that’s okay.
They must have forgotten to call Dr. Phil
You may need to reach out to Jerry Springer on this one.
Right lol
Staying in your lane can be hard sometimes I suppose
🤣😂 I love Anthony so much. It was like watching myself watch this video 🤣 😂
The spouse deserves to know they are being cheated on.
How do you know she's doesn't know?
If the wife was taking care of the husband, there wouldn't be any affairs.
@@bbkr7910 lol no. This isn’t the 1950’s
@@johniii8147 yep, for both better and worse. Life is easier and now cheaper than ever.
@@bbkr7910 yet wives are more expensive than ever
I don’t feel it’s a child’s place to judge his mother. He needs to grow up and accept her decision on how to live her life.
Why are they calling Dave Ramsey about this🤔
Because the other man deals with relationships
Slow day at the office
Dr. Phil must be on break.
Sounds like she's happy in the wrong way... Cuz she reverted to a teenager! He's a forbidden man.. and she doesn't care...
Literally so confused on how this relates to Dave Ramsey or finance, like at all? 😂🥴
sometimes people make calls like this and it's kind of annoying as it's not related, but Dave did the right thing rather than screen them and separate question from question he let them come and he adjusted which is why he added the other personalities to the show
I wonder what his household income is?
Finances and relationships are intertwined
He called to speak to the therapist.
Anthony keeping it real. That's how most people would handle this situation 🤣
Thank you for this.
He probably telling her they are about to divorce, but for real, it still needs to remain platonic at this stage
Interesting. I wonder if the mom or married guy is in debt. 🙃
Wow, this is was an extremely disappointing way for this situation to be addressed! Happiness? Let her live her own life? Don't start drama?
What in the world is going on at the Ramsey show???
It's because it's a woman. If it was a guy he would be a piece of trash that needed to grow up lol
Her body her choice right ?
Why did they take this call? Dave isn't there...coincidence?
You don’t have to be okay with what’s not okay . Put your boundaries and respect them . Yes you will do this , not you won’t do that ....
Rice and beans, beans and rice.
Sell the truck
That's the answer 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shane: My mom is in a relationship with a married man..
Dave: Sell your car!
Simping is strong. And no one deserves anything. I heard that a ton on the show
Dave would tell him to work extra hours, deliver pizza and sell his car :) sometimes I feel like dave works for Domino's HR :) but jokes to the side this is very sad situation, totally wrong and sinful...
I’m going to call in next week, “My wife is pregnant and I’m not sure if the baby is mine.”
😂
No man knows if the child is his. Gotta order that paternity test and hope the result is accurate.
A female should call in and say “I’m pregnant and I’m not sure if the baby is mine” 😝
😂
Gossip Ramsey Show
His mom knows fully what she's doing and dgaf. Older parents dont care about what their kids want for them. Just let her know once you don't particularly care for him or her relationship and dont want them around, then just mind your business since she aint gonna change.
I wonder...is mama very content with this married man because HE won't ask her to marry...he's simply a date, a playmate, a "feel good moment", but zero responsibility? He will put no strings or ties or demands on her...? She's already hurting from a divorce from her first husband... I have no respect for someone who is willing to wreck someone else's marriage. However, this woman might be thinking she is "playing it safe". But of course, she's hurting herself in ways she doesn't understand.
Why buy the whole hog, when all you want is sausage.
JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! 🍿🍿🍿
Dave: sell the stinkin car
She needs to call Dr John
I feel like I would not address it but I would definitely speak with my lack of words about it.
I wouldn't ask my mom about this guy. I wouldn't mention his name. I would act like he doesn't even exist.
And if she wants need to interact with him in some capacity I would just tell her that I'm not doing that. "I will not interact with him, and you know why, mom".
I understand this man's disappointment in his mother.
This is an episode of Snapped waiting to happen !! 🥴🥴🥴 Mom should know better.
Caller: “My mom is dating a married man”
Dave Ramsey: “How much debt does he have?”
This caller needs to start watching Kevin Samuels... and perhaps book a session.
Kevin Samuels hasn't had his own successful marriage. So if you are following him you're dumb af!
Best answer
I come here to learn but this time i came here to laugh.
And i heard the full conversation but i am not laughing 😐
The correct answer is: tell the wife of the married man, and then stay out of it and don’t be around the mom anymore while she is making these decisions.
Caller: My mom is on and off dating a married man.
Dave: what's your household income?
Cut the guy loose. Mom is lost and she needs guidance and that's where you as a man need to step up and be there for her
What if I live in this situation.. my mom is in a relationship with a married man and it’s affecting me and I’m not comfortable so how can I deal with that or what should I do
The streets for the heathen!!!!
You cannot strike a balance between someone being happy and someone living in sin. Those two things are incompatible. Family is responsible to hold one another accountable parents create the children, children point the parents back to righteousness. You do not need to justify telling your family member that they are in sin you only have to do it from a position of love grace and open the door for repentance. And leave the rest up to them. The Bible repeatedly tells us to do these things
Sin is pleasurable and makes people happy in the short term. That’s why people stay in it. True happiness and joy is in Christ, but lost people think the ways of themselves are all the world has to offer.
you cannot raise "Grown Folks." Let God be with her guide.
Say out to mamas business BOY
Stay out of?
Anthony’s absolutely right...
Daily reminder why is hate humanity as a whole
Same here
Wrong. The married man is hurting his own family by willingly being in a relationship with someone while he's still married.
His mom needs therapy. Deeply. To put up with this speaks volumes about her lack of self-esteem. She is not dating anyone else.
She lives and breathes for time with this guy. No incentive to divorce because side piece tolerates it and he wibt lose financially. he knows he won't lose dudes mom. She is living a mutated and sad life living on the breadcrumbs she gets from this guy. She isn't good enough to build a life with, but he is ok with visiting Pound Town with her. Therapy. Lots..
It's immoral but none of your business. Nor is it a financial issue.
I heard this on the radio but I love watching it too 🤣😭😂
Odd call, but He's 23 and doesn't live at home. Not his business!
Nice work 🌠🎆🎇
I think the majority of America gets upset listening to The Ramsey Show… Just in general.
Yeah, ain't nothing he can do about it. And he's already told his mom multiple times. So you've already been heard, she just doesn't care. Set some boundaries so you won't have to be around them.
We don’t need anyone’s permission to speak the truth to them in a loving way. He loves his mom and she is committing adultery. By God, he’s able to tell her the truth in love.
This is Baby step what zero or seven ? 😂
Mom is a bad person. I would move on with my life.
It's not really your business. She's going to make her own choices just as you do. DON"T get involved.
He and his wife can invite mom over for dinner and provide an approved blind date. If she tells her son she’s already involved with someone, he can then talk about how bad it makes him feel.
No, she's grown, he has no place in trying to drive her relationship.
Respectfully - Tell your mom to “drop the married man and start dating a cub instead”
I think he should stay out of his mother's business. He has a wife and kids and he should focus on that. He's focused on the wrong area of his life. His mother is an adult. Let her fix her own problems.
Why do people call a radio show when they clearly need therapy
Just call it what it is... mom why are you being an adulterer?
This phone call sounds juicy!
Bruh.... she knows she’s messing up. She wants to have fun. Let he be. She knows better.
Is this Jerry Springer? Dr Phil? Why let this caller through?
Sign her up for some self defense classes they will come in handy ...
This woman's living like no one else so later his wife can life and collect alimony like noone else
@0:25 Anthony's expression. 🤣
It’s interesting how many people call Dave Ramsey with issues that are more relational than financial. Granted, they tend to be very much intertwined, but this particular call doesn’t seem to have anything to do with personal finance.
Some of us have grown up with Dave
@@gmarie3053 I guess you’re right - he’s been doing this for nearly 30 years!
AO like 👀
I was waiting for it! Lol
Just take off man. She doesn’t respect herself. I know it will hurt you but she has no respect for any values
And you’re in her business 🤣
It sounds like he already told mom his opinion. End of story.
Did they ever say what happened to the Dad? If he died tragically it could give some insight into her willingness to keep doing this with this dude.
Of course it's Dayton..
Mommy meets hypergamy. Shocker 😲. Hypergamy it's how our species has survivednso long.
Plot twist, it’s his father.
Bad advice. You dont walk in her shoes and what you think or feel about what she does is none of your business.
Umm, the son is a grown man and his mother is an adult. MYOB, son.
This sounds like polyamory to me. If both women know whats going on (that there is a "side piece") and it hasn't caused a argument then this is a non-issue that the monogamous people just have to learn about.
Welcome to the Jerry Springer Ramsey Show!
AO is awesome!
What happened to this show lol
Dave helps ppl solve problems and be happier and whole in life. Their diversifying how they help people