The REAL Secret to my Success - HC 482

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  • Опубликовано: 1 янв 2025

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  • @trovarion
    @trovarion 4 дня назад +203

    I knew it.

    • @JK-zx3go
      @JK-zx3go 4 дня назад +2

      :)

    • @krftkrft4495
      @krftkrft4495 4 дня назад +6

      trovarion seem to have a similar successfactor, love you my austrian neighbour

  • @dothatshi
    @dothatshi 4 дня назад +109

    This is the sweetest (and most informative) video from a hobby perspective I've seen so far. Vince yet again breaking the ice and showing hobby gamers that we're more than just nerds.

  • @geteavnroc2250
    @geteavnroc2250 4 дня назад +58

    I wonder if Vince had a BIG smile on his face, while recording this. I know i would. You guys are ADORABLE!!! Treat her like gold, Vince.

  • @Elyeras
    @Elyeras 4 дня назад +53

    I frigging love this video intrinsically. To showcase the value and importance of a supportive spouse and partner to one’s joy and success is so so important. You’re a lucky one Vince.

  • @wesleymatthews390
    @wesleymatthews390 4 дня назад +17

    Just when you thought Uncle Vince couldn't get any more wholesome this vid comes out!!! Great to meet Cathy and see just how much love and support you get (and give back). Thanks for letting us into a that part of your life. May you both continue to live long and prosper =D Big cheers from Melbourne, Australia!

    • @VinceVenturella
      @VinceVenturella  4 дня назад +1

      Thank you for the kind words! I'm really glad you enjoyed it!

  • @bodotrenaud7441
    @bodotrenaud7441 4 дня назад +43

    Hello Cathy Venturella ! Nice to meet you !

  • @northd6840
    @northd6840 4 дня назад +15

    It's been said a dozen times already...but absolutely fantastic! Congratulations on finding each other. "To the Future!"

  • @lordamnesia
    @lordamnesia 4 дня назад +22

    This was really touching and wholesome. I love this sort of thing, and the fact that it's worked out between you guys for almost a quarter decade is fantastic!

  • @coreyburge8663
    @coreyburge8663 4 дня назад +32

    Okay hear me out. We need Kathy’s Korner on the merch store. Those Christmas cards were beautiful!

    • @McVilla1N
      @McVilla1N 4 дня назад +6

      This. Me literally thinking why didn't i see this before Christmas i would of definitely bought some...... Wink wink vince!

  • @porumon5942
    @porumon5942 4 дня назад +27

    My wife just got me a new magnifying light for Xmas and the great lord croak! At first when I began this hobby she didn't know how to act and her family was weirdest out and now they all know and either get me supplies or figs it honestly turned from weirdo who paints figures to its just what I do and the acceptance is amazing!

  • @slackeratlarge575
    @slackeratlarge575 4 дня назад +23

    21 years! ❤❤❤

  • @duncanmcdane388
    @duncanmcdane388 4 дня назад +16

    Vince, she's a keeper! Happy holidays together!

  • @beardhammerwargaming
    @beardhammerwargaming 4 дня назад +12

    Clicked on the video without seeing the thumbnail.
    Did not expect this intro and damn, this is so adorable.
    Love you guys and how you love and support each other 🥰
    Rolemodels for the hobby and relationships ☺

  • @aaronk-b4676
    @aaronk-b4676 4 дня назад +5

    Love this video, and basically ALL your videos. I think my wife will take something g away from watching it too.
    Thank you for being such a good teacher and sharing your hobby journey with all of us.
    Keep up the great work and stay snarky my man, love your sense of humor.

    • @VinceVenturella
      @VinceVenturella  4 дня назад +2

      Thank you! It's been a fun journey. And thank you for the super chat?

  • @Ironjawz
    @Ironjawz 4 дня назад +10

    I think it’s interesting hearing the perspective of Warhammer spouses. Most of us guys don’t think about the impact the hobby has on relationships. I’ve heard about both positive and negative situations over the years.

  • @sovietbear1917
    @sovietbear1917 4 дня назад +10

    I married a card maker/paper crafter too. There's a lot of overlap in our hobbies, and she never minds going to the art store to spend money!

    • @cathyventurella4694
      @cathyventurella4694 3 дня назад +1

      I always start looking for things in his office before I got to the store!

  • @markbradfield7916
    @markbradfield7916 4 дня назад +14

    Behind every great man.... is a great woman!!

  • @RochelleHasTooManyHobbies
    @RochelleHasTooManyHobbies 3 дня назад +1

    Too busy staring at Vince to remember to look at the camera. Too cute!!
    24 years of love, and more to come! May all of us be so lucky!!

  • @brienheindl
    @brienheindl 4 дня назад +12

    This was really nice to see. My wife and I have a similar dynamic. Great job, Kathy!

  • @matthewcorbett8637
    @matthewcorbett8637 4 дня назад +3

    Loved hearing from the support side of things!! You two are a wonderful couple. Very fortunate to have full support from my partner already, but I still learned something new :)

  • @stankshop
    @stankshop 4 дня назад +11

    Vince out there trying to paint the best army in the world.
    Meanwhile Cathy is tapping all that talent that comes through his place and is raising the bar one doggo at a time :)
    Super cool insight, thank you for sharing

  • @michaelfarmer
    @michaelfarmer 4 дня назад +7

    It's amazing that you shared this. Heck yea having a spouse that supports your hobby.

  • @FacesNBases
    @FacesNBases 3 дня назад +1

    Lovely wholesome video. I'm fortunate enough to have a better half who supports me and enjoys me getting passionate about my hobby just as much as I do in hers. We always take time to chat about what's our latest interests and we encourage each other to pursue our passions.
    Have a great new year guys.

  • @mayaraizel
    @mayaraizel 3 дня назад +1

    LOVE this video. My husband and I both hobby, and I was always curious about what Vince’s wife thought of the whole thing. I really appreciated that she talked about how their communication has gown over the marriage to allow both partners to feel supported.

  • @Mightypi
    @Mightypi 4 дня назад +3

    Bonny lass with a heart of gold. You two are perfect toghter.

  • @King_of_Sofa
    @King_of_Sofa 4 дня назад +5

    She seems like such a good person. You are a fortunate man, Vince!

  • @craigheseltine7568
    @craigheseltine7568 2 дня назад

    Different, but one of the best videos you have ever done. Really nice to see that bond with your wife and how supportive she is. Nice one Vincey

  • @aionagustin2768
    @aionagustin2768 День назад

    She's a keeper! All the best to the both of you.

  • @Bloodthirstier
    @Bloodthirstier 16 часов назад

    Love this video. My wife and I are 7 years into the marriage and I gotta say that the budget thing (as well as the storage) are super critical to enabling each other's hobbies in a healthy and productive way

  • @U_N_C_L_E_Mike
    @U_N_C_L_E_Mike 10 часов назад

    Thank you Cathy, it was lovely to hear from you.

  • @GamerAse
    @GamerAse 2 дня назад

    Brilliant video. Not just when it comes to hobbies, this also goes for everything else in life with a partner - communication, communication, communication and setting each other's expectations.
    All the best for 2025, Vince and Cathy!

  • @Delta66-jz1vl
    @Delta66-jz1vl 16 часов назад

    Wonderful video, I wish you both another 21 years of happiness.

  • @VentiChristopher
    @VentiChristopher 4 дня назад +5

    That was absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing.

  • @michaeltreon4034
    @michaeltreon4034 4 дня назад +2

    I am lucky to have a wife like this! Love the loves we have outside the hobby!

  • @Steven-uk7uf
    @Steven-uk7uf 2 дня назад

    My favourite video of the year. Thank you both for sharing this side of your life with us.
    The absolute gem is Vince saying 'you Knit?' and the total patient response of I don't knit I Crochet. THERE IS A DIFFRENCE!!!!!
    As a hobby painter and gamer with a girlfriend who knits and crochets you have to learn the difference. On pain of death or at least you can be poked with a knitting needle or a crochet hook. Your choice.

  • @johnhalliburton-xs3pd
    @johnhalliburton-xs3pd 4 дня назад +1

    The best HC video I’ve watched. Vince, your stock was already high, but it just went up. As much time as us nerds spend with our hobbies, having a supportive spouse is an incredible blessing. Thanks to you and Cathy for sharing with us.😊

  • @yvonnecarter1580
    @yvonnecarter1580 4 дня назад +1

    Great video! Matt (Hooves) and I share many of your perspectives regarding supporting the hobby as a couple. I totally agree with “communication is key” whether talking about expense or time relegated to the hobby. Thanks for sharing with other partners how to be supportive.

  • @andreastsr11
    @andreastsr11 День назад

    It is nice to see the woman behind the legend sometimes!
    Also, another thing to take away from this video, is that our partners/significant others like it when our nerd friends show interest in them and their hobbies, and when they show their appreciation. This applies to all people of course, but I thought of it when Cathy talks about how Sam asks her about her stuff, and how Atom attacks the fridge (that Cathy so thoughtfully restocked!).
    We all like to feel special and this is what Sam and Atom did that made them stand out.
    I wish you guys have a great new year's eve and an amazing new year! These wishes are of course extended to all the hobby nerds around the world!

  • @ncfcpaul8761
    @ncfcpaul8761 4 дня назад +4

    This is really funny as the other day RUclips recommended a video from six years ago when Cathy also took over the channel!
    Great fun!

  • @McVilla1N
    @McVilla1N 4 дня назад +2

    First off your husband is my hero. Second thank you for supporting him! because without you supporting him there would probably be no Vince Venturella RUclips channel and i would be lost in a paint section somewhere, just me and my one braincell working over time trying to figure all this out. Lol. But in all seriousness thank you! Just know all those hours vince is M.I.A in the basement or his "manpaintcave" he is helping MANY people learn how to be less scared of entering this hobby. If it wasn't for vince i would of quit from being overwhelmed.

  • @d.ozborne
    @d.ozborne 4 дня назад +2

    Such an incredibly wholesome and supportive episode. Absolutely love it! You two are incredible 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Mutesque
    @Mutesque 4 дня назад +2

    This was a delight from start to finish. She is lovely. I also have to agree with her about the outstanding quality of the vampire lady. Was lucky to see that bust up close in MSS and it blew my skull off. I wish you two you have many more happy years together. Cheers.

  • @Crusader_Studios
    @Crusader_Studios 3 дня назад

    This is now my favorite Hobby Cheating video. So much of making our hobby work around the responsibilities we have in our relationships comes down to trust, communication, and mutual respect. My wife’s support of my painting journey has been the most important factor in me getting better. And let’s see some Christmas cards in the merch store next year!

  • @GoufinAround_
    @GoufinAround_ 4 дня назад +2

    A spouse who's that supportive and cool is the goal in life

  • @Wesardry
    @Wesardry 4 дня назад +2

    Hey Vince, awesome video and what a catch! Great to have a support, sweet, and nerdish partner! It was very nice to virtually meet your wife. I’ve heard Jon and Scott talk about how nice she is and that definitely came across in the video

  • @semihkaracan9112
    @semihkaracan9112 День назад

    Every successful mini painter have a supportive wife behind (not to backstab them). My wife discovered I love Warhammer figures and pushed me to buy my first box. She doesn't care sci-fi or fantasy stuff other than Harry Potter. However, she is always willing to help me in someway. For that I am really thankful to her.

  • @Midgar88
    @Midgar88 4 дня назад +1

    Shes an enabler!!! I mean this was a great insight into the family side.
    Well done guys 😊

  • @mattshimkus80
    @mattshimkus80 2 дня назад

    21 years! Congrats!❤❤❤

  • @chadkittleson5447
    @chadkittleson5447 4 дня назад +4

    Supportive spouse FTW! Couldn't be happier with mine too.

  • @the_uggh
    @the_uggh 4 дня назад +3

    Vince making yet another video we didn't know we needed

  • @terrencemiltner1005
    @terrencemiltner1005 3 дня назад

    Such a cool video. I like that last part about communicating with your partner about each of your expectations. Partnership does not endow partners to read minds.

  • @krempelritter9950
    @krempelritter9950 2 дня назад

    Great idea for a video. She's super cool. I'm happy for the two of you!

  • @justinmadsen3146
    @justinmadsen3146 2 дня назад

    Legend!

  • @Wijkert
    @Wijkert День назад

    12:10 holy smokes, these look great!

  • @michaelobrien7903
    @michaelobrien7903 4 дня назад

    Cathy you are such a gem ❤ I couldn't agree more about the communication point! Understanding someone's 'what' is good but truly getting their 'why' I believe only brings people closer.
    PS Vince ur kinda cool i guess (also Tehenhauin did nothing wrong)

  • @WargamingWanderlust
    @WargamingWanderlust 4 дня назад

    you are truly fortunate as I am sure you already know - hearing Cathy mention how she supports Vince's interest helped me reflect on what my wife does for me and appreciate it that much more - thank you for helping me realize how lucky - congrats to both of you for building this together and having a true partner in life

  • @joerundell8197
    @joerundell8197 4 дня назад +1

    Great video, nice to meet the other half. My wife is also very supportive of my hobby and that makes it all the more enjoyable. Have a great new years and looking forward to many more videos.

  • @themobius8077
    @themobius8077 4 дня назад +2

    We can all learn things from people outside of the hobby. For example I learned today that it is indeed possible to enjoy going to Coventry.

  • @gregless6234
    @gregless6234 9 часов назад

    This was a lovely, critically important topic. Thank you!

  • @i_like_to_paint_minis
    @i_like_to_paint_minis 3 дня назад

    this was one of my all time faves this year for 2024

  • @stodgeboy
    @stodgeboy 3 дня назад

    My wife is incredibly supportive (made snacks, including vegan specific for a massive game day we hosted).She gets it and shows an interest but ABSOLUTELY communication is the key. My wife is looking after my mental health and knows that what I am doing is in support of that and her buy-in only makes me love her more

  • @CubicLice
    @CubicLice 4 дня назад +1

    Vince as a mini painter and big fan of you and HC, who just got engaged and is slightly terrified, this was perfectly timed.
    This gives me a lot of hope for my future marriage and personal growth. Thanks very much to you and Cathy.

  • @fabriciobertoluci1341
    @fabriciobertoluci1341 День назад

    This is your best video so far, love it so much! Thank you and keep being such a good example for everyone of us to follow

  • @LuisSanchez-fm4bu
    @LuisSanchez-fm4bu 4 дня назад +1

    Awesome video, like always. I have been in the hobby for 31 years and married for 24 and my wife has been a very important part of it. I'm 100% with what your wife said, communication is very important in a relationship. Thanks for sharing this with us!!!!

    • @VinceVenturella
      @VinceVenturella  4 дня назад +1

      I am glad you enjoyed it and that it resonated with you!

  • @phoen31
    @phoen31 3 дня назад

    Much respect for you Vince. Your Wife is very understanding and amazing. I love that you are willing to show your Love of your Wife

  • @duhg599
    @duhg599 4 дня назад +1

    Thanks for doing this, Cathy. This is wonderful!

  • @rof.minature.painting
    @rof.minature.painting 4 дня назад

    Spot on with all points - my trouble (as in trouble and strife the wife) has been my greatest support and critic. We do not have the same hobbies but colour and composition are at the core for both of us.

  • @edpacca
    @edpacca 20 часов назад

    The crochet blanket is such a great project :)

  • @christopherbustin2877
    @christopherbustin2877 День назад

    Wonderful video and your wifey needs to make her own channel about her hobbies I'd look forward to seeing all your painter buddies crocheting in the future.

  • @williamtrinidad3520
    @williamtrinidad3520 4 дня назад +10

    Watched!❤
    I’m going to share this with my wife. She’s also very supportive.
    Just watched it again with the wife, she loved Kathy. She wants to know if Kathy has an Etsy or Insta she can follow for her creative stuff.
    Great video Vince.

  • @tempusavatar
    @tempusavatar 3 дня назад

    Thanks for the video.
    I'm fortunate enough to also have a supportive wife; she values my time and will remind me to go downstairs and have hobby time if I've been doing lots of work/housework.

  • @AM-uw3gp
    @AM-uw3gp День назад

    I enjoyed this more than I thought I would, my wife doesn’t quite understand why I want to spend tons of time painting Warhammer, I’m trying to gently encourage her into some creative hobbies she will enjoy too

    • @VinceVenturella
      @VinceVenturella  День назад

      Glad you liked it! I hope you can find some things your wife enjoys.

  • @zemiron
    @zemiron 3 дня назад

    Cathy has an absolutely wonderful smile and seems like the most amazing person.

  • @aramisdejinn3241
    @aramisdejinn3241 2 дня назад

    RUclips's video of the year. This was awesome, thanks for sharing

  • @isisnmagic1812
    @isisnmagic1812 4 дня назад

    Great video and hello Mrs Venturella was a pleasure seeing and hear from you. Happy new year to you both.

  • @JHB141
    @JHB141 4 дня назад

    Superb to see your spouse support your passion! That does wonders for a marriage, so happy that you have that!

  • @AkaIceBear
    @AkaIceBear 4 дня назад

    I got into warhammer shortly after my girlfriend and I got together. I was living alone for the first time, and it was always a great outlet for me. She didn't quite "get it" at first, but does now. She even appreciates the growth I've had in painting over time. To the point that she has a small collection of Death Guard within my collection that she just likes to look at sometimes. She also thinks it makes it super easy to gift buy when the time comes, since I'm ALWAYS talking about new things I want or want to try.

  • @wags2656
    @wags2656 3 дня назад

    Best video because it's awesome to get to know you better and the life advice enables healthy hobbying. I would ask Cathy to say a few more things about what she loves about you and how you balance being a supportive husband with your hobby.

  • @mariov962
    @mariov962 2 дня назад

    Probably your best video yet. Well done.

  • @pauls3585
    @pauls3585 4 дня назад

    You guys have a great relationship. You must treasure what you have, it is special.

  • @sycho331
    @sycho331 4 дня назад

    Love seeing Cathy starring in a video! Supportive partners are so important for this hobby! 😊

  • @mikemartell365
    @mikemartell365 3 дня назад

    Wonderful video, blessings to you both!!!

  • @thelonelybolter8245
    @thelonelybolter8245 4 дня назад

    This is the sweetest, greatest thing ever. You guys are amazing. From Scott and Jon's stories, Cathy must be the best host ever. Thank you for posting this!

    • @thelonelybolter8245
      @thelonelybolter8245 4 дня назад

      Also the mini doggos are incredible! So adorable - what an lovely collection :)

  • @RobbithThePengin
    @RobbithThePengin 4 дня назад

    This was so fun! You can tell the conversation got more comfortable as it continued, its really sweet! I will say, the listening experience was improved by making the audio Mono. Having one speaker in each ear so drastically wasn't the best.

    • @VinceVenturella
      @VinceVenturella  4 дня назад +1

      I know, it’s a challenge of the recording I’m using for interviews.

  • @blastpop
    @blastpop 4 дня назад

    She's a keeper! We are both lucky guys as my wife supports me and my Miniatures, Model Building, Table top and board wargaming too.

  • @stenmadsen7406
    @stenmadsen7406 4 дня назад

    It all sounds really wonderful.

  • @TheGeppywizard
    @TheGeppywizard 4 дня назад +2

    Those cards look fantastic!

  • @ArnoVdVelde
    @ArnoVdVelde 4 дня назад +1

    Man supporting Vince and balancing out Tom is an heroic effort.

  • @EngineerJeff
    @EngineerJeff 4 дня назад

    I love this. It is a good thing to have a supportive spouse in regards to hobby-time.

  • @alexandergarlyyev3561
    @alexandergarlyyev3561 3 дня назад

    Such a warm and lovely video) Like it very much!)

  • @yack7403
    @yack7403 3 дня назад

    Wonderful Video! Would love to see Cathy more in the future!

  • @chazlong61
    @chazlong61 4 дня назад

    This video makes my heart smile. As a recently divorced person seeing such a healthy adult relationship was really wonderful. Thank you both, Mr. and Mrs. V for allowing us a peek into your relationship.
    I wish you another happy 24 years together, at least.

  • @meralda5582
    @meralda5582 4 дня назад

    Thank,s and this so nice to see you 2! Have a nice day and ding for the bell!

  • @shanehartman5122
    @shanehartman5122 4 дня назад +1

    Great video. Happy New Year . Hope it is a great one

  • @elizabethamoroso4132
    @elizabethamoroso4132 4 дня назад

    This was such a lovely video!! I was really hoping we'd see those painted Docs!

  • @whofreakincares1000
    @whofreakincares1000 2 дня назад

    Hey Vince thanks for sharing that with us!

  • @NickMeredith
    @NickMeredith День назад

    Great video, but definitely not cheating. Congratulations to you both. It brought a big smilé to my face in my hometown in Coventry {England )

    Thank -you and a very Happy New Year to you both.

  • @ayonmetar2301
    @ayonmetar2301 3 дня назад +1

    Can only confirn: A wife that supports and takes interest in your weird nerd hobbies is the best thing in life ^.^

  • @kl6686
    @kl6686 4 дня назад

    What a lovely person. You are a fortunate man and deserve it. Happy new year

    • @VinceVenturella
      @VinceVenturella  4 дня назад

      Thanks so much, happy new year to you as well!

  • @waterpyrog13
    @waterpyrog13 4 дня назад

    Freaking amazing episode. This is a lovely peak into all of our lives, and I'm glad you two have met