Whats the difference between Attachment and Connection, thats what I got out of this story. The guilt was constructive in bringing transparency into the situation and the bonds that held them together brought clarity and renewed emotional investment in each other and more emotional investment in themselves
Having an affair, physical or not, isn't a mistake. IT'S A CHOICE! You made a conscious decision to put someone above your husband. You tossed your husband into the trash. You stopped loving your husband.
My biggest concern is that I do not want my children to suffer the same hurt that my sister and I had to live with. To this day, I have no serious interest other than what I have built up over many years. No matter what, I still find it unreal for forgive, like a bottle once broken it can never be the same again. A dull life, utterly frustrating, but no, 2 wrongs don't make things right should I decide to seek better pastures.
He forgave her because it was not physical. Everyone has emotions and if we don't act on them and turn it physical, then it's better than it being physical. Emotional is bad, but at least he was not inside of her. I'd be more bothered by the physical.
i hope the day will come when an occasional side adventure is acceptable in marriages. day in and day out with the same person for years can be grueling at times, perfect monogomy seems like too high of a bar.
Good story and good man who believes in forgiveness
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ONCE UNFAITHFUL ALWAYS UNFAITHFUL. IN A FEW MONTHS INFIDELITY WILL HAPPEN AGAIN.
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Cheating .....trust out the window....you can not use LOVE when speaking of cheating....Guy or Gal
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What an emotional affair signifies is that she has " the ability and inclinations" to form intimate contacts.
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Your story reflects on wishful thinking or a man whom is so weak that he can't stand on his own two feet alone.
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Whats the difference between Attachment and Connection, thats what I got out of this story. The guilt was constructive in bringing transparency into the situation and the bonds that held them together brought clarity and renewed emotional investment in each other and more emotional investment in themselves
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Having an affair, physical or not, isn't a mistake. IT'S A CHOICE! You made a conscious decision to put someone above your husband. You tossed your husband into the trash. You stopped loving your husband.
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Another one with a small head. A mistake was ALWAYS a choice! You don't seem to understand!
My biggest concern is that I do not want my children to suffer the same hurt that my sister and I had to live with. To this day, I have no serious interest other than what I have built up over many years. No matter what, I still find it unreal for forgive, like a bottle once broken it can never be the same again. A dull life, utterly frustrating, but no, 2 wrongs don't make things right should I decide to seek better pastures.
@@MikeHansen-mh8pf actually a series of choices
She now has even less respect for her husband .
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IF betrayal of loyalty was a forgivable offense then SATAN would be sitting next to GOD.
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you can't talk things like this away....that is why divorce rates are so high,,,counselors ...what can they say....just get a divorce.
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So ..that means..before marrying you both go first to counselling..or really a cheater ..
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I don’t forgive a cheater who chose to cheat and destroy people,divorce the 304
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What an effed up man.
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Not me. C ya.
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He forgave her because it was not physical. Everyone has emotions and if we don't act on them and turn it physical, then it's better than it being physical. Emotional is bad, but at least he was not inside of her. I'd be more bothered by the physical.
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Yawn
i hope the day will come when an occasional side adventure is acceptable in marriages. day in and day out with the same person for years can be grueling at times, perfect monogomy seems like too high of a bar.
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