For Benjamin Zulus shows I always put a thumbs up symbol before I even listen because he is always on point.hey man you are a very great teacher of our own time.much respect my good sir
My goodness! You two have very good chemistry. 1. Don't ask her if she's dating, ask her if she's married. 2. Ask yourself, if you met the right person how long would it take you to settle down with them? 3. Every good thing is noticable by many, hover around there.
Met Zulu after I blundered and made a conscious decision to do better, he simply helped fortify my decision. Glad I discovered him. May God keep adding to your fountain of knowledge and wisdom🙏
🤣😅😂 Benjamin you have killed me today... the part about a guy reading the bible... no interpretation... we could have read the bible at home... i laughed till tears rolled down my face ...
I enjoyed this message.....except @18:45 I strongly disagree with a man pursuing a woman that's in a relationship. It's nonsense to believe that as long as she's not married it's ok to go after her - I bet the same man that pursues women who are in relationships wouldn't be happy if he had a girlfriend that other men were pursuing. What ever happened to "Don't do unto others what you wouldn't want them to do to you?" 🤦🏿♀️
I see that you are really new here. On this show, we don't use the words girlfriend or boyfriend. These words are not allowed here, in fact they don't accept this madness of boyfriend and girlfriend.
@@MathewKenyi18 First of all, I've been following Benjamin since last year, secondly I agree too that the boyfriend and girlfriend stage is usually prolonged in society and it doesn't need to be, however to those who are dating intentionally so that the relationship can lead to marriage in the near future - the period before engagement is still usually called "the boyfriend and girlfriend stage" by some people who take relationships seriously. It still doesn't justify pursuing a person who is not single even though the person is not married.
He said dating is like an interview don't connect emotional be open to interview as many people as you can don't tire yourself to one person you will waste alot of time
@TMH , I think the person who is pursued is an adult and has a choice to make. The blame is not for the pursuer here. He tries his luck. Even married men and women are approached each and everyday but they have a choice in making decisions at the end of the day.
what we all have to know is most females want immediate gratification,and if the formal guy can't give that , since you are ready to give her that immediate gratification,she goes with you and trust me guys ,the same reason she left that guy is the same reason she will leave you
@19:19 "Shoot your shot" - at a woman who has a boyfriend?? What if her man was planning on proposing to her soon?? I'm so disappointed that this is encouraging infidelity. You usually give outstanding advice, but I wouldn't advise men and women to pursue people who are taken, even if they aren't married to their significant other 🤦🏿♀️
You don't know if the relationship the woman is in is casual or serious. You don't know if they're together and are moving towards engagement. It could be a fairly new relationship yet it's intentional. As soon as the guy hears the words "I have a boyfriend", he should back off and respect the relationship. If the woman is meant for him, they will cross paths again when both are wholly single and available for each other. You don't need to force what's meant to be.
How many of us have changed their way of life since Zulu came out
I'm 1 of them
I dd
me here!
Yes and still in the process
I here
Zulu you have no idea how we needed you as Africa. Your a life changer. Thanks
ever since i started watching n following Benjamin Zulu on social media, i have changed the better ❤❤
For Benjamin Zulus shows I always put a thumbs up symbol before I even listen because he is always on point.hey man you are a very great teacher of our own time.much respect my good sir
"...This is a jungle brother, you are not the only hunter!" 😂😂😂 Mr Zulu you are too much.
Zulu you have made me to value my worth as a woman your channel is part of my balanced diet daily
My goodness! You two have very good chemistry.
1. Don't ask her if she's dating, ask her if she's married.
2. Ask yourself, if you met the right person how long would it take you to settle down with them?
3. Every good thing is noticable by many, hover around there.
Met Zulu after I blundered and made a conscious decision to do better, he simply helped fortify my decision. Glad I discovered him. May God keep adding to your fountain of knowledge and wisdom🙏
You two are a blessing to our youth let them learn from your show
Zulu you have made me to value my worth as a woman you are part of my balanced diet daily
I thought I was the only one who never understood having a relationship - I mean if u like / love some1 why wait get married.
I totally agree. A person who is not married is not "taken."
Benjamin, you're a blessing to the young generation. Keep up the good work.
Not only young generation, us too.
I used to have a book...where I kept track of the info given by dates. It helps, very true. They thought I was a very good listener
Thankyou Zulu my life has changed with your teachings
I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣most girls men are afraid to approach them, wah this is very true
There's no love without giving, Owesome stuff , Owesome stuff thanks alot
I wish I knew You earlier. But all is not gone. I thank God I met him kabla kitumbua hakijaingia mchanga.
This man level of standards is something else
Thank you , Great advice again Benjamin!!!
Pure wisdom...I'm grateful...its never too late to learn 🙏
Be sure of what you bring to the table! very true!
Thanks Zulu...i decided not to date until i make my first million!and over 30yrs and ready!
Nmekungojaa😂😂😂
@@iimiafrica353 😂😂😂😂😂👉👉👉
@anita haha...wewe pia tafuta millioni yako!
@@mcjamespassi1331 Najikaza😂😂😂😂
@@iimiafrica353 all the best...Mungu akuzidishie...
Happy to follow this
Thanks to Zulu I am looking at life differently I am 19 years old getting to campus may God bless you
Very educative....You have changed my life since I started listening to you Mr Zulu
🤣😅😂 Benjamin you have killed me today... the part about a guy reading the bible... no interpretation... we could have read the bible at home... i laughed till tears rolled down my face ...
Asante this is amazing
Dating nowadays is so tricky
I agree 👍
Benj nimejifunza mengi.Asante
Your teaching bloo my mind
You are a blessing to me
Be sure of what you are bringing at the table 👏👏👏👏 i like that
Keeeeke
@@puritynguta362 aba ndi aja muntu okwa
True, women like confident men...Zulu is teaching Bramwel how to steal peoples girlfriends, very funny
But his ryt some boyfriends waste girls time but if ur man loves u he will neva loose u
Thank you Sir for your good work. Wish I heard you kitambo though it's not too late. I'm learning
Me too.
Benjamin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣are you talking about me 😂
I love this show 😂😂😂😂
Thanks for the good words
How many of us are waiting for darkness 🤣🤣🤣
I love this my mentor 💪
Tuned in
Me myself I hate dating coz one is sin, second waste of time, and if break it hurt and jealous increases, it is God give,
Benjamin, Kwa hii kipindi yako mtu anaweza pata mtu??😊😊 Asking for myself ☺️☺️
I hope you find mtu 😁
@@tinachristine4573 naendelea na kutafuta 😅😅
😂😂😂
Enyewe tukipatana hapa si itauwa super🤔🤔
@Kiptoo Timothy nakuona
I enjoyed this message.....except @18:45 I strongly disagree with a man pursuing a woman that's in a relationship. It's nonsense to believe that as long as she's not married it's ok to go after her - I bet the same man that pursues women who are in relationships wouldn't be happy if he had a girlfriend that other men were pursuing. What ever happened to "Don't do unto others what you wouldn't want them to do to you?" 🤦🏿♀️
I see that you are really new here. On this show, we don't use the words girlfriend or boyfriend. These words are not allowed here, in fact they don't accept this madness of boyfriend and girlfriend.
@@MathewKenyi18 First of all, I've been following Benjamin since last year, secondly I agree too that the boyfriend and girlfriend stage is usually prolonged in society and it doesn't need to be, however to those who are dating intentionally so that the relationship can lead to marriage in the near future - the period before engagement is still usually called "the boyfriend and girlfriend stage" by some people who take relationships seriously. It still doesn't justify pursuing a person who is not single even though the person is not married.
The reality is that let alone girlfriends, even wives get advances from other men...don't take it personally
He said dating is like an interview don't connect emotional be open to interview as many people as you can don't tire yourself to one person you will waste alot of time
@TMH , I think the person who is pursued is an adult and has a choice to make. The blame is not for the pursuer here. He tries his luck. Even married men and women are approached each and everyday but they have a choice in making decisions at the end of the day.
I have a question... why am i scared when i think, remember or see a phone call from a guy that's showing interest? It's been 2 months
True Benjamin they fear us sana
Hahahaaa....we are enlightened
I love this. 🥰🥰🤩😘
Following.....
✈️✈️✈️✈️fem Bonga na Jalas
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🤣🤣🤣Men don't ask a ladies if they hv boyfriends,# Noted
How I wish u came in earlier
Same here 🤗
I found one, seems serious, but the problem is we are in a long distance rlnxhp 😔, hope he gonna stay
Someone tag me in a video where he's talking about characters of some guys who play keyboard in church, I really need this
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Hands down
Candidate 32B 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have really tried to spoil Bramel 😂😂😂😂Thanks for the massage 👌
So Benjamin does the same apply to ladies? can I also steal pples boyfrens 😄 if they not married yet .
He said it. 😂😂😂 If he's a match...take it chapchap!
my landlord stole some one girlfriend and yesterday the same girl is on my heels ,,,never go after peoples girl friend ,it doesn't end well .....
@@afogbonjaiyewisdom1436 Thank you 👏🏿👏🏿
what we all have to know is most females want immediate gratification,and if the formal guy can't give that , since you are ready to give her that immediate gratification,she goes with you and trust me guys ,the same reason she left that guy is the same reason she will leave you
@@afogbonjaiyewisdom1436 I agree, how you got the man or woman is how you will lose them.
Hallo there,an every one too,,am listening careful 🙏🙏💞
Lmao! Waiting for darkness 😂😂
@19:19 "Shoot your shot" - at a woman who has a boyfriend?? What if her man was planning on proposing to her soon?? I'm so disappointed that this is encouraging infidelity. You usually give outstanding advice, but I wouldn't advise men and women to pursue people who are taken, even if they aren't married to their significant other 🤦🏿♀️
Stop overthinking
He should have proposed...
You're single till you're married. If the "boyfriend " was so serious, she wouldn't be available.
Dating means talking to check compatibility no emotional attachment and you can talk to many people as you can
You don't know if the relationship the woman is in is casual or serious. You don't know if they're together and are moving towards engagement. It could be a fairly new relationship yet it's intentional. As soon as the guy hears the words "I have a boyfriend", he should back off and respect the relationship. If the woman is meant for him, they will cross paths again when both are wholly single and available for each other. You don't need to force what's meant to be.