If you don't know what your character defects are, how would you know what defects to ask the higher power of your understanding to remove? Discovering those defects IS what the 4th step is all about. It is a fact finding and fact FACING action step. I highly recommend listening to the Joe and Charlie 4th step workshop. There's a reason why the big book of AA details exactly how to do your inventory. And, BTW, I can say from experience that once you start the inventory process, exactly how it is described in the big book, it wasn't anywhere near as difficult to do as I thought it would be. However, having a solid understanding of the first 3 steps is absolutely necessary for the 4th step to be successfully accomplished. Don't let fear of this step stand in your way. You'll learn all about your self-centered fear in the 4th step which was one of the most valuable results of this step for me. Make sure you do the fear inventory as described in the big book. And for those who have done a thorough 4th step, please share your thoughts with others every chance you get! Ain't it great to be sober? Yes it is!
I look at where these defects and selfish traits started. The thoroughness and honesty of my childhood and early years. What hurts and fears and false reality’s were propounded upon me. Now I can be in charge of ridding myself from these fearful negative, un godly survival tragedies. Now I can be sober with time and not be angry. Controlling. Judge mental. Doing the same ol 10 th step over n over. Using my sponcees as emotional band aids.
Steps 1-3 we're so freeing. Here's to the next step. I wish everyone the best doing step 4 as we explore the parts of ourselves that were hidden for so long. Its bound to be painful but also incredibly freeing. God bless
As a truck driver your service is appreciated of the reading of the fourth step.
THANK YOU SO MUCH MY BROTHER! been waiting for someone to start reading IWHAW aloud❤
your service is greatly appreciated.
love and respect.
If you don't know what your character defects are, how would you know what defects to ask the higher power of your understanding to remove? Discovering those defects IS what the 4th step is all about. It is a fact finding and fact FACING action step. I highly recommend listening to the Joe and Charlie 4th step workshop. There's a reason why the big book of AA details exactly how to do your inventory. And, BTW, I can say from experience that once you start the inventory process, exactly how it is described in the big book, it wasn't anywhere near as difficult to do as I thought it would be. However, having a solid understanding of the first 3 steps is absolutely necessary for the 4th step to be successfully accomplished. Don't let fear of this step stand in your way. You'll learn all about your self-centered fear in the 4th step which was one of the most valuable results of this step for me. Make sure you do the fear inventory as described in the big book. And for those who have done a thorough 4th step, please share your thoughts with others every chance you get! Ain't it great to be sober? Yes it is!
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theres plenty of AA videos and comment sections you can go to as well. sounds like that might better fit you
So good! Thank you
Working the steps right now
I look at where these defects and selfish traits started. The thoroughness and honesty of my childhood and early years. What hurts and fears and false reality’s were propounded upon me. Now I can be in charge of ridding myself from these fearful negative, un godly survival tragedies. Now I can be sober with time and not be angry. Controlling. Judge mental. Doing the same ol 10 th step over n over. Using my sponcees as emotional band aids.
Steps 1-3 we're so freeing. Here's to the next step. I wish everyone the best doing step 4 as we explore the parts of ourselves that were hidden for so long. Its bound to be painful but also incredibly freeing. God bless
My life has become unmanageable!
My actions and addiction have created total chaos for myself and my family...
Thanks a lot brother
Thank you.
Much appreciated again sir.
Thank you
Thank you 🙏❤
Thank you!
Amazing Program even for Non-Addicts with simple Hangups 😆🤣 Eminem is in this Program!!!!
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