Why I Became A Lesbian - Tabitha Wothaya
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
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She talked about not being able to take good care of her children, and she has two books that are barely close to the end, I think she needs to set her priorities wisely. Ningekua yeye, I would have asked for money to support my children, atleast have a peaceful clear head to finish writing her books. Anyway, kila mtu na maoni yake.
@@bronzekaylow1298 e
please i need ur help
@@shay1999 thanks for your views but my books are going to change my kids life too
Kama unataka conjestina achieng' aletwe hapa na jalas,piga likes na comments aone.
Tabitha thank you for sharing your story even though the person you're talking to isn't paying attention to you. Jalang'o you did terribly on this interview, terribly is an understatement. We need more empathetic interviewers like Lynn Ngugi.
I agree..and at some point he tries to disregard what she says
Ingekuwa story ya mwanaume na yenye wanaingilia wanawake, angekuwa present. He is clear not even there.
So sad.. God bless you girl
I agree also
I second you .
This interview needed a female host
Why....pahali mambo imefika....we all need to talk..
Haha uko huku pia....
@@Mmarsha27 ,nana?
I mean who?
@@tabithamaina3080 its my friend hapo juu Kemboi
After watching your story...I feel like sharing mine too
As a single mum,there are things you need to forgo.Forget marriage to protect you child.
Feminisms, wewe mwenyewe umeoleka, your advice is vague
after listening to this lady, i believe ''people should heal before having children so your children don't have to heal from having you as a parent''.
Sure
Sure
💯💯
Personally after multiple sexual assaults I don't think I can ever live with a man..so how will I survive ever? Any advice? Nilikua mlevi kitambo na sikua najua nature ya wanaume,si ati nawachukia but I don't want to ever see a man naked
Grace Nsalame need to take up this interview and give it justice.Pole Sana Tabby
Tabitha is so vocal.She has a msg to single parents in love.
I love her bravery
This lady should be interviewed by Lynn ngugi..of tuko talks..
i agree too
U can say that again
Jalas, ameanza kuwa mtu bladifakin 🤺🤺
I agree
Lynn ngungi needed this interview
Aki for real..
Jalas 🚮🚮
Exactly jalas ako na jokes
sure
This is such a sad story. Sometimes people in such situations talk like this to cover their pain. Mothers, watch out for your kids both boys and girls and put them first. Never believe anyone else over them. Teach them about their bodies early and create a safe haven for them to talk to you about anything!
But jalango...surely this is one interview that doesn't need your comedy. May God intervene for this lady.
Can that man be arrested even today,?am soo frustrated😭😭😭
If by then he was 40 years....Do your math i think he's dead already
@@lavingtonenjenga1440 he should resurrect..we do justice😫
Yes he can! With a little concerted effort from we "the people".
How i wish Lean Ngugi was interviewing her!
Her story is very sensitive,Jalango hapo nayo ulichemsha.
Sioni shida na interview coz dem was talking through out
Me too
Nothing wrong with how Jalang'o did it, the lady said everything
I don't know why people upload some people Soo much aki
Over to you Lynn
Dear daughter of the most high God,I pray for your healing and permanent soul,mind spirit and body restoration.May you find peace for rest of your remaining days on this earth..such tales break me and wish I had been near you to help you fight for your dignity..it shall be well.
Jalang'o this girl has a beautiful voice for radio even if it's a vernacular station coz of her strong kikuyu accent.
I think jalas did not handle this interview the way it was supposed to be handled. He did not take the girl very seriously. Sad to see
@@alyce9494 sana. Ametudissapoint round hii
Define seriousness coz i see a keen interviewer doing wat interviewers should do keeping quite n avoiding many questions....using his ears more n less mouth... 👏👏👏
@@triggaforeign8591 sensitive interview deserves sensitive interviewer. He is taking rape to be such a light information, hakuna hata feelings in his voice
@@shay1999 yes you can see him laughing at her trauma and joking about it. There's nothing funny about her situation
He jokes so much
This lady also needs a therapist as well. She hasn't dealt with what happened to her. Jalas, bro, today you didn't handle this well today..
I agree
Hello Jalas....This girl was my classmate back then St.Regina Secondary School Nairutia....Am sorry for what she was going through silently😭😭😭😭
Tabitha is on the way to restoration and complete healing. You went through a lot and you've shown what resilience can help one achieve. I pray that God will completely heal you and turn your ashes into beauty!
amen shii🙏
This Woman will get somewhere shiro
Sad story! Jalas, hio phone next time weka mbali during such an interview.
My kids my life... No man can come between me n them...
Aki me too
Me too...
Thank you for being brave enough to share your story, Tabby. My heart breaks. 😢💔 This is a culture no one talks about in Kenya. #STOPrapeculture in Kenya. Rapists should be jailed FOR LIFE because their victims are NEVER the same again (mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically)!!! 💔😠🤬💔
Sexual abused is very painful survivors need quality physiological and medical care! This lady need someone to listen to her aki
Its so sad aki hata nimefeel..i pray to get a good man hata naogopa kuolewa if men wako this cruel 😭😭
Very true. Whats her ig
@@wanguigrace2957 would love to know
She should consider Dr. Jane Wanjau. She is a remarkable family therapist. She was ones hosted by Kate Actress.
Justice for Tabitha it's not late
@jalas u didn’t pay attention on this interview guess you were not ready for it may be because she’s not a celeb #equalizepls
Be nice, giving her his attention and a stage was a big thing.....
Jalas amestuka juu ya hiyo story
Such a sad story. You have been through a lot. May God stretch His blessings upon you.
Amen
Jalang'o manze umeniuuuuuuuuuuuuuuddddhhhhiii aki. Kwani huwezi eka hiyo simu kando!! Manzeee this story deserves a lot. Lynn ngugi @tuko mnaeza fanya kitu?
My thoughts exactly excatly....
Omg no words, thank you for being brave enough to come out and talk about this topic. How many young innocent children go through this. As a community have we failed our children?
It's sad and painful story. I concur with others here that this interview lacked empathy but more of joy. No blame. Thanks for your courage in sharing your story. Can benefit from trauma help, early childhood abuse, environmental issues, and delivalance. Wishing you brighter future
I just wanna hug her so hard and say it's okay sis you can tell she still haven't healed she need same one to talk too .
Jalas, ive something to request please bring Princess Jully to say her story so that people can help her she is really in bad situation. She sang that song "Dunia Mbaya" which helped during the Aids/Hiv era.
True nimeongea sana but I don't know why hajamleta I am for it
The first interview Jalango has not said a word in between. So painful 😭😭😭😭
Jalas is speechless
Second one na George bodo.
Amenyamaza vibaya sana
Really... this is not how such kind of an interview ought to be conducted
Hapo kwa threesome Jalas amechangamka aje
Taby is healing saa hii anapeana story akicheka, it was sad juzi in some media mamake kupigiwa simu bado anatetea huyo bwana ati niwahubiri, but the mam to the sister akapasua mbarika taby anasema ukweli kweli kuna mothers from hell una choose mwanaume over your child🤦🏽♀️
Aki soo painful
And that is what i will never do,chose a man over my daughter,would rather die single.
@@cuttieangel3526 you are going far and you will be a blessing to many🙏🏻 trust the process
Tabitha please you need to have done this interview at Tuco talks
Very true. Cell phone was more important. TUKO talks should have handled this. Jalas the worst interviewer i have ever seen. He does very well what you are not supposed to do.
Jalango.....some interviews like this one; give to the likes of..."tuko talks- Lynn Ngugi" and "metha ya Kagoni"..at least there's more of emotional support in a gal to gal interview empowerment...and audience capture the texture of the story more....My take....x
Very true. Woman to Woman is better.Jalang''o is a comedian. He was shocked you can tell but he was not showing the empathy that she needs. I will tag lynne abt her
Yap! point!
True
Weeuuh
Hungura show interviews this lady and it is clear but in kikuyu
I wish she approached Lynn Ngugi to put her story out there.
It could be deeper and the massage could reach many ppl ... even action could be taken ...and she could be helped by people....how I wish tooo.
My thoughts exactly
It was With Kagoni. Real sad hata mamake alisema hawesi ongea na Tabitha
She is better interviewer on such emotional topics. Jalas ako na niche yake pia
@@estheralbrechtsen8999 aki I really pity her..but with God everything is possible 🙏
Tabitha needs counseling n future she can take a guidance n counseling course to help our community.she is sharp lady
Tabitha, I'm truly truly sorry for all you had to endure but don't you ever forget that God's got you.
Jalango, this is for you, with such an interview, you should have shown some level of empathy and let her see and feel she has all your attention rather than being on and off your phone and fidgeting all the time.
Truly agree on this one. I guess the interview wasn't important to him. What a mess!!!
It is good lesson for parents be open to your kids and don’t even trust maids
The message was not to jalas but parents.Let's listen to our children and understand.
Jalas umechemsha kwa hii interview,such cases happens on our daily lives , you've taken it so lightly
I understand your situation my dear. I know that pain but if I was healed The LORD will heal you too.
Hugs to you my love♥️
@@wanguigrace2957 Amen
its all going to be okay....take heart
am so sorry siz....
Jalango, this one you did a poor job on the recognition of her situation, and lacked the empathy it deserves. Tabitha pole sana but thankyou for bravely sharing your story.
This lady needs a counsellor and a mentor
Sure! She needs help.
💯
Mm hata siendi mbali kusikiza pls jarango hao watu si watafutwe washikwe imagine mama kama huyo hana time na mtoto ni uchungu sana my daughter pole
Jalas your phone, both on the table and you picking it up took away something so vital from Tabitha's sharing. You broke the connection.
He always does that. Does not really connect with his guests
Uuuui thought I was the only one who noticed...that's not good
Kabisaaa
Jalas...stay professional. You don't look interested in this story. FYI its very traumatic! SHAME
Damn those mothers, my mom included. Fortunately, I was not raped, aliomba roho safi. He never touched me but he refused to take me to school despite being among the best girls in school. I rebelled against them, I knew what was right and I loved my life. Thank God He protected me and brought me guardian angels who made sure I went back to school. This trend is very common amongst my community and nobody is talking about it. This Generation X- single mothers who were so desperate to get married are narcissist and they made their little girls go through hell. I recent those mothers. How blame a child you chose to give birth to, yet Roe vs. Wade was widely publicized. I swear I can relate 100% with what this girl experienced when she run to her mother for protection. My mom ones told me that naringa na hiyo maneno na kuna wanaume wanazaa na their biological daughters, she even gave me an example. I only wish my grandma was alive I know she would have protected me. Unlike Tabitha, I chose to be a normal woman, I never gave myself away to men, I believed in myself. I never relied on any man for upkeep. But it took a lot of hard work to be where I am today. God gave me wonderful daughters, the best husband and I would say I have a beautiful family. I went to therapy too. Dr. Jane Wanjau who was ones hosted by Kate actress took me through a therapy session to overcome the childhood traumas. There is nothing worst that could happen to a child other than being rejected, abandoned and neglected by their mothers. Likes of Menendez brothers, Ed Kemper, Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer turned to the monsters they were because of their mothers. I gave up on trying to please my mother because even when you become independent she feels she has power over you. she want to control how you raise your kid or live with your husband, want everyone to believe that you are not a good person, it is like it pleases them when you are on your knees. Pure toxic. I found my biological dad and I have never been happier.
So we are many in this. I share the same story with you. Currently, my fiancee and I are trying to get married but my mother is still a stambling block for my wedding preparation. It is hard but I believe God will see us through. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Jalas you didn't give your best in this interview.
He couldn't. It needs another woman like Grace Nsalame to take up this interview to another level. Men don't understand
Yes
alishtuka hio story ni sad
He looks disinterested somehow. He is fighting not to doze off..... fidgeting too much.
Ooh GOD...THESE INTERVIEW NEEDED TO BE DONE BY LYN OR KAGONI.THIS IS NOT A LAUGHING MATER .THESE GIRL STILL NEED TO HEAL.
Agreed
Single mums deserve love too but not at the expense of their children
I guess not everyone has the same mentality 😂
who else thought Jalas took this story as a joke..Jalas style up...this isnt a laughing matter .saitan🙅🙅
Mpaka alisema 'inabore'
He wasn't serious I think Lynn tuko should do her interview akii.
@@chikujumat.v1308 i agree
I totally agree,she was holding back so much tears....She had so much to say which was taken as a joke,that was sad sad.
Wanna mutheri
People need to understand that rape is not just a woman's issue. Ask yourself where we would be as a society if we were as afraid of having criminals as sons, as we are afraid of having victims as daughters. Getting rid of the branches doesn't make the roots go away but addressing sexual abuse needs earnest attention.
Aki.. your comment deserves a million likes. It's sad the perpetrators go unpunished. That's why these cases are increasing by the day.
Jelas as a psychologist. This one you handled it casually this is a real experience it needs you to identify with what she is feeling and her experience. Lakini you checking your phone all the time. Next time try to give more attention and put your phone away.
Thank you girl for opening up, it helps in the healing process.
That’s the problem we have in Kenya, we take serious matters lightly like rape or suicidal cases 🤦🏾♀️
I feel hajapewa enough time to spit it out she still has more in store, if umezaliwa kwa nyumba tofauti utaelewa
True
Leynn ngugi tuko talks I wish you did this story
It pain's me alot seeing such gal i know. Mwenye tumelelewa pamoja toka utotoni na kunayo mambo aliyapitia sikuyajua Mimi. Very sad. Jalas thanks and thanks alot ku interviwe huu msichana juu nimejua story sijawai iskia ama ata kuijua kwa maisha yangu
Mtoto wa kuzaliwa nje ni stress juu in some cause you had to choose between your kid and your husband but remember men come and go but your kid will forever remain in your life so choose wise mamas
This is the worst thing anyone could ever go through. I swear. It remains fresh in your mind through the years.
Am so frustrated with how jalas has handled this. I could literally slap some senses into the guy.
I noticed it seems hakuwa intrested
Thank you ..i came for this comment...she deserved Tuko talks 😭
How to get tuko talk please nimepitia na nataka speak out
@@shanayawangui3870 atleast he shouldn't have showed that he is not that interested. Taking such a thing so lightly yet it has scarred that lady and who knows how many ladies have gone through such.
@@mercyakinyi5102 go to her channel she leaves her contacts
What a sad story I think Lynn Ngugi would have given her a better platform and empathy for her story ....but I'm glad she seems to be in a better place now.
Lynne ako wapi is like jalas is not serious with tabitha.these happens alot to many girls
So sad you went through this....and the ease with which you share your story shows you are healing
I remember watching her on kikuyu diasporah TV show seeing her here has really hurt all over again.. Justice should be served ⚖️😢
Me too na ilikua kitambo
Justice for Tabitha 😔❤️
True she need justice
Teachers are angels
Jalas looks like he is late to go somewhere 🤣
Am a victim of the same, married with a baby boy but it's hell... I swear it's hell kwa my son, I jz feel like quiting
Jalas you didn't handle this interview with respect. Respect the lady. Giver her the interview you can give to Lilian muli or those rich ladies
Naona iko tu sawa coz kama dem was strong so jalongo hakua so emotional na pia dem was talking almost through out
I don't understand what is wrong with Jalas interviewing this lady.
Lillian Muli is not rich
Tabitha, I feel your story, I pray for you, may you talk to single mothers and encourage women and girls who have gone through your ordeal. Your story is very sad and amusing at the same time. I wish you well with the book.
Despite the challenges you went through you're still strong
She is a strong lady
msichana hapumui!!
wooi.
weka likes za Jalas kusahau kusanitize.
🤣🤣
Breath for me
Kindly Jalas can you put the phone aside. I could distract your guest. They might feel like what they're saying is not as import as what you're attending to on phone. Of course you could be attending to online followers but your guest might mistake that to impatience or feel demeaned. Allow your trusted and able team attend to your phone for that short duration if possible.
These story needed a female interviewer
Jalas unacheka Nini surely 😳😳😳😳
Tuko with Lynn Ngugi all the way..... You making this lady feel demeaned ata hajaopen up vizuri
She needs deliverance, the spirit of rejection is a very stubborn spirit and it opens a door to every other filthy spirit and the situation of that person becomes almost hopeless but the Lord is so gracious there's no mountain he won't climb or walls he won't kick down coming after a lost sheep, he's the one who never leaves the 'one' behind. God loves you girl, he's not done with you...
You really tried to
Ignore this lady and her story was so touching
Interviewers have Niches, this one is not the type that Jalas should handle. Tuko, metha ya kagoni and the like should handle this interview. Jalas should stick to his lane, stories that can handle a humorous twist because that is what he's really good at. Tabitha we are sorry to hear what you went through in the hands of those that were meant to protect you. May God heal your wounds. Don't feel shy speaking out, and find other platforms that do emotional stories such as yours. Pole sana.
I can’t believe I’m saying g this.....DO NOT LEAVE YOUR DAUGHTERS IN THE CARE OF MALE RELATIVES/MALE RELATIVES SHOULD NOT BE YOUR DAUGHTER’S CLOSEST FRIENDS. Talk to your children from a tender age.....Let them understand that it’s wrong for anyone to touch them.You will be surprised at how many girls were molested as kids. These stories are harrowing 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I think there’re so many paedophiles prowling everywhere.
Atieno Ogara!Don't make it a gender issue.Pedophiles come in all genders.How about being gender blind when addressing this issue. This unfortunate acts happen to kids of both genders from crippy adults of both genders.For all intent and purpose you miss the whole picture when u make it a gender issue.Boy child is just as vulnerable....but I know you ment well.
@@rasputin7323 thank you for understanding my emotionally driven sentiments. I totally acknowledge that boys also suffer in the hands of house helps or are equally sodomized by male relatives and "family friends". The key thing is that we need to teach our children to tell us everything and anything without fear of needless retribution.
@@agaltoto8506 Great!This what dialogue is supposed to look like.Meanwhile ill sent you a friend request on Facebook,you sound like a smart person and............. I'll tell you the rest after we become friends😉😊.
Nkt what are you talking about.
Very true, we need to talk about this in kenya
am proud of my mom alitufanya watoto wake kama mboni yake ya jicho Mungu ampunzishe kwa amani ....asante mama ulinilinda sanaa
Jalango has cameras and a studio.. but he lacks professionalism. This is an emotional story from the actual victim, but he just takes her so lightly and keeps laughing at some times. At some points, he even ignores what she says by not paying attention.
Why roast jalas remember he's comedian
This girl story have made me learn a lesson in life,may God continue strengthening you girl,the lord who prevented you from suicide have a good plans for your future,for sure i will be a best friend to my children.
To be honest jalas, you did not handle this interview with the empathy that it deserved. This girl has gone through so much, but some instances you were laughing it off and there was nothing to laugh about here. And you really fast forwarded the story and did not give the girl the chance to express everything she wanted. In my opinion, as the interviewer you did not properly handle this interview
Thank you for highlighting what I just posted!!!!
True
That's what happens when illiterates try journalism without formal training. It's like watching Churchils interviews. Pathetic. Tuko media all the way
I support you
I don't usually comment , I purposefully came here to highlight this ;Jalas I feel you owe this lady an apology.
You didn't handle this interview with the outmost humane , empathy and effective listening skills.
I felt like you harassed this lady .
She has a very sensitive topic that is happening in our community.
Tabby please note this platform wasn't ideal try @tuko, @metha ya kagoni
Peace!
Big up our teachers 4 sure walimu wetu were what were because of u mlikuwa second parents for us
Waaah Tabitha is innocent and needs counselling..😭😭😭
Jalas handled this interview in the worst possible way 😩 very insensitive! he’s even using his phone in the middle of Tabby’s story 😒😒😒
I agree, very disrespectful. What is so important that cannot wait. And why is he having his cell phone on during an interview. I had to stop here with disgust!!! Poor production, lacking professionalisium
I think he tried because he is not a professional in such matters. It would have been better though if he handed it over to a woman like he did with Shakila.
Such an emotional story. Jalas l wish u noticed there is a time she was almost breaking down but she swallowed the pain. U should have given her shoulder to lean on and allowed her to cry cause this girl has really gone through a lot and she's still suffering.. All the same thanks for trying to help her.
Stepdads are on the spot! This stories represent so many cases that have gone untold in our society today. Ephesians 6:12: “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”
@Jalango Tv please interview josephine Leshao.Kenyans need to hear her story
Jalas you should learn to concentrate,,,, how do you ask something that she has said more than 2 times.
i know right
i have a girl the same age,,,this story gives me goosebumps it was on Hungura show
Scary...very scary
She's the one
Always listen to your small gal...
@@triggaforeign8591 listening to her for second time after the kikuyu diaspora media i guess 2017-18 😢 keep flowing.I have 3 dotas and have started to teach them and also am SUPER close to them bcs i can think of such an evil thing to EVER happen to them.God help our kids and open the eyes of parents.She has same story as last interview.God truly walk with this hurted soul.She hurts alot in her life.
I think she is not strong enough to mentor, as she ain’t healed yet. She may need to get help to get over her trauma first...But it takes courage to open up, so congratulations!
Since she is the one who reached out to jalas.... Thats the first step to healing
Jalango is so insensitive in this interview 🙄😪😥I wonder why he didn't take her seriously..ama ni vile she's not a "celeb" this lady needs help and counselling, she has childhood traumas and not healed yet
Trauma victims should also be guided. Some could be sharing because they feel lost and confused. In this case I'm wondering if this girl will be able to meet her immediate basic needs by publishing a book. What if she first boosts her business and she undergo counselling. Then from her commitment to her business she can channel some profits to publishing. Truthfully speaking...who read or buy books nowadays? Today's generation are more inclined to online content. Can she be helped to package the story in her online channel as opposed to leaving it to lie in dusty book shelves? My thought though
@@francisn442 hey me as a female being a victim of multiple sexual assaults upto the point I don't think I can ever live with a man..I like male company but I dont want sex how will I ever live with a man? I feel lost
@@CK-ps7sm hey darling, I'm really sorry for what you went through, sending you love&light
I've also noted...
@@CK-ps7sm You still can heal....there is still hope I am a trauma counselor with refugees and I have seenmy clients recover fully and doing better
Jalas, please weka Simu kando!!
Am just wondering why hold your phone and you are in the middle of serious interview nkt kukosa
The sipping too pisses me off😏🙄
@@ms.mugendy9231 he isn't serious
In communication skills 101 you are taught about listening skills. Hiyo part ya listening skills ilimpita
I like her advice to other mothers everywhere, it has got weight.
Thanks, Jalas, we have to address and fight child abuse in our society.#SpeakUpAgainstAbuse
I understand this story very well I went through it never shared until my mom passed away
Pole sana
no comment but you are strong and thank you for sharing your story
Guy's she's talking the truth but her mother was interviewed in another channel and she denied everything but sister to her mother confirmed what she's saying....
Which channel
@@sarahwambui5287 hugura show
Which channel was that?
i watched it too. the sister to her mother clarified everything and also said that man also wanted to rape her
Woie sad, such an evil mum. One day God will fight for Tabitha
Who has noticed that Jalango watches Abel Mutua's and Wajesus Channel? He just dropped the hints in the first 2 minutes of this video.
Thats how we support each other..watch and learn from some of the best online content creators
Its amazing to watch other content creators. 💪💪
This is how most of content creators become successful, by WATCHING WHAT OTHERS DO
Ukiona face ya jalas imechange hii story ni sad mpaka amezahau sanitize wah pole Sana sis God is incontrol
Yesss he is very disturbed
Tabitha. am on your shoe whoever is criticizing you God forgive them. Duniani kuna washenzi tena wengi. Jalas keep on doing the good work you are doing.
Jalas what's funny? Kindly get counseling for the lady. She's still far from healing emotionally, physically, mentally.Please any expert counselor take up this case.
Btw she really needs help
She absolutely needs counseling....the book writing is therapy to her,but she has deep wounds that she'll always transfer to anyone she dates or relates to on a personal level......Jalas,do your due diligence on some sensitive issues please and thank you!!