My Wife Is Now My Husband - But His Family Don't Approve | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2022
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    COUPLE Kai-De and Blayr met as two lesbian women but are now husband and wife - as Kai-De has transitioned from female to male. Unfortunately for them, Kai-De's mother Kay has not embraced Kai-De's transition and insists on addressing him with 'she' pronouns. Kai-De has been on hormones for over a year but Kay has been avoiding talking about the transition at all. Kai-De told Truly: "I come from a very conservative family and it took a while for them to come around, they still use 'she' pronouns". Kai-De and Blayr are also planning on having a child soon, but Kay is struggling to accept that the child won't biologically be Kai-De's. "My mother is very adamant now that I have a biological child - that's not how I want to have a baby," Kai-De said. The couple are now ready to properly confront Kay about their different views for the first time.
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Комментарии • 61

  • @sirmadam8183
    @sirmadam8183 Год назад +16

    Mom: when you give birth to a child, that child is a separate human being. It is free to make their own choices and decisions. Let go. Do not be selfish. Your child's life is not your life to live. Their life does not belong to you.

    • @Nikki_with_the_blikki
      @Nikki_with_the_blikki 5 месяцев назад

      YES! A parent is supposed to love their child no matter what. Most parents don't care if it's a boy or girl, so for his mom to act brand new when he transitions shows more about her as a so called mother then it does about her son🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @vampiregoatz
    @vampiregoatz Год назад +13

    these comments are so weird and transphobic……this man and woman are very sweet and i wish the best for them ❤️

    • @Nikki_with_the_blikki
      @Nikki_with_the_blikki 5 месяцев назад

      Even if it's a heterosexual presenting relationship, they're still gonna be mad and it's SO STRANGE! 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @valoxsen6003
    @valoxsen6003 Год назад +9

    He looks more attractive as a man, tbh. They're a good-looking couple.

  • @dontgo4215
    @dontgo4215 6 месяцев назад +5

    i think some people fail to realize that she's slowly losing a daughter that she raised for years, it isnt about acceptance but understanding, like she said she will never not love her daughter. The love will always be there, but no one has to accept or be forced to have different beliefs. I'm sure they can have a great relationship if they meet in the middle, instead of just jumping to the side that best suits someone.

    • @Abi_B.
      @Abi_B. 5 месяцев назад

      Exactly!

    • @josephjefferies346
      @josephjefferies346 3 месяца назад

      You can change your appearance, but the soul remains the same.

    • @dontgo4215
      @dontgo4215 3 месяца назад

      @@josephjefferies346 It actually doesnt stay the same, the soul at that point has been tainted with sin from indulging in it. They have every right to live their life how they want but it doesnt change biology, theres a reason 2 women and 2 man cant create a baby. That in itself proves there is something wrong.

  • @MamaPinks
    @MamaPinks Год назад +55

    I had two friends who were a lesbian couple and one of them decided to transition. They ended up getting separated and divorced because the female said that she was attracted to women, not men. It's was heartbreaking to see their 5yo daughter go through the divorce.

    • @studiscool88
      @studiscool88 Год назад +9

      It was a bunch of confusion from the beginning

    • @breal4real460
      @breal4real460 Год назад +7

      Ouch. I just don’t understand, if you love someone I feel like it doesn’t matter what someone looks like but I guess everything happens for a reason.

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 Год назад +1

      I’m so sory

    • @valoxsen6003
      @valoxsen6003 Год назад +12

      @@breal4real460 It's not just about what your partner looks like, but what they identify as. I'm straight, and if my husband realized he was trans and began transitioning into a woman, I would still love the person and support their transition, but I would no longer be attracted to or in love with them as a partner.

    • @spiderbitedml385
      @spiderbitedml385 Год назад +4

      I think that should've been said before they transitioned cause that clearly wasn't said if they had a 5 year old daughter

  • @reneegutierrez9736
    @reneegutierrez9736 Год назад +6

    Many blessings to the both of you

  • @khangelaniluphahla8086
    @khangelaniluphahla8086 Год назад +15

    In Africa we mostly suffering for the stigma because our parents and family always think of the worst about their LGBT children.....You guys are great together....

  • @love.wildly.live.fearlessly
    @love.wildly.live.fearlessly Год назад +6

    The only part of these videos is the part where they always have a “honest” convo. But is it really that honest when everyone knows they’re being watched and this episode will air. Like having these types of conversations shouldn’t be had in front of strangers or recorded.

  • @rj6332
    @rj6332 Год назад +8

    So if her son or daughter had another medical condition that stopped them from producing children and had to rely on donors or adoption, the grandmother wouldn't accept her grandchild because it wasn't biological? Also I wonder if there a possibility for reciprocal egg transfer?

  • @joekevandermeer
    @joekevandermeer Год назад +9

    Such a pretty couple

  • @Nikki_with_the_blikki
    @Nikki_with_the_blikki 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is how a parent ends up in a retirement home LOL

  • @sydneymomma11
    @sydneymomma11 Год назад +3

    It's quite telling how Mom sees him

  • @MamaPinks
    @MamaPinks Год назад +26

    P.S. I'll be your mom! You two are a beautiful couple! Keep being you!

  • @neecyboyd9116
    @neecyboyd9116 6 дней назад

    This is so hard. Normally i wouldn't understand the mother until she said I'm looking at it from a mother's point, you have to respect that people will still have their own opinion but as long as she still loves you. She just may not agree.

  • @gillowens24
    @gillowens24 Год назад

    That is horrible can’t call he son the mother.

  • @ChapoRR
    @ChapoRR Год назад +18

    The woman remembers a girl after she pushed you out. Can’t be mad at her

    • @1moonwitch
      @1moonwitch Год назад +3

      At this point the mother needs to accept her daughter transitioning.

  • @the_Tigro
    @the_Tigro Год назад +3

    I was just thinking...maybe one day fully transitioned people (so those who aren't trans anymore) could get functioning lower parts (and they could have kids by themselves, not by surrogates)? 🤔

    • @DazeyJellyfish
      @DazeyJellyfish Год назад

      If they WANT TOO! It’s their body & choice. Plus surgery isn’t cheap 🙃

    • @the_Tigro
      @the_Tigro Год назад

      @@DazeyJellyfish yes, ofc

  • @paonicolas8168
    @paonicolas8168 Год назад +10

    So she became straight by default.

    • @the_Tigro
      @the_Tigro Год назад +5

      Technically yes (or could be also bi or poly)

  • @queen_of_domination
    @queen_of_domination Год назад +22

    The mom is right!

  • @_Diaryofwealth
    @_Diaryofwealth Год назад +5

    How do claim u are attracted to females thus lesbian and then she transition to a man! What's wrong with y'all make it make sense.

  • @NiteDriv3r
    @NiteDriv3r Год назад +4

    Two Sins rolled n 1

  • @sloppygirlz
    @sloppygirlz Год назад +5

    This is just 😢. Still lesbians biologically

    • @iwannaleave7504
      @iwannaleave7504 Год назад +7

      I say if it's not hurting anyone let them be happy. Life's too short to be worried about other folks business

    • @sloppygirlz
      @sloppygirlz Год назад +1

      @@iwannaleave7504 amen

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 Год назад

      @@iwannaleave7504 It’s hunts the mom and if you born a boy be a boy if you born a girl be a girl be the person God mad you

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 Год назад

      @@sloppygirlz It’s Amen not amen

  • @ikybaiiki
    @ikybaiiki Год назад +1

    Lesbians literally make no sense 😂

  • @sydneymomma11
    @sydneymomma11 Год назад

    It's quite telling how Mom sees him

  • @sydneymomma11
    @sydneymomma11 Год назад +2

    It's quite telling how Mom sees him