Thanks for sharing it, it helps me to feel what is resonating ... less stress ,less worry,less mind for more relax ,wishing you a lovely new year 🙏💫🤲☺️🎁
My 2025 word is AUTHENTICITY. What it is, what it means for me, what are the obstacles to being authentic and how to become the most authentic version of myself ❤
Aww Sophie snuggling on your lap is so adorable. It sounds like you have a good handle on 2025 so far. Good for you, Adelina, good for you! Funny how you find stuff once you start to declutter.
Thank you for talking about theme words for the year. I am one of those people who have too many good things to do, too many aspirations, and then suffering anxiety when they are not all possible. In recent years I have focused on "letting go" of things that are extraneous. In 2025, I think I will focus on the theme of "choices": Being reconciled to choosing the best of my opportunities.
I am new to your channel and really enjoying. I am 69 and recently retired from nursing and trying to be aware of my spending and what do I really need and what is important.Personal goals are a good thing.Gloria from New Brunswick
Adelina - one of your best talks yet! It resonated with me on so many levels. To much veg food in fridge and freezer (thank heavens freezer burn does not affect nutritional quality), spending money unnecessarily in times of stress, etc etc etc. Not caring what people think of me - needs work. At the age of 74 I was diagnosed with diabetes. Weight gain I blame on all the vegan ice cream, chocolate and Oreos. So 30 lb weight loss later and I'm no longer diabetic. Yay!!! But I swear 20 lbs of that came off my face and omg the wrinkles! Im much healthier but look so much older! So, need to focus on loving myself, wrinkles and all.Thanks Adelina! 😂
Hello, I live in NY and at first I will admit i was upset about our current future president to be. Then I realized pretty quickly that no matter who is in that office does not affect my daily life. I still need to work and take care of myself and my elderly dad. I have bills to pay. I have a wonderful life and family. Am I rich financially nope but I am rich in other ways. So in December 2025 will be the year I retire at 65. I don’t care about what others think about anything and I’m not shy if someone is overstepping to stop them first nicely and then a hard stop if they don’t get the message. I feel energized about 2025 and this time in 2026 if God grants me another year I will be waking up and easing into the day without rushing to drink my morning coffee. Listen, you now know what you went overboard with and it’s healthy that you recognize it and will change your attitude and behavior. I will too. Looking forward to decluttering my basement and closets. EVERYONE has a blessed start to this year and make it one of your best ones yet. 🙌
Why are you so upset about President Trump? Would you prefer the fake Biden or illegal Kamala? President Trump has actually been a Wartime President for the past four years. This will be his third term.
You are the one person on RUclips who I would definitely be friends with if I lived near you! And by the way, you can be very pleased by what you see in the mirror!
Adelina, absolutely fantastic video. We can only assume "we" (the wife and I) are part of your friend group? If not, we will contact HQ and have them increase your quota :). Happy New Year and all the very best in 2025. Peace, love and happiness to you and your kids.
Your videos are such a bright spot in the week! My theme is similar to yours: Be content with the abundance I already have, and release expectations around others (opinions, actions, etc.) Here's to a meaningful and nourishing 2025!
Excellent video Adelina! Everything that you spoke about resonated with me. Your point about caring LESS hit home as I am trying to control the amount of stress that I allow into my life. One big change that I have made (particularly since the election here in the US) is that I will do everything I can to make this a better world, but ultimately I only have so much control or influence. I refuse to obsessively follow the media down the rabbit hole of ever more disaster and outrage. I will stay informed, but not wallow in despair and fear. Billy Joel had a line in one of his songs: "I used to have my pointless point of view, but now I've found that just surviving is a noble fight". I will care more about what I can do, and less about what I cannot.
Dear lovely Adelina. Came across your video today and it resonates so much with me and my thinking and my goals for 2025. Yesterday I was so overwhelmed by my pantry that I put everything out on the floor and also made a list of everything 😄 Big hug from a 40 year Berlin City Girl from Germany 🇩🇪 really love your channel, your personality and your cat ❤ wish you all the best 🥰
I try to keep my freezer inventory stuck on the fridge door as I often forget what’s in there. I also put the month on the bag, as most things are best used within 3 months. Give yourself a break - your visceral response to loss & chaos is very real and you needed to give yourself time to physically process it. Take care
Oh Adelina, you are so right in all the points you mentioned. I have had gray hair for over 20 years. In the beginning there was a lot of pushback from all sorts of people who believed that you couldn't walk around like that after all. But back then I was very surprised at my own composure. All I said was, "It's my hair, isn't it?" So there was quickly no longer any attack surface. You just can't take everything so much to heart, you really have to concentrate more on yourself and your own life. Do you know what I would like to do one day? I would like to come over for a cup of tea to get to know you, your tiny house and Sophie. I imagine that would be wonderful. But, it's a bit too far from Germany. I also have an extreme allergy to cats. You see, I can at least watch all of your videos, which I do quite regularly. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you for your plans. Take good care of yourself, stay healthy, and give Sophie a cuddle from a distance. Very best regards Claudia ❤
Hi Adelina and Sophie, my word this year is Joy, I don't listen to the news or TV, I spend mu time outside as I live rural and always alot to do. Your RUclips is something I always enjoy and listen to it twice, you make my week. 2025 share with like minded friends and my family. Love from heatwave Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️
Your food comments really resonated with me. I was homeless for 2 years of my adult life. Addiction took me to the streets. I have been sober and have a place of my own again for a long time now. The one thing that still sticks and I can't shake from that time was lack of food. Now, I tend to overstock. I'm terrified of running too low and in that, tend to forget all of what food that I do have! What a problem to have! I'm going to work on this. It gives me anxiety to think I might get low on food, but I don't like being wasteful either. As I get older, I feel how you feel about work. I've always busted my butt at work. A quality work ethic has always been important to me, but now? I will still work hard, but I'm not giving 110% anymore. I'll give you my best every day, and that's it. I'm still so tired at the end of the day, but I know it's not going to last forever, and my company will forget about me when I do leave. My income is a means to an end. A means to my own goal of purchasing a TH for me and my cat. I just want peace, calm and kindness in my world. Part of that, is giving up the expectations from others that you speak of. I stopped wearing most makeup during Covid. A little concealer here and there, lip gloss, that's about it these days! It's so freeing. I just want to be physically and mentally healthy vs worrying about the grays popping up. I think how our perspective changes as we get older, can be a good thing. We don't need to keep up with Jonses or the world perceptions. The last 20 years have FLOWN. Life truly is short. Here's to a restorative 2025! Also, I love how Sophie does not acknowledge personal boundaries, haha. 😄
Ha ha. Lip balms are somthing I unwittingly collect as well. I have them (and reading glasses) in various places all over the house. Now I am traveling. Do you think I brought even one lip balm with me??? Hell, no! Ugh. I was so annoyed that I only allowed myself to buy a travel sized jar of vaseline to hold me over. That's gonna have to work until i return home. I refuse to buy more of something I have a ton of! Watching your video reminded me of the time I went through my closet determined to pare down. I discovered I had 28 pair of jeans. Who the heck needs that much denim???? I got rid of a ton and have kept my supply down to a much more manageable amount ever since. I could conceivably go overboard on yoga pants though (I work from home) so apparently I cannot be trusted to be reasonable when it comes to pants. Love your idea of having themes. I do that as well, except I'm not always good about starting right on January 1. Sometimes I have residual items from last year's theme, so it's often March before I implement the new one. The Universe does not seem to care which exact day I start. 😃 This is a good thing, because life's been quite stressful over the past six months and giving thought to my 2025 theme has not been top of mind. Good for you about caring less about work-related expectations. I'm curious to see how that pans out for you. It's difficult to step back sometimes when you're generally the one that consistently takes on more. I wish you tons of success in the caring less department!!!
Adelina, you are not alone: a few years ago I consolidated all my lip balms into one place. I did not count but there were at least 12. I won't have to buy lip balm for years and years. But, in our defense, it is miserable to be caught wanting lip balm and not having any at hand. I have gotten more deliberate about where I keep one always with me so that I don’t keep throwing in extra.
I like your focus. I myself worry to much about things I have no control over and caring less about those things I think will be my goal this year. Thanks for waking me up about those things . hugs!
I am so with you on so many things. I have decided to purge, be more aware of spending. I think that you are a beautiful lady. And, by the way. I am a September girl myself! I turned 71 and I pretty much feel good. I think that you are good to do great. ❤
I love the "care more, care less" mantra! That resonates with me so much going into 2025. I have a storage unit that I plan on going through, and I'm looking to donate and downsize a lot of it soon. Can't wait to see your inventive recipes!
Funny that this is your topic today. I just got home from a day of grocery shopping. it took 45 minutes to get there. I bought a lot! Multiple bags of rice, pasta, sauces, shelf stable staples, bread for the freezer and veggies too. Meats and fish for the freezer, all kinds of things. One of the stores had absolutely no eggs and had a lot of empty freezers and shelves. We don't know what this next few months will bring- major snow storms-political unrest.... I'm just making sure I have what I need so I can relax a bit about things. You aren't the only one. I'm concerned about our relationship with Canada. I love Canada and my heart aches for what is happening. We get our electricity from Canada so it's scary. Politics is not what your channel is about and I am not trying to make it so. I think I just want Canadians I care about to understand that not all of us voted for the one causing such challenging issues. We here are scared and we too find ourselves overspending on what we feel we may not have access to in the future. Like COFFEE!! i
I'm sending you a big hug! It's unsettling times, and I get your concerns. We know that the majority of Americans are just regular people, living their lives and taking care of their families 🇨🇦❤️🇺🇸
@@myBIGtinyhouselife Truly it’s one lunatic willing to cost us everything. It’s frightening to be an American right now. But my cupboards and freezer are full and I am decluttering my home because I know I will feel lighter. I have wanted a tiny home forever it seems. But as more time goes by I realize I do not want to have to tow anything. I just want to drive my home around in a way that’s easy to go grocery shopping or to a museum or an event of some kind. It’s much easier on gas but I think a van is just too small. I’m a crafter!!!!
Hi Adeline. Sophie says she thinks your theme should be about her. 😊❤ I love that she always shows up for us. And I just have to say… you are gorgeous! And I share your lip balm addiction.Lots of love to you both!
Thanks for sharing❣️ Great stuff 👍 My On Word this year is “Thrive” Last year was a year of health issues (actually started Fall of 2023 & continued into 2024) Started in March with having to have a total reconstruction of a pacemaker surgery that I’d had 4 months prior. Lots of stress, new diagnoses & more procedures later in the year. Left me physically & emotionally drained. Withdrew from friends, groups & was numb to my feelings. So just survived 2024 & I want to Thrive & flourish in 2025….. no matter what happens. Wishing you, your family & Sophie a Happy & Blessed New Year 2025🙏💕
Happy 2025 Adelina! I like your perspective for this year 😊 My word for this year is self-care. It’s been a challenge for me for the last couple of years getting off some medication where my health was compromised. So 2025 will be to care for my health. Plus try not to spend too much on tea. All my friends and family know how much I love this. I’m known as tea granny. 😂 Looking forward to more of your videos each week! 💕
A wise woman you surely are!! I"m always inspired. Next week I get together with two friends in our annual setting of our themes and goals (we dont do resolutions either). And you have given me things to consider and take to our meeting.
A great chat Adelina! I think it is important to keep challenging ourselves. Don’t want to stay stagnant for this next year! Anyway, I’m an American from Maryland and I 100% standby the great country of Canada!!!! 🇨🇦
Ciao Adelina, you are talking about spending more time to your hobbies. Can you tell us once what you're thinking about, to get some inspiration? I'm really looking forward to this fresh new year!
Morning Adalina, I'm a little late to this vid. I turned 60 last year. Yikes, wake up call for me. I'm going to retire in 2025. I have a physical job and it's time for me to use my body and mind to do all the things I want to do...not have to do. A personal question that you don't have to answer.. have you thought about whether you're going to take CPP early? I am taking mine now and investing it in a FSHA. I don't know if I'm ever going to be able to buy something but if not, I'll just roll it into an RSP. My word(s) for this year come from being a reformed people-pleaser: Me First 😀Happy 2025
All of this resonated with me, including the lip balm addiction. lol My plan is to get back on track with my walking, eating healthier and not buy things I don't need, as well. I was good with those things last year except for, like you, the last quarter. I lost 54 lbs so that is another motivator to get back to how I felt better physically and mentally when I was getting some exercise in at least 5 days a week. Happy New Year to you, and your shadow, Sophie🥰. ☺
I just wanted to say how much I admire your honesty and the thoughtfulness that you bring to your channel. It's refreshing to see someone who is so genuine and always striving to improve themselves, it’s inspiring! I can tell you put in a lot of effort to reflect and grow, and I just want to mention you're not alone in facing these challenges. Be kind to yourself. Your perspective is helping others (including me) more than you probably realize. Thank you for sharing your journey! Now I got to clean out my freezer!
Love this video!! Gave me some great ideas and food for thought. Btw. Anyone who makes a negative comment about how you look or your age or anything like that needs to just stop. You’re beautiful and you definitely do not look your age!! I hope you have a great 2025 and I’ll be here to watch it unfold! 💕
I get so much out of your video chats! I can so relate to your topics and "squirrel" moments...lol I too had so many lip balms around my small place. I began to have a reaction to my lip balm, my lips go swollen and couldn't figure it out. Through process of elimination, I changed my lip balm and my lip "injections" diminished..lol I also began using your curly hair products to tame my curls after I watched your video...finally something that worked for me too. Anyway, I was wondering what your prepping purchases were this past year? I purchased a 300+ Jackery after watching one of your videos. I've used it once so far, but was good to have it to keep my Betta fish tank heated. I like to be prepared living on the island too. I really like your 2025 motto...I'm going to keep them both in mind. Living in a tiny foot print, and I'll be 60 this year too! I wish you still lived in Chemainus, I'd love to meet for a coffee at Willow St. Cafe where I saw you the 1st time and pick your brain!...:)
Thank you for sharing this inspiring message,wishing you a lovely new year for you and everyone, it is helping me to refocus on relax and what I feel for this new year needs ❤ thank you 🙏💫☺️
Great mindset for 2025. It's the 'caring more' about life is key, me thinks. I'm 60 in February, and I feel it some days when my knees don't want to go with me. Haha
At 00:22 seconds you have an orb floating beside you. I love seeing them. I also have been distressed by the world events and political climate these past few months especially. Had to stop watching new and feel a bit less stressed. I live in Ontario and it's full on winter north of Toronto and am not a cold weather or snow lover. Retired now so I don't need to go anywhere but still feel trapped at home. I like your idea of caring more about some things and less about others. Corporations or companies don't care about the individual because everyone can be replaced. I learned that a long time ago. Looking forward to seeing more in 2025,
Adelina: All the best in 2025! Your goals are good ones and I hope you get there! Speaking of self-care I'm a little appre- hensive to say this,but you've developed a habit of tsking? after you speak! Look back to your previous videos-you don't do it in them! Just a little reminder to check it now before it becomes e problem for you! But,if you don't care about it,forget I mentioned this! I st ill think you are great! Cheers,Sandy
OMG! at4:19 you started telling me ALL the things I let slide! Spending yep and yep....my cuboards have so much too!You are preaching to the choir Sista!
Lol, a lip balm for every month of the year, plus a few emergency lip balms in case you lose one! Love it, love your focus for the year and love you and Sophie! ❤🐈
I really resonate with your goals, Adelina; I think the “care less” activities are your most important because they will free up time and head space to pursue the “care more” stuff! Yesterday, I just started the process of going to my natural hair color (I’m 61) and it has really had the effect of feeling like I’m moving towards my authentic self (which is connected with my overall goal of living simply and respectfully with the planet ). Really enjoyed the video! Karen
Great video Adelina. I am way behind in your videos, trying to catch up. Great idea for the new year, I need to control my spending. Same thing as you with the food in fridge and pantry, that’s what I am doing as well. I am a September girl also.
Happy New Year! I can so relate to your lip balm. I found 12 little tubes of toothpaste- you know the little tubes the dentist gives you? I put them away thinking they would come in handy for travel. I used 2 this past year! My word for 2025 is “learn”. I am a devoted crafter and creative person so am always up to learning along those lines but I want to include other skills or gain other knowledge about things like fine art, math, animals, history.
HI Adelina! I just want to say that I admire you. I've been following you for more than I year and I can say that all your videos always leave something positive for me and things to think about. You are amazing and pretty inside and out! I wish you a blessed 2025 for you and all your lovely community! Can't wait to see next video! Love, Nilsa.❤
I think you are awesome ❤ we're the same age. I love your mindset. Canadians ❤. You inspire me, and I so feel I have a connection with your channel 💕. I welcome you into my space, and enjoy your company. Here's to a Happy intentional New Year. Be safe and well my friend ❤️ 🎉.
I loved this video Adelina! I have many of the same priorities for care more & care less. I will be 60 in Dec ‘25. I am staying informed about world events but have decided not to watch news daily. I really agree with your comments about deciding to not let work take over your day to the point that you’re too tired and have no energy at the end of the day. I used to feel guilty if I didn’t try to ‘catch up’ on the weekends and then I would be resentful when I took ‘me’ time for work. I still don’t like having unfinished reports hanging over my head but I realize that the to-do list never gets cleared. So I am making a point to take my lunch time to read a book while I eat or step outside on nice days.
I’m with you on caring less with regard to work…I’m 62 and have a couple more years left to work but I definitely am not working those 10 hr days anymore…it comes at too high of a cost to us physically but especially mentally.
We are very similar I’m 61 turning 62 end of September, vegan, would love to live in a tiny home, want to do vanlife, live on my own, love being on my own, love cooking healthy unprocessed food, really want to be more mindful, start a meditation routine, keep on downsizing. Say hello with a smile to strangers on the street, and being kind and helpful. I also pick up garbage that people throw on the ground daily. I’m about the same size as you and I walk to work everyday, and try and keep a gym routine……so far I’ve been doing good for the past 3 days keeping fingers cross that the gym becomes a regular habit. I also do intermittent fasting eating window from noon to six. I will do the fridge and freezer challenge this week. Have a great day.
You are so very right. My theme word for 2025 is "sieve". When others try to dump problems or want more than is acceptable, these requests will go right through me! 😅
You inspire me to focus on my projects and no care about judgements about my life , 👍😊 I have no visit your channel since a while ,I had a hard last year but I had a click moment that I don't want to care anymore mind etc,just relax,create what I like,I don't have the perfect settle work life so it is judge, I will bf 40 this year ,I feel to arrive to be adult 😊 as I feel I no care anymore as I know that I am honest to my values 😊 and I feel to declutter and care more too to the essentials and I did the same these last 2 weeks, I finish all the food I had first of all, now I can shop tomorrow as it is empty and I do a shop list focus on what I will really eat this week and so I feel to start on a new fresh start on the clearer mind lighter back to essential, free my mind,same with relationships, destiny gave me opportunity divine to meet back the people I care deep and with who we had sad misunderstanding and so I could clarify too ,I felt this first week days has been finally divine opportunity to put clear bases after an hard year depression last year, that was diving gift finally as I never took such a time to rest and heal a life and so ,this week has been not so easy still but now I feel , all is meant for a reason in divine flow, universe energies called me back to this channel now and it resonate like an hug comfort to my soul that I am back finally ready to shine lighter back ,thank you,it has been very hard months last year and now it is like a gift for the patience courage to cross the phases, so this year will be lighter for a lot of people as we come back to these feelings essential that is felt liberating relaxing and empowering in the same time,sorry for my mistakes in English,I did not practice since a while , thank you for sharing your messages, it is really helping encouraging inspiring conforting as sometimes I felt weird and not so understood as I choose to take a time to rest as I was very not well, I feel better thanks to life gifts, healing and physical health , accident etc, and as I prioritise getting better health, first of all, and no care social work label of succèss, matériel things, or other personal aspect seen as failure as I did not have the big house car,super mariage family done yet, etc, as I moved changed work countries, many times before,now,back to native town as I felt the call for rest grounded back to the source, sorry for sharing so much,I feel here you created a community of positive non judgemental empathic people 🙏💫🎁thank you ,I wish you and everyone all the best, peace joy love on heart shining for eveyone, libération of our beautiful soul, shining,no care social norms that create confusion sometimes pression illusions and just flow relax as we feel our real self respect and this is the year for our full soul to shine I feel 😊🙏💫 even in universe energies vibes,it resonates all of this,let's keep faith in process when not easy as it brings us back clearer deeper to our essence clarity 😊🙏💫🎁👍
I realized the same about the “goal” oriented office system…it’s complete BS. The realization came when I had put in the extra effort and time, plus helped and trained a junior individual in a different department and then was told I would not be receiving the added bonus that I had received the previous year when I did way less because “there are only x amount of funds available and we need to ensure we retain the staff we have, and they have gone several years without….” Right there took the blinders off 😂. Don’t get me wrong, I still took pride in my work and gave them above standard BUT only worked within office hours and ensured I took vacation-and no longer reachable while on vacation etc…made me a happier employee for sure!
Ah yes the end of the year always make me reflect on what I enjoyed and what I need to work on. I do love a simple life. I haven't worn makeup since 2 year b4 I retired. The freezer does need to be inventoried. I try to ignore the federal world just the local world. I enjoyed your video.
I love your care less focus. I can relate to the work/corporate mentality and have experienced the same pressure for the last 3 years. I'm hoping to retire later this year. I feel like the stress is so not healthy for me. Care less about what others think- so great!! Thanks for sharing!♥♥ Lip balm is a necessity in my opinion. LOL
Happiest of New Years to you and I wish you an abundance of happiness and success! This was a great video and I look forward to the good things that are to come in 2025. ML ❤️🇨🇦🐈
Loved your talk. But I kept thinking, "Please pet Sophie. She just wants pets. Hah. Loved it when she finally curled up, looked up at you and then you petted her. It was a passionate talk, I understand. You reminded me I need to only freezer cook. 😊
For me, I’ve found more than once in my life that I need to always focus on the present, expect nothing and to be consciously kind to others …and to make certain I share with those I care about, as much as possible because tomorrow is promised to no one - not only for them but for me. Although I take of things I need to (eventually) but l can’t be absorbed with day to day tasks which in the end will make no difference one way or another…yes being a senior will do that to you….. Be well, be you & Keep smiling…May you find contentment and peace in whatever you focus on. ❤…..ps. As far as spending goes?… I bought new RED shoelaces for my boots AND I’m so excited!!!! lol
Nice job...I love the idea of being mindful of all the things we already have. Great talk! The media is out of control, I am right there with you. Be informed, but not at the expense of our mental health. My word for the year is strength. Physically and mentally. Happy 2025 to you and Miss Sophie ❤
I love your intentions for the year. Especially the "care less" part. It's exactly the right course ... and I always make January my "Cabinet/Pantry Cleanout" month. It's pretty much a fun thing in a blah month. And is a kick to the checking account. Can't wait to share in your new year! ❤❤
Honestly Adelina, you look great, and certainly not 59 ! And what is even greater than your look is your general attitude towards life. I've been a subscriber for several years now, and you're truly a model for me. I wish you a wonderful 2025 and a lot of success in your theme and goals !
My goal for this year is to use things that I have and not buy more. I have a lot of canned and frozen food. I will try to only buy fresh fruits and vegetables. I buy milk from a farmer. Thank you for your inspiration. Take care.
My goal for 2025 is to say YES. Yes to the hobbies I enjoy, yes to practicing my guitar, yes to exercise, yes to fun with friends, yes to new adventures, yes to my love of cooking. Btw, I have been using Dr. Pepper lip balm since I got it in my Christmas stocking when I was 12, and I am 63! I have about three left.....and they don't make it any more I wish I had your 12!!! LOLOL
Great video as always. I will be 55 in October and I have the mindset of I don't care what others think about me. I work in Finance too and quit a corporate job due to the stress and I went to work for a non-profit company without all the drama and stress.
Thank you so much for sharing your goals for 2025, it was much appreciated ! I've been living a more frugal life since I've been retired (3 years) - my choice so that I don't have to work part-time and that I can enjoy my volunteer work. I'm usually a cheerful person , however, I find Oct-Dec. particularly challenging as I have Seasonal Affective Disorder Syndrome ( SADS ), which makes this time of year a challenge! Your goals remind me how I have learned to live my life generally, but I tend to forget that during my "SADS" time of year. Also, it doesn't help living in Victoria , where the rain and overcast can be depressing, 😅 especially in December! Don't get me wrong, I love living on Vancouver Island , but certain times of the year brings certain challenges. Thanks for the reminder! I'm determined to get back on track ! Lesley😊
Bravo....... in my mind your head is exactly in the right place. Emotional, personal and work balance are so important. I'm 11 years ahead of you and you have come to these conclusion much earlier than I did. Girlie, you will find the quality of your life will be so much improved. My words for the coming years: longevity, health, peace of mind and most of all.....JOY. Take care....
Definitely need to pay attention to all the stuff you are doing in my life, starting with the freezer. Small thing but indicative of all other parts of life
I am guilty about the make up too! Bet you’re not alone! I rung in earlier … Covid … for the New Year! I have never had it! My daughter in law woke up December 26 with Covid and the Flu! Crazy! This talk has really put a new spin on my life in this crazy world! Blessings! 🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️
I am right there with you about what is important and what is not. This last year has had me really looking at some of the same things as you plus, being a bit older than you, putting some important things in place, as well. 2025 is going to be much more intentional for me. Thank you for affirming some of the same things I have been thinking. You and your lip balms...me and my quilting fabric. Eek! LOL
Very good video. I too have been trying to clean out the freezer. Little by little it will happen and it saves so much to use what I have. Last month it made a huge difference in what was left over at the end of the month! I think your goals are great as corporations really don't understand what an employee does most of the time and they rarely bestow any loyalty to employees. Best wishes for this New Year to you, family and Sophie.
My word is Acceptance. I love your outlook. We all have a "lip balm" hoard! I have kleenex and reading glasses everywhere. When you are ready to stop dying your hair I think you'll feel liberarted. I stopped in my sixties and wish I'd have doneit sooner. Be well!
Happy New Year! I love your talk today. I also hope to care more and care less in 2025 too. I’m a little older -67 - and am so ready to retire. 2025 will be my final year to work my current job and then I’ll see what comes next. Being in the US, I have extra worries about what the next 4 years will bring but I’m going to try to concentrate on what I can control, choose my battles and try not to lose hope. Keep doing what you do. Your videos are very appreciated. And I love my Canadian neighbors such as you and Single and Solo (also in beautiful Vancouver Island). (I’m way over east in metro Detroit). Peace and love to you as always.
Love the video Adelina. So many things I agree with (work pressures and culture as well as the craziness of the political scene). My word for the year is dancing. I can't wait for more updates 😊
I am 56 and live in the UK. I have always kept as up to date as possible with current affairs both domestic and international, however, this is no longer a priority. There is just too much craziness in the world today and focusing on it only brings anxiety and uncertainty. Instead I try to focus on the things that bring me joy, peace and contentment such as family and living a slower more meaningful life. This is why I love your channel Adelina as your values align with mine ❤
Great ideas for the year. You and I are on the same wave length about caring more and less. Looking forward to seeing where 2025 takes us. Don’t use lip balm myself I use a bit of vaseline which works just as well. Enjoy your week.
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My 2025 word is LESS, less waste, less stress, less spending, less weight, less worry - just less over indulgence
Great word!! ☺️❤️
Thanks for sharing it, it helps me to feel what is resonating ... less stress ,less worry,less mind for more relax ,wishing you a lovely new year 🙏💫🤲☺️🎁
I like your idea about “LESS”. I might borrow that, if you don’t mind.
@jgator6694 absolutely 😁
@@jgator6694 of course, I have already realized some changes for the better.
My 2025 word is AUTHENTICITY. What it is, what it means for me, what are the obstacles to being authentic and how to become the most authentic version of myself ❤
That's a good word ☺️.
Aww Sophie snuggling on your lap is so adorable. It sounds like you have a good handle on 2025 so far. Good for you, Adelina, good for you! Funny how you find stuff once you start to declutter.
It's true, once you start decluttering, you seem to find more to declutter 😅.
Thank you for talking about theme words for the year. I am one of those people who have too many good things to do, too many aspirations, and then suffering anxiety when they are not all possible. In recent years I have focused on "letting go" of things that are extraneous. In 2025, I think I will focus on the theme of "choices": Being reconciled to choosing the best of my opportunities.
I like the theme of "choices" for the year! ❤️
I am new to your channel and really enjoying. I am 69 and recently retired from nursing and trying to be aware of my spending and what do I really need and what is important.Personal goals are a good thing.Gloria from New Brunswick
It's so great to have you here! Welcome! 🙏
Happy New Year Adelina! Wishing you & Sophie a year filled with wonderful blessings. Hugs
Happy New Year to you too! 😊
Adelina - one of your best talks yet! It resonated with me on so many levels. To much veg food in fridge and freezer (thank heavens freezer burn does not affect nutritional quality), spending money unnecessarily in times of stress, etc etc etc. Not caring what people think of me - needs work. At the age of 74 I was diagnosed with diabetes. Weight gain I blame on all the vegan ice cream, chocolate and Oreos. So 30 lb weight loss later and I'm no longer diabetic. Yay!!! But I swear 20 lbs of that came off my face and omg the wrinkles! Im much healthier but look so much older! So, need to focus on loving myself, wrinkles and all.Thanks Adelina! 😂
So good to hear you are back in the green! I'm sure you look absolutely radiant! 😄
Hello, I live in NY and at first I will admit i was upset about our current future president to be. Then I realized pretty quickly that no matter who is in that office does not affect my daily life. I still need to work and take care of myself and my elderly dad. I have bills to pay. I have a wonderful life and family. Am I rich financially nope but I am rich in other ways. So in December 2025 will be the year I retire at 65. I don’t care about what others think about anything and I’m not shy if someone is overstepping to stop them first nicely and then a hard stop if they don’t get the message. I feel energized about 2025 and this time in 2026 if God grants me another year I will be waking up and easing into the day without rushing to drink my morning coffee. Listen, you now know what you went overboard with and it’s healthy that you recognize it and will change your attitude and behavior. I will too. Looking forward to decluttering my basement and closets. EVERYONE has a blessed start to this year and make it one of your best ones yet. 🙌
I love your philosophy! ☺️❤️
Why are you so upset about President Trump? Would you prefer the fake Biden or illegal Kamala? President Trump has actually been a Wartime President for the past four years. This will be his third term.
You are the one person on RUclips who I would definitely be friends with if I lived near you! And by the way, you can be very pleased by what you see in the mirror!
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Adelina, absolutely fantastic video. We can only assume "we" (the wife and I) are part of your friend group? If not, we will contact HQ and have them increase your quota :). Happy New Year and all the very best in 2025. Peace, love and happiness to you and your kids.
Ha! That's awesome! You know you folks are for sure! 🫶🏼. Happy New Year to you too! 😊
Your videos are such a bright spot in the week! My theme is similar to yours: Be content with the abundance I already have, and release expectations around others (opinions, actions, etc.) Here's to a meaningful and nourishing 2025!
I love that! I hope you have a really good year ahead! 😊
Excellent video Adelina! Everything that you spoke about resonated with me. Your point about caring LESS hit home as I am trying to control the amount of stress that I allow into my life. One big change that I have made (particularly since the election here in the US) is that I will do everything I can to make this a better world, but ultimately I only have so much control or influence. I refuse to obsessively follow the media down the rabbit hole of ever more disaster and outrage. I will stay informed, but not wallow in despair and fear. Billy Joel had a line in one of his songs: "I used to have my pointless point of view, but now I've found that just surviving is a noble fight". I will care more about what I can do, and less about what I cannot.
That is such a great attitude to have!
Dear lovely Adelina. Came across your video today and it resonates so much with me and my thinking and my goals for 2025. Yesterday I was so overwhelmed by my pantry that I put everything out on the floor and also made a list of everything 😄 Big hug from a 40 year Berlin City Girl from Germany 🇩🇪 really love your channel, your personality and your cat ❤ wish you all the best 🥰
You are so welcome! I'm glad you found us!
I try to keep my freezer inventory stuck on the fridge door as I often forget what’s in there. I also put the month on the bag, as most things are best used within 3 months. Give yourself a break - your visceral response to loss & chaos is very real and you needed to give yourself time to physically process it. Take care
Oh Adelina, you are so right in all the points you mentioned.
I have had gray hair for over 20 years. In the beginning there was a lot of pushback from all sorts of people who believed that you couldn't walk around like that after all. But back then I was very surprised at my own composure. All I said was, "It's my hair, isn't it?" So there was quickly no longer any attack surface. You just can't take everything so much to heart, you really have to concentrate more on yourself and your own life.
Do you know what I would like to do one day? I would like to come over for a cup of tea to get to know you, your tiny house and Sophie. I imagine that would be wonderful.
But, it's a bit too far from Germany. I also have an extreme allergy to cats.
You see, I can at least watch all of your videos, which I do quite regularly.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you for your plans. Take good care of yourself, stay healthy, and give Sophie a cuddle from a distance.
Very best regards
Claudia ❤
Thank you Claudia. I'm sure we would have a great chat. 🇨🇦❤️🇩🇪
Hi Adelina and Sophie, my word this year is Joy, I don't listen to the news or TV, I spend mu time outside as I live rural and always alot to do. Your RUclips is something I always enjoy and listen to it twice, you make my week.
2025 share with like minded friends and my family.
Love from heatwave Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️
That sounds like a wonderful way to live! 😊
Where abouts in Australia, I’m in vic.
Your food comments really resonated with me. I was homeless for 2 years of my adult life. Addiction took me to the streets. I have been sober and have a place of my own again for a long time now. The one thing that still sticks and I can't shake from that time was lack of food. Now, I tend to overstock. I'm terrified of running too low and in that, tend to forget all of what food that I do have! What a problem to have! I'm going to work on this. It gives me anxiety to think I might get low on food, but I don't like being wasteful either.
As I get older, I feel how you feel about work. I've always busted my butt at work. A quality work ethic has always been important to me, but now? I will still work hard, but I'm not giving 110% anymore. I'll give you my best every day, and that's it. I'm still so tired at the end of the day, but I know it's not going to last forever, and my company will forget about me when I do leave. My income is a means to an end. A means to my own goal of purchasing a TH for me and my cat. I just want peace, calm and kindness in my world. Part of that, is giving up the expectations from others that you speak of. I stopped wearing most makeup during Covid. A little concealer here and there, lip gloss, that's about it these days! It's so freeing. I just want to be physically and mentally healthy vs worrying about the grays popping up.
I think how our perspective changes as we get older, can be a good thing. We don't need to keep up with Jonses or the world perceptions. The last 20 years have FLOWN. Life truly is short. Here's to a restorative 2025! Also, I love how Sophie does not acknowledge personal boundaries, haha. 😄
Wow, your story is inspiring. Thank you for sharing it ❤️. I hope you have a restorative 2025 as well.
Ha ha. Lip balms are somthing I unwittingly collect as well. I have them (and reading glasses) in various places all over the house. Now I am traveling. Do you think I brought even one lip balm with me??? Hell, no! Ugh. I was so annoyed that I only allowed myself to buy a travel sized jar of vaseline to hold me over. That's gonna have to work until i return home. I refuse to buy more of something I have a ton of!
Watching your video reminded me of the time I went through my closet determined to pare down. I discovered I had 28 pair of jeans. Who the heck needs that much denim???? I got rid of a ton and have kept my supply down to a much more manageable amount ever since. I could conceivably go overboard on yoga pants though (I work from home) so apparently I cannot be trusted to be reasonable when it comes to pants.
Love your idea of having themes. I do that as well, except I'm not always good about starting right on January 1. Sometimes I have residual items from last year's theme, so it's often March before I implement the new one. The Universe does not seem to care which exact day I start. 😃 This is a good thing, because life's been quite stressful over the past six months and giving thought to my 2025 theme has not been top of mind.
Good for you about caring less about work-related expectations. I'm curious to see how that pans out for you. It's difficult to step back sometimes when you're generally the one that consistently takes on more. I wish you tons of success in the caring less department!!!
Thanks for sharing! I hope you have a great year!
Adelina, you are not alone: a few years ago I consolidated all my lip balms into one place. I did not count but there were at least 12. I won't have to buy lip balm for years and years. But, in our defense, it is miserable to be caught wanting lip balm and not having any at hand. I have gotten more deliberate about where I keep one always with me so that I don’t keep throwing in extra.
It's amazing how quickly that lip balm collection can grow! 😂
Great talk and loved reading all the comments. Love that Sophie girl!🐈❤
Thank you so much! Sophie sends her purrs. 💕
I like your focus. I myself worry to much about things I have no control over and caring less about those things I think will be my goal this year. Thanks for waking me up about those things . hugs!
I hope you find peace this year! 😊❤️
I am so with you on so many things. I have decided to purge, be more aware of spending. I think that you are a beautiful lady. And, by the way. I am a September girl myself! I turned 71 and I pretty much feel good. I think that you are good to do great. ❤
Thanks!😊
I love the "care more, care less" mantra! That resonates with me so much going into 2025. I have a storage unit that I plan on going through, and I'm looking to donate and downsize a lot of it soon. Can't wait to see your inventive recipes!
I'm always up for a good decluttering! 😊
💙 thank you for this great talk and for all you do. you are inspiring.
You’re so kind. 😊
Funny that this is your topic today. I just got home from a day of grocery shopping. it took 45 minutes to get there. I bought a lot! Multiple bags of rice, pasta, sauces, shelf stable staples, bread for the freezer and veggies too. Meats and fish for the freezer, all kinds of things. One of the stores had absolutely no eggs and had a lot of empty freezers and shelves. We don't know what this next few months will bring- major snow storms-political unrest.... I'm just making sure I have what I need so I can relax a bit about things. You aren't the only one. I'm concerned about our relationship with Canada. I love Canada and my heart aches for what is happening. We get our electricity from Canada so it's scary. Politics is not what your channel is about and I am not trying to make it so. I think I just want Canadians I care about to understand that not all of us voted for the one causing such challenging issues. We here are scared and we too find ourselves overspending on what we feel we may not have access to in the future. Like COFFEE!!
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I'm sending you a big hug! It's unsettling times, and I get your concerns. We know that the majority of Americans are just regular people, living their lives and taking care of their families 🇨🇦❤️🇺🇸
@@myBIGtinyhouselife Truly it’s one lunatic willing to cost us everything. It’s frightening to be an American right now. But my cupboards and freezer are full and I am decluttering my home because I know I will feel lighter. I have wanted a tiny home forever it seems. But as more time goes by I realize I do not want to have to tow anything. I just want to drive my home around in a way that’s easy to go grocery shopping or to a museum or an event of some kind. It’s much easier on gas but I think a van is just too small. I’m a crafter!!!!
Hi Adeline. Sophie says she thinks your theme should be about her. 😊❤ I love that she always shows up for us.
And I just have to say… you are gorgeous! And I share your lip balm addiction.Lots of love to you both!
Thank you so much! Sophie sends her love! ❤️
Thanks for sharing❣️ Great stuff 👍 My On Word this year is “Thrive” Last year was a year of health issues (actually started Fall of 2023 & continued into 2024) Started in March with having to have a total reconstruction of a pacemaker surgery that I’d had 4 months prior. Lots of stress, new diagnoses & more procedures later in the year. Left me physically & emotionally drained. Withdrew from friends, groups & was numb to my feelings. So just survived 2024 & I want to Thrive & flourish in 2025….. no matter what happens.
Wishing you, your family & Sophie a Happy & Blessed New Year 2025🙏💕
I’m sending you positive vibes for a thriving 2025! ❤️
Happy 2025 Adelina!
I like your perspective for this year 😊
My word for this year is self-care. It’s been a challenge for me for the last couple of years getting off some medication where my health was compromised. So 2025 will be to care for my health. Plus try not to spend too much on tea. All my friends and family know how much I love this. I’m known as tea granny. 😂
Looking forward to more of your videos each week! 💕
Tea is something consumable that brings you joy. That's not such a bad thing 😊. I hope 2026 is healing and peaceful for you ❤️
A wise woman you surely are!! I"m always inspired. Next week I get together with two friends in our annual setting of our themes and goals (we dont do resolutions either). And you have given me things to consider and take to our meeting.
That’s wonderful! I hope you have a great visit with your friends! 😊
A great chat Adelina! I think it is important to keep challenging ourselves. Don’t want to stay stagnant for this next year! Anyway, I’m an American from Maryland and I 100% standby the great country of Canada!!!! 🇨🇦
Thanks! I hope you have a happy and peaceful 2025.
Ciao Adelina, you are talking about spending more time to your hobbies. Can you tell us once what you're thinking about, to get some inspiration? I'm really looking forward to this fresh new year!
Happy New Year Adelina and Sophie 🎉. Much of what you said resonated with me ; especially balance and stability. Peace and love 💗 🙏😻
Thank you so much! Happy New Year to you too ❤️
Morning Adalina, I'm a little late to this vid. I turned 60 last year. Yikes, wake up call for me. I'm going to retire in 2025. I have a physical job and it's time for me to use my body and mind to do all the things I want to do...not have to do. A personal question that you don't have to answer.. have you thought about whether you're going to take CPP early? I am taking mine now and investing it in a FSHA. I don't know if I'm ever going to be able to buy something but if not, I'll just roll it into an RSP. My word(s) for this year come from being a reformed people-pleaser: Me First 😀Happy 2025
Hi! How exciting that you're retiring this year! I won't be starting my CPP early. Likely at 65.
All of this resonated with me, including the lip balm addiction. lol My plan is to get back on track with my walking, eating healthier and not buy things I don't need, as well. I was good with those things last year except for, like you, the last quarter. I lost 54 lbs so that is another motivator to get back to how I felt better physically and mentally when I was getting some exercise in at least 5 days a week. Happy New Year to you, and your shadow, Sophie🥰. ☺
That's awesome! Keep up the good work 😊❤️
@@myBIGtinyhouselife Thank you! ❤
I just wanted to say how much I admire your honesty and the thoughtfulness that you bring to your channel. It's refreshing to see someone who is so genuine and always striving to improve themselves, it’s inspiring! I can tell you put in a lot of effort to reflect and grow, and I just want to mention you're not alone in facing these challenges. Be kind to yourself. Your perspective is helping others (including me) more than you probably realize. Thank you for sharing your journey! Now I got to clean out my freezer!
You’re so sweet, thank you for the kind words! 🥰
Love this video!! Gave me some great ideas and food for thought. Btw. Anyone who makes a negative comment about how you look or your age or anything like that needs to just stop. You’re beautiful and you definitely do not look your age!! I hope you have a great 2025 and I’ll be here to watch it unfold! 💕
Thank you so much! 💕
I get so much out of your video chats! I can so relate to your topics and "squirrel" moments...lol
I too had so many lip balms around my small place. I began to have a reaction to my lip balm, my lips go swollen and couldn't figure it out. Through process of elimination, I changed my lip balm and my lip "injections" diminished..lol I also began using your curly hair products to tame my curls after I watched your video...finally something that worked for me too. Anyway, I was wondering what your prepping purchases were this past year? I purchased a 300+ Jackery after watching one of your videos. I've used it once so far, but was good to have it to keep my Betta fish tank heated. I like to be prepared living on the island too. I really like your 2025 motto...I'm going to keep them both in mind. Living in a tiny foot print, and I'll be 60 this year too!
I wish you still lived in Chemainus, I'd love to meet for a coffee at Willow St. Cafe where I saw you the 1st time and pick your brain!...:)
Thanks Kelly. I miss Chemainus. It's such a pretty little town.
Lovely video. I just moved to Campbell River, so have chosen explore as my word for 2025. So excited to explore this beautiful area.
That's a good word. It's a lovely place to live ☺️.
Thank you for sharing this inspiring message,wishing you a lovely new year for you and everyone, it is helping me to refocus on relax and what I feel for this new year needs ❤ thank you 🙏💫☺️
Same to you!
Great mindset for 2025. It's the 'caring more' about life is key, me thinks. I'm 60 in February, and I feel it some days when my knees don't want to go with me. Haha
You are beautiful inside and out. I am so glad I found your channel! I love listening to you talk to me and tell me what you are doing.
That’s so kind of you to say! 😊
You're so inspiring in this crazy world!! Looking forward to your recipes
Thank you so much!!
At 00:22 seconds you have an orb floating beside you. I love seeing them.
I also have been distressed by the world events and political climate these past few months especially. Had to stop watching new and feel a bit less stressed. I live in Ontario and it's full on winter north of Toronto and am not a cold weather or snow lover. Retired now so I don't need to go anywhere but still feel trapped at home. I like your idea of caring more about some things and less about others. Corporations or companies don't care about the individual because everyone can be replaced. I learned that a long time ago. Looking forward to seeing more in 2025,
Happy New Year 🥳
Adelina: All the best in 2025! Your goals
are good ones and I hope you get there!
Speaking of self-care I'm a little appre-
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a habit of tsking? after you speak! Look
back to your previous videos-you don't
do it in them! Just a little reminder to
check it now before it becomes e problem
for you! But,if you don't care about it,forget
I mentioned this! I st ill think you are great!
Cheers,Sandy
Thank you for the feedback. I'll try to be more mindful of my speech habits going forward. 😊
My word for this year is Grace. I need to give myself grace and accept grace from others.
That's a good one. We all need more grace ☺️❤️
OMG! at4:19 you started telling me ALL the things I let slide! Spending yep and yep....my cuboards have so much too!You are preaching to the choir Sista!
LOL! 😁❤️
Lol, a lip balm for every month of the year, plus a few emergency lip balms in case you lose one! Love it, love your focus for the year and love you and Sophie! ❤🐈
Sending you ❤❤❤
I really resonate with your goals, Adelina; I think the “care less” activities are your most important because they will free up time and head space to pursue the “care more” stuff! Yesterday, I just started the process of going to my natural hair color (I’m 61) and it has really had the effect of feeling like I’m moving towards my authentic self (which is connected with my overall goal of living simply and respectfully with the planet ). Really enjoyed the video! Karen
I hear you on the authentic self journey! 😊
Great video Adelina. I am way behind in your videos, trying to catch up. Great idea for the new year, I need to control my spending. Same thing as you with the food in fridge and pantry, that’s what I am doing as well. I am a September girl also.
Thanks! 😊
Happy New Year! I can so relate to your lip balm. I found 12 little tubes of toothpaste- you know the little tubes the dentist gives you? I put them away thinking they would come in handy for travel. I used 2 this past year! My word for 2025 is “learn”. I am a devoted crafter and creative person so am always up to learning along those lines but I want to include other skills or gain other knowledge about things like fine art, math, animals, history.
That's awesome! Learning is so rewarding. 😊
HI Adelina! I just want to say that I admire you. I've been following you for more than I year and I can say that all your videos always leave something positive for me and things to think about. You are amazing and pretty inside and out! I wish you a blessed 2025 for you and all your lovely community!
Can't wait to see next video!
Love, Nilsa.❤
Thank you so much, Nilsa! I appreciate your kind words. ❤️
LOVE your approach to keeping yourself accountable. It is easy to lose sight of our spending when we are single and accountable only to ourselves 💜
I think you are awesome ❤ we're the same age. I love your mindset. Canadians ❤. You inspire me, and I so feel I have a connection with your channel 💕. I welcome you into my space, and enjoy your company. Here's to a Happy intentional New Year. Be safe and well my friend ❤️ 🎉.
Thank you so much! Happy New Year to you too! 💕
Loved this! I have a few of the same goals! I'm going to do my very best for as long as I can! 😀😀❤
That's the spirit! ❤️
I loved this video Adelina! I have many of the same priorities for care more & care less. I will be 60 in Dec ‘25. I am staying informed about world events but have decided not to watch news daily. I really agree with your comments about deciding to not let work take over your day to the point that you’re too tired and have no energy at the end of the day. I used to feel guilty if I didn’t try to ‘catch up’ on the weekends and then I would be resentful when I took ‘me’ time for work. I still don’t like having unfinished reports hanging over my head but I realize that the to-do list never gets cleared. So I am making a point to take my lunch time to read a book while I eat or step outside on nice days.
So good to hear you're prioritizing yourself! 😊
I’m with you on caring less with regard to work…I’m 62 and have a couple more years left to work but I definitely am not working those 10 hr days anymore…it comes at too high of a cost to us physically but especially mentally.
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We are very similar I’m 61 turning 62 end of September, vegan, would love to live in a tiny home, want to do vanlife, live on my own, love being on my own, love cooking healthy unprocessed food, really want to be more mindful, start a meditation routine, keep on downsizing. Say hello with a smile to strangers on the street, and being kind and helpful. I also pick up garbage that people throw on the ground daily. I’m about the same size as you and I walk to work everyday, and try and keep a gym routine……so far I’ve been doing good for the past 3 days keeping fingers cross that the gym becomes a regular habit. I also do intermittent fasting eating window from noon to six. I will do the fridge and freezer challenge this week. Have a great day.
You're doing amazing! It's inspiring to hear what you're accomplishing.
You are so very right. My theme word for 2025 is "sieve". When others try to dump problems or want more than is acceptable, these requests will go right through me! 😅
Love that word! You've got this! 😉
Sieve: That's a good one!
You inspire me to focus on my projects and no care about judgements about my life , 👍😊 I have no visit your channel since a while ,I had a hard last year but I had a click moment that I don't want to care anymore mind etc,just relax,create what I like,I don't have the perfect settle work life so it is judge, I will bf 40 this year ,I feel to arrive to be adult 😊 as I feel I no care anymore as I know that I am honest to my values 😊 and I feel to declutter and care more too to the essentials and I did the same these last 2 weeks, I finish all the food I had first of all, now I can shop tomorrow as it is empty and I do a shop list focus on what I will really eat this week and so I feel to start on a new fresh start on the clearer mind lighter back to essential, free my mind,same with relationships, destiny gave me opportunity divine to meet back the people I care deep and with who we had sad misunderstanding and so I could clarify too ,I felt this first week days has been finally divine opportunity to put clear bases after an hard year depression last year, that was diving gift finally as I never took such a time to rest and heal a life and so ,this week has been not so easy still but now I feel , all is meant for a reason in divine flow, universe energies called me back to this channel now and it resonate like an hug comfort to my soul that I am back finally ready to shine lighter back ,thank you,it has been very hard months last year and now it is like a gift for the patience courage to cross the phases, so this year will be lighter for a lot of people as we come back to these feelings essential that is felt liberating relaxing and empowering in the same time,sorry for my mistakes in English,I did not practice since a while , thank you for sharing your messages, it is really helping encouraging inspiring conforting as sometimes I felt weird and not so understood as I choose to take a time to rest as I was very not well, I feel better thanks to life gifts, healing and physical health , accident etc, and as I prioritise getting better health, first of all, and no care social work label of succèss, matériel things, or other personal aspect seen as failure as I did not have the big house car,super mariage family done yet, etc, as I moved changed work countries, many times before,now,back to native town as I felt the call for rest grounded back to the source, sorry for sharing so much,I feel here you created a community of positive non judgemental empathic people 🙏💫🎁thank you ,I wish you and everyone all the best, peace joy love on heart shining for eveyone, libération of our beautiful soul, shining,no care social norms that create confusion sometimes pression illusions and just flow relax as we feel our real self respect and this is the year for our full soul to shine I feel 😊🙏💫 even in universe energies vibes,it resonates all of this,let's keep faith in process when not easy as it brings us back clearer deeper to our essence clarity 😊🙏💫🎁👍
I realized the same about the “goal” oriented office system…it’s complete BS. The realization came when I had put in the extra effort and time, plus helped and trained a junior individual in a different department and then was told I would not be receiving the added bonus that I had received the previous year when I did way less because “there are only x amount of funds available and we need to ensure we retain the staff we have, and they have gone several years without….” Right there took the blinders off 😂. Don’t get me wrong, I still took pride in my work and gave them above standard BUT only worked within office hours and ensured I took vacation-and no longer reachable while on vacation etc…made me a happier employee for sure!
I hear you! It's so frustrating when your hard work isn't acknowledged. ☺️
"Care more, Care less." Terrific topic! I'm writing that on my white board...right next to "Just do the next, right thing." ❤
Love it! ❤️❤️❤️
Ah yes the end of the year always make me reflect on what I enjoyed and what I need to work on. I do love a simple life. I haven't worn makeup since 2 year b4 I retired. The freezer does need to be inventoried. I try to ignore the federal world just the local world. I enjoyed your video.
I hear you on the federal world! 😅
I love your care less focus. I can relate to the work/corporate mentality and have experienced the same pressure for the last 3 years. I'm hoping to retire later this year. I feel like the stress is so not healthy for me. Care less about what others think- so great!! Thanks for sharing!♥♥ Lip balm is a necessity in my opinion. LOL
Happiest of New Years to you and I wish you an abundance of happiness and success! This was a great video and I look forward to the good things that are to come in 2025. ML ❤️🇨🇦🐈
Thank you! Happy New Year to you as well! 💖
Could you share your hash brown frittata recipe? Love your videos
Will do!!
I agree with you on both accounts! Good Talk! Thank You! 🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️
Loved your talk. But I kept thinking, "Please pet Sophie. She just wants pets. Hah. Loved it when she finally curled up, looked up at you and then you petted her. It was a passionate talk, I understand. You reminded me I need to only freezer cook. 😊
I know, sometimes she’s quite insistent! 😂
@@myBIGtinyhouselifeShe‘s lovely and obviously adores you! ❤
All good points & challenges most people face. Wishing you & everyone a good new year.
To you as well. 🙂
For me, I’ve found more than once in my life that I need to always focus on the present, expect nothing and to be consciously kind to others …and to make certain I share with those I care about, as much as possible because tomorrow is promised to no one - not only for them but for me. Although I take of things I need to (eventually) but l can’t be absorbed with day to day tasks which in the end will make no difference one way or another…yes being a senior will do that to you….. Be well, be you & Keep smiling…May you find contentment and peace in whatever you focus on. ❤…..ps. As far as spending goes?… I bought new RED shoelaces for my boots AND I’m so excited!!!! lol
Love the red shoelaces 😁. Have a great year.
Nice job...I love the idea of being mindful of all the things we already have. Great talk! The media is out of control, I am right there with you. Be informed, but not at the expense of our mental health. My word for the year is strength. Physically and mentally. Happy 2025 to you and Miss Sophie ❤
Strength is a great word. We all need more of it 💪❤️
My one word for the year is peace!! Lots of it!
Sophie ❤😂 she's so funny and cute.
I love your intentions for the year. Especially the "care less" part. It's exactly the right course ... and I always make January my "Cabinet/Pantry Cleanout" month. It's pretty much a fun thing in a blah month. And is a kick to the checking account. Can't wait to share in your new year! ❤❤
Happy new year!
Honestly Adelina, you look great, and certainly not 59 ! And what is even greater than your look is your general attitude towards life. I've been a subscriber for several years now, and you're truly a model for me. I wish you a wonderful 2025 and a lot of success in your theme and goals !
Wow, thank you!
My goal for this year is to use things that I have and not buy more. I have a lot of canned and frozen food. I will try to only buy fresh fruits and vegetables. I buy milk from a farmer. Thank you for your inspiration. Take care.
That's a great way to live! 👍
My goal for 2025 is to say YES. Yes to the hobbies I enjoy, yes to practicing my guitar, yes to exercise, yes to fun with friends, yes to new adventures, yes to my love of cooking. Btw, I have been using Dr. Pepper lip balm since I got it in my Christmas stocking when I was 12, and I am 63! I have about three left.....and they don't make it any more I wish I had your 12!!! LOLOL
I'm with you on the yes to fun! 🥂
Great video as always. I will be 55 in October and I have the mindset of I don't care what others think about me. I work in Finance too and quit a corporate job due to the stress and I went to work for a non-profit company without all the drama and stress.
I hear you! It's so refreshing to be free of that corporate pressure. 😊
Happy New Year!!! thank you for being honest and straight forward. im 54 and you are really an inspiration to me. I look forward to seeing more!!!!
Thanks so much! I'm glad you find it helpful 😊
Thank you so much for sharing your goals for 2025, it was much appreciated ! I've been living a more frugal life since I've been retired (3 years) - my choice so that I don't have to work part-time and that I can enjoy my volunteer work. I'm usually a cheerful person , however, I find Oct-Dec. particularly challenging as I have Seasonal Affective Disorder Syndrome ( SADS ), which makes this time of year a challenge! Your goals remind me how I have learned to live my life generally, but I tend to forget that during my "SADS" time of year. Also, it doesn't help living in Victoria , where the rain and overcast can be depressing, 😅 especially in December! Don't get me wrong, I love living on Vancouver Island , but certain times of the year brings certain challenges. Thanks for the reminder! I'm determined to get back on track ! Lesley😊
Seasonal Affective Disorder is tough. I hope you're doing well.
Bravo....... in my mind your head is exactly in the right place. Emotional, personal and work balance are so important. I'm 11 years ahead of you and you have come to these conclusion much earlier than I did. Girlie, you will find the quality of your life will be so much improved. My words for the coming years: longevity, health, peace of mind and most of all.....JOY. Take care....
I love your words! ❤️☺️
Definitely need to pay attention to all the stuff you are doing in my life, starting with the freezer. Small thing but indicative of all other parts of life
I did a fridge/freezer meal today😊
Good for you! ☺️
"mystery items".. love it.
going to dive into my freezer and see what I take over to my daughters...been storing for her and I don't know what I got! then make an inventory too!
It’s always a fun surprise! 😂
Happy new year Guys! (Big hugs to Sophie as well!)
Have a wonderful year!
Same to you!
I am guilty about the make up too! Bet you’re not alone! I rung in earlier … Covid … for the New Year! I have never had it! My daughter in law woke up December 26 with Covid and the Flu! Crazy!
This talk has really put a new spin on my life in this crazy world!
Blessings! 🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️
I hope you get better soon! ❤️
Great content and something to think about! Have a great Sunday!
You too! 😊
I am right there with you about what is important and what is not. This last year has had me really looking at some of the same things as you plus, being a bit older than you, putting some important things in place, as well. 2025 is going to be much more intentional for me. Thank you for affirming some of the same things I have been thinking. You and your lip balms...me and my quilting fabric. Eek! LOL
I'm glad you're finding more intention in 2025! 😊
Very positive start for 2025 and completely doable. I’m with you all the way! ❤️
Thanks for your support!
Very good video. I too have been trying to clean out the freezer. Little by little it will happen and it saves so much to use what I have. Last month it made a huge difference in what was left over at the end of the month! I think your goals are great as corporations really don't understand what an employee does most of the time and they rarely bestow any loyalty to employees. Best wishes for this New Year to you, family and Sophie.
You're so right about that! Thanks for the well wishes 🙂
My word is Acceptance. I love your outlook. We all have a "lip balm" hoard! I have kleenex and reading glasses everywhere. When you are ready to stop dying your hair I think you'll feel liberarted. I stopped in my sixties and wish I'd have doneit sooner. Be well!
Acceptance is a great word for the year!
Happy New Year! I love your talk today. I also hope to care more and care less in 2025 too. I’m a little older -67 - and am so ready to retire. 2025 will be my final year to work my current job and then I’ll see what comes next. Being in the US, I have extra worries about what the next 4 years will bring but I’m going to try to concentrate on what I can control, choose my battles and try not to lose hope. Keep doing what you do. Your videos are very appreciated. And I love my Canadian neighbors such as you and Single and Solo (also in beautiful Vancouver Island). (I’m way over east in metro Detroit).
Peace and love to you as always.
Thank you for your kind words! I hope your retirement year is filled with peace and joy.
Best wishes for a Prosperous and Happy New Year 🎉
Same to you!
Happy New Year 🥳
You too 😁
Love the video Adelina. So many things I agree with (work pressures and culture as well as the craziness of the political scene). My word for the year is dancing. I can't wait for more updates 😊
That's awesome! 👏
I am 56 and live in the UK. I have always kept as up to date as possible with current affairs both domestic and international, however, this is no longer a priority. There is just too much craziness in the world today and focusing on it only brings anxiety and uncertainty. Instead I try to focus on the things that bring me joy, peace and contentment such as family and living a slower more meaningful life. This is why I love your channel Adelina as your values align with mine ❤
Peace and contentment is what we all need ❤️.
I swear we are twins! ❤
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Great talk Adelina!
Great ideas for the year. You and I are on the same wave length about caring more and less. Looking forward to seeing where 2025 takes us. Don’t use lip balm myself I use a bit of vaseline which works just as well. Enjoy your week.
Thank you! You too!