Why You Care So Much
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- Опубликовано: 14 мар 2024
- Resilience, happiness and freedom come from knowing what to care about-and most importantly, what not to care about.
05:00:The Courage To Be Disliked
09:53: Nothing is Real
22:08: The Power of Thinking For Yourself
34:33: Dopamine Detox: Become Invincible
44:07: The Fear of Death
55:27: The Odds of Existence
01:06:14: Nothing matters, but it’s ok
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"If you wouldn't let a stranger into your house in fear of invading your privacy, why would you let them into your head; the most private place of all?" damn.
Even pretending not to care is a form of caring in some way, ya know.
Absolutely. Because you’re just pretending. The people that pretend not to care are usually the people that secretly care the most
I'd argue it's still better than showing them that you actually care
@@Empoley-ox9rm It depends I'd say. It's a defence mechanism at first in the first place.
Well is it possible to not care?
@thequarentineboredomcure7038 that's actually a great question . I feel like some of the kids from the street corner takeovers actually don't care . At least take few of them anyway .
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” -Bernard M. Baruch
There is only one major concern people should worry about. When you're about to cross beyond the void veil... Reflect carefully.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad)
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What's that? @@Novastar.SaberCombat
Wtf people always told me Dr. Seuss said this jesus
Nah, that was Homer Simpson - pilot episode
When people turn around looking at something you do but you don't mind at all because you naturally Always have a good intent with everything you do and you Know it nothing can really "touch you" the same way as before with regards to "Insults", "rude people", "Arrogant people" and so on as you actually understands them Much much better than they understand You(or others for that matter) as it "clearly seems" you can rest assured that nothing is wrong with you, you are simply just an "Original" of sorts that Outgrew your mental "Auto-pilot", naturally and stubbornly insisting on thinking for YOURSELF instead of blindly following others(the rest of the blind people) as you simply can't even wrap your HEAD around what they are actually doing many times. So every time one steps out in the world and interact with people one can be sure to set a "good example" for others(Not motivated by Narcissism of course), so next time someone stares at you for some reason just remind yourself that you are once again setting a Good example and these are invaluable and can not be helped. That was all for today i think. Wish you the best of all things always and forever, or until you get bored of it of course. 😘🥰😗🤭🤫😇
Life is rough, it’s lonely out there when you don’t think the same as the people around you. But there is always someone out there to connect with, it just takes effort and time.
The day I stop caring about Apertures videos is the day I stop living my life to the fullest, lol.
Idk man, I lost half of my trust after watching his temu video
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Why half? 😮@@itsdarkhere
Real
Um what a sigma
Fortunate to find this channel where there is no drama, rubbish talks.....only deep talks , philosophy and out of box thinking and content ❤..
Exactly. The only thing that matters is the one humanity seems to be the least concerned about. It's embarrassing, too. So... when you're about to cross beyond the void veil... Reflect carefully.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad)
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My mind is the strongest when i am alone.
But i am always searching for verification for my believes in society from people who dont know
This video is so spot on to my way of thinking that it's almost as if another me created it. I'm not always in agreement with your take on things, but this one hit dead center in the bullseye about subject matter I think about frequently.
This video hit way harder than it had to. Bravo 🎉 sir pure craftsmanship
A whole hour of Aperture is what I need in my life now more than ever. God its just so soothing.
Absolutely love going to sleep to his long videos
Groucho Marx said it best" I would never belong to a club that would have me as a member." The idea that you have to fit in or be ostracized starts at childhood and within families. Until you are 18 in America you are expected to follow the standards of your parents, community and laws. It is why so many teens rebel and I was one of them. As an adult you can shrug off those social pressures if you want but you have to be strong enough to not care what other people think. It took me until my 30s to finally not care.
Bravo, young man! It took WAY too long for this old man to get where you are. I applaud your courage. Godspeed!
As my first subscription I thought I would say something. I find your content interesting and I am thankful you decided to make content. I enjoy listening to you. Keep up the good work 😊
Quite possibly, the best video I've ever watched on RUclips.
The protagonist slash creator took the figurative words out of my meta-mouth! 💜🙏💎
Thank you for explaining this so well, I could never put into words what I dealt with for a while. I just felt empty and alone, I felt unreal and scared of the world. It sucked, I’m doing better everyday tho since I been putting in the work ⭐️
This channel never disappoints. New philosophical concepts help in broadening our own minds and perceptions.
15:06 I have never heard anyone else mention this, and these thoughts came into my mind a few months back, possibly over a year ago, for the first time in my life. It's refreshing to hear.
I love your uniquely calm, pragmatic voice and simple way of presenting profoundly deep insights on this insanely irrational thing called Life., while sharing personal vulnerability. I so appreciate your thoughtful work that reminds us all that we all share the same vulnerabilities. Thank you so very much for the beauty you bring to the world.
Watched this video while precariously peeling off my acrylics in the middle of the night, pretty fulfilling and refreshing to find a video that explains thought about life the same way i do; ironically the point of this video
03:50 I think that literarily aging was the cure that made me care less of what others would think of me. I remember that when I was younger I confused the whole concept with stopping what others would think of you would be selfish because it would mean stop caring about them. I was wrong there. And that makes a difference.
Haven‘t watched your videos for a long time. Decided to watch this one and it did something to my heart & mind. Thank you very much.
this makes me want to never look at social media again other than to talk to people and youtube that i specifically search, this video was terrifying and terrifically done at the same time, amazing watch.
Thank you for existing
The view to like ratio is crazy.
Goated
Most people’s brains are too fried to get past the first minute 😔
@@tsarkiel8471me rn
And the comments :(
A very deep, philosophical video truly a work of art.
RUclips keeps pushing trash content videos on my feed. I’ve been following you for a while, yet I had forgotten about your channel, I’m thankful you reappeared on my feed. I needed this. You. Your content. Your mind.
Do you have any other channels (blogs, articles, etc.) where you publish?
I really appreciate these videos you drop here it’s really what I’m more interested in. I hope you can make audiobooks so that my phone doesn’t keep dying everyday due to listening to you till I sleep, I hope I’m not the only one that needs this. This type of information you drop here is what I’d love to spend money just to get. Thanks again.
This video is exactly why I continue to watch RUclips and support and promote it where I can...like Public Television I grew up with and from which I learned so much...so is YT.😊
Thanks buddy great content!👍
I'm from the pre-mobile generation and sometimes have no idea where my phone is for half a day without thinking about it. Thank god I learned to be able to live without a mobile phone or social media.
Today you found me as an echo, precise work sir.
I think holding down part of yourself due to group pressure may be a good thing to prevent trauma in your own life but I don’t think I would want to stray as far if I felt I had the support of a group. We feel the pressure of a group but not of the safety and comfort of a group.
Um what a sigma
I’ve been feeling exactly like this. This pressure (on top of life in general) to be whatever the group wants you to be but they’re hands off at the same time. There’s no real support just identity. You identify with the group and that’s it. Even if you look out for them, it won’t be reciprocated. I’m done being apart of “communities” especially here in the US. It’s a bunch of cults (politics, religion, cultures, corporate, etc) and predators preying on any and every “weakness”.
14:39 'The only thing that is certain are thoughts.'
This begs for me the question: Do I think I think or am I actually thinking?
Watching your videos keeps me conscious
We are kindred spirits in terms of our outlook (well i like to think so anyway 😅). You're an inspiration to everyone keep on keeping on!
When you said solopsim OCD that was the first time I've heard of that and so many confusing sad things clicked in my life you just gave me so much insight to myself holy damn
happy we're all here
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I love your content so much ❤️
So grateful I stumbled upon your channel, thanks for sharing this greatness with us all
great video very educational
My favorite channel
Great video!! I do want us to keep in mind, as far as being ostracized at the workplace..it is not always about poor performance..it’s much more nuanced than that..and it is not always a positive thing or called for.
Thank you
"dive head first into the void and when you emerge on the other side you'll find nothing, but that future will be clear and bright a guiding light into a better yet fleeting life" - 1:16:14 this really hit hard for me, and instead of having my life just "be" it made me realize you should use your life as a guide, something that in the face of darkness will light the way for you, but it can only be as bright as you let it be.
thanks for this
I love your content so much. Could you do more content on DEATH and MEMENTO MORI plssss
People have so much interest in things that dont matter, so they have so little over for things that do...
Indeed🎉
Need this on Spotify
Man we would have been great buddies had we met in our youth. I felt the same way. I didn't know why then, but I was light years away from kids my age. I love your content. Ignore the haters, they are just jealous. It too me 430 years to realize why I was not liked by alpha males. They were intimidated by me little I knew at the time. People don't like feeling stupid. I recently wondered if I might be on the spectrum a little. I never cared what people thought of me. I knew I was fine.
I recommend reading the book "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck":
Very good book.
I found your channel because of the 731 video that’s insane
I deal with severe depression, anxiety, poor self esteem and imposter syndrome (childhood trauma). I'm leaving a job I've been in for 12 years where I know the expectations and am confident I can achieve them, but I transferred to a new location 9 states away last year and I strongly dislike my (lazy, incompetent) coworkers. I have been invited by some new friends to apply at their workplace and try something new, but I fear that I am not capable of doing that job and I'm going to be a disappointment and a failure and have to find another job. I also fear that I'm not "cool enough" for my new friend group and they'll ostracize me once they get to know me better. It's exhausting to have to try so hard, not only to succeed in general, but to successfully drown out the voices of doubt and insecurity in my head.
Saitama be like, "Why is my face in your vid?"
In total love with this brain-stimulating channel. I want to see the man behind that voice. I don't know why, but I'm terribly curious
Me too, I need to see the face behind these thoughts.
"yes, nothing matters, but isn't that a good thing?" like dam
amazing ending
i love this. first video i’ve seen of yours. however i am super high and the flashing visuals weren’t very nice. would appreciate if you could tune that down a bit
i realy agree whit the starting now i will listen ..
“Just be, for a minute or two, without any source of mental stimulation” should be easy, although sounds scary.
Are you responsible or know who is responsible for “Athene’s Theory of Everything”? That video changed my life. If you see him/her/them, please send my thanks for that film. This channel strikes the same chord and scratches that same itch. This channel/perspective is a real gem, thank you!
is this a compilation or a full video
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3:14 fuckin SAMEEE dude! I was so existential for my age.
I love this channel.
In my experience, the only time I felt solipsism, was when I got mind numbingly high for the first time.
What a video…!
Wisdom ✨✨
“We love ourselves more other people but care more about their opinion “ I have the opposite problem. I only care about my opinion, but I hate myself😅 sooo…
Learning to let go of things beyond our control is the key to inner peace.
Incredibly rich content; so glad to have landed here!
Can I focus on a detail: where did you take the probability figures from? Because car crash 1/107 to die and motorcycle crash 1/800 to die is very new to me then… motorcycles are safer? According to whom?
Thanks!
Yeah a lot of those stats sounded like BS. Prob made up or some totally irrelevant math equation spit out those numbers.
Now I really want to see your video about Unit 731. Hey RUclips, what about Unit 731?!?!
The discord link is down
I’m loving the video, and no judgment if it is because your wonderful script is the highlight of the video, but are the video clips AI generated? Like the ones of people specifically, I was just having a hard time telling if it was or not
I am not who I think I am, I am not who you think I am, I am who I think that you think that I am.
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Love the saitama thumbnail.
I wonder sometimes if heaven is so good why then does no one want to go
I see aperture Saitama Thumbnail I click
The secret to being happy is, never make goals for yourself. That way, when/if you fail, you won’t be disappointed and feel like your life is meaningless.
God knows our plan, the work we do preserves us for as long as we want to be here. Our brain needs loads to also be here. Believe in nothing because that’s a choice too. Or have faith that someone will grant us grace. That the life we lived for God to enjoy our story.
Your chances of being attacked by a shark go up exponentially if you're an avid surfer in New South Whales, Australia.
Don't you think, though, that even when we shield ourselves from opinion it still gets through and affects our course? I'm way too sensitive to feedback. And the thing is - most feedback is psychological whim. It is so rare that somebody gives a truly unbiased and honest opinion that hasn't been tainted by what they'd quite like you to do instead. Even when you assure them that you don't want or need opinion - it'll still emerge disguised as something else.
Also, it's supposed to be a mark of personal evolution to not have much of an ego (if at all) - but society is merely egos maneuvering against each other. So, if you don't have one you're going to get crushed if you enter the melee. A person can still have intent and ideas in the absence of ego. Sometimes people, who are not at all playing the game, have done amazing things.
The only judgements i don't like come from court😂
I love your work keep it up
It's not the eyes that are blind, but the hearts.
-Quran 22:46
23:02 - How is the truth "abusive and offensive"?
I know balls to bones free will isn't a thing and that's devastating to the idea of a soul or afterlife of any kind.
I wish I had a different mind, became a prisoner in my own mind about my low life and its torture everyday
I have nothing and will become nothing, almost completely alone
Solipsism is most likely not true. However one doesn't need to believe in solipsism to stop caring too much about other's perceptions and judgements. Nobody's perfect; everybody both makes mistakes and does it correct which applies to making judgements too.
real
real
Is it a repost??
yeah i remember the first 20 minutes
So what happens if you ARENT re-invited to the group after ostracism? (see: 5:50)
Becoming a pariah is just that, and it is often quite unjust, rather than benefiting those who are victimized (real or imagined).
Simply because this act also grants social currency to those who initiate it the ostracism. Making the motive to ostracize questionable at the best of times.
Thus, it is a tool to rule by fear. The fear of ostracism. Ruling by fear has never had beneficial effects.
As much as I like learning about philosophy, I just can't help but wonder if anything does matter, and, for that sake, I just can't stop but think that there's no point in me living. To anyone reading this, consider not intaking too much philosophy, especially nihilism, if your mind is sensitive to information. Nihilism is one of the most profound concepts I've ever learned about, but it's also been dangerous to my mental health. I've started caring less about things and stopped trying so hard to succeed in life. However, the urge to stay alive is something that I still feel, and, for that matter, I feel the need to try harder. Yet, when nihilistic thoughts meet my pro-life desires, I break down and question so deeply if anything truly matters and whether I should just kill myself.
I've been exactly there too. Life in general has no meaning to me still but I've decided to stay alive for the people I love and to make them proud . I've found out that there's must not be an universal answer to the meaning of life but to realise that some people love me was enough. After I realized what I would do to them if I committed suicide I kinda had my answer of what it meant for me to stay alive. Hope that will help you even tho it's only my personal POV
Well everything matters and everything is connected 😅 welcome to reality.
10:13 i had the same tought at 13 now im 33 and i cant stand it anymore dude i swear xD im tilting realy bad :3
Is no one going to mention how similar the title is to Mark Manson's book
I don’t believe the shark stats. In cape cod, there are incidents every year lately.
I'd love to put my phone off but I'm working using it mostly lol... Maybe it's time to quit to get a new perspective on things
As someone gifted with Asperger's, I appreciate humans but I tend to do better off without them.
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