Thokoza gogo ngicela ukubuza ukuthi after ubuphahla wether endlini noma ehlane, what do you do with the offerings food and drinks do you eat and drink or you don't open? If you home wenzan ngazo and after even if use hlane what should you do? Also with the let's say I'm planning ukuphahla for 3 consecutive days what should I do with the candles get news for the following days or use the same? Since I heard a lot that you should not switch off the candles after ngicela ukwazi?
Thank you, I have learned so much, I have never had to ukuphahla on my own, always had it done by my grandad but now I live 2 provinces away from home and they always tell me ukuthi ngiphahle
I'm glad I found this channel. Really as today's youth, we're not exposed kakhulu to izinto zamasiko nokuphahla and maybe that is why we are such a lost generation. I'm sure I'm gonna learn a lot from your channel, thank you.
Thank you for this wonderful video. I live in Canada and feel so removed from amasiko ami and I’ve felt so lost. This video and other things that have transpired make me feel like while I’m not home there are ways I can feel closer. Thank you!
Hi Nobukhosi. Thank you for reaching out. I am sooo happy to know that these videos reach people all over the world, but most of all that they help and benefit you in some way or another. I wish you love, light and fulfillment as you work your way around building a relationship with your guides. Thokoza. ✨
Thank you for the clarity mntomdala 🙏🏼 I've been wondering ukuthi kuba inkinga yini if uphahla and you have a plate of fruits as well lapho ophahlela khona..?
Thank you so.much sisi. The last time I involved my father's side on izinto zomsamo, things went VERY wrong. why it doesn't matter on this case. Thanks again.
I'm currently using a yellow and white candle to pray and a glass of water with two coins but never used that water for anything or the coins they've been there since
Ma'am, if I do this process for 3 consecutive days. Do I bathe with the water and the coins on my last day, or keep putting new water and coins each day? And, if I don't go out of the house on that day, can I give the coins away on the next day? I love the way you speak. Beautiful. 🎉
I'm so happy to find this video. I have been doing it all wrong all this time. Ngicela ukubuza ukuba is the water only supposed to be clean? Like can you add isiwasho?
Thank you very much for this video 🙏🏿 I always phahla that way but I always leave my candles burn till the end, I don't know if that's a good way?🤷🏿♂️ Thokoza 👏🏿
Good day Nhlamhla, thanks for sharing your knowledge and understanding in ukuphahla. Will you please guide me in doing this in English as I do not know what to do. I'm raised by white people and I only understand English. What I know is that, my mother is Dlamini, Zizzi, JAMA kaSjadu (Xhosa from Umtata) and my father was Zikode from Warden. What do I say when I phahla because I have been sick, diagnosed with bone marrow cancer. I got a donor and transplant was done in August successfully. But now I have side effects that are no understandable by the doctors and my mother said a mbeleko was never done for me. I decided I want to do that but we need guideline on how to go about this. What to say and how it must be done. My uncle is willing to do it. Please guide me on what to say to my ancestors so I get healed. Thanking you in advance. I am a boy of 32 years now. Kind regards
Very informative video thank you...whats the difference in praying with the coins and leaving them in the water for 3 days then using them to go buy at the shop or street vendors instead of giving it to a stranger?
Hi Felicia. Anytime is good. However, I would recommend early morning or late evening when the hustle and bustle of life has subsided. Remember, we all have different limitations and won’t necessarily be able to follow protocol all the time, but the trick is to acknowledge it with your guides usho futhi nokuthi kungani wenza izinto ngendlela ozenzw ngayo.
Thank you for clarifying and I have a question about giving out the coin, my question is if I give someone the coin won't it curse the person or take my dark spirits and bad lucks to himor her?
Hi Sibusiso, thank you for engaging. Remember, the coins are not a sacrifice. They are merely an acknowledgment of your guides and also used to appease them. More than anything, they carry light instead of darkness.
Thanks so much for this gogo. I have 2 questions though. Can i use BB/boxer ugwayi wamakhehla, and also what do i do with the candles i phahlad with. Emakhosini
Thank you for the guidance. I am someone who is at the beginning of connecting to my ancestors, I am one of those who were convinced by Christianity that connecting to ancestors is a pagan and evil act. I am eager to learn, but I didn't get you well where you spoke in your own language. I also did not get it well as to what and how I use the water after finishing communicating to my ancestors.
The coins she said you give them to stranger be it a kid or a begger so as to expect them to say "Thank you," which then signals that our ancestors heard us.
Greetings I am student and recently found out that I have a calling , what am I supposed to do if I want to if I want to call upon my ancestors in my room and ask them to protect me
Thokoza Michelle. Please ask the person who told you that you have a calling to assist you. Otherwise you will go about things the wrong way trying to gather information from the internet when you are all new to this. 🥹 Alternatively, you are welcome to follow the steps explained on this video as a starting point. All the best in your journey. 🌸
Hi there my sister i hope this finds you well Can i do these rituals at a grave site? 🤔 I don't have any male figure in my life i stay at my grandmother's house that she also got into ngo mshado i don't have a relationship with my father though he's still alive Won't i compromise myself if i summon my paternal ancestors into my grandmother's house that she into by marriage? Because as a boy child i grew up being told my father never wanted me, rejected me when my mother was still pregnant with me even forced my mother to drink poison to abort me but by the grace of God i didn't die i was born and it killed her
Thank you so much for this video, ndicela ukubuza uba can I also include crystal stones xa ndiphahla? Can I drink the water instead of bathing or cleaning with it? And can I phahla where I stay full time with the father of my child?
Hi Amanda. I hope you are well. You can add whatever your spirit prompts you to add. Be spirit led. You are welcome to drink the water after uphahla. I’ve done that myself a few times. In terms of ukuphahla where you stay with your partner, I don’t have enough context to answer that. However, I can tell you that you DO NOT PHAHLA IN THE SAME ROOM IN WHICH YOU HAVE SEX. This is under every circumstance and not unique to you. ✨
I once used three coins and I dreamt three gushing wounds on my left rib. Now I know to use two. Also when you pinch the flame and it refused to go out there's something you've missed or they want you to go deeper. Thoklza!
Hi Thabisile. Thank you for reaching out. So emqashweni I would recommend that you first cleanse the space with the water, madubula, spirit and holy ash combo. Mix together uchele ngazo first. Perhaps do this cleansing of the space thing 2 days prior to ukuthi uphahle. Alternatively, you can just go phahla ehlane because there, you know that your guides are more likely to connect with you without any ‘disturbances’ or negative energy. Remember, all this is discretionary. Always listen to what spirit says to you. Umoya wakho mawunga vumi, leave it, pray about it and try again at another time. I hope this helps. ❤️
Thank you for this informative video. However I'd like to ask, if you were conceived from different tribes how do you go about with ukuphahla since cultures are different and things are done differently?
Hi Michelle. Thank you for reaching out. I would recommend that you use the basic step by step guide explained in this video. This is literally the blue-print. Additions are at your discretion. 💫
Thokoza now when appeasing using Yellow and Blue candles , when lighting them ,I know it has to be the Yellow first ,then Blue . Switching them off do I do that in the same order or the last one to be lit is the first to be pinched off .
Hi Ntando, thank you for sharing your way of doing things. Do you mind sharing with us the reasons why it has to be the yellow candle thats lit first. It is my first time learning of this. Thanks.
Thokoza , I learnt from one of the channels , the order in which the candles should be lit , and that channel broke it down with all candle colors , but I only focused on the ones I use , and then there is Gogo Bathini Mbatha who also explained exactly the colors that I use to pray or to appease ,but none of the channels explain the order to switch the candles off .
Hey gogo i trust that you are well. I have a question for how many days does one phahla for instance i was thinking of doing it for 3 days and how do i go about with the water and the candles. Do i use the same water and candles for the 3 days or it must be new candles and fresh water everyday ?
Thokoza. Depends on your reasons for ukuphahla. This is when you use discernment. What is spirit saying to you? ☺️ In terms of the candles and water- if you phahla for three days, you use them for all three days. Candles- on the third day you let it burn till liziphelela. The water- follow the same process explained in this video. All the best in your journey. 🤎
Hello sesi I used a book and wrote down everything I wanted to say just in case I don't forget when I did ukuphahla is it wrong or? I did it in the morning and switched off the candles. When I steam can I use the same water to bath with? Is it ok to pour the water into the drain or toilet?
Hello Stoney beer. Thank you for reaching out. It is recommended to write things down so that nyan you dont fluff over your words and you remember precisely what it is you want to speak about. This is especially if you are new to this but as time goes on and you get used to doing it, i would recommend that you truly speak from the heart and be spirit led. In terms of the water you use for ukufutha, I would recommend that you flush them away at the toilet or via the drain. For me, reusing them to bath with is unrealistic in a sense that you’ve steamed to remove ubumnyama and you use the same ubumnyama that you’ve sweated out to cleanse again? NO!
Hi Nolithado. I wouldnt recommend you call your ancestors in others peoples homes/emqashweni. Rather go ehlane or emanzini. However, you are welcome to speak to your healer. They make know how you can go about this.
The problem is that we are in town here, no rivers or other place where I can be alone and people will think I'm applying which craft coz they don't have any idea
Thank you for the clarity ❤️I’m watching this video all the way from Lesotho so I was asking if I have to connect with my ancestors with isizulu or I can just use my language. And again do I strictly have to use white candles only? One more question when is advisable for us to phahla? In the middle of the day or at night
Hi Ratanang… 🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸 Thank you for watching. So, it is important that you reach out to your guides in a language that both you and them can connect with. If that is Sotho, go for it. If that is isiZulu, go for it. There is no right or wrong ‘langauge’. In terms of candles, you can use any candle colour of your choice, depending on what ‘spirit’ says to you and sometimes what your dreams prompt. Please also see @spirit_essentials_za on Instagram, there is a candle colour meaning post that is saved on the highlights. 😊 It is advisable that you phahla in the early hours of the morning- before you eat or speak to anyone AND ALSO before the sun comes out HOWEVER, always remember that our guides and ancestors have had a human experience and understand some of the limitations we face. So if you cant do it early in the morning, acknowledge that by informing them about why when you do reach out. I hope this helps.
Sawubona, Thokoza, Lesedi -Nokuthula. Ngiyathemba uyaphila? Yes, it is 100% okay ukuphahla ehlane under a tree. In African spirituality, a tree ehlane resembles a custodian. So in many families, it is used to connect. We are even taught that the higher/taller the tree the better. custodian /kʌˈstəʊdɪən/ Learn to pronounce noun a person who has responsibility for taking care of or protecting something. ~internet definition In terms of a candle that refuses ukukhanya, that could mean 1/2 things. 1/1 A clear purpose is not set in terms of your intentions on what you are doing (in your case ukuphahla. So uphahlelani? Ufunani? Ucelani? Uzobuzani? Etc 2/2 Something is not going right (in and/or around you) so leave it, and use everything else besides the candle. This could need you to introspect or in other cases uyohlola. Hope this helps you. ✨
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Sawubona sgegede ngibonge ngencazelo yokuphahla igama lami u sandile waka nhlapo ngingomunye odidekile ngendaba yabadala ngisacela izi number zakho amen
Ngiyabonga for this channel...is language important. Like maternal speak Sotho and paternal is Zulu finding myself praying in Zulu
Much appreciated Nhlanhla some of us are very ignorant about ukuphahla
Thank you for that clarity, I believe there is many of us who needed that
Hi Fantasy, thank you for the feedback. It is humbling my love. 😊❤️
Thank you so much for the guide as I have been very ignorant in communication with my ancestors
Ndizobonga, i followed this steps and nyani i got clarity and ndaboniswa what must I do.
Finally found what i was looking for. Thank you so much.
Hi Simbongile. I am glad to learn that you’ve found a home here with us. Happy landing ❤️
Thank you Nonhlahla, I so needed to hear this.
Kubonga mina Melvin. Stay blessed! ❤️
Thokoza gogo ngicela ukubuza ukuthi after ubuphahla wether endlini noma ehlane, what do you do with the offerings food and drinks do you eat and drink or you don't open? If you home wenzan ngazo and after even if use hlane what should you do? Also with the let's say I'm planning ukuphahla for 3 consecutive days what should I do with the candles get news for the following days or use the same? Since I heard a lot that you should not switch off the candles after ngicela ukwazi?
Thanks a lot God bless you
Thank you, Jabu :)
This makes so much sense. I will use this definitely
Yoh I love u I'm going to do this shem
Love you nami 🥰
Thank you for the clarity Cc.....I really needed it
❤️
Thank you for this video 🕯️🙏makwande nakuwe salukwazi syabonga 👏🏽👏🏽
Kubonga Mina ❤️
Thank you, I have learned so much, I have never had to ukuphahla on my own, always had it done by my grandad but now I live 2 provinces away from home and they always tell me ukuthi ngiphahle
Thank you Sgegede nami bengingazi ngakho
Asbonge❤
Thank so much it brought some clarity I've been longing to hear this really it made it easy for me
Glad it helped
Loud and clear ❤thank you😊
Absolutely love how you broke it down.. Congratulations on your channel babe, you doing a fantastic job
Hi Mrs M. Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate it.
I'm glad I found this channel. Really as today's youth, we're not exposed kakhulu to izinto zamasiko nokuphahla and maybe that is why we are such a lost generation. I'm sure I'm gonna learn a lot from your channel, thank you.
Thank you so much for staying! ❤️
Thank you for this wonderful video. I live in Canada and feel so removed from amasiko ami and I’ve felt so lost. This video and other things that have transpired make me feel like while I’m not home there are ways I can feel closer. Thank you!
Hi Nobukhosi. Thank you for reaching out. I am sooo happy to know that these videos reach people all over the world, but most of all that they help and benefit you in some way or another.
I wish you love, light and fulfillment as you work your way around building a relationship with your guides.
Thokoza. ✨
Sawbona sister Nonhlanhla ngicela ukubaza ukuthi uma ungazi your guiding angel wenza njani. Ngokuphahla ngingacela ukuba bangivezele ogogo na?
Thank you so much for this video
You are so welcome!
I needed this. Thank you so much❤
Thank you so much
Any time
Thank you so much for the massage, siyabonga
You are welcome, Qhama.
Asibonge gogo ngokusicobelela ngolwazi ngokwethonga
Thank you for the clarity mntomdala 🙏🏼 I've been wondering ukuthi kuba inkinga yini if uphahla and you have a plate of fruits as well lapho ophahlela khona..?
❤❤❤Camagu 🙏🏽
Thank you, nkosazane.
Thank you so.much sisi. The last time I involved my father's side on izinto zomsamo, things went VERY wrong. why it doesn't matter on this case. Thanks again.
Hi Brian. I would recommend you speak to your healer about this. A bone reading would assist with explicitly identifying the issue at hand.
Thank you ❤️ for this clarity..
Glad it was helpful!
Danki gogo 🤗ua the best
Thank you! 💫
I'm currently using a yellow and white candle to pray and a glass of water with two coins but never used that water for anything or the coins they've been there since
Ma'am, if I do this process for 3 consecutive days. Do I bathe with the water and the coins on my last day, or keep putting new water and coins each day? And, if I don't go out of the house on that day, can I give the coins away on the next day?
I love the way you speak. Beautiful. 🎉
Thanx sis very much appreciated
Kubonga mina. 🙏🏼
I'm so happy to find this video. I have been doing it all wrong all this time. Ngicela ukubuza ukuba is the water only supposed to be clean? Like can you add isiwasho?
Thanks for info I just need to find out i was raised by stepfather using his surname so do I mention them when I phahla
Thank you,bengingazi ukuthi where to start🙏🙌
Glad I could help, kukhanye.
Thank you very much for this video 🙏🏿 I always phahla that way but I always leave my candles burn till the end, I don't know if that's a good way?🤷🏿♂️ Thokoza 👏🏿
That’s okay. There is no right or wrong way. Do as spirit leads you.
Thanks 4 using international language,not all of us understand isizulu,I hope bonke abogpgo bazo uza translation, at list English,thokpza gogo,
Thank you for the information and clarity...for many days do you phahla? And do you also do consultations?
Thank you sis, i would like to know what are the right times for ukuphahla and how many days should one do that?
Good day Nhlamhla, thanks for sharing your knowledge and understanding in ukuphahla. Will you please guide me in doing this in English as I do not know what to do. I'm raised by white people and I only understand English. What I know is that, my mother is Dlamini, Zizzi, JAMA kaSjadu (Xhosa from Umtata) and my father was Zikode from Warden. What do I say when I phahla because I have been sick, diagnosed with bone marrow cancer. I got a donor and transplant was done in August successfully. But now I have side effects that are no understandable by the doctors and my mother said a mbeleko was never done for me. I decided I want to do that but we need guideline on how to go about this. What to say and how it must be done. My uncle is willing to do it. Please guide me on what to say to my ancestors so I get healed. Thanking you in advance. I am a boy of 32 years now. Kind regards
What do you do with isinefu and where do you thela sona ngoba imali you put inside water right? Where do you thela isinefu?
Very informative video thank you...whats the difference in praying with the coins and leaving them in the water for 3 days then using them to go buy at the shop or street vendors instead of giving it to a stranger?
Hello. The purpose is to get that Thank you. It acts an acknowledgment that your guides have received and heard from you.
Happy to be here 😭❤️😊
Thank you for stopping by, Siphosihle. ✨
Thokoza mntanedlozi siyabonga keep it up kukhanye kubekuhle kubemhlophe..
@@kedibonemashigo4637 Thokoza Gogo Nyoni. I appreciate this. Isandla phezkwe sinye mtomdala. 👏🏻👏🏻
Thokoza gogo😍😍
Thokoza ✨
So gogo what must I do with candles after ukuphahla?
Hi miss NHLAPO ,I got a problem.I really want to do rituals but I don't know who my ancestors are ..what do I do
Thank you so much 🥰
You are welcome sisi. ❤️
Thank you for ukusifundisa🕯️
Pleasure🤍
How do you cleans the area you are using
Thank you for clarity, l wanted to ask can l phahla anytime or there's a specific time to do it
Hi Felicia. Anytime is good. However, I would recommend early morning or late evening when the hustle and bustle of life has subsided. Remember, we all have different limitations and won’t necessarily be able to follow protocol all the time, but the trick is to acknowledge it with your guides usho futhi nokuthi kungani wenza izinto ngendlela ozenzw ngayo.
Thank you for clarifying and I have a question about giving out the coin, my question is if I give someone the coin won't it curse the person or take my dark spirits and bad lucks to himor her?
Hi Sibusiso, thank you for engaging. Remember, the coins are not a sacrifice. They are merely an acknowledgment of your guides and also used to appease them. More than anything, they carry light instead of darkness.
So what do you do with the burnt matchsticks?
Thank you my sister, this video was very helpful and transparent. so my question is, if.ukhuliswa ngu tata ongakuzelanga ubiza eliphi idlozi?
Thanks so much for this gogo. I have 2 questions though. Can i use BB/boxer ugwayi wamakhehla, and also what do i do with the candles i phahlad with. Emakhosini
Thokoza gogo. Yes, ugwayi is one of the tools used for ukuphahla.
The candles, you let them burn aze aphele. Thokoza.
Emakhosini bantabadala
Thank you for the guidance. I am someone who is at the beginning of connecting to my ancestors, I am one of those who were convinced by Christianity that connecting to ancestors is a pagan and evil act.
I am eager to learn, but I didn't get you well where you spoke in your own language. I also did not get it well as to what and how I use the water after finishing communicating to my ancestors.
The coins she said you give them to stranger be it a kid or a begger so as to expect them to say "Thank you," which then signals that our ancestors heard us.
Greetings
I am student and recently found out that I have a calling , what am I supposed to do if I want to if I want to call upon my ancestors in my room and ask them to protect me
Thokoza Michelle. Please ask the person who told you that you have a calling to assist you. Otherwise you will go about things the wrong way trying to gather information from the internet when you are all new to this. 🥹
Alternatively, you are welcome to follow the steps explained on this video as a starting point.
All the best in your journey. 🌸
Can I ask ukuphahla ehlane noma. Ukwenza. Iladi
Thank you. Usithini sona isnuff xa ugqibile ukukhapha?
You can just leave it there for one night and clean it out in the morning. ❤️
Hi there my sister i hope this finds you well
Can i do these rituals at a grave site? 🤔 I don't have any male figure in my life i stay at my grandmother's house that she also got into ngo mshado i don't have a relationship with my father though he's still alive
Won't i compromise myself if i summon my paternal ancestors into my grandmother's house that she into by marriage?
Because as a boy child i grew up being told my father never wanted me, rejected me when my mother was still pregnant with me even forced my mother to drink poison to abort me but by the grace of God i didn't die i was born and it killed her
If u stay at work its possible to phahla there ??
If both my grandparents did not drink and smoke what can I use ?
Water and candles
Thank you so much for this video, ndicela ukubuza uba can I also include crystal stones xa ndiphahla? Can I drink the water instead of bathing or cleaning with it? And can I phahla where I stay full time with the father of my child?
Hi Amanda. I hope you are well. You can add whatever your spirit prompts you to add. Be spirit led.
You are welcome to drink the water after uphahla. I’ve done that myself a few times.
In terms of ukuphahla where you stay with your partner, I don’t have enough context to answer that. However, I can tell you that you DO NOT PHAHLA IN THE SAME ROOM IN WHICH YOU HAVE SEX. This is under every circumstance and not unique to you. ✨
Thank you so much for the information. I would like to know that is there any specific time umntu okufanele aphahle ngaso ebsuku or emini?
Hi there. Anytime is okay but i would recommend before and after sunset. I feel like thats when there is more stillness.
Thokoza when u finished ukuphahla what do you do with the snuf?
Thokoza. Keep it for next time uphahla.
Thank u cc
Cela ukubuza ukuza ngingakwazi yin ukuphahla entabeni?
Hi Mfundo, absolutely!!! ❤️
Manje gogo kumele everyday ukhanyisa ngometshiso ikhandlela nekhandlela uma uphahla nah
please can you explain to me about the person that born a mbethe
Is it ok ukuphahla la ulalakhona no partner wakho ?
Quick question what if u don't know anyone from the father's side how u go about it??
Hi. Use what you have, do what you can.
I once used three coins and I dreamt three gushing wounds on my left rib. Now I know to use two. Also when you pinch the flame and it refused to go out there's something you've missed or they want you to go deeper. Thoklza!
Ok!
Hi ohk mina nguwe sibiya umama ubaba khumalo ngikhuliswa KwaZulu so ngenzanjani la
Makwande, iNkosi namaThongo akho akwandisele ukuphila kanye nokukhanya 👏🏿👏🏿
Ngiyabonga kakhulu, Mondli. Kukhanye nakuwe ngokunjalo bhuti. ✨
Very good, problem is mixing languages,I think you are aware these tapes are watched internationally, if it's English let it be through out
Thank you for the feedback, Elizabeth. I will be sure to remember this for future videos. ❤️
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Thanks Nonhlanhla for sharing
As of me I really didn't
Know anything
About
Ukuphahla but I'll like to know can I do ukuphahla emqashwen
Hi Thabisile. Thank you for reaching out. So emqashweni I would recommend that you first cleanse the space with the water, madubula, spirit and holy ash combo. Mix together uchele ngazo first. Perhaps do this cleansing of the space thing 2 days prior to ukuthi uphahle.
Alternatively, you can just go phahla ehlane because there, you know that your guides are more likely to connect with you without any ‘disturbances’ or negative energy.
Remember, all this is discretionary. Always listen to what spirit says to you. Umoya wakho mawunga vumi, leave it, pray about it and try again at another time.
I hope this helps. ❤️
Thank you for this informative video. However I'd like to ask, if you were conceived from different tribes how do you go about with ukuphahla since cultures are different and things are done differently?
Hi Michelle. Thank you for reaching out. I would recommend that you use the basic step by step guide explained in this video. This is literally the blue-print. Additions are at your discretion. 💫
Thank you so much, this is what i needed to know really, u cool n clearly
Camagu Gogo, can you buy something with the coins after ukuphahla?
Thokoza.
I would not recommend that you do. However, if spirit prompts you to, then go ahead. There is no right or wrong way. 🤗
Thank you sooooo much for this 🕯❤️
Hi Siphokazi. It is an absolute pleasure. ✨
What if you don't know your Father and his family not even a surname or names?
I'm person who like to phahla
Thokoza now when appeasing using Yellow and Blue candles , when lighting them ,I know it has to be the Yellow first ,then Blue . Switching them off do I do that in the same order or the last one to be lit is the first to be pinched off .
Hi Ntando, thank you for sharing your way of doing things. Do you mind sharing with us the reasons why it has to be the yellow candle thats lit first. It is my first time learning of this. Thanks.
Thokoza , I learnt from one of the channels , the order in which the candles should be lit , and that channel broke it down with all candle colors , but I only focused on the ones I use , and then there is Gogo Bathini Mbatha who also explained exactly the colors that I use to pray or to appease ,but none of the channels explain the order to switch the candles off .
What do you do with the sniff you used?
Hi Palesa. You can throw it out when you are done.
Outside or into the bin?
Hey gogo i trust that you are well. I have a question for how many days does one phahla for instance i was thinking of doing it for 3 days and how do i go about with the water and the candles. Do i use the same water and candles for the 3 days or it must be new candles and fresh water everyday ?
Thokoza. Depends on your reasons for ukuphahla. This is when you use discernment. What is spirit saying to you? ☺️
In terms of the candles and water- if you phahla for three days, you use them for all three days.
Candles- on the third day you let it burn till liziphelela.
The water- follow the same process explained in this video.
All the best in your journey. 🤎
What about imphepho
Amakhandlela uwenza njan
Masuphinda uphahla futhi ubeka enye imali kanye namanzi??
You get new ones each time.
Hello sesi I used a book and wrote down everything I wanted to say just in case I don't forget when I did ukuphahla is it wrong or? I did it in the morning and switched off the candles. When I steam can I use the same water to bath with? Is it ok to pour the water into the drain or toilet?
Hello Stoney beer. Thank you for reaching out. It is recommended to write things down so that nyan you dont fluff over your words and you remember precisely what it is you want to speak about. This is especially if you are new to this but as time goes on and you get used to doing it, i would recommend that you truly speak from the heart and be spirit led.
In terms of the water you use for ukufutha, I would recommend that you flush them away at the toilet or via the drain. For me, reusing them to bath with is unrealistic in a sense that you’ve steamed to remove ubumnyama and you use the same ubumnyama that you’ve sweated out to cleanse again? NO!
@@nonhlanhlakhanyanhlapospir2205 I understand it makes much sense I guess I have to pour another water for bathing. Thank you.
@@stoneybeer1647 Hello sister, ngokwakho ukwazi inkolo ne dlozi zihlangana njani?
Can I phahla emqashweni or kumele ngibe sekhaya?
Hi Nolithado. I wouldnt recommend you call your ancestors in others peoples homes/emqashweni. Rather go ehlane or emanzini. However, you are welcome to speak to your healer. They make know how you can go about this.
The problem is that we are in town here, no rivers or other place where I can be alone and people will think I'm applying which craft coz they don't have any idea
So how do you connect with ubaba ongamazi?
Hi there. Please speak to your healer or diviner for a solution. They will be able to assist and advice you accordingly.
Thank you for the clarity ❤️I’m watching this video all the way from Lesotho so I was asking if I have to connect with my ancestors with isizulu or I can just use my language. And again do I strictly have to use white candles only? One more question when is advisable for us to phahla? In the middle of the day or at night
Hi Ratanang… 🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸
Thank you for watching. So, it is important that you reach out to your guides in a language that both you and them can connect with. If that is Sotho, go for it. If that is isiZulu, go for it. There is no right or wrong ‘langauge’.
In terms of candles, you can use any candle colour of your choice, depending on what ‘spirit’ says to you and sometimes what your dreams prompt. Please also see @spirit_essentials_za on Instagram, there is a candle colour meaning post that is saved on the highlights. 😊
It is advisable that you phahla in the early hours of the morning- before you eat or speak to anyone AND ALSO before the sun comes out HOWEVER, always remember that our guides and ancestors have had a human experience and understand some of the limitations we face. So if you cant do it early in the morning, acknowledge that by informing them about why when you do reach out.
I hope this helps.
We now live in an era where nobody will thank you for giving them 2 shiny coins. Is it OK to add more money? Thanks for the much informative video.
Absolutely!
Isilungu kodwa thina abanye asifundanga
Ngiyaxolisa, ngizozama ukujula kwelaka mageba next time ;)
Hi cc amakhandlela konje anjani ???
Hi,,, Is it okay ukuphahla ehlane ngaphansi kwesihlahla and kusuke kwenze njani uma ikhandlela lingafuni ukuvutha
Sawubona, Thokoza, Lesedi -Nokuthula. Ngiyathemba uyaphila?
Yes, it is 100% okay ukuphahla ehlane under a tree. In African spirituality, a tree ehlane resembles a custodian. So in many families, it is used to connect. We are even taught that the higher/taller the tree the better.
custodian
/kʌˈstəʊdɪən/
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noun
a person who has responsibility for taking care of or protecting something.
~internet definition
In terms of a candle that refuses ukukhanya, that could mean 1/2 things.
1/1 A clear purpose is not set in terms of your intentions on what you are doing (in your case ukuphahla. So uphahlelani? Ufunani? Ucelani? Uzobuzani? Etc
2/2 Something is not going right (in and/or around you) so leave it, and use everything else besides the candle. This could need you to introspect or in other cases uyohlola.
Hope this helps you. ✨
@@nonhlanhlakhanyanhlapospir2205 thank you for replying and I understand what you are saying about the candle
I’m only 17 years ,so can I do Ukuphahla alone?
I would recommend that you seek guidance from an elder. ❤️
How to phahla at 00:00
Manje gogo ngoba sihlala sibaningi endlini ngingenza kanjn ngoba angikho ekhaya ngisesilungwini n ngiyafisa ukwenza yonke lento ngike ngikhulume neyidalwa zami