I’m sorry he went through all of that, and I’m glad he was very open about his naïveté… BUT family don show am who dem be time and time again. To go back to put himself in VERY vulnerable positions all by himself, na wa o. He’s lucky he’s still alive.
Please sometimes keep certain things to yourself, let them know you have small money but not too much. Nobody is saying you shouldn’t give back, but frankly you’re giving back to people who gave you the bare minimum so at least help them but restrict yourself. One thing I’ve told myself is if you didn’t treat me well when I didn’t have money please I don’t want you to like me when I get money. Sometimes put sentiments aside they’d hate you for having money, you wouldn’t even be able to invest the money in anything. I understand your yearn for family so even if you tell them certain things, hide most of your accomplishments especially your wages.
Toxic family. Leave them and face your life. These people are using you as a rebound. Abi u no be person? We already pity your circumstances from the beginning. If they continue in your life they will ruin everything. Why are they not transferring their aggression to the God forsaken mother! You are getting their PTSD. I was exhausted listening to your story. Form your own circle of friend as your strength.
This is really sad, sometimes parents trust siblings and other family members to the point that they don’t believe they’re capable of doing anything wrong/bad, even when they can see with their own eyes. Sometimes they’re afraid to be fair because they’re scared of the other parties because the their parties might have more money, resources, opportunities or might have reached a point in their lives where they’re doing well. Now when you start getting money they’d pretend they were mistreating you for your own good. They could have sent you abroad to study with how much you loved school, you would have taken good care of your mother.
I’m sorry he went through all of that, and I’m glad he was very open about his naïveté… BUT family don show am who dem be time and time again. To go back to put himself in VERY vulnerable positions all by himself, na wa o. He’s lucky he’s still alive.
Why are people so wicked to one another like this especially among family. Some family members are just toxic
Please sometimes keep certain things to yourself, let them know you have small money but not too much. Nobody is saying you shouldn’t give back, but frankly you’re giving back to people who gave you the bare minimum so at least help them but restrict yourself. One thing I’ve told myself is if you didn’t treat me well when I didn’t have money please I don’t want you to like me when I get money. Sometimes put sentiments aside they’d hate you for having money, you wouldn’t even be able to invest the money in anything. I understand your yearn for family so even if you tell them certain things, hide most of your accomplishments especially your wages.
Toxic family. Leave them and face your life. These people are using you as a rebound. Abi u no be person? We already pity your circumstances from the beginning. If they continue in your life they will ruin everything. Why are they not transferring their aggression to the God forsaken mother! You are getting their PTSD. I was exhausted listening to your story. Form your own circle of friend as your strength.
This is really sad, sometimes parents trust siblings and other family members to the point that they don’t believe they’re capable of doing anything wrong/bad, even when they can see with their own eyes. Sometimes they’re afraid to be fair because they’re scared of the other parties because the their parties might have more money, resources, opportunities or might have reached a point in their lives where they’re doing well. Now when you start getting money they’d pretend they were mistreating you for your own good. They could have sent you abroad to study with how much you loved school, you would have taken good care of your mother.
He should leave that family, cut off all ties, travel far away and build a new family. He is too emotional to be a man
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💔❤️🩹 are you sure this woman birthed you?
WOW 😢😮
Daddy freeze are you a Spanish or Nigerian guy?. U have physical features resembling that of Spanish guy
Stop smoking weed....😂
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