I spent almost 10 years picking up my grandson from school…although I’m in my 70,s…we went to the park and ran and played for 3 hours…then they moved…I can feel him slipping away…I’m sure I will be forgotten by him…he was a big part of my life…..dad died when I was 9…mom had Alzheimer’s…my brother who just passed thanksgiving day last year, after being in a vet’s home since 1972 from a motorcycle accident…lost his voice.. but was always happy to see me …..now I’m getting close to the rainbow bridge….god…I miss my pets….bless you all!
My grandparents passed almost 20 years ago. Their memories are still strong even though they are long gone. One set of grandparents lived 4 hrs away, & I only got a chance to see them a few times/year. The other lived 30 min. away & I got to see them more often. My life today is filled with fond memories of my time with them & I don't try to "hold on," even more I've "let them go" into the great beyond. Most importantly I've worked hard to develop a relationship with my SELF, this is the only thing that matters, & when everyone is gone, we all will be forgotten, you're immortal spirit & consciousness carries on to the next realm & will carry you through this life & provide everything you feel like you're missing from the lost connection to your family. This is where the eternal pot of gold is at. Find a way that resonates with you to establish & strengthen this connection with in. God speed my friend!
You're not stupid. Don't say that bro. I lost everything, every fu@king thing under the sun at 65. Final nail to the coffin, estrangment from my son. Life goes on, stay fit & health. I still crossfit 😆 Life is good
@ToFightTheGoodFight, I am 58 and have been estranged from my son (now 21) for 11 years, courtesy of his mom (when we split up). She died at 55 due to alcoholism. I'm with a new woman now and I am in great shape and we just moved into a new home two weeks ago. Life goes on. Embrace it and have gratitude for the gifts we have received.
Every one will lose something in this life.. Many things…every thing is on rental from the Gods and one day it will be returned. Bearing loss with grace is a gift!
You are far from being poor, with a wife that stick by you through thick and thin. My friend you have found a treasure no amount of money can buy. It’s very rare to find a true life partnership. Food in your belly a roof over head and wife by your side your so fortunate and wish you all the happiness 🙏
"I'll be dead in 20 years... My grandkids will know very little about me." More reasons to live for what makes us happy. It will all be over sooner than we think.
When I had a small restaurant, I did inventory every morning and could tell within 20 minutes to within a few dollars if my help were stealing. It was a fast-food hot dog and sandwich joint. I counted the paper cups, bowls, and other serving materials. People steal and sometimes they justify it when they see you making a lot of money. You must be the one to sign every check for all those businesses and go over all the invoices and ferret out the companies that are doing kickbacks. You have got know your prices. You were too trusting, but you learned a valuable lesson. Trust no one and verify everything. Enjoy life. I too was once a millionaire by age 45, I retired and enjoyed it while I still had my health. I am now 75 and still healthy because I eliminated stress at my retirement age and lived frugally but sensibly. I enjoyed your videos, we can all learn from others.
I have a friend who owned a coffee shop. After years of being profitable, he stopped working there so much (enjoying life). Then his profits started disappearing. I told him to spend 1 week there (long hours) in the shop and see if the money reappears. He wasn't willing to do it. He went bankrupt. I have had my own business, doing everything myself, for 30 years. One thing I know is that every dollar ended up in my pocket. No disagreements with partners either.
@pfjsuyehf The late Joan Rivers once visited one of her favorite restaurant owners in the hospital and quipped, " You can't just lie there. You have to get back to work. Your staff is robbing you blind!"
Surprised he made it thus far and Enlightenment trumps $Jingle$. However, we all must remember> "Trust No One" Benjamin Franklin, Versailles France, 1783.
I honestly think time is the new currency. Any so called mistake is part of your experience of life but you are alive and have the most valuable currency.
Patrick I AM SMALL TIME RESTAURANT GUY IN CHICAGO I WAS BORN TO BE A CHEF. BORN IN ITALY CAME TO USA IN 1978 AT AGE OF 7 BEEN IN HOSPITALITY BUSINESS FOR ALMOST 25 YEARS. iF YOU WANT TO OPEN ANOTHER RESTAURANT LET ME KNOW I WILL FUND IT. I HAVE SIMILAR STORIES, NAMES YOU MENTION ARE FAMILIAR TO ME. KEEP THE FAITH AND STAY WELL.
This is almost the same as what has happened to me... I didn't see my trusted staff and close friends taking me down... i lost over 75% of my wealth in the end during 2018 till 2020 to these same people I helped succeed... But in the end... I am much happier after 3 years of shock and depression... I have no debt I have no staff I have no worries I live in peace now
I once ran a restaurant and my chef took the entire crew to his new restaurant he was putting together. The one person that left that surprised me was Jack the Dishwasher. A month earlier Jack got paid, went out and lost his wallet and his entire paycheck that I cashed for him before he left the building. I thought we were at least friendly. I heard about it and I gave him another paycheck, because I felt bad for him and I just thought it was the right thing to do. Well, when Jack came to get his last paycheck after leaving me standing alone to run a full size restaurant I said "I thought we were friends?" Jack said "you thought wrong." Stone cold face, filled with hate I guess. It was pretty shocking. That said, I didn't let it stop me from trying to help people if I'm able. So I got that going for me.
I met a guy in Florida years ago worth 60 million one time lost it all he was living in a trailer he was going fishing he told me he was never as happy cause all he ever wanted to do was fish and he had a smile on his face Irish morhers are great.❤
The humility in this mans eyes astounds me, very few people would go on public record to share the downfall of their empire, but Patrick did and i applaud him for it... he's 100% right, it doesn't matter...he's still Patrick, the guy with a heart of gold and the people who took him down will feel the sting of it all when karma comes a knocking! Patrick stikes me as the type of guy i'd love to have a coffee with.
Yes. Not only do evil people outnumber good people, but their eagerness and ability to do harm often exceeds that of good people to do good. A good person might buy you lunch, give you an encouraging word, or even lend you money for a down payment on a used car. Meanwhile, bad people will cheat you in business, as this video shows. When you help them, they stab you in the back and grab your money.
I just found your channel. I'm a Chicago guy. It's amazing the scumbags you come across in this world. You really can't trust anyone anymore. Trust but verify. I'm disabled and I had a neighbor who went to Loyola ahead of me and screwed me on a real estate deal. I was always saying "I'm disabled they would do that to me" they sure did so don't blame yourself. I am ready to cash it in and start living the good life like you down in sunny South Florida. Thanks for bearing your soul. Just know you're not alone. All the best, Jim
Wish i had a mentor like you! I quit my job a few years ago and bought a franchise and bought into another business that was supposed to be essentially zero risk. Lost everything I've worked for in a few short years. Still trying to figure out what I did wrong or what i did to deserve this in life. Ive still got another 40ish years to figure it out, God willing.
Just make you feel good, My good man. I had a fraction of you wealth. Someone paid me a visit. Make long story short. It was a ugly awaking at 42 years of age. Almost died. Now just turned 67 ....Live in Hawaii now 24+ years. There no looking back in life, no one taking anything with them. Find peace in Life. Its everything!!! My brother for a different mother! Stay well live long.....In Yiddish it's l'chaim
I started losing it all at 36. I had a big general contracting company. My wife and I have gone from 5 star restaurants to living in a camper at an RV place . Covid put the final spike in our lives as well.
When my husband and I were younger, we owned a successful restaurant, we had a partner and all of a sudden we had to keep putting money into it, which didn’t make sense but when we looked at the books. The partner was embezzling money. It was a hard lesson to learn. It happens a lot. Always follow the money But especially with partners you think you can trust.
Any money at all, they can smell from miles away. How practiced they are at their the appearance of being truthful. So maybe psychologists are right and it's a type of mental illness and we just don't know a person has it. But I think they know. And that's the really creepy part.
Same thing happened to me My wife filed for divorce in the middle of a lot of crap and so-called friends jumped in to try to take everything Thank god for my present wife and good friends for standing with me I was suicidal and not sleeping for sometime Don’t even want to remember it was s o horrible
It makes me so freaking sad to see good men being taken by thieves .... I am happy to hear that you landed in a good place and you seem happy . THAT is the best revenge Patrick
Never trust anyone with money in a cash business. They make security cameras for that purpose. I had a T-shirt business with great employees but I had cameras to verify that they were not stealing.
I wish it was that simple (cameras) I was in the surveillance (design and installation etc etc) business for 30 plus years and cameras are only good to catch the dummies who steal from you. :)
Keep the videos coming man. Raw honesty and life experience are always welcome, and it's a good starting point for a podcast. I hope you keep turning your life around in your own terms, as I've been doing for the last 3 years. God bless.
My Grandfather lived to be 96 he smoked cigars ! At Bacon and Eggs every day! He walked all over the place! He would say becarful of the doors you open in life because sometimes you can't close them!
I've lost big along the way myself, trusting.., and as painful as it is at the time, I learned, got stronger, and came out the other side better, whether it be my attitude towards material goods, opportunities, relationships etc.. I'm actually being sued currently by a homeless man I took in, who had no id or ss card, gave him a place to live, clothes, a job, cash under the table, paid for his surgeries, it goes on and on....well... he left in the middle of the night and sued me for $250k in back pay citing overtime labor laws... haha. Feels like no good deed goes unpunished sometimes BUT I press on, I learn yet again, and got closer to Christ in the process, I'm going to be fine and so are you brother. Thank you for making this video to share your story, we are not alone, there is always someone who has it worse than us. Live on and Live strong my brother.
I’m sorry you tried to help another human being and that terrible human being took advantage of you like that. But yes, these things do bring us closer to Christ and never forget that you did the Godly thing. God bless you. 🙏🏻
You know, you seem like a genuinely kind person, and I believe that everything in life happens for a reason. Think about all the valuable lessons and experience you’ve gained from your challenges. There are good people out there. I, too, once lost faith in humanity, but one day I stumbled upon videos of people across the globe rescuing animals, and it restored my hope. Yes, there are good souls in this world, and I believe you're one of them. I wish you nothing but peace and love in your life.
Patrick is a good guy!! wow this is unbelievable I met him when I was very young. my dad work for him for so many years. My dad is so great full by working for him and for learning so much about him and all his recipes. I want to Thank you Patrick for supporting my dad I know you remember him “RUDY” many many yrs ago wish we can see you soon in Chicago will love to see you again!! Once again thank you Patrick! Wish the best in life! MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
About the manager you fired...Nobody will screw you like friends or family when it comes to money. I now ask myself if the amount of money at stake will change the other person's life and if it will I now refuse to get involved. Liked and subscribed after seeing this video.
My son is named after my granddad (his great grand dad). When he is old enough, I'll tell him all about his namesake. He never had a million dollars , but he grew up in the great depression, and worked hard, and was careful with money. He was never in debt, and was always financially secure. I say all of this to say at the end of the day, it isn't about how much money you do or don't have, but it also isn't about how many days you spent in the sun, at the beach (i love those days myself). It's about who you are, and how you treat people, and your attitude towards God. That's all there is at the end, you can't take it with you regardless.
Be careful here. Publicly defaming your old business partners could result in a civil lawsuit. Even if it's all true! It's smart to precede any negative comments about others with "In my opinion... ." That way it's not a defaming "statement of fact" that might wind up in court. I know it feels good to call them out, but always ask yourself, "What do I have to gain, and what do I have to lose?"
Don't feel bad , I had restaurants, and 5 other businesses, tanning, smoke shops, but theft and deception is horrible, even on my first father's day I caught my best staff ripping me off, I'm still in Bartlett IL stay strong, I'm opening a sober living facility now,
I was on my death bed in my early 30's, I'm 39 now. Surgeons saved my life after multiple operations. Never viewed life the same after that. (for the better). My bank account never came to visit me in the hospital. My family and friends did though. Two of the most valuable commodities I learned in my own experience: - Relationships - Time *The only reason I go for certain money anymore is to purchase more of my time. Go hard, pedal down, don't wait to do stuff. There's never a "right time" for anything. Cheers
I think It takes a very special person to despite being robbed by your business partners. You still went out of your way to help your chef get that same business up and running. You're truly a selfless person good things are coming your way, much respect.
Never thought your story was bs for a second. You come across as very credible. One thought I had is that yours is like the many stories of musicians who are focused on something deeper and get mauled by venal managers. Like what happened to The Beatles and Brian Wilson. But as you say, "Who's winning really? They're in business and I'm at the beach". Plus you have a good marital relationship and have grown kids. Also you notice nature, no corrupt businessman would see that - it's not worth money.
I opened a business location in Houston and the employees robbed me blind and had to close it after a year and a half. Yes it sucks to be stolen from but the fault lies on me because I didn't have a good manager in place. It's when I sold the business and retired that I started enjoying life.
If you want to make a million in the restaurant business.... start with 2 million. Im sure you can attest to that old saying. Good luck w/ your new pursuits.
It’s hard to come to the realisation that low life people like this exist… I learnt the hard way too. People like us are always wanting to look for the good in people and try to help them.. but they use our kindness against us.. Sad truth.
Patrick, I am sorry for your losses. You seem like a loyal, hard working good person. Thank you for sharing your story. It gives all of us a warning that you can't always trust the people you think you really know and especially when it involves a lot of money.
1987? Had simply ramped up your buying during the crash and stayed consistent you’d be swimming in money right now. You let your emotions get the best of you.
Hold your head up. We are here to cheer you on. I am you age and have to work like a slave every day to make 100. Give me some inspiration so i don't drive my truck off the road tomorrow. I can barely walk.
Thanks for sharing your story. I've had my fair share of losses from being lied to, cheated, and swindled out of money and deals. We who are trusting are the ones that pay the price. No good deed goes unpunished, right? Looking forward to getting to see more of your vlogs - you could come back easily if you wanted to - you just don't want to!
I’m just discovering you! Your amazing ! As I’m pushing 62 I feel you about the drinking I spent my time in Florida when it was cheap and fun the 90’s I’m lucky to be alive. As I left 17 years ago. Thank you for sharing 🇨🇦
This video started sounded egotistical but changed to reality and coming back to what’s important our peace of mind and the simple things in life. You a nice man actually and seems helped a lot of people out throughout your life and your kindness got taken advantage of. God bless
Thanks for your honesty! And don't talk about yourself like that, about being stupid. You were just naive to the evil in this world, probably because you were a decent dude.
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Wow, amazing story. I guess the lesson in all of this is, Trust but VERIFY.
yes absolutely. watch them like a hawk, get independent audits, etc etc. It's such a drag, and part of the trouble also is that we give ourselves a psychological reward for being trusting, but never take your eye off the ball.
I feel for you bro being a small business man. You can't trust too many people in any business. I've been burnt before and ultimately it was my fault because i put too much trust in the wrong people.
Hi Patrick, I'm really enjoying your story. Your character is what pulled you through it all. I'm an ex chef/ restaurateur. Had a place in Australia for 18 years. Now living alone in Thailand. Estranged from my sister, and my dad's passed. Success isn't all it's cracked up to be. I'm still in my 50s but now yearning purpose and friends. Best time of my life was carefree living and working in sailing yachts in the States 30 years ago with a small group of friends.
Your an amazing man! Don't let the past and evil ppl take the future! I'm trying to do this myself... I lost EVERYTHING at 38 after working very hard rising for 15 yrs at a company in the management ranks as a single mom with no support to give my son a stable home and all the love I could. Now I'm trying to find my way again! I'm so glad your at peace and happy again! 1❤
Love stories like this! Sorry to hear about what happened but thanks for the transparency. You seem like an awesome business person to work with and for.
I'm glad that you were able to put all of that behind you and to be able to enjoy the life you have now with your loving wife. I wish you both all the best! 😊
Well, I do stand 100% behind your story you went through as business man, I was 21 years ago in a similar position. Do recognise much what you said, it is no crime at all to make this public.
Most important you have your health and your loving wife and that your alive.. life is short enjoy my man. You did alot of great things that alot people cant accomplish.
66 here and found the greatest thing that happened to me is my wife. The best pleasures are traveling and seeing my great niece and nephews. Life has gone by incredibly fast. I’m never hesitant to tell someone I love them.
I'm so sorry that you were taken advantage of. I've heard way too many of these stories where someone had a lot of money and was taken advantage of by everyone around them. I pray that the rest of your life is happy and successful, and that no one takes advantage of you again.
Amazing story. Restaurants are not for the faint hearted. We just got booted with 3 weeks notice. Building out from scratch in SRB - on to better things. Best wishes
I'm about your age, and nearly same shit show story of trusting staff that would never steal from yah. When you go through covid, theft, deception of people that you cared about but it wasn't reciprocal it puts your soul in a deep depression. 5 years and I'm still in business not sure how I climbed out but it happened I had to stay in cause the books and records were so bad I didn't know what I had to sell or even pay my taxes. I bring all this up because I just watched a complete stranger walking down the beach talking about my life, my exact thoughts, like living 20 years and out, just like watching a short movie of my life and what I have been thinking. You could travel around the country talking to what has to be thousands of business owners that the same things have happened to them. Great post for many reasons for sure..
Same here, its like he knows my entire life, I'm just not in the restaurant business. Great clarity. I always tell my kids that you learn more from people who have failed than from people who have succeeded. In this case it is most definitely true. And yes, the harsh reality is that even your closest friends will end up forgetting about you.
Life is precious thanks for the motivational video, needed it today. While nothing relative to you, I've made the most money I've ever made in a year and I feel the most empty. God Bless.
What a beautiful man. Thank you for sharing and your honesty. You are not alone! My husband and I made some big financial mistakes too. Seems it is all part of the journey. We r both in our early 60's. Bless you brother.
I did electrical contract work for a Jewish bar owner years ago. He never trusted his employees at all. He installed cameras everywhere to watch his employees, because they were stealing. I could see he was a good business man.
exactly, avail yourself of ALL the tools that are legally available to you to make sure nobody steals from your business. Its the same as putting locks on your house!
I'm in my early fifties. I still remember my grandparents. And the ones that passed that I never knew, I ask about them and appreciate them more since I've gotten older.
i just knew you from this video,and just subscribed cuz your video is very informative to me. REMEMBER " Health is Wealth " you are still winning your health at this age and you won your peace.....sending love and support from Morocco Africa.
My staff and some relatives have caused a lot of financial damage to me . Relatives, more or less i have gotten rid of , the staff is currently reduced but still causing damage . I have kept them around because of some personal reasons but in a year or so they will be greatly reduced . Gotta run things tight and have the most minimal of ppl around you and most minimal of things around you .
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I spent almost 10 years picking up my grandson from school…although I’m in my 70,s…we went to the park and ran and played for 3 hours…then they moved…I can feel him slipping away…I’m sure I will be forgotten by him…he was a big part of my life…..dad died when I was 9…mom had Alzheimer’s…my brother who just passed thanksgiving day last year, after being in a vet’s home since 1972 from a motorcycle accident…lost his voice.. but was always happy to see me …..now I’m getting close to the rainbow bridge….god…I miss my pets….bless you all!
God bless you Sir
My grandparents passed almost 20 years ago. Their memories are still strong even though they are long gone. One set of grandparents lived 4 hrs away, & I only got a chance to see them a few times/year. The other lived 30 min. away & I got to see them more often. My life today is filled with fond memories of my time with them & I don't try to "hold on," even more I've "let them go" into the great beyond. Most importantly I've worked hard to develop a relationship with my SELF, this is the only thing that matters, & when everyone is gone, we all will be forgotten, you're immortal spirit & consciousness carries on to the next realm & will carry you through this life & provide everything you feel like you're missing from the lost connection to your family. This is where the eternal pot of gold is at. Find a way that resonates with you to establish & strengthen this connection with in. God speed my friend!
God bless you man. Sending love from Asia
You GO out in the Public and Bless deserving people with your presence as a Beacon of Hope & Happiness
Call him.❤
You're not stupid. Don't say that bro. I lost everything, every fu@king thing under the sun at 65. Final nail to the coffin, estrangment from my son. Life goes on, stay fit & health. I still crossfit 😆 Life is good
@@ToFightTheGoodFight but you look great after all!God bless!
@ToFightTheGoodFight, I am 58 and have been estranged from my son (now 21) for 11 years, courtesy of his mom (when we split up). She died at 55 due to alcoholism.
I'm with a new woman now and I am in great shape and we just moved into a new home two weeks ago.
Life goes on. Embrace it and have gratitude for the gifts we have received.
How are you coping up sir ? What do you do for a living ?
Sorry to hear about those losses.
Every one will lose something in this life.. Many things…every thing is on rental from the Gods and one day it will be returned. Bearing loss with grace is a gift!
You are far from being poor, with a wife that stick by you through thick and thin. My friend you have found a treasure no amount of money can buy. It’s very rare to find a true life partnership. Food in your belly a roof over head and wife by your side your so fortunate and wish you all the happiness 🙏
💯so true!True love of one man,woman is like winning a millions on a lottery!God bless!
Some people are so poor, all they have is money.
And his two sons and granddaughter
@@johnlong6197 thank you for your kind words. There is such a thing as true love…
"I'll be dead in 20 years... My grandkids will know very little about me."
More reasons to live for what makes us happy. It will all be over sooner than we think.
Very selfish
@@razadaza9651 Shut up fool. You're already forgotten and the money you left will already be spent when you're rotting.
When I had a small restaurant, I did inventory every morning and could tell within 20 minutes to within a few dollars if my help were stealing. It was a fast-food hot dog and sandwich joint. I counted the paper cups, bowls, and other serving materials. People steal and sometimes they justify it when they see you making a lot of money. You must be the one to sign every check for all those businesses and go over all the invoices and ferret out the companies that are doing kickbacks. You have got know your prices. You were too trusting, but you learned a valuable lesson. Trust no one and verify everything. Enjoy life. I too was once a millionaire by age 45, I retired and enjoyed it while I still had my health. I am now 75 and still healthy because I eliminated stress at my retirement age and lived frugally but sensibly. I enjoyed your videos, we can all learn from others.
I'm 75 and it took me a long time to realize no one can be trusted.
I learned this lesson at 18.
You have a sad outlook on life. Many, many people are trustworthy.
Absolutely right ❤ in God we trust 🙏 amen
Yup
@@debbielockhart7762- not as many as you think. When push comes to shove, very very few people are honorable.
I have a friend who owned a coffee shop. After years of being profitable, he stopped working there so much (enjoying life). Then his profits started disappearing. I told him to spend 1 week there (long hours) in the shop and see if the money reappears. He wasn't willing to do it. He went bankrupt.
I have had my own business, doing everything myself, for 30 years. One thing I know is that every dollar ended up in my pocket. No disagreements with partners either.
@pfjsuyehf The late Joan Rivers once visited one of her favorite restaurant owners in the hospital and quipped, " You can't just lie there. You have to get back to work. Your staff is robbing you blind!"
you can always make more money but you can't get time back. Did you had a life when you were doing everything yourself for 30 years?
This man has found enlightenment. Happy for him. I can tell, he’s a great Dude. Wish him many years of good health & happiness in his daily life.
It is funny, because the best defense is to go with the flow, even when terrible things happen to you.
Agreed!
Well said. The dude abideth.
Surprised he made it thus far and Enlightenment trumps $Jingle$. However, we all must remember> "Trust No One" Benjamin Franklin, Versailles France, 1783.
I honestly think time is the new currency. Any so called mistake is part of your experience of life but you are alive and have the most valuable currency.
Patrick I AM SMALL TIME RESTAURANT GUY IN CHICAGO I WAS BORN TO BE A CHEF. BORN IN ITALY CAME TO USA IN 1978 AT AGE OF 7 BEEN IN HOSPITALITY BUSINESS FOR ALMOST 25 YEARS. iF YOU WANT TO OPEN ANOTHER RESTAURANT LET ME KNOW I WILL FUND IT. I HAVE SIMILAR STORIES, NAMES YOU MENTION ARE FAMILIAR TO ME. KEEP THE FAITH AND STAY WELL.
Takes a lot of balls to open up about this -subscribed
Went from making $600k to nothing, to loosing $$ with lines out the door😂
This is almost the same as what has happened to me...
I didn't see my trusted staff and close friends taking me down... i lost over 75% of my wealth in the end during 2018 till 2020 to these same people I helped succeed...
But in the end...
I am much happier after 3 years of shock and depression...
I have no debt
I have no staff
I have no worries
I live in peace now
Yeesss!
its so crazy how the choice to be an entrepreneur was supposed to be about freedom and it can just take you hostage!
I once ran a restaurant and my chef took the entire crew to his new restaurant he was putting together. The one person that left that surprised me was Jack the Dishwasher. A month earlier Jack got paid, went out and lost his wallet and his entire paycheck that I cashed for him before he left the building. I thought we were at least friendly. I heard about it and I gave him another paycheck, because I felt bad for him and I just thought it was the right thing to do. Well, when Jack came to get his last paycheck after leaving me standing alone to run a full size restaurant I said "I thought we were friends?" Jack said "you thought wrong." Stone cold face, filled with hate I guess. It was pretty shocking. That said, I didn't let it stop me from trying to help people if I'm able. So I got that going for me.
Wow. Sorry that happened, but glad you kept your great attitude towards people.
Blessing blessing 🇨🇦💙🇺🇸
So, what happened to your restaurant and his new restaurant?
Stay the person you are. God be with you. Leave the trash in the past.
I met a guy in Florida years ago worth 60 million one time lost it all he was living in a trailer he was going fishing he told me he was never as happy cause all he ever wanted to do was fish and he had a smile on his face Irish morhers are great.❤
Wow. bet he had one heck of a story.
Snook fishing in Florida is an addiction..I Know.
I think about my dad nearly every day, I still love him as much today as the day he passed.
Just be kind you lot !
The humility in this mans eyes astounds me, very few people would go on public record to share the downfall of their empire, but Patrick did and i applaud him for it... he's 100% right, it doesn't matter...he's still Patrick, the guy with a heart of gold and the people who took him down will feel the sting of it all when karma comes a knocking! Patrick stikes me as the type of guy i'd love to have a coffee with.
For every kind giver, there's 100 cold hearted takers. Sad truth... Thanks for sharing your story and I'm glad you are enjoying what truly matters!❤
Yes. Not only do evil people outnumber good people, but their eagerness and ability to do harm often exceeds that of good people to do good. A good person might buy you lunch, give you an encouraging word, or even lend you money for a down payment on a used car. Meanwhile, bad people will cheat you in business, as this video shows. When you help them, they stab you in the back and grab your money.
Betrayal is the worst. You were NOT stupid. You projected your qualities onto them.
A male picks a wife because of our sex drive. Can be a big mistake.
I just found your channel. I'm a Chicago guy. It's amazing the scumbags you come across in this world. You really can't trust anyone anymore. Trust but verify. I'm disabled and I had a neighbor who went to Loyola ahead of me and screwed me on a real estate deal. I was always saying "I'm disabled they would do that to me" they sure did so don't blame yourself. I am ready to cash it in and start living the good life like you down in sunny South Florida. Thanks for bearing your soul. Just know you're not alone. All the best, Jim
You wanna flood real bad
This genltmen lost 17 millions but he never loose his soul, great guy with some stories shared that they don't teach in university. Subbed
Wish i had a mentor like you! I quit my job a few years ago and bought a franchise and bought into another business that was supposed to be essentially zero risk. Lost everything I've worked for in a few short years. Still trying to figure out what I did wrong or what i did to deserve this in life. Ive still got another 40ish years to figure it out, God willing.
Get back to a job .
Just make you feel good, My good man. I had a fraction of you wealth. Someone paid me a visit. Make long story short. It was a ugly awaking at 42 years of age. Almost died.
Now just turned 67 ....Live in Hawaii now 24+ years. There no looking back in life, no one taking anything with them. Find peace in Life. Its everything!!! My brother for a different mother!
Stay well live long.....In Yiddish it's l'chaim
Don't worry - Most men are only one argument away from losing it all.
much wisdom in these comments!!
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@@RandomButBeautifulthat comment smacked a wake up in me
I started losing it all at 36. I had a big general contracting company. My wife and I have gone from 5 star restaurants to living in a camper at an RV place . Covid put the final spike in our lives as well.
36 is so young. Hope you bounce back!!
Man when it comes to money and sex, you can't trust hardly anyone, and that includes friends and family. I learned that lesson a few times lol
That’s right! Instincts are difficult to control for most people.
Never do Sex with friends forget about it...... you end up losing the friendship.... and never trust on girls saying loves you............
All relationships are simply personal investments. Everybody is in it for their own personal gain. Relationships are not charities.
When my husband and I were younger, we owned a successful restaurant, we had a partner and all of a sudden we had to keep putting money into it, which didn’t make sense but when we looked at the books. The partner was embezzling money. It was a hard lesson to learn. It happens a lot. Always follow the money But especially with partners you think you can trust.
Any money at all, they can smell from miles away. How practiced they are at their the appearance of being truthful. So maybe psychologists are right and it's a type of mental illness and we just don't know a person has it. But I think they know. And that's the really creepy part.
The trust you place in them becomes a weapon they use on you.
Yes it’s called sociopathy or psychopathy
"Who won? I'm at the beach. It's going great here." AHAHAH truth.
How people treat you is their Karma.
How you react is yours!
Dharma?
Same thing happened to me My wife filed for divorce in the middle of a lot of crap and so-called friends jumped in to try to take everything Thank god for my present wife and good friends for standing with me I was suicidal and not sleeping for sometime Don’t even want to remember it was s o horrible
Never pay someone before their work is done. It's amazing how fast their motivation drops once they get the check! Sudden emergencies, gotta go, etc.
Best advice I ever heard,,,,
It makes me so freaking sad to see good men being taken by thieves .... I am happy to hear that you landed in a good place and you seem happy . THAT is the best revenge Patrick
When we wake up and realize, what freedom is all about,GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER
Never trust anyone with money in a cash business. They make security cameras for that purpose. I had a T-shirt business with great employees but I had cameras to verify that they were not stealing.
People have to be watched. When people are not watched, they just do whatever they want.
I wish it was that simple (cameras) I was in the surveillance (design and installation etc etc) business for 30 plus years and cameras are only good to catch the dummies who steal from you. :)
I have had business stolen and millions stolen as well. What I find interesting they all lost it all. Everything they stole.
What comes around goes around...
Karma
Keep the videos coming man.
Raw honesty and life experience are always welcome, and it's a good starting point for a podcast.
I hope you keep turning your life around in your own terms, as I've been doing for the last 3 years.
God bless.
My Grandfather lived to be 96 he smoked cigars ! At Bacon and Eggs every day! He walked all over the place! He would say becarful of the doors you open in life because sometimes you can't close them!
Learn his wisdom eggs and beacon is a proper human food
Nice story, thnx for posting.
I've lost big along the way myself, trusting.., and as painful as it is at the time, I learned, got stronger, and came out the other side better, whether it be my attitude towards material goods, opportunities, relationships etc.. I'm actually being sued currently by a homeless man I took in, who had no id or ss card, gave him a place to live, clothes, a job, cash under the table, paid for his surgeries, it goes on and on....well... he left in the middle of the night and sued me for $250k in back pay citing overtime labor laws... haha. Feels like no good deed goes unpunished sometimes BUT I press on, I learn yet again, and got closer to Christ in the process, I'm going to be fine and so are you brother. Thank you for making this video to share your story, we are not alone, there is always someone who has it worse than us. Live on and Live strong my brother.
Jesus says don't play on the freeway... but doesn't stop you. Jesus didn't care about the bum... why did you?
@@kwimms- because he was trying to be a good human being. That’s on the bum; not on him.
I’m sorry you tried to help another human being and that terrible human being took advantage of you like that. But yes, these things do bring us closer to Christ and never forget that you did the Godly thing. God bless you. 🙏🏻
Greatest lesson about life ever. Love the peace you have found. And the reality.
You know, you seem like a genuinely kind person, and I believe that everything in life happens for a reason. Think about all the valuable lessons and experience you’ve gained from your challenges. There are good people out there. I, too, once lost faith in humanity, but one day I stumbled upon videos of people across the globe rescuing animals, and it restored my hope. Yes, there are good souls in this world, and I believe you're one of them. I wish you nothing but peace and love in your life.
Patrick is a good guy!! wow this is unbelievable I met him when I was very young. my dad work for him for so many years.
My dad is so great full by working for him and for learning so much about him and all his recipes. I want to Thank you Patrick for supporting my dad I know you remember him “RUDY” many many yrs ago wish we can see you soon in Chicago will love to see you again!! Once again thank you Patrick! Wish the best in life! MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
About the manager you fired...Nobody will screw you like friends or family when it comes to money. I now ask myself if the amount of money at stake will change the other person's life and if it will I now refuse to get involved. Liked and subscribed after seeing this video.
Patrick remember Karma is a bitch. You are a good guy and I wish you and Mary only good things from now on.
Facts.
My son is named after my granddad (his great grand dad). When he is old enough, I'll tell him all about his namesake. He never had a million dollars , but he grew up in the great depression, and worked hard, and was careful with money. He was never in debt, and was always financially secure.
I say all of this to say at the end of the day, it isn't about how much money you do or don't have, but it also isn't about how many days you spent in the sun, at the beach (i love those days myself). It's about who you are, and how you treat people, and your attitude towards God. That's all there is at the end, you can't take it with you regardless.
Be careful here. Publicly defaming your old business partners could result in a civil lawsuit. Even if it's all true!
It's smart to precede any negative comments about others with "In my opinion... ."
That way it's not a defaming "statement of fact" that might wind up in court.
I know it feels good to call them out, but always ask yourself, "What do I have to gain, and what do I have to lose?"
This is why I invest in mcdonalds instead of opening a restaurant. Patrick's honest opinion is refreshing.
Yes, it's a great stock. It will be here a 100 years from now.
Every day is a gift - wise words indeed
Don't feel bad , I had restaurants, and 5 other businesses, tanning, smoke shops, but theft and deception is horrible, even on my first father's day I caught my best staff ripping me off, I'm still in Bartlett IL stay strong, I'm opening a sober living facility now,
Patricks dream to open a sober living- rehab… maybe 1 day!?
@@MaryONeil-ks5me would be excellent...scratch that. will be excellent!
I understand the feeling. The same thing happened to my dad. He was able to rebuild after the loss of his business.
Are you just blaming other factors than yourself for failed business’s? Think more pragmatically here and be honest…
Health is wealth
I was on my death bed in my early 30's, I'm 39 now. Surgeons saved my life after multiple operations.
Never viewed life the same after that. (for the better).
My bank account never came to visit me in the hospital. My family and friends did though.
Two of the most valuable commodities I learned in my own experience:
- Relationships
- Time
*The only reason I go for certain money anymore is to purchase more of my time.
Go hard, pedal down, don't wait to do stuff. There's never a "right time" for anything.
Cheers
Glad you’re doing good!!
A great comment!
Great way of looking at life. You deserve the best time you can have man. You are solid. Whom ever screwed you over as a friend ain't worth shit.
I think It takes a very special person to despite being robbed by your business partners. You still went out of your way to help your chef get that same business up and running. You're truly a selfless person good things are coming your way, much respect.
We came into this world empty handed and will leave the same. GOD' blessing to all who read this comment.
Never thought your story was bs for a second. You come across as very credible. One thought I had is that yours is like the many stories of musicians who are focused on something deeper and get mauled by venal managers. Like what happened to The Beatles and Brian Wilson. But as you say, "Who's winning really? They're in business and I'm at the beach". Plus you have a good marital relationship and have grown kids. Also you notice nature, no corrupt businessman would see that - it's not worth money.
Thanks for the kind words.
Im so, so glad you are documenting your life. No one takes it with them. We are here a short time. Make memories.
I opened a business location in Houston and the employees robbed me blind and had to close it after a year and a half.
Yes it sucks to be stolen from but the fault lies on me because I didn't have a good manager in place. It's when I sold the business and retired that I started enjoying life.
Power to you man! You are super pleasant and keep moving. Take good care of yourself and your wife. To life!
If you want to make a million in the restaurant business.... start with 2 million.
Im sure you can attest to that old saying.
Good luck w/ your new pursuits.
It’s hard to come to the realisation that low life people like this exist… I learnt the hard way too. People like us are always wanting to look for the good in people and try to help them.. but they use our kindness against us..
Sad truth.
Patrick, I am sorry for your losses. You seem like a loyal, hard working good person. Thank you for sharing your story. It gives all of us a warning that you can't always trust the people you think you really know and especially when it involves a lot of money.
I lost money in the 1987 stock market crash, still trying to recover. Wake up at 5am working on the recovery, not there yet.
Mate you had a few crypto bull runs to recoup that with Ease. You got another crypto bull run end of this year.
If it takes you this long to recover you are working on the wrong things
1987? Had simply ramped up your buying during the crash and stayed consistent you’d be swimming in money right now. You let your emotions get the best of you.
Dude everyone made their money back in 1988. How much cocaine are you buying ?
Did you lose 8+ figures or what?
You are still rich with the joy and peace that you are currently experiencing in life.
Truth!
Hold your head up. We are here to cheer you on. I am you age and have to work like a slave every day to make 100. Give me some inspiration so i don't drive my truck off the road tomorrow. I can barely walk.
hang in there brother. a lot of us going through it. You have a lot left in you and you can do it.
Thanks for sharing your story. I've had my fair share of losses from being lied to, cheated, and swindled out of money and deals. We who are trusting are the ones that pay the price. No good deed goes unpunished, right?
Looking forward to getting to see more of your vlogs - you could come back easily if you wanted to - you just don't want to!
You can never trust anyone with your Money 🦋
I’m just discovering you! Your amazing !
As I’m pushing 62 I feel you about the drinking I spent my time in Florida when it was cheap and fun the 90’s I’m lucky to be alive. As I left 17 years ago.
Thank you for sharing 🇨🇦
This video started sounded egotistical but changed to reality and coming back to what’s important our peace of mind and the simple things in life. You a nice man actually and seems helped a lot of people out throughout your life and your kindness got taken advantage of. God bless
Fascinating insight into the world of a former multi-millionaire.
Retired, i'm allergic to any and all counter party risk.... When it's good, it's good. When it's bad, it's hell....
You may not be good with money, but you’re cool as ice!
He made millions
she's an idiot@@luckyorion9634
How did you gather that? Do you have a million the bank? He made it once he will make it again, statistically.
Thanks for your honesty! And don't talk about yourself like that, about being stupid. You were just naive to the evil in this world, probably because you were a decent dude.
Wow, amazing story. I guess the lesson in all of this is, Trust but VERIFY.
yes absolutely. watch them like a hawk, get independent audits, etc etc. It's such a drag, and part of the trouble also is that we give ourselves a psychological reward for being trusting, but never take your eye off the ball.
Man Jealousy is a real thing. I'm always low key about wealth or showing it. Awesome conversation!! Timmy C Arizona
🫡💯👍
how did you make your money ?
@@BRIANDER100 Real estate since I was 18 and I'm 59. Plus a fear of debt and being broke!!
Alexander the Great said he was destined to be Great. Your destiny is greatness.
I feel for you bro being a small business man. You can't trust too many people in any business. I've been burnt before and ultimately it was my fault because i put too much trust in the wrong people.
I have no idea who you are.. The thing that impresses me.. Your
okay, with it.. Maybe now you can enjoy peace. And your wife is beautiful.l.ol
I love your description of time running out and being forgotten. I've always thought about it that way.
Hi Patrick, I'm really enjoying your story. Your character is what pulled you through it all. I'm an ex chef/ restaurateur. Had a place in Australia for 18 years. Now living alone in Thailand. Estranged from my sister, and my dad's passed. Success isn't all it's cracked up to be.
I'm still in my 50s but now yearning purpose and friends.
Best time of my life was carefree living and working in sailing yachts in the States 30 years ago with a small group of friends.
Your an amazing man! Don't let the past and evil ppl take the future! I'm trying to do this myself... I lost EVERYTHING at 38 after working very hard rising for 15 yrs at a company in the management ranks as a single mom with no support to give my son a stable home and all the love I could. Now I'm trying to find my way again! I'm so glad your at peace and happy again! 1❤
God bless you, Momma!
Love stories like this! Sorry to hear about what happened but thanks for the transparency. You seem like an awesome business person to work with and for.
Just think of all the unknown faces you blessed and fed all those years. And NOW you sound like you have peace. Love your stuff, my friend.
*At least your brutally honest about all this shiiiiiat...I respect that man.*
Its a shame he lost his life savings, but he still looks healthy & fit & thats worth everything
I'm glad that you were able to put all of that behind you and to be able to enjoy the life you have now with your loving wife.
I wish you both all the best! 😊
Well, I do stand 100% behind your story you went through as business man, I was 21 years ago in a similar position. Do recognise much what you said, it is no crime at all to make this public.
Seems most adults have a story that could have crushed us. But we're Still here. 70 yrs.
I think it’s subject to the amount of risk you take on.
Most important you have your health and your loving wife and that your alive.. life is short enjoy my man. You did alot of great things that alot people cant accomplish.
66 here and found the greatest thing that happened to me is my wife. The best pleasures are traveling and seeing my great niece and nephews. Life has gone by incredibly fast. I’m never hesitant to tell someone I love them.
I'm so sorry that you were taken advantage of. I've heard way too many of these stories where someone had a lot of money and was taken advantage of by everyone around them. I pray that the rest of your life is happy and successful, and that no one takes advantage of you again.
Wow 😲, life is a stern teacher, wonderful person, wonderful story 😅....
I pray you get back everything that was lost.
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!!!
I COULDN'T TRUST MY OWN FAMILY, SO MY EYES ARE ALWAYS OPEN, UNFORTUNATELY!!!!
MAY GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!
Amazing story. Restaurants are not for the faint hearted. We just got booted with 3 weeks notice. Building out from scratch in SRB - on to better things. Best wishes
Integrity and honesty is everything! 😊
I'm about your age, and nearly same shit show story of trusting staff that would never steal from yah. When you go through covid, theft, deception of people that you cared about but it wasn't reciprocal it puts your soul in a deep depression. 5 years and I'm still in business not sure how I climbed out but it happened I had to stay in cause the books and records were so bad I didn't know what I had to sell or even pay my taxes. I bring all this up because I just watched a complete stranger walking down the beach talking about my life, my exact thoughts, like living 20 years and out, just like watching a short movie of my life and what I have been thinking. You could travel around the country talking to what has to be thousands of business owners that the same things have happened to them. Great post for many reasons for sure..
Same here, its like he knows my entire life, I'm just not in the restaurant business. Great clarity. I always tell my kids that you learn more from people who have failed than from people who have succeeded. In this case it is most definitely true. And yes, the harsh reality is that even your closest friends will end up forgetting about you.
Life is precious thanks for the motivational video, needed it today. While nothing relative to you, I've made the most money I've ever made in a year and I feel the most empty. God Bless.
God bless you!
What a beautiful man. Thank you for sharing and your honesty. You are not alone! My husband and I made some big financial mistakes too. Seems it is all part of the journey. We r both in our early 60's. Bless you brother.
I did electrical contract work for a Jewish bar owner years ago. He never trusted his employees at all. He installed cameras everywhere to watch his employees, because they were stealing. I could see he was a good business man.
exactly, avail yourself of ALL the tools that are legally available to you to make sure nobody steals from your business. Its the same as putting locks on your house!
I'm in my early fifties. I still remember my grandparents. And the ones that passed that I never knew, I ask about them and appreciate them more since I've gotten older.
i just knew you from this video,and just subscribed cuz your video is very informative to me. REMEMBER " Health is Wealth " you are still winning your health at this age and you won your peace.....sending love and support from Morocco Africa.
My staff and some relatives have caused a lot of financial damage to me . Relatives, more or less i have gotten rid of , the staff is currently reduced but still causing damage .
I have kept them around because of some personal reasons but in a year or so they will be greatly reduced . Gotta run things tight and have the most minimal of ppl around you and most minimal of things around you .