1. Others secrets... Gossip 2. Bragging.... Your property etc 3. Your income 4. Your goals 5. Your good deeds 6. Your beliefs and preferences 7. Your strengths and bravery 8. Your family problems
usually yes. but sharing with some closed mouthed confidante helps in difficult times/critical situations. regular maintainence of (secret) dairy helps see situation more clearly and takes pressure of the lid.
I totally agree... There ' s no need to talk about any good deeds or any help we have extended others.. We did it because we wanted to. Doing and giving has a pleasure of its own.
Telling people about your problems and secret is exposing yourself and weakness to them. Which makes it easier to hurt you when they want to. Only one person should know about you. GOD..
Yeah only God can understand u and strength u ,the only thing people wants to hurt you ,so don't share your problem,weakness and share your secrets with God he is only one u understands u better than anyone else
I disagree to an extent. I think it’s unhealthy to keep everything in all the time without talking to someone. We all need companionship and someone to confide in. It’s ok to talk to someone you trust, especially if it’s a counselor or family member. Just make sure they are looking out for your best interest
@@ChrisKyle816 what if nobody cares,I know that it's unhealthy to keep everything inside but what we can do when our trust is broken And know one thing that telling our problems to nobody can makes us mentally strong. ................
I don't have any friends, just lot of acquaintances. But I love everybody just as they are; most from distance, few up close and personal. They are rare, as am I. It is what happens when you are on a genuine path of growth. Most are just adapted, but they are still growing. And growing never ends. When we die we just have outgrown our earthly existence. The Good News is that there in no death in Reality. A shifting of timelines. Don't believe it; know it. At 70 I still have a absorbent mind of a child. I am after all a Cosmic Child at Play.
I believe you should be friends with everyone we all have our own strengths we all have our own weaknesses I believe if there is no efforts to help the person and don't talk about it but the ones that are needing help and the ones that are turning their backs on them make me just want to cry God says we are to love unto others as God loves us to us are you are no better than them and they are no better than you
1. Your secret and others embarrassing stories 2. Your property 3. Your earnings 4. Your goals 5. Doing good things 6. Your beliefs 7. How brave you are 8. Family issues
@@learnistic-1017 definitely, we cannot solve all problems on our own, but the thing you need to keep in your mind is that who are you sharing with. Sharing such issues to everyone is dangerous.
All secrets must be kept . If someone asked you like " You're honestly not gonna tell me what it is?", you should be like "I'm honestly not gonna tell you what it is."
Basically, know what to say in the right time and to the right person however bear in mind people can judge or gossip it is hard to find a trustworthy friend ( person )
Silence is Golden; the less you say, the less can others criticize. "Practice the elimination of all unnecessary talk." Gurdjieff. "Talk is cheap!" -Edith Roger, the mom who made me at the risk of breaking me. It was all worth it, but no matter what we go through, it is never what we thought it was at the time. This too will pass, means that it is time for something new yet to emerge into our seemingly limited lives. That's the Illusion, they Maya, the Plays we put on the world stage of Space and Time; but there are two other dimensions, Eternity and Hyparchic also called our Sensitivity, which regulates our interactions with the so called external worlds. No! Life is Eternal. But, save for those who realized it, it can't be understand with that capricious instrument called the intellect. "The mind is not the true organ of Perception; the true organ of Perception is the Heart; that's where we plumb the depths of our hidden nature which is always operative." -The Sufi The Living School 1992.
by being silent.. & how to be silent ? by being content. how to be content by reducing attachments to things, people, and memories/emotions. how to reduce attach...ts? by drawing your boundaries. but. how.. to by spending some time with yourself in solitude.. and ponder on your priorities.... in 4 quadrants. X axis urgent Y axis important.. As simple or difficult as that. practical tip. regular setting up some quite time may go a long way.. start with 5 min. or so..
'Dont tell others your goal' But than my teachers and elders keep asking about my goal. Do i lie to them or remain silent and be scoled for not having one.
People will criticize you or say that your goals are too far fetched. Mostly, because they couldn’t reach those goals. But if you have family or friends and you don’t wish to lie to them, tell them only step one in the process to your goal. It probably won’t sound like much, and they will bitch, can’t you do better...but they won’t destroy your ambition or your main goal.
Don't be sad, many people have the same or even worst issue than yours, be openminded, be confident, be more focuss on yourself, on your major life goal. If you feel you have to fix your family issue it will be more easier when you are better. Thus you need to build yourself first. The better you are the easier you will do the job for your family. Hope you already have great life and family today 💝 xoxo
We don't have to go around blabbing all we know .. we look bad when we do that lol .. and we sure do not make a good friend .. all we have is our name ..
The 8th one is really really correct... Whoever dont share any of your family problems as anyhow their advice or suggestions does not help to resolve uas at all... And this has a major disadvantage also, people whom we believed and shared uses our personals to gossip when they get a new friends that will further keep us in problem and ruins social status...
Really inspirational video in addition remember the golden what goes on @ work stays @ work and what goes on outside of work stays outside of work whether it is partying with friends/family going to the pub or on holiday especially when it is controversial moral etc ie alcohol sex/sex-related issues /sexuality drugs/substances whether legal or illegal such as recreational/psychedelics etc and even religious/spiritual/philosophical/political it can cause problems in a formal setting such as work if you discuss religious/spiritual/philosophical/political issues/beliefs etc it can put you or others @ risk of losing job or belongings or physical/verbal/psychological/emotional harm/negligence as some people including management can be strongly against a belief system/religion/spiritual movement/philosophical/political movement and although theoretically/technically they are not allowed to discriminate against beliefs/religions/spiritual/philosophical/political movements etc they can find ways to get around it such as another person is more suited to the job or when they have to get rid of workers for redundancy can victimize those following a belief/religion etc and use redundancy as an excuse to get rid of you
One thing I find it difficult not to share is how brave I was. This is because if I were to achieve something I am too scared to do it, I might share my accomplishment as a sense of confidence in a way.
It's just difficult apply these things in real life...because almost everyone has tendency do these in certain situations . However I really want follow all these during my lifetime.
So true. I'd never want anyone to think that I thought I was better than them and would never ever brag about anything except for my cats. My friends have 🐕. Pretty equal. Ive known for quite a long time to keep my good deeds to myself. I always thought it was taking away from them if i talked about them
People are so fluid and ever changing though. The ones who promise to change, or they will never do some hurtful thing again, or they never gossip, they never tell lies... Well! Run into them years later and they not only have reverted back to their old toxic ways, but they insist you made that up, they never said those lofty things. Good “friends” do not remain static.
Why is nobody talking about cryptocurrency at this moment? It’s on a bull run and lots of people are definitely gonna miss out just like the last time.
People knowing about your goals in the future is associated with bad and evil energy in my culture, because you now catch people’s attention, some may focus on you completely and quietly while wish you failure, and others may use any opportunity they get to bring you down and till you “you can’t make it”, so it’s better to keep it to yourself, don’t tell anyone unless you are committed enough to make your dreams come true no matter what, or share your little successes with trust worthy people who will wish you the best and encourage you to continue
some people wanted to help but they couldnt help themselves due to all kinds of abuses fear and traumas got from people whom I trusted & also own siblings you protected ,homed, did all the good and favors for them invested my life for them, in return were the ones doing wrong,abuse, betrayals, destroying me (my life)and all my things,you do not know whom to trust after all the good deeds did to them. I lost everything nothing left but all pain in my heart&anger everytime i woke up fear for my life what evil are they gonna do next.What and why?
I can imagine your feelings since I also got such experiences from near and dear ones. I have totally ignored them and now I am at peace with myself. Just ignore those who did bad to you and keep going.Try to forget those who betrayed you. You will feel better.
So true! My husband and I have had some people try to split us up...it's pathetic, really, considering the people in question have never even met my husband.
Thank you very much for advice, 8 things that you keep secret. It is better not to gossip , say others secret etc. We will follow these things in future n better in yeh society, n keep of, income, goals, good deeds etc. secret. God bless.
MY DARLING 1... THANK UUU 4 SHARING THIS MUCH KNOWLEDGE WITH. ME.. ITs SURE MADE all THE SENSE WITHOUT NO DOUBTS.. I'VE LEARNED SOOO MUCH FROM Uuu MY hon DR Jj. UUURRR MY TEACHER PASTOR.MY ZUMBA INSTRUCTOR (SOON 2 BB) MY ALL MY EVERYTHING'S.GOD HAS BEEN 👍 GOOD 👍 2 UUUSSS WE'RE BLESSED. 🙏 🙏 ALL GOES WELL 4 UUUSSS.MY DEARIE1 💕 💕
I believe that once we have set a goal which is actually something that we are passionate about and are working hard everyday to reach that goal then it is totally fine to tell your goals.
Very valuable 1. Don't talk about other people. 2. Don't talk about your new property. 3. Don't talk about earnings. 4. Don't talk about future goals. 5. Don't talk about the good you don't for others. 6. Don't talk about your beliefs and preferences.. 7. Don't talk about how brae you are 8. Don't talk about family issues.
1. Others secrets... Gossip
2. Bragging.... Your property etc
3. Your income
4. Your goals
5. Your good deeds
6. Your beliefs and preferences
7. Your strengths and bravery
8. Your family problems
So I m good i m good how is the weather today!!!!!!!!! Well it s a lonely life!!!!!
True
Yet you'll see all these on tiktok. 😄
Thank you, I just scrolled down the comment section just to find this.
Thanks for posting.. all 8 at a glance..
Never share your fears with anyone. They can use it to weaken you.
☝🏻exactly
Exactly true words
Right
usually yes. but sharing with some closed mouthed confidante helps in difficult times/critical situations. regular maintainence of (secret) dairy helps see situation more clearly and takes pressure of the lid.
Ya
"Never lean on someone...if that person move-away, your falling will terrible!"
Well said
Some one maked good but mafi fiethyachanged doller come good darmma not maked some freades darmma iam seeokgood mind happey comeind but not posbles
Jamaican?
I believe "close mouth catches no flies".... stay blessed ❤️
I totally agree...
There ' s no need to talk about any good deeds or any help we have extended others..
We did it because we wanted to.
Doing and giving has a pleasure of its own.
Telling people about your problems and secret is exposing yourself and weakness to them. Which makes it easier to hurt you when they want to. Only one person should know about you. GOD..
Yeah only God can understand u and strength u ,the only thing people wants to hurt you ,so don't share your problem,weakness and share your secrets with God he is only one u understands u better than anyone else
I disagree to an extent. I think it’s unhealthy to keep everything in all the time without talking to someone. We all need companionship and someone to confide in. It’s ok to talk to someone you trust, especially if it’s a counselor or family member. Just make sure they are looking out for your best interest
@@ChrisKyle816 what if nobody cares,I know that it's unhealthy to keep everything inside but what we can do when our trust is broken
And know one thing that telling our problems to nobody can makes us mentally strong. ................
@@ChrisKyle816 they can judge u badly that can betray u
You should never be friends with someone who gossip about others and that includes you as well
Hmm yes true 😕
I don't have any friends, just lot of acquaintances. But I love everybody just as they are; most from distance, few up close and personal. They are rare, as am I. It is what happens when you are on a genuine path of growth. Most are just adapted, but they are still growing. And growing never ends. When we die we just have outgrown our earthly existence. The Good News is that there in no death in Reality. A shifting of timelines. Don't believe it; know it. At 70 I still have a absorbent mind of a child. I am after all a Cosmic Child at Play.
That,s so true.
Yes because when you leave , then next topic is you
I believe you should be friends with everyone we all have our own strengths we all have our own weaknesses I believe if there is no efforts to help the person and don't talk about it but the ones that are needing help and the ones that are turning their backs on them make me just want to cry God says we are to love unto others as God loves us to us are you are no better than them and they are no better than you
1. Your secret and others embarrassing stories
2. Your property
3. Your earnings
4. Your goals
5. Doing good things
6. Your beliefs
7. How brave you are
8. Family issues
Thanks a lot
But sometimes we have to discuss some family issue with an expert who may help in solving it
@@learnistic-1017 definitely, we cannot solve all problems on our own, but the thing you need to keep in your mind is that who are you sharing with. Sharing such issues to everyone is dangerous.
@@gathamehta2031 yup
Thanks
According to the Bible,he that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life.
It also expresses to share your testimony of God's goodness it can encourage others sometimes we a quiet when we need to share
"EYE 4 EYE"--CODE OF Harummbi...BEFORE, THE BIBLE...Lol..Keep, learning your "Theology" and Egyptian Culture ,then Judasim and into Christianity!...
🤗
ruclips.net/video/HFUyb3RzmNU/видео.html
You do realise that the bible also says some pretty horrific things..... and not everyone’s cup of tea for a guide to life
All secrets must be kept . If someone asked you like " You're honestly not gonna tell me what it is?", you should be like "I'm honestly not gonna tell you what it is."
I fully agree ...so much wisdom from God🙂💗🙏
Basically, know what to say in the right time and to the right person however bear in mind people can judge or gossip it is hard to find a trustworthy friend ( person )
Silence is Golden; the less you say, the less can others criticize. "Practice the elimination of all unnecessary talk." Gurdjieff. "Talk is cheap!" -Edith Roger, the mom who made me at the risk of breaking me. It was all worth it, but no matter what we go through, it is never what we thought it was at the time. This too will pass, means that it is time for something new yet to emerge into our seemingly limited lives. That's the Illusion, they Maya, the Plays we put on the world stage of Space and Time; but there are two other dimensions, Eternity and Hyparchic also called our Sensitivity, which regulates our interactions with the so called external worlds. No! Life is Eternal. But, save for those who realized it, it can't be understand with that capricious instrument called the intellect. "The mind is not the true organ of Perception; the true organ of Perception is the Heart; that's where we plumb the depths of our hidden nature which is always operative." -The Sufi The Living School 1992.
Are you lonesome tonight the stage is bare and I'm sitting there.
I keep EVERYTHING a secret! Best way to be!
Same here no body knows completely about me
@@mansisharma9506
The less they know,
the less you gotta worry about😏
@@egreenie3819 ya....
You should also keep that you have many secrets as you're secret. Because through this, some think you're a bad person.
@@nevergonnagiveyouupnevergo7970 you are so right
Each and every quote was really worth listening. Thank you.
"You should avoid talking too much....!"
How? I just want to know
Yep!
@@saradeen3984 INTROVERT always do that...
Don't like to seek *Attention*
by being silent.. & how to be silent ? by being content. how to be content by reducing attachments to things, people, and memories/emotions. how to reduce attach...ts? by drawing your boundaries. but. how.. to by spending some time with yourself in solitude.. and ponder on your priorities.... in 4 quadrants. X axis urgent Y axis important.. As simple or difficult as that. practical tip. regular setting up some quite time may go a long way.. start with 5 min. or so..
People tell me to talk more to succeed.
'Dont tell others your goal'
But than my teachers and elders keep asking about my goal. Do i lie to them or remain silent and be scoled for not having one.
People will criticize you or say that your goals are too far fetched. Mostly, because they couldn’t reach those goals. But if you have family or friends and you don’t wish to lie to them, tell them only step one in the process to your goal. It probably won’t sound like much, and they will bitch, can’t you do better...but they won’t destroy your ambition or your main goal.
@@Sammiejomitchell thanks friend, I was having the same problem but u solved it😄really thanks a lot
@@Mikey_is_mykey being old helps. Been there, got the tee shirt. Best of luck to you in achieving all your dreams.
Directly tell them that you Don't want to share, i do it😎
@@abhisiktadas7569 yass
True words of advice! I love this channel🥰
Need not magsgesok all played edvbadething
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Yes bragging especially about possession and finance is a put off and most times these people lack self confidence esteem. 🙏
Really very beautiful words. Thank you very much 😘💋♥️♥️
Thank you very much for this wonderful words.. God bless you
i don't talk about anything mentioned here but family issues. 😭 it's like people will ask why are you sad and i'll spill the tea.
Don't be sad, many people have the same or even worst issue than yours, be openminded, be confident, be more focuss on yourself, on your major life goal. If you feel you have to fix your family issue it will be more easier when you are better. Thus you need to build yourself first. The better you are the easier you will do the job for your family.
Hope you already have great life and family today 💝 xoxo
Lot of wisdom...keep doing what you doing..these qualities are really hard to find in modern era..
Keep your personal stuff to yourself and a few trusted friends.
Basically, don’t talk to anybody.
You are absolutely right.
I am completely agree with you.
Loolz
But , everyone wanna talk to u. , Right?
We don't have to go around blabbing all we know .. we look bad when we do that lol .. and we sure do not make a good friend .. all we have is our name ..
Sure be your self is better .
Such a wonderful lesson with awesome inspiration....
Some good life lessons here.. Love your videos, Keep up the great work! 👍
Yeah
True thanks for sharing
I love this
As long as gaslighting exist, gossip will follow.
The 8th one is really really correct... Whoever dont share any of your family problems as anyhow their advice or suggestions does not help to resolve uas at all... And this has a major disadvantage also, people whom we believed and shared uses our personals to gossip when they get a new friends that will further keep us in problem and ruins social status...
Very true! I am guilty of some things. Thankyou needed that video! I am aware now!❤️
Absolutely, it’s so true!!
This is so true and some of these are stuff I needed advice on years ago.
Doing something right and good and expecting something is business not kindness
Thank you for this advice
Absolutely superb,.!.
Thanks for sharing these 8 things 🙏
Really inspirational video in addition remember the golden what goes on @ work stays @ work and what goes on outside of work stays outside of work whether it is partying with friends/family going to the pub or on holiday especially when it is controversial moral etc ie alcohol sex/sex-related issues /sexuality drugs/substances whether legal or illegal such as recreational/psychedelics etc and even religious/spiritual/philosophical/political it can cause problems in a formal setting such as work if you discuss religious/spiritual/philosophical/political issues/beliefs etc it can put you or others @ risk of losing job or belongings or physical/verbal/psychological/emotional harm/negligence as some people including management can be strongly against a belief system/religion/spiritual movement/philosophical/political movement and although theoretically/technically they are not allowed to discriminate against beliefs/religions/spiritual/philosophical/political movements etc they can find ways to get around it such as another person is more suited to the job or when they have to get rid of workers for redundancy can victimize those following a belief/religion etc and use redundancy as an excuse to get rid of you
One thing I find it difficult not to share is how brave I was. This is because if I were to achieve something I am too scared to do it, I might share my accomplishment as a sense of confidence in a way.
Superbbb video👌🏻👌🏻
I'm in search of this type of videos 🙏🙏
nice one, beautifully illustrated some hard rules to follow in life to become success full
Thanks for speaking some sense into my LIFE 👏👏🏆🏆👏👏❤❤
This is very important , useful n interesting talk. 8 things we should not tell others and keep it secret. Gossip is very bad. Thank you for advice
Your videos are motivational and full of knowledge
Wonderful. Very practical. Thanks.
Great video and very interesting one thanks so much for sharing ever be blessed Amen
Wooooow ! Thanks alot for these 8 beautiful and powerful things.. i'm so excited for watching theme.
Such simple rules, but important and will be relevant forever. It's useful to watch it in order to remember these rules.
Really awesome video. Simply beautiful. Thank you.
It's just difficult apply these things in real life...because almost everyone has tendency do these in certain situations . However I really want follow all these during my lifetime.
So true. I'd never want anyone to think that I thought I was better than them and would never ever brag about anything except for my cats. My friends have 🐕. Pretty equal. Ive known for quite a long time to keep my good deeds to myself. I always thought it was taking away from them if i talked about them
I'd like to send this to a couple of my neighbors.
I can understand 😂
@@nowrin_8193 so that neighbours won't ask your secrets😂😂😂
Bravo. very good advices for nowadays generation and even still best for their future habit. Thanks Bro. May God Bless YOU.
Nice video
You had good reasons why we should keep things for a secret and I agree
People are so fluid and ever changing though. The ones who promise to change, or they will never do some hurtful thing again, or they never gossip, they never tell lies... Well! Run into them years later and they not only have reverted back to their old toxic ways, but they insist you made that up, they never said those lofty things. Good “friends” do not remain static.
Very Good advices.thankyou.
So true my dear people
Yes u r correct
Ok agree but help me to understand how many above THINGS you keep secrets ????
Agreed
Why is nobody talking about cryptocurrency at this moment? It’s on a bull run and lots of people
are definitely gonna miss out just like the last time.
@@lindajennifer5391 Am a huge fan of crypto, I hold a few coins in my wallet.
Really superb....! Thanks alot ...💐
Thanks a lot. Lots of advice
Excellent video...with beautiful music, too.
The best video.... great one 😊
People knowing about your goals in the future is associated with bad and evil energy in my culture, because you now catch people’s attention, some may focus on you completely and quietly while wish you failure, and others may use any opportunity they get to bring you down and till you “you can’t make it”, so it’s better to keep it to yourself, don’t tell anyone unless you are committed enough to make your dreams come true no matter what, or share your little successes with trust worthy people who will wish you the best and encourage you to continue
Really fabulous tips 👌👍
Not everything that happens to u should be announced
Yeah
some people wanted to help but they couldnt help themselves due to all kinds of abuses fear and traumas got from people whom I trusted & also own siblings you protected ,homed, did all the good and favors for them invested my life for them, in return were the ones doing wrong,abuse, betrayals, destroying me (my life)and all my things,you do not know whom to trust after all the good deeds did to them. I lost everything nothing left but all pain in my heart&anger everytime i woke up fear for my life what evil are they gonna do next.What and why?
I can imagine your feelings since I also got such experiences from near and dear ones. I have totally ignored them and now I am at peace with myself. Just ignore those who did bad to you and keep going.Try to forget those who betrayed you. You will feel better.
My best friend has been and is still going through that she is abused by her dad and it all started when she was 2 years old
Thank you 💓. It's really valuable 😇😇
Absolutely true and Mind blowing quotes
Very nice wonderful
Man, literally you motivated me!
After a long time I have found such a quality video thanks 😊
you should also never tell people about your relationship if it is a secret, people can betray you
So true..! this is, in fact, a very important point.. so it makes it 9 imp secrets..!
If its a secret relationship should you be in it ?
So true! My husband and I have had some people try to split us up...it's pathetic, really, considering the people in question have never even met my husband.
Super video. These are very good thoughts.
Awesome. I have already shared this video with my friends.
Brilliant insights and life just unfolds...
Lol, your whole life you should keep secret.🖤
A very beautiful and insightful illustration ❤️ .
Wonderful quotation 👏👏👏
Thank you very much for advice, 8 things that you keep secret. It is better not to gossip , say others secret etc. We will follow these things in future n better in yeh society, n keep of, income, goals, good deeds etc. secret. God bless.
Certain things are true... Keep going ahead
I have a mind block
Very good content, thank you for sharing this..
Wise advice n very true indeed!!!
ur name 😭😭😭💔💔😒😒
Most informative video✌️✌️
Good job😊
Very nice video and quotes.💛
This is so true. I love quotes.New here to your channel stay connected. God bless 🙏
Woww loved these suggestions... i really needed this.. and i will try to implement in my life.
Thank you so much 😘🥰😊
Great n so true ...
That’s so true ❤️🌹
MY DARLING 1... THANK UUU
4 SHARING THIS MUCH KNOWLEDGE WITH. ME.. ITs
SURE MADE all THE SENSE WITHOUT NO DOUBTS.. I'VE LEARNED SOOO MUCH FROM
Uuu MY hon DR Jj. UUURRR MY
TEACHER PASTOR.MY ZUMBA
INSTRUCTOR (SOON 2 BB) MY
ALL MY EVERYTHING'S.GOD HAS
BEEN 👍 GOOD 👍 2 UUUSSS
WE'RE BLESSED. 🙏 🙏 ALL GOES
WELL 4 UUUSSS.MY DEARIE1 💕 💕
OMG, I HAVE ENCOUNTERED THESE, THANK YOU SO MUCH SHANNON FROM MICHIGAN
Really really thank u for this. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Immortal talent, indeed !!!
Great video.. Waiting for more ♥️
After a long time a worthy video in the internet
Its better to SHARE experiences with people u care about so rapport can be based, then go from there.
Sometimes People just like to conversate about certain things and sometimes as in my case it's to try and Protect my bloodline and I.
I believe that once we have set a goal which is actually something that we are passionate about and are working hard everyday to reach that goal then it is totally fine to tell your goals.
yes... all the points are true n relatable.
Learned so much..thnx
That's what we call Secrets. keep it to yourself. God bless 🙏
Very valuable
1. Don't talk about other people.
2. Don't talk about your new property.
3. Don't talk about earnings.
4. Don't talk about future goals.
5. Don't talk about the good you don't for others.
6. Don't talk about your beliefs and preferences..
7. Don't talk about how brae you are
8. Don't talk about family issues.