Once you understand this you will love yourself fully
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- Опубликовано: 10 дек 2023
- Selfーlove is the most importatnt aspect in order for you to give and share. Because you can love others it's time for you to love yourself. You also need to be loved. Don't neglect the missing piece because it might get bigger and end up loving in the void.
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“Nothing in the world belongs to me but my love is my all mine” Mitski
This song is so great for self love
THE PRICE OF HAVING SOFT HEART IS TO FEEL
THE WORLD'S PAIN.
Truest statement.
Dam that hits😢
❤
Thank you
Feeling pain is key to healing pain so thank you
I can relate to this. I have noticed in my experiences that a cycle repeats because I haven't fully learned my lesson from it. I have overextended myself for people that didn't really deserve my kindness for the sake of trying to find validation. It has taken me YEARS to look inward and fully admit to myself that there was something about myself that had to change. Now, I have taken steps to change and years later (fast forward to now), I am so much more at peace. Choosing to love myself was the best decision I have ever made. I have even let go of control to the point I am not even worried about the outcome. I have learned to forgive myself and saw the person of value I really am. Granted that not everyone will see it, it just means those people aren't for me. I still have a ways to go, but I can't help but feel a sense of liberation. Thanks for the video!
It sounds like you have broken a karmic cycle! 🤲
THIS. ❤
I really resonate with ur comment!sending you love and good energy as you continue to unlearn that habit❤️
This sounds exactly like me ❤
I am 60, just started this chapter, but I am eager to do and happy for myself to start ❤
Me 65. Next year I am up grading me..
it is never too late!! 🤍
me here with 31 feeling im too old to start my life 💀
@@ketsune23 Hun I am 65 and about to reinvent my self. The old behaviours are not working..
@@purplesunflower8242 well that's true. We are facing a big change
Learn to love yourself before loving someone else. It makes all the difference. Love lasts longer than you would ever expect it to be.
I used to think this was bullshit back when I didn’t love myself. Now that I do.. I understand why and I can’t even put it into words. You just interact with the world differently.
One of the best quotes ever.
I’m living this now. Didn’t love myself at first and now we’re 2 years in marriage and I’m trying to catch up but I feel it’s too late
If it was that easy, it wouldn't be such a universal problem
No I see now after having bombed my 10yr relationship that if I had not shrunk away into my habits and vices and instead taken the time to meditate on my issues and our issues that I could habe aligned myself and conducted myself in a way that my actions refleft the true nature of my heart. One of the biggest impedements to that growth is dogging oneself and fear of failure.@@bapbirb
The one thing that deepened my depression, more than anything else, is the barrage of well-intentioned advice to “love myself.” It became an overwhelming burden to try to figure out what that even meant. It paralyzed me.
I personally believe we should stop telling everyone that they cannot love others or be loved by others, unless they first love themselves.
After three years buried under the weight of having to figure out what self-love meant, and how to do it for myself, I finally decided I didn’t care. That is when I was able to re-emerge into the world and start living life again.
I've got to agree with you on this. For a while now, I've been considering how the effects of excessive advice impact me from day to day. For me it breeds indecisiveness, fatigue and confusion. Which then lead on to feelings of incompetence and low self esteem, due to the fact that I am trying to process so much information, that's external from myself. After realisation this, I now process and carefully consider advice in a much slower and thoughtful way.
How did you manage to just stop caring? I’d love to do the same.
@@antonwilk1515this is very wise. We find our peace when we can trust ourselves to make better decisions for ourselves.
That is deeply personal journey that ‘advice seeking’ can derail.
A good therapist will not usually give advice..but will help you to listen more closely to yourself. To practice trusting yourself. Much peace and love in abundance to you.
@@howcanyoudothistome1 if what you are seeking is inner peace, I would not attempt to get to not caring about if you love yourself in the way I did. I started going out to clubs again. Amazingly, I can still hang as long as I could in my teens and twenties.
the main message should be on HOW to love yourself, because most people don't find it intuitive, it's very difficult. it takes a lot of consistent practice to rewire your brain. it did for me. only becomes hard when you take this message as another evidence that you have failed, "I don't love myself and don't know how", it feels another thing you cannot do. this cycle is because you don't know how to love yourself, it's self aggression - telling yourself I should love myself, like all the other things, I should be able to do XYZ. taking a message of "love yourself" as pressure is a symptom of the problem and hearing the message does nothing to help. i completely understand this.
I saw anpanman and my army heart told me to come here and take a lesson💜 God bless
I think every generous person needs someone in their life that also gives selflessly to them too.
If Anpanman didn't have someone constantly supporting him he'd have nothing left to give.
I'm today years old to realize who this character is and why BTS had a song "Anpanman", under Love Yourself: Answer album. Thanks for sharing about this character.
I agree with your point of meditation! Since I am meditating daily I could give up most of my addicitions (about drugs, toxic behaviour, people and thougths). It is about being present in the moment and to acknowledge everything that is happening to you. We can only have control about our lives if we teach to let go and learn how to focus on our goals. NAMASTE 🙏🏼
If the old me listen to this, I'd be confused and I know because I've been there. I've read Joe Dispenza's book 'Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself' and I tried to apply everything I learned based on who I thought I want to be. From there everything just collapsed because when you really look through the programming or reprogramming, then you can see through the game and it's a dream of our creation
I know Anpanman man because of BTS💜 they also talk about self love, actually they have an entire album about it hajahaha💖
you're a healer too💖, you don't take away your bread, you teach others how to cook✨
it feels so freeing to realize that I don’t have to be the way I am forever
I'm going to be hearing BTS' Anpanman in my head for the rest of the day now.😂 It was nice to learn the history of Anpanman, but more importantly, I'm really grateful for people like you who have taken the time to look inward, reflect, and use the lessons they have learned through trial and error to help others do the same. This channel really helped me jumpstart the process of discovering and understanding that I decide my worth. Many of your meditation videos helped me learn different ways to process my emotions and helped me actively practice forgiveness, a skill I was in desperate need of cultivating all year long. I have been able to surrender aspects of my life I couldn't control and I feel so much peace because of that. Thank you for all you do, Show. It is greatly appreciated by us all. May God continue to bless you in your work here on RUclips and your other motivational programs. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season and that the new year will bring many beautiful experiences for you. Keep up the great work and stay strong too.💜
this is so sweet, well said
Me too good to see BTS army here
Army always guided to good teachers! Thank you Show, I’ve subscribed to you on my journey!!!
Beautifully said!!
GOD is like the uncle. GOD is our father. You can always go to him for your bread. ♥️ THANKS Mr. Show Nemoto I love your vids♥️♥️
People need to learn to love and value each other more not just themselves. It's so sad nowadays there's a lot of pretty faces but not a lot of soul let alone love which is what this often cruel world needs more of, not the selfishness and chaos in society we see these days. We can be the change if we want to. 🙏
"Loving yourself" is a loaded term because it can mean a lot of things. Some people have a "glow up" feel better and say that was loving themselves. Lol was it? Or was it conditional acceptance you gave yourself based on changing your appearence?
But yeah I agree...you can see it even in spiritually minded people......they still value the 'wrong' things. That is...they are leveraging their metaphysical knowledge to achieve stuff with no soul.....no heart. It's not about compassion.....it's not about understanding the conditional ways valuing things like looks etc make us have shitty relationships with one another......it's just about feeling better..........but without the discernment.....without changing this universe into a bette rplace for everyone.
Everything you're saying is 100% true!! I'm glad I came across this video. I also want to share that through spending some time with Buddhist monks and asking them so many questions... they really don't believe in self love but self acceptance. The greatest form of compassion to be able to share love and kindness to others.
They believed that self love is actually selfish and as human beings, we are already obsessed with ourselves. "This is MY house.. this is MY husband.. this is MY phone". So self love, to them, is not the highest form of enlightenment, but self acceptance. Lovely video and I just wanted to share that
You basically sum up what I have learned from dozens of self improvement books in 16 minutes. Thanks for your work
Time for new chapter! Thank you for the inspiration and insight.
Live your life, like living. Love that.❤
Thankyou brother. Really needed this.
Hearing what you said brightened my day. Thank you ❤😊
omg so true. lol. The title ITSELF of this video alone for me downloaded like an hour's worth of understanding simply because of how powerful the sentence is. Its amazing how with the right timing everything just CLICKS! THANK YOU SO MUCH
idk why but theres certain aura around you and it makes me feel secure and warm. love your content and accent.
This video is so refreshing to listen to. I’ve been on a major self love journey and so much has changed for me already. I don’t feel like the same person anymore. I’m a better version of myself
Thku! This is one of ur bestest sharings 1's yet. 😘
Yesssss exactly also giving yourself doesn’t mean just for or to people it also means limiting ourselves because of generalised stereotypes so be yourself and love all of yourself
I remember watching it as a kid with my brother. I absolutely loved it. Never thought about it in such a way, fascinating!
I believe you will achieve your goal soon Show! Amazing words. Please keep doing this. Never stop please! Love from Vietnam
your videos really hep me to change myself in a positive way thankyou for sharing the the thoughts and guide us and love u💕❣❣❣
Hi Show, first ion all I wanna thank you for your work and for sharing your thoughts. I came to your video in a bit of a distressing situation and now after listening to you I am again reminded of the universal laws and the importance of self love and letting go old chapters. You brought me to tears and for the small duration of 16 minutes and 19 seconds you had a positive impact in my life. Keep going, keep sharing. Much Love and Power from Germany, Berlin - Felicia
Here me out, i really want you to start a video/audio podcast because seriously you are a GEM, put your work out there, people really need to hear you and look up to you, your values.
Keep on sharing what you love.
I’m so glad I found this channel. It’s helped me realize that I was attempting self improvement all wrong. Thank you so much for your content and the advice you share
I don't like all the magic stuff, but you are both charming and speak truth
Great vid!
Thankyou so much for all your videos ..these teachings really help us in becoming better version of ourself ..and you have a very nice voice ...🙏😊
I really needed this right now. I wish you all immense happiness and good health. Life is a real pain sometimes, yall are not alone.
Hang in there, Internet stranger💕
u droppin all these vids in such a short amount of time.. dang, kudos! I didn't manage yet to watch all of em, but will def do. I always feel enriched whenever I finished watching one of ur videos. hope sharing your thoughts feels fulfilling to you. thx for all your content and that you feel comfy enough to simply sit down with pyjamas and start talking. those high prod vids u usually upload are great, but the videos you upload lately have a whole nother character. I enjoy both for sure, but your latest videos hit different in a very good way
Thank you for this one🖤
This is beautiful, man. Thanks so much. I think we all get caught up in the negative of the world. But I know, through our perception, the world can be seen in balance as it is.
Easier said than done.
Practice makes perfect, indeed!!! Much love, brother.
thank you, i can relate. ive been working on self love
I am so deeply grateful and thankful to you for such beautiful guidance and advices. Learning so much from you & would love it if you can make more videos like this on self love and how to practically practice it. This video is food for soul.♥️ Thank youu
Happy new year ❤
And thanks this video come to my eye at this moment.
I understood this but lost it over the last few years. Thank you for the reminder. Subscribed.
I love myself, but I want someone to love me.
Self love.. Before I love myself, I have to know how not to be perfectionist. I think I need to change my mindset at first 🤔
Thank you Show! will try my best!
Take care yourself 👋🏻
Love is everything, existence runs on it
I feel that self-love is important as well as the ability to love others. it doesn't necessarily meant that being kind to others is a bad thing, but the world works both ways just like everything has a duality. I believe strongly u can love the self as well as giving love to others at the same time. being kind and nice to others have more of a positive impact on the world around you but just don't let people take ur kindness for granted or misuse you in any way. because there's a difference in between people who appreciate kindness and some who don't and see it as a weakness to be taken advantage of. So, in a nutshell, set boundaries and treat the right person with love and kindness will surely go a long way if that person holds a significant figure in your life. and don't forget to look in mirror and love wholeheartedly whom reflects back to you with 100% acceptance.
Thank you very much for this Video
I can say one thing. When you don't love yourself, everyone around you will know and notice that. People won't believe the authenticity of how much you can love them, no matter which love language you use to convince them. They observe your self-taunting and self-depricating mannerism to yourself. Why would they believe otherwise? This is not to say that you do this for others but to instead turn the gaze at *you*. When do you come first? When do you give yourself that hug? When do you cut yourself some slack? When do you appreciate your tiniest efforts? You give everyone that much love, why not yourself first? Dealing with this is difficult and I'm on this journey myself. But it is not unachievable. I believe that. ❤
This actually made me happy, thanks man.
Thx for this 👍🙏
Well said brother ❤
Thank you, this is a valuable monologue that I can relate to very well. I wish we could have more of these discussions. I think it's super cute that you started with Anpan Man too.
Apart of loving yourself is loving your own company! Going on self dates, being a gentle parent to yourself, making sure you take responsibility for your life... CLUTCH
Watching a video with a good message like this is great! It will help you. But we need to think about how a general message translates into our life. Thing about what this video’s general points are and just allow your thoughts to flow freely, maybe write it down. Itll allow yourself to state what connection and thoughts you have about this topic. Only understanding what your current mindset and behavior regarding this topic currently is can help you change for the better! Listen to yourself and i wish everyone a fulfilling time!!
My life was perfect, everything finally started working. In that period I also was in a relantionship, but i messed up everything and now I cant excuse myself. Before all this I loved myself and my life, but now everything is grey. Everytime I try to smile, then I almost immediately cry. I dont know how to love myself anymore. Maybe I just have to grow but I thought I was already ready for everything
You will slowly feel better little by little day by day. Even when I am depressed I remind myself that I can still be excited for when it gets better because it will.
Don’t “try” to smile. Allow the emotion to sail through you without engaging with it too much. Every time you feel low or grey, catch the thought, observe it, and remind yourself that that unpleasant feeling is not actually part of you. Take comfort in knowing that along with finding who you are, the unpleasant feeling triggered by thoughts will dispel.
Take comfort in knowing that what you pay attention to becomes your world, so if you FOCUS on something else you won’t have time to dwell in the past. Know that when you develop the ability to stay present, the negative emotions triggered by those thoughts will go from majority to minority and fade away…..
Also remember that the only reason you feel bad about losing your partner is because you haven’t found a new one. Killing someone is something to regret, saying something awful to a friend is something to regret. However, when it comes to a romantic partner, regret is mostly subject to the absence of not having someone else. When you find yourself, you’ll attract the right person for you and you’ll no longer regret losing the previous partner.
Don’t keep yourself in that box your words and thoughts are powerful, start taking steps towards self love again do the things that make you feel Whole, rebuild yourself up again and get back on the horse don’t wallow in self pity because you will only dig yourself deeper into the pit of despair, peace and love.
Write an apology letter to yourself i think it will help
i used to watch that show in the thumnail lol wasn't able to find it recently until now thanks
allow myself to be who i am
Learning to love yourself first begins with loving God. Because loving God shows how much you are loved.😊
thank you
Loved anpanman as a kid!! Lovely perspective.. thats why ive started rewatching all the cartoons i watched as a kid; truly teaches you alot!
(Also, めっちゃかっこいいっす。。
Topic aside, you look majestic bro
Thank you
You sir, are one of the most attractive men I've ever seen. AND introspective?!
I'm sorry but your voice is very nice to listen. Thank youu it means a lot for the video
thank you. ❤
Thank you for this, it is almost as if this video was out here for me at the exact right time.
arigato, great video
Love the videos 👍
the show you mentioned is funny. I need an "uncle" as the bread needed :D
This is not related to the topic, but omg your are so gorgeous 😍
whatever u say handsome
That cartoon character is amazing. What a great example of energy exchange between beings.
On another note: Be sure to cite your sources.
Meditation is key
This video has described what this year has been about for me, and for the first time in three years, I'm actually excited about the new year
Thank you for posting these ❤
Wow respects what did you do??
@@purplesunflower8242 cut out like 99% of my circle of influence, a lot of isolation, and focusing my attention on kyudo and back into art, adding things in as I go
Thanks
In a world of masculine energy, choose to tap into your femininity from time to time
He is basically is bread😂ちょっと笑っちゃいましたがその通りですよね！
私もずっと同じように思って生きてきましたが、今年病気になり、本当に色々試されてるように感じます。
大変だけど、それも楽しんじゃおうと思って、怒涛の日々を走り抜けてきました！なんでも自分の気持ち次第ですから！
最近メディテーションしてなかったけど、またします! 素敵な動画をありがとうございました❤
Looks like a cute wise spiritual guy in Brooklyn I approve
The anpanman story is so cute 😂💗
This is cute and diff I like go this way
things aside bro you're so gorgeous
live your life like a movie
So true
happy to see that the son of markiplier and keanu reeves started making content
I've bee watching this Red been bread man since I was young. Every time he lost his head I feel why? It the trigger that the An-Pung Mand resonate me😥
pode ser muitas ideias que vem de fora, precisando de uma meditação digestiva, cara nao lembro oque entendi desse video, mas faz parte de min algumas reflexoes que estao em seu video, parabens
Thank you Nemoto,I lost you bc I changed my i mail.🙏🌈❤️🌹🎄🌲🌟💫
i lovve ur acccent
Love is fun
Love, compassion and allowance, so beautiful! Thank you Show Sensei
You are super stylish
Love to watch Show
the end is the new beginning.
Basically what Alan Watts was saying.
when u stop feeling love u stop being alive
Never heard of that show. Sounds awesome and like something I need to check out lol
But as far as loving yourself before you help others....it's way more complex than that. Love doesn't neatly trickle down, otherwise the minute a person did love themselves it would create a chain reaction that would affect all of humanity pretty fast. The fact of the matter is much like some souls seems ot have to experience trauma to force themselves to 'grow'........people who love themselves and create a good life for themselve can also become very complacent to the suffering of this world.
This is actually one of the themes in my life. Looking around and seeing how our spirituality is failing us. How being kind and loving isn't the same as SERVING the needs of humanity. You can be the kindest chillest guy in the world.....but if you can't reach a person in trauma dealing with stuff.........nothing has trickled down. And this is not an issue of our time but of all times. Which is why I'm so convinced this narrative "focus on yourself and then you'll be able to help others more or better" is also not true. It's an oiversimplication that doesn't see how the world works.
Agreed
nice plants you need to grow sativa and indica
I understood Japanese cartoon now I love myself.
JK thank you.
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