She's right but if you're American these women expect you to pay more and want fancy things. They know their boundaries with a Colombian men with Colombian men there okay with street food
That’s more of a Medellin thing. Not so much in the other cities. But one thing that’s common is women will get to asking and begging. “Can you give me money for ____.” It’s like a whole hustle to go on nice dates and ask for money from Gringos.
Never had issues paying for dates, I had a thing with a Colombian woman last year. We had visited Bogotá/medellin/periera to visit her family. Like 6 months into dating she tried getting me to buy us wedding rings and move in with her. Ended up breaking up with her a little while after, she was about 4 years older than me but much less mature
I dont know why someone would go to a country to look for a traditional woman, but get offended when the women are being traditional. Gringo, if you want to split bills, just date the women in your country!!!!
Do women in any country ever ask a man out on the first date? I don't mind a woman wanting to be lead by a man that can take care of his woman, but that's usually not what's said.
It’s called sticking to traditional ways. Men take care of the women and the women takes care of the man . I pray the rest of the world doesn’t lose its ways . Then folks wouldn’t travel as much lol
Thanks. IT'S STILL THAT WAY IN THE so- called American NEGRO/BLACK community for the most part for some of us today's still stay true to the old ways. One should look up BLACK PEOPLE/negra are the ISRAELITES FROM THE BIBLE for more FASCINATING ANSWERS to very deep CULTURAL questions dealing with relationships, cultural differences ect. APTTMH🔥
WIth respect, myself and every gringo I met while in Colombia met at least one woman that tried to take advantage of us. I invited a woman out to coffee and she brought her friend without telling me. She and her friend ordered lots of food and dessert instead of the coffee that I invited only one of them out to get. They then invited ME out to dinner at a fancy restaurant, ordered very expensive food, and had me pay for everything including the taxi to both of their houses. I didn't try to have sex with them because I'm looking for a wife, so that wasn't even a thought. All of my guy friends experienced a similar situation of inviting one woman out then she invited her friends and expected the gringo to pay. I think you guys refer to that as the "Marrano." I known not all Colombians are like that though, so I just made sure to only associate with the Colombianas that weren't viewing me as a Marrano. Last but not least, I met these women in the gym, at Salsa class, and at Spanish School.
I have a apartment in colombia, and have a very attractive nice colombian woman I see when I come down. She ask me for nothing. But knows when I'm down there I pay for everything
I respect her answer but its not that cut and dry. Expecting a guy to pay for a date is far different then expecting him to pay your rent l, phone bill, buy clothes, because this is what the expectation is now. They want men who are detailed and buys them gifts and gives them money and the sad part is many of them will find one who does all that and still be messing with other dudes. Its a vicious cylcle out here .
Why would a man invite any woman on a date with her and not pay for the date? Of course he's going to pay for the date. It's safe to leave your wallet home. No worries at all 😊.
As a white American, that's how it's SUPPOSED TO BE!!! 😆. I couldn't IMAGINE asking a girl out, without expecting to pay. Actually, I INSIST on paying! Any guys that feels otherwise, aren't even men. 😩
It all depends on the woman of course. Medellin is a dating jungle for gringos. Living there long term for a gringo is difficult in Medellin. Too many transactional expectations. The rules are different for foreigners than Colombian men. The Colombian men can do the menu del dia, for many Gringos the expectation is a provenza and a night on the town. The test is asking them on a cafe date the first date, watch how many will say yes, then flake. I would not recommend Medellin long term guys, go there, have fun and dip. Small towns may be better, they don’t have all that flash that the locals expect from Gringos, so perhaps finding genuine chicas can be more promising. I’m yet to find out.
So Colombian women want a traditional man but they do t have to be a traditional woman? Well in my culture, men don’t want to be taken advantage of just because we are Gringos..That’s why men should be careful who you ask out?
Raised by a Strong Father,in a Patriarchal Culture = Always pays for his dates. Raised by a Single Mother,in a Matriarchal Culture = Complains and Whines about paying for hypothetical dates,he never actially goes on.
O can respect that i am some what obligated to pay but soon as i see the price is going above what it should you a hit and quit a pump and dump a ride then slide 😂 my money always will mean more to me then a woman until that woman shows me she is worth something
When I take my ladies out when I am in a different countries hell yeah I'm paying some women in Latin America is nothing like here in our country but in Latin America alot of the women they know how to be a woman and they will take care of they man Fasho
I think I need to visit Columbia hey forget the paying for stuff I mean we been paying anyway since like age 19 what’s changed 😅 I’m sure Columbia huge where do I find your breed 😅😊💯👌🥺😛?
my thing is with any woman I deal with I'm like once I get some affection out of it or sex out of it first I have no issue with paying for a meal. but depending upon how long we've been together that is when I'm willing to pay for better restaurants.
question. I know there are gay guys but are there lesbian women in colombia? Like beautiful like you and other women who are very Feminine and get dressed up? How is the country about that? Do rhe women have to hide and pretend they don't like women? Is it safe for beautiful colombian women to be lesbian in colombian?
Nah yall women better start paying alot of women around the world are like childern the only girl i pay for is my daughter and you women are not my daughter
But you columbian women expect a gringo to pay for everything including your time for example paying your Uber so you can see the gringo. Man paying dinner is standard across the world most women in any country leave wallet at home. Paying for your time in columbia is another thing I don't think you behave same way to Columbia men with.
@@paolasands all I'm saying a lot of gringos are leaving columbia because of the arrogance entitlement of the women in 2023 in columbia it's not even a western country it's ridiculous how the women behave especially In Medellin it's the worst. Majority guys leave columbia single. They find love in other 3 Rd world places where it's less about looks and materlism and less like united states where the woman don't tell you to pay your Uber and pay everything and more like foreigners and cooperate meaning less flaking. I think more gringos need to leave and make columbian woman more humble then they will stop drugging and realised they are not the prettiest thing on earth as guys are going elsewhere.
@@whitegirllover32 gringos and always free to go and do what they please. I don’t think is just a Colombian problem, social media is extending the influence of a modern women around the world.
@@paolasands I disagree to certain extent because you can ask 40 women in Medellin on a date and they will ask you to pay for the Uber and if you don't they stop talking to you or even if they come and you didn't pay for their transportation they won't see you again because you never payed their transport. In other countries it ain't like that and it's very rare a woman in other countries will want you to pay Uber for her , even in other south america places. And drugging thing is rare outside of columbia So there's a problem obviously.
Women in medellin don't cook brother they are always eating out same as America my guy. Especially the pasias they are white women in medellin. it will be on your credit card as the gringo if you find one even though they date their own race and use you for money as a gullable foreigner. Do yourself a favour in terms of dating overseas cross columbia out the list of places to date women and find a genuine wife. You will thank me later.
Do anybody want to accept Jesus christ as your savior he want to give u love peace and love and happiness and calmness and salvation and eternal life if u confess your sins repeat after me Jesus christ I recognize that I'm a sinner I want to forgive me for my sin and write my name in the book of life in the name of the father the son in the holy spirit amen pray to keep the connection with God fasting to let all the desire of the flesh die reading the Bible because God talk to us in different ways and forms by reading the Bible and going to church because the word of God come from hearing it u do this four things and the holy spirit will do the rest
Colombian women can and will take advantage so make sure she really cares about you and if not then walk away.
Okay but how does one know if she really cares about you? Women toady especially hot women are good at faking their emotions.
The man pays for the date. Fair enough. But if you just met her and she asks for anything more than taxi fare she's using you.
I usually pay for dates. Never had that problem. Even when the date sucks I still pay. 😂
Beautiful
i heard the dates is dirt cheap like 3 us dollars for a night 5 bucks for a night with dinner
Hell yeah. I wouldn't have it any other way! And I'm American! 😆
@@kinglocs83 damn! I knew it was cheap, but damn. My broke ass would be considered rich, down there. 😆
She's right but if you're American these women expect you to pay more and want fancy things. They know their boundaries with a Colombian men with Colombian men there okay with street food
It is always about Benjamin's. I have to disagree they take your money and take their men out. See, it happens all the time in Colombia
Thats not the problem. Our momey is good there so I got it. The problem is, are you going to get us robbed or drug us is the problem.
That’s more of a Medellin thing. Not so much in the other cities. But one thing that’s common is women will get to asking and begging. “Can you give me money for ____.” It’s like a whole hustle to go on nice dates and ask for money from Gringos.
@SonnyWest87 probably, I was in cartagena, and everything went well, but probably because I was smart and wasn't extra thirsty.
She looks really good but Colombia is just too dangerous to risk going to even for a fine lady like her!
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It’s not dangerous the tourists that got caught there were doing no stupid things
I've been six times in the last year to different cities I've never had a problem.
"You can have whatever you likeeeee" - Tip😂
I love my Colombian wife
Me too not yours mine.
I have no problem with that. I’m a traditional man and that’s how i was raised, I’ll be in Colombia in august.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Who raised you
@@kennethsmith1897 my parents why?
I can respect that.
Dam she pretty
Never had issues paying for dates, I had a thing with a Colombian woman last year. We had visited Bogotá/medellin/periera to visit her family. Like 6 months into dating she tried getting me to buy us wedding rings and move in with her. Ended up breaking up with her a little while after, she was about 4 years older than me but much less mature
I dont know why someone would go to a country to look for a traditional woman, but get offended when the women are being traditional. Gringo, if you want to split bills, just date the women in your country!!!!
she fire!
U ain’t lying lol
Speaking facts
Yes indeed Latino men pay for women when they invite a woman. It's being a caballero
Do women in any country ever ask a man out on the first date? I don't mind a woman wanting to be lead by a man that can take care of his woman, but that's usually not what's said.
When i was there she brought whole family and relatives
On the the first date ?
So what
@@GeovannyRodrigo-uc8uu
😐 you serious...
She’s telling the truth
You might think we are trying to take advantage of you we are you have to understand it's part of the culture. At least she is straight up about it.
It’s called sticking to traditional ways. Men take care of the women and the women takes care of the man . I pray the rest of the world doesn’t lose its ways . Then folks wouldn’t travel as much lol
Already has bro, we are in the woke age. That’s why it’s better to date women from trad countries, westernised woman are only good for
Bună.Nu știu engleză.Estii Columbiancă.Esti superbă,foarte frumoasă.Respect Columbia
They always charge the gringos more. Gringo price is real.
Thanks. IT'S STILL THAT WAY IN THE so- called American NEGRO/BLACK community for the most part for some of us today's still stay true to the old ways. One should look up BLACK PEOPLE/negra are the ISRAELITES FROM THE BIBLE for more FASCINATING ANSWERS to very deep CULTURAL questions dealing with relationships, cultural differences ect. APTTMH🔥
So beautiful and she explains it well
What's the best part of Colombia for tourists
Good answer it's being a gentleman 👏🏿👏🏿
Colombianas will try a foreigner more than a Colombiano.
WIth respect, myself and every gringo I met while in Colombia met at least one woman that tried to take advantage of us. I invited a woman out to coffee and she brought her friend without telling me. She and her friend ordered lots of food and dessert instead of the coffee that I invited only one of them out to get. They then invited ME out to dinner at a fancy restaurant, ordered very expensive food, and had me pay for everything including the taxi to both of their houses. I didn't try to have sex with them because I'm looking for a wife, so that wasn't even a thought.
All of my guy friends experienced a similar situation of inviting one woman out then she invited her friends and expected the gringo to pay. I think you guys refer to that as the "Marrano." I known not all Colombians are like that though, so I just made sure to only associate with the Colombianas that weren't viewing me as a Marrano. Last but not least, I met these women in the gym, at Salsa class, and at Spanish School.
Shouldn't it be equal tho culturally wise understanding one another working together as a team it should be 50 50 in one way or another
Mami,You are Super Preciosa .From one gringo Colombiano to the other colombiana.🇨🇴🇨🇴🇨🇴Besitos😘
I have a apartment in colombia, and have a very attractive nice colombian woman I see when I come down. She ask me for nothing. But knows when I'm down there I pay for everything
Great
I have no problem paying I have always paid it’s no problem it just money that I can make back.
What’s your type in men both physically and personality?
I respect her answer but its not that cut and dry. Expecting a guy to pay for a date is far different then expecting him to pay your rent l, phone bill, buy clothes, because this is what the expectation is now. They want men who are detailed and buys them gifts and gives them money and the sad part is many of them will find one who does all that and still be messing with other dudes. Its a vicious cylcle out here .
Asking women to pay is always shameful no matter what the situation is
Uh....no. If a woman is just using you then it is not shameful to expect to go dutch.
That's your opinion
@@brownpapi2634 i know that
Why would a man invite any woman on a date with her and not pay for the date? Of course he's going to pay for the date. It's safe to leave your wallet home. No worries at all 😊.
She’s beautiful
Thabknyouuu
Same like in Asia
That sounds the same as American culture where the man pays
She is beautiful ❤😮😮😮❤
thank for the information ❤
As a white American, that's how it's SUPPOSED TO BE!!! 😆. I couldn't IMAGINE asking a girl out, without expecting to pay. Actually, I INSIST on paying! Any guys that feels otherwise, aren't even men. 😩
Any "Real" Man, thinks he is supposed to pay for a dinner! I rather to be at home, and she cook for me. Or I'll cook for her
I can’t wait to go sincere where my machismo is appreciated completely
That's how it should be truthfully
It all depends on the woman of course. Medellin is a dating jungle for gringos. Living there long term for a gringo is difficult in Medellin. Too many transactional expectations. The rules are different for foreigners than Colombian men. The Colombian men can do the menu del dia, for many Gringos the expectation is a provenza and a night on the town. The test is asking them on a cafe date the first date, watch how many will say yes, then flake. I would not recommend Medellin long term guys, go there, have fun and dip. Small towns may be better, they don’t have all that flash that the locals expect from Gringos, so perhaps finding genuine chicas can be more promising. I’m yet to find out.
If she not asking for a 5 star restaurant it’s cool.
OMG you remind me so much of my ex-wife from Brazil.❤
El que envita, paga.
Wasn’t this girl on Kevin Samuel’s live once
Yes it is me
@@paolasands may I ask you the link plz?
@@federarcolanditera5312 there is a lot of RUclipsr that has repost it, I don’t have an specific link.
Im black I love Colombia i might come over there the women are fire . You as well
What is your point
Muy linda
Love her accent!❤
😶
So Colombian women want a traditional man but they do t have to be a traditional woman? Well in my culture, men don’t want to be taken advantage of just because we are Gringos..That’s why men should be careful who you ask out?
Beautiful you are
Okay..so what if he leaves you at the restaurant? Part of your culture?. I liked to be asked. Not told what I should.
Raised by a Strong Father,in a Patriarchal Culture = Always pays for his dates.
Raised by a Single Mother,in a Matriarchal Culture = Complains and Whines about paying for hypothetical dates,he never actially goes on.
Gringo😂😂😂I am from bogota comestas o je
It used to he the same here in America
An emplanada for some box. Sure why not
O can respect that i am some what obligated to pay but soon as i see the price is going above what it should you a hit and quit a pump and dump a ride then slide 😂 my money always will mean more to me then a woman until that woman shows me she is worth something
I want to visit in Columbia
That’s international
When I take my ladies out when I am in a different countries hell yeah I'm paying some women in Latin America is nothing like here in our country but in Latin America alot of the women they know how to be a woman and they will take care of they man Fasho
I think I need to visit Columbia hey forget the paying for stuff I mean we been paying anyway since like age 19 what’s changed 😅
I’m sure Columbia huge where do I find your breed 😅😊💯👌🥺😛?
MENTIRAS AMOR 😒😒😒😒😒
Que es mentiras ?
@@paolasands LIES.....WE BOTH KNOW COLOMBIAN WOMEN DONT TREAT GRINGOS AND COLOMBIANOS THE SAME 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Vsuelz no all but they do, is also in Latinos culture that the man is the one who pays. So why is it different?
@@paolasands ENTIENDO MI AMOR ⚘️
hola guys. i live in USA
Wouldnt lie to u im getting married in columbia
Why not right
my thing is with any woman I deal with I'm like once I get some affection out of it or sex out of it first I have no issue with paying for a meal. but depending upon how long we've been together that is when I'm willing to pay for better restaurants.
Interesting
So, you basically want a prostitute
If I invite you out I expect to pay for dinner 🍽 we not going shopping 🛍 but I’d def take you out and let u enjoy yourself
Man i would put a ring on her finger 😍
I didn’t hear a word she said she A1 like the steak sauce
question. I know there are gay guys but are there lesbian women in colombia? Like beautiful like you and other women who are very Feminine and get dressed up?
How is the country about that? Do rhe women have to hide and pretend they don't like women?
Is it safe for beautiful colombian women to be lesbian in colombian?
Nah yall women better start paying alot of women around the world are like childern the only girl i pay for is my daughter and you women are not my daughter
Well nobody is forcing you to date women who do not believe in 50/50 or whatever your theory is
Búscate un español, verás el cielo...
Bad and good women are everywhere as a man i have learn that in this life you get what you give
ES MUY CIERTO BONITA. SIEMPRE Y CUANDO UD VENGA CON UNO ES LO PRIINCIIPAL.❤❤
Mi esposa
you are so gorgeous
Am înțeles.Dă mi un sărut.💐👺
Will you cook though?
😍
Goodday Paola
All women don’t expect that
🎉
No different from western dating...hmmmm
Que hermosa estás bebe!
But you columbian women expect a gringo to pay for everything including your time for example paying your Uber so you can see the gringo. Man paying dinner is standard across the world most women in any country leave wallet at home. Paying for your time in columbia is another thing I don't think you behave same way to Columbia men with.
Whoever is asking you to pay for her time either don’t like you enough or just want to used you.
@@paolasands all I'm saying a lot of gringos are leaving columbia because of the arrogance entitlement of the women in 2023 in columbia it's not even a western country it's ridiculous how the women behave especially In Medellin it's the worst. Majority guys leave columbia single. They find love in other 3 Rd world places where it's less about looks and materlism and less like united states where the woman don't tell you to pay your Uber and pay everything and more like foreigners and cooperate meaning less flaking. I think more gringos need to leave and make columbian woman more humble then they will stop drugging and realised they are not the prettiest thing on earth as guys are going elsewhere.
@@whitegirllover32 gringos and always free to go and do what they please. I don’t think is just a Colombian problem, social media is extending the influence of a modern women around the world.
@@paolasands I disagree to certain extent because you can ask 40 women in Medellin on a date and they will ask you to pay for the Uber and if you don't they stop talking to you or even if they come and you didn't pay for their transportation they won't see you again because you never payed their transport. In other countries it ain't like that and it's very rare a woman in other countries will want you to pay Uber for her , even in other south america places. And drugging thing is rare outside of columbia So there's a problem obviously.
@@whitegirllover32 you are free yo never come back. There is problems everywhere. Maybe you should try other cities
Is drugging and robbing men part of your culture too?
Yo intendo 😊
Latinas in general
Hola
Ok....but can you cook....ijs
Women in medellin don't cook brother they are always eating out same as America my guy. Especially the pasias they are white women in medellin. it will be on your credit card as the gringo if you find one even though they date their own race and use you for money as a gullable foreigner. Do yourself a favour in terms of dating overseas cross columbia out the list of places to date women and find a genuine wife. You will thank me later.
Sure
Dam lie
BS Money and Greed Card that it
My God she's gorgeous... Any man who expects a woman like her to pay doesn't deserve her.
The colombian mens always pay for you and his mistress. No culture is perfect unfortunately
I will pay for your dinner any day.
Do anybody want to accept Jesus christ as your savior he want to give u love peace and love and happiness and calmness and salvation and eternal life if u confess your sins repeat after me Jesus christ I recognize that I'm a sinner I want to forgive me for my sin and write my name in the book of life in the name of the father the son in the holy spirit amen pray to keep the connection with God fasting to let all the desire of the flesh die reading the Bible because God talk to us in different ways and forms by reading the Bible and going to church because the word of God come from hearing it u do this four things and the holy spirit will do the rest