A *very* Candid Q+A (where I was maybe too honest, oops oh well)
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- Опубликовано: 13 ноя 2022
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I’m so glad you said that about being cheated on. My husband had an affair 5 years into our marriage that resulted in a child. We were married for 27 years. He left at the end of 2020. For 25 years, I felt unwanted and not enough. Since he has been gone, I have found myself and regained my joy. I AM ENOUGH and I love myself again. I have learned that what other people think, say or how they feel about me is NONE of my business.
Girl my sister was married for 10 years. When it finally all came crashing down she met the love of her life while in the divorce process and was remarried 1 year after she left her 1st husband. She had been alone in that marriage a long time and was ready to be loved. The divorce announcement and her new marriage announcement came out in the newspaper ON THE SAME DAY. She now has 2 babies and is happier than ever. Do ya thing girl.
100%!
I had no negative comments, 3 years of being miserable with my ex bf - met my forever a week later, married 10 months later. No regrets about 'not waiting long enough'. You don't owe that last creep anything!
Every time you catch yourself saying "thanks for allowing me" and correct yourself, I feel SO PROUD OF YOU. It's really really tough to be self-aware and vulnerable enough to do that internal work on your own / with your inner circle... Let alone online. Go you!
This made me emotional 🥹 thank you
I think I’ve mentioned it before. I struggled with Christianity because I struggled with how other people abused the religion against others and had troubles with the church as an institution. I have always felt so drawn to the way you represent Christianity through love and respect and not pushing the institution
Michel, love how authentic and honest you are in answering these Q & A's, especially staying true to your faith in God and yourself. 💕
It’s been fun to watch you change and grow into a better version of you over the past year and a half!
I'm enjoying your honest q&a. I think that's a thoughtful and respectful answer to the question on how soon to get married. I think it's important that we have the support from our community, friends, and family. My husband wanted to elope in the early stages of our relationship and didn't want a wedding. But I stood firm, and he waited and we were both glad in the end because the wedding was a huge blessing to us, both financially and spiritually. We were blown away by everyone's love and gifts. I don't think eloping would have been wrong or bad, it's just not what I wanted.
I got married later in life and reflecting back what I wanted in a man (spouse) in my 20's changed in my 30's and then changed in my 40's. Which I'm happy I waited because it was perfectly timed for us both. Embrace each season of your life for there will be many. One thing I really wanted to say to you Michel and I hope you see this because it's been on my heart for some time and it was a sermon I saw many years ago as it changed the way I looked at things, what I had been through because when I was 17-21 years old I was in a verbally abusive relationship but he also would stalk me. In this sermon the pastor said "nothing you've been through will be wasted." So, my mess became a message when needed. I have been through many other things and they won't be wasted either. ~Donya
Michel, I just adore you. Please don’t ever leave social media- I’d miss your posts so much! I’ve been watching for years and you are in your glow up season without a doubt. So happy to see wherever you continue to take us ❤
I teared up when you mentioned the care you feel. I feel care coming from you! It is one of the reasons that I love your videos! Sending love and good vibes for a wonderful time being a nomad!!❤❤
Taylor Winn has been nomading worldwide for over a year now … You might want to watch a few of her videos just to see what her experiences were, and she seems like she’s traveling (no pun intended) some similar avenues you are as it relates to life. You’re both pretty sweet women stretching your wings and exploring life. Inspiring!
A big warm welcome to Nashville hug from over here in downtown. :). Glad to see you thriving and growing. I'm old enough to be your Mom (probably older than your Mom) and I've watched you for several years now. I'm so happy to see you coming out the other side of a lot of hard things and finding your happiness.
I have been absolutely in love with your videos post divorce. They have felt very genuine and more of what you wanted to do. Also, you introduced me to what church could be. I grew up feeling that I was a sinner, will forever be a sinner, the rapture will come at any time, etc etc which led me to be extremely anxious. I would cry before my parents took me to church on sundays. It was a place of just stress and anxiety. The church you went to in California showed me that it is a loving and accepting place where others actually care about you. Thank you for everything that you do for us through this channel
This made me tear up. Thank you for sharing this with me 🥹 sending you SO MUCH love
Which church was it???
You are absolutely growing and glowing, Michel! ❤ We love it!
Surviving, yes you are! And SO much more--you are thriving and flourishing! As a long-time subscriber and someone who feels like I could be your older sister, it is a beautiful thing to witness!💖
When you said this felt like coffee with a friend, that’s exactly how I felt. Like I was just listening to a friend vulnerably answer questions and how she’s doing. Thanks for sharing this journey with us ❤
You’re getting prettier and happier everyday! Love your hair and outfit 🥰
Loved this q&a as a divorce woman also. I’ve actually been binge watching all your videos from when you started living by yourself as it was comforting to see someone starting over again like I’ve had to. Was a little disappointed that you never answered my question as it’s something I’ve wrestled with as a Christian divorcee & would’ve loved to hear your personal decision that you’ve taken. I know you got a lot of questions though so no worries! Just love seeing you thriving after the trauma. Gives me hope for my life ❤
Your channel is such a safe space for me ❤️
I’ve truly loved watching you grow over this last year loved everything you said!! Your doing amazing Michel and you look very pretty!!❤
LOVE you Q&As so much! Thank you! And side note, you would be INCREDIBLE at staging homes! You have an eye and inspire me in decorating my home! 💛
So happy to see you flourish and grow out of the craziest circumstances. Thank you for being such a great example of graceful growth and a loving human being. So proud of you and I hope you get to do this for as long as you want. ❤
Michele - as silly as this sounds you are GLOWING with happiness!
Thank you for the "panel".... and the look after. Priceless.
As soon as I saw you posted this video I got a cup of tea and a blanket. Thank you for showing us that even after heartbreak that love will always be worth it and always prevail. ❤
Loved this video! Your honesty is rewarded in healing hearts! ❤❤
Go Michel! I’m so in awe of watching you grow, low, and respect yourself. There is no time table for life and I’m glad to hear you say that. You will know the time is right for marriage again when nothing but you and your partners feelings are aligned. ❤
This for me has been your most self confident one you’ve had for a while! Proud of you and it was very interesting as
well. Have a lovely evening!
I can hear you mature and develop in your words and demeanor. Your story has clearly helped many and that's the idea, that's the goal. Mission accomplished. I was in a 13.5 yr marriage that ended similarly, only there was also a child involved. However, your advice and kind words resonate with what I share too. Kudos.
My daughter is doing the same thing as you. She just ended a 4 year relationship and moved home with her dad and I. She was living in NYC and the rent was crazy, especially because she was living alone and paying everything herself. Now that she is here, and saving loads of money so she travels either alone or with friends to beautiful places, staying in AirBNB's. I wish I would have done that when I was single and before kids! I hope you enjoy your freedom and experiences. It is a luxury most people never have.
Love these videos. So relaxing and informative.
The Venmo request part…YES Michel…what a queen! Proud of you for getting g through this last year! 👏🏼💜
You are such an amazing person. Thank you for allowing us to be part of your life. You make us feel like true friends. I enjoy your channel SO much!
You help me every time I watch your videos. Sometimes I laugh, sometimes I cry. Either way, it helps. Thank you. 💞
Truly inspirational and loving - you are a highlight to my week...thanks for sharing, as always!
Thank you for sharing all this with us ❤
I’m so glad you feel the care. I care so much for you. It really feels like we’re sisters 😄 even though you don’t know me! ♥️ excited to be here for nomad life!🎉
Thank you for being open and honest. 🥰
I appreciate your authenticity and love seeing how much you’ve grown over the last year! Hope you’re enjoying nomad life 💗 My husband and I are doing something similar right now. Also- really hoping to see Jordy with Ben Rector during his old friends tour!!
Q&A videos are my favorite!
Great video love these Q&A ones too . have a Fantastic time traveling around , looking forward to to
Seeing where you visit etc .
Take care. Have a Good week 🥰
I love your honesty. I do think you are way too hard on yourself. Do what is best for you. Forget what society and other people that are not your inner circle say!! You should do what makes your heart happy. And dang woman keep whatever secrets to yourself. You deserve to have them too. 💓 we understand or should. Protect yourself and your self worth. You will never make everyone 😊 happy. And so so happy Jordy makes you happy and treats you so well, and well deserved. You being a momma definitely makes sense. Love ya girl. 😘 be well. Be safe.
I hope you eventually never worry about what others are thinking on what decisions you make. Don't have to pls. anyone but yourself and God. If you are sure about your decisions, no one can take away your joy. Wonderful talk, thank you.
Don't make a decision about marriage based on us or what we have to say about it. It shouldn't have anything to do with us. If you and Jordy are ready, go for it.
Preserving yourself is a priority, so only share parts of your life that you want to. I am happy that you are taking chances and starting a different path, which keeps you open to new ways of thinking and living. Remember to take one step at a time and if you need to take a few steps back for a few minutes, then, so be it. Jordy sounds like a great guy and I hope that you bring each other alot of good vibes and fun while spending time together. I think you are adorable and very worthy of love and happiness. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your life with us. I look forward to each post!
You should never never let anyone dictate when you should do things and why. If you fall deeply in love and YOU feel its the right time then you go ahead and get married. Those who are negative about it doesn’t truly have your best interest at heart. Us who love you wholeheartedly only care about your happiness and well-being.
All the negative can just stick it where the sun don’t shine. We only collect positive in this town😘 Love ya❤️
You are an incredible young woman. I am MUCH older than you but have enjoyed following your blog for the last several months. I wish I had been as brave as you when I was younger:) May God bless you during this nomad phase of your life...have a ball!!!!
Bless you Michel…I’m sorry other Christian’s can be so critical…I’ve experienced it too (especially as a divorced woman). This channel is your ministry…it’s an outreach programme to so many women.
I like your honest answers to these questions.
I just love you so much ❤❤ thank you for being you 🥰
Your channel has quickly become my absolute favorite ❤️ I liked your videos before the divorce but I think there were times that your viewers could maybe sense that you were being disingenuous. But now you are unapologetically yourself & seem so much lighter. Thank you for being a positive part of my day! ❤️
I feel so much safer to be genuine now 🥰🥰🥰 thank you, friend!
I'm enjoying watching you spread your wings.🥰
Loved this video! Thank you for doing it :)
I’ve done tiny home life. It’s awesome but not too long term. It’s fun and cozy though. Then we had a vacay tiny home in the mountains for a while. Go for it if you get the chance. Thanks for being candid, great q&a.
I feel like it would be a fun vacation home to spend a few months a year there!😍
Michel ...you always inspire me in a positive way. For that l thank you 😀
love watching your videos, it feels like we're besties on facetime! :) also, where is your name necklace from?! SO CUTE
Michel, I'm so happy you are not taking it all so seriously. Be young, have fun & enjoy each day. Keep on being you!
I understand your answer about getting married, but please don’t deny your needs and wants based on what others think! I truly believe that if you you cross that bridge and it comes from a place of pure you will reflect that and in turn make us feel excited and happy for you! I truly believe if you were to portray any insecurities about getting married (or any decision you come across making) that people will be more concerned for you and less excited for you…I know for me and I hope I could speak for the majority if not all of us that we want you to have the happiest and healthiest best life possible whatever that looks like for you!!!xoxoxo
Knitting Christmas gifts and listening along ❤️ Proud of you, girl!
That sounds so cozy!🥰
Love your vlogs,you are a beautiful soul.
You’re such a cutie, Michel. ❤ your uploads never disappoint!
Thank you, Pricilla 🥰🥹
So glad you caught the "thank you for allowing me......." Focus on Michel. ❤ I'm so excited to see what life has in store for you.
I’m proud of you ❤️🌻
it is coming up on 3 years since the end of my relationship with my ex and since then I've done so much soul searching and healing. the divorce was truly a blessing in disguise - thank you for sharing your journey and I wish you the best 💜
I agree! I am also Christian and know better but still would do that fortune thing for fun. There’s a difference in being malicious and doing fun ya know!? I know better in what’s right and what’s wrong (I’m still learning) but I am not perfect! That’s for sure. Sending my love and hugs 🫂 ❤. See you next time! 😊
ALWAYS LOVE YOU Q&A VIDEOS I FEEL WE CAN ASK ANYTHING, I ALWAYS COME AWAY WITH SOMETHING POSITIVE ❤
Thank you for being here, Leslie!
Michel, you seem so much more comfortable .keep believing in your self
You are so beautiful and very natural and i'm so happy to see you living your life and being happy. love watching your videos and your family and Jordy. thank you sweet heart. xo
Thanks for the honesty while sharing
you are a fantastic person!! you have come though a BIG LIFE change!! you seem so happy nd content. 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Oh no!!! "Thank you for the panel"
Girl you are so classy.
I so wish I could snap you out of that thought about societal expectations in terms of marrying again. Of course don’t rush, but holy canoli only YOUR happiness matters. You’re not living for us. You’re living for you. Do what feels right for you and forget the rest. Plus you don’t have to share your engagement or wedding or anything else if people are going to be mean and insensitive and rude. You get to enjoy with the people who know you and love you and care about you! 💞💞💞
You are such a wonderful person.
I really enjoyed the video your so open and honest with us.
Your videos have quickly become my absolute favourite ❤ I love your channel and vibe so much!
MAYA 🥹🥹🥹
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Michel! I need a personal assistant to a celebrity couple story time! Or at least what you can say. That would be so interesting to hear about!!
OK, I literally had to stop your video to comment about your concerns re:societal opinions on when you choose to get married again. NO marriage, NO divorce is exactly like another. Those that watch your channel now know and understand the hell you endured through both your marriage as well as your divorce. That entanglement was, on his part, a lie from start to finish. When your heart, mind and soul are ready for you to marry, when your family are supporting your choice, do what is right for you! If there are ‘followers’ that are hateful, cruel, negative, use the DELETE button!!! Life (and death) don’t follow a timeline. Don’t put off what brings you joy, what makes your soul sing, because of random, faceless people who can’t deal with their own lives so they feel the need to critique yours! As for my humble opinion (and a survivor of marriage/divorce with a covert narcissist) you could get married tomorrow or two years from now and I will cheer for you. You deserve a beautiful life filled with incredible experiences. If that means marriage and children in your near future or being a nomad and seeing the world for a few months/years, it’s YOUR LIFE! There are many more of us that will celebrate you and your choices than will condemn you for them. Remember, you have full power over that delete button! If someone isn’t a positive addition, they can become a subtraction!❤
this was awesome to listen to. "it's nice to meet me" - i love that
Awe man wish I would of seen! I have a question! How will you handle your health while traveling? Like seeing doctors and getting medication refills
Omg... If that is a dupe for the women's fragrance fossil used to make I am buying immediately. That used to be my signature scent and I miss it!
Oh yes open a vintage shop!!!!
You need to get married when YOU feel ready and not wait for anyone else’s approval….except for maybe your immediate family and close friends in which you value/trust their opinion…even then, you gotta live for YOU (& your partner, of course.) Please do not make any major life decisions based up any of “our” opinions!! We don’t really know you, nor you, us. Live your life! We’ll adapt. I promise. Go with YOUR gut. Just my two cents 😊
Wow, you look amazing!!!
You are such a refreshing channel in the sometimes depressing world of RUclips. I love your content so much and have been rooting for you from the very very start!!!! Congrats on how far you’ve come and how you’ve survived and thrived since the divorce!
"Focus on the community rather than serving so hard". Thats will be in my head i think 🤯
You are so sweet! Love your videos!
I want you to know I have never been divorced but I am trying to live through mental health ! And hearing your heart and representing Jesus well.. proud of you love you xxoo😊
As much as I adore you and want to know you, I love that you're starting to want to keep some things to yourself.
Omg Ive been to culver hotel a handful of times! Cool!
I feel like I'm never just popping in to say keep up the good self work and new experiences but always giving advice but hopefully this advice I have encourages both... ok, I always wanted to have a kid at 32, my dad married my mom at 32 and I always thought if it made sense for him it felt right for me bc my mom was so much younger than him and I did not really relate to that, but that aside, now I'm past that age and at 32 I had a moment I thought I was pregnant. I'm still sad i wasn't. I realize it's never the right time, but to me I learned that's not point that the time isn't right, because I'm getting older I'm having more trouble with telling my self it's not wrong, that even if women typically struggle harder at this point it doesn't change if there's a will there's a way. But if I was open to making bigger changes earlier on I might be children by now, and that's something I wish I'd realized could be good.
I understand completely your desire to not have to deal with the backlash of comments about getting married, because let's face it, people can be incredibly thoughtless and unkind. The other side of that feeling that you need to watch out for though, is that in time you may end up feeling like you should be moving things along because by society's rules you're "at the point" where you "should" be moving things along. I think that thought process causes people to make the wrong choices about why they want to marry. I think you're doing exactly the right thing and taking time out to find out who you are. When the time is right and you feel ready, you'll know. It's a bit like getting clucky for babies. When you find yourself wishing you were engaged, wishing you could make a commitment to that person that makes your day brighter, because you love the thought of that person being in your future forever, then I suspect that the conversation will just come up :) Until you feel like that, keep on doing exactly what you're doing and that is learning to love and appreciate yourself, no matter how long that takes, or even if it remains that way and you never want to marry again. Stuff the rules. Marrying because you're following the norms of society will only lead to heartache. It has everything to do with how you two feel about each other and nothing to do with anybody else or what society expects.
Michel you look so pretty in this video ☺️ that's a great top on you!
Where is your name necklace from? I love it💜
Michel I LOVE you and your content.
I do want ro day something.
When you mentioned about getting re married how you would want to wait for the public to accept it- I want to say this.
I'm 39. I wished I did not have that mentality when I was your age.
People will ALWAYS judge you. If Jesus of all people, was judged and frowned down upon, we (as little people) will always be judged even if you are doing the most peacel thing on earth.
Live your life for YOU. Do what you want to do for YOU. Say what you want to say for YOU. Never ever do or say things based on others because that that point you are living someone else's expectations and wants. Not YOURS.
Enjoy your life to the fullest. And always follow your ❤.
Many blessings to you and your family 🙏❤
You are so just legitimately you I can feel it in every video and it's sooo refreshing
Hi, Michel and Happy Monday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖👍
So proud of you beautiful!!!
Keep walking out *Jeremiah 29:11 ❤
What’s the song in the end of your video? Love your vlogs❤
That necklace! I saw it in your last video and meant to ask and forgot so here I am seeing it again! So where did you get it? And can I get myself one with my name!