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  • @AlexisJayda
    @AlexisJayda  6 месяцев назад +109

    HEY LOVES! todays video hits a very sensitive topic! watch with caution please

    • @laurapoitra5882
      @laurapoitra5882 6 месяцев назад +1

      Love you Alexis been having a rough couple of weeks but I’m doing my best to get out of this funk. I hope is all well for you and your family ❤️✨ I miss your energy it always brings me joy and comfort

    • @vvotchme1576
      @vvotchme1576 6 месяцев назад +4

      if you wanted to publish a book this year would be a great year to do so the universe is rewarding the light handsomely

    • @vvotchme1576
      @vvotchme1576 6 месяцев назад +1

      sometimes i forget what the scene looked like when you first start but when you go to where you left off i map out the houses and apartments in my head again and imagine what everyone looks like etc

    • @LadyMo89
      @LadyMo89 6 месяцев назад +1

      Lex the cliff hangers !!! 😅 you have us all at the edge of our seats !
      Love you girl and thank you so much for sharing your life with us . ❤
      Sadly I can relate to S A and my mom not acting upon it either I got sent away as “the problem child” and went with my own version of “the ex” twice !!!!
      I can relate to you so much , I really appreciate you and how much of a great mom you are to your babies .

    • @Rayarenee937
      @Rayarenee937 6 месяцев назад +1

      I love you girl. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I know it's helping others. Maybe one day they can open up and tell their stories to. I'm sorry you had to take the road you did to get to where you are but regardless of your past you are a great mother, wife and person period. 🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @KnoxOutComics
    @KnoxOutComics 6 месяцев назад +48

    Not the peaches acting like you were a GROWN adult in this situation. Like, they barely paid and had the audacity to act like they were paying you top dolla. ugh they need to gtfo!!!

  • @a.h.1980
    @a.h.1980 6 месяцев назад +106

    Why you? Because you were a vulnerable child. Because you had no dad and practically no mom. No proper adult to house, feed, love and protect you. And that's what predators like. The vulnerable with no one behind them. That's why this continously happened, because you were continously without protection. And they should've been ashamed for failing you. I hope they've seen the errors of their ways. You had no fault in it, and I'm sure you know that. I know that now too. Thank you for being open with us and sharing. It's hard but it helps others see the bigger picture and why these things happen and how we can stop it. You're the best ❤

    • @Vev_Love
      @Vev_Love 6 месяцев назад +6

      I totally agree when people see you don’t have family to protect you they always try and take advantage of you.

  • @Jazzie831ify
    @Jazzie831ify 6 месяцев назад +6

    I was at the edge of my seat the whole time as you are navigating the situation with him 😳 I’m so sorry for little Lex 🥺 and I totally know where you are coming from, you make me not feel alone with my traumas 😭 thank you for always being so open ❤️

  • @helenmartinez8611
    @helenmartinez8611 6 месяцев назад +4

    😲😳Happy that you’re in a better place. Your changing things for you and your children. Your an amazing woman.

  • @cristalojefa
    @cristalojefa 6 месяцев назад +1

    It’s so sad you went through this, it’s generational curses as mom and grandmother never stopped the men from hurting them or you 😭 but you are by speaking out, before you spoke about but no one heard or bothered to listen,but now you are healing and being herd by many and helping someone that was or is little Lex. God bless you hermosa🙏

  • @angie0295
    @angie0295 6 месяцев назад +1

    Im so sorry Alexis these adults keep failing and leaving you in situations like these. You NEVER deserved it Im glad Sugar and Spice busted in when they did and dealt with Bobby, but it should have never gone that far!!

  • @mrs.anderson1519
    @mrs.anderson1519 6 месяцев назад +2

    Do I see the same purses in multiple colors?!?! Love it! I always wanted something in every color when I like it lol

  • @missdaisy6286
    @missdaisy6286 6 месяцев назад

    I am so sorry for all the bad things that happened to you! So disgusting how every adult in your life (even cousins) did you so wrong!! I’m so happy you’re finally happy ❤

  • @lillyaspeitia51
    @lillyaspeitia51 6 месяцев назад +2

    It’s really exciting when I see you post, I love your videos because I relate to everything you’ve talked about I’ve been through my own series in my life, and starting to learn to heal on my own, it’s hard but we got this.❣️

  • @DaisyDaisyD
    @DaisyDaisyD 6 месяцев назад

    Omg once again I’m so far behind on the nanny series but I’m back and I will be binging it. Even while I’m at work. It makes my day go by faster. I just want to say I love you so much and I’m really glad I found you I just love you!! ❤😘

  • @DannyBae3
    @DannyBae3 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hey girl hey. How are you?? Hope you’re doing well. Sending you lots of positive energy. Love the press on nails

  • @briannacolin
    @briannacolin 6 месяцев назад +1

    When you post a story time I already know it’s going to be a good day ❤

  • @soulrosebeauty5729
    @soulrosebeauty5729 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Lex. Thank you for giving a voice of what we all felt going through situations that we weren’t vouched for and allowing predators around without regard or what it did to us. I wish I could’ve have stepped up the adults responsible for allowing this POS to be around, but even to this day I feel like there’s a block and I can’t. Because the times I spoke up, I got a “shut up, you’re being a brat. You don’t know any better you’re a kid.” Or made me feel like my expression towards this POS was an exaggeration. To this day, the people responsible justify THEIR feelings of having him around, and can’t have the capacity to be empathetic and know what it was like to grow up with that POS.
    Seeing how brave you were from a young age and speaking on things, not giving up just makes me feel like fuck yeah. Someone out there did it. Even though your path was so difficult and you went through so many hard things, you’ve overcome it to know who you are and speak up for yourself. I know it’s not easy and the journey feels like it never ends, but you’re handling it in the most amazing way possible and helping the rest of us heal through your stories and bravery to speak up. Love you Lex, sending you lots lots lots of love. ❤

  • @sukiumi
    @sukiumi 6 месяцев назад

    I appreciate the trigger warnings. there's trauma I haven't healed and sometimes it's hard to hear about these things. even when you think you're good and you can listen and be unaffected, much like today I am affected. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I'm sorry that it happens to people in general. it's sick, disgusting & undeserving

  • @ale.selenac510
    @ale.selenac510 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your grandma going so hard for no name makes me think they had some weird secret relationship!! You never know!!

  • @HeyitsBri_
    @HeyitsBri_ 6 месяцев назад +1

    Also some people take the side of the abuser because they want to believe that what happened didn’t happen and they’d rather get in bed with the enemy and play pretend than to confront their feelings about what happened or take accountability for their part or lack thereof.

  • @mellys910
    @mellys910 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you as always for being so open with us.

  • @audrianaserrato3225
    @audrianaserrato3225 6 месяцев назад

    Your grandma gives me the vibe of her liking no name a lil to much🤔🤔
    And the "why me?" Hit so hard for me, it's been on my mind for a while now😢😢

  • @AlyseA1689
    @AlyseA1689 4 месяца назад

    That why you comment got me! Because that’s what predators do!! They find the most vulnerable alone person they can and attack! It’s disgusting. I’m so sorry for everything you had to go through. I could never talk to anyone in my family again that did that to me. I could never be as forgiving as you. I’m so glad your heart wasn’t destroyed the way everyone seemed to want it destroyed

  • @briannaharden849
    @briannaharden849 6 месяцев назад

    Alexis, little Lex didn’t understand how beautiful you are. Not saying that’s the reason why but the fact that you felt so ugly when you are so beautiful is so crazy to me.

  • @AredVulpix
    @AredVulpix 6 месяцев назад

    This vid appeared just when I was about to start cleaning! I'm sending good vibes and thoughts to you my luv ❤

  • @Ruby-ju6ii
    @Ruby-ju6ii 6 месяцев назад

    the way i press the notification so quick anytime u post 😭 i love youuu ❤❤

  • @virginiavenegas578
    @virginiavenegas578 6 месяцев назад

    Gurl I was like ok she mad at us or what it’s been too long 😂

  • @all4hay
    @all4hay 6 месяцев назад

    how could you leave us on that cliff hanger 😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @infinitetreasure333
    @infinitetreasure333 6 месяцев назад

    Why you, because you were almost like an orphan thats why! Unprotected. The audacity and blindness of your mother and grandmother is infuriating. You can be soo proud of yourself Lex🩷. You are a very strong woman and an amazing mother. Happy Women's Day to you, much love and healing🌸🌷🩷.

  • @jenniferstrole3601
    @jenniferstrole3601 6 месяцев назад

    I literally was thinking about you earlier today.
    I hope you are doing well as well as your family ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bebita404
    @bebita404 6 месяцев назад

    Honestly don’t laugh to loud my brain cells can’t take it 😭🥺🥺

  • @lealuckau9278
    @lealuckau9278 6 месяцев назад +2

    (1:01) I know exactly "why me" people always victimize the vulnerable & defenseless. My heart hurts so much for little Lex. I hope you know you are precious, valued & loved💖💖💖

  • @natyrosa
    @natyrosa 6 месяцев назад

    YEESSSS GIRL ❤️❤️❤️ love you!!

  • @LilLizzyLuv
    @LilLizzyLuv 6 месяцев назад

    Just finished doing dishes. Eating papa johns now ☺️

  • @anjelyka5413
    @anjelyka5413 6 месяцев назад

    I'm making a ton of tortillas so this is perfect, I have something to listen to now! 😊

  • @OfficialFrankieK
    @OfficialFrankieK 6 месяцев назад

    On cleaning dayyyy😊😊😊😊

  • @jayofalltradesmasterofsome7110
    @jayofalltradesmasterofsome7110 6 месяцев назад

    Love you girlllll missed youuuu

  • @Katrina116.
    @Katrina116. 6 месяцев назад

    😮😢❤ hugs

  • @amyyork4079
    @amyyork4079 6 месяцев назад

    My ex is just as toxic as yours is. Love your look.

  • @jessiebby8567
    @jessiebby8567 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your story love ❤️ I don’t think it’s fair that the weight of “why you” was even presented to you. The adults should of stood back an reflected “why did I let this happen again I failed” that seems like they deflected and did not want to take accountability. I think you were preyed on because these creeps and psychos saw the target on your back. She’s vulnerable, easy to isolate, and maybe no one would believe her. They are called predators because they prey on that. Hurt my heart that something traumatic happened to you and you had to make others feel ok. I know u said it wasn’t Tommy’s fault but, Alexis it was her fault. She is the adult in that situation. She let a grown man get to comfortable. She can throw a cup of spit at you but can’t protect u against a predator? She was dead ass wrong. Tommy could of done more for you but she didn’t. And wasn’t the first time she failed you against a creep. Little lex deserved more from the adults in her life and you don’t deserve to carry the weight of that they do. I pray you sharing your story helps you heal. Yes, some of what you share triggers me but it also helps me not feel alone. You never alone ❤

  • @Karina-fo1jn
    @Karina-fo1jn 6 месяцев назад

    I hope you're doing good Lex ❤

  • @bam2431
    @bam2431 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @lucilozano081610
    @lucilozano081610 5 месяцев назад

    For some reason your "boom chiqui qui qui boom" brightens my mood af! 🫶

  • @Introverted_Joy
    @Introverted_Joy 6 месяцев назад

  • @gemmaalia
    @gemmaalia 6 месяцев назад

    😝😝😝😝YAYYYYY!!!!

  • @lorenag1781
    @lorenag1781 6 месяцев назад +135

    So happy to hear Bobby got handled appropriately. Especially with what you went through with no name. Even though you got no justice with him, the next case didn’t go unnoticed. The fact that your family would dare to ask “why you” is such an inappropriate thing to say. You are the most forgiving person on this earth because I would cut all communication and never speak to them ever again after all those betrayals. I’m just glad that all of those memories are just a thing of the past for you, and that you are living your best deserving life. I wish you nothing but peace and love with those who truly love and care for you. May you continue to heal each and everyday. ❤

  • @HeyitsBri_
    @HeyitsBri_ 6 месяцев назад +60

    Asking you “Why you?” when discussing your SA history is DISGUSTING. It’s like they don’t think you deserve to be abused like what? The fact of the matter is creeps can smell brokenness and want to take a piece for themselves. The chances of being SA’d increases DRASTICALLY when it has happened to someone before. People said the same to me. You’re my therapy, Alexis. TFS ❤

  • @annet1551
    @annet1551 6 месяцев назад +37

    I love that she does the recaps now in the beginning of the video🤞🏾💗

  • @amberyvonne1073
    @amberyvonne1073 6 месяцев назад +49

    I just want to say thank you for continuing to share your life and the things that you’ve experienced. I’m sure it’s not an easy thing to do. I appreciate you, and the ability you have to be vulnerable with your audience. You are loved. Xo ❤

    • @rhondag8128
      @rhondag8128 6 месяцев назад +1

      Damn Girl, just damn. I am sorry you went through all of that. No one had your back but now I think all of us would throw down and kick some ass for you. I’m 65 but can still get buck wild on some ignorant ass people and you had way more than your share in your life.

  • @jennahterry6889
    @jennahterry6889 6 месяцев назад +56

    I’m so happy ppl handled Bobby in the moment & didn’t let that shit slide, I’m so sorry you went through this my love

  • @mrs.cardenas3178
    @mrs.cardenas3178 6 месяцев назад +8

    Baby girl, the light God put in you attracted those demons. That’s what they were, DEMONS! You are here now sharing your testimony. The enemy has been trying to break you from the minute you were born because you have a purpose. One day you will get to be up in a church talking to the youth. He set you apart. The devil is a liar! Look at what you have now, your beautiful children, your loving and supportive husband. One day you’ll have that peace you’re looking for Alexis, you are so full of pain, betrayal, disappointments from the ones you trusted most, but let me tell you this, in Jesus Christ you will find that peace. It hurts me to hear you so hurt when you speak about “no name”, may God help you grieve that stage in life, and let go. Love you

  • @lindzibluer7090
    @lindzibluer7090 6 месяцев назад +6

    The why you question makes me so incredibly angry. Predators go for the weak and vulnerable. They went after you because you were left unprotected. Unprotected by the same people asking that infuriating question!!!! I am so sorry you were made to feel guilty for something that was NEVER your fault.

  • @melissavalencia0415
    @melissavalencia0415 6 месяцев назад +24

    Lex the fact that you sit up there and tell your story so bravely says it ALL ! You didn’t let these evil people take controlof your life because you literally had all the excuses in the world to end up in that lifestyle but no here you are an amazing mom ,wife , sister, friend, a good hearted human being because we’re not perfect but the attempt to be a good person and not let people ruin your heart and who you are is truly inspiring I’ve been rocking with you for 5 years now I have you on FB I always like commenting getting into conversations with you it’s like your my bff in my head ❤❤❤❤ love you and love being part of the fambam ❤❤❤❤

  • @Sarahdawnxo
    @Sarahdawnxo 6 месяцев назад +11

    Crying, that must’ve been so so scary for little Lex 🥺 I’m so sorry that happened to you. I am thankful that everyone protected you and were on your side as they should be.

  • @Monique-p8i
    @Monique-p8i 6 месяцев назад +6

    Alexis, you got me interested in therapy! I found out that if you are in Cali and have Medi-Cal, therapy visits are covered 100%. Pass it on, it has been so wonderful!

  • @stacyspears7129
    @stacyspears7129 6 месяцев назад +13

    This story was pretty terrifying but glad Bobby was handled. I’m sorry little Lex had to defend herself against these creeps. It’s heartbreaking 💔

  • @AnaVazquez-g1r
    @AnaVazquez-g1r 6 месяцев назад +45

    Seriously LOVE when you post hour videos or more makes my day ! I love listening while I workout it feels like a couple minutes when it's really been an hour !

  • @adrianaavila9379
    @adrianaavila9379 6 месяцев назад +10

    Girl I literally look up to you, I don’t have a great relationship with my mom either. Growing up and getting molested and not being able count on your mom. It was literally hell. No kid should ever go through that alone.❤️😫 your literally like a big sister to me❤️ I LOVE YOU❤️!!!

  • @SiahhBailon
    @SiahhBailon 6 месяцев назад +6

    I know exactly how you feel “why me”
    I’ve asked myself that so many times
    Hearing what happened in this story time brought me back to my SA time… I’m good don’t worry
    I’m glad everyone reacted the way everyone SHOULD HAVE reacted
    Love you and your storytimes!!!! ❤

  • @jamietamayo8710
    @jamietamayo8710 6 месяцев назад +3

    I have been following you for about 10 years! I don't comment very often but girl! I love you SO much! You are SO strong and so worthy of all the feelings you feel while telling us your story! Cheers to moving on and leveling up always!❤ I'm sending SO many hugs your way🥰💕

  • @KarinaFrost-x1i
    @KarinaFrost-x1i 6 месяцев назад +6

    I’m so glad to hear that they handled Bobby. The ex was just using that as an excuse to do whatever he wants, so he could throw it back in your face anytime he did something wrong. I know how dudes like him operate. And it’s sickening.
    The fact that your grandma did that is just inexcusable.

  • @annalyce
    @annalyce 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Lex. I think you’re very brave for sharing your stories with us. I really admire you and your strength. I never had someone watching out for me either but with these story times, it feels like you’re my big sister giving me advice and helping me through my own traumas. I hope one day to be strong and courageous like you to share my past as well. I’m very grateful to have found your channel. You kept saying “why me” and we will never truly know why, but I hope you do know that through these story times you’re helping so many young women who’ve had similar experiences to feel empowered. I love you Lex ❤️

  • @Ayonebby
    @Ayonebby 6 месяцев назад +5

    I love that they stood up for you and protected you , men can be so sick sometimes .

  • @angelbabiie95
    @angelbabiie95 6 месяцев назад +9

    yay!!! this was the best time I'm at work bored out my mind !!! gonna finish off my shift strong with this story time love ya lex❤

  • @janizezuleta1898
    @janizezuleta1898 6 месяцев назад +4

    You have been my comfort channel since 2017, you’re doing amazing ❤️❤️

  • @jenniferstrole3601
    @jenniferstrole3601 6 месяцев назад +6

    Im in literal tears because this storytime brings back past memories of something happening to me. Im so sorry this happened to you. 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @melaniesanchez3899
    @melaniesanchez3899 6 месяцев назад +6

    Clicked so fast, I've been dying for the chisme! Love you so much girl ❤ omg!!! I just got the notification shout out! I'm over here fan girling!!❤

  • @coilsoflove2012
    @coilsoflove2012 6 месяцев назад +2

    I was scared with Bobby! I am glad they got there and he was handled. Same way no name needed to be handled! I am so so sorry for the pain you were put through and through again.
    Your grandma was and still is out of line.

  • @amylynn6025
    @amylynn6025 6 месяцев назад +2

    Lex, I'm sitting here crying for little Lex. My heart is broken for her. You didn't deserve the life you got. I am so so so sorry. I am so incredibly proud of you for breaking the generational curses and changing how you raise your children and who you chose as a husband. He treats you with the love, respect and kindness you deserve. Together you are teaching those beautiful kids what family's supposed to be and how they need to treat each other and future spouses. Thank you for sharing your story. I love you. ❤

  • @ladyqueendee6043
    @ladyqueendee6043 6 месяцев назад +6

    The fact that you were able to share details about what happened to you is amazing. Because so many of us are so afraid to speak up, just to be blamed or accused of being provocative in some ways. So many of us have been hurt more than once and more than just one person. But unfortunately we stay quiet and pretend like it’s normal or that it never happened. We need to break this generational curse this cycle is harming us more than it’s doing us any good. I applaud all of the women that are able to speak up and say their truth and face their monsters to put them away. I applaud those who see something they say something. Thank you @alexisjada for being so strong to come on to YT and share your stories with us.

  • @lavonneslife1774
    @lavonneslife1774 6 месяцев назад +2

    The way you describe these parties.. just gives me flashbacks of the parties I was exposed to and should've never been at .. and also happened when I was staying with my moms friends house or family friends smh....I'm sorry that happened to you. Bobby was a weirdo, and I'm so happy he got handled smh

  • @lashandajordan6923
    @lashandajordan6923 6 месяцев назад +21

    My commute home is about to be THE SHIIIITTTT!!!! Thank you, Lex!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @nakechamichel
    @nakechamichel 6 месяцев назад +5

    i’m so happy you posted this when you did cause none of my friends are picking up and i’m standing out in the cold 😭

    • @amandaluvzu22
      @amandaluvzu22 6 месяцев назад +2

      If you were calling for a ride then I hope you made it back home safely sis💞

  • @adamshalalfoodtruck
    @adamshalalfoodtruck 6 месяцев назад +4

    The demon pictures during the storytime scares me. God saved you from that predator that night

  • @aishahm
    @aishahm 6 месяцев назад +2

    Parts of this were very much like a horror movie, but I'm glad you made it out.

  • @samanthamaldonado8138
    @samanthamaldonado8138 6 месяцев назад +2

    I feel like people that were not blood went harder for you than your own blood!!! That is disgusting!!! I know it hurts too.

  • @blueer0se
    @blueer0se 6 месяцев назад +3

    SAME, they told me I would understand when I get older and have my own kids. They only thing I understand is my aunts married crappy men.

  • @jennifercate8996
    @jennifercate8996 6 месяцев назад +1

    It is no excuse how your grandmother acts. Constantly playing the victim and living in your toxic ways IS A CHOICE. Her not only ignoring what no name did, but also kissing his @ss, is deplorable. Your grandma was never right and still isn’t right. I hate to talk poorly about someone’s family member, but girl, you share so much with us, it feels like you’re our sister or tia or best friend and we all have your back. You were a child and it’s not ok. Also, *YOU* had a terribly unfortunate upbringing so I don’t want to hear your grandma has had a hard life… you’re not a jerk to everyone. You don’t take it out on everyone. Your GMA is ridiculous and I’m so sorry she didn’t protect you and then have your back and nail it to that loser predator. They should throw him under the prison! We love you, Lex! I’m so so proud of you for all you’ve overcome and the woman that you are today. Kudos to you for breaking the generational curse! ❤❤❤❤

  • @_2tone13
    @_2tone13 6 месяцев назад +1

    In elementary, middle school, highschool I had guys grab my butt, I literally was a tomboy n wore long shirts to cover my butt too. I had my 1st “bf” at 16 n broke up after a week cuz he was trying to do too much. Idk why all these dudes thought it was ok to grab me n I was just a nerdy shy girl. To this day I still don’t wear bikinis or anything revealing cuz of my experiences with sick men who try things. You be looking like a boy n they do not care. Some people need to stop blaming kids. Im glad I never lost my self respect thinking “all men are like this, I should just flaunt it” hell nah, I’m glad I found a respectful man who understood I was uncomfortable with things and was patient with me. Together for 13yrs now 🥰. He is the best

  • @ashlynpittard6997
    @ashlynpittard6997 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’m sorry this happen to you, I believe the reason why predators did that sick shit is cause your innocence radiates off of you and with that they also new you had no one to stand up for you, they wanted to take your innocence for themselves and get away with it . they didn’t try the other girls cause they knew they would have someone to stand up for them and consequences to face. You were that innocent little puppy lost in the wild surrounded by predators with nooo one to protect you 😣 that’s why. That shit isn’t your fault and I’m sick and sorry for how your grandma and ma tried to make you believe that you were making sick f**** do that. I’m very glad you got justice in the Bobby situation he definitely F***** around and found out. Love you stay safe and blessed and thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @NaomisOutlet
    @NaomisOutlet 6 месяцев назад +1

    I hate to say it but this has happened to me so many times....I always felt like my trauma wasn't legitimate enough because I didn't fight or scream. And then the person always turns it around like I wanted to... like I was participating in it or didn't object. Predators target people with insecurity. It just makes me want to stay away from people. I'm still working on standing up for myself and setting boundaries. I know you gave a trigger warning but it was actually really therapeutic to hear your story it makes me feel less alone💞 You're awesome for doing what you do 💕💖

  • @sunmoonchild4092
    @sunmoonchild4092 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love the reason why “men” felt comfortable with doing things like that you is because they saw that you didn’t have anyone stable or solid to be there and protect you. They saw that you didn’t have parents to look out and protect you. I’m so sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve it whatsoever. This story made me feel mad and sad for you. I’m glad everyone at that party nip that shit so quick!!

  • @antoniatorres5056
    @antoniatorres5056 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm glad they finally had your back on that one with bobby I'm so sorry it happened to begin with it bring up memories of my own sadly. Men can be extremely disgusting. I was always embarrassed trying to talk to others about what happened to me because certain situations happened more than once but i genuinely feel from the first time it happened that's what stuck with me so much that i always froze in situations and was to scared to scream or fight because i didn't want something worse to happen and I've always hated myself for it even though i know it wasn't my fault.

  • @MzLaChulaNailz
    @MzLaChulaNailz 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am literally balling my eyes out while your talking about Bobbie! girl I have had that happen to me also I was so scared hearing you say it felt like it just happened last night

  • @setykaiba1536
    @setykaiba1536 6 месяцев назад +9

    I’m rewatching the nanny series so I’m excited to watch this new ep!

  • @casandragonzalez8120
    @casandragonzalez8120 6 месяцев назад +1

    My heart when Bobby came into the room, I was on the edge of my seat praying 🙏🏼 someone would come through that bedroom door 😰

  • @anakmei2821
    @anakmei2821 6 месяцев назад +1

    1:02:37 you saying this about a dude who literally cheated on you with her and NOT ONLY her. Lex, he was just a pos there’s no questioning it or wondering why 😂

  • @Channelinterrupted
    @Channelinterrupted 6 месяцев назад +1

    Maybe thats why i always had dark figures around me as a kid....my dad did same to me, but most of the memories are blocked and i definitly dont wanna explore that at all because i know it happened, but the details are unneccessary for me. Some people are living demons..

  • @calysehardnett4515
    @calysehardnett4515 6 месяцев назад +3

    I’m so proud of you for sharing your story and educating us. Little Lex deserved the world!!

  • @Remember_Me-Rose
    @Remember_Me-Rose 6 месяцев назад +1

    This was intense 😢 I’m sorry no one protected u like they should have Alexis.

  • @ashlydoll
    @ashlydoll 5 месяцев назад +1

    The flower dream signifies your innocence being taken from you 😢

  • @chasitysmith
    @chasitysmith 6 месяцев назад +3

    I hardly ever leave comments. Just wanted to say, I LOVE when you sing the song in the beginning of the videos. Edits are always on point! Thank you for sharing your story with us. I hope the fam and you are doing well 🙏🏽🩵
    Edit:I left my comment before fully watching story time. It always upsets me when everyone constantly makes you feel like you have to apologize and feel bad for things that were completely out of your control. Mostly everyone seems like they love the fact that your mom wasn’t really around so they could take advantage of you. I’m so happy you are healing and helping little Lex heal as well 🩵

  • @user-go1px9kt1v
    @user-go1px9kt1v 6 месяцев назад +1

    1:06:42 because they knew youre a baby by yourself. They knew they would get away with it

  • @EsaPrincesa
    @EsaPrincesa 6 месяцев назад +3

    The cliffhanger wow 😢😂 sending love and good vibes your way ❤

  • @justatouchofblush-velma
    @justatouchofblush-velma 6 месяцев назад

    I feel like we give guys too much of our energy… when we are young we think we need to explain to these fools…. It’s better to let them talk to their selves

  • @the478princess1.0
    @the478princess1.0 6 месяцев назад +1

    Omggg same about hearing nosies when in the shower

  • @sweetelu811
    @sweetelu811 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sometimes you just have to let people go even if it’s family.

  • @caresserose4786
    @caresserose4786 6 месяцев назад +3

    Okay your eye shadow blend is amazing!

  • @jennicadelgado220
    @jennicadelgado220 6 месяцев назад +1

    Who else clicked on the video & instantly looked to see how long it was!?!? Anyone?? Just me! 😂

  • @chelseawaindim6157
    @chelseawaindim6157 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your ex was so fucking annoying oh my god😒

  • @nanamiwu3380
    @nanamiwu3380 6 месяцев назад +1

    I KNOW they didnt call the POLICE

  • @andreaabigaillopez2087
    @andreaabigaillopez2087 6 месяцев назад +3

    This one made me cry 😢

  • @destinyxo1297
    @destinyxo1297 6 месяцев назад +2

    everytime i here abt things like this happening to baby lex i feel so bad . im so sorry lex 🙁❤️ but so happy something was done and nobody made excuses for him cuz that’s not okay it’s disgusting what he did and even trying to spin back on you as if you weren’t a child .. glad you’re still growing and healing lots of love lex❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘