This is an essential video on this channel. You can't become a great man without first becoming a broken man. Because in order to rise from the ashes, you must first get BURNED. You cannot avoid the suffering.. go through the pain and rise from the ashes. Connect with me on social media IG @maliquedlewis Email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations To watch more essential videos check out the essential videos playlist
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen thank you lil bruh. every time difficulty hit, i take a hit & fall slightly off course. but this video definitely put some things into perspective for ya girl. it’s easy when things are easy. but oooweee when the challenges come i be ready to run the other way. but not anymore. 💪🏾 we running straight through the muh
After a long term relationship, I was faced with a breakup and during that process I was told by someone close to me, “you have to be a man to allow your woman to be a woman” and I became conflicted because I was unsure what being a man was. I found you channel while struggling with that, and ever since then my life has been on the incline, I’ve been in the gym down 30 pounds, became so much more consistent and confident than ever before and have reached one of the happiest points in my life. I appreciate you forever man your videos helped me change my life
I feel that 100%, ex broke our 3 year relationship over text out of nowhere with no real closure, I’m still seeking answers. This man has helped me through a lot of dark places so I feel that and I too appreciate this dude for the content he makes, he gives me hope, and he pushes me to realize I need to simply work harder in life and things will fall into place💯
I'm 36 still struggling, I came from the streets 🇳🇬 I was in Ghana 🇬🇭 trying to show my young once there's a better life 🙏 did time in Dubai 🇦🇪 that shit broke me🥺 went through shit in Ivory coast 🇨🇮 really lost it because I was too blind to see the real once, I hope i buy my mama a house 2024, because am now in the streets of Kenya🇰🇪, I call it Expensive Pain💔 once my dreams come through I will come back to this comment and say I did it, Pain Real 🙌 Canada 🙏
@@ojaslee9485 continue going brother. That’s a journey a lot of people would’ve gave up long or folded. But you ain’t fold, you’re still alive. Keep God close and continue to live. We all don’t know the right way to live but it’s the people like us whose seeking to learn more everyday and get closer to God and understand life a 1% more minimum daily. God bless you brother. Safe journey in this dunya. Insha’allah
Man I never really had a proper male role model in my life, since I found this channel, more like it found me. It’s like having an older brother to listen to and learn from, just got out a car accident on my way to gym yesterday but I’m still good, going back to gym today. Grateful for another chance at life. Be grateful for the small things man, everything can be taken in an instant.
Glad you’re safe and doing well brother. Keep grinding and keep going. We may not know each other but I see you as a brother because we think similarly,, how? We want to be purpose driven. So keep putting your purpose first brother keep working hard. I believe in you
This is the Universe sent this right on time, I’m 38 and choosing to go to a shelter tomorrow a.m. I lost it ALL but I’m excited because the opportunity to Create a NEW LIFE for me and my kids
This channel has completely changed my life, dude. For years I struggled with alcoholism and I just lost 6 months of sober time. Time to lock in. I lost a girl I still love last year, and she’s happily moved on with another man. Time to lock in. Working two jobs just trying to survive and get my car back and my apartment. Time to LOCK In. THANK YOU, BROTHER. I’m watching your videos every single day when I’m in the gym and when I’m at work.
The most important thing I am learning now is that pain is like a fuel, propelling me forward. It is currently helping me get over myself, my thoughts and I am changing my actions. This video helped me to see that I should fail more often, I should try my absolute best and fail, and be happy when I fail and move on and learn from that
I've been watching your channel for a few months now and you've helped me so much. I was in a spot where I felt like I'd never get back up but your videos have helped me become the man I'm meant to be. My wife and I split early last year and I never thought I'd get over it. You've helped me see the value in myself and see how great I can be. This morning, I received a promotion and it's 100% because your channel has helped me become a purpose driven man. Keep inspiring others and speaking truth.
This really made me shed a tear. Im 19, from London and rn im grinding heavy putting my all into my career but lifes been really difficult for me and Im really going thru it at the moment. Currently grinding with music and making some money here and there but not enough to sustain me . I been tryna get a job for ages man and my parents been on my back fr, telling me this and that its depressing grinding so much and having nothing to show for it. And on top of that your pops dont believe in ur dreams. I also got some physical health issues with my leg, I had a couple surgeries these past few years, since I had a tumour in my leg. Ive been cancer free 5 plus years now but everyday is a struggle for me since my body isnt like everyone elses. I really needed to hear this, When you said the struggle is your way to becoming a man I felt it, I always looked at it as life is against me, but this hardship is needed for me to become a better version of myself and become a MAN . Sorry if i wrote a lot, but Im thankful I came across your page!!!
Hear this from me first bro: I believe in you. I truly truly believe that you can accomplish anything you put your mind to. You have to deeply want it and go for it and never stop going for it. If you can do that, you’ll make it brother. I’m proud of you for not quitting, keep being a man! Keep pushing through the pain! I go through pain everyday, truly, we all have things that we’re going through, but the point is to grow through it, don’t let it stop you! Love you bro 🔥🫡
Hey brother, Ive been watching you for a bit and im glad i found u. For many years of my life ive been lost and i never knew what to do or where to go and it made me sick and very depressed knowing that im not doing anything. Instant gratifications, bad pleasures, habits all ruined my life. I wanted to make a change and i turned to god, and it feels great that he brought me to you since what you had to say is exactly what i needed to hear. Appreciate you brother, blessings 🖤🖤
The experience, hardship, pain, struggles, it's shaping us. Without hardship, there will be no growth. Always grateful for the wisdom, brother. It's been said a lot of times.. if it were easy, then everyone would do it. 🙌
Thank you for the life messages Everyday Brother! I pray that God Continues to bless you and use you to inpsire the men of God around the world! #StayBlessed
I was raised by a single mother and that had a tremendous impact on me, bu I'm currently learning how to become a man, and it hasn't been easy, but im glad i had the courage to face pain and confusion, and i am able and willing to have difficult conversations that make me engage my mind and collect my thoughts. I love the man and the leader I'm becoming.
Thank you for being the light at the end of my tunnel bro , some days feel so so dark but your videos give me hope each and every single day . I listen to it at the gym . The music in the background is so calming and your words help me stay motivated. u give me hope that one day things will get better .
I’m a 21 year old woman who watches this channel, and I truly appreciate these videos. You provide a new perspective that I have been working to cultivate over the last couple of weeks. Was in a 1yr relationship, was ghosted and left in a time of need (my boss was SH’ing me)… and now, through this suffering, am doing my best to confront it. To let the pain discipline me in the gym, for my career, and mentally. To become a woman, instead of a girl.
i’m not a man but i learn so much from your videos. thank you for speaking life into me and the people brother🙌🏾 let’s keep our heads down and keep working
Listen to this man! Pray for consistency! It seriously works as long as you have faith and work right along side it. Apply yourself! Lock in brothers! 365.
hey lil bro. big sis checking in. i see you grinding. i see the consistency. continue dropping this information/inspiration for the men in this world but also just for people in general. you are making a difference!
Great video man, I watch your videos everyday and it is motivating me everyday to stay on my purpose and locking in which is so hard for young people to do like me. I'm praying for your success. Thank you.
Bro I thank Jesus for allowing you to make this video. Just gave me confirmation of what I was thinking. Run towards the tough times. For example learning something, working out etc. Do I want to be old working my butt off or start now and learn and build something. I choose the tough times and hardships to keep leveling up and leave something not only for my family but something that will continue to grow Gods Kingdom.
I love your videos man really helping me in life Ive known my purpose for a while but I have been running from my full version of my self it's like I'm stopping myself from becoming that super Saiyan I'm still a good man but it's time to become great.
Thank you for your channel! Oh my gosh im so glad there is such positive content out there for men, all you see is toxic examples, this is fantastic. Blessings to you ❤
Much love bro 😎 keep it up you spitting true game and this is coming from a leader who sets trends. But even at 41 i need to hear this kind of motivation
Step outside your comfort because at the other end of failure and discomfort is learning and development, then comes experience and excitement, and then we get to taste happiness and success. Dare to be Exceptional. Dare to be Uncommon!
Man, I need to be beat in the head with this. I’ve been through hell the last 10 years. Lost my dad, brother and mom, then 5 years later lost my wife in the pandemic. Year and a half later started dating a woman but I rushed things and it slowly fell apart, my life slowly fell apart. I didn’t know how to pick myself up. I hurt people I love. My gf broke up with me this past May. I’m not handling it well. I’m trying to figure my shit out but I can’t see the next step. Idk where to go from here. I’m lost, I’m confused, I’m scared. I’m completely starting over at 43, having never learned who I am. I’m fucking miserable. But I’m comfortable and it’s slowly killing me. I can’t see the next step.
Keep up with the things you know that make sense in your life and throw it away the ones that make you feel like you are not enough. Maybe the breakup is a start up for you with new things, you're only 43 yo, you definitely should try things that you never done before to get to know yourself better, get in touch with the things that you love but due to some things in life you got far away from. As malik say always I believe in you, you got these king your life will change in amazing ways, but you gotta believe and you gotta do it yourself. You got these King I know for sure your loved ones are taking care of you from abole.
@@stranger5088accept that we’re not gonna know why everything is how it is come to God with your burdens and he will lift you up, you’re stronger than u make yourself out to be
The next step is simply to step brother. You can do this mentally it physically. I suggest physically, go outside and take a walk. Clear your mind. Create a list of things that matter to you, a priority list. Shape your life around that list.
This is an essential video on this channel.
You can't become a great man without first becoming a broken man.
Because in order to rise from the ashes, you must first get BURNED.
You cannot avoid the suffering.. go through the pain and rise from the ashes.
Connect with me on social media IG @maliquedlewis
Email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations
To watch more essential videos check out the essential videos playlist
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen thank you lil bruh.
every time difficulty hit, i take a hit & fall slightly off course. but this video definitely put some things into perspective for ya girl. it’s easy when things are easy. but oooweee when the challenges come i be ready to run the other way. but not anymore. 💪🏾 we running straight through the muh
After a long term relationship, I was faced with a breakup and during that process I was told by someone close to me, “you have to be a man to allow your woman to be a woman” and I became conflicted because I was unsure what being a man was. I found you channel while struggling with that, and ever since then my life has been on the incline, I’ve been in the gym down 30 pounds, became so much more consistent and confident than ever before and have reached one of the happiest points in my life. I appreciate you forever man your videos helped me change my life
Keep going bro
Same keep going
Keep going bro
Amazing brother I’m proud of you! And it’s just the beginning 📈
I feel that 100%, ex broke our 3 year relationship over text out of nowhere with no real closure, I’m still seeking answers. This man has helped me through a lot of dark places so I feel that and I too appreciate this dude for the content he makes, he gives me hope, and he pushes me to realize I need to simply work harder in life and things will fall into place💯
A man is made and a boy is born is a hard ass quote
💯💯💯🫡 and it’s so true
I have that same quote to my sons
“A man is made and a boy is born” that’s one of the hardest quotes I’ve ever heard in my life
🫡💯💯💯 it’s facts!
Facts bro! I wrote it down to make sure I soak it in.
I'm 36 still struggling, I came from the streets 🇳🇬 I was in Ghana 🇬🇭 trying to show my young once there's a better life 🙏 did time in Dubai 🇦🇪 that shit broke me🥺 went through shit in Ivory coast 🇨🇮 really lost it because I was too blind to see the real once, I hope i buy my mama a house 2024, because am now in the streets of Kenya🇰🇪, I call it Expensive Pain💔 once my dreams come through I will come back to this comment and say I did it, Pain Real 🙌 Canada 🙏
@@ojaslee9485 continue going brother. That’s a journey a lot of people would’ve gave up long or folded. But you ain’t fold, you’re still alive. Keep God close and continue to live. We all don’t know the right way to live but it’s the people like us whose seeking to learn more everyday and get closer to God and understand life a 1% more minimum daily. God bless you brother. Safe journey in this dunya. Insha’allah
Ayoo "Pain is your teacher but you running away from class"🔥🔥🔥
Caught me off guard👍🔥
🔥🔥🔥🔥
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Man I never really had a proper male role model in my life, since I found this channel, more like it found me. It’s like having an older brother to listen to and learn from, just got out a car accident on my way to gym yesterday but I’m still good, going back to gym today. Grateful for another chance at life. Be grateful for the small things man, everything can be taken in an instant.
Glad you’re safe and doing well brother. Keep grinding and keep going. We may not know each other but I see you as a brother because we think similarly,, how? We want to be purpose driven. So keep putting your purpose first brother keep working hard. I believe in you
i feel this
Brother 👊🏼 I’m 22 and been wishing more hardships on my way so I can build that inner army. Great content man
You got this bro I believe in you
This is the Universe sent this right on time, I’m 38 and choosing to go to a shelter tomorrow a.m. I lost it ALL but I’m excited because the opportunity to Create a NEW LIFE for me and my kids
Praying for you brother you can do this! 🙏🏽
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen I received that brother definitely will keep you updated this is the pinnacle ✊🏿💫🖤
This channel has completely changed my life, dude. For years I struggled with alcoholism and I just lost 6 months of sober time. Time to lock in. I lost a girl I still love last year, and she’s happily moved on with another man. Time to lock in. Working two jobs just trying to survive and get my car back and my apartment. Time to LOCK In. THANK YOU, BROTHER. I’m watching your videos every single day when I’m in the gym and when I’m at work.
This Is A Top Tier Channel
Means a lot, thank you 🙏🏽
The most important thing I am learning now is that pain is like a fuel, propelling me forward. It is currently helping me get over myself, my thoughts and I am changing my actions. This video helped me to see that I should fail more often, I should try my absolute best and fail, and be happy when I fail and move on and learn from that
Fail to succeed. You got this ! 🫡
I've been watching your channel for a few months now and you've helped me so much. I was in a spot where I felt like I'd never get back up but your videos have helped me become the man I'm meant to be. My wife and I split early last year and I never thought I'd get over it. You've helped me see the value in myself and see how great I can be. This morning, I received a promotion and it's 100% because your channel has helped me become a purpose driven man. Keep inspiring others and speaking truth.
I’m proud of you brother thank you for your support 🫡🙏🏽
“Pain is your teacher but you’re running away from class” 💯 real spit, needed this
🫡
This really made me shed a tear. Im 19, from London and rn im grinding heavy putting my all into my career but lifes been really difficult for me and Im really going thru it at the moment. Currently grinding with music and making some money here and there but not enough to sustain me . I been tryna get a job for ages man and my parents been on my back fr, telling me this and that its depressing grinding so much and having nothing to show for it. And on top of that your pops dont believe in ur dreams. I also got some physical health issues with my leg, I had a couple surgeries these past few years, since I had a tumour in my leg. Ive been cancer free 5 plus years now but everyday is a struggle for me since my body isnt like everyone elses. I really needed to hear this, When you said the struggle is your way to becoming a man I felt it, I always looked at it as life is against me, but this hardship is needed for me to become a better version of myself and become a MAN . Sorry if i wrote a lot, but Im thankful I came across your page!!!
Hear this from me first bro: I believe in you. I truly truly believe that you can accomplish anything you put your mind to. You have to deeply want it and go for it and never stop going for it. If you can do that, you’ll make it brother. I’m proud of you for not quitting, keep being a man! Keep pushing through the pain! I go through pain everyday, truly, we all have things that we’re going through, but the point is to grow through it, don’t let it stop you! Love you bro 🔥🫡
The hotter the battle the sweeter the victory..
Amen! 🙏🏽 🔥🔥
Hey brother, Ive been watching you for a bit and im glad i found u. For many years of my life ive been lost and i never knew what to do or where to go and it made me sick and very depressed knowing that im not doing anything. Instant gratifications, bad pleasures, habits all ruined my life. I wanted to make a change and i turned to god, and it feels great that he brought me to you since what you had to say is exactly what i needed to hear. Appreciate you brother, blessings 🖤🖤
Appreciate you too brother I’m proud of you for never giving up and making a change, 🖤🫡
The experience, hardship, pain, struggles, it's shaping us. Without hardship, there will be no growth. Always grateful for the wisdom, brother. It's been said a lot of times.. if it were easy, then everyone would do it. 🙌
Facts!!
Hearing all that from you is 100x more impactful. All love brother. God bless you
God bless you too brother!
I’m mad early but these video give me life fam, we focused out here‼️🤞🏾
This video the one bro glad you tapped in early! 🫡💪🏽
A Man is Made, A Boy is Born 💪🏾💪🏾
Facts!! 💪🏽🔥
Thank you for the life messages Everyday Brother! I pray that God Continues to bless you and use you to inpsire the men of God around the world! #StayBlessed
God bless you brother thank you for your support and prayers 🫡🙏🏽
Bro you’re a gift to this generation . Personally I want to thank you 🙏🏽
That means a lot brother you’re a gift as well 🫡 let’s keep evolving 🔥📈
Dope quote from Hotd: The Crown is not a prize to won, but a burden to bear. Or GOT: Kill the boy, become the man 💯
🔥🔥🫡facts!
We all need someone to talk to about this kind of stuff. But it’s hard to find. Thanks for doing the lord’s work bro bro. Peace and love
Peace and love bro 🫡💪🏽
I was raised by a single mother and that had a tremendous impact on me, bu I'm currently learning how to become a man, and it hasn't been easy, but im glad i had the courage to face pain and confusion, and i am able and willing to have difficult conversations that make me engage my mind and collect my thoughts. I love the man and the leader I'm becoming.
Thank you for being the light at the end of my tunnel bro , some days feel so so dark but your videos give me hope each and every single day . I listen to it at the gym . The music in the background is so calming and your words help me stay motivated. u give me hope that one day things will get better .
Hope is all we need to keep us going sometimes I’m glad I’ve been able to help. Keep going brother!
I’m a 21 year old woman who watches this channel, and I truly appreciate these videos. You provide a new perspective that I have been working to cultivate over the last couple of weeks. Was in a 1yr relationship, was ghosted and left in a time of need (my boss was SH’ing me)… and now, through this suffering, am doing my best to confront it. To let the pain discipline me in the gym, for my career, and mentally. To become a woman, instead of a girl.
Needed to hear this. Main reason why I haven’t gave up. The power is within.
Power within 🔥
Thank you, brother.
You are very welcome brother
i’m not a man but i learn so much from your videos. thank you for speaking life into me and the people brother🙌🏾 let’s keep our heads down and keep working
I appreciate that a lot thank you 🙏🏽
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥 thank you bro
More than welcome brother 💪🏽💪🏽🫡🔥
So true. Exceptional delivery on a fundamental truth
Thank you 🙏🏽
I needed this for real, brother. Thank you! We have to learn to go by God's timing rather than our own.
Amen brother 🫡🙏🏽
WE LOCKED IN BROTHER🖤
You know it brother! 🖤🫡
We getting a productive week with these one 💪🧘♂️🙌
You know it! 🔥🔥🔥
Words will never describe how much i needed this video, thank you so much man. Time to lock in 🔒
Definitely welcome brother let’s lock in 🙏🏽🫡
You’re a blessing my dear brother. Thank you for your videos.
Keep going bro! These videos get my mindset right for the day
You know it bro!
Bro s speaking facts
That boy came on here this evening and spoke hot fire 🔥 🔥 🔥
You know it! 🫡
From man to man, I’m proud of you g. I’m 22 years old as well. We are blessed to have these types of mindsets at our age, it’s not common.
I literally make sure I watch one of your vids as I clean up.... Love ya thank you for your knowledge
Much love fam thank you! 🙏🏽
Listen to this man! Pray for consistency! It seriously works as long as you have faith and work right along side it. Apply yourself! Lock in brothers! 365.
hey lil bro. big sis checking in. i see you grinding. i see the consistency. continue dropping this information/inspiration for the men in this world but also just for people in general. you are making a difference!
I appreciate that a lot thank you for tapping in! 🙏🏽
Thanks for your word it realy inspired me, that’s gonna be a motivation in m’y life
You got this!
I believe in you as much as you do me g. Never cease 💎
I appreciate that a lot brother!
Great video man, I watch your videos everyday and it is motivating me everyday to stay on my purpose and locking in which is so hard for young people to do like me. I'm praying for your success. Thank you.
Appreciate that brother praying for your success as well ! 🫡
Baby,,,,,, this another 1 hands dwn💪👏🫶😍 thank u young man
Bro you’re videos are Gems 💎
I appreciate you ✊🏾
Thank you for your words brother!
Bro I thank Jesus for allowing you to make this video. Just gave me confirmation of what I was thinking. Run towards the tough times. For example learning something, working out etc. Do I want to be old working my butt off or start now and learn and build something. I choose the tough times and hardships to keep leveling up and leave something not only for my family but something that will continue to grow Gods Kingdom.
Ngl you like a father figure for me i appreciate u so much
I appreciate that bro, I believe in you, you got this! 🙏🏽🫡
Grateful for the guidance brother ❤️🔥
Grateful to be a positive voice in your journey brother. Keep going! ❤️🔥🫡
I love your videos man really helping me in life Ive known my purpose for a while but I have been running from my full version of my self it's like I'm stopping myself from becoming that super Saiyan I'm still a good man but it's time to become great.
I locked in brother ❤
Locked in! ❤️🫡
Thank you for this.
You got this bro 🫡
Wow the lighting is phenomenal bro, and top notch content as always!
Thank you brother! 🙏🏽🫡
Pain and Adversity are what help shape us into who we’re supposed to become in life
THANK U BRO !
Currently struggling in the library at a top 10 college worldwide, it's tough but at the end it will be worthit
💯
It’ll definitely be worth it brother! Proud of you
Amazing video, what you are doing here on this channel is great bro🙏
Love how you include God in these messages bro, im tryna start doing this soon im 17 rn and wanna help people grow in life with God’s word
Amen brother 🙏🏽
Thank you so much bro I needed this today your work is appreciated ✊🏾😌
More than welcome 🙏🏽🫡
Thank You for the wisdom man, god speaks through you
Amen thank you brother
YOU ARE SPEAKING! I APPRECIATE YOU!
We’re not too different thanks for holding me thru man God using you in a mighty way brudda keep it up i support you🙏💯
You Be on Point everytime💯💪🏾
🙏🏽💪🏽🫡
I Love You Bro, God Bless You Always ♥️🙏🏼🦾💯
I’m 28 you speaking the truth
Been a boy for almost 23 years and I never talked to a girl until this year and taught me much lessons . To work on myself
You got this bro
This video inspired me a lot, thank you for your words and motivation! ❤
🫡❤️
Thank you for your channel! Oh my gosh im so glad there is such positive content out there for men, all you see is toxic examples, this is fantastic. Blessings to you ❤
Thanks for the video, I was watching Naruto go against Pain the same analogy that you mention
Facts! Naruto knows 🔥🔥
Powerful message. Appreciate the spiritual food bro 🤝🏽🔥💯
Amen brother you’re welcome 🙏🏽
I believe in you king 👑 nothing changes if nothing changes
Facts! 🙏🏽🫡
Much appreciated brother. Meditated on this
You’re welcome brother! 🙏🏽
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen 💪🏾Yes sir
Much love bro 😎 keep it up you spitting true game and this is coming from a leader who sets trends. But even at 41 i need to hear this kind of motivation
Step outside your comfort because at the other end of failure and discomfort is learning and development, then comes experience and excitement, and then we get to taste happiness and success.
Dare to be Exceptional.
Dare to be Uncommon!
Love this bro 🔥🫡
thank you for this brother ❤
Welcome brother ❤️🤝🏽
thank you brother🖤
🖤💪🏽welcome brother
You never miss Brodie!
Thank you brodie! 💪🏽
Thanks for this bro. This was necessary
🫡 I believe in you bro
much love brother
Much love! 🫡
Great work brother.
God sent this channel into my life
Amen 🙏🏽
Keep it coming bro 💪 all facts !
Thank you brother 🫡
To God be the glory 💯
Amen! 🙏🏽 God is good
I love you brother thanks
Love you too bro 💪🏽🔥
that’s facts, been taking up boxing and been getting hit in the head in sparring, it’s for sure building me up tho
Be careful in that ring though, man. 🙌🏾 big ups
@@rethomazure ofc… always protect back of head, always keep your guard up and chin down
Awesome 🔥🔥🔥
I just rupture my patellar tendon 3 days ago and I'm really struggling right now but I'm going to keep pushing forward
💯 Facts !
You know it ma! 💪🏽
Keep preaching bro🧘🏿♂️💫👁
Thank you bro! I appreciate your continuous support 🫡❤️🔥
always need to hear what you say man
Glad you finally heard it bro, we got this 💪🏽
A Man Is Made A Boy Is Born
Thank you
You're welcome brother 🙏🏽
Great video really felt your words🔥
I need this in my spotify.
open.spotify.com/show/1J8BrhUGY7IyhrNetRD7dd?si=J201UYsjRhOSn42-PhZ81g
Putting it on the podcast soon
Man, I need to be beat in the head with this. I’ve been through hell the last 10 years. Lost my dad, brother and mom, then 5 years later lost my wife in the pandemic. Year and a half later started dating a woman but I rushed things and it slowly fell apart, my life slowly fell apart. I didn’t know how to pick myself up. I hurt people I love. My gf broke up with me this past May. I’m not handling it well. I’m trying to figure my shit out but I can’t see the next step. Idk where to go from here. I’m lost, I’m confused, I’m scared. I’m completely starting over at 43, having never learned who I am. I’m fucking miserable. But I’m comfortable and it’s slowly killing me. I can’t see the next step.
Keep up with the things you know that make sense in your life and throw it away the ones that make you feel like you are not enough. Maybe the breakup is a start up for you with new things, you're only 43 yo, you definitely should try things that you never done before to get to know yourself better, get in touch with the things that you love but due to some things in life you got far away from. As malik say always I believe in you, you got these king your life will change in amazing ways, but you gotta believe and you gotta do it yourself. You got these King I know for sure your loved ones are taking care of you from abole.
@@Thechangeofmylife999 the thing is, nothing makes sense in my life anymore. It’s just a spinning whirl of chaos and it’s driving me insane.
@@stranger5088accept that we’re not gonna know why everything is how it is come to God with your burdens and he will lift you up, you’re stronger than u make yourself out to be
The next step is simply to step brother. You can do this mentally it physically. I suggest physically, go outside and take a walk. Clear your mind. Create a list of things that matter to you, a priority list. Shape your life around that list.
I love this bro, you inspired me to start my channel ❤