誓不會讓兒子經歷我的童年!? 在英國寄宿學校長大的苦與淚…父母當年為什麼要送走我? Sent Away at 14 - The Dark Side of UK Boarding School…
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- Опубликовано: 9 дек 2023
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好奇一下，在看影片的家長朋友們有多少人曾經想過把你們小孩送到寄宿學校？有些可能已經送了？也有些可能你是自己去的？👩🎓👨🎓
How many of you have thought about sending your children abroad for school? Maybe you have already? Maybe you went yourselves? 👩🎓👨🎓
聖誕🎅🏻🎄經常讓我們與家人感受特別親近，且是一個讓我們展望未來的節日，而小孩的教育也是其中一個不可缺少的話題。
Christmas 🎅🏻🎄 time always gets us feeling especially close as a family but it also gets us looking to the future. And the question of education is always in conversation.
到底我們真的想把兒子們送到寄宿學校嗎？🫣
Would we really want to send our boys away to Boarding School??? 🫣
這條Q&A影片將會深入探討這個主題，我也會回到過去，重新憶起當時我在英國寄宿女學校生活的個人經歷🏫🇬🇧
This Q&A dives into this topic and takes a trip down memory lane as I answer your questions all about my personal experiences of attending an all girls Boarding School in the UK. 🏫🇬🇧
我仍然記得在13歲那年，父母告訴我將會被送到國外讀書的一刻，當時心中面對着很多未知之數，心情百感交集🥺
I still remember being told that I’d be sent abroad as a young teenager to study. There were a lot of feelings and a lot of uncertainties… 🥺
「新的國家是怎樣的？」、「我的語言能力足夠流利了嗎？」、「我夠聰明嗎？」、「會交到朋友嗎？」、「我會有多想家？」😢
What would this new country be like? Did I speak the language well enough? Was I smart enough? Would I be able to make friends? How much would I miss home? 😢
「到底我自己想去嗎？」😞
Did I even want to go at all? 😞
當我一到達，很快便發現原來英國寄宿學校並不是像哈利波特世界般的🪄✨
Once I was there, I soon found out that UK boarding wasn’t at all like the picture painted in the Harry Potter world 🪄✨
但還是有精彩好玩的事情！快點按這條影片來看看英國寄宿學校的生活及背後真相吧🥰
But it’s not all bad! Jump into this video now to find out the full picture and the TRUE reality of UK Boarding School! 🥰
請記得讚好，留言和訂閱，讓我們知道你對這影片主題的想法，感受和經驗！下次再見🫶🏻
And please remember to LIKE, COMMENT and SUBSCRIBE to let us know all your thoughts, feelings and experiences on this topic. See you next time! 🫶
大家好，我喺Gladys 嘅媽咪。我都分享吓英國寄宿學校的多面體。Gladys 嘅哥哥讀男校，我感覺哥哥嘅學校非常嚴格。學生的生活作息，讀書考試，課外活動都非常有系統。哥哥入學後一星期內巳完全適應寄宿生活，忙碌而又充實嘅生活中根本冇時間掛住屋企😂👍🏼
至於Gladys嘅學校則較注重個別學生的培養。學業上有一定的要求，但學業以外學校會盡量鼓勵、支持和配合學生發展個人的興趣。因為學校較注重個人化的培養，咁相對就好似無咁有系統，無咁嚴格，亦較適合Gladys 那種率性自我，天馬行空的性格。
我只有兩個孩子，但兩間寄宿學校的風格給我的經驗都截然不同。我相信每間學校都有他們獨特之處。大家選學校時不妨細心了解學校嘅網頁資料，我的經驗是這些資料都如實反映他們的辦學宗旨和理念。
多謝 Gladys 媽媽嘅補充同分享！你真係培育咗一個好好，充滿愛對生活有熱誠嘅女兒👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
我都係year 9去英國寄宿學校讀書，我超級感激我屋企人送我去英國寄宿，實在改變我一生！未去英國之前，我喺香港讀書極度挫敗，感到一無是處，同屋企人當時嘅關係唔好，返學簡直令我想死（當時真係有自殺念頭）。去咗英國之後，啲老師好encouraging 學校比好多機會我，喺嗰度建立咗自信心，由香港最bottom 嘅學生，過到去變咗最top。因為多咗成功感建立返自信，同埋嗰度嘅教學模式好活潑，令我好努力咁讀書，最後gcse 有5A* 4A 考返入HKU. 寄宿嘅生活好開心，啲英國同學全部都好nice, 對亞洲人好好奇，成日邀請我去佢哋屋企sleep over. 我亦都遇到好好嘅guardian, 到而家過咗20年我哋都保持聯絡，好似屋企人咁。係teenage years 係好critical 嘅period 塑造一個人嘅性格同價值觀，我非常感恩我爸爸媽媽當年嘅決定，令我成為今日嘅我❤️
有你呢個孝順仔/女父母就放心
請問可以告知你讀哪間寄宿學校？
我的印象是在寄宿學校長大的學生一般比較獨立，自己解決問題的能力較強。至於與父母的感情和關係，在於每個學生和每個家庭，可能都有很大分別，不過對於這個問題，每個家長都值得留意。
香港教育好多都都係只關心成績好嘅學生，我同我細佬係香港都係讀Band 1學校，佢仲要名校，因為其實有啲靠關係入，所以都係成績最尾嗰班，其實真係好辛苦個人都容易燥啲，之後都去咗外國我去英國佢唔係去咗其他國家，但大家都開心咗好多，外國雖然都有小部份係會睇成績既老師，但大部份都係公平對待你⋯我仲有個家姐佢就本身已經成績好好所以可能咁佢去外國就反而分別不大係話，不過一開始提議去外國讀書係我家姐，但因為我成績最差所以送我去先睇下點😂所以屋企如果有能力喺香港大壓力其實去外國讀書真係好需要，因為香港教育灌輸你要成績好先可以有出路，所以根本唔太容納我哋呢班成績麻麻嘅學生
哥哥反應本身都令我眼濕濕，轉細佬嘅對答，搞笑
Love Finley's ending. He's so cute. Guess he's like Gladys would not mind going to boarding school and Noah is more like Laurence 😊
我覺你同你既仔(如果而家)既分別係...你入寄宿學校嗰陣係踏入青春期, 開始想識多d出面既朋友, 但仔仔而家重未, 所以唔會想去,
對於寄宿學校, 如果無同輩欺凌既問題出現, 成個寄宿校園生涯應該會好開心, 反之, 就會變成一個持續成年既惡夢, 陰影
絕對同意
我細個都會諗大個點樣面對離開父母獨自生活，亦都好佩服要離開屋企人獨自生活嘅父母，不過我依家都住宿舍，覺得一切都比想像中好，只要珍惜同屋企人相處嘅時間都算係幾滿足
壹家人都係女王的子民，會開心的生活，加油！💗💗💗
好幸福的家庭👍👍😄😄😄😄
Having watched so many RUclipsrs doing their vlogs / videos, i was so captivated by urs. So different from d rest. Way to go
I can totally relate to this video! Except growing up in boarding school was so hard! Kinda lost my identity coz I am not too Asian to be British and too British in HK. However, the cultural dynamics definately broaden my horizon and I learned to be so idenpendent and quick to adapt in new environments. Although I still feel like an outsider even with my own family due to growing up without them, I am still so grateful to my mum for sending me off to boarding school in UK.
Glad to hear that you had a good time in UK
I lost my identity too I think im a mix of everything. I went to UK boarding school and I ended up studying uni in Australia. I live in Australia now. I feel like I’m Hong konger British Australian, I can’t just be one or the other.
Reynold’s Family 🇬🇧Christmas Time is the time Thank yiou God for your salvation. 😇
學校都好重要，我以前係英國寄宿學校比較偏遠嘅地區插班讀中一我嗰間啲本地同學對外國生好好，特別我個班我去之前已經有個香港學生所以可能同班同學就有晒有經驗⋯不過過幾年去咗倫敦d本地生唔太理你，但有個應該係華僑就比較容易融合，所以我估口音本地人對你嘅感覺真係有分別
我都有讀寫障礙係香港讀書真係辛苦，同埋香港嗰邊佢哋都唔會點處理呢個問題
不過我覺得你間學校幾好就係學校範圍唔俾講其他語言，我哋呢邊就冇，所以可能相對學得慢啲
Thanks for your sharing, your experience can be a good reference for those who are planning for boarding school.
Not all boarding schools are the same. The child’s personality, his/her adaptability all play a role in the boarding school experience. Some children need a lot of family’s support and parents being around, some are very independent and ready to explore the world. So all kids are different
一個青少年的成長，朋輩的影響至為重要。對於寄宿學校的學生，朋輩的影響會比其他青少年大，父母也較難察覺到兒女在成長路上所遇到的困難，害怕兒女交了朋友，培養了壞習慣，又或被欺凌。不過如果幸運的話，遇上一個盡責任有能力的housemaster, 對宿生有好的觀察和輔導，父母可能就比較放心。
When will you visit your house mother? ❤ I love your videos, keep it up. 🎉😊
I related to this so much! I was born and raised in Hong Kong but moved to the States when i was 18 for undergrad and grad school lol
雖然我沒去喎寄宿學校但我想講吓我以前係香港時候，成績係唔好以後我爸媽搬咗去英國讀書，我在聾人學校（我係天生聾人）以後呢我入Secondary school（專門收聾人）我Y7 但係呢我數學真聰明到連Y11-Y8完全唔識😅所以呢我成為全校數學最聰明嘅人😅😅
Ooh they're so cute. treasure every second with your boys . My Boy is now 23 years old and finished his master's degree. I wish the clock turn back, so I can spend more time with him.
哈哈，我都估到Finny會想走😅😂 boarding school.
I am with Laurence. Kids grow up so quickly and you don't want to miss their childhood. That precious time will never come back. You will have your empty nest time at the end of the day so why hurry?
幾時拍返條畫畫片😏😏❤
I liked my boarding school days a lot! 尤其是上到中六中七老師當我地大人
被專重的感覺最重要
其實用大人嘅眼光看待每個個體真係好重要，我嘅中學（雖然喺香港）老師通常都係稱呼我哋ladies（女校），好多活動亦都係俾學生由頭到尾自己搞，老師只係喺同學尋求幫助嘅時候先俾出提點，學業上都唔會特登俾太大壓力，功課唔算太多（雖然有test），俾學生自己安排溫書時間，學習壓力幾乎淨係嚟自於peer pressure，有唔少自由。當然呢d都係出於老師對學生嘅信任，但咁樣真係會俾學生更大嘅發展空間，I LOVE my school 😅
11:36 Gladys 好靚❤
actually, 其實now I'm a teenager, I want the life that you was talking about in boarding school, but since I and my family are in Uk now,I think it won't happen to me😅
真係祇有媽媽先聽到個仔噏乜野，唔打字幕完全唔知Finly 噏乜😂😂😂😂
哈哈 好似Peppa Pig 裡面個George, so qq
我個女原本由好looking forward to 寄宿，初初兩個月好鐘意學校好空曠、又養咗好多羊，夜晚黑媽媽天空好多星星，然後兩個月後開始悶，啲伙食永遠係chips，凍嘅pizza，乾嘅肉，對於亞洲人嚟講，係地獄廚房！然而個女有本地同學話學校嘅食物已經好食自己媽咪整嘅嘢😂
Hi Gladys! May I ask where did you get your sweater from? It looks really cute on you! Thank You! Btw I really found it relatable in your experience talking about UK boarding school! I was also sent overseas (to U.S) when I was 14 and I’m there since! Thank you for doing this video! ❤
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Lmao I can relate to that people spoke English to me when I went back to HK😂 they were surprised when I told them I can speak Cantonese. My fashion and makeup style were definitely influenced. I’m very western now
Trash talk, merit to yourself
😢😊
我也感欣十一歲就去boarding school.
依一年老公同媽咪個樣越嚟越後生🙈
Can Lawrence comment about the recent performance of Man United?
我只能夠講只係遇到成績差嘅人or差學校先會有所謂大家聽番黎嘅歧視XD
一係就好似bob叔間boarding sch 咁 根本無同你分咩人 就係打交學校一間
我記得當年每個月月頭，我都會去唐人街買一箱出前一丁🤣
以前食咗咁多，而家要食多啲健康食品啦😊。
祝你身體健康❤
Hello! 之前你有介紹喺曼徹斯特睇牙齒，醫生係香港人，可唔可以比資料我？🙏😊
Hello.想問吓見到有個post有個講中文和英文的牙醫，可以攞佢的資料嗎？🙏🏼
first ❤
🤍
其實Laurence係咪識聽廣東話？😂 12:51
😂😂😂
When Band five wants HK, Band one of course would give to them.
I have proved they can’t increase in Band numbers. XDDD
連好多同學佩服我⋯⋯😅
想問一下係英國讀書，但係點解你嘅accent唔係太British？
我有時想要去英國寄宿，我冇同阿媽提過呢件事，我一個12歲細路，準備升中嘅自己係有啲過度活躍、讀寫障礙，英文係唔好嘅係連溝通都唔係太好嘅最重要係我自己獨立關係，所以有啲留宿過嘅人可以回答下我呢個問題多謝❤
妳同妳老公就係西方爸爸同東方媽媽對送小朋友去寄宿學校嘅唔同反應~~我做小朋友同學生嘅階段喺大陸類似冇英國嘅寄宿學校,但是,由於我細個時曾經有離開父母獨自跟爺爺嫲嫲喺城市讀書嘅經歷,以童年自己嘅記憶,我都唔願意咁樣囉~~而且我啲同學有讀過全托幼兒園嘅經歷嘅,全部做咗爸爸媽媽之後,都拒絕畀自己小朋友全托~~所以,我覺得我喺會企妳老公呢邊,小朋友,都係留自己身邊長大~~不過,到十幾歲嘅少年就可能唔同,嗰時會想離開下自己父母~
明白
幾好吖 你媽媽同你安排得好好 點都好過你就咁係香港讀完個中學
What made you going back to HK for university? I am always curious about it🤔
估計對於佢父母，回港讀大學，一定比在外國寄宿慳好多。港大當時的大學排名，應該相比很多英國大學都唔輸蝕。
又或者唔知個小朋友做緊乜
唔受控制，反叛
我當時身邊都有好多朋友俾父母送番番香港😏
I’m currently studying in a boarding school in HK and I can tell you it’s a living hell💀我唔知道我上世人做錯左啲咩事先會apply寄宿學校 喺我最需要屋企人嘅時候我只可以自己靜靜雞喺自己corner到喊 仲要有Wi-Fi cut 你想聽歌都因為unstable connection聽唔到 it also comes with a lot of drama and scandals 如果有得揀我寧願讀DSE成績差啲都唔轉去間boarding school… can’t imagine how gladys survived boarding school in a new country 😭🫂
Talk to your parents or any persons you trust, could non-boarder be an option?
似乎你讀緊IB,你的成績應該相當理想。去到這個階段，離開大學生活只是一步之遙👍🏼
希望你能夠收拾心情，專注做好自己嘅事，盡量唔好俾身邊嘅人影響自己。
父母知道你的困擾嗎？或者放假時試吓同身邊嘅人傾吓，睇吓有冇好建議比你。
希望你能生活快樂❤🎉
I’m studying in boarding school in uk right now,moved to uk 2 and a half year ago.I want to say uk boarding school is hell.We need to hand in our phones every night and there’s fight and bullying and drama in my school everyday.I think maybe boarding school life in the 1990s-2000s were still good but I want to say boarders nowadays are so mean and there’s a lot of racism.I feel homesick and lonely sometimes because most of my friends are day students. My roommates screams and being so noisy everynight,i just want to sleep.I regret going boarding school now and I want to go home(Not UK,My real home is HK)but I still need to finish my gcse course which still have 2 years to go.I really want to die now.I miss my Hong Kong friends more and more but seeing them having new friendship groups make me feel even worse.And British people are so rude and not what everyone expected. Uk is not as nice as people thought.
@@oliviawonghkukTell your parents. Be strong.
請問你喺英國讀書，但係點解你會講美國口音？
有得讀梗係讀寄宿。不過真係好睇小朋友性格😂
想問做youtuber嘅收入係咪足夠俾小朋友讀boarding?
Noah個樣好可憐，睇得出真系吾想去boarding school😂
細佬 好明顯 吾知乜係 寄宿學校😂😅
一直都很想知道留學需要多少錢😢😢😢
一年around 50!
@@twinky2845 包零用書簿衫褲錢?
即係中3先開始係英國，跟住返香港大學，只留左5年就改晒口音，英語能力咁強。勁呀
香港讀名校既，英文教學
人人都中英文夾雜嫁啦，英文好好，啲學生一係有錢一係成績好，好正常
同埋去左英國讀5年姐
講唔上英國大….
個啲係外國出世或幾歲去左外國
就真係係外國大啦😅
老師會不會說廣東話？
想當年屋企人想我去美國讀書
我死都話唔去唔想同屋企人分開
因為自己英文差 好驚自己一個去生存唔到
大個左後悔莫及🥲
+1 我都放棄咗去加拿大讀 後悔莫及 不過而家出嚟做嘢再翻去校園
@@TopicContemporary 加油阿！唔容易架！我都係中學完就做野做左1年先番去再讀書
Gladys咁你後尾係點改自己口音？🫣
改左啲咩口音
I am intrigued
祇要有一位外國朋友一定要用英語溝通 , 呢種叫做禮貌 , 你都唔想別人係你面前講啲你唔識嘅語言 !
But what your mum expect you speak great English for a Husband family purpose?
嘥鬼氣！😌10年後先講番,如果有歧視,咁你就唔會嫁個英國佬又要返來住但又呻😅
一句講哂
唔成熟同哂氣
唔係咁點有做topic 做vlog
@@betsyc8042 其實我睇佢d宣傳,佢同其他香港移英RUclipsrs無分別,都係搵啅頭博高收視率😂🤭佢既優勢只不過係佢老公係鬼佬同生咗兩件Kings咁大把！🤪
@@meili9991 係呀
不過得閒無野做未睇下咁囉
@@betsyc8042 😂😆我要返工無咁有閑情🙏同埋我唔太鍾意d人口不對心,要咁樣博出位同收視率🤣
@@meili9991 咁佢工作係RUclipsr 自然就要出賣自己野黎搏收視唔係點賺錢
但唔明點解佢老公又陪佢癲姐
唉佢老公正正常常，好似照顧3個小朋友咁🤣
What are bologna?
I'm glad you're not my wife/friend/family member, you drive people crazy.👎👎😭😭😱😱
Why is that so?
When will you visit your house mother? ❤ I love your videos, keep it up. 🎉😊