港媽堅持送混血兒子去全男私校…外國爸爸責罵亞洲傳統思想?! 一個超昂貴的選校難題!!! The £1XX,XXX Decision - Same Sex or Co-Ed School?!
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- Опубликовано: 8 окт 2024
- 十萬英磅的掙扎…為混血兒子報讀男校還是男女校？
The £1XX,XXX Decision - Same Sex or Co-Ed School?
歡迎回來Reynolds Family的頻道☺️
Welcome back to the Reynolds Family Channel! ☺️
今集是我跟Laurence關乎教育問題的大對決🤼♂️我們將為混血兒子決定他的未來，但我們對此話題有相當大差異的意見，希望藉此辯論來為兒子們的中學選校做出最正確及合適的決定…👨🎓
In today’s VLOG it’s me vs Laurence as we get into a BIG debate all about education. 🤼♂️ We’re looking to the future and want to ensure we make the best possible choice of high school for both our boys but we have big differences in opinion… 👨🎓
到底我們應該為他們報讀同性、即全男校？還是男女校？甚至應該把兩兄弟送到同一間中學嗎？🤷♀️
Is it best to send them to a same sex, all boys school? Or a Co-educational school with boys and girls? Do we even send them to the same school? 🤷♀️
我們根據以下重要範疇來討論這個主題：學術成就、個人發展及整體成本！💰
Watch along as we argue this important topic based on key areas like Academic Attainment, Personal Development and Cost! 💰
記得看到影片最後，看看Noah為自己選擇未來那一所學校😂
And stick around to the end, to find out what Noah thinks is the best choice for his future school too! 😂
大家別忘記讚好及留言，歡迎分享你們的意見及經驗喲👍🥰
Remember to Like and Comment to let us know your own opinions and experiences on this 👍🥰
下次見！
See you next time!
好似性教育咁
避而不談 唔比佢地接觸會有反效果
建議讀返男女校, 但教識佢handle好男女關係, avoid distraction
非常同意，最重要嘅係知道界線
媽媽要明白係AI發展底下，未來社會更有價值既係soft skills，例如社交能力，出到做野，識哄女同事/女上司既男同事係跑蠃人地好多😂香港工作環境好鐘意比較邊個做野叻啲醒啲，移左民之後，發現呢到發展好既人，一定係識溝通（世界仔）, networking.
真，社會真係soft skills 比technology skills 更重要。俗語有云識做人好過識做事。識同唔同人溝通交際真係好重要，無論咩行業都需要。
Agree, 我見過高分低能嘅人, 出嚟社會做嘢就見真章, 唔係要佢哋擦鞋, 但至少識同人work, 唔通媽咪想陪住佢哋返工咩? 其實和尚寺都可以識女仔, 唔代表無distraction. 仲有The Reynolds Family入面暫時未有女孩子, 對女仔嘅好奇心更加大.
真
yes, 識人好過識字
我以前中學係讀女校，到我而家自己都有小朋友，我都唔建議我啲小朋友讀女校，因為全女校真係會對小朋友的社交能力好大影響，會對異性有誤解同恐懼，冇機會去接觸了解異性，係會易俾異性影響。就算讀全男/全女，到咗嗰個年紀都會對性或者異性同性多少都會有興趣，所以係咪都會有分心嘅可能！
我覺得都係睇自己性格 我自己中學都係女校 但識異性又冇話特別有恐懼個啲
我相信依家應該唔會對異性有幾多誤解和恐懼，因為網路發達，啲frd個個都有異性frd
如果在外國無長輩或寄宿學校, 女仔讀乜都要煑飯揍仔
仔仔識中文有幫助
以前香港都係讀女校，agree，之後去英國A level讀男女果刻真係有culture shock 😂不過我有朋友讀過英國女校（中學）話英國single sex schools相當open好多同唔同學校有活動都有好多機會接觸異性，唔似香港single sex schools個校風。當然睇下你間學校幾嚴，如果係個D Eton Harrow百年老校就唔係咁講😂
支持爸爸的想法！
不要太侷限小朋友，讀男女混校讓他們多接觸、多瞭解；總比讀全男校，就算學校不接觸女生，到外面還是有女生哇，難道搬到一個沒女生的地球嗎😂
#能掌控一時不能掌控一世
❤
我中學嗰時係讀女校 到依家大學讀緊engineering
Yr1嗰時第一次突然之間對住一大班男仔 真係唔識點同異性溝通甚至係有恐懼 所以頭一個sem真係一落堂就走 仲俾人感覺好難接近 之後因為有啲group project識到啲人先好啲啲
係媽咪角度可能覺得男女校 小朋友好容易因為異性而distract咗讀書
但其實依個世界唔係男就係女
早啲比小朋友知點同異性相處其實對將來出社會工作仲好
當然男校有男校嘅好 但個人prefer男女校多啲 因為佢真係可以俾小朋友知道更多social communication skills 如果到大學啲o camp先接觸真係太遲啦🥹
Totally agree with you
仲好容易比D壞男人玩返轉頭tim😢
In general, 會比較同意男方講既，第一佢都曾經係教書，亦都比較成熟…女方成日好似好全統但自己做既野已經好唔全統，咁點解要強行全統去做？
讀書其實都好個人，唔一定好既學校就讀到
就算有錢都可以用係其他地方，唔一定要私校
同埋都可以按小朋友既性格發展，同佢意願，唔一定咩都父母安排
迫得多唔一定會好
我喺香港讀書 係已經大學畢業嘅觀眾 我同意爸爸嘅講法多D
中小學都喺香港讀男女校 外國我唔清楚 但係自己都識D男/女校出身嘅朋友 會發現對於佢地黎講 同異性溝通真係會有困難
媽媽講嘅每一點其實都有的駁回😂
1）唔係入到boys/girls school 小朋友就會專心D 如果小朋友係唔專心/無心機讀嘅 去邊度都死 仲有 身邊男校女校嘅人要拍拖 梗會搵到方法（as you said, if you need extra tutorial classes because you study in a more academically demanding school, that is already a good place to meet up with opposite sex people)
2) holistically 的而切確讀男女校嘅人溝通能力真係好D 做事圓滑D 活潑D 入到大學/職場就會顯而易見 also 香港有好多間中學都係 co-ed 成績都好好 英國地方咁大 我相信會有更多
當然我亦都知道經濟係一個考量 但係俾起成績 我會value性格 做人態度 社交能力呢D soft skills 多過小朋友最後攞幾多科A*
但係我好欣賞你地有問小朋友嘅意見 真心 最緊要佢鐘意🙈🙆🏻♀️
我之前中學讀女校，其實都有好多機會有聯校活動/比賽，點都會有少少機會認識異性。
我有唔少同學中學時都有男朋友/女朋友，如果父母係想避免早戀問題，無論係同性學校定係男女校讀，其實都好難避免嘅，加埋青春期，你愈反對，佢走更遠，不如早啲教佢正確概念仲好啦。
我男朋友中二過英國讀書 佢細個讀書好差 因為佢有BC 過到去都係讀local school 男女校，中學都係一間細形中學讀，聽佢講整個讀書生涯都好開心，當年會考佢全A 有得揀去啲資源好啲嘅中學 佢無走 繼續留係個間中學，間中學甚至連pure math都無老師教，佢要自修。 最後佢由細無入咩男校名校私校，但成功入左Oxford！
所以有心讀書 無論咩因素都唔會阻礙到💪
最緊要係小朋友鍾意讀邊間😊我覺得你哋會去聆聽仔仔嘅意見做得好好❤
其實異性吸引力 同co-ed與否關係冇家長諗得咁大 身邊唔少讀傳統男/女校嘅女朋友 中學已經拍拖 識異性根本完全唔洗係學校 要識去補習、圖書館、cafe、手機、聯校活動、ball已經識到一堆；係男女校的確會有多啲機會同異性相處，但大部分其實都係男仔同男仔玩 女仔同女仔玩 當然會有一齊合作搞啲event但其實唔會有成日flirt嚟flirt去嘅呢啲幻想出現
比起男女校定單一性別的學校，反而間學校有啲咩資源更加重要（？）名校可能會比較多校友嘅支援，尤其金錢上啦，學校要搵個成功人士番嚟分享都多啲選擇；小朋友係間學校會識到啲咩人，都係佢哋將來嘅social network 呢啲都係啲長遠嘅benefits
I'm on Laurence's side. I went to an all-girl high school and I did have difficulty in interacting with boys after graduate. I was timid and full of unnecessary imagination of the opposite sex. It definitely affected my personal development as a teenager.
Noah離開咗香港咁耐都仲講到咁好廣東話實在好難得👍
應該係靠媽咪堅持日日同仔仔講講廣東話
人際關係（識同唔同人溝通）係好重要
無論係工作 / 有自己嘅business，識同人溝通+有良好嘅人際網絡，係非常重要
我眼見真係不少男校/女校嘅人會有呢個問題…
so……
真係好欣賞你們這對年青的父母👍💪個人覺得兩夫婦肯去開心建成地討論小朋友的將來學業方向👍無論結果係點已經對自己的家庭有一個交代啦👍現在的社會同學校係脫節了的兩個世界啦🤔️😮其實只要哥哥吸收咗美麗媽咪傳統得來又開放嘅思想👍英俊爸爸開放得來又節儉的美德👍加上他自己聰明的睿智👍💪祝福你們的家庭健康快樂，生活美滿👍👏
記得小六個年簡中學，我簡左幾間比娘親睇，五間都係女校，我娘親自然係無問題的，因為無異性啊嘛…但其實我好細個就知自己鍾意女仔，所以先簡哂女校…但我唔覺得身處喺一個所謂「有機會」拍拖嘅環境（特別我係讀全女校，全校都女人😂）就會影響學習，因為我中學六年都無拍過拖，而喺女校嘅異性戀女仔都仲有方法識到其他學校男仔，例如聯校活動、補習等等。所以拍拖係同讀咩學校係無好大嘅關係的（？）
The interact between two kids and the parents are so lovely. That’s why I love to watch this channel.
i went to all-girls schools for 13 years but i send my daughter to a co-ed school. i think it’s important for the kids to learn how to interact with the opposite sex, afterall school is a mini-society where they spend most of their week in, and school prepares them to live in the life they will face when they grow up
不同國家的全男全女校可能情況不同
但身為台灣的女中畢業
班級裡真的會搞好多小圈圈
可能沒有早戀問題 但部分學生會對人際關係這方面有焦慮
不過 最重要的還是跟孩子們做足溝通！ Parents放心小孩也快樂❤
I fully agree with Laurence in this episode 😂so性格決定人生 才華個個小朋友都有糸天生 只要父母從小觀察可發掘出來不難 Noah讀co-ed school 或男校都冇問題very smart boy👍🫶
如果去私校其他同學都喺富裕家庭，物質上，社會地位之類比較會令孩子難受（細個時最怕學校賣獎卷）。性格就得人的小朋友不知不覺就會成為別人的跟隨者。
欣賞你哋open呢個topic之餘，引導大家去正確方向思考👍
我本身女校出身，本身我性格係好怕醜，讀女校令我更加怕醜，畢業了也好害怕同異性相處，幸好我嫁得出，真是一個奇蹟
I think it's a misconception that going to a co-ed school would be easily distracted by the opposite sex. Because growing in a co-ed school, you just get used to study, talk or hang around with the opposite sex and won't find it as a 'distraction'. I personally think that boys and girls are just the same. And what's more is you learn how to start a friendship or relationship with them properly.
我喺香港讀書，小學係男女校，中學係女校，我同啲同學一致認為入咗女校之後更加舒服，因為冇男仔喺學校入面，所以我哋可以隨心做自己😂😂😂😂最大唔同係我哋而家已經喺女校第四年，見到男仔會怕羞😂
我識得有一個讀男校嘅friend，我次次同佢見面就係佢驚我我驚佢咁😂
As a person who went to an all-girls primary school, then to a co-ed secondary school, I gotta say that I'm really thankful that I went to a co-ed school. During the switch from an all-girls to a co-ed school, I have to admit I did take some time adjusting to the new environment, and I didn't know how to interact with boys. There were rumours, some students have crushes on each other, some had crushes on me, but ultimately, despite all these going on, we still thrived and our school is one of the schools with the most medical degrees in Hong Kong, showing that the presence of the opposite sex won't necessarily impact your academic abilities. And on top of that, I had a full 6 years to learn how to interact with boys. In form 1, I was really nervous and didn't know how to handle/ interact with boys that had crushes on me, or how to maintain a platonic relationship without giving wrong hints and stuff, but now, although I'm not perfect, I can say with confidence that I'm pretty good at that. If I were only given the chance to learn all these in univerisity year 1, I'd probably still be struggling (I'm in year 2 rn), so I'm really thankful that I don't have to because my parents pushed me into a co-ed school. I'm a strong believer that it's always easier and more efficient to learn how to interact with the opposite sex at a young age, and there's always more room for mistakes and improvements since it's always less damaging to a person's reputation when they make a mistake at say, 13 years old than as an adult. Having said these, I do understand your worries about the distractions, but I'm afraid I do not think that keeping him from an environment with girls is the way to go. Enrol him in a co-ed school, let him learn from a young age, allow him to make mistakes - all these experiences are going to shape him into a better person, and he'll have a competitive edge in interpersonal relationships when he goes into university. I'd suggest providing him guidances along the way though - teach him how to correctly identify the proper distance between the opposite sex, how to priortise his studies before relationships, and how to build platonic relationships with girls. Helping him build a correct mindset is always better than banning him from an environment with girls.
I am all for Co-ed and having a rounded personality. Being able to interact with the opposite sex in a normal way is key. Use the money for extra classes or for GSCE upward definitely not for primary school.
The second one can't find you recently. Luckily, the video is pretty good. Thank you for your hard work. Whether it is a co-ed or an all-boys school, I wish your child the best.加油啊影片好好睇多謝你哋令我鍾意多一啲英文❤🎉我覺得仔仔讀咩學校都好一定一定要開心快樂先係最緊要我個人六年級讀男女校嗯... 有啲男仔好聽話但有啲都冇咁聽話但成績都幾好（天生？）🤣個人同男仔女生男老師女老師溝通一直好好尤其是女同學女老師但我個人覺得如果希望仔仔男女溝通都好咁男女校可能好少少個人意見🙏而且我覺得你好哋仔仔幾樂觀同同學相處應該冇問題
其實我都覺得男女校會好點，因為我在韓國留學，好多同學都是全男or全女學校畢業 但是男女校會更有意思 不過都還要聽聽仔仔自己的意見😊
Co-ed is better in terms of social skills and academic achievements. My elder daughter went to Cheltenham ladies at grade 11&12 but I didn’t find her happy at that school. My second daughter studied at The Chartered house which they provided co-ed on grade 11, she was much more happier there and she was very confidence and disciplined, no mess around with boys. So it all depends on your children character and preference. As a parent, I like co-ed, more balance mentally. They now both graduated from prestige US universities.
多謝你哋討論呢個話題，剛好都有呢個困擾
I studied in all girl school. If i have kids in the future, i will send them to co-ed school coz its way more fun and you could learn social skills better. Its more like the real world and its more important in the AI society in the future. Academic is important, but it all depends on the child whether he or she knows the importance. Some of my frd dated since secondary school and they work hard togwther to get in good university.
In my all girl school, the school rules are crazy with lots of insane restrictions. I really dun have good memory on my secondary school.
我都同意爸爸嘅說法～
你老公講得岩，男仔我覺得讀男女校好啲，全男真係…唔多健康🤣，反而女仔可能讀男/女、全女冇咁大分別！
我以前中學都係讀傳統女校 然後變到完全唔識同男仔相處哈哈哈
時有聽聞這種情況
媽媽怕比其他女分左個仔⋯
其實 男女校 更加有利讀書
我中一至中五男校 預科男女校
除左男仔喺女仔面前唔衰得 焗住努力強化自己外
男女間互教互學係容易過純男仔咁做
透過互教互學 學識多好多
而且 除左學術 仲有soft skills , 一定係雙性環境有利啲
Agree
覺得細個同異性相處都好緊要,我有中同拍拖到結婚都係咁....
This would be great if some news or platforms can rise the debates in globe
个人认为在中学时期太过压抑自己，上了大学会容易释放自己而做错...早点对异性认识会学会尊重异性,性别平等是重要的
支持爸爸！
媽媽去阻英國就唔好將香港舊個套套入去講真。我都係讀女校，要玩就玩嫁啦，尤其男校成班男仔一齊玩仲癲呢個真係事實😂 小朋友愈禁愈做，仲要男仔相對無女仔咁聽話。覺得平衡發展好重要，有留言都講得好啱，softskills同人脈真係比好多野（例如實力）都更加重要， 識人好過識字，講嘅其實不無道理。我係過來人都知，其實讀單一性別嘅學校多少有啲後遺症。例如唔係好識點同異性溝通，但呢個係無可避免嘅，因為全世界唔係男就女，就算左膠講既雙性其實都係呢兩個性別之間衍生出嚟，所以事實就係咁，一樣。溝通能力每個人發展嘅時間都好唔一樣，好似我可能用頭嗰幾年早入社會就已經可以融入返，但係當年一齊讀書嘅女同學過咗10年，佢都仲係會有呢個弱項，因為本身嘅圈子一路都係女仔多，一路都少機會接觸男仔。一開頭聽你辯論嗰套就已經覺得好old school，點解唔可以首先去相信你個仔可以做到？好似玩風箏嘅道理，繩拉得太緊反而好容易甩繩會斷，放下鬆下開放嘅態度先至掂。其實你老公第一句已經好中point，你當年都係讀女校姐⋯⋯但都係讀書時期就已經有咗兩個心肝⋯⋯冇惡意，純講睇法。
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感覺你同對仔所有時間都相處得好好咁 ❤ 點做到架
真心社交能力重要好多，而且將來工作唔一定只係靠成績
雖然香港齋校好多好出名, 不過我堅持俾小朋友讀男女校, 因為呢個社會真係有男女的... 而且女校又多是非, 男校又成班粗粗魯魯~
Social development skills can also be trained from non school activities such as church gathering/ activities, extracurricular class, tuition class etc. I think the decision should be made based on the child’s character.
And btw who says all girl/ boy schools have less distraction? (Same sex attracts too!)
我有兩個仔，小學兩個都係男女校，升中時大仔我幫佢揸主意選擇男校、做家長都係想佢專心讀書的😅
大仔- 在F1-3都經常同我講讀男校好開心、大家都係男仔－齊無拘無束嘅、打波除衫呀、私底講粗口呀、打機呀、每日課餘活動都係男生、我都經常問佢讀得開唔開心、佢都話開心的😬
到F4-5就大𨍭變了開始青春期😅開始發姣😂😂開始言語間埋怨我幫佢選擇讀男校🤭
雖然有怨言但都順其自然咁完成中學階段的、跟住上了大學就學心了、開始男女一齊上堂、就像重新入左－個社區生活、學習男女相處、站在父母立埸、 14:54 佢哋讀男校係讀書專心啲嘅、中學嘅時候比單純啲、上到大學大個啲才去識女朋友好似恰當，父母最怕孩子在14、5歲就搞大人地個肚😂😂
到細仔讀男女校、靜雞雞瞞住父母F2就拍拖、無心機讀書又心散、所以成績比較不理想😰
佢同班有個男同學在F4時因為過唔到情關跳樓自殺😰☹️so sad
我覺得做家長為孩子選擇學校都係是乎學校的質素而定、你揀一間band5男校多數都容易學壞、傅統質素高嘅男校會好啲、雖然不擔保一定不學壞嘅、機率無咁高！
我認同妳老公的講法。
Co-Ed school is better personally thinking - not just the way it helps them communicate with both party but also or them to realised how different is boys and girls & how to deal with it later on in their life. They won’t feel like the opposite sex is like a whole new creature since they have never deal with one before ..
教男仔同教女仔方法係唔一樣，同埋男仔一般數理方面叻啲，又會比較有興趣IT, 如果男校就可以focus 咁樣教啲男仔。考grammar school都唔使好多補習費，有啲網站俾個月費幾廿鎊就可以任做，香港人咁叻讀書唔難考呀👍🏻
依家呢個世代，Internet咁方便，就算你去same sex school，其實Gladys擔心嘅嘢都會發生，所以都係睇邊間學校適合多啲，同埋邊間嘅資源呀、師資呀、成績呀好啲。仲有好重要嘅一點就係circle of influence，中文有句「近朱則赤 近墨則黑」，呢個好重要，小朋友喺學校時間仲長過喺屋企，返到屋企又可能會lock himself up in his room (TEEEEENNNNAGGGGEEEEE!!!!)，同埋佢哋嘅lifetime friends好有可能會喺求學時期build up，所以要觀察下心儀學校嘅小朋友係點嘅，咁大概你都picture到你小朋友入咗去讀會變成點
對！😊校風更重要
Gladys 要留意，如果話要攞走所有嘅distraction，前題係Noah 長大後只係對同女仔交往有興趣😅 2023 年嘅英國好難講，時代變，好多嘢都變咗㗎，唔可以再咁守舊。另外，明白作為媽媽想畀最好嘅個仔，但係講到要“control”佢嘅環境，就未必係對個仔最好，畢竟佢嘅人生係佢自己嘅，唔能夠咩嘢都控制。
Laurence 英文真係好好聽 其實有冇啲片可以全英? 覺得幾幫助到英文
I'm from all-girls' school, i personally will choose all-girls school. It is really such a precious moment in my life. Just go ahead and experience it for few years. There are many ways to mix with different gender though. Good luck!
and one more point is the ways to develop relationships nowadays is not mainly at schools but social media and dating apps . the boys at all-boy school may tend to more curious to use those tools to date and meet up girls. and parents are very hard to prevent this happens.
Lawrence is such a sensible individual
Agree
以我嘅觀察男校或者女校嘅人，佢哋始終同異性溝通係比較差啲。同埋男仔冇咁gentlemen女仔性格又會比較怕羞，男女校就反而相處得自然好多，去到大學如果想玩啲咩soc 男女校嘅人都會比較有自信啲。
如果沒有學費上的考慮, 理應留給小朋友自己決定
畢竟違反小朋友意願才可能是最差的情況
Priority
經濟情況>小朋友意願>男女校
其實只要一句"財政上不許可", 辯論已經完結
2023年啦。。。。其實全男/全女校一樣可以有男/女朋友。。。 🤣
I think those all male boarding school is such a UK thing. And since you are new to UK, I do believe you should try it out. But for the children, I don't think that's a good idea.
我看了视频我想给个建议，只是一个建议而已，我是建议去男女校会比较好，如果说是想要避免早恋这个问题我觉得有时候爱情来了就没有办法去避免，就只有正确的去引导他们，就算你把他送去全男孩，他也会在其他的地方认识到女生，越保护好可能就会适得其反，而且这个世界上不是只有男生，还有女生，所以你要让小孩他知道如何去跟男生相处如何去跟女生相处。而且如果真的谈恋爱了，只要好好引导就不会因为爱情去影响学业，也许可以互相进步。而且无论是全男校还是男女校，其实他只要努力去学习就也是拿到不错的成绩，如果真的怕他早恋的问题，可以正確去教导他。
如果是资源问题的话也可以去仔细找一下有没有一些是资源比较好的私立男女学校。（虽然我不知道有没有）
而且我觉得除了成绩以外，还可以去关注一下其他的课余活动，例如跳舞，弹钢琴或者孩子喜欢的足球，全方面發展比起单单只看成绩好很多！
不过这只是我的建议，最终决定还是在于你们一家人，加油吧😆💪
Agree😊
我生活嘅地方冇全男與全女校,至少我讀書時冇,不過~~我會鍾意男女校多啲囉
All three of my kids went to co-ed school in US, I have not noticed any distraction at all. My two girls hung out with other girls and my son hung out with other boys. The serious interest in other sex happened when they were in college, after they move away from home. I guess it's because when they were in high school, they didn't have money and a car until their last year. We picked them up from school everyday, there's no opportunity to take girls out for a date when you have no means of transportation and cash. I think Gladys is making an incorrect assumption about distraction. Of course if your sons look like David Beckham, it's a different story because if you are very handsome, they girls will seek you out but overall, I don't think distraction is an issue unless you give your son an Alfa Romeo to drive and $500 a week in spending money. Then, anything can happen.
My parents listen to what I want and like.
As a HK student studying in a girls school now, I would say that single schools have their own way of training students, especially top-schools. In truth, I am studying in a top girl school now, and compare to the experience that I used to study in a co-ed primary school. I think that single school are generally famous top schools and they always emphasise language learning so that the alumni who graduated may have a better development and definitely can exceed the competitors in the the future.
你宜家問個仔同三年後問佢，可能會唔同喎，到時大個d可能對異性有興趣呢😂😂 但確實呢個世界唔係男就係女，對身心健康黎講，係男女校正常d嘅！你著重嘅係學業，但讀書叻？做野叻？唔代表所有….
我女小學讀男女校, 中學讀女校, 係佢自己揀, 我覺得好好, 始終青春期對異性有好奇心, 而且得女仔咩都要自己做會獨立好多. 社交方面 可以喺出面興趣班補習班識都得, 唔怕唔識同異性溝通
問題係你點肯定性取向係異性⋯
Is important for kids to know how to communicate with a different gender.
can you please make a video talking about how did you work out Noah and Finley’s chinese surname and english name?
did they keep Gladys’ chinese surname?
with their english name, is it e.g. Noah (middle name) Lo-Reynolds?
好想睇－集Noah放學後的routine. 放學之後甘多時間，你哋會唔會要佢溫習？因為考grammar school要鬧高分
I fully agree with Laurence too , I think co-ed school is better.
我讀了九年女校，我哥讀了九年男校。我覺得我們家有一個問題就是，我們兩個都很不會跟不同性別的人相處
個人覺得大仔性格適合讀男女校。人際交往更全面d 😊 0:01
我以前小學係讀男女校，中學讀女校，覺得讀男女校比較好，因為依家讀大學好多時都會有小姐功課，同好多中學傾計都會話，啱啱讀大一哥陣簡直係有少少恐男😅唔係好識同異性相處、溝通、合作，遲d出咗嚟社會，你嘅工作圈子都唔會淨係得同性別嘅同事。對於會唔會中學拍拖，我覺得就因人而異，有部分人可能就嚟無接觸過異性，所以就更加渴望想識到異性？呢方面真係睇人
我啱啱係香港全女中學畢業，我想講女中好正，嗰種樂趣真係一世都遇唔到，好唔想畢業😢
我明個種姐妹情，但會唔會多八婆仔搞小圈子同講是非?
Agree papa's points!
Schools occupied you a significant part of your time but not ALL, kids could still interact with opposite sex during their weekends or during holidays. I was going to both same-sex and co-ed and I see no big differences to my academic results at all. FYI ;) And Good luck to Noah !! Football football football !!
媽媽愈講愈向爸爸果邊
似乎好愛爸爸就斜向佢身邊
Co-Ed for sure. The society is mixed with male and female (biologically speaking). We need to learn how to communicate and coexist with others including different gender regardless of age group.
想講下personal development.有聽過如讀男校或女校，課外活動既選擇會更多，因為學校只需要focus係一個性別上，例如男校可以有十種球類活動，但男女校未必可以做到，因學校要顧及男同女，所以變左資源平均分配在男同女。所以其實same sex school都有佢既好處
男校定男女校我neutral,但覺得男女校社交會正常d,因為社會就係有男和女，我其實唔太明點解要有純男校或女校😂
Be serious, your children's education are very important! Noah seems to be most mature person in the Reynolds family. At least he made a good choice!
我由細到大都係讀女校長大😅（除咗幼稚園）初頭屋企人都會覺得佢比我讀女校嘅原因係因為想我專心啲讀書。但我慢慢大個咗就開始覺得，我唔識得同異性相處😢有啲唔係好明咩叫距離感😅同埋會好怕同異性相處😮（純個人嘅Situation)
My son currently attends to a boy grammar school, year 9 now. He has no problems interacting with girls as he does sports outside school where both genders play together. I think children do know what type of secondary school they wanna go at year 6 😅
why do you think having a girl/boyfriend in teenage is such as bad thing? I would definitely support my kid to do that because it is the best way to learn about social skills, pressure handling, how to prioritise things. WHICH you can't learn from books!
我朋友個囡囡讀女校，校風唔錯，中一時都好乖，但可能少接觸男仔，中二時第一次跟朋友一齊去玩識咗幾個隔離校嘅男仔，就開始對男仔產生好奇，唔返學偷偷地去等人放學，瘋狂迷戀咗其中一個又唔叻又唔靚仔嘅男仔，個男仔無數次拒絕佢之後，佢患咗情緒病，之後就唔想返學接近放棄咗自己，父母都唔知可以點做。。。。
我自己就係因為唔鍾意男校，雖然囝囝幼稚園可以直升全男小，校風亦非常好，但因為想佢早少少面對正常社交，決定比錢佢讀男女私校。
我高中念的是混校，台灣六都裡唯一一個是男女混校的第一志願，我的經驗是在青春期的階段男女同班可以幫助我認清「臭男生就是這副德性」，反而沒什麼太多浪漫的遐想😂
讀男、女校嘅問題只不過唔係讀書時期出現，但好多時一入大學/社會，問題開始浮現。
Exactly
靚靚媽咪，我認為送大仔去男女校讀書比較好，心理比較平衡。我本人是女校出身，隔壁是一所全男校，他們時常過來幹擾我們這所女校的女生，真討厭。😂
九華、真光女書院？
@@katsuki116
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Summarising all comments, daddy wins for sure
媽媽擔心仔仔係co-ed會被distract既一個大前題係仔仔係異性戀
但而家可以好多元呀，仔仔也可以鍾意同性呀
所以其實仔仔入男校/ 男女，佢都一樣可以get distracted
我讀女校18年！我媽唔想我早戀然後送去女校，結果我f1就拍拖🤣🤣
I educated in Canada. I try private school for one year and I tell my parents that I don’t like it. As you as your son tell you what he wants and likes.
An interesting topic to debate on, I came from a girls’ school and I also sent my girl to same sex school. I feel like girls from same sex school are more focused, more independent, more bonding and physically stronger as they have to help themselves in school for all the works.
I agree with you as I come from girl school too. Somehow, girls from girl school are too strong, too independent which scared boys. Girls should learn to be weak at some moments! But this skill sorry I lacked of ! Hahaha
@@candywan845 indeed, this is one topic we have to teach our gals. A “relationship management” is a life time topic which we should also share earlier.
我係從性格方面去選，我女從少都好靜同成熟，我怕她將來出社會做嘢唔識同男仔相處，所以我哋選擇了男女校，我女依家剛上大學，雖然我女去到中六時有同同學拍拖，但佢哋目標很清晰，會互相支持。所以最後選校，我都係覺得性格行先，如好動好鍾意玩嘅，讀純女或男校會較好
點解好動鍾意玩係純男/女校好啲？
我女都係好動鍾意玩，同男仔都夾玩得埋，所以都諗野男女校呢個問題
@@melaniengan2095 這只是我覺得，喜歡玩嘅小朋友，佢哋會比較勇於嘗試不同嘅事物，所以我覺得純男或女校會適合些。不過就算選咩類型學校都好，都要保持與他們有良好溝通
Moved from Hong Kong to Australia Sydney. There is a private school culture in society, people compare each other like which school they go to. Many scandals of elite private boy school students from their behaviour because they live in the privileged bubble. Also, many boy's schools here tend to go co-ed in the future.
會支持 co-ed 🤔🤔
Coed education is the normal way to go.
girl keep up your good work stay strong!!! Women RIse
我認同爸爸的觀點！