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My great great grandmother always says "don't let someone have to tell you twice that they don't want you..." These people have said it in word and deed.
& people don’t realize that it may be “cheaper to keep her” financially but is that worth your mental & emotional health? Definitely not if you are unhappy in a relationship.
@danadane5497 I feel like he hates ashley..and she wants him to want her but he doesn't. He might not want the other chic..but he definitely does not want ashley.
@@Jacksonvilleplanespotting2If he hated her why would he be calling her? 🤔 When she mentioned that they talked often he instantly got upset and tried to downplay & deflect. He still has some type of feelings for Ashley. If his mother wasn’t a religious woman and he wasn’t trying to appease her he would probably still be dealing with Ashley
I agree I feel karon is only with her because of his mom I saw how he was looking at them walk away he didn’t seem that into his love of his life and Ashley stills love him y’all talk 3x a week they undercover want to be together
Yes, auntie is just as wise as she is beautiful. I hope she steps away from him before she finds herself pregnant, he isn’t ready for marriage and family and may never be.
Agree. WHEREVER You go there YOU are 😂😂😂😂 that’s why it’s Great Advice to WORK on Yourself from the INSIDE out. If you have a Wicked Heart, you’re going to behave Wickedly
Karon let his family push away the Woman he wanted to be with to pursue the woman they wanted him to be with. He was hurt seeing Ashley had moved on. Couldn’t contain his anger
Keron needs help. He is definitely going to cheat on that poor girl. He is NOT being honest with himself at all and it shows. His response to Ashley says it all. He’s so frustrated she knows who he truly is.
@@TheBaba1920right, I was thinking the same thing, I think the difference is the new girl is more quite then Ashley and, she fits in better with the Mom.
Chris is speaking, she hears him and understands what he’s saying but she wants to force a different response and feeling. He doesn’t feel how she wants him to feel. She’s delusional. And there was clearly an issue prior to coming and showed with how far apart they sat. not touching.
Kerons feelings is hurt and this would have been prevented of he didn't have his family so invested in his relationship. He accepted her but his family didnt.
Keron anger was cause he’s hurt. When you don’t care about someone, you don’t act the way he did. He’s just putting on for his mom and because of that, the relationship with Nateria will NEVER work!
Great update. 1. I’m SO happy for Falasha and Chris’s beautiful union! 2. Also love Brianna & Nikkiya’s union! 3. SO glad Amber left that violent narcissistic sociopath Justin! He was frightening. 4. I’m also glad Lazaundra was able to see herself from her reactive brokenness and heal and I wish them the best. 5. Ashaki needs to leave Chris immediately; she’s just a convenience for him like he said. 6. Karon is SO still in love with Ashley, and he’s too insecure to admit it. He’s a mama’s boy trying to play good Christian man for her religious zealot mother, but he knew about ‘s bisexuality and probably loved it. He dumped her to live up to his mother’s religious dogma, but you can tell he still loves her, and he’s acting spiteful and trying to pretend like he’s unbothered when he really is. He felt attacked the whole interview, but it was his own emotions that were triggering him. And you can tell he doesn’t feel the same way about Nateria; he didn’t even look at her how he looks at Ashley. And he downplayed his relationship with Ashley so Nateria wouldn’t find out. And, honestly, Ashley & Kenya still seem more like friends with benefits than a real relationship. Keron and Ashley still love each other, and he needs to let go of the dogma and religious shame and live his happy free life. 7. Keith & Summer were interesting but I’m glad they healed. 8. With Tselane & Justin, I acknowledge Justin has PTSD, anger issues, and communication issues, but something about Tselane rubs me the wrong way, too. I’m suspicious of anyone who presents as if they have NO faults whatsoever. She never owned up to having ONE issue, nor did she celebrate that he was willing to be a father to her son. He’s not perfect, but I think she may have her own issues and uses his bigger issues to hide hers behind. Great updates all around.
Karon turn into a smart mouth female once she said his girlfriend is cute, and they talk on the phone a few times a week! Jus plan childish, and while his mom has all this judgement for others, she needs to finish raising her son, cuz he seems like he would hav put his hands on her if the cameras weren't there!
Karon and Ashley---Karon is with the other girl bc his mom wants him to be with her. He seems like he is willing himself to be in love with the new girl. He's being so FAKE!!!!
I’m a huge O’Jays fan. My number one all time favorite song is “Cry Together” . Eddie Levert said it best in the opening monologue of the song “A relationship ain’t nothing without communication” Without love, trust, honesty, and communication, you have absolutely nothing at all.
Agree. Tselane sitting up there talm bout she CAN’T AFFORD to Move Out. GurLLLLLLL How much is your PEACE worth to you??not to mention the Peace of your child. There was a time when I had to live in MY CAR for a Month, and I swear it was the most Peaceful time of my life!!! It was me and My GOOD GOD just spending time together where I could Pray 🙏🏽 and Cry and take Refuge in the Father of Tender Mercies 💜
Keron is a sucka. Why disrespect that woman like that, cussing her out and over talking her smh. If he can easily do it to her then he most certainly can do it to his current girlfriend (who probably shouldnt have taken him back)
Oh my Chris and ashki that is not going to work.. He wants his cake and his slice also.. He wants to be a player and really has no emotion for her.. So sad she is short changing herself
The fact that Ashaki even got back with Chris just shows how we have a tendency to paint all the red flags pink and look past those things and signs that are blaring in our faces.
Keron loves Ashley not nateria he just wants someone who his mom will accept. I can tell that he is going along to get along sometimes it's easier than taking a chance with the one you really love.
Naw, he's saying he doesn't wanna pay to entertain other women, but he ain't say that would stop him from one night stands and hook ups she's in trouble
He didn't articulate his past experience compared to his new experience on doing the right thing correctly. He isn't saying he doesn't love her or its cheaper to keep her .. he's trying to say he's more financially aware of how he was misspending his money .. how he thought it was easier to jump from one woman to the next ( not only because he has no discipline but he was looking for joy to avoid arguing ) he's saying it feels good to not be sneaky and deceitful. What she did was made his experience about her and got annoyed when she didn't hear the words she thought he should say. When he wasn't speaking about her he was reflecting on his behavior
@@paradisewilliam3944 that's because people make everything about them even if if has nothing to do with them and especially when they are in a relationship with someone
@@paradisewilliam3944 that's also because you listen to understand so you paid attention to what he was saying not what you thought he should say or a flaw in his response
@@tonirome3920 that's facts.. a lot of ppl on here be projecting their life on others. The facts can be in their face but they would not want to see it. .. problems with most females is they read too much into things and they think a person suppose to say or answer a question they way they would
@@christinadukesofficialagreed. And she was wrong for blindsiding him on that couch with things she never told him in private. She made everything about her and what she wants. He dodged a bullet if she left.
wow reading people's comments I am like i might just be clueless on Chris words 😲 I thought he was saying he finds not sneaking around and dealing with multiple woman is a better lifestyle than to do it.
I wish the second couple out of Sacramento well her family was way too much he's a genuine sincere man paying for all of her family it's too much, but again, blessings to them and their choices
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My great great grandmother always says "don't let someone have to tell you twice that they don't want you..." These people have said it in word and deed.
My Nana told me the same thing...
He said it's cheaper to keep her!! Sometimes if you just let a person talk you'll hear everything you need to hear.
Facts
Chris words spoke volumes about how he felt she need to pay attention to those words he just said.
MOST TIMES Tyisha most times 21:00
I also heard what he refuses to say or admit
& people don’t realize that it may be “cheaper to keep her” financially but is that worth your mental & emotional health? Definitely not if you are unhappy in a relationship.
It’s hard to face the reality that you may not be compatible with the person you love. Peace is always greater ❤️
Yessss❤❤❤
This just sounds painful but it’s so real.
Move on with your Son
Peace is PRICELESS.
I love Tracey, she’s perfect for this show.
She’s the best
She be showing OUT!
It is so evident that Keron is not in love with "the love of his life" she seems like his safe option.
Yup that I love you was so fake. He loves Ashley and if he was a strong man he could have led Ashley to Christ.
@danadane5497 I feel like he hates ashley..and she wants him to want her but he doesn't. He might not want the other chic..but he definitely does not want ashley.
@@Jacksonvilleplanespotting2If he hated her why would he be calling her? 🤔 When she mentioned that they talked often he instantly got upset and tried to downplay & deflect. He still has some type of feelings for Ashley. If his mother wasn’t a religious woman and he wasn’t trying to appease her he would probably still be dealing with Ashley
VERY WELL SAID❤
FACTS
Karon too cowardly to own up to the fact that he's a freak, too. Prayers for the church girl
I agree I feel karon is only with her because of his mom I saw how he was looking at them walk away he didn’t seem that into his love of his life and Ashley stills love him y’all talk 3x a week they undercover want to be together
Freak or not they tried to emasculate him, and what was that about
no literally, like the church girl deserves better
@@sattasana7753🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Ashley is childish, they’re toxic together…
Keron DEFINITELY still calls her. And got exposed. That's why he flipped.
He loves Ashley but doesn’t know how to love himself enough to let go.
He has a type and it’s mannish.
Keron hates Ashley so much because she reminds him of a version of himself that he hasn’t come to terms with.
This!!! He wants to be free so bad and mad that she is SMH
😂😂😂😂 yea the NASTY GHETTO Version
He'll no Ashley is toxic as hell. Threescore with your man or husband never ends well.
Karon was sitting there so hurt over Ashley he's still in love with her...he chose Nateria to please his mom period
Not it’s cheaper to keep her , that answer was so dumb. Listen to your aunt girl!
Yes, auntie is just as wise as she is beautiful. I hope she steps away from him before she finds herself pregnant, he isn’t ready for marriage and family and may never be.
When Tracy said, “Well, they may be different, but you’re still you…” Whew! That was a word right there!
Agree. WHEREVER You go there YOU are 😂😂😂😂 that’s why it’s Great Advice to WORK on Yourself from the INSIDE out. If you have a Wicked Heart, you’re going to behave Wickedly
The first couple just need to break up and never speak again. The guy is pompous and arrogant.
They're not together. The lady, Tselane, was on OWN's Single Ladies and has a new partner.
@@private_persongood for her!
And he’s a man child. Love shouldn’t be this difficult.
@private_person wow? Another man around her son after exposing him to abuse in this relationship. Sad.
@@RahYisrael99where there hell is the father of the child? These deadbeats need to held accountable.
Karon is so childish! 2-3 times a week or even every 2-3 weeks is a lot of communication with an ex if you’re in a relationship!
Right !
And I believe her, he trying to cover up!!! 😂😂😂
“It’s not a Disney Movie babe”Whew chyle , he definitely meant what he said.
Karon let his family push away the Woman he wanted to be with to pursue the woman they wanted him to be with. He was hurt seeing Ashley had moved on. Couldn’t contain his anger
The first couple is a Train Wreck LOL
Ashaki sees this stuff and continues to try to move forward. Overlooking what he said he meant what he said
Her future is full off stds, sleepless nights and lies if she stays
That lasaundra episode was toxic I’m so shocked that they are doing so well. The retreat really healed them
I feel so bad for Ashaki but I am confident that she will get enough and leave him for good. She seems stronger than she was on the episode.
Hopefully they didn’t have children together
@TheBaba1920 They have 2 kids now. Looks like she got pregnant not too long after the show. Highly disappointing but very expected.
Lazandra and Julian look like they're glowing! Good for y'all 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Peace is priceless!
And she is not that peacefull
Cheating is a sign of insecurity and immaturity
Keron needs help. He is definitely going to cheat on that poor girl. He is NOT being honest with himself at all and it shows. His response to Ashley says it all. He’s so frustrated she knows who he truly is.
The first couple should have taken their families' advice and broken up. Sometimes, the families’ judgment is correct.
Love seeing the growth and progress in Lasaundra and Julian. Yes!
Zero chemistry between Keron & Nateria.. She’s safe
And N dresses just like Ashley
@@TheBaba1920right, I was thinking the same thing, I think the difference is the new girl is more quite then Ashley and, she fits in better with the Mom.
The best tv therapist is back! Love Dr. Tracy.
One thing I hate is a toxic relationship 🤦
Chris is speaking, she hears him and understands what he’s saying but she wants to force a different response and feeling. He doesn’t feel how she wants him to feel. She’s delusional. And there was clearly an issue prior to coming and showed with how far apart they sat. not touching.
He said what he meant...it's cheaper to be with her than to date other women..that's it..that's all...girl lace up your sneakers...and run!!!!
Karon’s whole demeanor changed when he found out Ashley was dating Kenya..
Kerons feelings is hurt and this would have been prevented of he didn't have his family so invested in his relationship. He accepted her but his family didnt.
Tselane and Justin: doomed from the start with that ptsd elephant in the room and his mom/ enabler shoving issues under the carpet....
Karin doesn’t even look believable 😂😂😂.. He isn’t that into this other girl
Keran was looking like he wanted to cry 😂
cuz he did
He definitely teared up. The corner of his eyes were shiny 😂
Nateria needs to run she never going to get the fairytale. He said its not Disney 😂😂😂
What was Askshi expecting from Chris. Like Boss up and leave him.
Right. Now she got joint everything with no improvement
I want an update on the couple that didn't show up. That was not a healthy relationship at all
Me too
The declination meant they were still together married with kids.
Keron anger was cause he’s hurt. When you don’t care about someone, you don’t act the way he did. He’s just putting on for his mom and because of that, the relationship with Nateria will NEVER work!
Exactly! I need an update to the update on Keron and Ashley!
Great update. 1. I’m SO happy for Falasha and Chris’s beautiful union! 2. Also love Brianna & Nikkiya’s union! 3. SO glad Amber left that violent narcissistic sociopath Justin! He was frightening. 4. I’m also glad Lazaundra was able to see herself from her reactive brokenness and heal and I wish them the best. 5. Ashaki needs to leave Chris immediately; she’s just a convenience for him like he said. 6. Karon is SO still in love with Ashley, and he’s too insecure to admit it. He’s a mama’s boy trying to play good Christian man for her religious zealot mother, but he knew about ‘s bisexuality and probably loved it. He dumped her to live up to his mother’s religious dogma, but you can tell he still loves her, and he’s acting spiteful and trying to pretend like he’s unbothered when he really is. He felt attacked the whole interview, but it was his own emotions that were triggering him. And you can tell he doesn’t feel the same way about Nateria; he didn’t even look at her how he looks at Ashley. And he downplayed his relationship with Ashley so Nateria wouldn’t find out. And, honestly, Ashley & Kenya still seem more like friends with benefits than a real relationship. Keron and Ashley still love each other, and he needs to let go of the dogma and religious shame and live his happy free life. 7. Keith & Summer were interesting but I’m glad they healed. 8. With Tselane & Justin, I acknowledge Justin has PTSD, anger issues, and communication issues, but something about Tselane rubs me the wrong way, too. I’m suspicious of anyone who presents as if they have NO faults whatsoever. She never owned up to having ONE issue, nor did she celebrate that he was willing to be a father to her son. He’s not perfect, but I think she may have her own issues and uses his bigger issues to hide hers behind. Great updates all around.
I couldn't agree more with you!
Karon turn into a smart mouth female once she said his girlfriend is cute, and they talk on the phone a few times a week! Jus plan childish, and while his mom has all this judgement for others, she needs to finish raising her son, cuz he seems like he would hav put his hands on her if the cameras weren't there!
Karon is butt hurt and it’s obvious. I also don’t like how his new lover was hidden and Ashley had to bring hers out with them
He really told her “this isn’t a Disney movie” she dumb af for staying with him.
We love us some dr Tracy!!!!!! How come she is not more out there. She is sooooooo gooodddddd!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Keron been lying to his new chik about the situation
Keron is better off without Ashley. They definitely do not need to be together
Especially because he playing a role and isn't being himself
I was just googling yesterday for an update on these couples!!
Keron makes me itch. He’s so fake 😂
Except when he looks at Ashley.
Karon and Ashley---Karon is with the other girl bc his mom wants him to be with her. He seems like he is willing himself to be in love with the new girl. He's being so FAKE!!!!
Ashley is also with the other girl because her family wants. Looks like her mother want the daughter to be like her so bad lol
Kenya is gorgeous and he can’t compete. 😅 but seriously you’re right. He’s not being true to himself.
In the comments it was said that Tracy needs to change her hair why is that so important when her words are powerful
I love her hair. She’s very insightful though with power in her words.
I like her hair.
I’m a huge O’Jays fan. My number one all time favorite song is “Cry Together” . Eddie Levert said it best in the opening monologue of the song “A relationship ain’t nothing without communication” Without love, trust, honesty, and communication, you have absolutely nothing at all.
First couple needs to break up ASAP
Agree. Tselane sitting up there talm bout she CAN’T AFFORD to Move Out. GurLLLLLLL How much is your PEACE worth to you??not to mention the Peace of your child. There was a time when I had to live in MY CAR for a Month, and I swear it was the most Peaceful time of my life!!! It was me and My GOOD GOD just spending time together where I could Pray 🙏🏽 and Cry and take Refuge in the Father of Tender Mercies 💜
Keron n his ex girl are still in love
The growth in Lazaundra is mad!! ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽
Did Keith pay for Summer's family to go to Cabo??? 😂😂😂
If so, did they say “thank you “ this time?🤦🏾♀️😂
Teslane, 🗣️RUN!!! If he’s not communicating, giving you what you need, and his family hates you, why stay?
Not Keron, the church boi, smoking a Newport 🥴🥴
This was so cute. I am so happy Tracey implemented the where are they now.🥰✨️💖
Keron please
I’m so disappointed in my sister Ashaki 😢 you had the right idea when you broke it off! He ain’t it bookie
Tselane needs to move her azz out if it's that bad instead of sitting there miserable...Get a second job, move in with family, whatever
BEST SHOW THRY NEED TO MAKE MORE EPISODES
Keron is a sucka. Why disrespect that woman like that, cussing her out and over talking her smh. If he can easily do it to her then he most certainly can do it to his current girlfriend (who probably shouldnt have taken him back)
Justin is weird his family is crazy Tselane should've ran 6 months ago!
Your Tselane got no money and using Justin to have a place to say so Shame on her
Wow I really thought ashaki was smarter than that. He clearly is still playing games and she's ignoring the reality.
He still love Ashley he don’t even act or look happy….
I pray Amber left that man alone !
I think she died. Her IG pics have no ring. I had to find out cause I was triggered.
@@TheBaba1920😢
Whew chile…. the guys Chris & Keron are STILL a “no” for me. BIG BIG BIG NO. 😭🙅🏾♀️
Oh my
Chris and ashki that is not going to work..
He wants his cake and his slice also..
He wants to be a player and really has no emotion for her..
So sad she is short changing herself
U are right
Y have a child n financially tie urself to a situation u cnt get out of knowing it’s toxic.
The fact that Ashaki even got back with Chris just shows how we have a tendency to paint all the red flags pink and look past those things and signs that are blaring in our faces.
It just seems like these couples have reasoned to take the wide gate vs the narrow one.
👍🏽
Keron loves Ashley not nateria he just wants someone who his mom will accept.
I can tell that he is going along to get along sometimes it's easier than taking a chance with the one you really love.
Amber and Kirk Franklin were the couple I was most eager to get an update on
Couple number 2 i cant truly believe since they not in person to feel the energy ..
Where is Amber and Justin?! We need their update! Tf
It said that they invited them to come back but they declined
Messed up that Ashley was fighting a losing game with Karon and his fam😒
Chris seems to only stay with Nikashi(or what her name is)
because he doesn't want to pay up when they separate.
They ain't married lol
Naw, he's saying he doesn't wanna pay to entertain other women, but he ain't say that would stop him from one night stands and hook ups she's in trouble
When someone show you who they are believe it
Kerons girlfriend is so calm and sweet but he dont look like thats what he likes.
Ms. Tracy thanks for the update.
Keron new GF looks.... Awkward. Maybe it's them shoes. 😅
Dang Ashaki is lowkey foolish, she’s so young but girl…
She doesn't know her worth, she's young, pretty, she can find a better man and her pool is very large at 22.
Traci looks so gooooood❤
You can tell Nateria is a quiet church girl. She and Ashley are opposites. Nateria doesn't even look comfortable in that dress.
He didn't articulate his past experience compared to his new experience on doing the right thing correctly. He isn't saying he doesn't love her or its cheaper to keep her .. he's trying to say he's more financially aware of how he was misspending his money .. how he thought it was easier to jump from one woman to the next ( not only because he has no discipline but he was looking for joy to avoid arguing ) he's saying it feels good to not be sneaky and deceitful. What she did was made his experience about her and got annoyed when she didn't hear the words she thought he should say. When he wasn't speaking about her he was reflecting on his behavior
That's the same thing I was thinking. I was thinking it was me..
@@paradisewilliam3944 that's because people make everything about them even if if has nothing to do with them and especially when they are in a relationship with someone
@@paradisewilliam3944 that's also because you listen to understand so you paid attention to what he was saying not what you thought he should say or a flaw in his response
@@tonirome3920 that's facts.. a lot of ppl on here be projecting their life on others. The facts can be in their face but they would not want to see it. .. problems with most females is they read too much into things and they think a person suppose to say or answer a question they way they would
In the beginning like at 2:00. Them discussing their relationship y are they even on the show
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She should of left old buddy , she telling him he may be single and he giggling . Smh
He seems like a genuine guy that's ready to love someone. She seems to have been hurt in life. They can have a beautiful family if she lets it happen
That boys mom is a very bad if Christian putting Ashley down behind her sin not kool at all she should have invited her to church and helped her
Justin crying face is forever funny 😂😂😂😂
I think she will regret breaking up with him especially when he finds someone new. 😢
Who?
The first couple.
@@christinadukesofficialagreed. And she was wrong for blindsiding him on that couch with things she never told him in private. She made everything about her and what she wants. He dodged a bullet if she left.
She is married to a woman now.
@@ajaanderson8834 Wow, I didnt see that coming
I tell the man everything he needs to know about me whether he wants to move forward with me is up to him
I knew the 1st couple would get to this less than 1min in their episode the dude was already crying
If Tracey have to ask after all this do u thank this is gonna work then that means it not
Chris said she is convenient girl run
wow reading people's comments I am like i might just be clueless on Chris words 😲 I thought he was saying he finds not sneaking around and dealing with multiple woman is a better lifestyle than to do it.
I wish the second couple out of Sacramento well her family was way too much he's a genuine sincere man paying for all of her family it's too much, but again, blessings to them and their choices