12 Things Filipinas Won't Tell You...So I Will

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  • @thisjustindustries
    @thisjustindustries 4 месяца назад +25

    I found my dream Filipina using tips from these videos!

    • @tilapiadave3234
      @tilapiadave3234 4 месяца назад +10

      Yep , your dreaming :)

    • @vgshwk
      @vgshwk 4 месяца назад +6

      My number 1 dream girl is my wallet 😊

    • @VENEMPASTOR
      @VENEMPASTOR 4 месяца назад

      ​@aaaaaaavgshwk

  • @adammonks591
    @adammonks591 3 месяца назад +9

    Letting the Filipina yell at me is toxic and won't be tolerated.

  • @Murph_.
    @Murph_. 4 месяца назад +31

    "We're not judging how you dress...", but... "we're judging how you dress". Personally, I'm not a model or high flying businessman. I'm a regular guy, and I'm dressing like a regular guy. If my Filipina wife wants to dress up, good for her! I don't judge her and she doesn't judge me.
    If you want to be the next Filipina Pea, you need to learn more about Western culture. Some of the things you are saying are ridiculous for us. We are who we are. Either a Filipina likes us or she doesn't. There's a million more Filipinas right around the corner. Filipinas should find a man that fits what they want, and foreigners should find a Filipina that fits what we want.

    • @ephemarius
      @ephemarius 4 месяца назад +4

      I completely agree. Maybe all Filipinas 'in general' tend to be a certain way. But at the end of the day, every person is different. You can't just generalize and say all Filipinas do X thing. I have encountered many different Filipinas that all value certain things differently. Never underestimate the power of the individual. There is no such thing as a 'one size fits all' Filipina

    • @douglasbriel6103
      @douglasbriel6103 4 месяца назад +1

      She doesn't mean a fancy suit. Maybe just no holes in your jeans. Just for first impressions, she wants to know if you are probably a good provider.

  • @Nelson-g6q6e
    @Nelson-g6q6e 4 месяца назад +21

    Don't talk down to foreigners l lived here 35+ years I'm from the United States this applies to everyone

    • @douglasbriel6103
      @douglasbriel6103 4 месяца назад +2

      Some of these guys are revealing why they were having trouble at home to begin with.

  • @MikeReisender
    @MikeReisender 4 месяца назад +14

    She’s going to yell at me every day and I can’t yell back? Sounds kind of weird 😂

    • @vgshwk
      @vgshwk 4 месяца назад +5

      Yell back by waving goodbye

  • @leesmith7127
    @leesmith7127 4 месяца назад +9

    I am glad you made this post. Most foreigner sites leave most of these points off their list of what Filipina's like or dislike. Especially the dress and hygiene.

  • @Maurice181
    @Maurice181 4 месяца назад +12

    Nice list... I'll be sure to demand that same treatment from every Filipina I meet.

    • @DDK997
      @DDK997 4 месяца назад +3

      Very true. The presenters never admit that it is a two way street.

    • @DarkKhagan
      @DarkKhagan 4 месяца назад +2

      Exactly! 💯🎯😎

  • @mixnmichael1
    @mixnmichael1 4 месяца назад +4

    I look for smart girl every time I go out.

  • @TWills-oe7hn
    @TWills-oe7hn 4 месяца назад +7

    It is fun listening to you! 😊

  • @surfboy344
    @surfboy344 4 месяца назад +6

    The first 5 and the last one are things a gentleman should never have to be told to do or not do. Same with the last one.

  • @robbymacklin
    @robbymacklin 4 месяца назад +2

    I like and agree with all these tips! Great video. I would never yell at anyone. But I will add that if I find a Filipina girlfriend and she starts yelling at me... she's done. I will be single before I live with that disrespect. Respect goes both ways.

  • @DrDlane
    @DrDlane 4 месяца назад +5

    You say don't be weird but do not define what that means to a filipina. Whether someone is weird is subjective, not objective. Therefore you must define what it means to a filipina. And if it's different for every filipina, then it's not a valid thing.

  • @marshallsislandadventures798
    @marshallsislandadventures798 4 месяца назад +4

    I love how blissfully naive you are. I promise that’s not an insult and I genuinely like you channel. 1st in order to define weird you have to define normal and both of those are impossible but I really get what you are saying. 2nd I would not date or marry any woman who yells at me every day. I NEVER raise my voice but I expect the same back. It’s funny how part of this comes across as “how not to piss your girlfriend off” LOL I still enjoyed the video and you made some awesome points. I love Pinays and there are some very different types there. In the last 2 years if I talked to 120 girls on Pinay dating sites at least 90 of them wanted to sell me nudes. LOL I am not interested in that at all I want a traditional Pinay with conservative values. I know they exist in huge numbers there. BTW You are maganda and please keep making videos.

  • @quigleyzee4033
    @quigleyzee4033 4 месяца назад +4

    Good info. Maybe for the next video like this, pair do's and don'ts. This way, someone doesn't think: "how depressing, I can't do anything in the Philippines" after listening to a long list of don'ts.

  • @erikbartelt9060
    @erikbartelt9060 4 дня назад

    I was just in the Philippines for the first time. Angeles City, Cavite. Bacoor Cavite. Manila. Had a great time. Everything thing you mentioned is true. I have family their. I could not believe how I was taken care of. My baby sister made sure when I went on a date I was dressed nice. In shorts but nice.

  • @alekstufa1026
    @alekstufa1026 3 месяца назад

    Good job on explaining the culture difference......And reminding us to be a jentelman.....Thank you dear you are owsom

  • @joshuaferrell384
    @joshuaferrell384 3 месяца назад +1

    Guys just be yourself, thats all. Treat her right as she’ll return the same respect back.

  • @plalonde28
    @plalonde28 4 месяца назад +2

    You have great tips. You are so fun to listen to.

  • @chrisplatt3869
    @chrisplatt3869 4 месяца назад +4

    You are adorable but speak facts nice video enjoy your day 😊

  • @hanglee5586
    @hanglee5586 4 месяца назад +7

    Shave too

  • @Galahad54
    @Galahad54 4 месяца назад +2

    On 4. Don't be weird. The trouble is, we don't know what counts as weird vs. sweet, normal, funny to a Filipina. This is especially true for guys who are ... a bit weird.
    #7 - Rice is like Spam in the Monty Python sketch. If you don't know, in youtube type Python Spam. Note: If you act like the people in this sketch, you will be considered weird.
    #12. Corny or cringe - again, we don't know what makes the list. Note that many guys come to the Philippines because we don't have mad skills in the dating scene back home.
    13. Listen. Watch. Imitate good behavior. Love rice and karaoke.

    • @KennyOrange-dzepp
      @KennyOrange-dzepp 4 месяца назад

      read other comments and see your difference.... the fact that you start by asking makes a world of a difference. usually men that wonder, observe and in the end adapt. that will save you tones of bad moments. men who think they know.... well, tend to forget the reason(s) they had to leave their country just to find a hug half the planet away.

    • @busterhikney6936
      @busterhikney6936 3 месяца назад

      You're being weird.

  • @dellmack1
    @dellmack1 Месяц назад

    You are Stunning.!

  • @DrDlane
    @DrDlane 4 месяца назад +5

    It's the same thing for corny and cringe. It is subjective so it needs to be defined.

  • @davidplatter7671
    @davidplatter7671 4 месяца назад +1

    Rice is life 😋😋

  • @thudor1
    @thudor1 2 месяца назад

    Got it!
    Rule #1: Don't scare a Filipina!!
    Rule #2: Shower with a bucket if you have nothing else, but be thorough!!
    Rule #3: Don't dress like a dork when you DATE a Filipina!!
    Rule #4: Don't ACT like a dork when you date a Filipina!!
    Rule #5: She can yell, but YOU CANNOT!!
    Rule #6: Take your time with a Filipina!!
    Rule #7: Don't forget the rice when you feed a Filipina!!
    Rule #8: Learn and respect!!
    Rule #9: Don't slander a Filipina!!
    Rule #10: Don't did the Philippines!!
    Rule #11: Observe the Philippine work ethic and spirit of overcoming!!
    Rule #12: Leave the 🌽 and 🧀 in your native country!!

  • @timothycartet8278
    @timothycartet8278 4 месяца назад +1

    In other word don't do things like critize, yell or judge and be weird but It's ok they do it to you because you're a guess in their country

  • @davidespinoza8542
    @davidespinoza8542 4 месяца назад +1

    Love your personality, nice videos beautiful Filipina. Easy person to love. Have a blessed week.

  • @larrygraham3377
    @larrygraham3377 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow , Thank you very much Rain !!! This video is really great !!! I will always keep these tips in mind when I return to the Philippines to visit my wonderful in-laws !!!
    You rock RAIN !!!!
    AGAIN, THANKS !!! 😘😘😘

  • @Stew357
    @Stew357 4 месяца назад +1

    Excellent video and advice, plus you're so sweet. Ty Raine 😊

  • @jbl8829
    @jbl8829 4 месяца назад

    Plenty of foreigners would benefit from taking on most of these simple tips...

  • @KT-df1fe
    @KT-df1fe 3 месяца назад

    Great advice 😊

  • @Raidermendoza1984
    @Raidermendoza1984 3 месяца назад

    Just go to mang inasal good food and unlimited rice and soup 💯💯

  • @c.j50
    @c.j50 3 месяца назад

    You are wonderful and I promise there is always rice🙏

  • @ThaSouthTV
    @ThaSouthTV 15 дней назад

    Well I can certainly relate to the rice requirements.. 😅

  • @ralphperez3323
    @ralphperez3323 2 месяца назад

    🌻

  • @vagmanis251
    @vagmanis251 3 месяца назад

    Its very funny a lot of that 😂😂

  • @themanftheworld8439
    @themanftheworld8439 2 месяца назад

    Filipina women are very complex.

  • @walter.s8145
    @walter.s8145 4 месяца назад +3

    This pick up line always breaks the ice....Do you know what's on the menu. .....me ..n....u.....😅😅

  • @markeverson5849
    @markeverson5849 Месяц назад

    Okay little sweetheart thank you for the advice you're very smart I'll do my best and I think I will try to seek you out in the Philippines and have you give me an inspection because I know I will find a girl if you approve of me😊

  • @johnv5156
    @johnv5156 4 месяца назад +6

    No offense to the older retirees here.. but coming from NYC, the bar is extremely low in Angeles.
    - Shower
    - Be younger than 80
    - Dress like you didnt buy all your clothes from Walmart
    - Use colgne
    - Know how to carry a conversation
    - Esclate
    Do the bare minimum and you'll be be dripping with non pay to play tang.

    • @busterhikney6936
      @busterhikney6936 3 месяца назад

      Know exactly what was seen in Angeles. Whew! 😥

  • @marvindockery-lo9cw
    @marvindockery-lo9cw 4 месяца назад

    I have been here on Leyte eight years
    I am ready to meet my first honest filipina.
    I have been told over and over
    That there are some honest women here.

  • @johnjay3946
    @johnjay3946 4 месяца назад

    I'm going to start watching her videos

  • @michaelwilbur4320
    @michaelwilbur4320 4 месяца назад

    Unfortunately from what I understand the humidity over there would be dangerous for me to be in, having had heat stroke back in 2017 ,I can't get over heated without passing out and ending up in the hospital if I. Lucky

  • @ChestorHixon
    @ChestorHixon 4 месяца назад

    Great video great information from a pretty young lady, I will remember about the rice because rice is life. Thank you. Chester hixon

  • @drewnc6196
    @drewnc6196 4 месяца назад +4

    You will not change the Philippines, let the Philippines change you for the better.

  • @Rusty-Brown_
    @Rusty-Brown_ 4 месяца назад +1

    ********** ALOT OF WORK TO HAVE YOU HIGH MAINTENCE !!!! ****

  • @kevinreist7718
    @kevinreist7718 4 месяца назад +1

    So, imagine you split a pizza on a date, would Mango sticky rice for desert satisfy your rice for every meal requirement?

  • @bmx3539
    @bmx3539 4 месяца назад

    Good video. Thank you.

  • @TheTreasureSeeker01
    @TheTreasureSeeker01 3 месяца назад +1

    If she moves to your country, you will want to have other Filipinas for her to hang out with.

  • @Joel.M73
    @Joel.M73 4 месяца назад +2

    Is the don't be weird part mandatory? Asking for a friend..

    • @richardbalderas2408
      @richardbalderas2408 3 месяца назад +1

      Good one!!! 😂😂😂 asking for a friend... lol

  • @williamii3108
    @williamii3108 4 месяца назад

    I am so surprised at the criticisms about your 'dress nicely' comment! It it so easy, yet so respectful - and yet so many foreign men don't do this and can be both painfully embarrassing and oblivious.
    I was recently in a hotel 'executive lounge' with my wife. The area had a (posted but not enforced) ''dress code'. The most beautiful mid-20's woman I had ever seen came in and sat a the next table - she seemed shy but simply and really well-put-together. I assumed that the well-dressed late-20's black guy her age, who looked like he could have been a celebrity, was with her - and I was thinking, man, that guy really does go first-class. Instead, an older western guy wearing sandals, shorts and a baseball cap, looking like he just rolled out of ben, shuffled in and sat at this world-class beauty's table. I just felt bad for her - she seemed like maybe she deserved some respect..
    This wasn't unusual anywhere in PH - girls who put in an effort to look both comfortable and neat, with foreign guys who looked like they'd never seen a collared shirt and probably had ggod reason to never take the ball-cap off indoors. So many western men don't seem to realise that a little effort can go a long way - and it really does show respect. Just a clean polo- or Hawaiian- shirt. And maybe not subject everyone to old-white-guy feet. In the Philippines, just a little effort goes a long way.

  • @Ichiaries
    @Ichiaries 3 месяца назад

    I just met a Philippine woman online and I am relating to some of these things and I want to know more

  • @franciscoburgos787
    @franciscoburgos787 2 месяца назад

    I accept #1-11, but I reject #12. I’m gonna be bola bola. Lmao, btw, any guy who does #1, feel free to block them immediately. Those guys aren’t looking for true love.

  • @jockaud
    @jockaud Месяц назад

    Hi SGP, what about kissing your Filipina girlfriend in public and displays of affection in public? Enjoyed your great 12 points!

  • @danhunt3652
    @danhunt3652 4 месяца назад

    🖤 🤎 lovely Filipino, you have your priorities in order And a cute accent 🌹 🤎 💕

  • @fullmindstorm
    @fullmindstorm 4 месяца назад +1

    I agree with the yelling. In the u.s. we have a culture of violence and thinking that if you dont show youre not a push over they will treat you like a push over and they will in the u.s. because we have that culture of violence. Its very different in the Philippines and other countries.

    • @shhhlunchtime9742
      @shhhlunchtime9742 4 месяца назад

      thats a bit bs. They yell all the time. PH isnt Japan.

    • @fullmindstorm
      @fullmindstorm 4 месяца назад +1

      @shhhlunchtime9742 A bit bs? It's considered wrong to yell hate in the Philippines and perfectly alright to yell hate in the u.s. In fact claiming freedom of speech missusing that right. Freedom of speech is to point out wrongs and for ideas to florish not to degrade or mentally torture people which is standard in the u.s. Indeed we have a culture of violence in the u.s. not only physical but verbal. You're a bit bs.

  • @erockvaughn2190
    @erockvaughn2190 4 месяца назад

    If a girl yells at me. She is booted instantly. Any sign of disrespect they are gone. Men if a girl yells at you. give her a warning. She does it again. Leave her.

  • @rlwings
    @rlwings 4 месяца назад +2

    She recaps: "Take a shower and have a rice meal." Lol, priorities! :)

  • @oroville12345
    @oroville12345 3 месяца назад

    1. Dont ask for money.

  • @mixnmichael1
    @mixnmichael1 4 месяца назад +6

    I walk to the mall and need another shower. I only have shorts. Its too hot for long pants.

    • @vgshwk
      @vgshwk 4 месяца назад +4

      Also long pants take up more room in the suitcase.

    • @mixnmichael1
      @mixnmichael1 4 месяца назад +2

      @@vgshwk for sure. I'm traveling lite. Only 2 carry ons.

    • @vgshwk
      @vgshwk 4 месяца назад +1

      @@mixnmichael1 I do one carryon and one computer bag.

  • @trailguy
    @trailguy 4 месяца назад

    It’s a Catholic , conservative country and traditional culture. Be at least half as sweet as she is to you. Treat her like god is watching.

  • @FrickinCCDeVileV
    @FrickinCCDeVileV 16 дней назад

    Common sense 👍

  • @elkinjohn
    @elkinjohn 4 месяца назад +3

    Maybe I should take a cold shower... I would take a hot shower and be all clean... then as soon as I got dressed I would start sweating again...
    I know you are trying... i got so mad... I was chatting a girl... my buddy found out about her and asked for nudes... she sent them to him!! I felt like a fool.... and so jealous.
    Please explain what you mean... give examples... you know what your mean when you say... "weird" "korney" Creapie" etc... but without examples I don't know what you mean... like disrespect... and criticism... they many differ in regards to gender and culture....

  • @thebigmann81
    @thebigmann81 4 месяца назад +1

    We foreigners not all use to the heat we wear the shorts and tank top or muscle shirts because it is hot and we want to be comfortable. In the states we may dress differently

  • @vgshwk
    @vgshwk 4 месяца назад +2

    Rice with pizza or burgers no thanks.

  • @nikumimito3164
    @nikumimito3164 4 месяца назад +5

    I want the 8 minutes I spent on this video back

  • @douglasbriel6103
    @douglasbriel6103 4 месяца назад

    The dressing is they think it's like Hawaii.😂

  • @frommyyard
    @frommyyard 3 месяца назад

    What makes it ok for a philipines gf to yell at her bf but, he cannot yell at her :) . That will not work very ling . Neither bf and gf should never be yelling

  • @rogerparker9364
    @rogerparker9364 Месяц назад

    I really like shorts and sleeveless shirts when its hot and i don't like rice maybe Philippines is not the right place

  • @haikuny
    @haikuny 4 месяца назад +7

    All she is really doing is insulting foreigners....come on

  • @coreyg6660
    @coreyg6660 4 месяца назад +2

    Number 4
    What if I am naturally weird? 😵
    😄😄😄😄

    • @ItsOk-mq9ex
      @ItsOk-mq9ex 4 месяца назад +3

      Just ask yourself what would Joe Biden do, Then do the opposite.

  • @MichaelPeters-s7u
    @MichaelPeters-s7u 4 месяца назад +1

    Isn't telling us foreigners to dress nicely putting down how we dress?

  • @Hicks-g1m
    @Hicks-g1m 3 месяца назад

    I wear shorts to the mall it's casual I could care less what others think it's really hot here anyway

  • @davidhowe6603
    @davidhowe6603 4 месяца назад +2

    Don't dress too nice you will get gold digger attention

  • @JpPlemmons
    @JpPlemmons 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Kadaitchi
    @Kadaitchi 4 месяца назад

    8:10 I think the word is "Tarnish" but I get what you mean 😊

  • @chrisparker881
    @chrisparker881 3 месяца назад

    Ok I'll keep rice 🍚 😂,😭🥰

  • @cpt.ahab_it7044
    @cpt.ahab_it7044 4 месяца назад

    I love your videos.

  • @johnlacey3857
    @johnlacey3857 4 месяца назад

    8:06 You’re a leader? Please explain...

  • @Rusty-Brown_
    @Rusty-Brown_ 4 месяца назад

    ******* SO IN SHORT DONT BE YOUR SELF !!! ****

    • @KennyOrange-dzepp
      @KennyOrange-dzepp 4 месяца назад

      if yourself is bad smelling, bad clothing, bad talking, yeah, don't be yourself.
      you should be the first to tell yourself that.

  • @Gary-l9h
    @Gary-l9h 4 месяца назад

    Your vids are informative and always put a smile on my face, your smile is infectious. When I make positive comments about you Reine, I get slammed in comments, Im a big boy I can handle that, I dont like when peeps disparage you, the Philippines, Filipinas and what you do. Please keep up with the vids...Bring on the bitching boys

  • @dave-d-grunt
    @dave-d-grunt 4 месяца назад +1

    You forgot not to not wear tsinilas

  • @gregyoung9687
    @gregyoung9687 4 месяца назад

    Things Filipina's WON'T tell you??? Do you know the definition of "DON'T"? Here's a clue - every Filipina will tell you all of these things. It's called "nagging".

  • @mohammedazeez2333
    @mohammedazeez2333 3 месяца назад

    Why is that 99% of phillipino girls all want support on all dating app I been . Chatting . Even before getting to know them. They ask for money . But I have got scammed by helping them

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 4 месяца назад

  • @JeffreyJones-zr8yx
    @JeffreyJones-zr8yx 3 месяца назад

    Maybe you should tell ACE or ABC not to wear those sleeveless shirts that Pinays dont like. I hate them and would never wear one.

  • @mamagne800
    @mamagne800 3 месяца назад

    If you are expecting everything on that list good luck finding a foreigner unless he's a desperate 70 years old not in shape with a big belly.

  • @vidong1704
    @vidong1704 3 месяца назад

    It's not OK to criticize the whole country of the PH . But if you want to vent, you can criticize a restaurant, a phone company etc. That's OK.
    Don't yell at a Filipino, but instead, start playing victim. Oh, poor me, I did not get the change. Why you treating me like that? With a whining tone. Weep, don't yell.

  • @wld-ph
    @wld-ph 4 месяца назад

    Reyne is best thing in AC

  • @lorinkundert
    @lorinkundert Месяц назад

    Define weird

  • @Brummie666
    @Brummie666 4 месяца назад

    Dress nice? So no sandals with socks on? 😅

  • @RogerPatawarren
    @RogerPatawarren 4 месяца назад

    And in what circumstances will the filipina adjust to the lifestyle of the foreigner. The other problem here is that this video assumes everyone is looking for a traditional relationship, much better stay single and avoid all these "requirements".

  • @thebigmann81
    @thebigmann81 4 месяца назад +1

    At least 2 showers a day in Philippines it is hot you going to smell bad if you don't.

  • @acw2237
    @acw2237 4 месяца назад

    You are judging

  • @bouchecaldwell330
    @bouchecaldwell330 Месяц назад

    Corny and cringy is all a few can muster. Sad to say but it's true.

  • @hollownation
    @hollownation 4 месяца назад

    Define weird 😂

  • @schrodingerscat3912
    @schrodingerscat3912 4 месяца назад +1

    guys keep your corny pickup lines in the US where it belongs

  • @jjkomer125
    @jjkomer125 4 месяца назад

    Rein (Rain),
    With all due respect, could all of the Filipinas that make vids, come up with words other than "GUYS!"...? What about,, Gents,? Ladies, and Gentlemen,? etc... Most times you don't have to direct your topics, they are pretty much understood... Seems like a filler word... I'm just trying to be positive, constructive, and cheerful... Best of Luck and keep up the great work Ladies. (AND ABC too!) "GUYS" seems to be getting tired. Just sharing positively and want to keep the content going. Thank you for understanding...

  • @RogerPatawarren
    @RogerPatawarren 4 месяца назад +21

    But upsetting your girlfriend in the Philippines is not a problem , just get another one. There is always another ready to move in. Maybe if philippinos could accept some constructive criticism, things might improve for the average person

    • @douglasbriel6103
      @douglasbriel6103 4 месяца назад +4

      Dude, that's just women period, not filipinas.

    • @petertraveller6421
      @petertraveller6421 4 месяца назад +4

      Just find a new one, go different island, millions of single girls there.

  • @johnlacey3857
    @johnlacey3857 4 месяца назад +5

    8:48 Dont criticize the Philippines? You do realize this is a free world, right? Most westerners will also criticize their own country, and anything else they feel has some issues that could be improved. It’s not an insult, it’s a statement of opinion. Often it’s constructive criticism.

    • @portlandGTR
      @portlandGTR Месяц назад

      Not everywhere is the USA man, people get put in prison for calling others out in Thailand, defamation is a real thing and a serious offense in a lot of south east Asia. Stay frosty my friend. It’s most definitely NOT a free world