I saw this on insta: when you miss a bus you don’t chase after it...you wait for the next. So stop chasing after someone and wait for the right person to come. Best advice I’ve ever heard.
Idk dating ppl around the ages of 23-28 is tricky because most of the Times ppl of these ages are figuring life out and busy with work so most of the Times hookups are involved because no one has time for a relationship and yet ppl don’t wanna be alone. It is crucial when you go for the girl you like.
Fredy Mendez when they say wait for the right time, it’s kinda hard to do that, especially when women don’t approach first, don’t get me wrong if your the 6ft tall tatted and have that 8 inch dick and make 6 figures without a doubt women are all over you but when your just a normal 5’8 guy no tattoos, drives a old car, works a liquor store and a bit below average looking it’s hard to be approached my last break up was two years ago and my standards aren’t high at all so I’ll start a conversation with a normal how’s your day been etc and I’m ignored all the time, I already got enough on my plate and I’m not gonna try to think of a fun essay to send a girl especially when I don’t know what her thoughts are and how she’s gonna respond to that essay life’s tough as it already is and girls playing hard to get makes it tougher.
I agree with you guys cause men patience will run out. The guy will go to another chick or if a another chick notice this stuff. The other chick will steal the guy. My statement and you guys statements are true because we all seen and read it.
Ladies, are you seeing all the comments down below? The consensus has been made. *Real Men* don't waste time with 'hard to get'. If you want a man, knock it off.
Bro women don't do this. If a girl is doing these things to you its because she doesn't like you and doesn't want to spend time with you. Nothing more.
@@radiatorbacon5239 Wait when she hits 30 and things start sagging and she ain't got those girly curves...I am a 47 year old independent single man . I noticed why women have a friend zone. If you ever showed interest in her, she will find you, even when you are married. Trust me! If you are stupid enough she will steal you from your loyal loving wife
@@radiatorbacon5239 Man mature gracefully....Not the same for women. You hear George Clooney, Sean Connery and most many that take care of themselves as they get older ,become more attractive to all types of women. Just concentrate on yourself and don't chase them around. Get your money, work out always and just be healthy. I have had times i had sex with 4 different women in 24 hour period...That was my personal best record! Hahahaha
As a woman, speak for yourself. When I was single, I didn’t play those immature behavioral games when I was single and I’m glad I found and earned a man’s interest the old fashioned way with being genuine and honest and not playing behavioral games.
You're rare Miss most of the girls now plays those silly games and it's always the friendzoned guy and I'm one of them 😩you're lucky to find a man the old fashioned way there are a lot of players on this word take care of yourselves and all the best in your life ❤️
Tender Agression I’m hooking up with this girl 5,000 miles away. I was not desperate, but you have to be heartfelt. I am not playing for sexual motives. Nothing Desperate in that.
"We do this to test your patience." I'm not applying for a scholarship. I've got my own life and I'm not submitting to whatever test you've contrived. Have fun with the next clown who will, and then come back in 10 years wondering why your relationship isn't interesting.
Some women play hard to get with a guy even when she doesn't find him attractive nor has any romantic interest in him. She just likes to be chased and passionately desired because it's like a power trip for her. Then, when she gets bored she just cuts him off, especially if she's an extremely attractive women who's aware of her own extreme attractiveness. Women like that have lots of options and usually get what they want, and it seems no matter how much you protest, no matter how cruel her actions are, she doesn't feel one ounce of sympathy because she has a legion of other guys that will drool over her and do her bidding. That's why it's so important not to immediately fall for women like that. I know it's difficult to resist a beautiful woman - very difficult, but you just have to precondition yourself to do it. Admire her beauty for a while, but if you sense that she's...that kind of girl, just move on. Don't be anybody's fool, that's what I say. So, the whole playing hard to get thing is often not cute. For guys looking for something serious, it's potentially a waste of time.
+Levar Mitchell Funny thing is that if you play that we are so hot that we aren't interested in her then she starts to flirt...then you tell her you were just playing around and that you really like her and she likes you even more...all this playing remembers me of playing in the sandbox and girls stepping on my sand castle to JUST say hi.
Those women are usually not happy, they feel empty. And it makes sense. Just think about how boring it must be to be able to have whatever you want whenever you want it.
Well said sir. But the fault is also of us, men. We are dumb af. Of course girls dont do shit, at least the hot ones, in general...bcz they know they have a lot of options, we are like dogs that are making a line in order to be granted with the lucky ticket of being able to copulate with them. BUT, if we start don't go after them, they will be pissed off and the only way they can have a man is getting more initiative! Equal rights, rigth? Don't let women take only the good things of equal rigths.
girls if you really like a guy don't do this to him, if has respect for himself he will walk away. put yourself in his shoes. would you put up with this if he did it to you? be honest with him don't play games.
xSilver9500x to be real if a girl really likes you will know. if you make a move she will respond. if a girl plays hard to get that just means she likes to be chased but she really doesn't like you. and it's time to move on.
@ chrisvill54 you're wasting your breath, man. they won't listen, they never do. for some inexplicable reason, they believe that playing hard to get is gonna make us more interested in them, while in reality it only drives us away. it's probably the biggest female misconception about us, guys.
Yeah dam right well said friend, girls are easier to find someone to be with them than men are to find someone to be with them, it's common fact, hang in there friend
these women who play bullshit games will end up lonely old ladies with full of regrets when they look back in life and think i had a great guy but i played this bullshit game and he walked away.
The biggest flaw in this approach is that at some point the girl will be found out. You can only play games so far before a guy will stop chasing and just kick back. This is the point where the power shifts and the girl ends up being treated like a dog. And she complains that her bf doesnt treat her right. But she was the one who created the very culture that is now crapping on her. You live by the sword you die by the sword. You play games, you will then yourself be played. Honesty and being straight up is the only way.
Spoiler: 90% of the time she isn’t playing hard to get she just isn’t in to you. And I say this as someone who lost a lot of weight and got significantly more attractive than how I was. When I got better looking, women were incredibly upfront, far more than I ever thought they’d be.
Girls that play these games are immature IMO and not worth the time. Find an adult who is confident enough to be straight up and mature if you want something long term.
Women place themselves too high on a False pedestal. .Like which focused and motivated Man has time chasing women, when Money pays the bills..? Like seriously who does..?
Alex my crush Said no but wanted to be friends but she always stares at me in class and I sad well everything comes on it’s time she sendes yes with this emoji 😉
or just the attention and power to reject you. they want alot of guys to chase and pick from, an ego boost. girls chase me or I'm out. (thats why you are single then) yes and no. I've been chased quite alot now and then, but I don't play hard to get. I just say I'm not interested, or I hook up and then they start playing games and I'm out
I almost lost the girl of my dreams, my future wife, the one,.. all because she was playing hard to get and my insecurities had me fooled. Thank you for your words, they’ve opened my eyes. I dropped the act, started acting like myself and boom. The rest is history now 🙂
Her explanation of playing hard to get is actually a total display of being intellectually dishonest. As a man I feel that my time is just as important as some silly woman playing games.
Been there twice. And they always ended up playing victim and blocked me the second i pulled away and realized my worth. If they play hard to get it means they don't respect you but enjoy the attention you give them. Save that attention to someone who's worth it
This video should have been ONE sentence long. Go up to a girl and tell her you like her! MEN, BOYS: *STOP WORSHIPPING WOMEN, THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT*. Just tell them how you feel and if they reject you *THERE ARE 3.5BILLION MORE OF THEM* on the planet earth to choose from minus the children and old women. All you need is *ONE* so don't let them intimidate you and don't put them on a pedestal. *YOU ARE VALUABLE AS WELL!*
i get it when girls play hard to get... but flirting with other guys to make you jealous?? ... How immature... when that happens... I will be GHOSTING mode....
Literally I have experienced this in the past for a long time now, she will notice in the future how much of a dick she was and regretting the stupid decisions she made. That’s what has always happened to me though, when she gets bored of the other guy, she realizes the mistakes of not taking a chance with me and now those girls have seen me with other girls and have noticed how she did the same thing to me. Payback’s a biotch! U only have one chance in life, if you don’t take the opportunity, it’s most likely you have lost it forever
her: we play hard to get for test your patience so don't take it personally me: we go meet escort because we don't have time for chase after women like you so don't take it personally
and then bitches realize they hit the wall and they're 38 and single and literally throw themselves to every man they can, even betas. Problem is only a pathetic beta wants to settle down with a 38+ year old. Ladies we don't want your old asses with massive baggage. If she can't give you her best years, she doesn't deserve you in her later years. stop bailing these women out. Rent hookers, seriously.
In my eyes, Playing hard to get = Not interested! why would I waste my time on someone who takes 3 days to reply to my text messages, then cancels a date when I'm on my way..... Next!...
johnDomain what I did was I gave mixed signals so she was still interested in me and finally one day I asked her out and she said yes so u have to show interest but at the same time play it cool like u know what your doing with confidence!!!
People who play games always assume that they will be the winner! I sort of naive assertion based on a fake confidence. Because a confident person wouldn't play games to begin with.
All these immature childish games will get you nowhere in life and in relationships. In fact it will ruin everything. When you’ll get to your 40s you’ll understand it better.
If a woman plays games to make the man chase, he has the right to "hit it and quit it." Some of you females may think you're slick but it will come back to you. Eventually you will learn that love is more important than seduction.
He doesn’t have the right to “hit it and quit it” he has the obligation to “hit it and quit it” anything else would be a stupid idea. What is he supposed to do start a long term relationship of playing hard to get?
When a women has a full schedule she will also try to tell you that she has "a social life" when she says she's busy. This happens because like you said she's testing your patience and wants you to know she has other people and is not alone so if you break up with her she will make sure you already knew she has friends and family there for her and that will make him feel too available and make him feel like he's alone and has nothing better to do then text someone to go on a date. Also she will put you in the friend zone until you start showing her you're desperate or until she starts to show more feelings for you. (just a little more info to help boys)
Hey fellas married guy here: this crap does not work for one simple reason:time, yes time, serious people dont have the time for this nonsense, a quality relationship starts with trust not stupid games....my $0.02
Alabaster same here. I’m married and when I met got into contact with my wife, she wasted no time in meeting up and pushing things forward. We got what we wanted from each other and that’s that. We been married 6 years now
I encountered a girl played hard to get not too long ago. She did pretty much everything mentioned above. I moved on for good. Absolutely no regrets left. I am just still annoyed that I didn't get enough respect that I deserved when she flaked and made me jealous. Ignore those kindda girls. If you let her jerk around and agree to become a doormat, you wont get any respect. If she doesn't respect you, she will dump you and move on to a guy who jerk her around. That's women.
Guys I was really unsure about this girl I met, I would spend my hard earned money to buy her drinks and stuff but whenever I told her about my feelings she would change the subject or tell me that she’s not looking for a person atm and still has feelings for some other guy. Although her answer was never no. But after reading all the comments in this video I’ve come to realise I was wasting my precious time and money on someone who doesn’t even value me , so I wanna say thanks a lot guys for opening my eyes now the only hard part is how do I forget about her?
you will over time, friend. Trust me. Give it time and she will be a distant memory you remember occasionally. It may take some months. The sooner you get over it the better but there's no real way to force it. The best way honestly is to find a new girl you like a lot and one that hopefully likes you. The previous girl will be forgotten real quick! Hopefully it doesn't happen to you like it did to me where I found a girl I liked and forgot about the last one only to have the new one pull the same shit. That hurt too, lol.
Like ppl said. Out of sight out of mind. And it ll b over soon. Get a bit angry. Not too, much just enough to fuel your upright backbone, selfrighteousness and selfworth. So when u do see her ur polite n friendly, but cold n dont do anything for her.
I had the one I probably would have married do this until I just said, "Fuck it" and walked away for good. Three months of guessing games and mixed signals and endless courtship that never led anywhere exhausted my patience. For the next 2.5 years I ran into her about 5 times by chance. She'd give me sad faces and try to talk to me but I wanted nothing to do with her. I moved out of state without bothering to say goodbye and she and her family moved to another state a year or two later. As she started nearing 40 she somehow found someone to father a child. I don't know if she dated the guy or he was some anonymous sperm donor. Whatever the case, she's now an over the hill cock tease and a single mom who's 4 months shy of 50 and she's probably going to spend the rest of her life alone. She was the love of my life and I know the feeling was mutual but she overplayed her hand and threw away her only chance with the guy she should have married. 5 or 6 years in the feminist utopia of Iowa City, Iowa turned her into a screwed up piece of shit who couldn't make a relationship work if her life depended on it. Now she's liberated and free to spend the rest of her life alone.
@@meatwad1 Thank you for sharing that! I had a similar experience. I'm actually an immigrant in the US; local women refused to go out with me. I just got a wife from my home country - we've been together since 2012.
My advice to girls and guys is don’t play hard to get . Maybe 1 or twice that’s max! Because most of the time a guy is gonna look at you and think that your superficial and you don’t really care and that’s understandable and a valid point. You may want to test him but stay in a line or else that guy will for sure leave . And same thing go’s for the guy. I think sometimes it’s an emotional issue about playing hard to get. An example might be that the guy/girl has been through a rough breakup or has simply met people who are foolish. Its trust issues . I think that . Give me your feedback guys
its trust issues,and its also paranoia that they think you are in it for a hit it and quit it, some girls have never experienced a good dude, so when one comes a long they keep their walls up because they never been treated with respect before and it feels very unknown to them. which is why some of them take a long time to warm too. i feel like some girls do like an ego boost tho and love the chase and someone to talk to even if they dont like you.
If a chick is playing hard to get and won't even go out on a first date with you, she's massively wasting your time. Move on. A date is a date, not a vetting process for marriage. Any chick that won't accept a simple coffee date, you'll never get anywhere with her. She's wasting precious seconds of your life.
All I can say is, that you're speaking big faxx bro. I experienced this and everytime I set up a date with the girl, she brought excuses or ignored it. So I ghosted her and she started chasing me. But I blocked her, because I have my self respect and I'm not a simp tho.
@@alirezamodares5797 good job bro👍🏼 that kind of girls don’t deserve it. I do the same after couple of days or maximum a week. She get the chance, if she doesn't take it then bye bye with her 👋🏼
women dont do the jealousy thing.because most guys might/will start talking to other women or just look elsewhere...trust me on that one..we dont wanna get hurt either..also shows us that we mean nothing if u start talking to other guys or even hear that you are..turn the tables, would you like it if a guy u liked or persued started talking about other women,?u would automatically think player or not interested.remember it goes both ways.love yall
you ladies when you play hard to get we as men can't read your mind so we can't for sure know that your playing hard to get or just not interested. This is how the problem of Street harassment starts because in that situation the guy is convinced your just playing hard to get and is not taking no for an answer because guys know that you women like to play hard to get so in many cases Street harassment is women's own creation.
Citizen of Kekistan Plus your level of interest in her indicates to her how much she needs to keep you away. She is not testing whether you find her special, she is testing how many other women you can pull and if you are all over her that makes her certain that you can't pull other women, so she'll blow your off. Soon as you find another woman they sense it through their weird senses and try to get in contact with you again.
That was a really really stupid clame Citizen of Kekistan... Which intelligent man would approrach a woman they "like/care about" by harassing her on the street? Are you seriously a cave man or what? Why some women play hard to get is because they don't want be persieved as needy if they like you, because that would kill all the attraction from both sides, or and it is to know how much interest you have for them or if you really just want to get in bed, nothing wrong with that but most a lot of women need time, and besides, the "game" is actually fun if you're know how to participate and do it right :)
Elin Wickberg Elin Wickberg Elin Wickberg Hahaha are you stupid or was it just not your day? I mean I see you edited your comment but apparently you didn’t edit the part where you deliberately showed that you didn’t understand what he said hahah. All jokes aside, he is saying that being persistent (which is what women claim to want from us when they play hard to get) can be interpreted as harassment when the guys do not understand the signs. If I see a girl on the street who might seem interesting, I will talk to her and she might play hard to get. In this case, if I suspect she is playing hard to get I can either keep on going just to prove her that I am worth it, or stop talking to her out of fear that she might think it’s harassment. “Learn how to recognize the signs” you might say but even girls fail to recognize signs from other girls. In this video for instance, she claims if the girl turns you down pretending to have a loaded schedule but never clearly says “no”, or if she ignores you on social media it is a sign that she is playing hard to get and therefore, interested. Don’t you think a girl who keeps turning a guy down and totally ignoring him on social media could also mean she really isn’t interested but doesn’t want to be rude or hurt your feelings by just being direct? Then in this case insisting would be harassment. I’m the type of guys that just don’t play games like that, but I know of tons of guys who talk yo several girls, get the same exact signs from all of them, insist and get 2 different reactions: either they like them and end up dating or whatever, or they just think these guys are creeps, block them on social media and threaten to call the cops on them. So no it was not a stupid claim (which by the way you had the balls to misspell right after labeling something as “stupid”), intelligent man do approach women on the street, at malls, parks, everywhere. Are you telling me you would only consider it acceptable to be approached in bars, clubs, school/work and social media? Because if you are, that would explain a lot about you. Have a blessed day !
I don't know about you, guys, but a I've never a met a girl that played hard to get, she was simply not interested in me. But if a girl was interested in me, I didn't need to read on any sign...
Playing hard to get is so infantile and childish. If you like him then get to know him, you don't have to sleep with him or kiss him. Playing all these games or this vetting process is likely to drive the guy away. After all what that famous express there are plenty of fish in the sea.
The reason why people play hard to get is to test people about how much respect the other person's demands. When you set clear standards, people will stop playing hard to get really fast.
I choose not to play their game. If we're going to play games, she's going to play mine..... Best advice I ever got about women, especially pretty women is ignore them. I've not saying pretend like they aren't there, just don't allow them to think they are your total focus or the center of your universe in a social situation. Be confident, be self-possessed. Don't be afraid to excuse yourself to talk to one of your guy friends if you and her are in a group together. She will have to up her actions/interest in you to gain more of your attention. Let her know (don't say it) you are a high quality person, and while you might feel lucky (inside) to be out with her, she must realize she should feel equally lucky to be out with you. Later you can tell her she's beautiful, or that you feel lucky, but don't tip your hand right away, because she will feel like she has ALL the power in the relationship and can control you. Let her know by your actions that she can't. Women don't like A-holes, but they dislike wimpy doormat guys even more.
very very good, tidefan yankee. they would dte assholes 10/10 over a beta cuck. treat them like 5's. average girls. reach out, if she's playing hsrd to get, get on with your business elsewhere like you couldnt care less. ignore her, make them chase you and step up, your purpose is to improve yourself and gain confidence. be nice but cocky and don't take crap.
Gentlemen, listen up. Women behave this way because MEN ALLOW THEM TO! We allow it by showering them with attention and adoration that the vast majority of them have done NOTHING to earn or deserve. In the words of Dr. Phil, “you don’t reward bad behavior”. What happens when you don’t discipline your child? You end up with a spoiled, entitled brat. And yes Gabriella. I AM comparing you to a child. Because this is CHILDISH behavior you are describing.
My dog chases cars, and I can honestly say she’s a lot deeper than Gabriella. But my dog chases cars for the thrill of it :) Generally we should make them stop these behaviors by ignoring them and moving on when we see them.
she will do this because she wants to dominate him in the relationship, however it is possible for a man to play into the game, make her fall in love with him and then turn the game around, but it takes some time
There was a guy I really liked and he messaged me asking me out but I was working 2 jobs and my schedule was full until next week. So I said later and then he asked me again 2 days later and I said that I'm busy and I will let him know once I'm free but the next week he was a mountain of ice. He showed zero interest and didn't talk to me. guys not everyone play a game. Be patient. Sometimes people are real but they are really busy!!!
OMG!! I am a girl and I just had to bust out laughing thinking WOW I am glad I am not a guy!! first of all I have NEVER done any of these, If I like you you will know and if I dont I will tell you. I dont think I have known any girls who do this? Like is she SERIOUS??? who does she think she is and if you blow a guy off and he keeps coming that sounds like a stalker to me! I dont think intellegent handsome man will play this game maybe guys with low self esteem and girls who like to play with them.
"She will bring up guys who may not even exist." Check please...I'm out. That's legit crazy. You are literally talking about someone trying to manipulate your emotions by lying.
perhaps spotting these games is how men also spot a ' JOKER ' .......certainly not a way to try and get to.know someone serious ....leave this in the nursery playground
Playing hard to get actually sends him mixed messages. You say no, but mean yes, and if he respects your no, you sulk. It's not fair and never has been. Maybe men have a lot to learn but so do women...
You say a woman plays hard to get in order to "vet" the man's interest level. So, the man does the same thing and neither side ever comes together. Apparently, you're saying only the woman is allowed to play "hard to get" and men just have to put up with it and not apply the same test. Gauging the other side's interest should work both ways fairly unless you watch this video advise that the female will test and the male should be strung along mindlessly.
Thats how they want you to think. They want you to be like the scarecrow in “ the wiz “ brainless n just aimlessly following some random chick down the yellow brick railroad
Don't care for games or tests. If a woman wants an adrenaline rush from the chase, it is likely she will not stick around in the long run. I use the 3 strikes rule. I'll ask her out up to 3 times over time. If she is playing a game and says no 3 times, game over, I move on. If a woman is interested there are many ways to show it. Be funny, entertaining, charming, confident. How about having a conversation to see if we have some common ground to learn more about each other and spend some fun time together.
As this girl was talking I was just remembering in my head that I have fucked up not only with 1 or 2 or 3 but 4 girls, man I’m an idiot . I just thought she wasn’t interested so I just moved on I live in the US so I guess that’s how is here but in Brazil if a girl likes you she shows you right away
This video is four years old, all the same, women don't seem to want to individually or collectively admit that the paradigm has shifted in the last ten years, and men are on to them. Most men aren't interested in playing games- they're going to ask you out once and if they get any answer other than yes they're going to move on, and you're going to inch that much closer to a life with cats.
I got better advice: Don’t waste time with women that play games. Who the heck do they think they are that they feel the need to test you unnecessarily?
Do girls think that guys have no life and we just have to chase them all the time? And when guys start playing hard to get they are labeled as assholes, arrogant or a player
Tbh I wouldn’t bother it’s bs and I don’t have time for it negatives lead up to more negatives. Basically getting in a relationship with this type of women, whatever you do for her will never be good enough....
The most childish, & immature thing a girl can do to a guy that's interested in her. Only delusional, & desperate men will continue to pursue women who behave this way at first impression.
here is my advice to all women: if you are really interested in the guy, but you are playing hard to get, the risc is also very high that he looses interest in you (because of frustration). if you want to avoid that, you should make sure to not fool around.
Uli Peterson No, we play hard to get because otherwise, the guy won't come up to us and initiate and chase us. And if we chase him, suddenly we scare him away because we appear desperate.
Girls who play games. End up with dudes who play games.. Have fun
A Martez Haha couldn't get it more right
A Martez SAVAAGEGEEE!!! 😂😂😂
No doubt
A Martez facts this shit is stupid
A Martez HEK YEAH GTA 5 BABY
Treat me like a king, I'll treat you like a queen. Treat me like a game, I'll show you how it's played.
Yoooooooo *fam* OWNED IT
M8 if it’s ok with you I’m copying this .. this was the best comment in here
Lol😂👌🏽
Don't play hard to get when you're already hard to want
carlos vasquez Oh shit my boy
Roasting session has started😂😂
LOL
Truth bro truth . So many honest men following this chanel
Ouch..thats gotta burn🔥
I saw this on insta: when you miss a bus you don’t chase after it...you wait for the next. So stop chasing after someone and wait for the right person to come.
Best advice I’ve ever heard.
Jasmine T yeah fuck this video
Or wait for the right time
Idk dating ppl around the ages of 23-28 is tricky because most of the Times ppl of these ages are figuring life out and busy with work so most of the Times hookups are involved because no one has time for a relationship and yet ppl don’t wanna be alone. It is crucial when you go for the girl you like.
@@fredymendez3864 right on point
Fredy Mendez when they say wait for the right time, it’s kinda hard to do that, especially when women don’t approach first, don’t get me wrong if your the 6ft tall tatted and have that 8 inch dick and make 6 figures without a doubt women are all over you but when your just a normal 5’8 guy no tattoos, drives a old car, works a liquor store and a bit below average looking it’s hard to be approached my last break up was two years ago and my standards aren’t high at all so I’ll start a conversation with a normal how’s your day been etc and I’m ignored all the time, I already got enough on my plate and I’m not gonna try to think of a fun essay to send a girl especially when I don’t know what her thoughts are and how she’s gonna respond to that essay life’s tough as it already is and girls playing hard to get makes it tougher.
Playing hard to get doesn't work with me, or other decent men. I just move on...
Me too brother. If they try and pull this daft shit with me, I walk.
Uncle Jane same here. I'm just so over that shit. It's just flat out boring...
I agree with you guys cause men patience will run out. The guy will go to another chick or if a another chick notice this stuff. The other chick will steal the guy. My statement and you guys statements are true because we all seen and read it.
gwd109 FR, man we don't got time for that it's either you feel the same and we do this now or never
gwd109 amen man gets annoying after some time
Ladies, are you seeing all the comments down below?
The consensus has been made. *Real Men* don't waste time with 'hard to get'.
If you want a man, knock it off.
Bro women don't do this. If a girl is doing these things to you its because she doesn't like you and doesn't want to spend time with you. Nothing more.
@@radiatorbacon5239 exactly
@@radiatorbacon5239 Wait when she hits 30 and things start sagging and she ain't got those girly curves...I am a 47 year old independent single man . I noticed why women have a friend zone. If you ever showed interest in her, she will find you, even when you are married. Trust me! If you are stupid enough she will steal you from your loyal loving wife
@@radiatorbacon5239 Man mature gracefully....Not the same for women. You hear George Clooney, Sean Connery and most many that take care of themselves as they get older ,become more attractive to all types of women. Just concentrate on yourself and don't chase them around. Get your money, work out always and just be healthy. I have had times i had sex with 4 different women in 24 hour period...That was my personal best record! Hahahaha
Message to women.. if you play these games to get a guy don't be surprised when the guy ends up being a total A-hole or psycho...
true no time for this shit either get on board or go home
very Good
If I enjoyed Jumping through Hoops so much i would have got a Job with a Circus.
Miss me with this bullshit way to old to be playing games with insecure women
+brobicho Lol, classic!
As a woman, speak for yourself. When I was single, I didn’t play those immature behavioral games when I was single and I’m glad I found and earned a man’s interest the old fashioned way with being genuine and honest and not playing behavioral games.
You're rare Miss most of the girls now plays those silly games and it's always the friendzoned guy and I'm one of them 😩you're lucky to find a man the old fashioned way there are a lot of players on this word take care of yourselves and all the best in your life ❤️
Playing hard to get just loses people's attention and makes them move on
Man exactly!
now i say gudbye to her
How do you lose attention? If you know she’s the one, you’ll keep persisting until the inevitable occurs.
@@TheNuclearBolton this ain't a fairytale shit
Tender Agression I’m hooking up with this girl 5,000 miles away. I was not desperate, but you have to be heartfelt. I am not playing for sexual motives. Nothing Desperate in that.
"We do this to test your patience." I'm not applying for a scholarship. I've got my own life and I'm not submitting to whatever test you've contrived. Have fun with the next clown who will, and then come back in 10 years wondering why your relationship isn't interesting.
Some women play hard to get with a guy even when she doesn't find him attractive nor has any romantic interest in him. She just likes to be chased and passionately desired because it's like a power trip for her. Then, when she gets bored she just cuts him off, especially if she's an extremely attractive women who's aware of her own extreme attractiveness. Women like that have lots of options and usually get what they want, and it seems no matter how much you protest, no matter how cruel her actions are, she doesn't feel one ounce of sympathy because she has a legion of other guys that will drool over her and do her bidding. That's why it's so important not to immediately fall for women like that. I know it's difficult to resist a beautiful woman - very difficult, but you just have to precondition yourself to do it. Admire her beauty for a while, but if you sense that she's...that kind of girl, just move on. Don't be anybody's fool, that's what I say. So, the whole playing hard to get thing is often not cute. For guys looking for something serious, it's potentially a waste of time.
Levar Mitchell Preach
Levar Mitchell agreed and well said 👏👏
+Levar Mitchell Funny thing is that if you play that we are so hot that we aren't interested in her then she starts to flirt...then you tell her you were just playing around and that you really like her and she likes you even more...all this playing remembers me of playing in the sandbox and girls stepping on my sand castle to JUST say hi.
Those women are usually not happy, they feel empty. And it makes sense. Just think about how boring it must be to be able to have whatever you want whenever you want it.
Well said sir. But the fault is also of us, men. We are dumb af. Of course girls dont do shit, at least the hot ones, in general...bcz they know they have a lot of options, we are like dogs that are making a line in order to be granted with the lucky ticket of being able to copulate with them. BUT, if we start don't go after them, they will be pissed off and the only way they can have a man is getting more initiative! Equal rights, rigth? Don't let women take only the good things of equal rigths.
girls if you really like a guy don't do this to him, if has respect for himself he will walk away. put yourself in his shoes. would you put up with this if he did it to you? be honest with him don't play games.
Honestly! Like WTF, just be straight forward with us!
xSilver9500x to be real if a girl really likes you will know. if you make a move she will respond. if a girl plays hard to get that just means she likes to be chased but she really doesn't like you. and it's time to move on.
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chrisvill54
you're wasting your breath, man. they won't listen, they never do. for some inexplicable reason, they believe that playing hard to get is gonna make us more interested in them, while in reality it only drives us away. it's probably the biggest female misconception about us, guys.
Yeah dam right well said friend, girls are easier to find someone to be with them than men are to find someone to be with them, it's common fact, hang in there friend
Especially in their 30s. That's too old to be playing games.
STOP PLAYING GAMES AND BE REAL.
Jacob Smith 💯
Exactly
Too many guys being fake for women to be real
Jacob Smith ikr
Jacob Smith i don't think females can ever be 100% real bruh. That's why they're called what they're called
Don’t care anymore . Find a real loving person
these women who play bullshit games will end up lonely old ladies with full of regrets when they look back in life and think i had a great guy but i played this bullshit game and he walked away.
Exactly.
The biggest flaw in this approach is that at some point the girl will be found out. You can only play games so far before a guy will stop chasing and just kick back. This is the point where the power shifts and the girl ends up being treated like a dog. And she complains that her bf doesnt treat her right. But she was the one who created the very culture that is now crapping on her. You live by the sword you die by the sword. You play games, you will then yourself be played. Honesty and being straight up is the only way.
Yes
But if a man plays hard to get, he is labeled a f boy.
Kevin Euston and when a girl plays hard to get I'll label her as a superficial girl. And nobody cares what people have to say about other people
Marco, In a perfect world you would be correct, but it's far from perfect. Many people do in fact care, tell yourself what you like,
Tru
bearded dragon 🤣🤣🤣🤣smh
bearded dragon where she from tho?
Spoiler: 90% of the time she isn’t playing hard to get she just isn’t in to you.
And I say this as someone who lost a lot of weight and got significantly more attractive than how I was. When I got better looking, women were incredibly upfront, far more than I ever thought they’d be.
Truth!
I had exams that where easier, wtf
Nick Vandrepol
Hahaha
Nick Vandrepol the most underrated comment of all time
hahha totally get u
Too bad this comment gets a 85.8% in spelling
me too and i didn't even study.
If girls play this game before being in a relationship, then they'll have other games to play while in a relationship
So true
Girls that play these games are immature IMO and not worth the time. Find an adult who is confident enough to be straight up and mature if you want something long term.
amen bro
Zuke sorry but English is not my native language. What does IMO means?
+zendave69 IMO = In My Opinion
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
Pagasa Namvayan thanks bro
I thought the same thing too, these are literally little things a "girl" does, a real woman don't need to do these so called "test".
You forgot to mention that's why most women are single .hahaha. keep playing hard to get untill is too late .
I'm to busy working making money to take the girl out to nice places I don't have time or patients to play these stupid games either your in or out
Watch out guys, rich guy over here
Women place themselves too high on a False pedestal. .Like which focused and motivated Man has time chasing women, when Money pays the bills..? Like seriously who does..?
Easiest way is to just ask them out. If they say yes they like you
It's not that easy. U gotta take the time to know her before doing anything like that.
dont ask too soon. especially if your going see in weekly basis like work, school, act. Only ask her out right way, if you never going see her again.
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العاشر. مشمس Yeah, some are like that. Not all.
Hard to get girls say yes when you ask them out but a day before the date you ask if they are still down for your date and they pull out 😐
Alex my crush Said no but wanted to be friends but she always stares at me in class and I sad well everything comes on it’s time she sendes yes with this emoji 😉
Girls don't do this it just pisses guys off
Austin Myers and some of the guys will play back
Austin Myers exactly yes people say “play back” but it’s to a point where it just gets annoying.
A woman who's playing isn't a woman for me.
Sorry I got no time for a game , of a girl does that to me , I will take it as she is not interested as simple as that
W ssme
Same
This is all games!! Men and Woman that have respect for themselves and that are actually worth being with won't play them!!
This is called being jerked around and becoming a doormat. Do what she says and the only thing you will get is wasted time and blueballs.
Andrei M 💯
Andrei M blue balls😂😂
thats what they want. have you submit
or just the attention and power to reject you. they want alot of guys to chase and pick from, an ego boost. girls chase me or I'm out. (thats why you are single then) yes and no. I've been chased quite alot now and then, but I don't play hard to get. I just say I'm not interested, or I hook up and then they start playing games and I'm out
I almost lost the girl of my dreams, my future wife, the one,.. all because she was playing hard to get and my insecurities had me fooled. Thank you for your words, they’ve opened my eyes. I dropped the act, started acting like myself and boom. The rest is history now 🙂
Her explanation of playing hard to get is actually a total display of being intellectually dishonest. As a man I feel that my time is just as important as some silly woman playing games.
Word
Women say the dumbest things though..
very well stated
Been there twice. And they always ended up playing victim and blocked me the second i pulled away and realized my worth. If they play hard to get it means they don't respect you but enjoy the attention you give them. Save that attention to someone who's worth it
This video should have been ONE sentence long. Go up to a girl and tell her you like her! MEN, BOYS: *STOP WORSHIPPING WOMEN, THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT*. Just tell them how you feel and if they reject you *THERE ARE 3.5BILLION MORE OF THEM* on the planet earth to choose from minus the children and old women. All you need is *ONE* so don't let them intimidate you and don't put them on a pedestal. *YOU ARE VALUABLE AS WELL!*
Love it
Only comment on RUclips worth reading
ONLY WORSHIP AND TAKE CARE OF THEM IF THEY RESPECT AND TAKE CARE OF YOU TOO.. ITS NOT A ONE WAY RELATIONSHIP ONLY BENEFITING WOMEN.
Well said lad. I agree 100%.
BahnLife i am pretty sure the women population is more than men on earth.
And this is why so many young women are alone and sad on valentines day or during holidays. Amd then deny it and then blame men.
i get it when girls play hard to get... but flirting with other guys to make you jealous?? ... How immature... when that happens... I will be GHOSTING mode....
Literally I have experienced this in the past for a long time now, she will notice in the future how much of a dick she was and regretting the stupid decisions she made. That’s what has always happened to me though, when she gets bored of the other guy, she realizes the mistakes of not taking a chance with me and now those girls have seen me with other girls and have noticed how she did the same thing to me. Payback’s a biotch! U only have one chance in life, if you don’t take the opportunity, it’s most likely you have lost it forever
Lol I turned around and did the same thing to my crush my crush was picking other people to dance with instead of me. So I asked her bestfriend.
her: we play hard to get for test your patience so don't take it personally
me: we go meet escort because we don't have time for chase after women like you so don't take it personally
This is so ridiculous.
Giovanni Bertoia why you tried this and you still got rejected
Vanessa 025 🤣🤣
Stay single my friend 👍
and then bitches realize they hit the wall and they're 38 and single and literally throw themselves to every man they can, even betas. Problem is only a pathetic beta wants to settle down with a 38+ year old. Ladies we don't want your old asses with massive baggage. If she can't give you her best years, she doesn't deserve you in her later years. stop bailing these women out. Rent hookers, seriously.
Vanessa 025 hahahahaaahahahahahaahah! That’s savage
So she is basically lying to you all the time - at every opportunity? Life is too short to waste on mind games and deceit.
In my eyes, Playing hard to get = Not interested! why would I waste my time on someone who takes 3 days to reply to my text messages, then cancels a date when I'm on my way..... Next!...
cHriiSzbEe agreed
She just want to make sure u really care about her trust me girls want to feel wanted if they smile or like u something like that
johnDomain what I did was I gave mixed signals so she was still interested in me and finally one day I asked her out and she said yes so u have to show interest but at the same time play it cool like u know what your doing with confidence!!!
Leave her king
@@anthonyjordan3634 she's dumb
Playing hard to get isn’t going to work with me, I’m just going to move on
Real Men Never chase woman, they focus on Their Goals in Life than the females come to him
You the real MVP!!!
Yea well I’m not waiting forever 😂
So True and Honest bro 👍
Real men learned which words in a sentence to capitalize in second grade.
*They Won't Chase Me, I Will Chase Them*
This video just made me more paranoid, how she might be manipulating me...
People who play games always assume that they will be the winner! I sort of naive assertion based on a fake confidence. Because a confident person wouldn't play games to begin with.
"Girls do not play it hard cause it's the worst thing you do to a men who likes you" that's it
Playing hard to get is dangerous. I dont like playing games, im a straight forward guy. Ill think she doesent want anything serious if she plays games
I don't have time for games ! When I sense games I disappear
All these immature childish games will get you nowhere in life and in relationships. In fact it will ruin everything. When you’ll get to your 40s you’ll understand it better.
Play games, you get played. Treat men like a King, ill treat you like a Queen
If a woman plays games to make the man chase, he has the right to "hit it and quit it." Some of you females may think you're slick but it will come back to you. Eventually you will learn that love is more important than seduction.
Boom.
I got played by a coworker hard body all I did was go to work and didn't even talk
@Dhi Mancini move on bro
He doesn’t have the right to “hit it and quit it” he has the obligation to “hit it and quit it” anything else would be a stupid idea. What is he supposed to do start a long term relationship of playing hard to get?
@dhimancini1162 Haha, the game is on! Enjoy it man, love the chase!
When a women has a full schedule she will also try to tell you that she has "a social life" when she says she's busy. This happens because like you said she's testing your patience and wants you to know she has other people and is not alone so if you break up with her she will make sure you already knew she has friends and family there for her and that will make him feel too available and make him feel like he's alone and has nothing better to do then text someone to go on a date. Also she will put you in the friend zone until you start showing her you're desperate or until she starts to show more feelings for you. (just a little more info to help boys)
Only Immature girl playing hard to get
Hey fellas married guy here: this crap does not work for one simple reason:time, yes time, serious people dont have the time for this nonsense, a quality relationship starts with trust not stupid games....my $0.02
Alabaster same here. I’m married and when I met got into contact with my wife, she wasted no time in meeting up and pushing things forward. We got what we wanted from each other and that’s that. We been married 6 years now
I encountered a girl played hard to get not too long ago. She did pretty much everything mentioned above. I moved on for good. Absolutely no regrets left. I am just still annoyed that I didn't get enough respect that I deserved when she flaked and made me jealous. Ignore those kindda girls. If you let her jerk around and agree to become a doormat, you wont get any respect. If she doesn't respect you, she will dump you and move on to a guy who jerk her around. That's women.
Guys I was really unsure about this girl I met, I would spend my hard earned money to buy her drinks and stuff but whenever I told her about my feelings she would change the subject or tell me that she’s not looking for a person atm and still has feelings for some other guy. Although her answer was never no. But after reading all the comments in this video I’ve come to realise I was wasting my precious time and money on someone who doesn’t even value me , so I wanna say thanks a lot guys for opening my eyes now the only hard part is how do I forget about her?
Europestan ignore her totally and you will forget her after some time.
you will over time, friend. Trust me. Give it time and she will be a distant memory you remember occasionally. It may take some months. The sooner you get over it the better but there's no real way to force it. The best way honestly is to find a new girl you like a lot and one that hopefully likes you. The previous girl will be forgotten real quick! Hopefully it doesn't happen to you like it did to me where I found a girl I liked and forgot about the last one only to have the new one pull the same shit. That hurt too, lol.
Like ppl said. Out of sight out of mind. And it ll b over soon. Get a bit angry. Not too, much just enough to fuel your upright backbone, selfrighteousness and selfworth. So when u do see her ur polite n friendly, but cold n dont do anything for her.
Who cares. If she wants to play stupid games then she can remain single
I had the one I probably would have married do this until I just said, "Fuck it" and walked away for good. Three months of guessing games and mixed signals and endless courtship that never led anywhere exhausted my patience. For the next 2.5 years I ran into her about 5 times by chance. She'd give me sad faces and try to talk to me but I wanted nothing to do with her. I moved out of state without bothering to say goodbye and she and her family moved to another state a year or two later. As she started nearing 40 she somehow found someone to father a child. I don't know if she dated the guy or he was some anonymous sperm donor. Whatever the case, she's now an over the hill cock tease and a single mom who's 4 months shy of 50 and she's probably going to spend the rest of her life alone. She was the love of my life and I know the feeling was mutual but she overplayed her hand and threw away her only chance with the guy she should have married. 5 or 6 years in the feminist utopia of Iowa City, Iowa turned her into a screwed up piece of shit who couldn't make a relationship work if her life depended on it. Now she's liberated and free to spend the rest of her life alone.
Oof
@@meatwad1 Thank you for sharing that! I had a similar experience. I'm actually an immigrant in the US; local women refused to go out with me. I just got a wife from my home country - we've been together since 2012.
My advice to girls and guys is don’t play hard to get . Maybe 1 or twice that’s max! Because most of the time a guy is gonna look at you and think that your superficial and you don’t really care and that’s understandable and a valid point. You may want to test him but stay in a line or else that guy will for sure leave . And same thing go’s for the guy. I think sometimes it’s an emotional issue about playing hard to get. An example might be that the guy/girl has been through a rough breakup or has simply met people who are foolish. Its trust issues . I think that . Give me your feedback guys
its trust issues,and its also paranoia that they think you are in it for a hit it and quit it, some girls have never experienced a good dude, so when one comes a long they keep their walls up because they never been treated with respect before and it feels very unknown to them. which is why some of them take a long time to warm too. i feel like some girls do like an ego boost tho and love the chase and someone to talk to even if they dont like you.
If a chick is playing hard to get and won't even go out on a first date with you, she's massively wasting your time. Move on. A date is a date, not a vetting process for marriage. Any chick that won't accept a simple coffee date, you'll never get anywhere with her. She's wasting precious seconds of your life.
You gotta smash and pass
All I can say is, that you're speaking big faxx bro.
I experienced this and everytime I set up a date with the girl, she brought excuses or ignored it. So I ghosted her and she started chasing me. But I blocked her, because I have my self respect and I'm not a simp tho.
@@alirezamodares5797 good job bro👍🏼 that kind of girls don’t deserve it. I do the same after couple of days or maximum a week. She get the chance, if she doesn't take it then bye bye with her 👋🏼
@@starseed855 exactly 💪🏽
women dont do the jealousy thing.because most guys might/will start talking to other women or just look elsewhere...trust me on that one..we dont wanna get hurt either..also shows us that we mean nothing if u start talking to other guys or even hear that you are..turn the tables, would you like it if a guy u liked or persued started talking about other women,?u would automatically think player or not interested.remember it goes both ways.love yall
you ladies when you play hard to get we as men can't read your mind so we can't for sure know that your playing hard to get or just not interested. This is how the problem of Street harassment starts because in that situation the guy is convinced your just playing hard to get and is not taking no for an answer because guys know that you women like to play hard to get so in many cases Street harassment is women's own creation.
Citizen of Kekistan Plus your level of interest in her indicates to her how much she needs to keep you away. She is not testing whether you find her special, she is testing how many other women you can pull and if you are all over her that makes her certain that you can't pull other women, so she'll blow your off. Soon as you find another woman they sense it through their weird senses and try to get in contact with you again.
That was a really really stupid clame Citizen of Kekistan... Which intelligent man would approrach a woman they "like/care about" by harassing her on the street? Are you seriously a cave man or what?
Why some women play hard to get is because they don't want be persieved as needy if they like you, because that would kill all the attraction from both sides, or and it is to know how much interest you have for them or if you really just want to get in bed, nothing wrong with that but most a lot of women need time, and besides, the "game" is actually fun if you're know how to participate and do it right :)
Citizen of Kekistan accurate
Ukr
Elin Wickberg Elin Wickberg Elin Wickberg Hahaha are you stupid or was it just not your day? I mean I see you edited your comment but apparently you didn’t edit the part where you deliberately showed that you didn’t understand what he said hahah.
All jokes aside, he is saying that being persistent (which is what women claim to want from us when they play hard to get) can be interpreted as harassment when the guys do not understand the signs. If I see a girl on the street who might seem interesting, I will talk to her and she might play hard to get. In this case, if I suspect she is playing hard to get I can either keep on going just to prove her that I am worth it, or stop talking to her out of fear that she might think it’s harassment. “Learn how to recognize the signs” you might say but even girls fail to recognize signs from other girls. In this video for instance, she claims if the girl turns you down pretending to have a loaded schedule but never clearly says “no”, or if she ignores you on social media it is a sign that she is playing hard to get and therefore, interested. Don’t you think a girl who keeps turning a guy down and totally ignoring him on social media could also mean she really isn’t interested but doesn’t want to be rude or hurt your feelings by just being direct? Then in this case insisting would be harassment. I’m the type of guys that just don’t play games like that, but I know of tons of guys who talk yo several girls, get the same exact signs from all of them, insist and get 2 different reactions: either they like them and end up dating or whatever, or they just think these guys are creeps, block them on social media and threaten to call the cops on them. So no it was not a stupid claim (which by the way you had the balls to misspell right after labeling something as “stupid”), intelligent man do approach women on the street, at malls, parks, everywhere. Are you telling me you would only consider it acceptable to be approached in bars, clubs, school/work and social media? Because if you are, that would explain a lot about you.
Have a blessed day !
Just move on from a girl like that, trust me guys, I wish I could go back in time
Same. I want to go back in the past. I miss my women in high school. 😭
I don't know about you, guys, but a I've never a met a girl that played hard to get, she was simply not interested in me. But if a girl was interested in me, I didn't need to read on any sign...
Just walk away gentlemen.
Even better, play harder to get, let them chase you.
Playing hard to get is so infantile and childish. If you like him then get to know him, you don't have to sleep with him or kiss him. Playing all these games or this vetting process is likely to drive the guy away. After all what that famous express there are plenty of fish in the sea.
I'm glad you brought up vetting process because you know what else is a vetting process? DATING.
The reason why people play hard to get is to test people about how much respect the other person's demands. When you set clear standards, people will stop playing hard to get really fast.
Women hate guys who play games, yet you play the games. When women play those games with me, I end all contact. I hate liars.
I choose not to play their game. If we're going to play games, she's going to play mine..... Best advice I ever got about women, especially pretty women is ignore them. I've not saying pretend like they aren't there, just don't allow them to think they are your total focus or the center of your universe in a social situation. Be confident, be self-possessed. Don't be afraid to excuse yourself to talk to one of your guy friends if you and her are in a group together. She will have to up her actions/interest in you to gain more of your attention. Let her know (don't say it) you are a high quality person, and while you might feel lucky (inside) to be out with her, she must realize she should feel equally lucky to be out with you. Later you can tell her she's beautiful, or that you feel lucky, but don't tip your hand right away, because she will feel like she has ALL the power in the relationship and can control you. Let her know by your actions that she can't. Women don't like A-holes, but they dislike wimpy doormat guys even more.
very very good, tidefan yankee. they would dte assholes 10/10 over a beta cuck. treat them like 5's. average girls. reach out, if she's playing hsrd to get, get on with your business elsewhere like you couldnt care less. ignore her, make them chase you and step up, your purpose is to improve yourself and gain confidence. be nice but cocky and don't take crap.
Women don’t play with men they respect. Point. Blank. Period. If she is playing with you she has no respect for you. Run fast.
Ok now I know why this girls are single 😏
Harry Onyeka holy shit same haha
I never dated someone cus I'm searching for my soulmate
They gonna be Single till they very old..No doubt !
All of that just for a first date, no thank you! If she’s unsure then she can stay unsure. Not about to waste my time
N money
Gentlemen, listen up. Women behave this way because MEN ALLOW THEM TO! We allow it by showering them with attention and adoration that the vast majority of them have done NOTHING to earn or deserve. In the words of Dr. Phil, “you don’t reward bad behavior”. What happens when you don’t discipline your child? You end up with a spoiled, entitled brat. And yes Gabriella. I AM comparing you to a child. Because this is CHILDISH behavior you are describing.
My dog chases cars, and I can honestly say she’s a lot deeper than Gabriella. But my dog chases cars for the thrill of it :) Generally we should make them stop these behaviors by ignoring them and moving on when we see them.
Don't listen to her gentlemen ! If you know a girl is playing hard to get, then just ignore the hell out of her !!!
she will do this because she wants to dominate him in the relationship, however it is possible for a man to play into the game, make her fall in love with him and then turn the game around, but it takes some time
There was a guy I really liked and he messaged me asking me out but I was working 2 jobs and my schedule was full until next week. So I said later and then he asked me again 2 days later and I said that I'm busy and I will let him know once I'm free but the next week he was a mountain of ice. He showed zero interest and didn't talk to me.
guys not everyone play a game. Be patient. Sometimes people are real but they are really busy!!!
I tired of waiting😒. Its like forever
If a woman plays hard to get, dump her and move on to the next.
OMG!! I am a girl and I just had to bust out laughing thinking WOW I am glad I am not a guy!! first of all I have NEVER done any of these, If I like you you will know and if I dont I will tell you. I dont think I have known any girls who do this? Like is she SERIOUS??? who does she think she is and if you blow a guy off and he keeps coming that sounds like a stalker to me! I dont think intellegent handsome man will play this game maybe guys with low self esteem and girls who like to play with them.
Playing hard to get is for them little girls and boys. Us, men, keep it moving because those girls are about that bull.
"She will bring up guys who may not even exist." Check please...I'm out. That's legit crazy. You are literally talking about someone trying to manipulate your emotions by lying.
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perhaps spotting these games is how men also spot a ' JOKER ' .......certainly not a way to try and get to.know someone serious ....leave this in the nursery playground
AA 2016 what did u say about me?.....
99% of the comments pissed off guys
1% of the comments this is actually helpful
The title should be; "How to know when she is playing you"!
Retired AF CE u damn rigt
And every one of these girls are single and wonder.... "Where have all the men gone".
Totally absurd..Sorry 😐 but I had to stop this video in between... I can't stand her voice, tone and the way she talks ..
Be funny if your last name was kebab
John Smith I found this comment way funnier than I should have lmaooo
John Smith im dead😂😂😂
Fucking hater
She's amazing broe
If a girl isn't cooperating, that tells me she's not intrested.
Girls play this much games? No wonder I'm single 😭
Playing hard to get actually sends him mixed messages. You say no, but mean yes, and if he respects your no, you sulk. It's not fair and never has been. Maybe men have a lot to learn but so do women...
Honestly, if you play hard to get. With my amount of energy. I'll just leave you
You say a woman plays hard to get in order to "vet" the man's interest level. So, the man does the same thing and neither side ever comes together. Apparently, you're saying only the woman is allowed to play "hard to get" and men just have to put up with it and not apply the same test. Gauging the other side's interest should work both ways fairly unless you watch this video advise that the female will test and the male should be strung along mindlessly.
Thats how they want you to think. They want you to be like the scarecrow in “ the wiz “ brainless n just aimlessly following some random chick down the yellow brick railroad
If she likes you… She won’t play hard to get.
Very true!
Don't care for games or tests. If a woman wants an adrenaline rush from the chase, it is likely she will not stick around in the long run. I use the 3 strikes rule. I'll ask her out up to 3 times over time. If she is playing a game and says no 3 times, game over, I move on.
If a woman is interested there are many ways to show it. Be funny, entertaining, charming, confident. How about having a conversation to see if we have some common ground to learn more about each other and spend some fun time together.
I only ask once. That's more than enough times.
2 times. thats the rule. maybe not even that.
Yeah, the most important thing, don't listen to a girl's perspective on dating or you'll screw your mind and everything else ☺
As this girl was talking I was just remembering in my head that I have fucked up not only with 1 or 2 or 3 but 4 girls, man I’m an idiot . I just thought she wasn’t interested so I just moved on I live in the US so I guess that’s how is here but in Brazil if a girl likes you she shows you right away
I agree with cosmos factory
This video is four years old, all the same, women don't seem to want to individually or collectively admit that the paradigm has shifted in the last ten years, and men are on to them. Most men aren't interested in playing games- they're going to ask you out once and if they get any answer other than yes they're going to move on, and you're going to inch that much closer to a life with cats.
I played games with a guy because I was insecure. I think about him pretty often and he was the one who got away.
internetgirl100 good you didn't deserve him anyway
internetgirl100 What happened then?
internetgirl100 That is why you dont play shitty games and make it obviouse you like him.
internetgirl100
In the end, everyone gets what they deserve.
you all do it. I've started doing it too. you're not foolin me 16 times. if you play me, I'll play you and ditch you
I got better advice: Don’t waste time with women that play games. Who the heck do they think they are that they feel the need to test you unnecessarily?
Do girls think that guys have no life and we just have to chase them all the time? And when guys start playing hard to get they are labeled as assholes, arrogant or a player
Wow, I've learned so much from watching this video. I'm just bursting with such valuable knowledge.
Tbh I wouldn’t bother it’s bs and I don’t have time for it negatives lead up to more negatives. Basically getting in a relationship with this type of women, whatever you do for her will never be good enough....
The most childish, & immature thing a girl can do to a guy that's interested in her. Only delusional, & desperate men will continue to pursue women who behave this way at first impression.
You're right it's not worth it!
@@KamaTV1 kinda shocking to receive that kind of a response from the woman who made this video. ^_^
who cares ...who gonna put that much efforts to get a particular girl..move on if she is taking much time find someone else.
Porus 91 agreed
Personally the comments have helped me out more than this video of girls wanting to play games.
here is my advice to all women:
if you are really interested in the guy, but you are playing hard to get, the risc is also very high that he looses interest in you (because of frustration).
if you want to avoid that, you should make sure to not fool around.
Uli Peterson No, we play hard to get because otherwise, the guy won't come up to us and initiate and chase us. And if we chase him, suddenly we scare him away because we appear desperate.
spaciousgalaqxy Men don't have time for that...
Marquis barr Well, all I need to do is smile a guy and I often scare him away. So I think I will stick to playing hard to get.
spaciousgalaqxy I guarantee you that will rather piss the guy off. Pisses me off. Goodluck on that.
Marquis barr So you would suggest smiling and scaring him away instead?