Me as an ISTP: Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @relentless_animal4127
    @relentless_animal4127 4 года назад +62

    “I don’t have anyone I could solidly call a friend “ . Same lol 😂. This quarantine is literally the exact same daily routine as my summer vacation but with home work. 😂

  • @patrickhodson8715
    @patrickhodson8715 4 года назад +46

    “The drama isn’t worth the effort” damn I _felt_ that

  • @absinthesesotericadventure7631
    @absinthesesotericadventure7631 5 лет назад +60

    On point man, I'm a female ISTP and the thing about the romantic stuff is actually very relatable.

  • @Jessknowsbestt
    @Jessknowsbestt Год назад +7

    I came to learn more about my ISTP friend and you sound similar to him.. both funny without even trying 😂 - INFP

  • @lisaholzel4411
    @lisaholzel4411 5 лет назад +31

    You remind me so much of a good friend of mine who is an ISTP as well. He was the first person in this life I became friends with. We met in kindergarten and have been friends now for 26 years! I immediately liked him. He isn't very talkative, but a pragmatic man who shows his affection by
    joint activities. He always calms me down when I'm going a little stir crazy. I make him smile. We share a mutual love for action movies. INFP.

    • @sharpiesarecool814
      @sharpiesarecool814 3 года назад

      are any of you two in a relationship?

    • @antondeannova7016
      @antondeannova7016 3 года назад

      my friend did not decide based on the type ... but in your opinion which of the electricians and mechanics is the most suitable for ISTP ...? who often work alone using the minds and hands of a (physical) electrician or mechanic ...?

  • @EH_888
    @EH_888 4 года назад +72

    This is hilarious. My istp friend told me that he's completely clueless when women flirt with him. He has no clue, and it's so funny and endearing.🤣

    • @SavannahRoseDI
      @SavannahRoseDI 3 года назад +7

      I too am an INFJ with an Istp friend, they are so adorable, they have very little inuition and feeling its so cute :)

    • @chileanguyfleegman
      @chileanguyfleegman 2 года назад +5

      Yeah you might find it cute. But it doesn't feel too good.

    • @EH_888
      @EH_888 2 года назад

      @@chileanguyfleegman I didn't mean to offend.

    • @chileanguyfleegman
      @chileanguyfleegman 2 года назад +1

      @@EH_888 It's ok, it just reminded me of all the times this happened to me too. I just came from an ISTPs point of view. no offense taken.

    • @dabtican4953
      @dabtican4953 2 года назад +4

      I have a few of these stories about myself. I was playing xbox in 2020 and i randomly remembered a girl in my class called me pretty and i was like oh wow she must have liked me. She told me that in like 2015 lol i remembered five years later.

  • @patrickhodson8715
    @patrickhodson8715 4 года назад +35

    “I’m usually more direct and playful with that person”
    “I’m usually more aware of what’s going on in their life”
    “I usually initiate conversations with them and I’m not that way normally”
    Holy h*ck it’s me

  • @blancheb3533
    @blancheb3533 Год назад +5

    Yes, ISTP (like INFJ) has introverted intuition and introverted thinking, which makes us both VERY selective about people we choose to interact with.

  • @dukealbero1468
    @dukealbero1468 6 лет назад +28

    You should do more vids! There really aren't very many ISTPs on RUclips besides Celebok. Doesn't even have to be about MBTI really.

  • @nayrakhaled2843
    @nayrakhaled2843 5 лет назад +13

    I'm ISTP female and what he said was 💯 me .
    I also enjoyed the video so much , hope you return posting again 💜.

  • @Litlogibear
    @Litlogibear 5 лет назад +15

    Watching this video from your mannerisms to how you’re talking is exactly me😂 #ISTPGANG

    • @mussabsaleem7625
      @mussabsaleem7625 4 года назад +3

      Same thought. Those long pauses, that *ummm* is so me.

    • @antondeannova7016
      @antondeannova7016 3 года назад

      @@mussabsaleem7625 my friend did not decide based on the type ... but in your opinion which of the electricians and mechanics is the most suitable for ISTP ...? who often work alone using the minds and hands of a (physical) electrician or mechanic ...?

  • @victorhernandez6036
    @victorhernandez6036 5 лет назад +22

    I feel u man. ISTP Life.

  • @angelicagutierrez6502
    @angelicagutierrez6502 6 лет назад +30

    Could you make a video about how ISTPs show their love? I’m an INFP and I’m dating an ISTP! He is definitely not good at dealing with emotions, but he is always helping me fix problems that I have in my life at the moment! I would love to hear your insights about other ways ISTPs show their love!

    • @waynetang1763
      @waynetang1763 5 лет назад +12

      I tease and play around. If I tease and touch ( playful way, not sexual) I like you. It is confirmation or acknowledgement of the relationship or bond. I do this with my wife and kids.
      On the other hand, with strangers and acquaintances relationship. I avoid physical contact (aside from a handshake).

    • @idkpoop5713
      @idkpoop5713 5 лет назад +3

      Same I’m an isfp and I have an istp bf and ya he isn’t very emotional or talkative lmaoo

    • @lizjeanne9141
      @lizjeanne9141 4 года назад +22

      I’m an INFJ and have been married to my ISTP husband for nearly 16 years. My husband doesn’t show many emotions but they are in there. Talking about them makes him uncomfortable. He needs time to process and think about what he wants to say. I’ve gotten only two genuine compliments in out 19 year relationship. But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love me. And I know he loves me because he works (without complaint) to provide for me and the kids. He has never made me feel anything but equal to him in this family. He acknowledges that even though I don’t earn money, my contribution is equal to his. He clears the snow from my car, helps with the dishes, massages the tension out of my shoulders, built an in-law apartment for my parents, packs his lunch even though he’d rather buy it, and many other things. Countless things. My daughter is an INFP and let me just tell you that INFPs are awesome. It definitely takes work but ISTPs are totally worth it.

    • @patrickhodson8715
      @patrickhodson8715 4 года назад +9

      Elizabeth Horgan dang I love this! As an ISTP myself with no romantic prospects at the moment, this is the dream. Having someone you can love and appreciate and who loves and appreciates you without having to be someone you’re not. ISTPs are not often well understood, so we really appreciate being understood, and I’m sure that’s one of the things your husband loves about you.

    • @Detnice21
      @Detnice21 Год назад +3

      Just understand, his actions are his emotions.
      Fixing things for you, is his emotions.
      If you want him to talk, start out slow and dont force it.

  • @sibestfunction4400
    @sibestfunction4400 4 года назад +5

    I relate very strongly to appreciating how people look and the aesthetic of someone being what i think more about than anything naughty.

  • @jorgechacon1
    @jorgechacon1 3 года назад +5

    I am an ISTP too and I relate with your experiences and kind of thinking way, in fact I can say it is very sad for me like I want to have a serious romantic relationship but don't find the right person to do so. By the way I'm gay and I think it makes it even more uncomfortable... It's nice to listen to you, I'm subscribed.

  • @ackerman8284
    @ackerman8284 4 года назад +2

    the way you talk chronologically about friendship started from when you were in elementary school till now reminds me of myself.
    Nice video dude🤙

  • @legacy030
    @legacy030 4 года назад +4

    As an ISTP every single thing on here is very accurate.

  • @seth-leong-scott3474
    @seth-leong-scott3474 3 года назад +6

    ...and that moment when I realised this channel was only last updated 2 years ago

  • @mivihorizon2356
    @mivihorizon2356 4 года назад +6

    I’m an ISTP girl, and wow, your video is sooo accurate.

  • @keithstray1267
    @keithstray1267 6 лет назад +3

    I relate so goddamn hard, jesus. I got whiplash from my own ISTP personality. Even your fucking video description is such a call out, because i was wondering what the fuck was up with your background for a good portion.
    Also the fuck. Lots of mentally ill people come after me too?? Lots of early red flags.
    I get what you mean with acquaintances-- I take friendship as a concept really seriously, and a lot of people just.. do not. But I'll let them call me a "friend" just so i dont hurt their feelings if theyre not coming at me too often.

    • @wafflesingsong6715
      @wafflesingsong6715  6 лет назад

      Jack Stray I would love to interview some people! It’ll probably be a few months until, but it will be done.
      Thank you so much!

  • @greensacredfire
    @greensacredfire 6 лет назад +6

    Thanks for making this video man! I appreciate your thoughts and perspective.
    I hope you meet some people that you can call true friends-you deserve it!

    • @wafflesingsong6715
      @wafflesingsong6715  6 лет назад +3

      How things are going, I’m sure it’s only a matter of time.
      Thank you so much!

    • @mussabsaleem7625
      @mussabsaleem7625 4 года назад +1

      @@wafflesingsong6715 get an Intj. It'll take some time to develop understanding but you'll like them for their realistic intelligent opinions and less emotional commitment towards them. Got an Intj friend and sometimes we don't talk for weeks but the friendship remains the same

    • @katjasaukkonen1874
      @katjasaukkonen1874 3 года назад +1

      @@mussabsaleem7625 I have the same experience. Both love their freedom and share some other values, too.

    • @mussabsaleem7625
      @mussabsaleem7625 3 года назад

      @@katjasaukkonen1874 Yes(sry for short reply i didn't know what else to add XD)

  • @phieble
    @phieble 6 лет назад +15

    This comment is late because I just saw this video, but anyways - as a fellow ISTP, I request that you make a video explaining the qualities / characteristics that you desire in a girl (I don't recall that coming up in the video.) It doesn't have to include MBTI, but it would be interesting if you have a favorite type. Thx for sharing, man.

    • @angeakamine6697
      @angeakamine6697 3 года назад +1

      Infj here who have an fascination about istp, thank you for comment exactly what I was wondering!

    • @phieble
      @phieble 3 года назад +1

      @@angeakamine6697 COOL!!! I discovered CS Joseph about two years ago some time after posting that comment, so in case you haven't come across them yet, here are two vids that may be helpful, although to some extent, of course it caries from one ISTP to another.
      ruclips.net/video/V0V3uE3EPLI/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/vjQGOGyGGuc/видео.html
      The Personality Growth website is also a really good resource on stuff like this. I hope all of that is of some use to ya 🙂

    • @angeakamine6697
      @angeakamine6697 3 года назад +1

      @@phieble It's so kind of you to answer me! Thank u very very much! It'll be very useful to me, since I struggle to find good ISTP videos here on yt. I find a lot of content talking about how infj's and istp's just don't go well together, but I want to research more, and see what is the istp's point of view in all of this. Since I'm a infj, I search for value and development in a relationship, and, for me, Istp are the type that would motivate me the best to work more on myself, and to confrontate myself on a very logical way 😂 don't know if that makes sense btw

    • @phieble
      @phieble 3 года назад +2

      @@angeakamine6697 Makes good sense to me and no problem. I wish you well on your journey and most of all, perhaps unrelatedly, I hope that you look to Jesus ultimately for fulfillment and accept with gratitude whatever he has reserved for you in what lies ahead. He is the only sufficient Saviour and gracious and almightyl Lord, and he is fully worthy of your trust and worship if you have yet to repent and surrender your life in faith to him. ❤

    • @angeakamine6697
      @angeakamine6697 3 года назад +2

      @@phieble yes! Thank you! I'm a christian too! Jesus have saved my life and I all here to live my life for Him till the day He returns! 😊

  • @ishyameru6232
    @ishyameru6232 3 месяца назад

    College was when I learned how to click with groups of people, I’m not so anxious anymore and I’m so glad

  • @Chaizabam
    @Chaizabam 5 лет назад +5

    Hey i just came across this video looking for istp insights and i reeeally enjoyed your video haha it actually make me laugh. You are funny!! From an enfp 😊

  • @MixInfinity
    @MixInfinity 6 лет назад +13

    Wow that's so nice of you for making this video! I am an INFJ and I am hopelessly attracted to an ISTP which doesn't even know I exist. I sent him some subtle signals but I don't think he picked them up. I know we are so different but I admire him so much , I think this attraction towards him it's because of our reversed cognitive functions(it's like he has something that I don't and I want). Now, I know you ISTPs are sensors and very stimulated visually, but I cant say about myself that I'm am a drop dead gorgeous female, I am think I'm average.Well, of course, if I put some make-up and heels on, I do attract some glances, but prefer not to do that(to avoid unsolicited attention). As a matter of fact, once when I did it( it was a special event) I catched my ISTP glancing at me , I know it might sound stupid but it felt so good(to finally be noticed by him). My question is: what could I do in order to catch his attention when we are in a group of friends? He usually doesn't engage in conversation with me, maybe because I'm usually the quiet one. To what kind of women are you ISTPs attracted to?

    • @wafflesingsong6715
      @wafflesingsong6715  6 лет назад +18

      I’d say you have to be direct without coming off as strong. So, try to conversate more, compliment him on things, be playful around him. Personally, if you are not the one to dress up, that’s fine. I would think he’d respect you more if you did what you wanted to do because you want to do it. If he has no obvious reason to talk to you, he won’t do it. Make him have a reason to.
      As terms as who we are into, that depends on the ISTP, but a pattern has emerged where I do like XXFJ’s, so if he’s the same, I guess you have a decent shot.
      Good luck!

    • @chileanguyfleegman
      @chileanguyfleegman 2 года назад +6

      Hey I know this is 3 years too late but for anyone who comes across this, ask them for help fixing something. It can give you a quiet moment together where you can get a real conversation about life and so on. ISTPs are a hard nut to crack sometimes. But INFJs are the ones that excel at that.

  • @ladym.9268
    @ladym.9268 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for opening up and sharing your insights. I believe my son is ISTP.

  • @chileanguyfleegman
    @chileanguyfleegman 2 года назад +9

    I'm 37, I learned I'm an ISTP from an acquaintance. Your life this far is what I'd live through. Though I had a different approach to relationships with women because they always found me cute. But I never got the cues from flirting. Most of them are drawn to me after talking to me, since I enjoy talking to women in general. They are drawn to the ISTP sincerity and straightforwardness.

  • @Empress969
    @Empress969 3 года назад +1

    🤭🤭🤭😂😂😂😂😂 brooo I have the same thought like ain't no way these ppl interrupting the conversation I have going on with myself 😂🤭 I know it's not better than what I'm in here talking about 🤣😸

  • @s-evo7015
    @s-evo7015 4 года назад +1

    I totally related to your experiences on almost every scale.
    Hell, I even anticipated you were gonna say that lady turned out to be a little eerie on the mental side :D

  • @robertjenkins2578
    @robertjenkins2578 4 года назад +1

    Glad I found your video. I needed to see/hear an ISTP speaking because I believe I am an ISTP too. I thought I was an ISFP until I found a video of one speaking, and then I knew that I was not an ISFP, no way.
    It's been 2 years since you made this video so no doubt you have matured and learned. Be assured that you will smooth out the "awkwardness" that you mentioned. (I am very much older than you!) Keep working on yourself, and don't worry about perfection...you can't do that. Just keep getting better. I am Bob. Thx.

  • @itzel2981
    @itzel2981 Год назад

    yeah crushes aren't something usual for me either

  • @pamela6788
    @pamela6788 4 года назад +2

    "Rationnaly I might decide this is something I shouldn't go with and I should I just move on, but at the same time the heart kind of wants what it wants and it kind of takes time to get over people."
    It's sooo true for me too, people have no clue of all what's happening inside 🤪 forget or suffer? Make your choice says the pragmatic voice...
    Sometimes I surprise myself from a totally crush shifting from romantic to friendship. And when it's finish it is for good, and know what! I feel way much better after the seizure 🙃
    Hope you'll find true love anyway 😤

  • @antoniorobles8302
    @antoniorobles8302 4 месяца назад

    bro, we need more of this, where have you been all this years? unu

  • @Jaxy451
    @Jaxy451 2 года назад +2

    I'm an INTP. Thanks for the video and I appreciate the frank outline of your experience. We are similar in some ways. Different but similar.

    • @antoniorobles8302
      @antoniorobles8302 4 месяца назад

      how do i know if im intp or istp? what are the main differences?

    • @Jaxy451
      @Jaxy451 4 месяца назад

      Big difference - ISTP are much better at physical things. INTP are generally not very good at physical things. INTP are more abstract and philosophical. They are theoretical. ISTP are more practical. They are actually quite different.

  • @ToriH
    @ToriH 5 лет назад +14

    Funny how ur behavior actually shares many similarities w the INFJ (my personality) tho I've become less introverted thru time. We also share the same functions but in a different order but I don't rly meet STPs so I wanna understand more about this type. I'm curious tho, why did u not tell the girl that u had liked her also, when she told u that she had a crush on you, instead of playing it off?

  • @observer.b_e_l_l_i_s
    @observer.b_e_l_l_i_s 6 лет назад +6

    Are you more interesting than my head? Fuck yes lol. I feel us INTJs fall into the human hating rut more so than you all but i suppose its debatable. Can totally relate to the friends aspect as there have been more alliances than true friendships. Nice to hear some ISTP thoughts as there are not many on here.

  • @smilewrinkles4917
    @smilewrinkles4917 3 года назад

    Duuuude you’re so f*cking hilarious 😂 you made me crack up throughout this video. You have comedian potential😂 I would’ve loved being your friend you seem very thoughtful and cool😎

  • @myykkoll
    @myykkoll 5 лет назад +2

    I'd love to see another video about your progression since this video.

  • @tinycar8294
    @tinycar8294 4 года назад +1

    Finally, someone I can relate to.

  • @NataliaMoon29
    @NataliaMoon29 Месяц назад

    Im an INFJ but I do love ISTPS 😂
    I think one of my friends is one

  • @ricardonavarroiii7701
    @ricardonavarroiii7701 2 года назад +2

    So what really hit home was when you said you didn’t have any sexual energy for the girl u had a crush on. Crazy cuz I have had this exact experience w my high school crush. I just wanted to give her food and take her out and hear her talk and it never went anywhere hell all we ever did was make out. How ever all my sexual relationships have pretty much just been that..sexual. pretty interesting similarities!

  • @alteredcatscyprus
    @alteredcatscyprus 2 года назад

    I like ISTPs. They are totally different from me but I find them refreshing.

  • @nora_8080
    @nora_8080 4 года назад +12

    Is there any other ISTP that is not sporty and actually spends more time alone at home than doing exciting or almost dangerous activities? Like rock climbing for example.

    • @nora_8080
      @nora_8080 4 года назад

      Or am i INTP?

    • @deagogl2843
      @deagogl2843 4 года назад +8

      I am, and I would never do something dangerous that could potentially ruin or deter me from enjoying other safe things

    • @joemwas5442
      @joemwas5442 4 года назад +8

      Am istp who likes just to be alone at home and not doing dangerous stuff. I like thrilling things thou for the sake of the action and thrill

  • @papayab2733
    @papayab2733 4 года назад +4

    Dude you were only 12. I had a serious crush between the ages of 14 and 16 and totally relate.. i didnt even think of him in sexual attraction, only romantic. (Even grossed me out thinking abt it) He was the first, and i developed a sort of friendship over the summer. Never told them about my feelings though. But since ive grown up attraction attitudes to other people have grown and changed. It took a very long time to get over him as well, and im not even sure im over completely. Maybe attraction never dissapears, but what develops and changes is love and appreciation.
    (Btw I came across your vid from Istp youtube search. It is insightful hearing your stories and experience, great video).. plus a question i am curious to know-would you do that again, to break up and then block the number? Seems Very effective but i dont know if id have the guts

  • @Iden_Elihio_1999
    @Iden_Elihio_1999 3 года назад +4

    It seems more challenging as an female ISTP to be seen as attractive to men because our blunt and emotionless seming personality are not feminine traits but it is attractive when men have those traits .....

    • @_Allu
      @_Allu 2 года назад +4

      I disagree, I currently have a huge crush on an ISTP girl. It’s probably because I like straight forward people and seeming emotionless can make a person seem legit. Like I hate people who fake emotions when around others

    • @Iden_Elihio_1999
      @Iden_Elihio_1999 2 года назад +1

      @@_Allu Interesting , well I did say it seems so there are exceptions ...
      As a ISTP , I generally don't get much experience with men or them asking me out that but that is also due to other factors ......

  • @Edameda_mmori
    @Edameda_mmori 4 года назад +2

    reminds me of the young prince in shrek .

  • @GigaMan2077
    @GigaMan2077 4 года назад +7

    You could be my brother dude same personnality & almost same face lol

  • @seth-leong-scott3474
    @seth-leong-scott3474 3 года назад

    Yesss I see quite a number of ISTP channels but a lot of them are girls and this is the first guy one I can find.

  • @duaasabah4048
    @duaasabah4048 4 года назад

    4:51 ENTJ: THAT'S MY JOB !!

  • @frankloof3535
    @frankloof3535 4 года назад +2

    My heart thinks like a dick!!???😂😂

  • @tbmcnation
    @tbmcnation 5 лет назад +10

    UR SO CUTE

  • @zelpazz
    @zelpazz Год назад +1

    We have relationships?

  • @sientwa6102
    @sientwa6102 3 года назад

    😅 That was really interesting to listen to. Why did you stop doing videos?

  • @melissaw124
    @melissaw124 2 года назад +1

    You are handsome ( from intj)

  • @iulianoprea6659
    @iulianoprea6659 5 лет назад +13

    Is your name Chad? Just joking

  • @sibestfunction4400
    @sibestfunction4400 4 года назад +4

    Theres something about the ISTP brain that grows blonde hair and a square jaw isnt there?

    • @ijok3r445
      @ijok3r445 4 года назад +2

      No just no, that doesn’t even make sense

    • @sibestfunction4400
      @sibestfunction4400 4 года назад

      @@ijok3r445 sorry i offended you it was a very unclear joke. Anyways i look just like this guy and im an enfj haha
      Imean
      He could be my identical twin if male/female identical was possible.
      edit: i’m an ISTP lol rip

    • @ijok3r445
      @ijok3r445 4 года назад +1

      😂 I’m not offended, good day!

  • @loner3296
    @loner3296 5 лет назад +1

    yo please upload more i relate so much to you fam

  • @itsvollx9684
    @itsvollx9684 4 года назад +2

    I'm ISTP and I have autism oof

  • @antondeannova7016
    @antondeannova7016 3 года назад

    What is ideal trade for istp..?
    Carpentry
    Mechanic
    Electrician
    Pliss tell me your opinion..?

  • @soniac2156
    @soniac2156 3 года назад

    I think you missinterpreted that girl, ISTP with their Ne trickster are not that gpod at interpreting the real intentions beneath ones actions, my dad is an ISTP and in my childhood I lied to him alot and he believed me all the time (he was very strict with rules and that pissed me of)... even when I acted poorly, so yes, you def didn't get the girl wright,

  • @muhammedsungursahin4837
    @muhammedsungursahin4837 4 года назад +3

    Bruh as an istp i found this video too long

  • @soniac2156
    @soniac2156 3 года назад

    Fe inferior with Ne trickster... the worst combo of understanding other people's way of thinking and acting...

  • @highfrequency8234
    @highfrequency8234 4 года назад +1

    Is it true that ISTP men only need sex and don't really need emotional connection with their significant other.?

    • @aprilcurrington655
      @aprilcurrington655 4 года назад +1

      I have an ISTP boyfriend, I would definitely say this statement is true.

    • @rachelc.riggenbach3109
      @rachelc.riggenbach3109 4 года назад +6

      A mature ISTP starts needing the emotional connection. At least that's what I see in my ISTP bf.

    • @crystalcutch5569
      @crystalcutch5569 Год назад +2

      Married 23 yrs to ISTP, yes it's true

  • @epipany3677
    @epipany3677 4 года назад

    So cute

  • @TheOogaBoogaMan
    @TheOogaBoogaMan 3 года назад +1

    you should have told her your'e a rope smoker..

  • @1971NeMan
    @1971NeMan 4 года назад

    Has anyone ever suggested that you might have Aspergers?

  • @nicolewinters
    @nicolewinters 4 года назад

    Oh hi youre cute