Fifteen years?!?! And lol, she's worried the kids will hate and disrespect her? Meanwhile, she's been disrespecting their father for fifteen years! I'm glad he told them the truth, he still needs to DNA test the kids.
He almost screwed up by giving her a chance to explain it to the kids first. Never ever do this. They will always try to spin a web of lies and make themselves the victim. People are likely to believe what they are told first. Don't give a cheater the opportunity.
Trying to lie to the kids about what happened in front of OP is more disgusting than the affair. Also shows her stupidly for giving up the chance to hide her shameful behavior feom the kids.
what baffles me the most is the audacity to imply that OP was cheating when talking to the children. and the "daddy has to go away for a few years" LMAO
In the last story, you should go for full custody 100% your wife is bringing strange people around your kids and doing these actions in front of them. She is not fit to be a parent whatsoever.
100% custody for OP. Wife felt free to enjoy AP fondling of her in front of child. She wasn't thinking about her son at all, only herself. Supervised visitation for wife and some child appropriate conversations with his son about touching.
@@Nameless82284 its still pretty messed up that adults are doing nasty acts around their kids, because children are very impressionable they could start replicating it and that will end badly for eveyone involved
@@Cyan-ideWell said. If a neighbor or someone notices that, they'll contact the authorities to remove OP's son from his mother, place him in therapeutic foster care, out of state, and then, with another family, through closed adoption, plus, strip the mother of her parental rights.⚠️
I agree that hiding things can lead to disaster. However, cheating and divorce can be discussed as two separate issues at appropriate times. Also, it can backfire the other way too. It depends highly on the children’s ages/maturity levels, the parent(s)’ delivery, etc.
@@jarrodhall3686 the issue is that the party that was cheated on normally tries to protect the cheater by hiding information. Kids tend to follow the one that gives them more information
Yup. I was so angry and confused the whole time my parents were separating. They told us nothing except for when my dad would get drunk and go on slurred rants about my mom and try to drive a wedge between the rest of my family and me. Didn't feel like I could trust either of them since they completed uprooted my entire life with 0 explanation.
she is delusional and she only cares because she got caught which is typical. not sure why she now cares that her daughters will hate her, should've thought of that because before continuing that relationship which in turn made it inevitable for them to eventually find out
Exactly. I predict that when OP's daughters hit their mid-teens, they'll not only see what an evil person their mother is, and disown her, they'll also disappear on her to couch-surf with friends, next, at 18, the oldest daughter will stay with/marry a boy who's also a cheater, the youngest will stay with/marry a boy who controls/abuses her (mentally/ emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital), then, with kids on the way, and no reliable relatives to take her in, the oldest will move to another state, find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, and work two jobs to support herself and her kid, the youngest will also move to another state, and have to stay at a women's shelter, until she finds an apartment.⚠️
1st story: I love how she couldn't keep their relationship "private" and just between the two of them. But when he's about to reveal her secrets to the in laws, suddenly its a "private matter only between those two" xD
I hate that I’m addicted to these types of videos… keep giving me trust issues with women which sucks because I found an amazing girl that I can see a future with. To the point I drove 2 hours skipping some things to take care of her while she has a concussion. Today’s our one month and she’s angelic and I strongly believe this would never happen to me, but betrayal always hits hardest from those you don’t expect it from, right? Got some talking to do on Monday at therapy lol… On the bright side at least I know signs to look for and steps to move forward from all this if it were to happen
I hope you have a happy life with her and your story doesn't get posted on this channel. I watch this just to see what happens and what all signs people miss.
Don't ever let the cheater explain the kids or family why you're divorcing. Caught liars are never going to tell the truth. They're going to turn them all against you. Just get over with and get people on your side by telling what your cheater spouse did.
If a truth you discover is eating you up inside, tell the truth to the affected person/people. They need to know, and that is why your conscience is tearing you apart.
Story 2: Given the wife's parents are too naive to confront her about her disgusting actions, they surely won't mind their grandson being taken away by social services, and raised in another state by randos.⚠️
The fact his daughters automatically assumed he was the one who was caught cheating left a really nasty taste in my mouth. If it were my child i dont think id be able to look at them the same if they accused me of cheating when it was infact my spouse who was the one cheating.
I hope you don't have kids. Blaming the kids for obviously thinking the person crying is the one who's been hurt, like be so serious right now lmao.. ofc they aren't dumb but it's not hard to assume that they'd think the person who's been crying has been the one hurt in the situation? And the mother literally manipulating the situation. Lacking critical thinking
This is a prime example of why you should never let the person in the wrong be the one to come clean first or give them ample warning before you out them. They ALWAY find a way to twist it on you.
I'm so sorry OP. You are a good person and didn't deserve that. I have been through something very similar. All I can say is may God be your comfort or as counselor. He will love you through it
Depends on the country/state honestly. In some places since stay at home can equal no money, they'll more likely give the children to the parents who is more financially established at that time. That and in some cases, who the children want to be with is heavily considered. When my mom and her boyfriend were fighting for custody, my half sister insisted on living with my mom, and it ended up that way in the end.
@@MrArielK If he has family support (like his parents), the kids could stay with them during his work hours if/when they're not attending school. And if he can afford daycare that's also an option(that or a babysitter)
It's crazy how these types of women will scream, cry and beg for forgiveness, receive it, then do it again. I've heard women literally say "you'd be surprised how they actually forgive you". If you get a good one, treat her right, be good to her. The bad ones are conniving and ruthless
I find it funny that when OP went to his in-laws to tell them about the matter, his wife said it was a "private matter" and to not involve anyone. Is that's so, why did she involve another man's most private area in hers while she was leeching off of a man she never deserved for 15 years?
I had a dude tell me this story last month on a sub.....the exact same story.....a couple things were off, but almost identical. It was his gay best friend, not hers. Also it had some pics involved. But same exact scene. This is crazy, either TV's are better than PI's or this is the same dude I gave a spirit to on the train.....
Guys like this have me scratching my head sometimes you’ve just found out she’s been lying to you for 15 years and you’re gonna trust her to tell your kids the truth I’ve never understood why the betrayed person never speaks out first to stop the betrayer from spinning the narrative
It's amazing how some people think that their affairs are some kind of drug they can't give up. The woman has an affair for 15 years and only after having a chance to come clean she tries to set herself up as the victim. And then in the second story the woman's parents try to downplay it all.
Sometimes people just don't want to know. That and sometimes they don't care, especially if they've raised the kid for years. Blood or not, that's their baby no matter what, so they don't feel the need to
You see, I hate that "Syndrome of Dualism" that modern women have. Some women think that they need 2 men, one to sustain in life affairs (money, siblings, etc) and another to sustain in sexual affair. This is so disgusting. Women that think like that need to live the worst to change their mentality, and no regrets when they pass through the worse .
15 YRS AND THE ONLY THING U DO IS DIVORCE??? how about know here he drinks and maybe something just happen really still giving her 50 % of child??? how about visitation and get child support. and make sure to sue ap as well
Story 1 she was evil, you were literally nothing but her safety net while she was in a relationship with someone else. Solely married for a lifestyle she wanted and baby trapped you while staying in her real relationship
Amy is disgusting greedy, she wanted both OP and Matt and when confronted she was selfish in playing things down and not being 100 with the kids. What a pig
If the 15 year casual relationship means nothing yet you chose to do that knowing it will end your marriage how does that not make the marriage less than nothing? Also she offered to end that casual side thing? At the hotel? No way. She will keep it up and is at her boyfriend's house.
Zero custardy for the last story supervised visitation perhaps once the son is older custody can change but at the current age zero custody as she has already proven to be willing to do inappropriate things in frount of hun
Look never listen to the lawyer saying that your which train will be traumatized or women will pick your children to saying that you are the cheater always tell them even if they hate their mother or get traumatized it's better than to be in with a mother that
Wow, the second story how are you going to monitor what your son is exposed to if you let the woman who exposed him to those adult actions maintain custody?
Exactly. When OP finds out that his son has been removed from his STBX-wife, by the authorities, and either placed in foster care or a therapeutic children's home out of state, he'll realize that he should've gotten full custody.⚠️
Women will always externalize blame. Always. Most cannot and will not accept responsibility for anything. Then Deflect, Accuse, Reverse Victim and cheater.
Pleading my butt, if she had commitment issues then it's a loss loss to get back with her lol Edit: See, she goes to her lover after she said she cut contact with him, what a joke. Maybe a deadbeat is her type 😂
1 always tell your kids the truth about your partner’s infidelity especially more so if your a man because women will manipulate their kids to help their needs 100% of the time
Well I’m the first story if you weren’t such an alcoholic in denial, maybe this wouldn’t have happened. You were so drunk you missed sign after sign, IF this was real and likely isn’t
"I don't know how she thought she'd never get caught." Dude, you had the blinds in front of you for 15 years. Of course she's going to be confident after so much success. It was by complete chance you even suspected something was off that much later, not for her behavior or a slip of the tongue.
Fifteen years?!?! And lol, she's worried the kids will hate and disrespect her? Meanwhile, she's been disrespecting their father for fifteen years! I'm glad he told them the truth, he still needs to DNA test the kids.
Ikr? Like bronze believed a cheater when she told him they are his? How does she even know? This guy is dumb asf
@@Endrat0xit’s possible he doesn’t want to know for sure. He will raise and protect them bc they have been his for so long
He almost screwed up by giving her a chance to explain it to the kids first. Never ever do this. They will always try to spin a web of lies and make themselves the victim. People are likely to believe what they are told first. Don't give a cheater the opportunity.
I’ve live through a story like this, because the kids are young, most likely in their adult years they will reconnect with father and cut Mom off
Sociopath have a very mysterious way of navigating life
Trying to lie to the kids about what happened in front of OP is more disgusting than the affair. Also shows her stupidly for giving up the chance to hide her shameful behavior feom the kids.
what baffles me the most is the audacity to imply that OP was cheating when talking to the children. and the "daddy has to go away for a few years" LMAO
She is so heartless
I have no words to describe the morally decayed woman she is.
In the last story, you should go for full custody 100% your wife is bringing strange people around your kids and doing these actions in front of them. She is not fit to be a parent whatsoever.
100% custody for OP. Wife felt free to enjoy AP fondling of her in front of child. She wasn't thinking about her son at all, only herself. Supervised visitation for wife and some child appropriate conversations with his son about touching.
@@Nameless82284 its still pretty messed up that adults are doing nasty acts around their kids, because children are very impressionable they could start replicating it and that will end badly for eveyone involved
@@jdavis7613No, supervised visitation with the wife will just traumatize the kid; instead, she should get no visitation, at all.
@@Cyan-ideWell said. If a neighbor or someone notices that, they'll contact the authorities to remove OP's son from his mother, place him in therapeutic foster care, out of state, and then, with another family, through closed adoption, plus, strip the mother of her parental rights.⚠️
@@Cyan-ide I agree with you 💯%, it's messed up, AND reckless.😒
Never ever try to hide the truth to children about cheating and divorce. It ALWAYS backfires.
I agree that hiding things can lead to disaster. However, cheating and divorce can be discussed as two separate issues at appropriate times. Also, it can backfire the other way too. It depends highly on the children’s ages/maturity levels, the parent(s)’ delivery, etc.
@@jarrodhall3686 the issue is that the party that was cheated on normally tries to protect the cheater by hiding information. Kids tend to follow the one that gives them more information
Right on.
Yup. I was so angry and confused the whole time my parents were separating. They told us nothing except for when my dad would get drunk and go on slurred rants about my mom and try to drive a wedge between the rest of my family and me. Didn't feel like I could trust either of them since they completed uprooted my entire life with 0 explanation.
i saw the title, smiled, grabbed a drink and prepared myself knowing this was about to be a good one 🤣
Same , this is movie night for me now 😭
@@aegontargeryan1499 🤣same i love watching these videos
Never let the cheater control the narrative. He should've told the daughters himself.
Especially if the cheater plans on shipping their betrayed partner off to Siberia. lol
@@BlueFireZ88 Or the kids ship their cheating parent off to Siberia, when they disown her.
she is delusional and she only cares because she got caught which is typical. not sure why she now cares that her daughters will hate her, should've thought of that because before continuing that relationship which in turn made it inevitable for them to eventually find out
I highly doubt any cheater is remorseful of their actions.
Exactly. I predict that when OP's daughters hit their mid-teens, they'll not only see what an evil person their mother is, and disown her, they'll also disappear on her to couch-surf with friends, next, at 18, the oldest daughter will stay with/marry a boy who's also a cheater, the youngest will stay with/marry a boy who controls/abuses her (mentally/ emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point of landing her in the hospital), then, with kids on the way, and no reliable relatives to take her in, the oldest will move to another state, find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, and work two jobs to support herself and her kid, the youngest will also move to another state, and have to stay at a women's shelter, until she finds an apartment.⚠️
"I cheated on you for 15 years but believe me when I say I want your forgiveness and that I'll end it."
Yeah, after telling him they had broken up many times, and gotten back together.
I bet that smart TV was like "Ill fu-- around, and let's see what happens 😂"
Classic apple TV shithousery
That SmartTV wanted to view some drama and action for a change rather than display it.
1st story: I love how she couldn't keep their relationship "private" and just between the two of them. But when he's about to reveal her secrets to the in laws, suddenly its a "private matter only between those two" xD
I hate that I’m addicted to these types of videos… keep giving me trust issues with women which sucks because I found an amazing girl that I can see a future with. To the point I drove 2 hours skipping some things to take care of her while she has a concussion. Today’s our one month and she’s angelic and I strongly believe this would never happen to me, but betrayal always hits hardest from those you don’t expect it from, right? Got some talking to do on Monday at therapy lol…
On the bright side at least I know signs to look for and steps to move forward from all this if it were to happen
Never marry and always keep your guard up, and be prepared to be betrayed. Most women nowadays are not to be trusted, no matter how “pure” they seem.
I hope you have a happy life with her and your story doesn't get posted on this channel. I watch this just to see what happens and what all signs people miss.
Just keep your heads up, never avert your attention to any signs if she's being unfaithful to you and also...always hear what your gut tells you.
not most. Only a very small percentage are actually like that.@@notting2640
@@notting2640this is crap advice
"Homemaker" more like home breaker.
Home-wrecker😂
@@obito9575 I was trying to make it opposite of maker 😂😂
@@TheKlore yeahh😂👌
she cheats on him for 15 years? "are the kids mine" "yes of course" "okay i believe you" wtf dude
I’m sure he checked
Maybe he was afraid to know.
I don’t think anyone in that situation would want to know.
@@EmperorOHII would and did
Don't ever let the cheater explain the kids or family why you're divorcing. Caught liars are never going to tell the truth. They're going to turn them all against you. Just get over with and get people on your side by telling what your cheater spouse did.
If a truth you discover is eating you up inside, tell the truth to the affected person/people. They need to know, and that is why your conscience is tearing you apart.
You are tearing me apart, Lisa!
Good for op! May he and his daughters have an amazing life filled with nothing but happiness! And his ex and her lover a poopy life.
She cheated for 15 years and she still think it is a trival thing. People can be delusional and pathetic 😅
One of the common narratives in stories like this, is it meant nothing to me, or I took nothing away from you.
Never give the cheater a chance to create their own narrative
She really
tried to turn the tables on him and manipulate the situation Now both your daughters aren't gonna want anything to do with you at all
Accountability is every woman's kryptonite
Story 2: Given the wife's parents are too naive to confront her about her disgusting actions, they surely won't mind their grandson being taken away by social services, and raised in another state by randos.⚠️
“I think I’m gonna talk to him man-to-man”
BRO HES FOUR 😂😂😂
She DARED to imply that OP WAS THE ONR CHEATING?!!? SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS LMAO
The fact his daughters automatically assumed he was the one who was caught cheating left a really nasty taste in my mouth. If it were my child i dont think id be able to look at them the same if they accused me of cheating when it was infact my spouse who was the one cheating.
Agreed.
I hope you don't have kids. Blaming the kids for obviously thinking the person crying is the one who's been hurt, like be so serious right now lmao.. ofc they aren't dumb but it's not hard to assume that they'd think the person who's been crying has been the one hurt in the situation? And the mother literally manipulating the situation. Lacking critical thinking
@@mokono5331 "I hope you don't have kids."
Me too dude, me too. Thanks for the well wishes, I appreciate it.
🫂
this sounds like a creative writing essay ngl
She was never his. It was just his turn.
Story 1: for full disclosure get your kids DNA tested. Accept the result and move on in truth and love.
He let her paint the narrative to his daughter? What a noob.
He upgraded with Wanda. This dude is blessed even with the bullcrap he has to deal with.
This is a prime example of why you should never let the person in the wrong be the one to come clean first or give them ample warning before you out them. They ALWAY find a way to twist it on you.
God I'm already pissed, is it this hard to be honest? Damn, 15 damn years cause you were lusting over another guy 😭
15 years is crazy!!!
Real mvp of the story is the smart TV
the audacity of this woman... is astonishing to say the least. Good that Karma kicked her good.
Have you guys noticed that the kids are ALWAYS with the grandparents when the protagonist catches their SO cheating in these...
Not in the second story lol
They need to be out of the house for the confrontation.
If you're a good parent then you want them out of the house before the confrontation
Usually you are catching them in the act so ya the kids would be out of the house.
I'm so sorry OP. You are a good person and didn't deserve that. I have been through something very similar. All I can say is may God be your comfort or as counselor. He will love you through it
Both stories….BOTH of them need to get paternity tests ASAP!!!!
In what world a stay-at-home mom wouldn’t get custody, not a lot of effort was put on this one
Especially with non married parents, full custody is automatically with the mother
Depends on the country/state honestly. In some places since stay at home can equal no money, they'll more likely give the children to the parents who is more financially established at that time. That and in some cases, who the children want to be with is heavily considered. When my mom and her boyfriend were fighting for custody, my half sister insisted on living with my mom, and it ended up that way in the end.
@@MrArielK If he has family support (like his parents), the kids could stay with them during his work hours if/when they're not attending school. And if he can afford daycare that's also an option(that or a babysitter)
They're always willing to do anything to fix the relationship after they're caught. It's so insulting.🙄
It's crazy how these types of women will scream, cry and beg for forgiveness, receive it, then do it again. I've heard women literally say "you'd be surprised how they actually forgive you".
If you get a good one, treat her right, be good to her. The bad ones are conniving and ruthless
we going ignore the fact he removed the other video cause people were pointing out it was reupload
Yeah this channel sucks for that!
5050 only? what part did you not get the she and her lover shamelessly exhibits inappropriate behavior with your kid around bruhhh
I find it funny that when OP went to his in-laws to tell them about the matter, his wife said it was a "private matter" and to not involve anyone. Is that's so, why did she involve another man's most private area in hers while she was leeching off of a man she never deserved for 15 years?
No way Op almost screwed himself by not just telling the kids what happened
Smart tv is so real for that
Never let the cheater control the narrative. It's like letting the criminal decide what their punishment should be for their crime.
I had a dude tell me this story last month on a sub.....the exact same story.....a couple things were off, but almost identical.
It was his gay best friend, not hers. Also it had some pics involved. But same exact scene. This is crazy, either TV's are better than PI's or this is the same dude I gave a spirit to on the train.....
It’s bc now tvs connect to peoples phones
AI is getting really crafty lately
This story is AI
When lies go on for too long, people get complacent
She had more of a relationship and love for her friend than her husband. Her hasband was just stability.
Guys like this have me scratching my head sometimes you’ve just found out she’s been lying to you for 15 years and you’re gonna trust her to tell your kids the truth
I’ve never understood why the betrayed person never speaks out first to stop the betrayer from spinning the narrative
Yup he was just the provider and Matt was the bad boy.
It's amazing how some people think that their affairs are some kind of drug they can't give up. The woman has an affair for 15 years and only after having a chance to come clean she tries to set herself up as the victim. And then in the second story the woman's parents try to downplay it all.
How could she disrespect the sacred value of marriage
Story 1, how did OP not get a paternity test on his daughter after being shown multiple times what a liar and gaslighter his crappy wife was?
Sometimes people just don't want to know. That and sometimes they don't care, especially if they've raised the kid for years. Blood or not, that's their baby no matter what, so they don't feel the need to
You see, I hate that "Syndrome of Dualism" that modern women have. Some women think that they need 2 men, one to sustain in life affairs (money, siblings, etc) and another to sustain in sexual affair. This is so disgusting. Women that think like that need to live the worst to change their mentality, and no regrets when they pass through the worse .
15 YEARS!? Were boxing IDC
15 YRS AND THE ONLY THING U DO IS DIVORCE??? how about know here he drinks and maybe something just happen
really still giving her 50 % of child??? how about visitation and get child support. and make sure to sue ap as well
The Smart TV was a paid actor.
Story 1 she was evil, you were literally nothing but her safety net while she was in a relationship with someone else. Solely married for a lifestyle she wanted and baby trapped you while staying in her real relationship
Amy is disgusting greedy, she wanted both OP and Matt and when confronted she was selfish in playing things down and not being 100 with the kids. What a pig
Why is she not divorcing her husband? 15 for fun? For xes? For thrill? For what?
Never let the liar and cheater tell the story.
Man n woman can't be friend, bigest red flag
Get full custody
first story sounds fake. second story, defs file for full custody.
She crying because she has to get a job
16:42 A four year old student? That's ridiculous!
Nursery school or head start?
If the 15 year casual relationship means nothing yet you chose to do that knowing it will end your marriage how does that not make the marriage less than nothing?
Also she offered to end that casual side thing? At the hotel? No way. She will keep it up and is at her boyfriend's house.
Story 1: The wife has been in an affair for longer than i’ve been alive
Zero custardy for the last story supervised visitation perhaps once the son is older custody can change but at the current age zero custody as she has already proven to be willing to do inappropriate things in frount of hun
Women's greatest weakness is accountability.
Ok, noted, childhood friends are dangerous...
S2
God these 304s have no shame
(If this story is true)
Imagine being the real OP & typing this out, just to have an AI present it.
He takes her word the kids are his? Wtf yeah shes telling the truth
DNA testing right away
Women facing consequences of their actions is my favourite genre of fiction.
its not fiction. its every day reality.
WOOOOW two losers managed to find each other and make the lives of everyone around them miserable. I’m almost impressed
Look never listen to the lawyer saying that your which train will be traumatized or women will pick your children to saying that you are the cheater always tell them even if they hate their mother or get traumatized it's better than to be in with a mother that
Ngl, if Matt happened to get a good job, she would probably leave OP
Wow, the second story how are you going to monitor what your son is exposed to if you let the woman who exposed him to those adult actions maintain custody?
Exactly. When OP finds out that his son has been removed from his STBX-wife, by the authorities, and either placed in foster care or a therapeutic children's home out of state, he'll realize that he should've gotten full custody.⚠️
Women will always externalize blame. Always. Most cannot and will not accept responsibility for anything. Then Deflect, Accuse, Reverse Victim and cheater.
Is the numbers after the names their ages?
Aside from the fact that these stories are unbelievable, that background was REALY ANNOYING.
Pleading my butt, if she had commitment issues then it's a loss loss to get back with her lol
Edit: See, she goes to her lover after she said she cut contact with him, what a joke.
Maybe a deadbeat is her type 😂
Why are their parents involved everyone is cooked 😂💀
DNA test ?
1 always tell your kids the truth about your partner’s infidelity especially more so if your a man because women will manipulate their kids to help their needs 100% of the time
13:50 is OP supposed pretend he's in another country for a couple years while His wife gets off punishment free
Those kids aren’t his. 15 years? Lmao. Nope
Well I’m the first story if you weren’t such an alcoholic in denial, maybe this wouldn’t have happened. You were so drunk you missed sign after sign, IF this was real and likely isn’t
Why are all these guys drinking and driving?
15 year affair, what!!!!!!
EXW is a master manipulator... seems to have always been.
I’m confused they had guests over and it was never stated that they left so we’re their friends there or did they just disappear?
Bedroom couch?
"I don't know how she thought she'd never get caught."
Dude, you had the blinds in front of you for 15 years. Of course she's going to be confident after so much success. It was by complete chance you even suspected something was off that much later, not for her behavior or a slip of the tongue.
FBI Agent win
Yea i would go for why modern men are getting overseas wives (passport bro) for 2000
All these stories seem fake cause every time the child is with thier grandparents and is at a friends. Like every time? 😂