Thanks for discussing my topic request! 👍 😊 My family is still getting used to my pronouns but they are trying. I didn’t think my brother understood what it meant, until he surprised me nearly a year after I came out and wished me a happy July 14th, National Non-Binary Day! I started to cry! 💝
It doesn't matter to me personally. But I do hate with a passion when people call me ma'am it really makes me feel old. But since I'm Gender-Fluid( I recently came out as Gender-Fluid ) I noticed that is starting to bother me more. If that makes sense.
And can I ask what is the difference between choosing a pronoun or title like "gender fluid" and just dressing and expressing whatever you feel like that day? Why does it need a name? I don't Identify as straight or male. I just am that. Can't people who want something different just be that? Like I don't feel any type of way if someone were to think I'm gay? And if I felt like being more feminine and dressing a certain way I'd just do it. I wouldn't need to label myself so why should anyone else. And to be clear I'm just a curious open minded person. I just think this whole labeling thing is the absolute worst thing you could do.
4:36 no you shouldnt, Identifying yourself as one thing is one thing, but forcing others to do is another, the whole point of acceptance is for a lack of a better way to put it, is nobody gives a toss, by forcing it down everyones throats all its gonna produce is kickback and blowback over something that is a non issue for most, like if you got problems and troubles with your gender and your identity that is one thing, but dont force it on others. as all you do is single yourself out and make your situation worse, as 9 times out of 10 this stuff is a result of a low lack of self confidence or just basic teenage angst at a young age and you'll NEVER live it down and regret alienating your friends like that especially at a young age like that, where the worst thing you can do is single yourself out when your at your weakest like that, or even regret changing your gender either figuratively or literally based on what might be a passing thought or Phase like what happened with that youtuber SaltyAlty who went from a girl to a guy and then back again thanks to too many people refusing to just give her a reality check as most people dont steady down or really settle down with what they are until the mid 20's, like wait until then until declaring something so you really know that you are. as many dont and regret it latter
I literally hardly ever hear my pronoun in normal life. Most people ask your name and call you that. And the few times it is used it isn't important. Can't everyone just agrer that it's just normal language to call someone by the pronoun they most closely resemble? Can't you just move on with your day? Who cares. I don't get my panties in a bunch when someone calls me She but I also don't look like one so it never happens. It's just strange to the rest of the world and just feels kind of whiny. Just be a person.
Hey! K loved the videos and I thought about you Soo search you up (thinking you completely stopped uploading. Haven’t seen any new videos from you in months & somehow I was unsubscribe) and I heard since you grew up Middle East gay where are you from? My gf’s father is from Iran & her mother is Australian & has only lived there in Australia. (And she is gay af❤)
i find the pronounce thing hard. especially when im and probably many others are used to him and her. like how am i supposed to know what people are without getting corrected i guess you know what i mean. but i have been screamed at once alreddy for adressing someone as she. i mean how was i supposed to know. but hey keep this lgbtq fridays going. im able to learn something every now and then :) You go K!
I don't think anyone should be mean or aggressive, because, like you said, how are you supposed to know if you don't ask? I enjoy making these videos and will definitely keep making them!
much love K cant wait for more chasing satellites music and covers to come out!
Thanks for discussing my topic request! 👍 😊 My family is still getting used to my pronouns but they are trying. I didn’t think my brother understood what it meant, until he surprised me nearly a year after I came out and wished me a happy July 14th, National Non-Binary Day! I started to cry! 💝
you do you man
It doesn't matter to me personally. But I do hate with a passion when people call me ma'am it really makes me feel old. But since I'm Gender-Fluid( I recently came out as Gender-Fluid ) I noticed that is starting to bother me more. If that makes sense.
I will never have to use pro nouns
Cause I would never hang around someone like this
And can I ask what is the difference between choosing a pronoun or title like "gender fluid" and just dressing and expressing whatever you feel like that day? Why does it need a name? I don't Identify as straight or male. I just am that. Can't people who want something different just be that? Like I don't feel any type of way if someone were to think I'm gay? And if I felt like being more feminine and dressing a certain way I'd just do it. I wouldn't need to label myself so why should anyone else. And to be clear I'm just a curious open minded person. I just think this whole labeling thing is the absolute worst thing you could do.
4:36 no you shouldnt, Identifying yourself as one thing is one thing, but forcing others to do is another, the whole point of acceptance is for a lack of a better way to put it, is nobody gives a toss, by forcing it down everyones throats all its gonna produce is kickback and blowback over something that is a non issue for most, like if you got problems and troubles with your gender and your identity that is one thing, but dont force it on others.
as all you do is single yourself out and make your situation worse, as 9 times out of 10 this stuff is a result of a low lack of self confidence or just basic teenage angst at a young age and you'll NEVER live it down and regret alienating your friends like that
especially at a young age like that, where the worst thing you can do is single yourself out when your at your weakest like that, or even regret changing your gender either figuratively or literally based on what might be a passing thought or Phase like what happened with that youtuber SaltyAlty who went from a girl to a guy and then back again thanks to too many people refusing to just give her a reality check
as most people dont steady down or really settle down with what they are until the mid 20's, like wait until then until declaring something so you really know that you are.
as many dont and regret it latter
good vid bro
Appreciate it
I literally hardly ever hear my pronoun in normal life. Most people ask your name and call you that. And the few times it is used it isn't important. Can't everyone just agrer that it's just normal language to call someone by the pronoun they most closely resemble? Can't you just move on with your day? Who cares. I don't get my panties in a bunch when someone calls me She but I also don't look like one so it never happens. It's just strange to the rest of the world and just feels kind of whiny. Just be a person.
Hey! K loved the videos and I thought about you Soo search you up (thinking you completely stopped uploading. Haven’t seen any new videos from you in months
& somehow I was unsubscribe) and I heard since you grew up Middle East gay where are you from? My gf’s father is from Iran & her mother is Australian & has only lived there in Australia. (And she is gay af❤)
i find the pronounce thing hard. especially when im and probably many others are used to him and her. like how am i supposed to know what people are without getting corrected i guess you know what i mean. but i have been screamed at once alreddy for adressing someone as she. i mean how was i supposed to know.
but hey keep this lgbtq fridays going. im able to learn something every now and then :)
You go K!
I don't think anyone should be mean or aggressive, because, like you said, how are you supposed to know if you don't ask?
I enjoy making these videos and will definitely keep making them!