Just referring to the ignorant women. I know the majority of women in the Philippines don't think this way. And not all white men talk that negative talk. Just want to get this out there people. It's always ✌️ ❤. Never had a negative experience in the Philippines from my younger days in Subic, to my older man life in Cebu or Bohol.
Why dnt they think abt white ppl that way blk ppl dnt shoot up the movies that white ppl that shoot up public places schools movies walmart etc so whats your point…you got one lucky one is all it is pina women dnt like black men period ive been told so by pina women and their families forbid it
I’m Black and my wife is from the Philippines. I broke every stereotype thrown her way. Now everyone is silent. And they even have the nerve to ask for money. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's right. You must break all the stereotypes and set the record straight...or you won't be able to live here. Poor wife has to endure it but if you set things straight in the beginning, you will have less problems...from family, distant relatives...even the neighborhood! No joke man!
Was born and raised by a Filipina mom and a West African dad, and my siblings and I suffered from segregation and racism within our maternal family system. Unfortunately, the family’s intentions prevailed and my mom divorced my father, he never wanted to leave or divorce and still supported her financially after the fact, withheld emotional and mental abuse and was told to go away and find someone…she nailed him on a cross when he found himself a wife of our ethnic group in his homeland of Ivory Coast. She demanded that he file an annulment with his new wife and remarry her! Now she sings the song to my siblings that she was never loved and to stay away from the blacks!! This kind of ideology is crippling and traumatic. Let love reign.
My father son is married to a Filipina her parents abandoned her. Yet raised by a blk family but thinks she better than until I deliver a taste of reality. Any words come from a white man mouth is the Bible. Foh! I wouldn't even speak to the willie lynch thought process.
I remember when I was getting my papers ready to marry my wife in 1999; I was at the Cebu City Hall and one Filipino lady working theret gave me a picture of her daughter asking me if I can find a boyfriend for her. Then she said find her a white guy, not black. The funny or tragic thing is I am black. Just amazing the level of stupidity and bigotry. Good thing is my wife and I are still married and have two wonderful children.
Well my friend I got to say unfortunately some of them don't see us as a savior the way they see the white man. But you know brother that's fine with us cause those type of ladies we don't want in our lives.
If you only knew the Night Clubs here in California that would be packed on the weekends with Filipinas who had once been married to Whites, that had brought them to the U.S., And now were divorced inside these clubs with their arms around Black Men. Filipinas aren't inherently prejudice or racist and when we find that they are it is because they've been indoctrinated not just from movies, but someone is normally sitting down with them telling of lies . She said she learned about Black from movies, bad movies. Then stop watching the bad movies about Black and search out some non-fiction and that should set your mental compass back to normal,, And stay away from Whites when they're racist, that helps too m
Living in the Philippines I've been asked by Filipinos(including my Filipina) if I lived near Black people in the U.S. "How scary that would be". I had to ask. Where did you learn this? My Filipina said the news and Facebook and oh yeah her friends Western husband. I can't say I'm shocked. I have a diverse group of expat friends that I hang with. Eventually my Filipina saw that we are all just looking for a better life, love and acceptance, friendship. No matter what color our skin is or what background we come from. btw you have a beautiful family. Peace.
Appreciate you watching my friend and I must say I do agree with you. Hate is something that is thought through out the world. Stay strong and be safe out there, thanks for the compliment appreciate it.
@@josephtvshow7467 I went to school with this filipino women. Her mother told her not to date western men because the only want sex. I'm guessing she was basing it off of many western sex tourists in the Filipines.
Lee, you hit the nail on the head. My wife is filipino and we are happily married. When we first met here in Virginia, her "friends" told her to dump the "tisoy," there are so many white men here. I'm an American of hispanic descent and have done well for myself. Part of the issue, including supporting the old colonialist views is that the Philippines continues to perpetuate a FALSE narrative of white is right. They are doing a severe disservice to themselves and missing out on potentially great life partners. We have a home in Las Pinas and are building another in the providence and plan to use them perhaps a quarter of the year because we will be traveling. I look forward to going there, but at the end of the day, you cannot changes stupid. Best of luck to you and your family. Stay well.
My friend I couldn't have explain what you said any better. Appreciate you watching and keep on doing what you do for your family. God bless brother 🙏.
@@spacesandplacesouttherewho is "THEY?" who are these "DEMONS?" if you're talking about white people just say that! Stop using whites as a scapegoat to your problem.
The world is Anti-African for one major reason and that reason has everything with Europeans owning and operating the psychological state of the world through standards of beauty, standards of so called intelligence and now mass media and ownership of record companies and movie studios. I'm an African and proud of it because being blk just isn't enough to state the level of self love our people should carry within ourselves. I salute you braa'da for making this video with your family.
That colonizer has brainwashed people all over the world to the point they can't even see he has screwed them up and every other so called race, culture of people
Racism?? Its a 2way street sir! In USA there is racist white black and all colors! If you are ignorant enough to think white people are ingrained with racism you aren't aware of anything happening around you! Heck don't even some darker skin lighter skin african Americans have issues with each other
@@robertpearce5553. CORRECTION: "Racism" & "discrimination" are not the same phenomena. "Racism" (BY DEFINITION) typically occurs as part of one group's SYSTEMIC & coordinated efforts to oppress a "subordinate" people group. There ARE NO Black folks collectively oppressing anybody else on the planet. I could share/post several credible social science book titles & online academic presentations on the definition, history, & psychology of "RACISM." but my experience has been that YT will erase the entry (because they want the populace to remain ignorant, dumb, & uneducated).
@@robertpearce5553 having lived in NYC, Israel, and Manila I’ve personally been in the receiving end of senseless prejudices racial, ethnic, religious and have seen it in every possible direction. The fallibility of man is a constant factor with variables wherever you go. Some times it’s more concentrated perhaps in provincial areas with less anonymity. Good to not be too thin skinned but aware. We have to teach our children regardless of race, class, education etc to cope with rejection.
Thank you, I am a black 65 year old woman from the us. My son lives in Bohol Philippines his wife of four years has a master's degree in business and he owns a very successful online business and a small fast food business there. They have one son and a second on the way. I have never met my daughter-in-law or my only grandson in person because I am disabled and can't travel right now. I pray that I will be able to soon, because they want me to come for a visit first and see if I would consider moving there. Thank you and your wife so much for sharing. PS: your daughter is beautiful and she has her daddy's nose.
I hope you could come soon. Most Filipinos are not racists. A few are. And when they are, they could be racist not only against blacks but also against fellow Asians and even whites. But don’t get it in the way of your plans for visiting and, possibly, residing here. I too have been discriminated against in the US both by white and black people. But it did not prevent me from liking the US or going back there again. I’m Filipino and a resident of the Philippines.
I too am married to a Filipina, we have been married for over 8 years and together for 14 years. Now, I never thought about racist views from indigenous Filipinos, because every time I went there I was treated by her family as part of her family, however in the USA, many Filipinos come here and pick up racist behavior. An example was her aunt living in the San Francisco bay area, when I first met her, my wife was very excited to introduce me to her family there, her mother is from a conservative side, and I was warned from her father's side that I would have issues, but nonetheless, as introductions were said and done, this aunt looked at me and said; "In the Philippines, black people are looked at as pimps, drug pushers, murderers, drug users....." Shocked at this blatant stereotype, I gathered my thoughts and calmly responded..."Well, if I were to go to a prison in the Philippines, and had a chance to look at all the drug dealers, murderers, pimps and so and so.....how many would look like YOU? as opposed to looking like me?".... She never expected such a comeback...silence. Anyway, I have had the opportunity to date many different Asian cultures prior to marrying my wife and for the most part, it was wonderful and exciting to see how we bridge the gap of stereotypes and beliefs and when it comes down to it, we are just another couple that has brushed off racist beliefs and we enjoyed each other's company. I respect Filipinos because they work so hard to care for not only their partner but family values as well. Yes, I'm the only black man in their horde, but i'm treated as family and we all have a good time when we are together....(father's side of the family) Keep positive and you have a beautiful family.
Appreciate you sharing your story brother. Good come back at the mom. It's unfortunate how so many people pick up on the stereo type of black man. In away I do believe they like viewing us as the bad person to lift there status to the people who don't really care for them as much as they don't care for us brothers. But who cares how they view us we know who we are. God bless brother
I actually commented this on another video. Thanks for this insight. I'm a Black South African going to the Manila for 2 weeks on vacation. I will be meeting up with a friend of mine but I hope not to encounter any of these stereotypes over there. I'm a senior engineer who travels around the world implementing projects and I encountered something similar to this in Brazil. I booked a taxi for the week to take me and the white junior engineer from the hotel to the office where we will be working. The taxi driver was a white guy and when it came to paying him, he asked who would be paying and I said that I will. He smirked and said that it will be expensive and if I can afford it, I told him obviously I can. End of the week on the invoice he put the white junior engineers name on the invoice to pay for the weekly trip. I've learned to simply ignore these stereotypes and continue with my life, I can't have them stop me from going forward in life.
Thank you for posting this. I saw the same video and it bothered me a bit. Being a former Navy man I’ve had a lot of interpersonal and professional relationships with the Filipino people and I am always treated very well by both the men and women. Another RUclipsr Sunshine Shoulders: pretty much said what you are saying and I am glad to hear it. Thanks for sharing
I am a 47 year old Black man. I remember during my undergrad years at Fresno State, I had the pleasure of dating a young Filipina. We knew each other from high school actually and at the time, I was a star athlete. We liked each other a lot and dated off and on. She introduced me to her family and I remember eating those eggrolls (Lumpia!!) ALL DAY!! I remember she told me though that her father instructed her NOT to date me for many of the same stereotypes you mentioned in this video. I asked her why her father would say such a thing? She told me that specifically "Black guys beat their women AND they don't have good credit." Eventually we stopped dating but not entirely as a result of that. I do remember thinking to myself though that "I don't wanna fight that fight just to be able to date a woman. It's hard enough in this world just being a Black man ESPECIALLY in America. Let me go find me a Sistah of my own that won't fight me on this level of thinking." Oddly enough........years later I discovered that our own Black women don't want us either!! RIP Kevin Samuels💯
I'm so sorry you experienced that. I'm a black woman and I love and stand by my black husband. Not all of us are the same. Don't judge by color, judge by character.
Amen Brother Amen Great Video i totally agree with you ,and its amazing how many people out there That are followers . And Never Think for themselves -Thanks for the Video and your wife and Beautiful daughter.
Been married almost 30 yrs now I took a chance going there not knowing what the future was for us .Everything exceeded expectations. Congrats to you both.
Yeah I came across that video on RUclips too,and was also bothered a little by it, My wife who is Filipino and I all we could do was laugh and shake our head,because you are right it’s ignorance.
I'm a 60-year-old black man about to be 61 in April and I was treated well in the Philippines even though I saw some that acted funny toward black men speaking of the women there but not many. I happen to love the Filipino people. And I've been being an ex-betron are being a veteran I mean I'm not an ex-factor, but I've been to the Philippines Thailand almost around the world and I have no problem with Filipino women but I think that a lot of that comes from foreigners meaning the Europeans and even the whites that are here in the US when they go to these countries they tell those women not to talk to black people not to talk to black men we don't take care of our children we beat our women and we do this and we do that and we don't take care of our kids when every other race on this planet does the same thing that they're describing they make us the point of their conversations when it comes to anything negative about our people. But it's nothing really we can do it's up to that individual to take the time out and look at an individual and job that judge them by their character and who they are as a human being.
Thats because those European and White Americans are insecure and intimidated by Black men. They know what happens in that bedroom and how we make women feel 🤣
Yes, I am black latino man and from Puerto Rico. I dated a filipina before and she was always asked by other filipinas... " why a black man?". She always responded that I am different. It never failed and later I had to let her know her friends were flirting with me. At the beginning she was a little worry, because she explained to me her ex husband also used to tell her all kind of bad things about blacks.
The first time I visited the Philippines with my Filipina, when we came back home to the US, my friends and family wanted to know if everyone looked at me strangely while I was over there. To which my Filipina replied: "No, they look at me. By myself, I look like every Filipino. No one pay me attention. But with Joe, they know he is a foreigner, and they call me Miss and open the door for me, people at the bank want to assist me right away. Without Joe I will be ignored." One of my friends asked: "So he's a status symbol?" "Yes," my ex-school teacher Filipina replied. "He lift my status very much." The second thing I would like to say is, we were treated like royalty. I don't speak Tagalog but everyone seemed to like me. Especially when I made them laugh. They found me very friendly and became even more warm and friendly towards me. We were in the province so I don't deny catching a strange sideways glance or two. But, overall - province or Iloilo City - I will die with memories of my Filipina and our trips to her country as being most wonderful highlights in my life.
Have not experienced filipino racism yet and got nothing but love from filipino people except from maybe one or two airport workers. I have had no problem dating or attracting filipinas either. A shame anyone has to go through the nonsense especially outside of western culture
@@smoothlee64 I keep reading your responses to people in your comments and I just want to commend you, with the non-existent powers I behold lol, for spreading love and promoting understanding and representing brothers well on the worldwide stage. Thank you brother
It don't matter if your black or white, A wife can never truly love you like you want, because you are required to meet a set of conditions. Only a mother truly loves you. Mike Tyson Quote: Everything your wife does for you is for her survival. Everything your mother does for you is for your survival.
@Shania Gib In the USA 50% of marriages end in divorce. 80% of divorces are instigated by women. So generally, men do stick it out through thick & thin. That statement was obviously a generalization, Yes it's not ALWAYS, however, it's just the vast majority as proven by statistics & science.
You are spitting some real stuff right here,man. So glad to know that your wife is actually free from colonizer. Only a few of us got the freedom(the real freedom) most of the Filipino here in the Philippines up to today are until still at prisoners* (IDK if it's the right word) by the colonizers, and thinking they actually achieved freedom but they didn't. GL to you and your family... Keep it up..
These types of videos are so insightful. Thank you for sharing. It has been a dream of mine to visit the Philippines. My primary doctor for over 20 yrs is from there. I have just heard that Black women are not welcome and gay black women even less. But I see the stereotypes are everywhere. We heard that about Africa and our visit there was absolutely amazing. God bless you and your beautiful family.
Education, educate them brother - BEAUTIFUL !!! You have a new subscriber sir !!! I married my wonderful Filipina wife in August of last year. Because of covid, we've been separated two years next month. We are finally reuniting this spring. You have a wonderful family !
My friend congratulations on the marriage, Filipina ladies are some of the best women you can find out here. I was very fortunate to find my wife. Thanks for watching and subscribing.
My life partner is Filipina as well and it’s definitely a cultural ignorance. Luckily I’ve had many conversations with her about these same types of stereotypes and just certain things that I see not just towards us but in their culture as well that don’t make sense like how they deal with family issues , and personal issues and I think you’re right we as a culture as so similar we’re probly the most fit to date a Filipina or marry a Filipina, there is just enough on both ends to balance out the other. My favorite part about being with a Filipina is being able to break that stereotype and being able to get her to see things from point of view and she’s told me I’ve grown bc of you , some of things we grow up thinking about black guys and certain topics are just not right but in the Philippines that’s what we’re taught so let them get to know us and it’s nice that being around me could possibly spread amongst the an entire group .
@@smoothlee64 Salamat kuya , I always think it’s interesting to hear other black men with Filipinas point of view that actually live with one on a day to day . We experience it
I went to the bank and changed my coins. The couple next to me said I was poor. I am a black man in the Philippines. I did not respond to them. I will never correct someone who knows everything. All I can tell you, I hope they will respect others.
You and your wife are so adorable together! Please keep this man! Y’all’s daughter is so adorable too! Wonderful little family! ❤️ Great video! I’m biracial black white and Asian. I completely understand
So glad to hear this. I've heard so much about how great Filipino women are, and have started talking to a few, but I'm always wondering if they're taking these black stereotypes to heart. Thanks for the different perspective.
@@smoothlee64 will keep supporting! Where are you from in Caribbean? My late first wife was from Barbados . I went to a SDA Church in Brooklyn for about 8 years and parishioners were from all the Islands.
Filipino pea said some crap like that on her channel. I had been a subscriber for a year at that time. I unsubscribed from her channel. It is good to hear from an Afro Filipino family. I have Subscribed to Your channel Much Respect R. Mack An Elder
Pea's fan base is the zaddy simp crowd. She has to maintain that for her bread and butter. Meanwhile, I, as a black american man, have not experienced racism in the PI. ...not even much by filipino americans here in the states. That's a testament to a people that have been colonized so many time throughout history. Especially as a majority catholic country being bombarded with white images of Jesus. I'll quickly remind a racist Filipino on how Koreans look down on them the same way....IF I ever came across any.
Normally it's the other way around or some just directly ask you for money. I know this comment has been a year, but I hope you met her in person. It sounds like she is a keeper.
I left a comment in the Filipina Petite video and I will say it here. I have traveled the world and all women want a man to protect and take care of them. I feel there is a small group of Filipinas that do share her view in the video but that is everywhere. Trust me the good blackmen would have Zero problem finding a good Filipina if that is what they are looking for. But you can't be mad at her for pointing it out. This is how we breakdown social barriers. Not mad but now you know.
You cannot stop prejudice, I totally concur with your sentiment. I’m at a loss why it creates such outrage. We know that a large majority of wealthy western black men date and marry white women for varying reasons. It is what is …be a good man and everything will flow. 🙏
Excellent points. Please enlighten zoom to thailand..he is severely lacking in a foreign country. He has no idea what that #asian life really be about frfr!!! Excellent channel and your quick dissertation was well spoken and quite erudite. Stay strong and keep representing the REAL way for Brothers worldwide!!
Greeting and Blessing Lee, First you have beautiful daughter, 2nd thank you for doing this video showing how ignorant some people are also shows how the the world sees the black man on television. Thank you again an love your name .
Thank you two soo much it gives me happiness to know that our cultures are not ignorant to what is actually happening, and its only to keep us seperated and confused. One day i too will make my way to the 🇵🇭's and help my brothers to continue to destroy the lies that being told by the real criminal.
This is just my take on it my friend. This preference for white men in the Philippines isn't racially motivated, but rather classist originally. Spain made sure that their white citizens are considered superior, to the point that fair skinned Filipinos were given preference compared to darker skinned Pinoys. This fed into tribal thinking that dark skin equals field worker, therefore poor. While fair skinned means resting under roofs, hence rich. Filipinos can be bias against darker skinned people, even if they are Filipinos too. Now when the Americans came, they perpetuated these thoughts further. There are even American newspaper clippings that depicted Filipinos as the same as "uneducated Africans" and therefore have to be liberated from their "savage" roots. So these thoughts remained strong to this day. What I can say is that while Filipinos still have a strong preference for white skinned foreigners due to these misteachings (ie wanting a fair skinned child), NO FILIPINO will ever regard a black man as "less" than him/herself like the white racists do. Most instances of racism in the Philippines is based on crude humor, never hate.
I love solid loving family that stand for us good men n women who are sane and naturally works for the best of life and not puppets of the “truely ignorant portions of majority media n news “ much love to you three lovely family
I know the post that you are talking about that she did, and I would like to say to you thank you for what you posted in response. I also responded to her explaining how the colonizer has changed her thinking process when it comes to how she feels. Thank you.
Brother I commend you for telling your truth about that subject. The best part about your analogy was expositing the origin of the myth. Their are a few that spew the hate and that it actually exist.
I personally think ANY woman who thinks those kinds of things about us black men?....they'll NEVER know what its like to be with a resourceful, intelligent, quick thinking, creative, and mentally efficient being!...Oh well....THEIR loss!!
I think I know the video you're talking about. I thought it was biased too. I grew up around a bunch of Philippine people and NEVER had a problem. In fact because of them it's the reason I want to move there.
I was in the Navy in the 60s 70s and very familiar with Olongapo/Subic bay. I did not find Filipino woman that beautiful, in fact they were the less attractive on the south China sea realm. I had great liberty calls in that port.
The thought Is from Esau, keep in mind this is the way that 90% of older generation Asians think - They literally have grown up with their parent regurgitating every black stereotype every second and their parents did it to them. Especially if they’re from a different country, Esau has laid his presence in those countries as well and played the part of the hero whispering in their ears and speaks to them about us in a very derogatory manner. Esau will go to Asian countries at 70 years old and get a 19 -year-old wife and ravage them with hatred of the black man - They then carry these ideas of Black people for generations and then pass it on to their children. As a man that was once married to a Filipino and have dated several Asian women, I’ve had this conversation several times and we’ve all come to this conclusion. And regarding the status thing. That person on the RUclips channel you were watching is right, the Esau will drop your status within his eyes when they see you with a black man because they are from the devil and filled with hate, they are demonically influenced and program by Esau and have “Hate” for melanated people for thousands of years, it takes a very strong woman to date a black man, she needs to understand what she’s getting herself into and love that man with all of their soul and being because they know that the person they are with is an amazing person. Esau is a liar, by every sense of the word.
Reading some of the Contents this is an interesting topic to say the least; I am Married to a Cuban Woman, and I am Partially West African. When USA initiated Spanish-American War in late 1800s, Cuba, Philippines, Guam and Puerto Rico were what they lusted after! Those invaders did horrible inhumane atrocities against the Local Peoples of these Countries and of course brought their Hatred With Them! Heroes such as Antonio Maceo, Jose Marti and others in Cuba, Aguinaldo, Jose Rizal in Philippines and others were Valiant against these invaders and some of the Soldiers of invading forces who were not of euro extraction, Mainly of African Descent, went over to the Local Peoples Side and fought to repel euro-american invaders!
People from Philippines that I worked with in United States are great people. I never have any issues with my 🇵🇭 Coworkers because I'm black. I always highly talk about Philippinos. Maybe in Philippines they have a different attitude.
My wife is from Davao City. It's all good here... She made sure no one would have anything to say about me. I love her so much because it didn't matter what other people had to say. She said I am your wife and I will be here to the end. Wow, you can't get that in the US. No way!
It's sad but this is how most of the world views us, especially African Americans in particular. It doesn't surprise me she's been told "x" by her friends. The media plus guys coming from overseas(US) paint us in a negative light.
I just watched one where the Filipina Woman was asked White or Black Man for dating, and it was overwhelmingly White because of cleanliness. 😮 That had to of been taught… sounds crazy!
I get you. I am American. I am mixed race, however I am judged too, if I am middle eastern or Indian. I used get offended. Now I am passed that. No one can define me who I am. Every race has bad apple. End of the day they r not the one paying my bills. I am happily married to a Filipina. Best of luck.
It always backfires when people discover different from the stereotypes, then they look at those who perpetuated stereotypes as evil as they truly are!
While many Filipino women may say they don't want black men, some also say they only want a Korean man or only a Filipino man. Of the ones who want to date a foreigner yes more say they want a white guy but they also say they prefer a younger guy with blonde hair and blue eyes which most guys don't qualify. Even so if a black guy goes over there he will have way more women interested in him than he does at home. Same thing in Japan and Korea even though they are supposedly more racist there. I have only seen a few black guys when I was in the Philippines and each one of them had a beautiful woman with them.
Since my days of being in the Navy and traveling to the Philippines with my wife, your right the preferred choice is white men. But we all know most of them girls would go with whoever can give them an opportunity to live a better life.
I am a filipina-canadian and I have always mostly dated carribean men. im now married to a Trinidadian for 10 years and we have 4 sons together. my family had never entertained stereotypes or racism and are very welcoming! most of my titas are married to guyanese and Trinidadian men, my mother and fathers long time best friends are all carribbean , heck my parents even dated carribeans as well. we love and embrace the culture, (especially the food). I hope to one day bring my children and husband to the Phillipines as we never had been there before and id love for my children and i to get more in touch with our filipino roots !
Good for you and your family, my friend. Two cultures mixed together, Caribbean and the Philippines, can't get any better than that. Please take your kids to the Philippines. It's such a beautiful place for them to visit. We took our daughter there this summer to meet her family, and she had a blast. Thanks for watching. Thanks for your insight, my friend.
This is awesome, i believe that most people from the Caribbean are not racial in their outlook, because a lot of the Islands are mixed, so it is very easy for us to accept others' cultures. I wish you and your family much success.
I live In southeastern Virginia and what I've noticed is older Filipina woman born and raised in the Philippines, who are now in the states and married are usually married to Caucasians. Now U.S. born woman of Philippine heritage who are about 40 or younger don't have a problem dating or marrying black men.
I watched your whole video. What i have discovered about Asia is that most people have a "colonial" mindset which is reinforced by Hollywood. If Hollywood and the entertainment industry says that a Louis Vuitton bag worn by Jennifer Aniston is in, then it makes them feel like they need to look like Jennifer and buy that bag in order to feel "valuable". All the West has to do is continually feed a weak mind with constant imagery (propaganda) until your subconscious believes it's true. Colonialism teaches non whites that whites are the beautiful ones, stronger ones, rich ones, most intelligent ones, while non whites (that would include everyone who isn't of European decent) are ugly, criminal, poor, non intelligent, unacceptable. The reason why colonialism exists is to ensure that there will be a labor force that will take care of the elites i.e. white colonials. A person must "unplug" from the Hollywood and entertainment "matrix" and allow the CREATOR to reveal truth about you. Once you realize that He created you in His very image, you will no longer see yourself as invaluable or inferior. Your outcome will change as well. Who told "you" you are beautiful Who told "you" you are ugly If it was a group of people then.... If it was God....then... You get the picture. Finally, to be fair, growing up, even in my own school, peer group, neighborhood, city, etc there were people who were people who were for me, and there were people who didn't like me (for no reason too). You must focus on the people who love you, and disconnect from those who don't. In this world, among your own people, in your own town, you will have people who like you, love you, and understand you. Conversely, you will have those that don't too. That's the way of the world. Also, I have seen many videos of Asian women on You Tube expressing their disdain for white "Westerners" too. I have heard things like "all they want is sex" to "they have poor grooming standards" to too many are the "rejects" of their country coming over here looking for a woman half their age etc etc. Even "white" western men face cultural negative stereotypes.
wow bro u made that video on my birthday just a new subscriber you hit all the point but us here brothers are still standing no matter how others perceive us in the eyes of the other guy SMH
It's interesting how so many qualities of the positives of Filipinas are lifted up. But this anti black cultural bias is common. I only discovered that when speaking with a filipina and she told me that she wasn't attracted to black guys. It wasn't said in a preference like, "I don't like redheads" but more in a way that was disrespectful to black folk. Interesting to me that many of these filipina women are very much into group think, codependency and a high level of insecurity. It is ignorance and cultural brainwashing. To me that's such a turn off that I just chose not to go with finding a filipina woman. I'll stay single in the US and if I'm going to get remarried God will provide for me a smoking hot traditional believer in Jesus Christ. Otherwise I'm solo.
You hit it right on the head. Most of them believe that if they are seeing with a white man it will up lift their status in their society. No matter the condition or age of that white man. It says a lot about the self hate they have for themselves.
@@smoothlee64 Yes, it does. And you hit it on the head because this girl ended up dating a felon from the US. I'm not saying people shouldn't get a second chance whatsoever but just seeing no issue with dating a white guy that's a felon, ex convict, and "recovering" drug addict says a lot for their ability to discern a good man. Very thought provoking video you made man. You are blessed to have a lovely wife.
Most Filipinos are some of the most gentle, friendly, caring people you ever want to meet, but unfortunately, there are those racially confused ones who are filled with self hatred like we have in the black community world wide.
I understand what Filipina have with Black men. Let me say, if I meet a Black American after I move to the Philippines I consider you a friend and a good person sick of the division in America. The issue is my girlfriend was bullied because of how dark her skin was. The are fed a lie that lighter skin is prettier and she doesn't want her children bullied like she was, and I have got her to quit using skin whitening lotion. So stereotypes are rarely accurate, and I personally wait until we interact to form an opinion
Sorry to hear what your girlfriend is going through. Unfortunately the opposite happened to my wife. When she first came to America, she told me the people she was around made her think she was not beautiful because she was too white too pale for their liking. I had to let her know those people are not your friends if they couldn't see her for what she is, a beautiful and caring human been.
@@smoothlee64 she was bullied in the Philippines by other kids. She's never been to America, and honestly since I am disabled now and don't work, once our legal issues are resolved, I am moving to the Philippines. Frankly I am ashamed of the United States right now. It is full of meanness and division worse than I've ever seen in my 50 years. Plus my parents are gone, and she still has all her family, so I will move to her. I don't care for Manila or Davao, but she lives in Eastern Samaar, and I love it there. I've been there and I enjoy it
When will we understand that “fear of Black men,” is something that runs deep inside non black people, not because we have ever harmed them, but because they know our potential more than we know ourselves - no matter where we enter we end up dominating! You’re absolutely right Mr. Lee, but what puzzles me the most is the hate from non black people towards us despite of never have meeting a black person in their entire life! Imagine we would have killed millions in Vietnam or even bombed Hiroshima and Nagasaki! And then you realize that the true motive is simple and plain - ENVY! I wish you and your family all the best.
Brotha off topic but if I close my eyes and listen to you talk. I hear my favourite actor Denzel Washington! The sound of your voice and how you talk 👍 Amazing!
My Pinay wife and I have have been married since 1979. And we are laughing at everything that you are saying. These type of women, these narrow minded ones appropriate racism from "the other guys" and it robs them of potential happiness. Sad really
Interesting topic. Being from the Caribbean recently had to educate a Filipino on this topic because they were using all those stereo types. I had to let them know that our cultures have similarities. So thanks to you both for challenging this garbage. It's a good thing we don't feel like this against the Filipinos otherwise we wouldn't have so many working and living in our country. 👍🏽
@@smoothlee64. What's his meaning??? He's (Ken Murphy) reminding you that CULTURALLY Filipinos are PSYCHOLOGICALLY CONDITIONED to discriminate against Brown/Black folks (of Afrikan descent).
Also, if you haven't already, you should take your family to the Ati Atihan festival one year in January. Although it was colonized by the Spanish to a festival for "baby Jesus" it's origin is a celebration of peace and friendship between Ati(Aeta) and other Malays.
Hummm... Me Black American married to a Filipina. I really don't care if some Filipina women think that way. These are the people who buy "skin whitening" creams in the Philippines to look white? Laughable! I told my wife when we were in the Philippines, that crap would never fly in America (buying skin whitening creams and calling it that). Most Filipinos have color in their skin and are brown to black themselves and are not white... but if they want to date and marry white, go ahead. There are millions, and I mean millions of Filipinas who will date and marry the brothers if we approach them. White guys love to hear that crap because it strokes their ego that their brainwashing has traveled this far. We have the swag, and all I know is that when my wife friends met me, all they wanted to know was, can they find someone like me? And when we were walking in the malls in Manila and my wife was talking to Filipinas, all they wanted to know was how can they meet someone like me? And when we were walking into shops and stores, and outdoor plazas, and my wife was talking to Filipinas, all they wanted to know was how we met and can they find someone like me? That's the truth.
Salute on your vid. I watched the video I believe you referenced last night. I said to my queen, her video has to be from the 80s. Absolute obliviousness! She admitted to only having limited experience when dealing with men of color. I guess she tried.
Just referring to the ignorant women. I know the majority of women in the Philippines don't think this way. And not all white men talk that negative talk. Just want to get this out there people. It's always ✌️ ❤. Never had a negative experience in the Philippines from my younger days in Subic, to my older man life in Cebu or Bohol.
Subic here 🙏🇵🇭🤭😍
Why dnt they think abt white ppl that way blk ppl dnt shoot up the movies that white ppl that shoot up public places schools movies walmart etc so whats your point…you got one lucky one is all it is pina women dnt like black men period ive been told so by pina women and their families forbid it
I love how you're so sweet to your daughter like you adore her
I’m Black and my wife is from the Philippines. I broke every stereotype thrown her way. Now everyone is silent. And they even have the nerve to ask for money. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It never fail my friend, hate you then they love you only when you can financially help them. Keep your marriage strong brother.
hey lightfighter where are you in the PI , I'm also living here in PI been married for 10 years lets connect.
He's right. You must break all the stereotypes and set the record straight...or you won't be able to live here. Poor wife has to endure it but if you set things straight in the beginning, you will have less problems...from family, distant relatives...even the neighborhood! No joke man!
I suggest dont live mear the family....your lady will be happier most of the time. Visit the family short time only.
I find that black men are on their best behavior when they're with non black women.
Was born and raised by a Filipina mom and a West African dad, and my siblings and I suffered from segregation and racism within our maternal family system. Unfortunately, the family’s intentions prevailed and my mom divorced my father, he never wanted to leave or divorce and still supported her financially after the fact, withheld emotional and mental abuse and was told to go away and find someone…she nailed him on a cross when he found himself a wife of our ethnic group in his homeland of Ivory Coast. She demanded that he file an annulment with his new wife and remarry her! Now she sings the song to my siblings that she was never loved and to stay away from the blacks!! This kind of ideology is crippling and traumatic. Let love reign.
Sorry to hear what you went through my friend. Stay strong and stay blessed.
Well you can tell your siblings the truth.
Wow, that's messed up. Its up to you to not let your siblings be "poisoned"
My father son is married to a Filipina her parents abandoned her. Yet raised by a blk family but thinks she better than until I deliver a taste of reality.
Any words come from a white man mouth is the Bible.
Foh!
I wouldn't even speak to the willie lynch thought process.
Omg!!!..that hurts
I remember when I was getting my papers ready to marry my wife in 1999; I was at the Cebu City Hall and one Filipino lady working theret gave me a picture of her daughter asking me if I can find a boyfriend for her. Then she said find her a white guy, not black. The funny or tragic thing is I am black. Just amazing the level of stupidity and bigotry. Good thing is my wife and I are still married and have two wonderful children.
Well my friend I got to say unfortunately some of them don't see us as a savior the way they see the white man. But you know brother that's fine with us cause those type of ladies we don't want in our lives.
They don’t even realize that the white guys that are over there a white woman wouldn’t give the time of day
@@myronsmith2114 Unfortunately they don't know that
Most Ethnic groups people believe that white people have more opportunities and a higher status society.
If you only knew the Night Clubs here in California that would be packed on the weekends with Filipinas who had once been married to Whites, that had brought them to the U.S., And now were divorced inside these clubs with their arms around Black Men. Filipinas aren't inherently prejudice or racist and when we find that they are it is because they've been indoctrinated not just from movies, but someone is normally sitting down with them telling of lies . She said she learned about Black from movies, bad movies. Then stop watching the bad movies about Black and search out some non-fiction and that should set your mental compass back to normal,, And stay away from Whites when they're racist, that helps too m
I'm black and my brother has been married to a Philipino woman for over 30 years, three children together.
Good for him my friend, he is a blessed man.
How about saying that you are human?
@@davidtesler1198 If I say that would they let me join the country club or not watch me like hawks when I enter a jewelry store?
Awesome thank God
Living in the Philippines I've been asked by Filipinos(including my Filipina) if I lived near Black people in the U.S. "How scary that would be". I had to ask. Where did you learn this? My Filipina said the news and Facebook and oh yeah her friends Western husband. I can't say I'm shocked. I have a diverse group of expat friends that I hang with. Eventually my Filipina saw that we are all just looking for a better life, love and acceptance, friendship. No matter what color our skin is or what background we come from. btw you have a beautiful family. Peace.
Appreciate you watching my friend and I must say I do agree with you. Hate is something that is thought through out the world. Stay strong and be safe out there, thanks for the compliment appreciate it.
Very true
@@josephtvshow7467 I went to school with this filipino women. Her mother told her not to date western men because the only want sex. I'm guessing she was basing it off of many western sex tourists in the Filipines.
murder rate in jamaica is 168 times higher than the rate in japan. maybe she knows something that you dont?
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Lee, you hit the nail on the head. My wife is filipino and we are happily married. When we first met here in Virginia, her "friends" told her to dump the "tisoy," there are so many white men here. I'm an American of hispanic descent and have done well for myself. Part of the issue, including supporting the old colonialist views is that the Philippines continues to perpetuate a FALSE narrative of white is right. They are doing a severe disservice to themselves and missing out on potentially great life partners. We have a home in Las Pinas and are building another in the providence and plan to use them perhaps a quarter of the year because we will be traveling. I look forward to going there, but at the end of the day, you cannot changes stupid. Best of luck to you and your family. Stay well.
My friend I couldn't have explain what you said any better. Appreciate you watching and keep on doing what you do for your family. God bless brother 🙏.
Thankyou for this educational video.
The irony of that is racist people think no better of them behind their backs.
Tell the truth my brother .
That's only true in the US it is not the same in their host country
If Black people REALLY knew their True heritage and worth! We come from greatness and dont have to prove ourselves to ANYONE. Thats it and thats All.
PERIOD. The demons have deceived the world just as satan they claim to despise did.
Black first!
😂😂😂😂😂 cool story
Get it published
That’s true, but we full blown nigas now so the history don’t matter nowadays. UNFORTUNATELY 😢
@@spacesandplacesouttherewho is "THEY?" who are these "DEMONS?" if you're talking about white people just say that! Stop using whites as a scapegoat to your problem.
The world is Anti-African for one major reason and that reason has everything with Europeans owning and operating the psychological state of the world through standards of beauty, standards of so called intelligence and now mass media and ownership of record companies and movie studios. I'm an African and proud of it because being blk just isn't enough to state the level of self love our people should carry within ourselves. I salute you braa'da for making this video with your family.
Grow up you racist idiot look in the mirror.
That’s b.s..y’all are inherently violent and use the race card for everything
The war between Jacob and Esau is till on
@@noeu8414 that is such a true statement
@ Nuchi Blvkk. Thanks to our African ancestors, you and me reason likewise. Nice point from you. God Bless and protect you.
Certain people from the USA's racism is ingrained in their blood, they carry that everywhere they go. Thank you brother !
Appreciate you watching my friend, we have to stay strong.
That colonizer has brainwashed people all over the world to the point they can't even see he has screwed them up and every other so called race, culture of people
Racism?? Its a 2way street sir! In USA there is racist white black and all colors! If you are ignorant enough to think white people are ingrained with racism you aren't aware of anything happening around you! Heck don't even some darker skin lighter skin african Americans have issues with each other
@@robertpearce5553. CORRECTION:
"Racism" & "discrimination" are not the same phenomena. "Racism" (BY DEFINITION) typically occurs as part of one group's SYSTEMIC & coordinated efforts to oppress a "subordinate" people group. There ARE NO Black folks collectively oppressing anybody else on the planet.
I could share/post several credible social science book titles & online academic presentations on the definition, history, & psychology of "RACISM." but my experience has been that YT will erase the entry (because they want the populace to remain ignorant, dumb, & uneducated).
@@robertpearce5553 having lived in NYC, Israel, and Manila I’ve personally been in the receiving end of senseless prejudices racial, ethnic, religious and have seen it in every possible direction. The fallibility of man is a constant factor with variables wherever you go. Some times it’s more concentrated perhaps in provincial areas with less anonymity. Good to not be too thin skinned but aware. We have to teach our children regardless of race, class, education etc to cope with rejection.
Thank you, I am a black 65 year old woman from the us. My son lives in Bohol Philippines his wife of four years has a master's degree in business and he owns a very successful online business and a small fast food business there. They have one son and a second on the way. I have never met my daughter-in-law or my only grandson in person because I am disabled and can't travel right now. I pray that I will be able to soon, because they want me to come for a visit first and see if I would consider moving there. Thank you and your wife so much for sharing. PS: your daughter is beautiful and she has her daddy's nose.
Appreciate you miss, hopefully you will get to the Philippines soon to meet your family. God bless
You would love it there and might not want to leave 😎
Jamaica
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Love.you
I hope you could come soon. Most Filipinos are not racists. A few are. And when they are, they could be racist not only against blacks but also against fellow Asians and even whites. But don’t get it in the way of your plans for visiting and, possibly, residing here. I too have been discriminated against in the US both by white and black people. But it did not prevent me from liking the US or going back there again. I’m Filipino and a resident of the Philippines.
I too am married to a Filipina, we have been married for over 8 years and together for 14 years. Now, I never thought about racist views from indigenous Filipinos, because every time I went there I was treated by her family as part of her family, however in the USA, many Filipinos come here and pick up racist behavior. An example was her aunt living in the San Francisco bay area, when I first met her, my wife was very excited to introduce me to her family there, her mother is from a conservative side, and I was warned from her father's side that I would have issues, but nonetheless, as introductions were said and done, this aunt looked at me and said; "In the Philippines, black people are looked at as pimps, drug pushers, murderers, drug users....." Shocked at this blatant stereotype, I gathered my thoughts and calmly responded..."Well, if I were to go to a prison in the Philippines, and had a chance to look at all the drug dealers, murderers, pimps and so and so.....how many would look like YOU? as opposed to looking like me?".... She never expected such a comeback...silence. Anyway, I have had the opportunity to date many different Asian cultures prior to marrying my wife and for the most part, it was wonderful and exciting to see how we bridge the gap of stereotypes and beliefs and when it comes down to it, we are just another couple that has brushed off racist beliefs and we enjoyed each other's company. I respect Filipinos because they work so hard to care for not only their partner but family values as well. Yes, I'm the only black man in their horde, but i'm treated as family and we all have a good time when we are together....(father's side of the family) Keep positive and you have a beautiful family.
Appreciate you sharing your story brother. Good come back at the mom. It's unfortunate how so many people pick up on the stereo type of black man. In away I do believe they like viewing us as the bad person to lift there status to the people who don't really care for them as much as they don't care for us brothers. But who cares how they view us we know who we are. God bless brother
The true people of that land are black…
@@onajeasheber9424 you are biased
@@JudithSanchez-ht6jn Well? That’s ok . Black Filipino people are kept on the side.
I am BLACK and WE don't have to prove ourselves to NO ONE. We come from Greatness. Thats it and thats All
I actually commented this on another video.
Thanks for this insight. I'm a Black South African going to the Manila for 2 weeks on vacation. I will be meeting up with a friend of mine but I hope not to encounter any of these stereotypes over there.
I'm a senior engineer who travels around the world implementing projects and I encountered something similar to this in Brazil. I booked a taxi for the week to take me and the white junior engineer from the hotel to the office where we will be working. The taxi driver was a white guy and when it came to paying him, he asked who would be paying and I said that I will. He smirked and said that it will be expensive and if I can afford it, I told him obviously I can. End of the week on the invoice he put the white junior engineers name on the invoice to pay for the weekly trip.
I've learned to simply ignore these stereotypes and continue with my life, I can't have them stop me from going forward in life.
Agree
Yes Waren! Don’t let people stopping you going forward in life. Hope you enjoyed my country (that I haven’t seen for decades).
Thank you for posting this. I saw the same video and it bothered me a bit. Being a former Navy man I’ve had a lot of interpersonal and professional relationships with the Filipino people and I am always treated very well by both the men and women. Another RUclipsr Sunshine Shoulders: pretty much said what you are saying and I am glad to hear it. Thanks for sharing
I am a 47 year old Black man. I remember during my undergrad years at Fresno State, I had the pleasure of dating a young Filipina. We knew each other from high school actually and at the time, I was a star athlete. We liked each other a lot and dated off and on. She introduced me to her family and I remember eating those eggrolls (Lumpia!!) ALL DAY!! I remember she told me though that her father instructed her NOT to date me for many of the same stereotypes you mentioned in this video. I asked her why her father would say such a thing? She told me that specifically "Black guys beat their women AND they don't have good credit." Eventually we stopped dating but not entirely as a result of that. I do remember thinking to myself though that "I don't wanna fight that fight just to be able to date a woman. It's hard enough in this world just being a Black man ESPECIALLY in America. Let me go find me a Sistah of my own that won't fight me on this level of thinking." Oddly enough........years later I discovered that our own Black women don't want us either!! RIP Kevin Samuels💯
I'm so sorry you experienced that. I'm a black woman and I love and stand by my black husband. Not all of us are the same. Don't judge by color, judge by character.
That is a falsehood you may want to keep up but you quote KS so I might have known.
@@tulsacaupain2882 Ditto✌🏿💯
Damn man!
You lie.
You guys have a beautiful daughter. Beautiful blend of the two of you.
Amen Brother Amen Great Video i totally agree with you ,and its amazing how many people out there That are followers . And Never Think for themselves -Thanks for the Video and your wife and Beautiful daughter.
Thank you
That sure as hell isn't true near military bases. Black dudes stayed beating up Filipina guts.
Glad I came across this video. Thank you. I’m 32 and is working making the right moves and move to the Philippines.
Been married almost 30 yrs now I took a chance going there not knowing what the future was for us .Everything exceeded expectations. Congrats to you both.
Appreciate you brother, congratulations on 30 years of happiness.
Yeah I came across that video on RUclips too,and was also bothered a little by it, My wife who is Filipino and I all we could do was laugh and shake our head,because you are right it’s ignorance.
Truth brother
I'm a 60-year-old black man about to be 61 in April and I was treated well in the Philippines even though I saw some that acted funny toward black men speaking of the women there but not many. I happen to love the Filipino people. And I've been being an ex-betron are being a veteran I mean I'm not an ex-factor, but I've been to the Philippines Thailand almost around the world and I have no problem with Filipino women but I think that a lot of that comes from foreigners meaning the Europeans and even the whites that are here in the US when they go to these countries they tell those women not to talk to black people not to talk to black men we don't take care of our children we beat our women and we do this and we do that and we don't take care of our kids when every other race on this planet does the same thing that they're describing they make us the point of their conversations when it comes to anything negative about our people. But it's nothing really we can do it's up to that individual to take the time out and look at an individual and job that judge them by their character and who they are as a human being.
Thats because those European and White Americans are insecure and intimidated by Black men. They know what happens in that bedroom and how we make women feel 🤣
Please try to remember that Filipinos are not white at all.
no, they get it from their relatives living in the usa and their experiences there.
Yes, I am black latino man and from Puerto Rico. I dated a filipina before and she was always asked by other filipinas... " why a black man?". She always responded that I am different. It never failed and later I had to let her know her friends were flirting with me.
At the beginning she was a little worry, because she explained to me her ex husband also used to tell her all kind of bad things about blacks.
That's a shame brother, I know how you feel. Stay strong can't let them bring us down.
Mummy looks happy and baby comfortable, that means you are a good husband and father.
Thanks my friend appreciate you
Your daughter is Absolutely adorable homie. Beautiful family. May God keep blessing yall.💯💯
Thank you
I feel sorry for her. Half Bruce Lee. Half Shaka Zulu. Kid is gonna get picked on because of them
The first time I visited the Philippines with my Filipina, when we came back home to the US, my friends and family wanted to know if everyone looked at me strangely while I was over there. To which my Filipina replied: "No, they look at me. By myself, I look like every Filipino. No one pay me attention. But with Joe, they know he is a foreigner, and they call me Miss and open the door for me, people at the bank want to assist me right away. Without Joe I will be ignored." One of my friends asked: "So he's a status symbol?" "Yes," my ex-school teacher Filipina replied. "He lift my status very much." The second thing I would like to say is, we were treated like royalty. I don't speak Tagalog but everyone seemed to like me. Especially when I made them laugh. They found me very friendly and became even more warm and friendly towards me. We were in the province so I don't deny catching a strange sideways glance or two. But, overall - province or Iloilo City - I will die with memories of my Filipina and our trips to her country as being most wonderful highlights in my life.
Are you African American or Pale skinned American? I'm asking to be clear.
@@chaiwajohnson Black American.
Have not experienced filipino racism yet and got nothing but love from filipino people except from maybe one or two airport workers. I have had no problem dating or attracting filipinas either. A shame anyone has to go through the nonsense especially outside of western culture
I used to fight with racist Filipinos they can get really racist but the thing is I dish out the same energy I get but I'm happy you guys found love 💕
Ignore the hate young lady don't waste your time keep doing you. Thanks for watching appreciate you my friend 🙏
@@smoothlee64 I keep reading your responses to people in your comments and I just want to commend you, with the non-existent powers I behold lol, for spreading love and promoting understanding and representing brothers well on the worldwide stage. Thank you brother
You just need to keep it moving. You know the drill. Keep living your best life and I wish life and prosperity for you and yours.
It don't matter if your black or white, A wife can never truly love you like you want, because you are required to meet a set of conditions. Only a mother truly loves you.
Mike Tyson Quote: Everything your wife does for you is for her survival. Everything your mother does for you is for your survival.
Wow
Not true, my mother only thinks for herself.
@Shania Gib In the USA 50% of marriages end in divorce.
80% of divorces are instigated by women.
So generally, men do stick it out through thick & thin.
That statement was obviously a generalization, Yes it's not ALWAYS, however, it's just the vast majority as proven by statistics & science.
With your attitude I can see why you are single not a man. You are a momma boy😢
@@tjacb123456my mom too is selfish. It's all about her not me
What is important for a man is to be successful. Success has got no color. No-one will refuse to date a successful man.
You are spitting some real stuff right here,man. So glad to know that your wife is actually free from colonizer. Only a few of us got the freedom(the real freedom) most of the Filipino here in the Philippines up to today are until still at prisoners* (IDK if it's the right word) by the colonizers, and thinking they actually achieved freedom but they didn't.
GL to you and your family... Keep it up..
These types of videos are so insightful. Thank you for sharing. It has been a dream of mine to visit the Philippines. My primary doctor for over 20 yrs is from there. I have just heard that Black women are not welcome and gay black women even less. But I see the stereotypes are everywhere. We heard that about Africa and our visit there was absolutely amazing. God bless you and your beautiful family.
Education, educate them brother - BEAUTIFUL !!! You have a new subscriber sir !!! I married my wonderful Filipina wife in August of last year. Because of covid, we've been separated two years next month. We are finally reuniting this spring. You have a wonderful family !
My friend congratulations on the marriage, Filipina ladies are some of the best women you can find out here. I was very fortunate to find my wife. Thanks for watching and subscribing.
My life partner is Filipina as well and it’s definitely a cultural ignorance. Luckily I’ve had many conversations with her about these same types of stereotypes and just certain things that I see not just towards us but in their culture as well that don’t make sense like how they deal with family issues , and personal issues and I think you’re right we as a culture as so similar we’re probly the most fit to date a Filipina or marry a Filipina, there is just enough on both ends to balance out the other. My favorite part about being with a Filipina is being able to break that stereotype and being able to get her to see things from point of view and she’s told me I’ve grown bc of you , some of things we grow up thinking about black guys and certain topics are just not right but in the Philippines that’s what we’re taught so let them get to know us and it’s nice that being around me could possibly spread amongst the an entire group .
Preach brother couldn't say what you said any better. God bless you and your beautiful lady 🙏
@@smoothlee64 Salamat kuya , I always think it’s interesting to hear other black men with Filipinas point of view that actually live with one on a day to day . We experience it
Statistics dont lie
I went to the bank and changed my coins. The couple next to me said I was poor. I am a black man in the Philippines. I did not respond to them. I will never correct someone who knows everything.
All I can tell you, I hope they will respect others.
That's a shame brother, stay safe and blessed out there.
You and your wife are so adorable together! Please keep this man! Y’all’s daughter is so adorable too! Wonderful little family! ❤️ Great video! I’m biracial black white and Asian. I completely understand
So glad to hear this. I've heard so much about how great Filipino women are, and have started talking to a few, but I'm always wondering if they're taking these black stereotypes to heart. Thanks for the different perspective.
Not all of them but some of them do believe in whiteness.
Great 😊 topic and covered topic well Lee 🙌🏽 and loved the humor at the outset . Your daughter is a beautiful mix of you and your wife .
@stedye We appreciate you
@@smoothlee64 will keep supporting! Where are you from in Caribbean? My late first wife was from Barbados . I went to a SDA Church in Brooklyn for about 8 years and parishioners were from all the Islands.
Filipino pea said some crap like that on her channel.
I had been a subscriber for a year at that time. I unsubscribed from her channel.
It is good to hear from an Afro Filipino family.
I have Subscribed to Your channel
Much Respect
R. Mack
An Elder
Pea's fan base is the zaddy simp crowd. She has to maintain that for her bread and butter. Meanwhile, I, as a black american man, have not experienced racism in the PI. ...not even much by filipino americans here in the states. That's a testament to a people that have been colonized so many time throughout history. Especially as a majority catholic country being bombarded with white images of Jesus. I'll quickly remind a racist Filipino on how Koreans look down on them the same way....IF I ever came across any.
iam black my girlfriend is Filipina
we meet online
she sends me her savings during corona time after loosing my job
i couldnt believe my eyes
My friend you better hold onto that woman and please treat her right.
Normally it's the other way around or some just directly ask you for money. I know this comment has been a year, but I hope you met her in person. It sounds like she is a keeper.
I left a comment in the Filipina Petite video and I will say it here. I have traveled the world and all women want a man to protect and take care of them. I feel there is a small group of Filipinas that do share her view in the video but that is everywhere. Trust me the good blackmen would have Zero problem finding a good Filipina if that is what they are looking for. But you can't be mad at her for pointing it out. This is how we breakdown social barriers. Not mad but now you know.
You cannot stop prejudice, I totally concur with your sentiment. I’m at a loss why it creates such outrage. We know that a large majority of wealthy western black men date and marry white women for varying reasons. It is what is …be a good man and everything will flow. 🙏
Excellent points. Please enlighten zoom to thailand..he is severely lacking in a foreign country. He has no idea what that #asian life really be about frfr!!! Excellent channel and your quick dissertation was well spoken and quite erudite. Stay strong and keep representing the REAL way for Brothers worldwide!!
Greeting and Blessing Lee, First you have beautiful daughter, 2nd thank you for doing this video showing how ignorant some people are also shows how the the world sees the black man on television. Thank you again an love your name .
Appreciate you brother.
You hit the nail on the head with the other guy spreading negative stereotypes about black men. Unfortunately, educated people think like this also,
Thank you two soo much it gives me happiness to know that our cultures are not ignorant to what is actually happening, and its only to keep us seperated and confused. One day i too will make my way to the 🇵🇭's and help my brothers to continue to destroy the lies that being told by the real criminal.
This is just my take on it my friend. This preference for white men in the Philippines isn't racially motivated, but rather classist originally. Spain made sure that their white citizens are considered superior, to the point that fair skinned Filipinos were given preference compared to darker skinned Pinoys. This fed into tribal thinking that dark skin equals field worker, therefore poor. While fair skinned means resting under roofs, hence rich. Filipinos can be bias against darker skinned people, even if they are Filipinos too. Now when the Americans came, they perpetuated these thoughts further. There are even American newspaper clippings that depicted Filipinos as the same as "uneducated Africans" and therefore have to be liberated from their "savage" roots. So these thoughts remained strong to this day. What I can say is that while Filipinos still have a strong preference for white skinned foreigners due to these misteachings (ie wanting a fair skinned child), NO FILIPINO will ever regard a black man as "less" than him/herself like the white racists do. Most instances of racism in the Philippines is based on crude humor, never hate.
Appreciate you sharing this history my friend. Thanks
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*_This was one of the most well-explained & thought-provoking comments I've ever read 📖! Thank you for that insight!_* 😁🏆
All I know is black don’t crack stereotypes are for the weak 😎
What you just described is the very definition of racism
@@pinkford2 sadly true. This is typical racism that is justified as classism.
I love solid loving family that stand for us good men n women who are sane and naturally works for the best of life and not puppets of the “truely ignorant portions of majority media n news “ much love to you three lovely family
Beautiful family you have man God has blessed you, keep going strong bro👊🏽
I know the post that you are talking about that she did, and I would like to say to you thank you for what you posted in response. I also responded to her explaining how the colonizer has changed her thinking process when it comes to how she feels. Thank you.
Please can you please send me the profile or the name of the lady vlogger thank you.
WHY SOME FILIPINAS DON'T DATE BLACK MEN? | WHAT FILIPINA THINK OF DATING BLACK MEN
BY Filipina Petite
Brother I commend you for telling your truth about that subject. The best part about your analogy was expositing the origin of the myth. Their are a few that spew the hate and that it actually exist.
I personally think ANY woman who thinks those kinds of things about us black men?....they'll NEVER know what its like to be with a resourceful, intelligent, quick thinking, creative, and mentally efficient being!...Oh well....THEIR loss!!
True my friend very true
I think I know the video you're talking about. I thought it was biased too. I grew up around a bunch of Philippine people and NEVER had a problem. In fact because of them it's the reason I want to move there.
I was in the Navy in the 60s 70s and very familiar with Olongapo/Subic bay. I did not find Filipino woman that beautiful, in fact they were the less attractive on the south China sea realm. I had great liberty calls in that port.
I’m a Filipino and my husband is Black. We’re happily married now.
Good for you my friend. Stay blessed 🙌
Thanks for the content, much appreciated
The thought Is from Esau, keep in mind this is the way that 90% of older generation Asians think - They literally have grown up with their parent regurgitating every black stereotype every second and their parents did it to them. Especially if they’re from a different country, Esau has laid his presence in those countries as well and played the part of the hero whispering in their ears and speaks to them about us in a very derogatory manner. Esau will go to Asian countries at 70 years old and get a 19 -year-old wife and ravage them with hatred of the black man - They then carry these ideas of Black people for generations and then pass it on to their children. As a man that was once married to a Filipino and have dated several Asian women, I’ve had this conversation several times and we’ve all come to this conclusion.
And regarding the status thing. That person on the RUclips channel you were watching is right, the Esau will drop your status within his eyes when they see you with a black man because they are from the devil and filled with hate, they are demonically influenced and program by Esau and have “Hate” for melanated people for thousands of years, it takes a very strong woman to date a black man, she needs to understand what she’s getting herself into and love that man with all of their soul and being because they know that the person they are with is an amazing person. Esau is a liar, by every sense of the word.
I'm a black man from Nigeria. I don't want to date another race. God put excess sugar in our black women so I love them like that.
Awesome video, Thanks for sharing!!!!!
Appreciate you
Good stuff!!!! New subscriber here!!!
Thanks my friend
Reading some of the Contents this is an interesting topic to say the least; I am Married to a Cuban Woman, and I am Partially West African. When USA initiated Spanish-American War in late 1800s, Cuba, Philippines, Guam and Puerto Rico were what they lusted after! Those invaders did horrible inhumane atrocities against the Local Peoples of these Countries and of course brought their
Hatred With Them! Heroes such as Antonio Maceo, Jose Marti and others in Cuba, Aguinaldo, Jose Rizal in Philippines and others were Valiant against these invaders and some of the Soldiers of invading forces who were not of euro extraction, Mainly of African Descent, went over to the Local Peoples Side and fought to repel euro-american invaders!
Thanks brother, God bless you and your family!
Appreciate you, my friend
Amen to that as you have to have an open mind about other races and I am your new subscriber.
Appreciate you very much my friend. God bless
@@smoothlee64 you are welcome no problem
This video makes me more enthusiastic about moving to the Philippines. Thank you.
Ignorance leads to stereotyping..
I feel you big brother keep preaching that truth love and respect ❤️❤️❤️👍🏿
People from Philippines that I worked with in United States are great people. I never have any issues with my 🇵🇭 Coworkers because I'm black. I always highly talk about Philippinos.
Maybe in Philippines they have a different attitude.
My wife is from Davao City. It's all good here... She made sure no one would have anything to say about me. I love her so much because it didn't matter what other people had to say. She said I am your wife and I will be here to the end. Wow, you can't get that in the US. No way!
It's sad but this is how most of the world views us, especially African Americans in particular. It doesn't surprise me she's been told "x" by her friends. The media plus guys coming from overseas(US) paint us in a negative light.
I agree with you brother.
I just watched one where the Filipina Woman was asked White or Black Man for dating, and it was overwhelmingly White because of cleanliness. 😮
That had to of been taught… sounds crazy!
I get you. I am American. I am mixed race, however I am judged too, if I am middle eastern or Indian. I used get offended. Now I am passed that. No one can define me who I am. Every race has bad apple. End of the day they r not the one paying my bills. I am happily married to a Filipina. Best of luck.
News to me ! I know of lots of women from the Philippines that are with black men.
They do, just reference to the ignorant once who thinks we are no good.
It always backfires when people discover different from the stereotypes, then they look at those who perpetuated stereotypes as evil as they truly are!
I say that all the time
I have been married to a Filipina women for a number of years, I am a Black man you are absolutely correct in your analogy
While many Filipino women may say they don't want black men, some also say they only want a Korean man or only a Filipino man. Of the ones who want to date a foreigner yes more say they want a white guy but they also say they prefer a younger guy with blonde hair and blue eyes which most guys don't qualify. Even so if a black guy goes over there he will have way more women interested in him than he does at home. Same thing in Japan and Korea even though they are supposedly more racist there. I have only seen a few black guys when I was in the Philippines and each one of them had a beautiful woman with them.
Since my days of being in the Navy and traveling to the Philippines with my wife, your right the preferred choice is white men. But we all know most of them girls would go with whoever can give them an opportunity to live a better life.
My point the view is We are Human and We need to Respect Each other,,
I am a filipina-canadian and I have always mostly dated carribean men. im now married to a Trinidadian for 10 years and we have 4 sons together. my family had never entertained stereotypes or racism and are very welcoming! most of my titas are married to guyanese and Trinidadian men, my mother and fathers long time best friends are all carribbean , heck my parents even dated carribeans as well. we love and embrace the culture, (especially the food). I hope to one day bring my children and husband to the Phillipines as we never had been there before and id love for my children and i to get more in touch with our filipino roots !
Good for you and your family, my friend. Two cultures mixed together, Caribbean and the Philippines, can't get any better than that. Please take your kids to the Philippines. It's such a beautiful place for them to visit. We took our daughter there this summer to meet her family, and she had a blast. Thanks for watching. Thanks for your insight, my friend.
I'm from the Caribbean Island of Montserrat, 🇲🇸 and I'm thinking of giving the Philippines a visit in the future, God bless you both.👍🏿
This is awesome, i believe that most people from the Caribbean are not racial in their outlook, because a lot of the Islands are mixed, so it is very easy for us to accept others' cultures. I wish you and your family much success.
I live In southeastern Virginia and what I've noticed is older Filipina woman born and raised in the Philippines, who are now in the states and married are usually married to Caucasians. Now U.S. born woman of Philippine heritage who are about 40 or younger don't have a problem dating or marrying black men.
I watched your whole video. What i have discovered about Asia is that most people have a "colonial" mindset which is reinforced by Hollywood. If Hollywood and the entertainment industry says that a Louis Vuitton bag worn by Jennifer Aniston is in, then it makes them feel like they need to look like Jennifer and buy that bag in order to feel "valuable". All the West has to do is continually feed a weak mind with constant imagery (propaganda) until your subconscious believes it's true. Colonialism teaches non whites that whites are the beautiful ones, stronger ones, rich ones, most intelligent ones, while non whites (that would include everyone who isn't of European decent) are ugly, criminal, poor, non intelligent, unacceptable.
The reason why colonialism exists is to ensure that there will be a labor force that will take care of the elites i.e. white colonials.
A person must "unplug" from the Hollywood and entertainment "matrix" and allow the CREATOR to reveal truth about you. Once you realize that He created you in His very image, you will no longer see yourself as invaluable or inferior. Your outcome will change as well.
Who told "you" you are beautiful
Who told "you" you are ugly
If it was a group of people then....
If it was God....then...
You get the picture.
Finally, to be fair, growing up, even in my own school, peer group, neighborhood, city, etc there were people who were people who were for me, and there were people who didn't like me (for no reason too). You must focus on the people who love you, and disconnect from those who don't. In this world, among your own people, in your own town, you will have people who like you, love you, and understand you. Conversely, you will have those that don't too. That's the way of the world.
Also, I have seen many videos of Asian women on You Tube expressing their disdain for white "Westerners" too. I have heard things like "all they want is sex" to "they have poor grooming standards" to too many are the "rejects" of their country coming over here looking for a woman half their age etc etc. Even "white" western men face cultural negative stereotypes.
Appreciate your insight brother, thank you.
nah, every hollywood film pretty much made in the last 30 years shows black people as high achievers, great neighbours etc
wow bro u made that video on my birthday just a new subscriber you hit all the point but us here brothers are still standing no matter how others perceive us in the eyes of the other guy SMH
Appreciate you brother 🙏
It's interesting how so many qualities of the positives of Filipinas are lifted up. But this anti black cultural bias is common. I only discovered that when speaking with a filipina and she told me that she wasn't attracted to black guys. It wasn't said in a preference like, "I don't like redheads" but more in a way that was disrespectful to black folk. Interesting to me that many of these filipina women are very much into group think, codependency and a high level of insecurity. It is ignorance and cultural brainwashing. To me that's such a turn off that I just chose not to go with finding a filipina woman. I'll stay single in the US and if I'm going to get remarried God will provide for me a smoking hot traditional believer in Jesus Christ. Otherwise I'm solo.
You hit it right on the head. Most of them believe that if they are seeing with a white man it will up lift their status in their society. No matter the condition or age of that white man. It says a lot about the self hate they have for themselves.
@@smoothlee64 Yes, it does. And you hit it on the head because this girl ended up dating a felon from the US. I'm not saying people shouldn't get a second chance whatsoever but just seeing no issue with dating a white guy that's a felon, ex convict, and "recovering" drug addict says a lot for their ability to discern a good man. Very thought provoking video you made man. You are blessed to have a lovely wife.
@@michaelking4578 Thanks brother appreciate you
Much Love and blessings to you all from above. May your beautiful little treasure grow to be an even greater display of your love.!!!❤️💕
Most Filipinos are some of the most gentle, friendly, caring people you ever want to meet, but unfortunately, there are those racially confused ones who are filled with self hatred like we have in the black community world wide.
Blessings to you. Good info for all.
I understand what Filipina have with Black men. Let me say, if I meet a Black American after I move to the Philippines I consider you a friend and a good person sick of the division in America. The issue is my girlfriend was bullied because of how dark her skin was. The are fed a lie that lighter skin is prettier and she doesn't want her children bullied like she was, and I have got her to quit using skin whitening lotion. So stereotypes are rarely accurate, and I personally wait until we interact to form an opinion
Sorry to hear what your girlfriend is going through. Unfortunately the opposite happened to my wife. When she first came to America, she told me the people she was around made her think she was not beautiful because she was too white too pale for their liking. I had to let her know those people are not your friends if they couldn't see her for what she is, a beautiful and caring human been.
@@smoothlee64 she was bullied in the Philippines by other kids. She's never been to America, and honestly since I am disabled now and don't work, once our legal issues are resolved, I am moving to the Philippines. Frankly I am ashamed of the United States right now. It is full of meanness and division worse than I've ever seen in my 50 years. Plus my parents are gone, and she still has all her family, so I will move to her. I don't care for Manila or Davao, but she lives in Eastern Samaar, and I love it there. I've been there and I enjoy it
Yes, you are correct. People should be smarter now than the before. Education is the key, I'm black and my companion is Filipana, she is educated.
Having someone with knowledge is always important to be with my friend. Bless you and your beautiful wife.
When will we understand that “fear of
Black men,” is something that runs deep inside non black people, not because we have ever harmed them, but because they know our potential more than we know ourselves - no matter where we enter we end up dominating! You’re absolutely right Mr. Lee, but what puzzles me the most is the hate from non black people towards us despite of never have meeting a black person in their entire life! Imagine we would have killed millions in Vietnam or even bombed Hiroshima and Nagasaki! And then you realize that the true motive is simple and plain - ENVY!
I wish you and your family all the best.
I agree with everything you say my friend.
U don't dominant economics tho,that for sure.
@@smoothlee64 you the man my brother God bless you and your family my dude
@@smoothlee64 thanks for the heart brother I'm looking at this one phillapina woman she is sexy 😍 too
Brotha off topic but if I close my eyes and listen to you talk. I hear my favourite actor Denzel Washington! The sound of your voice and how you talk 👍 Amazing!
My Pinay wife and I have have been married since 1979. And we are laughing at everything that you are saying. These type of women, these narrow minded ones appropriate racism from "the other guys" and it robs them of potential happiness. Sad really
Wow 🤩😍 almost my age! Congratulations for your 46y marriage 🥳 Wish you both many years more of happiness and love!
Smoothlee your funny on how you present your opinion. Hatred is alive and well in the Philippines.
Interesting topic. Being from the Caribbean recently had to educate a Filipino on this topic because they were using all those stereo types. I had to let them know that our cultures have similarities. So thanks to you both for challenging this garbage. It's a good thing we don't feel like this against the Filipinos otherwise we wouldn't have so many working and living in our country. 👍🏽
It's always important to try and educate people on these topics but truly it shouldn't always fail on us to correct them. Appreciate you brother
@@smoothlee64 Word!!!
@Ken Murphy - The Village Arsonist What's your meaning
@@smoothlee64. What's his meaning???
He's (Ken Murphy) reminding you that CULTURALLY Filipinos are PSYCHOLOGICALLY CONDITIONED to discriminate against Brown/Black folks (of Afrikan descent).
@@SoundScientist1 My friend some Filipinos discriminate against their own because of skin tone. So what do you think 🤔
You are absolutely right. I sent her responsible criticism in regards her racist comments towards us. She removed my comments.
Some people can't handle the truth
Filipino girls be all over me and I'm 65 a black man once you go to the Philippines you'll see it really doesn't matter with the majority of women.
Nice video brother!👌🏾
Sadly it's not just the Phillipines.
Japan and India is like that too.
The other man is always right: Love how you say that and the response from your wife.
They did a good job brainwashing the world 🌍
@@Rahsaun77 Preach on!
Also, if you haven't already, you should take your family to the Ati Atihan festival one year in January. Although it was colonized by the Spanish to a festival for "baby Jesus" it's origin is a celebration of peace and friendship between Ati(Aeta) and other Malays.
You hit so many things on the head!! I just love yaw!!!!!!!
Thank you brother
They need to realize who is responsible for the negative images.
Hummm... Me Black American married to a Filipina. I really don't care if some Filipina women think that way. These are the people who buy "skin whitening" creams in the Philippines to look white? Laughable! I told my wife when we were in the Philippines, that crap would never fly in America (buying skin whitening creams and calling it that). Most Filipinos have color in their skin and are brown to black themselves and are not white... but if they want to date and marry white, go ahead. There are millions, and I mean millions of Filipinas who will date and marry the brothers if we approach them. White guys love to hear that crap because it strokes their ego that their brainwashing has traveled this far. We have the swag, and all I know is that when my wife friends met me, all they wanted to know was, can they find someone like me? And when we were walking in the malls in Manila and my wife was talking to Filipinas, all they wanted to know was how can they meet someone like me? And when we were walking into shops and stores, and outdoor plazas, and my wife was talking to Filipinas, all they wanted to know was how we met and can they find someone like me? That's the truth.
Salute on your vid. I watched the video I believe you referenced last night. I said to my queen, her video has to be from the 80s. Absolute obliviousness! She admitted to only having limited experience when dealing with men of color. I guess she tried.