Finding your worth will be one of the most difficult undertakings of your life but so well worth it in the end. I promise you ladies the world will be your oyster. Believe me.
Yes. One thing i learned is that no matter how much you listen to her an follow her tips. If the man not right for you it won't work. Speaking from current experience. Pick wisely.
Very true. I have been practicing on my old dusties (2 of then still pursue me but don't have much to offer). I don't take them seriously anymore BUT they have been very handy for me to get comfortable with this new way of life. I can practice my lies, etc.
This is facts. You want to be able to go about your business, relax and take care of yourself then go see or talk to them. It's a trap to have too much communication.
1:37:37 -1:38:28 This part is gold!!! “ I’m strategic about my friendship” “I’m social and anti-social “💯 There are too many people be so clingy about having “friends” around and they are not even ur friends!! Lol I like hang out with value people and myself more🥰
Thank you Shera for this. Women should not give away their power to men and set boundaries and distance themselves. Yes it's hard if you love them but you should love yourself more. Keep it real Shera.
Sometimes you have to heal a legitimate anxious attachment style problem through learning about the psychology of it and how you grew up, a person can’t help being clingy without therapy it’s their programming. I did it- totally changed every aspect of my life.
I found shera and started to level up. I realize the man I was dealing with had too many dusty ways. I left him. Now he set my house on fire! Avoid dust at all costs!
I doubled what I needed and felt a little guilty about it at first. But then on Monday he text me randomly and said “ I’m in business meetings all day today “. Come to find out it was Columbus Day and his place of work was closed. I guess he was taking out his “other one” 😂. Now I’m guilt free with double what I needed.thank god for Shera💫
I found a lot of my caring came from trauma bonds formed.. once I got rid of those type of relationships and healed.. I see so much more clearly and don’t care.. if someone now begins ❤to make those old feelings arise.. they have to go immediately
Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity you the the the you will be a a good man and and to and and to to you be a good friend good friend friend good friend good friend and who ever ever is like a a man better be person a than a good good man who man who friend who is a a a better better better
Yes but keep it all to yourself! Make your world and get lifted as a ritual or an offering to your inner peace! Just don’t go anywhere smelling of 💨 or have any evidence in your car if you will be driving to meet your sd!
Make his nickname validation...Haha lololol. You're hurting my stomach making me laugh! I feel like many men deserve to be treated the way they have treated women.
Every time the “boss” steps out of line I simply add another $ amount to the running total, add it all up by-weekly or monthly and go for a bit of retail therapy with his earnings. It makes me feel so much happier. Should I tell him or nah? Hehehe 😂
Now I feel like listening to Boys 2 men lol! Shera dropping those 💎 jewels! I listen every now and then just to keep my mental leveling up! Sprinkle sprinkle!
I love you Shera💗 Thank you for telling us it is trashy to smoke weed 😂 I lost my Mom and might be a little depressed because I said I would never do it when I was younger 😔 Anyway... It makes me laugh although I know you are serious 👌🏾 Thank you... I will do better ✨
I would not answer that question like sir shut up and pay for my date this is not a job interview i would never say that but in my mind chileee annoyed to the max i’ll be like aw so serious let’s have fun i worry about accomplishing my goals i wanna have fun with u Nd celebrate my goals for
Shera i love your videos and i see your back to doing these loooong lives.. no one can sit or watch that long and its not good for your numbers!! If you gone do the long lives can you reload the live in part 1,2,3,4 so we can make it through it while staying on track ... the reloads gone get more views than the original live cause when people see 4+ hours vs 1hr , the hour videos are easier to incorporate into your day probably even a few times a day..💕😘
🗣️@ min 56 🗣️ How to stop caring…… Also to answer the question, how do I protect my assets before I get married…… Put your assets in a trust if you have real assets before getting married or at the very least always keep a separate account that’s your own
Anywhere that’s outside of your house 😂. Make sure you’re dressed to the Gawds every single time you leave the house even if it’s just to the grocery store. Make sure your friendly and say hey to everyone you pass by, even other women, show that you’re approachable. Men will present themselves.
Girl you have to make time to free style in the nice areas around you. Like schedule it as an appointment if it’s hard for you. Like me, I’m such a hermit, but I’m working on it and that helps me. Unless you’re incapable of leaving your home and it’s a paid site, online dating SHOULD NOT be an option. I don’t remember which video but shera says they basically see you as a one of a millionth of options, scrolling through picking you out like food to eat 🤣 & it makes us look easy. I remember being so overwhelmed online dating a few years back, never again.
@@WildWestLex yes ☝️ this is a good response. And I agree on line dating sucks. Can. you give me more ideas on how you do that please? Like do you go somewhere on your own? For a walk, for a coffee?
There’s a lot of highly paid professionals on bumble especially now in pandemic when they can’t meet women at bars and restos anymore. Just make your filter to having graduate degree only and google their salary if you’re unsure of the profession.
Your very beautiful.. And so am l 😉 . i agree l am my own priority and it feels great. I have some catching up to do also. Loving yourself is time consuming at times. It safe
Your supper cute luv..i love the video glad u said it women need to not think to have a man make them..but to be solid like a rock..bomb with or without a mate..
Start not caring. Start not acting clingy in the same ways and you will create new neuro pathways in your brain!
Finding your worth will be one of the most difficult undertakings of your life but so well worth it in the end. I promise you ladies the world will be your oyster. Believe me.
True
Its extremely difficult...I'm still struggling at the grand old age of 40
Hey
Where do I even start?
@@leaperm3433 learn to say No. put yourself first. Start there and listen to Shera’s videos.
Yes. One thing i learned is that no matter how much you listen to her an follow her tips. If the man not right for you it won't work. Speaking from current experience. Pick wisely.
Indeed, you're right! That's why we need to pick the right target, those who love us more than we do
@@mimid.8346 Periodt they have to love you more!
Very true. I have been practicing on my old dusties (2 of then still pursue me but don't have much to offer). I don't take them seriously anymore BUT they have been very handy for me to get comfortable with this new way of life. I can practice my lies, etc.
Choose the right victim
The art of seduction- Robert Greene
You're definitely right about that. You'll never get what you want or need from the wrong man.
You can start this video at any point and still get solid advice
Period.
💯
So true
Seriously it’s like all of her videos
She always on point 💯
true talk, absence in any kind of relationship Increases respect, ladies be wise .
What if in that space you are absent...they seize the opportunity to go mess with someone else? What do you do then?
@@jazzyposh1566 leave.
@@lanadavis8238 Absolutely x
This is facts. You want to be able to go about your business, relax and take care of yourself then go see or talk to them.
It's a trap to have too much communication.
It's dumb to leave.. you should just let him be lol that's why you aim to get the ring
Exactly! I’m a doctor and I tell men that I am a receptionist. 😝
That’s what I’m talking about! 💯
Go girl!!
I like watching this
Do they pay you money?
That's good. Cause they see doctors as a bag
I was just emotionally drowning… SheRa pulled me out within seconds…..true gem
1:37:37 -1:38:28 This part is gold!!! “ I’m strategic about my friendship” “I’m social and anti-social “💯 There are too many people be so clingy about having “friends” around and they are not even ur friends!! Lol I like hang out with value people and myself more🥰
Thank you Shera for this. Women should not give away their power to men and set boundaries and distance themselves. Yes it's hard if you love them but you should love yourself more. Keep it real Shera.
Love yourself more
Sometimes you have to heal a legitimate anxious attachment style problem through learning about the psychology of it and how you grew up, a person can’t help being clingy without therapy it’s their programming. I did it- totally changed every aspect of my life.
I need therapy for my attachment style
I agree - been in regular therapy 2 years now and in 2017 for some months, my life changes for better, you learn to love and trust yourself more.
You don't heal it. You nip it in the bud. If you're in healing state As soon as you take the bandaid off you got back to the playground
@@chayo4537THIS. you can switch in an instant
You are seriously keeping me from being sad about a dusty.
SheRa is church
You don’t need any of those things. THEY NEED YOU!!! Sprinkle sprinkle 🤧
I found shera and started to level up. I realize the man I was dealing with had too many dusty ways. I left him. Now he set my house on fire! Avoid dust at all costs!
Wtf!!!!????
Wow it will be okay because now you will receive much better.
Wtf 😳
Damn ☹️ sorry to hear that girl.
Omg are you okay?! Dusty’s are so dangerous!
“ I’ve accomplished all the goals I’ve set so far, so I guess my next goal might be you “ 😂 😭 oh thatll do ittttttttt 💰
Since watching Shera, all I need from a man is his money! I used to be a pickmesha. Now, it’s all about the money
I doubled what I needed and felt a little guilty about it at first. But then on Monday he text me randomly and said “ I’m in business meetings all day today “. Come to find out it was Columbus Day and his place of work was closed. I guess he was taking out his “other one” 😂.
Now I’m guilt free with double what I needed.thank god for Shera💫
Maybe he was in business meetings but not at his office? 🤷🏾♀️
@@BLURRRULB facts!!! Should’ve tripled it 🤣
@@MadameQuoi I hear u!
Have more than 1
Shera has changed my life I have become a receiver, I now secure the bag I follow all her tips and they work
Thank you 😊❤️
Where is Oprah?? Shera deserves her own show on Harpo. Let's get it done!! This is real feminism and women empowerment.
I don’t know I have to keep learning the same lessons over and over again. Either I’m insane or a fool for pain.
Have you read Men Don't Love Women Like You?
@@rickimcfarland2269 no, but I sure will! Thanks for the book suggestion.❤️
Write stuff down.Go and practice until you get it right.
@KanyeSlaysUrFav Yet. She hasn't learned yet. But it seems like she's trying to.
I love how Shera empowered me to tap into my own power...she doesn't give us a plan to follow just empowering us to find ourselves and get the best.
“Back up plan” or a “Back up Man”
Loving that!
I found a lot of my caring came from trauma bonds formed.. once I got rid of those type of relationships and healed.. I see so much more clearly and don’t care.. if someone now begins ❤to make those old feelings arise.. they have to go immediately
I have leveled up and am still working on getting better 💃💃🤸👑
U 2
Me 2
Yes ma'am 🙌🏽
Update
I watch you while I run on the treadmill. It’s what keeps me on!!
Same I do the 12 3 30 It makes the time go by 😊
Same
What is that? @@luzpadilla8982
She literally gets prettier every year! We’re at 300k🥳🥳
Class is in session. I am FINALLY learning thanks to Shera ! No.1 woman empowerment coach ;- )
Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity Femininity you the the the you will be a a good man and and to and and to to you be a good friend good friend friend good friend good friend and who ever ever is like a a man better be person a than a good good man who man who friend who is a a a better better better
I bought me a basket of cute things for myself today.
“I gotta go, it’s been too long” *stays for more than one hour more 😂🤣 Shera is so funny
🤣🤣
I've been watching your videos for about 6 years. You have changed my life
Thats a good one act like he's your boss and u will get fired for getting smart
Thumbs up within the first 60 seconds of this Shera! You don’t need them they need you!!👍❤️🙏🏾
Shera was talking about me getting high while watching her lmao but I retain the info so much better. Love you shera!
Ya, her advice hits different high, especially if you have the time to reflect on it.
same!!!
I got cramps, I need this🌿
Yes but keep it all to yourself! Make your world and get lifted as a ritual or an offering to your inner peace! Just don’t go anywhere smelling of 💨 or have any evidence in your car if you will be driving to meet your sd!
Lol
HOW MANY TIMES DOES SHERA HAVE TO SAY RECEPTIONIST, FOR PEOPLE TO GET IT?
🤣🤣🤣
😆 🤣
🏆
😂😂😂😂
Waaaaaaaiiiiit hoooold onnnn
i be listening to this everyday all day my whole life 😂
grandma 😂
This mindset you need to do courses in it n get into the support groups that enable you to put it into practice... it's brilliant....
My love for shera never stops !! She is a night in shining armour !! I love Shera ♥️♥️♥️
I watched all 4 hrs of this live. Loved every second of it ❤ Thank you! Learning alot.
I love her💕 Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨
Make his nickname validation...Haha lololol. You're hurting my stomach making me laugh! I feel like many men deserve to be treated the way they have treated women.
Girl you betta sannng! You got a nice voice go girl btw thank you for reminding us women that we are the prize not the dude.
Every time the “boss” steps out of line I simply add another $ amount to the running total, add it all up by-weekly or monthly and go for a bit of retail therapy with his earnings. It makes me feel so much happier. Should I tell him or nah? Hehehe 😂
YOLO
Yesss
Don’t tell him but yasss girl
I'm trying to do this he doesn't make time for me so i think the least he can do is give me some retail therapy.
Forget retail therapy you need to funnel some of that money lol! Just be smart about it!
Shera you're so beautiful🌹 thanks for teaching ❤️❤️❤️
My period ruins it i start chasing once im on my period i get real needy😭
girl get a vibrator and handle your business in the shower ... im the same exact way.
Hormonal imbalance. Go to amazon.com and get some supplements that go under the tongue.
@@Sweetpea2977 exactly supplements? Not a dirty supple dick 🤮
Had me dying!! Giving cashapp in place of email address. lmbo lol lol
You should do stand up your hilarious lol😂(for fun of course)
Nobody Does it for fun we only do it for money
But really is so serious lol which makes it even more funny 😆
love you ashera and your content! thanks for giving us the facts straight no chaser 💯💜👸🏽
This one is important 💯🎯
Keep dropping gems I learn something everytime
OMG I love the dry erase board!!!!😂😍
No one makes me laugh like shera7
❤️😚
I’m needy af I needed this video lol
Lol, to what’s your opinion Shera “Hell 2 the NAW”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Put me on that cash app address and that cash app rotation. This woman is gold! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The thing is women need to be strategic in choosing our partners. We must get something once we are giving something.
I'm barking it down. I'm thinking you know I plan on Talip somewhere if I aint doing turn it on thy. Hot question now
9:33 - she gave a very good answer
Now I feel like listening to Boys 2 men lol! Shera dropping those 💎 jewels! I listen every now and then just to keep my mental leveling up! Sprinkle sprinkle!
I love Shera and her wipe board😹
Class is in session 🏫 👩🏾🏫
I am Thankful for my husband 🤵🏾♂️🏠👑 and this knowledGe. 💡💯. Sprinkle sprinKle.
Shera is hilarious with her singing stunts about people who chase men who dnt want them😅
Gems 💎 always dropping them Sheera
Delight in your videos.
Thank you for everything you do!
This was hilarious Shera 😂😂😂 oldie but goodie ✨✨
I needed this video like a week ago 😩😒😒🤣
STOP SLEEPING WITH THIS MAN ,SOON YOU ARE RUININNG GAME!!
I have completely stopped sleeping with guys, complimenting them and will soon be enrolled in therapy!
@@rainfields1776 lol love your honesty 😘🤣
@@rainfields1776 Good for you !💜
You are Perfect.
Your sweater is really cute 🥰
I’m hollering I love you ashera
I love you Shera💗 Thank you for telling us it is trashy to smoke weed 😂 I lost my Mom and might be a little depressed because I said I would never do it when I was younger 😔 Anyway... It makes me laugh although I know you are serious 👌🏾 Thank you... I will do better ✨
I would not answer that question
like sir shut up and pay for my date this is not a job interview i would never say that but in my mind chileee annoyed to the max i’ll be like aw so serious let’s have fun i worry about accomplishing my goals i wanna have fun with u Nd celebrate my goals for
fr why they always start getting deep🙄 let me get deep in that wallet first sir!
Shera why are you so funny🤣 lets get you a chalk board😝
Singing along with Shera ... MJ & Boyz to Men
Wishes do come true because she's we the best 🌟
They're going to like you more if you're mean to them?
Hercules...love it 😀
Love you auntie Shera
1:13:20
2:08:20
2:11:52 Potential 2:13:57 2:16:12
By the way Ana is now a really famous one on dating advices in Brazil ❤
Dusty flashbacks at the song
It's the singin' fah me dawg. 😂🤣 The singin' be on point. L0Ls
Pollys Pies where old people go too.
Shera i love your videos and i see your back to doing these loooong lives.. no one can sit or watch that long and its not good for your numbers!! If you gone do the long lives can you reload the live in part 1,2,3,4 so we can make it through it while staying on track ... the reloads gone get more views than the original live cause when people see 4+ hours vs 1hr , the hour videos are easier to incorporate into your day probably even a few times a day..💕😘
I clicked on it because it was long video lol just watch it in shifts lol 🤷🏽♀️
Dude, just pause & come back later... 😒
Pause it and watch it all week , piece by piece ☺️
Says 63k views 😂😜
sheraaa can sing
Thanks for everything
🗣️@ min 56 🗣️ How to stop caring……
Also to answer the question, how do I protect my assets before I get married……
Put your assets in a trust if you have real assets before getting married or at the very least always keep a separate account that’s your own
Lmao Barbie goes to work 😂
Great video shera...
I live in dubai ,This guy offered to help me i asked for 1,000$ he said he can only give me 70$ he lives in US 🇺🇸 I was in shock !!!!
😀😀😀😀🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣daaamn
@SunAndSteel she's not a hooker. She's not giving anything in exchange for a gift. A gift is just a gift, not a transaction.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Dammnnn someone asked my exact situation
1:13:30 🤯🤯🤯
Voice is leveled up!
Thank you
Ladies - how do you feel about press on nails. I see they're trending. Is it better than getting a gel full set?
waiting to all your videos 😍😍
Where does one meet men? I work from home and everyday I go to bed early! Can you elaborate on where to meet men? Thanks
@Luxury which site works better and can you help me with open an account? I would love to talk better, would you?
Anywhere that’s outside of your house 😂. Make sure you’re dressed to the Gawds every single time you leave the house even if it’s just to the grocery store. Make sure your friendly and say hey to everyone you pass by, even other women, show that you’re approachable. Men will present themselves.
Girl you have to make time to free style in the nice areas around you. Like schedule it as an appointment if it’s hard for you. Like me, I’m such a hermit, but I’m working on it and that helps me. Unless you’re incapable of leaving your home and it’s a paid site, online dating SHOULD NOT be an option. I don’t remember which video but shera says they basically see you as a one of a millionth of options, scrolling through picking you out like food to eat 🤣 & it makes us look easy. I remember being so overwhelmed online dating a few years back, never again.
@@WildWestLex yes ☝️ this is a good response. And I agree on line dating sucks. Can. you give me more ideas on how you do that please? Like do you go somewhere on your own? For a walk, for a coffee?
There’s a lot of highly paid professionals on bumble especially now in pandemic when they can’t meet women at bars and restos anymore. Just make your filter to having graduate degree only and google their salary if you’re unsure of the profession.
#grandma Keeping us paid 😭
Great video Shera....
29:50😭 this should be a tic to k national get rid of yo dusty day 😭
Your very beautiful.. And so am l 😉 . i agree l am my own priority and it feels great. I have some catching up to do also. Loving yourself is time consuming at times. It safe
Your supper cute luv..i love the video glad u said it women need to not think to have a man make them..but to be solid like a rock..bomb with or without a mate..
pink, pink, pink, pink, pink