Father I need the Holy Spirit to be with Me every second of my entire life, I am a single mother with three children, my youngest child is living with severe cerebral palsy and is medically fragile. I have been alone and single, celibate for 10 years. I devote my life to Christ & my special needs child. I need the lord with me always, not one second without him So I may continue to care and be strong for my children.
Oh so many more… of so many more than couples need to hear this. Those who feel they are less than. Those who feel they are not who they should be. Those who don’t know the Father or choose not to know the Father.
The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony is only about CHRIST. His Will in the Father that you are doing in His Love. Happiness is alone in GOD, the others are only a responsibility for you to be Him on Earth. To love as He loves you. Joy is the Pain to be Him. Or confused greatly by the demons and misleading others as you are the same.
Whoever says we need 'married' Priests to counsel those in the 'real' world of marriage and children maybe needs to hear Father Mike speaking such incredible marriage wisdom
Just had a "Hey husband, I need help" fight with my wife and then this man of God shows up in my feed. The lord hits hard sometimes and he knows exactly what his kids need.
Father Mike, I cried from beginning to end listening to your talk. Specially when I realized that I have loved, & trusted my husband for 35 yrs in the way you described but sadly he never loved me the same way. He filled for divorce a few months ago. even though the pain & betrayal was excruciating I know now, Thanks to you, That I am worth loving!! THANK YOU!!!
Beautiful, Father Mike. We are so Blessed, and grateful, to have you. You are truly a gift from God. Thank you for your Ministry and all you do for us. We love you.
I love how you are building couples up but especially men. We need to build up our men because this world is trying to beat them down. As a catholic wife and mother, I want my husband and sons to be true men.
Fr. Mike, I am a living testimony of what you tell us on this video, after 17 years of married I got separated and took full charged in raising our children... I remember being distress for all the difficulties I have to face to be able to give to my family the essentials to survived and be able to get an education. I remember at first it was painful not being able to go to church because there was no money to get enough money to buy gasoline. The first Christmas there was no presents for my children... I cried many nights for not been able to provided things other children were having and I know my children would love to have. My older one have to face many struggles during her time in College and she doesn't was telling me about, she knew that I do not have money to help her. Now I can tell that God wants to keep my children on the right path... He wants them to rely always in Him. Now I understand, as grown ups they are ready to face live, and the only think I ask God it's to keep giving them the wisdom and strength to continued on the path to His glory.
Thank you Father Mike, this means so much for so many. Everything you said brings truth and light and meaning to every man and woman. I could relate what you said to just about everyone in my family including absolutely, myself. Such good advice and showing us the utmost importance of looking to our unwavering, unconditionally loving God, who loves us as we are. Who we can always turn to in times of doubt, uncertainty and fear and receive God’s strength and love. I am going to share this video with my family who right now are in great need of this talk.
Thank you for explaining the call on a wife's and husband's spiritual lives For men to reject passivity and accept responsibility. For women to release control and embrace trust. I like how you provided examples of what that looks like in daily activities. It takes a lot of courage to shine a mirror on the long term and continuing effects of original sin; especially on women because we tend to be sensitive to criticism.
"Our personal dispositions are as windowpanes through which we see the world either as rosy or dull. The way we color the glasses we wear is the way the world seems to us." - Fulton J. Sheen
When the Pharisees saw this, they said to him, “Look! Your disciples are doing what is unlawful on the Sabbath.” Matthew 12:2 everyone who is worried about his collar read Matthew 12. Jesus did a lot of things that the people didn’t approve. I am not catholic, but I love to listen to him. The message was wonderful ❤❤❤.
Fr. Mike I thank you for this great talk. I wish many people would listen to you and start believing that our God is a loving God and he wants us to be perfect but He accepts us the way we are. So is the marriage if we only look at each other and trust and love each other what difference would that make. Thank you and God bless you are an inspiration
Mother Church is so wise. The church brought Mary forward not like the Protestants and said this is the Modern Woman. Forget Eve. Mary is perfect in everyway. She is strong, loving, faithful and obedient to the Lord, and lives in purity. Eve is not the last word to say about women. God called a woman 'worthy'. And the Church brought us the Holy Family. The importance of family.
He's so apt, how people breakdown when life takes a u turn. He ate with sinners, he'd love the homeless more . The point of u turn in our lives is actually a test. He's always there. The story of Job inspires us to have faith in him. Thank you, we really ought to go through stuff to strengthen our faith. I couldn't go beyond day 6 either sir. It breaks my heart. Jesus was the second Adam, he took the blame for our sins, there was nothing passive about him. This video made me cry. So relatable
This conversation of 'worth' reminds me of advice that was given to me many years ago. Tell your children that you love them you would be surprised at how many children never heard that) and praise them. Tell them they are handsome and pretty (but not to make them obnoxious) and praise their successes and comfort them in their losses. ABOVE all this read to them - READ READ READ... Let them love it and recall wonderful moments with you when they are at work or play because of reading. Reading will give them the skill to go as far as they want with ease. AND read to them the stories of Jesus and His love and that they should love Him back by trying to please Him.
Love hearing the Greek and Hebrew origins of the words in the Bible. Wish translations were more encompassing if the true meaning of texts. Another insight talk filled with wisdom from Fr. Mike. God bless him!
Wow…I just happened across this by once video finishing and this just being next. Please relabel it so married or engaged couples can find it in a search. Something like “Marriage Truths and Lies” idk but something other than what it is. Thanks so much for sharing!
This conversation of 'worth' reminds me of advice that was given to me many years ago. This sounds corny but its harder than you think for many couples. Ask the person you are to marry to tell you ten things they love about you. Not looks because that is not forever but about the character, strength and kindness of the person. If you can't do that you need to examine if you are ready to marry that person. And tell them you love them EVERY DAY no matter what. also look for someone gainfully employed and with an appropriate amount of education in their field to make a living. A clean record Financially and no criminal record. No annoying habits because if they bother you now they will make you nuts ten years from now. Sobriety and no record of addictions (unless you are older and everyone has gone thru the ringer but came back). Clean and looks the part of someone you want to be seen with. An even temper, no rages. Likes kids if you want them and is willing to help around the house of in the yard. Thrifty (not cheap)_, wise and healthy. Someone who can tell you how they see the future for him her self and with you. And physically attractive to each other.
Fr, Mike, can you revisit your statement about women prefer love than respect, I don't know whether any actual survey done on this with women, personally respect and love are equally important to me, it should be both side of the coin, how can some one love you but don't respect you? What kind of love is that?
That makes two of us, smh. The helmet, knee pads, padded socks...those poor babies would look like they just stepped out of a special needs unit instead of their bedrooms, smh. I figure this must be why God protected any children from ever being born from me, lol. On the topic of manhood, I'll tell you, I think it all the time and I think I've even said it in comments before, but I'll say it again, you are a good man, Michael Schmitz. And, you probably hear this all the time, but I'll also say, I respect you. I don't think anyone couldn't. As a priest and as a man, you're beautiful. And, by beautiful, I mean, you walk with integrity, honor, care, compassion, and empathy. With a desire to be gentle and kind. As an example and model. And, when you stumble over those attributes you try with all your heart soul to make amends. And, well, that's incredibly beautiful. You're smart, you're funny, you're incredibly intelligent and deep, you're sensitive and focused, strong and good-willed, led by God and not duped by man, willing to listen and open to expanding your knowledge to know and discuss...all these things also equals beautiful. A broad lip and square jaw aren't beautiful without all the attributes I've forementioned. At least that's the way I see it, anyways. Had I been born wife material, you would have been the husband material I would have wanted to love me, for sure. So, why do I say all this? Well, cause this friggin talk has me thinking about attributes, character, and friggin' marriage, smh. You're doing a great job, this was a really good talk you gave. It brings marriage into the divine rhelm using practical terminology that encourages ppl to think about the attributes they should hold as a mate and also the ones they should look for within a mate. Too, as a side note, I had no idea that respect is more important than love in the minds of men. I just knew that I could never marry a man I didn't fully respect, so figured all ppl only marry ppl they respect which, I suppose, is/was a gross over-generalization, smh. Thank you for shedding light on that one. It explains a great number of latent problems I didn't understand previously (when I was working with family systems), darn it. Talk about a day late and dollar short (**fore-head slap**), smh.
@@meihui7767 It's an initialism that means, "shaking my head"; it means I am disappointed, in disbelief, or mentally saying "no" in some sort of dissatisfied sense or judgement. The last "smh" , for example, meant I am disappointed in myself for not knowing this information sooner, while I was working with families because it explains why some of the males in the family system would say certain things related to not having and/or receiving respect and I could have written some of the case objectives differently.
It’s a cruise cut him some slack. Do you were the very best that you have every single morning evening afternoon on a cruise no. The guy deserves to talk and say what he has to say comfortably. It’s a good news cruise.
I had a husband that loved me just like God ordain for 44 years and living with out him now feels like purgatory all I want is to be with him again 💔I feel unloved and unwanted so what now ?
Our Lord can only aid you when you let go of the false gods. The supposed strengths gained this World or the human body or the human mind. Once addicted, that release feels like HELL on Earth once wanted to be free of that disease most.
Scripture is in the Breath of the Holy Spirit, not a literal chapter. Only HE can dispose to you what it means. You do not want to own or could while in a human body.
Hello My name is Teresa Velasco i'm from México i would like to participante with father Mike swmit to sentí to the comunity a donation can You Tello me how i can do that i'm in México city
Hi Teresa Velasco check out his Mass on RUclips they have free will choices that you can select:)! Father really has insightful homilies. The week before he talked about Saint Miguel Pro as well as the Mexican persecution in the 1920’s . It was a real eye opener!
God is a Jealous God. Our dearest Lord Holy Spirit is the only Teacher of the spiritual life within you. Love is very Personal. For He conceived you in His Love for Him Alone.
14 "𝓕𝓸𝓻 𝓶𝓪𝓷𝔂 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝓬𝓪𝓵𝓵𝓮𝓭, 𝓫𝓾𝓽 𝓯𝓮𝔀 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝓬𝓱𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓷.” [Matthew 22:14] What does Mark 10:21 mean to you? What did our Lord Jesus Christ own while on Earth? Why do you need more? Holy Communion is Holy Matrimony with our Lord. Why do you need more? "𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑴𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝑮𝒐𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒗𝒊𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒔 𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒗𝒐𝒘 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒚." [One of the special messages given to Jacinta at Fatima Portugal before her hideous death at 9 in 1920] Virgin does not mean just females, hear me. Consecrated to HIM is wed to HIM, on Earth. Heaven is EVER.
So now I need counseling to try to stop trying to control everything. I want to build my husband up, not railroad him. Does this apply to how I keep and decorate the home? Bc I will struggle to give that up 😂
Strength on Earth is the Humility in Christ gained in you. A burden to always be His Compassion. Then we must see our sinfulness which is most, not able to be Him. The Supernatural Virtues are GOD, Always Growing in that Life, Light and Love. What is creation gained by God? A Test to Him Whom IS Most.
Why men BECOME passive in marriage, and this just now happened for real, True or False? Wife: did you call the plumber for the sink again? Me: No, he’s supposed to call me later this afternoon. Wife: do you have a Plan B? Me: for what? Wife: He hasn’t called yet (12:50pm) in case he doesn’t come. You gonna call another plumber? Me: (I immediately think about THIS video and why men become passive!) It’s not the afternoon yet. If he doesn’t call by 3:00 or 4:00 I’m gonna give him a call. Wife: it’s after 12 so it’s the afternoon now. What if he calls and says he can’t come till next week? Me: Then I’ll deal with it then. I don’t know why you stress yourself out about this. Can you just let me handle it and not worry about it? Wife: this is how my brain works. I’m not crazy. So this is what’s going to happen - He’s not going to call and then you’re going to call another plumber and they’re not gonna be able to come for another week or two. Me: really? You know that for a fact? How do you know if I call another that they won’t schedule to be able to come for another week or two. Can you just let me handle this. It’s starting to drive me a little nuts. Wife: Well what are you going to do if he doesn’t call? Me: just let me handle this please. (silently, praying, “Heavenly Father, please grant me patience. Please grant me patience. Please grant me patience.) Wife: You need to have someone else lined up. Do you need a Plan B? Me: (starting to get annoyed) I don’t need a Plan B. Getting another plumber is a five minute process. Her: no it’s not. Me: (Starting to yell) Then you handle it. Why don’t you handle the entire process? My plan B is to call him at about 3 o’clock or 4 o’clock if I haven’t heard from him. That’s my Plan B. Wife: so why didn’t you just say that when I asked you if you had a Plan B? Me: I didn’t think of it. I just thought I called the plumber, he said he called me this afternoon, and if I don’t hear from our return his call and then schedule him. Easy Peezy. Wife: This is the way I work. I’m not crazy. Me: (trying NOT to slam my forehead on the table over and over again) I never said you were crazy. Please. Let me just handle this. You always talk about how your brain is full. Let this one thing just leave your brain and let me handle it. … and it went on for another five minutes.
FATHER MIKE, WHY DON'T YOU SLOW DOWN IN YOUR TALK? I AM SURE I AM NOTTHE ONLY ONE WHO HAS A HARD TIME KEEPING UP AND ALSO HAVING A TINY BIT OF TIME TO LISTEN AND MEDITATE EACH WORD
@@lovelast4evergemma508 Society is secular enough; we don’t need our own priests secularizing themselves. Fr. Mike should be properly wearing his collar to show that he belongs to God and His Church. If you don’t believe me, check out the articles online in the subject
Happiness is not gained on Earth and only is in Heaven and is NEVER defined by this World. Pretty damned sure. No one is guaranteed Heaven. Our Lord Jesus Christ is the only Judge of all and any human hearts. Pagan religions should never be the interchange of a priest given as expressing HIS Truth, our Lord.
To a member of the Swiss Guard who told Pope Francis he could not sit down and rest while on duty because of orders from his captain to stand at attention for Pope Francis’ protection: “Oh, is that so? Well, I’m the Pope and I am asking you to sit down.” Pope Francis disappeared for a moment and then returned with a sandwich. 😅
It’s a cruise, not a trip to the Vatican. So maybe one morning he got up and just decided to talk to you without his collar on. Did his message change? What is your ability to except the teaching of his talk changed by the fact that he wasn’t wearing his collar. And all the years I have watched and all of the things I have seen is the very first time I’ve ever seen him without his collar . It’s a cruise There are so many more important things that require our time and attention. Then the way the father was dressed when he spoke to us.
Your words show your lack of knowledge about the Holy Priesthood of Jesus Christ. His Priests United with Jesus through the Sacrament of Holy Orders, do not wax and wane in their Priesthood according to the time of day, the day of the week, or where they are - cruise ship or Vatican. The Roman Collar is a Sacred Sign of the Priest's Union with Jesus, and is to be worn with dignity and respect, along with the rest of his Priestly clothes - not like this, hung open exposing his undershirt.... and not saying vulgar words. There is a slippery slope when one begins to disrespect proper behavior, and for Priests, Satan has them as his Number One target. You may not have been offended, but i guarantee You, there were many who were. May Our Lord, Blessed Mother,, St. Joseph and the Holy Angels Help and Protect the Holy Priesthood, and help the National Eucharistic Revival in the US. 🙏
I’ve never seen him without his collar. Is this a ‘cruise’ thing? Father has always been too sensitive to feminists, I suppose because Newman Centers are often as much as 75-90% women. I find his exegesis of Eve and the serpent completely fanciful. Finally, has Father not noticed that Francis has destroyed JP II’s Theology of the Body?
On the collar issue it is a cruise. Maybe he just took a morning off and decided to be comfortable. You’re right and everything I watch a Videos past you back years for weird I have never seen him not have his collar on but it’s a cruise.. give the padre some slack.❤️🙏😊
It’s a cruise, so we had a morning where he wasn’t wearing his collar. Did it change his message? Was there any other way or thing that he had done that was so upsetting to you do you wear the dress that you wear or the night you’re sitting at the captains table on the afternoon? You just decide to do the seafood bar. Give him a break it’s a cruise.
This is the guy who has a gay brother but still preaches relentlessly about how gay men must remain chaste and never fall in love with another man. Wow. I wish he would read a 21st century book on human sexuality before pontificating about how gay men must live lonely lives just because of a few verses in a bronze age book. The cruelty behind that big smile is appalling.
"You are not worth dying for, you have been died for." Brought tears.
Father I need the Holy Spirit to be with Me every second of my entire life, I am a single mother with three children, my youngest child is living with severe cerebral palsy and is medically fragile. I have been alone and single, celibate for 10 years. I devote my life to Christ & my special needs child. I need the lord with me always, not one second without him So I may continue to care and be strong for my children.
Ask for the Holy Ghost to guide you.
Offer up your suffering. God would give you peace and strength. Believe the power of prayer. Will pray a Rosary for you and your family.
@@wendyhong8528 Thank you so much Wendy, I appreciate you🙏🏻
You are not alone🙏🌻
I will add you in my prayers
Every married couple, and any couple considering marriage should listen to this.
Oh so many more… of so many more than couples need to hear this. Those who feel they are less than. Those who feel they are not who they should be. Those who don’t know the Father or choose not to know the Father.
The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony is only about CHRIST. His Will in the Father that you are doing in His Love. Happiness is alone in GOD, the others are only a responsibility for you to be Him on Earth. To love as He loves you.
Joy is the Pain to be Him. Or confused greatly by the demons and misleading others as you are the same.
Whoever says we need 'married' Priests to counsel those in the 'real' world of marriage and children maybe needs to hear Father Mike speaking such incredible marriage wisdom
Just had a "Hey husband, I need help" fight with my wife and then this man of God shows up in my feed. The lord hits hard sometimes and he knows exactly what his kids need.
This should be taught in every school, at every age , every year till graduation. Amen
Most Holy Mary keep our priests in your loving embrace. Thank you Father Mike for your dedication to Christ flock.
Father Mike, I cried from beginning to end listening to your talk. Specially when I realized that I have loved, & trusted my husband for 35 yrs in the way you described but sadly he never loved me the same way. He filled for divorce a few months ago. even though the pain & betrayal was excruciating I know now, Thanks to you, That I am worth loving!! THANK YOU!!!
Thank you immensely
Jude Ezike . Houston Texas.
Beautiful, Father Mike. We are so Blessed, and grateful, to have you. You are truly a gift from God. Thank you for your Ministry and all you do for us. We love you.
🙌🏽thank you Lord for Father Mike and holy priests🙌🏽 beautiful talk ❤
I'm single and needed this🌻🙏
We love you Father. We are so blessed to have you. You speak right to our hearts. 🙏🏼❤️
I love all your presentations/talks, many thanks to RUclips for access to Father Mike!
I love how you are building couples up but especially men. We need to build up our men because this world is trying to beat them down. As a catholic wife and mother, I want my husband and sons to be true men.
Fr. Mike, I am a living testimony of what you tell us on this video, after 17 years of married I got separated and took full charged in raising our children... I remember being distress for all the difficulties I have to face to be able to give to my family the essentials to survived and be able to get an education. I remember at first it was painful not being able to go to church because there was no money to get enough money to buy gasoline. The first Christmas there was no presents for my children... I cried many nights for not been able to provided things other children were having and I know my children would love to have. My older one have to face many struggles during her time in College and she doesn't was telling me about, she knew that I do not have money to help her. Now I can tell that God wants to keep my children on the right path... He wants them to rely always in Him.
Now I understand, as grown ups they are ready to face live, and the only think I ask God it's to keep giving them the wisdom and strength to continued on the path to His glory.
Thank you for this beautiful and truthful talk. It is awesome.❤ …. MALLORY ! Peace , light and ecstasy. Amen.
This Entire Teaching is Sooo POWERFUL!!! THANK YOU FATHER MIKE✝️🎁✨🕊️
Thank you Father Mike, this means so much for so many. Everything you said brings truth and light and meaning to every man and woman. I could relate what you said to just about everyone in my family including absolutely, myself. Such good advice and showing us the utmost importance of looking to our unwavering, unconditionally loving God, who loves us as we are. Who we can always turn to in times of doubt, uncertainty and fear and receive God’s strength and love. I am going to share this video with my family who right now are in great need of this talk.
Thank you for explaining the call on a wife's and husband's spiritual lives For men to reject passivity and accept responsibility. For women to release control and embrace trust. I like how you provided examples of what that looks like in daily activities. It takes a lot of courage to shine a mirror on the long term and continuing effects of original sin; especially on women because we tend to be sensitive to criticism.
WOW and thank you. Praise God always..this was so beautifully insightful 🙏❤
Continued prayer to all of Catholic priest
Father Mike is obviously a real Priest. Amazing.
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"Our personal dispositions are as windowpanes through which we see the world either as rosy or dull. The way we color the glasses we wear is the way the world seems to us."
- Fulton J. Sheen
You are a gem Fr Mike. Bless you, God so bless you, glory be thee name, oh Lord.
Thank you Father Mark ♥️ "God Bless you"
Thank you!
When the Pharisees saw this, they said to him, “Look! Your disciples are doing what is unlawful on the Sabbath.” Matthew 12:2 everyone who is worried about his collar read Matthew 12. Jesus did a lot of things that the people didn’t approve. I am not catholic, but I love to listen to him. The message was wonderful ❤❤❤.
Awesome as always!
Fr. Mike I thank you for this great talk. I wish many people would listen to you and start believing that our God is a loving God and he wants us to be perfect but He accepts us the way we are. So is the marriage if we only look at each other and trust and love each other what difference would that make. Thank you and God bless you are an inspiration
Brilliant! Beautiful!
Amazing talk, like always Father Mike. Thank you…
You mentioned, think of your grandma... so completely true. My mommas mom, my fathers momma. Even my exs grandmas, I loved everyone of them.
Mother Church is so wise. The church brought Mary forward not like the Protestants and said this is the Modern Woman. Forget Eve. Mary is perfect in everyway. She is strong, loving, faithful and obedient to the Lord, and lives in purity. Eve is not the last word to say about women. God called a woman 'worthy'. And the Church brought us the Holy Family. The importance of family.
Beautiful!
So deep & informative. Thank you father.
Beautiful talk! Praise God
Thank you...
God Bless Mallory and her family such a sad yet Saintly and Blessed story. Your in my prayers 🙏
So insightful and powerful. Thank you Fr Mike. God bless.
Wow first time hearing much of this, excellent
Fr Mike Excellent🤩 you’ve got right 🙏🏼♥️ 👏👏👏♥️♥️♥️✌️🦋
Fr Mike such a powerful and true share!
Thank you... 😀
He's so apt, how people breakdown when life takes a u turn. He ate with sinners, he'd love the homeless more . The point of u turn in our lives is actually a test. He's always there. The story of Job inspires us to have faith in him. Thank you, we really ought to go through stuff to strengthen our faith. I couldn't go beyond day 6 either sir. It breaks my heart.
Jesus was the second Adam, he took the blame for our sins, there was nothing passive about him. This video made me cry. So relatable
Father Mike I need Jesus Christ and the holy spirit into my life I asked Jesus into my life
Simply beautiful video
"cat' that's like the devil LOL 🤣
Not for just those married but every man and every woman who hopes to love and respect their soulmate
This conversation of 'worth' reminds me of advice that was given to me many years ago. Tell your children that you love them you would be surprised at how many children never heard that) and praise them. Tell them they are handsome and pretty (but not to make them obnoxious) and praise their successes and comfort them in their losses. ABOVE all this read to them - READ READ READ... Let them love it and recall wonderful moments with you when they are at work or play because of reading. Reading will give them the skill to go as far as they want with ease. AND read to them the stories of Jesus and His love and that they should love Him back by trying to please Him.
Many couples (me) need reminders of what their roles/ support to each other is!
Thank you Father. May God Bless you & Keep you safe.
I've watched Father Mike many times and this is the first time i've noticed that he's giving off strong John Cena vibes.
Love hearing the Greek and Hebrew origins of the words in the Bible. Wish translations were more encompassing if the true meaning of texts.
Another insight talk filled with wisdom from Fr. Mike. God bless him!
Darling angel RIP 💘
Wow…I just happened across this by once video finishing and this just being next. Please relabel it so married or engaged couples can find it in a search. Something like “Marriage Truths and Lies” idk but something other than what it is. Thanks so much for sharing!
9:25 "There's this psychologist out of Canada..." @JordanBPeterson
AMEN
powerful
Oh my gosh so true!! @ 25 min. Controlling bride - passive husband.
Wow
This conversation of 'worth' reminds me of advice that was given to me many years ago. This sounds corny but its harder than you think for many couples. Ask the person you are to marry to tell you ten things they love about you. Not looks because that is not forever but about the character, strength and kindness of the person. If you can't do that you need to examine if you are ready to marry that person. And tell them you love them EVERY DAY no matter what. also look for someone gainfully employed and with an appropriate amount of education in their field to make a living. A clean record Financially and no criminal record. No annoying habits because if they bother you now they will make you nuts ten years from now. Sobriety and no record of addictions (unless you are older and everyone has gone thru the ringer but came back). Clean and looks the part of someone you want to be seen with. An even temper, no rages. Likes kids if you want them and is willing to help around the house of in the yard. Thrifty (not cheap)_, wise and healthy. Someone who can tell you how they see the future for him her self and with you. And physically attractive to each other.
Fr, Mike, can you revisit your statement about women prefer love than respect, I don't know whether any actual survey done on this with women, personally respect and love are equally important to me, it should be both side of the coin, how can some one love you but don't respect you? What kind of love is that?
This should be at least. Every 3 months.
That makes two of us, smh. The helmet, knee pads, padded socks...those poor babies would look like they just stepped out of a special needs unit instead of their bedrooms, smh. I figure this must be why God protected any children from ever being born from me, lol.
On the topic of manhood, I'll tell you, I think it all the time and I think I've even said it in comments before, but I'll say it again, you are a good man, Michael Schmitz. And, you probably hear this all the time, but I'll also say, I respect you. I don't think anyone couldn't.
As a priest and as a man, you're beautiful. And, by beautiful, I mean, you walk with integrity, honor, care, compassion, and empathy. With a desire to be gentle and kind. As an example and model. And, when you stumble over those attributes you try with all your heart soul to make amends. And, well, that's incredibly beautiful.
You're smart, you're funny, you're incredibly intelligent and deep, you're sensitive and focused, strong and good-willed, led by God and not duped by man, willing to listen and open to expanding your knowledge to know and discuss...all these things also equals beautiful.
A broad lip and square jaw aren't beautiful without all the attributes I've forementioned. At least that's the way I see it, anyways.
Had I been born wife material, you would have been the husband material I would have wanted to love me, for sure.
So, why do I say all this? Well, cause this friggin talk has me thinking about attributes, character, and friggin' marriage, smh.
You're doing a great job, this was a really good talk you gave. It brings marriage into the divine rhelm using practical terminology that encourages ppl to think about the attributes they should hold as a mate and also the ones they should look for within a mate.
Too, as a side note, I had no idea that respect is more important than love in the minds of men. I just knew that I could never marry a man I didn't fully respect, so figured all ppl only marry ppl they respect which, I suppose, is/was a gross over-generalization, smh.
Thank you for shedding light on that one. It explains a great number of latent problems I didn't understand previously (when I was working with family systems), darn it. Talk about a day late and dollar short (**fore-head slap**), smh.
What does smh mean?
@@meihui7767 It's an initialism that means, "shaking my head"; it means I am disappointed, in disbelief, or mentally saying "no" in some sort of dissatisfied sense or judgement.
The last "smh" , for example, meant I am disappointed in myself for not knowing this information sooner, while I was working with families because it explains why some of the males in the family system would say certain things related to not having and/or receiving respect and I could have written some of the case objectives differently.
@@ameliaolson7580 Thanks for replying!
@@meihui7767 sure enough
Sounds appropriate to me.
Great talk cameraman tho, please wake up :D
My boyfriend was just told that he got cancer on his lung
O my, I am so sorry to hear. Will remember him in my prayers.
Pls, help him to keep faith
LOVED THIS. Just ummm...collar please :)
It’s a cruise cut him some slack. Do you were the very best that you have every single morning evening afternoon on a cruise no. The guy deserves to talk and say what he has to say comfortably. It’s a good news cruise.
I had a husband that loved me just like God ordain for 44 years and living with out him now feels like purgatory all I want is to be with him again 💔I feel unloved and unwanted so what now ?
Our Lord can only aid you when you let go of the false gods. The supposed strengths gained this World or the human body or the human mind. Once addicted, that release feels like HELL on Earth once wanted to be free of that disease most.
Scripture is in the Breath of the Holy Spirit, not a literal chapter. Only HE can dispose to you what it means. You do not want to own or could while in a human body.
Hello My name is Teresa Velasco i'm from México i would like to participante with father Mike swmit to sentí to the comunity a donation can You Tello me how i can do that i'm in México city
Hi Teresa Velasco check out his Mass on RUclips they have free will choices that you can select:)! Father really has insightful homilies. The week before he talked about Saint Miguel Pro as well as the Mexican persecution in the 1920’s . It was a real eye opener!
God is a Jealous God. Our dearest Lord Holy Spirit is the only Teacher of the spiritual life within you. Love is very Personal. For He conceived you in His Love for Him Alone.
14 "𝓕𝓸𝓻 𝓶𝓪𝓷𝔂 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝓬𝓪𝓵𝓵𝓮𝓭, 𝓫𝓾𝓽 𝓯𝓮𝔀 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝓬𝓱𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓷.”
[Matthew 22:14]
What does Mark 10:21 mean to you? What did our Lord Jesus Christ own while on Earth? Why do you need more?
Holy Communion is Holy Matrimony with our Lord. Why do you need more?
"𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑴𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝑮𝒐𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒗𝒊𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒔 𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒗𝒐𝒘 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒚."
[One of the special messages given to Jacinta at Fatima Portugal before her hideous death at 9 in 1920]
Virgin does not mean just females, hear me. Consecrated to HIM is wed to HIM, on Earth. Heaven is EVER.
So now I need counseling to try to stop trying to control everything. I want to build my husband up, not railroad him. Does this apply to how I keep and decorate the home? Bc I will struggle to give that up 😂
Strength on Earth is the Humility in Christ gained in you. A burden to always be His Compassion. Then we must see our sinfulness which is most, not able to be Him. The Supernatural Virtues are GOD, Always Growing in that Life, Light and Love.
What is creation gained by God? A Test to Him Whom IS Most.
He prepares or lets loose your reigns.
❤❤❤❤❤
So should the man take responsibility in everything… just a genuine question because it seems like a lot….
Moralistic therapeutic deism- God exists and he wants you to be happy, God is not really involved unless you need him, All good people go to Heaven
super clarification on moralistic therapeutic deism...good to know the terms. Wow. That's not what I think.
I love Father Mike and his sermons always hit home but but I think he has ADHD lol.
Why men BECOME passive in marriage, and this just now happened for real, True or False?
Wife: did you call the plumber for the sink again?
Me: No, he’s supposed to call me later this afternoon.
Wife: do you have a Plan B?
Me: for what?
Wife: He hasn’t called yet (12:50pm) in case he doesn’t come. You gonna call another plumber?
Me: (I immediately think about THIS video and why men become passive!) It’s not the afternoon yet. If he doesn’t call by 3:00 or 4:00 I’m gonna give him a call.
Wife: it’s after 12 so it’s the afternoon now. What if he calls and says he can’t come till next week?
Me: Then I’ll deal with it then. I don’t know why you stress yourself out about this. Can you just let me handle it and not worry about it?
Wife: this is how my brain works. I’m not crazy. So this is what’s going to happen - He’s not going to call and then you’re going to call another plumber and they’re not gonna be able to come for another week or two.
Me: really? You know that for a fact? How do you know if I call another that they won’t schedule to be able to come for another week or two. Can you just let me handle this. It’s starting to drive me a little nuts.
Wife: Well what are you going to do if he doesn’t call?
Me: just let me handle this please. (silently, praying, “Heavenly Father, please grant me patience. Please grant me patience. Please grant me patience.)
Wife: You need to have someone else lined up. Do you need a Plan B?
Me: (starting to get annoyed) I don’t need a Plan B. Getting another plumber is a five minute process.
Her: no it’s not.
Me: (Starting to yell) Then you handle it. Why don’t you handle the entire process? My plan B is to call him at about 3 o’clock or 4 o’clock if I haven’t heard from him. That’s my Plan B.
Wife: so why didn’t you just say that when I asked you if you had a Plan B?
Me: I didn’t think of it. I just thought I called the plumber, he said he called me this afternoon, and if I don’t hear from our return his call and then schedule him. Easy Peezy.
Wife: This is the way I work. I’m not crazy.
Me: (trying NOT to slam my forehead on the table over and over again) I never said you were crazy. Please. Let me just handle this. You always talk about how your brain is full. Let this one thing just leave your brain and let me handle it.
… and it went on for another five minutes.
Wow😢
FATHER MIKE, WHY DON'T YOU SLOW DOWN IN YOUR TALK? I AM SURE I AM NOTTHE ONLY ONE WHO HAS A HARD TIME KEEPING UP AND ALSO HAVING A TINY BIT OF TIME TO LISTEN AND MEDITATE EACH WORD
Go to the little gear wheel icon, then down to “playback speed” and set the speed at .5 or .75.
Why isn't Father Mike wearing his collar?
He is his shirt is unbottomed at top that's all.
@@lovelast4evergemma508 He may as well not be wearing it at all.
@@sneed3529 oh my goodness you are being ridiculous.
@@lovelast4evergemma508 Society is secular enough; we don’t need our own priests secularizing themselves. Fr. Mike should be properly wearing his collar to show that he belongs to God and His Church. If you don’t believe me, check out the articles online in the subject
@@sneed3529 except to say this, I will not respond to you further-
I am Sooo GRATEFUL you are not God!!!✨🕊️
Happiness is not gained on Earth and only is in Heaven and is NEVER defined by this World. Pretty damned sure.
No one is guaranteed Heaven. Our Lord Jesus Christ is the only Judge of all and any human hearts.
Pagan religions should never be the interchange of a priest given as expressing HIS Truth, our Lord.
Father, do you really want to say most, not many???
Virgen Madre de Guadalupe pon un fin a la Cultura de la Muerte
To a member of the Swiss Guard who told Pope Francis he could not sit down and rest while on duty because of orders from his captain to stand at attention for Pope Francis’ protection: “Oh, is that so? Well, I’m the Pope and I am asking you to sit down.” Pope Francis disappeared for a moment and then returned with a sandwich. 😅
Did he really just say that? ( 2:26min) And what's with his Priest Collar????? Lord Please Help All Priests!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
It’s a cruise, not a trip to the Vatican. So maybe one morning he got up and just decided to talk to you without his collar on. Did his message change? What is your ability to except the teaching of his talk changed by the fact that he wasn’t wearing his collar. And all the years I have watched and all of the things I have seen is the very first time I’ve ever seen him without his collar . It’s a cruise There are so many more important things that require our time and attention. Then the way the father was dressed when he spoke to us.
Your words show your lack of knowledge about the Holy Priesthood of Jesus Christ. His Priests United with Jesus through the Sacrament of Holy Orders, do not wax and wane in their
Priesthood according to the time of day, the day of the week, or where they are - cruise ship or Vatican. The Roman Collar is a Sacred Sign of the Priest's Union with Jesus, and is to be worn with dignity and respect, along with the rest of his Priestly clothes - not like this, hung open exposing his undershirt.... and not saying vulgar words. There is a slippery slope when one begins to disrespect proper behavior, and for Priests, Satan has them as his Number One target.
You may not have been offended, but i guarantee You, there were many who were. May Our Lord, Blessed Mother,, St. Joseph and the Holy Angels Help and Protect the Holy Priesthood, and help the National Eucharistic Revival in the US. 🙏
Hell is 95% of the World 5% go to the SANDS
Lie to women: Is this not a lie that effects of which many young and older MEN also suffer?
Hallmark is the devil most in its presentations. i hate lies because i am one.
Ollllkl
Where’s your collar? ✝️
I’ve never seen him without his collar. Is this a ‘cruise’ thing? Father has always been too sensitive to feminists, I suppose because Newman Centers are often as much as 75-90% women. I find his exegesis of Eve and the serpent completely fanciful. Finally, has Father not noticed that Francis has destroyed JP II’s Theology of the Body?
On the collar issue it is a cruise. Maybe he just took a morning off and decided to be comfortable. You’re right and everything I watch a Videos past you back years for weird I have never seen him not have his collar on but it’s a cruise.. give the padre some slack.❤️🙏😊
@@barbarawalsh2875 I do!
This man is wearing a wedding band, is he a married priest?
no, an he's wearing it on his right hand, the wedding band goes on the left
Yes he is married to the Church.
NOO DID HE START DYING HIS HAIR???? GIRL NOOOO SOME0NE READ HERRR
what makes one so convinced, that God exsists?
Please don’t get sloppy, put your collar on and look like the priest you are.
This comment is so funny to read, as he’s talking about women being controlling 😂
It’s a cruise, so we had a morning where he wasn’t wearing his collar. Did it change his message? Was there any other way or thing that he had done that was so upsetting to you do you wear the dress that you wear or the night you’re sitting at the captains table on the afternoon? You just decide to do the seafood bar. Give him a break it’s a cruise.
Ridiculous dramatics in preaching at the speed of light is entertainment, only. 👎
What is evil? Not to be God on Earth.
This is the guy who has a gay brother but still preaches relentlessly about how gay men must remain chaste and never fall in love with another man. Wow. I wish he would read a 21st century book on human sexuality before pontificating about how gay men must live lonely lives just because of a few verses in a bronze age book. The cruelty behind that big smile is appalling.
Whatever a new age brings does not change the word of God. At the same time, you still have a choice.